1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it. 4 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 3: Dear Banya, it's dear Bonia. 5 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 4: Who you gonna call it? Why? 6 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: Everyone said they don't need it? So I'm here for 7 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: the I'm listening to the people. 8 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 4: Well, I'm not listening to the people. We don't have 9 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 4: to play the jingle. We can create our own jingle 10 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 4: every time. 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 3: I don't want to hear about the jingle anymore. 12 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 2: They'd rather hear you say scrub a dub dub in 13 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: the top. 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 1: Question. 15 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 4: Fine, then I'll bring it back. 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 17 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: I know you haven't watched Grays in like five years, 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: but Mark, are you caught up? 19 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 20 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 2: Okay, So the other night, I you know, I've had 21 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: this theory that when I drink coffee, I can just 22 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: go to sleep after So I've never worried about when 23 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:11,559 Speaker 2: I drink. 24 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 3: Coffee in the day. Okay, And I haven't had. 25 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: Coffee in a long time outside of the morning hours, 26 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 2: and the other day I was just like crashing in 27 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: the middle of the afternoon. So I ordered a coffee 28 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 2: at like four and drink it well, I was just 29 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 2: like wide awake. So I go and lay on the 30 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 2: couch because I didn't want to wake up Hailey. 31 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 3: And I was like, you know, I'm just gonna put 32 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 3: Grays on sleep. 33 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: You know, it's. 34 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: Familiar if I've all sleeping and I really miss anything. 35 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 2: So I put it on and I quite enjoyed the episode. 36 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I'm not like, oh my gosh, 37 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: I'm enthralled, but I was entertained enough that I watched 38 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: the next episode. 39 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: The other day, my wife said to me, I was 40 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: watching Grace. She came in the room. You're watching Grassy, yeah, 41 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: she said I, And I said it's not great. She goes, 42 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: so why are you still watching it? And she's it's 43 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: a very good point. But I feel like, I don't know, 44 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: I get comfort from these characters I've known for so long. 45 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: There's something about the hospital. I don't know what it is. 46 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 4: We watched the old episodes again, because. 47 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 1: I would never do that. That's not my personality. Though, 48 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: just to rewatch old. 49 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 2: Stuff incredible, But you know what I was thinking about 50 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: that really upset me in my rage on the couch. 51 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: Why are they like it's so obvious that they're filming 52 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: in La. It's always sunny in these coffee stops, out 53 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 2: the coffee trailers out outside of the hospital, which they 54 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: recently introduce, and they're supposed to be in gloomy Seattle, 55 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 2: and it's like a beautiful sunny day every day. 56 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the least of my complaints about the show, 57 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: all right. 58 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: So I saw that there was a new love interest 59 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 2: for Amelia, and I felt like they had a lot 60 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 2: of chemistry and the like teaser I saw, so I 61 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: was like, this could get me back into it, a 62 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 2: good relationship with chemistry because we even had that in 63 00:02:58,400 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: a minute. 64 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: Yes, but it's so okay. So she and the new 65 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: doctor they hook up in the on call room and 66 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: she just happened quick, yeah, very quickly. Do you want 67 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: to go on a date tomorrow? And she goes, Oh, 68 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: I would, but I have my son, my sun rise 69 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: yoga hike. Yeah, my sun Rise hike. That's what I 70 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: meant when I said son. Yeah, who's writing this show? 71 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: But I think I hate watching at this point. I've 72 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: never been a hate watcher, but I think I've actually 73 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 1: turned the corner. 74 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: Oh, so sad, I give. 75 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 3: To quite a few episodes before I just put this 76 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 3: one on. 77 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: So I was like, I think I'll catch up quick 78 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: based on how the seasons have gone recently and from 79 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: what I've seen, Teddy needs to sign the divorce papers. 80 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: We're still dragging out this divorce, but she needs to 81 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: sign the divorce papers. 82 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 3: But every time she's going to do. 83 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 4: It talking about divorce. 84 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: Last time I wted well, guess what it's still going on. 85 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: They have this conversation and he's encouraging her for this 86 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 2: big surgery she's doing, and then she has to do 87 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 2: it and he needs to watch the kids or whatever. 