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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and I Heart radio podcasts. Hello, everybody,

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Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. We have a big day to day,

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Speaker 1: a big day, big day. I have a question, are

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Speaker 1: we a day late because you went to stage Coach

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Speaker 1: because that seems to be the consensus of the Facebook group.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't think. So. We have a few

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Speaker 1: guests today and the schedule lined up that they could

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Speaker 1: do Tuesday, they're going to do Monday. I like Mondays.

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Speaker 1: I love Mondays. But this was not my fault because

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Speaker 1: I was gonna blame you, But now I'll blame someone else,

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Speaker 1: someone else's schedule, not mine. I'm sorry to interrupt your flow.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, No, that's okay, there was no flow. Really,

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Speaker 1: Um I did go to stage Coach. Yeah, I feel

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Speaker 1: like we just have some housekeeping to attend to for

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Speaker 1: we bring in all of our guests. Yes, first being

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Speaker 1: who was the guy in your boomerang video from Stagecoach? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that is our friend Steve, So my friend slash

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Speaker 1: manager Ali shout to Ali grant Um, that is one

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Speaker 1: of her boyfriend's best friends. And there's been like you know,

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Speaker 1: talk of like setting us up and stuff. But we've

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Speaker 1: met a few times. I can't remember if you were

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Speaker 1: at my apartment, but one time they were all out

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Speaker 1: and they invited me out, but I either couldn't go

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Speaker 1: or didn't want to go, and he had McDonald's postmate

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Speaker 1: it to me and so but I didn't know. So

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Speaker 1: I there's a knock on the door. I know, it's

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Speaker 1: really cute. Send me some nugs. Romance is not dead. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that was like a few months ago. But he

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Speaker 1: lives not in San Diego, like somewhere in between. There's

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Speaker 1: a few places in between. I'm not sure somewhere um

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Speaker 1: so yeah, but he's a really really cute and like

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Speaker 1: he's one of those guys that, like you walk by

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Speaker 1: and you can tell girls are just like staring at him.

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Speaker 1: But our other friend was like a little bit into him.

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Speaker 1: So I tried to, you know, just like, I don't

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Speaker 1: what's the potential here? I feel like there's potential here.

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Speaker 1: Who does he like more like which his well, he

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Speaker 1: sent me McDonald's. But I also kind of think he's

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Speaker 1: in a place in his life from what I've heard,

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Speaker 1: where he's just kind of like dating around. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know if he's like, you know, every guys in

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Speaker 1: that phase until they're not well. I guess he's not.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not tempting enough to solidify him. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Nothing happened. We just hung out. Actually we tried to

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Speaker 1: sneak him into the V I P section from g

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Speaker 1: A and Ali gave him her wrist vand but security

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Speaker 1: staw so they actually got escorted out. It was so

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Speaker 1: funny because everybody in the Facebook group was like, because

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Speaker 1: you posted that boomerang of him, Everyone's like telling you

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Speaker 1: is this guy? And I was like, I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I got to send out about a

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Speaker 1: text and figures home crying in your apartments, Rebecca, I

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Speaker 1: was listing. But do you know what the cutest thing is?

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Speaker 1: They started to go fund me faith to carry a

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Speaker 1: life size cardboard cut out of you so that on

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Speaker 1: weekends when you're at me. I thought it was the

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Speaker 1: sweetest thing. I totally because I feel bad that they're

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Speaker 1: spending their money on this cardboard cut out. So I

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Speaker 1: just like throw in some cash and they got it.

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Speaker 1: I think got it. They got up just a hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars for this cardboard cutout and they raised it, and

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Speaker 1: what they feel stressed. They're going back and forth on

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Speaker 1: which photo to you. Don't don't do me dirty. Don yet.

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Speaker 1: I'm not choosing the photo, but I think it's I

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Speaker 1: think your name was Kara and Kara in the Facebook

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Speaker 1: groups and shout out because I is the sweetest face.

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Speaker 1: If this guy asked you out to be a yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I'd go out with him, of course.

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Speaker 1: I mean I find him very He's very much my

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Speaker 1: out with him much, but he's super nice, fun and

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Speaker 1: you wouldn't feel bad about the other friend of yours

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Speaker 1: that might be in to him. Well, I mean, if

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Speaker 1: there was anything that happened between them, like if they

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Speaker 1: be like, hands off done. I think that's the true

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Speaker 1: testament of like friendship, because you can be attracted to

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Speaker 1: silly of this other friend to be like, no, you

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Speaker 1: I think he's really cute. I mean, it wasn't like

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Speaker 1: She didn't call DIBs. I don't. I don't either. I

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Speaker 1: think that's so high school, Like we're not in high school.

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Speaker 1: But do you know when he went birthday? When his

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Speaker 1: birth I don't know when his birthday is. I wish

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Speaker 1: we could find that out for our signs. Yeah, becau

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Speaker 1: your scorpio, so i'd be interested in know. But just

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Speaker 1: just some homeworks. Yeah, I'll see if I can get

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Speaker 1: that information than you. We're bringing Amy pretty tiny. Needs

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Speaker 1: to talk about the breakdown last night in the sauna. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I can talk about it because

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Speaker 1: I'll cry. If you cry, you cry, Just just tell

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Speaker 1: the story. Do you want me to tell it? Sure? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we go to the sauna. So Tany and I

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Speaker 1: we've talked about this. I think we go to the

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Speaker 1: which I definitely needed and it's really good for inflammation. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and all my candy then all my weird things I have. Um.

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Speaker 1: So we're just sitting there and we're just talking, catching

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Speaker 1: up on the weekend, and um, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: on the story, Oh, scormy guy, we don't oh, I

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Speaker 1: have another scorm story that'll get the same sworm different scoring.

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Speaker 1: So we get I see the scormy guy at stagecoach

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Speaker 1: who had kind of like been texting Tanya and like

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Speaker 1: asking her to get coffee and stuff, but not actually

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Speaker 1: asking her out. He was just kind of there were

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Speaker 1: and I kept telling Tanya, I'm like, he's a little

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Speaker 1: bit squirm, like, watch out for this guy. I've heard

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Speaker 1: some things. He's super nice, but I don't know like

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Speaker 1: it was just kind of like the squirm vibe I have.

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Speaker 1: I'm very intuitive on intention, it's true, and I'm very hopeful,

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Speaker 1: very let down. Is my feelings were hurt and I

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Speaker 1: where people from your past kind of service and they

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Speaker 1: So I remember this person and turns out some sort

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Speaker 1: It bugged me that he like squirmed in there because

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Speaker 1: and then you just got I mean because this conversation

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Speaker 1: it's not just me, right. So we just started talking

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Speaker 1: like you're not good enough for I mean, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I get emotional talking about Tania because I genuinely

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Speaker 1: feel like she's the best person I know. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: why are we so we're like basket cases these days?

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Speaker 1: I mm hmm. I genuinely say that with all sincerity.

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Speaker 1: I I was telling her like, I don't know anyone

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Speaker 1: who has more to offer in my life of people

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Speaker 1: like there's this sense of I think there's this pressure

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Speaker 1: so openly about our relationships and finding someone, and there's

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Speaker 1: so many people listening to us and rooting rooting for you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like you talk about on the morning

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Speaker 1: I think the more you talk about it, it's more

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Speaker 1: in your head. But I just I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: see who comes into your life. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with me, Like it is exactly what happened

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've always had this thing and it's

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Speaker 1: but I mean truly like, I don't I can't really

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Speaker 1: catting it. She was telling me that she's weeping in

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Speaker 1: I think the world. I mean I literally I think

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, we're just sitting here. What can

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Speaker 1: I say that I haven't already said, you know, but

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Speaker 1: I mean I think that everyone that listens to this

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Speaker 1: many like you, And I think there aren't many like

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Speaker 1: the guy that you're going to have, and that's probably

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Speaker 1: the problem as far as where he is. Thank you. No,

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Speaker 1: I know, and like, and I told you this too,

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Speaker 1: just like we have to bring in our first place perfect. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: this is gonna be awkward with your red eyes. I

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Speaker 1: she is. I remember when she was on Dancing with

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Speaker 1: to bring her in. And it's crazy. She had a

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Speaker 1: I just remember thinking, if this guy like really wants

426
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Speaker 1: to come talk to me, he can come talk to me,

427
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: because so you made him come, That's what I think. Yeah,

428
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going that. He's the one

429
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: smiling at me, he can come over here. Um. And

430
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 1: so then he, um, he did. He asked me. We

431
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: ended up kind of talking a little bit. I didn't

432
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Speaker 1: tell him my head prosthetic legs at that point, just

433
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: because it didn't come up. It wasn't really like it

434
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:04,280
Speaker 1: was on my mind. I like, do I tell him?

435
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: Do I not? But it was just we were just

436
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: having a conversation. And then um, he asked if I

437
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,879
Speaker 1: wanted to go snowboarding, and so we did the next

438
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 1: day and he's amazing, He's an incredible snowboarder and uh,

439
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: and he didn't know I had prosthetic legs until afterwards. Actually,

440
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: we ended up we started we played pool afterwards, and

441
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: he had the skateboard hat on that had this like

442
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 1: skateboard logo on it, and I had the same sticker

443
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,479
Speaker 1: on my leg, which I just kind of like, I

444
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: threw these snowboards stickers on my leg. Yeah. Yeah, So

445
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 1: I um pulled my pant leg up and said, oh,

446
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 1: we're twins, and he was like, oh my gosh. And

447
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 1: then I pulled the other one up and I was like, oh,

448
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: I have to and he was like okay. And then

449
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 1: but really he was like, whoa, that's crazy. That's amazing.

450
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: And you know what is so amazing about that is

451
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: it's it's such like it's the way that you deliver things.

452
00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 1: Because like a lot of women, like even people listening,

453
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes they're back in the dating world and

454
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: they have three kids, and they to them they're like, oh,

455
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: this is baggage, And when they are on a date,

456
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,879
Speaker 1: they they're like, I have three kids or you know

457
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,439
Speaker 1: what I mean, like you say it with like a

458
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: But when it's just a matter of fact, like oh, yeah,

459
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: that's the that we're twoes. I have that on my leg,

460
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: Like oh you have these your dimples are just like

461
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 1: my son's. They're so cute. Like if you just incorporate

462
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 1: and not make it this like weird thing, then it's

463
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: not going to be a weird thing exactly. And that's

464
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: how That's how I've always felt that. You know, when

465
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Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with my situation, then everybody else is as well.

466
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: But if I'm uncomfortable and I don't know how to

467
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: approach it, then nobody else is going to know how

468
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: to approach it, you know. So um, for me, it

469
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: was just this is this isn't changing, this is who

470
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 1: I am. So I just kind of let people know

471
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 1: right away and now it is who I you know,

472
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: It's like I'm a Paralympic athlete and I've done everything.

473
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,239
Speaker 1: I've done a lot of because of my legs and

474
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: the challenges I've had a face and overcome and the

475
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: creativity I've had to have, and I mean it's it

476
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: is completely who I am now. Not something that I

477
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: would ever think about, you know, hiding or something. But

478
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 1: you're driving far away, a long trip. There was so

479
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: many questions and things to talk about to come back.

480
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: Your book is on my own two feet. Yes, you're

481
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: you have a foundation Adaptive Action Sports and the YouTube channel. Yeah,

482
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: so new YouTube channel I have. I just learned to

483
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: surf this weekend and put a video of learning to surf,

484
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,679
Speaker 1: like how I set my legs up and stuff on

485
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: my new YouTube channel. That's so awesome because I've inspired

486
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that are dealing with the

487
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: same you know, scenarios, and maybe it might not be

488
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 1: two legs, it might be one leg. It might be

489
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Speaker 1: a knee or an arm or you know. And like

490
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: the way you sharing your stories can help people. Yeah,

491
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 1: gate and I found a lot of people who don't

492
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: have disabilities at all, um, just who are wanting to

493
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: challenge themselves and realize they're limiting themselves one way or another.