88 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: So she gets home and she's like, thanks for watching 89 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: the kids and thanks for you know, supporting me, even 90 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: though I was like, rude to you. 91 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: Give me hook up. 92 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 3: They start making out and I'm like, I'm done that. 93 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: I don't gut. They have to the producers that you 94 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: have to know we're not big fans of those two together, 95 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: So why you had an out? It was over, they 96 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,679 Speaker 1: split up, and now you're gonna put him together again. 97 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm not interested. 98 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 3: I'm bored. 99 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,799 Speaker 1: I'm way more interested in Teddy Altman and Sophia Bush 100 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: much more interesting. 101 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 3: Give me that and give me this w l W show. 102 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: Will be good, and no one can go date whoever 103 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: he wants to date. 104 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 3: I don't care he can go. 105 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: I don't care. 106 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 2: Dis Switzerland and I would watch that from my girl Sandra. 107 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'd be back. I'd lock in locked and 108 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 3: then Joe and Link. I'm just so irritating. 109 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: Link as a secret man cave. It's a house that 110 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: he rents out and nobody's living there right now, so 111 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: he goes there to escape from the tzin the Twins, and. 112 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 2: Joe's at home just like almost died and is watching 113 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 2: the kids and he's in his man. 114 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: Cave with beers and his guitar. 115 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 3: It's as bad as it sounds. 116 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: I need Camilla to come on and I just need 117 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 2: to ask, like, what's happening? 118 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: What happened YI? 119 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 2: Anyway, So that's a little bit about where I'm at. 120 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: And I got a crick in my neck from sleeping 121 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: on the cap. I got punished for watching Grays. 122 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 4: You know what they don't tell you about aging, the 123 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 4: crick the creiks and the cracks and the crinkles. 124 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. People didn't know what a creek was. 125 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: They were like, I call it a king. 126 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 1: Different parts of the country have different words for that. 127 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: We've just always called it a crick and it's I 128 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 2: cannot look to my this side really hurt. This side 129 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 2: is tender. 130 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 4: When we came back from the Bahamas, my lower back 131 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 4: was hurting from like just laying down I guess, or 132 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 4: just like sitting down for so long. And because I 133 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 4: don't know when I when we flew there, I was 134 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 4: like sleeping on the chairs of the airport, so like 135 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 4: my back was like it just was not good. And 136 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 4: somebody was telling me, They're like, yeah, every morning when 137 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 4: I wake up, I stretch. I was like, well, who 138 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 4: started doing that? And when do you start doing that? 139 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 5: Because nobody told me this, but you don't stretch anyway? 140 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: Up never feels I know that's true. 141 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 4: I know, but you know what, I started doing the 142 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 4: vibration plate that like everybody. 143 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 3: Was posting about. 144 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 4: Do you like it messed up my back? Sure enough? 145 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 4: I text my chiropractor, Hey, doctor J, like, my lower 146 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: back's been like acting up. He's like, did you make 147 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 4: any changes, like when you're doing the vibration ration play 148 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 4: every morning? He goes, yeah, it's not great for the 149 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 4: disks in your back. Who told me that? Nobody on TikTok. 150 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 4: I just slipped right out dis right when it's laden. 151 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 4: Nobody's telling me that on TikTok. They're just showing me 152 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 4: all the benefits of your lymphatic system and the high 153 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 4: you get from it. But nobody's telling you about the 154 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 4: back pains I come along. 155 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 3: I haven't mentioned those. The spoiler alert. 156 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 4: If you are interested in getting one of those vibration plates, 157 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 4: make sure your back is in good shape. 158 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: It's not. Actually, yeah, I have a crick a kink. 159 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a pain where you can't look right or 160 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: left comfortably. 161 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 3: And that's what you need day rex, the whole day. 162 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 2: So anyways, Yeah, the creeks and the cracks do be coming. 163 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: They hit you, yark, And I'm sorry if you're uthaful 164 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 2: and not experiencing this listening to this, but it does. 165 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 3: I always hit you fast. 166 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: I always thought when people talked about this, I was like, 167 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, like people just need to like stretch 168 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: and work out and they don't need just you won't 169 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: have those issues, but you do. 170 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: You stretch, I don't do anything, So of course I 171 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 3: have issues, But you have issues. You don't, I know, 172 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 3: Haley can't. 173 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: Did you see the video of Haley trying to reach 174 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: her hold her feet. 175 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I was peeing my pants watching that 176 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 4: and I didn't even have sound on. 177 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: This sounds actually really fun. 178 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 4: I need to go back and listen to a sound. 