494
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: Are inspired to try something new after this surf video.

495
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: After I posted this, so many people are like, I'm

496
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 1: gonna try surfing now, Like now I want to because

497
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: I tried. You know, I stopped myself as well, and

498
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: right I was kind of stopping myself from trying because

499
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: there are too many things to think about, like rust

500
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: and sinking to the bottom of the ocean with heavy

501
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: prosthetic legs and all this stuff. So um, but I

502
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 1: did it and and kind of film the whole thing,

503
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: and so that's what I'm doing on my YouTube channel

504
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: is just trying to give more insight, um of the

505
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: process of how I kind of figure things out. But

506
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 1: also I want to, Um, I'm inspired by so many

507
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: other people and I want to kind of share their

508
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: stories as well. So amazing, I can't I tried snowboarding

509
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: and surfing and it was a disaster. So I watch

510
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: your video and like I should try again, because UM, yeah,

511
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: I just I can't say enough about you. I want

512
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: you to come back and like just be here the

513
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: whole time from having thank you live inspired on YouTube. Um,

514
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:09,879
Speaker 1: she's incredible, incredible. I could have I had just thinking

515
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: about doing what she's done just in life. Is it

516
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: also just goes to show you it's mind over. That's

517
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: gonna be exactly what I just said, because like the

518
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: power of mind over matters. Like the fact that she

519
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 1: was like I don't care about walking, what about snowboarding.

520
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 1: I just noticed that she was in sandals, open toed sandalsink.

521
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 1: That's so great. She's not gonna let it change anything

522
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 1: about her. She sees cute shoe, She's gonna buy a

523
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: cute choes. It's amazing. Yeah, she's incredible. Um, I want

524
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: to switch gears and talk about Diagney Dover. Oh yeah, baby,

525
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 1: So Diagny Dover is a like a bad company, and

526
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: they have so many different styles of bags, different colors.

527
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,479
Speaker 1: It's like neutral tones are so beautiful. They're really perfect.

528
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 1: I mean I have the blue backpack. I got the

529
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: blue backpack and the reason why I love it so

530
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: much she's the fashion and function. So there's like a

531
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 1: slot for me to put I put my laptop in it.

532
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: I have like well obviously have to bring my headphones

533
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: every day to work, so I put like my headphones

534
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: in a little there's little compartment for my headphones. There's

535
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,959
Speaker 1: like a separate thing for my keys so that they

536
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Speaker 1: don't get lost. This is actually very important. So it's

537
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: really really smart. Um and super cute. Yeah, I um

538
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: love the It's the Andra Andra cross Body tote and

539
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: it is like hands free, which I actually could have

540
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,479
Speaker 1: really used for stage Coach this weekend. Um. It is

541
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: the ultimate cross body. It's designed for hands free so

542
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: that you don't you know, my personal favorite is a

543
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: cross body. You know, I don't like holding things. I

544
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: don't either, so that's hence the backpack and the cross body.

545
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: Like anything that I have to hold is not ideal

546
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: for me anymore. But there's so many purposeful pockets because

547
00:28:55,440 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: there's like wallet, phone, water bottle, you have your water bottle.

548
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: Always have my water bottle. Um. And then yeah, they

549
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: have the key leash in the cross body as well,

550
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: so that you don't lose the keys can never find them.

551
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: I also got the it's like an olive green Duffel

552
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: bag is really pretty. Thank you my blue eyes. The

553
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: green it does anytime you were anytime you wear or

554
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: hold blue or green, I feel like it makes your

555
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Speaker 1: eyes pop more. Is that a real thing or is

556
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Speaker 1: it okay? So digney Dover is offering our listeners off

557
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558
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559
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560
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Speaker 1: these bags they keep you organized, hands free. They're super cute.

561
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Speaker 1: I think you'll love them. So check them out at

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564
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565
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Speaker 1: that you did it. Seriously, go check them out so

566
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: you get the blue backpack post a picture because we're twinsies. Um.

567
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: So we have two very exciting guests coming in here.

568
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: We have Whitney Carson and then her Dancing with the

569
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 1: Stars partner. His name is Chris Okay Master, Okay. We

570
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: had a few guesses. That was one of them. There

571
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: weren't many options with no, there's not a lot of options.

572
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: It's more for telemarketers, like they call it Mas dessert

573
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: and you're like, we don't know you. My first guest,

574
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: Whitney Carson and Chris Master, we just talked about it.

575
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Speaker 1: Welcome to the O. Are you guys scrubbing in? I've

576
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: always wanted to scrub in like for a long time now,

577
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: and you know how much of a fan I am

578
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: of yours and grand Natty. So it's just too much.

579
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 1: I'm so excited. I mean, our list nerves have been

580
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: wanting you on the podcast from the beginning. They've been like, Whitney,

581
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: why hasn't Whitney been on there? I'm like, we're trying,

582
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: and sorry, you guys, I was dancing my life. I

583
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: know you've been so busy, you've been chancing it up.

584
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: But I'm so happy I'm here and it's going to

585
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: be great. Now Chris is here, he's a loser, So

586
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: I go sledding professional sledter. Honestly, I was last night

587
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: watching and seeing your intro package you have. Is your

588
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: body just like tens the whole time you're going down. No,

589
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: we're actually very relaxed. If we tense up, we lose

590
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: that control with the sled. But it's these really subtle

591
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: movements that we're doing that you don't really pick up

592
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: unless you watch the sport a lot. So it looks

593
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: like we're literally just laying there like trying to be stiff,

594
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: but our entire body is relaxed and every movement we

595
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: do is very precise. I mean, athletes just amazed me

596
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I mean, I like literally can't even

597
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: write a bird around the west Side. So I'm just

598
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: so fascinated athletes and how you can do what you do,

599
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: because like it's crazy, I know, like going down ninety

600
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: miles an hour on a sled like that just sledding.

601
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: So it's a lot more to this, there is, But

602
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: you start out sledding when you're eight years old, and

603
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:21,959
Speaker 1: then you work your way years and Okay, so I

604
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: feel like this is interesting. The whole dynamic with it

605
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: being all athletes this year or the season of Dancing

606
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: of the Stars, because I feel like you, as an athlete,

607
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: you train, and I think everyone thing. We watched these

608
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: athletes and we're like, how easy is that? They like

609
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: shoot a basketball, they go sledding, it's like coordinated. Well yeah,

610
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: but then I've heard that Dancing with the Stars like

611
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: the hardest. People are like, it's the most challenging thing

612
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: I've ever done. How does it feel so far? I

613
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: think what's challenging about this is that we are all athletes,

614
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 1: were really competitive people and we all want to win. UM.

615
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 1: And then you come in, you of two and a

616
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: half weeks to learn how to dance. I had zero

617
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: dance experience prior to this. Whitney, you can tell you

618
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: Day one was atrocious. UM, and you're going up against

619
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: figure skaters, like last night you had Adam and Murray

620
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: just put on these amazing performances. So I think the

621
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: most difficult thing for me mentally is to figure out

622
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: how to get to that level in a week, right,

623
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: So that like it really is this really competitive thing,

624
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: and Whitney has done an amazing job, Like she's the best.

625
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: I was going to say, I think you're the best

626
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: of the best. I bribed him before, just like I'll

627
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: give you that tunny, I'll let you have a break today.

628
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: Let's go. It's funny knowing Whitney I'm watching and New York.

629
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: There's one point the inter package where he did something

630
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: to like, hey, can we just stop stop that? Yes?

631
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: That is so I know. I'm just like, can we

632
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: just forget that? Not to move on? The worst part

633
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,040
Speaker 1: is that the intro package was real. That's how I

634
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 1: really started out, Like that was day one, like, oh

635
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: my god, committed. But I do have to say that

636
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: he is a very hard worker. Like being an athlete,

637
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: he's very aware of his body. So anything that I say,

638
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,840
Speaker 1: critique wise, he's able to kind of like fix zone

639
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 1: picks up really quick, like all of the choreography. So

640
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: that's something that we have to work with, which is good.

641
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: And you're sure off So that's good. So impressed. Like

642
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: when you came out and you all did the dance,

643
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: it was it was like a very intricate dance. I

644
00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: was nervous. I was like, don't drop her. Lots of

645
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: trust not drop yes, and we've done it. We had

646
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: a lot of mishaps, but he never dropped me, so

647
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: that's good. I was frightened for my life on the

648
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: three times, but we got it together, so that's all

649
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: that matters. I feel like we should mention the app

650
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: that you have that you're going to be teaching people

651
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: how to like you're basically gonna be teaching people how

652
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: to step by step learn your dances basically what I

653
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 1: do on this now, but except where everybody can do it,

654
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: so everybody is able to access the app on their

655
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: phones and learn from me personally each style of dance.

656
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: And then I'm going to have some feature videos. Um

657
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: Becca will come on. Obviously obviously mentioned my dance ability. Yes,

658
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: it's very good. Her lunges and her hair webs are

659
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: very good. Wait really, seriously, she does a great lunch.

660
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: She's a great lunch and then when she's there she

661
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: does a little hair wept like a choreograph. I remember

662
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: at my house a jive pick up. Pretty good. I

663
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: know what she'solytic to like Becca, It's like she's got

664
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: these hidden talents. I'm like, there isn't these come from?

665
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: Like I couldn't I have two left feet, Like I

666
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: have zero rhythm I don't think no you, Oh yeah,

667
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: Really get into a room with Whitney for two weeks.

668
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: She can teach you how to dance. I have bricks first,

669
00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: first they but toe point comes in. That's my issue,

670
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: like with my sport. I'm pointing my toes, but they

671
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: come in. So I start dancing. Think I have this

672
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: great toe point. And when he's like, sickle, sickle, you

673
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: sick your fat, Like, what does that mean? I don't

674
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: know what that means. Jeez, I'm kind of nice. I

675
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: feel like I'm being hard on her. It's fun. Wait

676
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: where are you from? Originally? I grew up in northern

677
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: New York Lake Placid area. I know, like plasid alligators,

678
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: and I mean that's definitely plastic Florida Lake Plastids. I

679
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: can see how you think that God from, but not

680
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: so much on others. I come from a place where

681
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: it's winter nine months a year. That was the Olympics, right,

682
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: the Olympics, so two time winter Olympic host city, and

683
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: literally it is it is freezing all the time. So

684
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: that winter package that you saw that was shot I

685
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: think April tenth or eleventh. It was like twelve degrees

686
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: with Windshill. It was blow zero. It felt like middle

687
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: of winter, but it was the middle of April. Bull,

688
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: there are you married? Single? I just moved in with

689
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: my girlfriend in Salt Lake City. Okay you live in

690
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: Salt Lake City? Now, okay, question for you waiting? You

691
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: just got these locking eyes. We're locking eyes right now.

692
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm like questions. No, this is something we ask all

693
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: of her guests that are in you mean, happy relationships.

694
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,359
Speaker 1: How did you meet? Did she make the first mover?

695
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: Did you actually I met her via my friend's Instagram story,

696
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: like who is that? And reached out to her. We

697
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: had coffee and yeah, you reached out to her. I

698
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: reached out to her. How long ago was this? About

699
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: a year ago? There? There you go telling me the

700
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: instagram thing can work on Instagram? My god, I don't.

701
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: Everybody's like, I'm like, oh, They're like, oh yeah, this

702
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: guy's a good match for I'm like done, Damn he

703
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: saw her. She didn't reach out to him, right, Yeah,

704
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: I need I need some people to be interested in

705
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 1: A love story is one of my favorites. Let's get

706
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: to that. This is not as like hopeful for us

707
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: and we are still single and listen there's a lot

708
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: of hope. Um, thank you. Yeah, I love him. Um.

709
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: So we dated in high school. Actually, so I met

710
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: him when I was in junior high. So I knew

711
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: him when I was like twelve years old, and I funny,

712
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 1: I didn't even know he existed, but he like knew

713
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: that I existed and he had a crush on me

714
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 1: since he was twelve. And then we finally dated when

715
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: we were eighteen and we were high school sweethearts. And

716
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,319
Speaker 1: then he left to Romania for two years on an

717
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 1: LDS mission and then, um, we wrote emails back and forth.

718
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: Still I kind of dated a little bit, but we

719
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: still kept in touch through emails. Um, and then he

720
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: came back and just clicked. And now we're married and

721
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: this is like our second year together. So it's just

722
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 1: been amazing. He's like the biggest supporter ever and he's

723
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: just amazing. He's the sweetest. We came and watched Dance

724
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: with the Stars and he came and picked us up

725
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: and we all went to dinner afterwards. He paid forever,

726
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: but he's like the sweetest ever is So you know, like, um,

727
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: a girlfriend of mine just started dating this new guy

728
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 1: and she was kind of like telling like kind of

729
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: like how we are not telling us the story and

730
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: the guy was there also, you know, to her, she's like, oh,

731
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: we just started dating like two months ago, and in

732
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: his mind, he goes the story for me is a

733
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: lot different. So it's like cute. I know, I love it.

734
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: It's so cute. He's the best I know. I love.

735
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 1: We love hearing success stories. I did hearing it love

736
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: story like yours. I love hearing Instagram that everybody has

737
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 1: such a different story in the world's very different place.

738
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: So it was like five ten years ago. You can

739
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: you can meet people so many different ways and it

740
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: all can anything can happen. I think that's like the

741
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: best thing about technology. And it can be this like

742
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: you know, high school sweet our sweetheart story, or it

743
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: can just be like, hey, you seem like a really

744
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: fun person, like would you like to share like an experience,

745
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: and then it just goes from there. Do you have

746
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: any single friends. I'm always trying to set you up,

747
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:18,720
Speaker 1: but you don't. I'm talking about We'll focus on Tony, Okay, Tonya,

748
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: I'll work on that for you, Okay. I feel like

749
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: I can be a good matchmaker in your life. I

750
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 1: think it's fun. You tried to set me up. I've tried,

751
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: and you're always like, no, she is picky, but you

752
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 1: know what, picky is a good thing. That's okay, you're

753
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: not kind of I feel like I tried. I don't

754
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 1: think he's set me up with someone who was like terrible,

755
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: but you've got like this. Yeah, yeah, exactly, but I'll

756
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:45,959
Speaker 1: keep working on it for you both. Okay, it's gonna

757
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: be good. Brother again. He's like super young. It's funny.

758
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: Remember we tried to say and then that didn't work,

759
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 1: and then he's funny one and it's too young. Is

760
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 1: that too young for me? Yeah? Very what about you?

761
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: Funny one? And beyond to I'm sure he's so. It's

762
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: just like, I'm ready for kids tomorrow. That's amazing. Oh

763
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm ast to me. Are you getting a

764
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: lot of sleep with this new schedule? Um? Not really,

765
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: but there's not really a lot of sleep in my

766
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: life as it is. I'm all over the place with

767
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 1: uh no, just so much travel. Like I literally live

768
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: out of a suitcase the last three years pretty much.

769
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: So I'm just all over the place. It's very much

770
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: the opposite of me. I would say like one of

771
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: my hobbies of sleeping, Tanya, Well, do you want to

772
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 1: go out or do you want it to go to? Um? So,

773
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: Helix is a sleep company. They have mattresses, they have pillows.

774
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: Um they are working with the world's leading sleep experts

775
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: and they have developed mattresses that are specific to what

776
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 1: you're looking for. Yeah, that's the best part of these

777
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: is that you basically customize everything like to your height,

778
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: your weight, your sleep preference. That's what you basically take

779
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: this little test and they send you the right fit

780
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: for you. Oh that's amazing. I have to tell you

781
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: since I got my Helix pillow, So how long mark?

782
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: You know this? How long I've been trying to sleep

783
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: like Jennifer Lopez? Yes, for quite some time now. So

784
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez sleeps like this, like she doesn't so it

785
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 1: doesn't wrinkle her face. I've been trying to describe because

786
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: they can't see Yeah, sorry, you guys can't see me.

787
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: So I'm trying to sleep with just my head on

788
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: my pillow, not like with my face. Yeah, it's good

789
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: for like the skin on your face. Apparently Jlo does this.

790
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: So I've been trying to sleep like that since I

791
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: read the story about JL and I couldn't do it.

792
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: Ever since I got my Helix pillow, I've been able

793
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: to sleep serious, I can just sleep on it. Like

794
00:42:50,320 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: so I need one of these change the around um.

795
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: But this is actually really cool for both of you.

796
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: You can customize the specific sides of the bed. So

797
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: if your husband want if Carson, which I love, his

798
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 1: name is Carson your UM. If you like your mattress

799
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 1: outside more um firm and he likes it softer, you

800
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: can do you can customize the sides of them, which

801
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: is actually amazing, amazing. Yeah, you can sleep like j

802
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: Lo and have your own side of the mattress. So

803
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: just go to heli sleep dot com slash Becca right

804
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: now and you'll get up to a hundred and twenty

805
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: five dollars towards your mattress order. That's awesome. So that's

806
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,240
Speaker 1: he like, sleep dot com slash Beck up hundred twenty

807
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: five dollars off your mattress order one more time, he

808
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: looks sleep dot com slash Becca. We get all four

809
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: of you to do that. Oh okay, so so everyone

810
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 1: mind's kind of like Becca and I go up, I

811
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: go Becca, So find the find we gotta keep going higher,

812
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: keep going h HELI sleep dot com slash that's pretty good. Alright,

813
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: So some emails, and I think having an athlete here

814
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: will help, especially with this first one from anonymous. She's

815
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: twenty five, never had a serious relationship. In February, she

816
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: met a guy and they hit it off. They spent

817
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: multiple nights together. Their relationship developed quickly. I've never felt

818
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: this way about anyone, nor have I ever felt so

819
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: wanted and liked. However, he's a baseball player. He plays

820
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: minor league baseball, and he's gone now for the entire

821
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: baseball season. They've never used the terms boyfriend girlfriend, but

822
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: we established that were exclusive. I think we're on the

823
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: same page. I didn't realize how hard it would be

824
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: as a girl. He feels super needy, she says, Tanya,

825
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: you can probably relate to them. If I don't hear

826
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: from all day, I get anxious, I get lonely. I

827
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: feel like I'm single again, even though I'm not. I

828
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: finally had somebody to spend my time with, and now

829
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't. And so, anyway, any advice on how not

830
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 1: to feel so needy and upset and want to spend

831
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: the next four months happy, but it's so hard navigating

832
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: a new relationship. Everyone everyone, Okay, so I can say

833
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: I live on the road. I travel from September to

834
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: March and even in the summer, like right now, I'm

835
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: away from Salt Lake City. I think when it comes

836
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: to relationships on the road, yes, you you established that. Okay,

837
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: you're going to be exclusive, but you also have to

838
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: establish what your needs are, Like, what are your needs

839
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: in this relationship? Do you need him to you know,

840
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: face time you at like a certain time. I do

841
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: think any sort of face timing does build that connection.

842
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: Phone calls and texting it's not the same as having

843
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: a face to face connection. So when you are traveling,

844
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: that's huge. But if you're someone who just needs to

845
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: feel the presence, like I can't be in Salt Lake

846
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 1: all the time, so it's always nice to do a

847
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 1: stupid little Amazon gift that's three dollars and with Prime

848
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: it's free. So you're just like just to send, like

849
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: to show that you are like thinking about this person

850
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: more so, just what are your needs and let the

851
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: other person know that. Yeah, this one's hard for me

852
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: because I just make Carson come out. Okay, you're gonna

853
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: come out right now and that's it. And so, yeah,

854
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 1: I used to work in minor league baseball, so I

855
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: know a little bit about this. But his entire focus

856
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: is going to be his job, in his game and

857
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: getting better at what he's doing, because it doesn't want

858
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: to be in the minor leagues. He wants to be

859
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 1: in the major league. He wants to get to the

860
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 1: next level, and that's going to be his focus. It's

861
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 1: not gonna be her. So my advice is, if you

862
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 1: need someone whose focus is going to be you all

863
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: the time, I don't know that this is the guy,

864
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: and that's why you have to let your needs know

865
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: because sometimes, yeah, like I'll think about you, but it's

866
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: after practice, training, working on my sled. This like I

867
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: wasn't doing anything else besides eating, sleeping, or doing my sport.

868
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: So this was the speech Mark gave me when I

869
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: tried to date Tim Tebow. You don't want the guys

870
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:56,760
Speaker 1: in minor league baseball, all right. This is from Sydney.

871
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: She had an interesting start with her boyfriend. When they

872
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: first met, they were both can get a restaurant and

873
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: we're in relationships with other people. One drunken night, he

874
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: kissed her after work and said I just needed to

875
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: know what it would feel like. I broke up with

876
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: my boyfriend the next day and told him everything because

877
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,720
Speaker 1: I felt guilty about cheating, but he stayed with his girlfriend.

878
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: They were together the whole summer while I had my

879
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: summer fun, most of which was with him. I ended

880
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: up sending his girlfriend a message that he cheated on her,

881
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: and they broke up. After some time, we got a

882
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: new relationship, moved in together. I get self conscious that

883
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: he's only with me because they broke up. Part of

884
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 1: me thinks that's stupid, but part of me thinks my

885
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: gut is telling me something. Sometimes you can help us

886
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: something starts. He's a great guy and truly cares about

887
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: my happiness now that we're together. But should I stay

888
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: with him despite how it started because he's a good guy?

889
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: Or do you believe once a cheater always cheated because

890
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: technically I cheated too. I don't like it, don't like

891
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: any go with your gut. I'm just gonna say, go

892
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: with your gut. I think good bye money, efficiency going

893
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: and to live a life or your being a relationship

894
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: where you're just self conscious though secure about it. The

895
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: whole time. The biggest part in the relationship is like loyalty, right,

896
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: so if you have any doubt of that, then you

897
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: should just walk the other way. As they both cheated,

898
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 1: but they handled it very differently. She cheated immediately confessed

899
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: to her boyfriend, and he cheated, kept going, didn't tell

900
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: his go So if he cheats on you, is he

901
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 1: going to tell you exactly? That's a little sketchy. Bye

902
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: bye bye. Yeah, this one's crazy from Katie What I like, Murphy,

903
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: Get the Murphy Katie her this is I just gotta

904
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:36,359
Speaker 1: read it. My brother married a mail order bride from

905
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: Russia two years ago. Yes, a real life male freaking

906
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: order bride. Since they've gotten married, my parents have fallen

907
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,479
Speaker 1: over backward. To make their relationship work. They started paying

908
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: off his student loans to take the burden off of them,

909
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 1: then taking them to dinner twice a week, and giving

910
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: them money so they could do things in the city.

911
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: He's thirty two, she's thirty. My brother was college educated

912
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 1: as a finance degree, but does not have a real job.

913
00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: This all came to a boil on Easter. His mail

914
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: order I ditched just at the last second, and my

915
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 1: brother showed up. He was bragging about a trip to

916
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: Hawaii they just took and the new wardrobe he bought

917
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: for her for the trip. My parents were happy for him,

918
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: but also sad because they haven't taken a vacation in

919
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:15,000
Speaker 1: three years because they can't afford it. Basically, they pay

920
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: for their life and neglect their own. And I lost it.

921
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: I got into a huge fight with my brother about

922
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 1: how rude I thought he was. Things escalated. I was

923
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 1: asked to leave Easter dinner. My parents have not spoken

924
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 1: to me since. I got one word responses if I

925
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:29,839
Speaker 1: text them a direct question. But I have a hard

926
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 1: time making that initiative because I feel like I was

927
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: right to defend them. They let him walk all over

928
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: them and use them, and they don't say a word.

929
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: What do I do? I feel like you did the

930
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,279
Speaker 1: right thing too. I would defend my parents and have

931
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: an argument with my one of my siblings over this. Personally,

932
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, you have to look out. You

933
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 1: have to look out for your family, right, your parents,

934
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 1: like they raised you, and you don't want to see

935
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: them take an advantage of regardless of who's taking advantage

936
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 1: of them. Like, yeah, you have to stick with your

937
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: parents parents. Her parents aren't asking for her defense. They're

938
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 1: perfectly happy with what's going on, are they? Are they

939
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,240
Speaker 1: not speaking to Katie? Are they scared? Like? I wonder

940
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: why they're Like. The mother's son bond is an interesting one,

941
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: and we've touched on this a little bit before. It's

942
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: strong because the mom will baby the sun as long

943
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: as she possibly is allowed to baby the sun. So

944
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: it does seem like their brothers taking advantage of that situation.

945
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: But the mom is all too happy to be taking

946
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: advantage of Katie might just want to remove herself from

947
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: because it's not really her thing and she should Taylor

948
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: swift and say I would like to be removed from

949
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 1: this area. So do she like apologize and just clear that,

950
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: like just make things nice and then she backs away

951
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:54,480
Speaker 1: or what? I don't know that you apologize necessarily she

952
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 1: just backs away. I don't family strong. You don't want

953
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 1: to just walk away from family on bad terms if

954
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: you can it right, I say, I mean, obviously the

955
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: son mother relationship is very tight, and obviously he's going

956
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: to keep doing this because he doesn't know any different.

957
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: He has this certain lifestyle, he has this status. He

958
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: doesn't want to walk away from that. So as long

959
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: as he's getting that from his mom, he doesn't want

960
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 1: to change. So you just have to go to your

961
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: mom and try to make her understand your point and

962
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:25,000
Speaker 1: help him move on. My mom would still do my

963
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: laundry if I let her at this, but with the

964
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: mother daughter it's different. I feel like, yeah, my mom

965
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 1: would still do my laundry. My mom was. She comes

966
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: and she's like, what can I do for you? Help me?

967
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: I know that it's crazy right now for you' also,

968
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: thank you for taking the time. I want you to

969
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 1: come back on and I want the whole time, so

970
00:51:52,120 --> 00:52:01,399
Speaker 1: we're not limited. But everyone vote for Whitney and Chris. Yes, yes,

971
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: and keep your eye out for your app. It's called

972
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 1: Whitney XO. Yeah Whitney x so yep, it's coming out

973
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 1: Professional Dancer. Yes, please please use it and tell me

974
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: what you think. So thanks guys so much. Yeah. Um,

975
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: I love them so much, love love Chris big fan.

976
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: She's just the best. Chris had some good advice, ma'am.

977
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: I know. I like it's fun having a guy. I mean,

978
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 1: I know we have our two gentlemen here, but like

979
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 1: having an athlete, like someone who's kind of like a

980
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: vision of like man. You know, I'm saying like an athlete,

981
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: like dating and like in that world. You know, I

982
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: love Mark and East and they know that value. But

983
00:52:43,120 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 1: I do have to say market Easton. You guys are

984
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: like legends, legends, but you are a different breed. We

985
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: are not athletes. No, no, your athletes just so the

986
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: voice of reason on this podcast. Yeah, but you're also

987
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: like men who like are not commitment bobes. And you

988
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: love family and you're carrying and sweet and you men

989
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 1: should be that way. Next time, I have a pretty

990
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: sweet vertical too, before you step a non athlete. Okay,

991
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Speaker 1: I wanted to get to murph'sy email because Tanya wanted

1026
00:55:16,040 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: to hear it, and there was besides Murph. I also

1027
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: want to get to Devon. Maybe next week we'll do

1028
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 1: Devon and Megan, because one is about body image and

1029
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: one's about friends drifting apart, which are very relatable. That's true,

1030
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: Murph says. I love the podcast. I love the enthusiasm

1031
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 1: for Raising Natomy, which, by the way, this week I

1032
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 1: thought it was a pretty strong episode. Okay, Okay, you

1033
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: didn't bother to watch it all weekend, Tanya, or did you?

1034
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: Unfortunately I did? Why do you Talk? I thought it

1035
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: was pretty good. Okay. I'm intrigued by Owen and Amelia

1036
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: trying to rescue this fifteen year old drug at anything

1037
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: you're alone, like so alone, there's I'm not invested in

1038
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: anything right now. It's terrible. Yeah, I had to endure

1039
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: that our anyway. Murphy says, I've been holding my tongue

1040
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: for a while, but after Tanya's eulogy for Derek last week,

1041
00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't hold it anymore. Derek Shephard was a trash husband.

1042
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: Not only did he start his relationship with Meredith on

1043
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 1: a lie, not telling her he was still technically married,

1044
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 1: he runs away from Mayor and his family to pursue

1045
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: his own career. Not for noble purposes, no, it was

1046
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 1: completely driven by ego. Above all, he cheats on Mayor

1047
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:31,760
Speaker 1: shortly before his death. Oh you know what, I don't

1048
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 1: feel like I forgot about that he kissed somebody. Right.

1049
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: This is not a kind of the kind of guy

1050
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: that restores faith in men. This is the kind of

1051
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: guy that Meredith gave discounts too for far too long.

1052
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: Derek is not the sun Mayor is. I hope this

1053
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 1: wasn't too contentious. Love you all, thanks for writening my weeks.

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Speaker 1: Murphy makes a strong points. I hate to admit that

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Speaker 1: I'm like sweating because it's like everything I felt and

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00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: thought I knew is being challenged. I really struggled with

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Speaker 1: Derek in the beginning of Becca Knows This because I

1058
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: was like he did. He started off his relationship with

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00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: Meredith on a lie, he didn't tell her, and then

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00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: he leaves her to go back to Addison. So I

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00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,240
Speaker 1: was so pissed about that. I really I did struggle, weirdly,

1062
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: like the noble thing to do, I know, but I did.

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Speaker 1: I really struggled with Derek in the beginning as well.

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Speaker 1: But then I really grew to like be obsessed in

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Speaker 1: love with him throughout the years. I know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing, Like I get the maybe the eulogy,

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00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: the things that were said were a little too much

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Speaker 1: as far as like the kind of guy he some

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00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: of the things he did, but there were some moments

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00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:37,479
Speaker 1: where he really was great guy, and I just feel

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00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 1: like he just he didn't get what he deserved. He

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00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: didn't get the goodbye he don't. I just didn't. I'm

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Speaker 1: better about that, Murphy. I'm a little upset with you,

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Speaker 1: just because it's like the tone was aggressive. I was,

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Speaker 1: I think, Okay, I don't know, I don't have aggressive email.

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Speaker 1: But I really I appreciate the point of view, you know.

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00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: I love a good challenging point of view. Yeah, will

1078
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: I ever be able to watch Crazy Anatomy the same

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00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: from the beginning. I actually just started again from season one.

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Speaker 1: Now you're going to have this perspective. Somebody messaged me

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00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: the other day and they were like, why do you

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00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,600
Speaker 1: keep rewatching from the beginning like or something like that,

1083
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,120
Speaker 1: And I was like, why would I want to watch

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00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 1: some random show that might make me happy? And I

1085
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: know I get solid, good happy laughs from season one

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00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: through four With the person who said that I think

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00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: it's weird. Al Right, Well, such a depressing note to

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00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: end the But but next week I want to get

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Speaker 1: to Devon, who has an email about body image, and Megan,

1090
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: who has an email about friends drifting apart? Okay, and

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00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: Taylor Lawner. Oh wait, this is a quickie okay from Chisa.

1092
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: She said, just curious how no one has mentioned the

1093
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 1: appearance of Taylor Lawner and both Becca Antania's Instagram feets.

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00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 1: He commented on a picture Becca and was in one

1095
00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 1: of Tania's stories, Um, why are neither of you dating him?

1096
00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 1: I need answers. The reason I like this email is

1097
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: because we wanted to have Taylor and his best friends

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00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: ark on the podcast. We wanted them to come scrub

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00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: in with us. Yeah, we want them to do we

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Speaker 1: want to do like a best friend challenge because they're

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00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: super super close. We're super super close, and um, we're

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Speaker 1: all just friends through like we met it. I met

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00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: him and I and I heart event and then um, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you know, same thing that same

1105
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: weekend actually, and they're just the best so best fun. Yeah,

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00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: so we're all just friends. We're all friends, but we

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Speaker 1: want to have them scrub in and do a friendship quiz.

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Speaker 1: You are you down with that? A friendship quiz? Like

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Speaker 1: it would be like Taylor and Tark versus Tanya and Becca.

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Speaker 1: I'd be happy to do that. I'd be okay, great. Um,

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Speaker 1: So I just want to say quick thank you to

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Speaker 1: our guest day. It was so much fun. I felt

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Speaker 1: like we just had so much going on today, a

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Speaker 1: big episode. Um, thank you, Amy Purty. You are I

1115
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Speaker 1: hope she listens. You are amazing. I can't say enough

1116
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: about you. Um check out her new YouTube channel. She

1117
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: is inspiring everybody all over the world. Thank you. I'm

1118
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: gonna say sorry to Bowling Branch. I think we're missing

1119
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: a conference call because our podcast went a little bit long,

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Speaker 1: So shout out we love you Branch. My sheets are

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01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 1: everything everything. They helped me sleep at night. It's everything

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01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: I need. Um, Whitney, Carson and Derek Master, thank you

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Speaker 1: all so much for coming in. I know you're busy

1124
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: dancing and trying to win. Which everyone vote for Chris

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01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: and Whitney Team Move It or Lose It such a

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Speaker 1: good name. UM. Dancing with the Stars is on Monday

1127
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: nights on ABC. UM. Also just want to say thank

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Speaker 1: you to Qudoba for supplying our lunch today. We're starving delicious.

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Speaker 1: Thank you all so much, so excited to eat. Never

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01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: been more excited. Yeah, thank you all for the emails.

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01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: There's so many that we don't get to get to,

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Speaker 1: Like we could spend three hours reading emails. The email

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Speaker 1: is scrubbing in at iHeart media dot com. And check

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01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 1: out the Facebook group which is scrubbing in with Beck

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Speaker 1: at Tilly hopefully soon to be Becca Antanya. We're coming

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Speaker 1: up on ten thousand members in the Facebook group. By

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Speaker 1: the way, our Facebook group. I met a member of

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Speaker 1: our Facebook group over the weekend. I met some of

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Speaker 1: our listeners at Stagecoach and you did so sweet. It

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Speaker 1: was so kind. Oh yeah, Helenda. I met Helenda at

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Speaker 1: the Farmer's Barker's Market. She was so cute. Sure to

1142
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Speaker 1: air drop me it turns off. Mine's always on. You

1143
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: gotta keep it on if you want that to happen.

1144
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to happen to me. I

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01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: want to do it to other people. Hypocritical to turn

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Speaker 1: it on. All right, Thank you all so much for listening.

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Speaker 1: We love you all so much. Sorry we're day late,

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Speaker 1: but we're here. A time of death, no period,