179 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 2: She had scoliosis as a as a child and had 180 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: to wear a back brace, so her back is already 181 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 2: just like not great. But I was like, we need 182 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: to tap into some yoga moves or something. 183 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: This is this is serious. 184 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 4: It was tight. 185 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 3: When she went to. 186 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 2: Bend down, her knee cracks so loud. It was like, damn, 187 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: this is Startnald. 188 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 4: Tom he wants to try that with me? 189 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 3: By the way, y'all could do it, Oh definitely. 190 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: But we tried to do one where I was on 191 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 2: the bottom of shoes lifting me and it does hurt. 192 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,079 Speaker 3: You gotta lock in your everything. 193 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. 194 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 3: Those girls made it look too easy. 195 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, we have a quick transition. So, uh, who 196 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 4: you gonna call with the question on? Yeah, I have 197 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 4: an idea, dear Bonya nice. 198 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 5: I don't want to bully you're the jingle thing too much, 199 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 5: but what about doing this? Have we discussed a little. 200 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: Paging doctor Tillian, doctor Redd. 201 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 2: They did say they missed that stuff more than the jingle. 202 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 4: Well, we could make that our new thing, but we. 203 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: Don't need to be doctor Tilly and doctor Ratt. 204 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: Correct. 205 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, you haven't earned that yet. 206 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 3: Sorry, we actually lost that. Yeah we lost it. Yeah, okay, 207 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 3: but we are going to do Dear Bonia, so shall 208 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 3: we just kick it right off? 209 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: Here we go from anonymous Dear Banya and Mesten. I'm 210 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: a thirty one year old single, independent woman looking for 211 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: my future husband. I finally decided to give a guy 212 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: at the gym a chance when on a first date. 213 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: Am I being too picky? That is her question? Am 214 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: I being too picky? He's twenty five? All right, she's 215 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: thirty one. And as we talked on our date, he 216 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: asked me a lot of insightful questions to which I 217 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: would give thoughtful, deep answers to. When I flipped the 218 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: question back on him, he had nothing. He gets up, 219 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: he goes to the gym, goes to work, he goes 220 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: to bed. He has no hobbies, he has no friends. 221 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: I think he hates that I have a dog. Am 222 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: I wrong for one? To write him off? 223 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 2: Or? 224 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: Do I give him another chance? Two years ago, I 225 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 1: under a three year situationship and have been spending a 226 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 1: lot of time creating the best version of myself. I 227 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: don't want to have someone cling on to me because 228 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: I have a life and he doesn't. I want a 229 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 1: partner who's going to grow with me, but also has 230 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: their own hobbies and interests that excite them. As I 231 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: heard someone say recently, my husband is not the most 232 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:29,679 Speaker 1: exciting thing about me, and I believe this. So what 233 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: do I do? Longtime listener, looking forward to hearing your 234 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: advice from a hopeless romantic looking for her forever. 235 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 4: Well, hobbies are overrated. 236 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, No way, no way. 237 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 4: What hobbies do you have? 238 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 3: I don't care about mine? 239 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 4: Well, exactly, No, this is a point. 240 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 3: No, No, I has hobbies, I have friends. 241 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 4: I like to travel, I love to go eat, I 242 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 4: get some friends. 243 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: No, I think he's gonna be I get what she's saying. 244 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 2: He's going to cling on to her and everything will 245 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 2: be what she likes. She wants some one who has 246 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 2: their own life, like I love doing everything with Haley, 247 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 2: and I am totally independent to do whatever I want 248 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 2: by myself, And you want to meet someone who is 249 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: independent in that regard. 250 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 4: I'm just saying not having hobbies does not make him 251 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 4: not have his own life. 252 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: But you want to be able to have a conversation. 253 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 4: She's a sentence when she said what he does in 254 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 4: his day? Where was that mark? 255 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 3: He has no hobbies, doesn't go out with friends, et cetera. 256 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: He goes to the gym, he goes to work, he 257 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: goes to bed. 258 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 4: Sounds like my day and I love me and she 259 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 4: thinks he low key. I think I'm a great partner. 260 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 4: That literally exactly me, But that sentence is me. I 261 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 4: get up, you go to ares, I go home, I 262 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 4: make my egg pods, and I go to bed like. 263 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 2: That's my day, But that wasn't your day when you 264 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 2: were dating you? 265 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 4: Why I cleaned my makeup brushes on Friday night? I 266 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,839 Speaker 4: was not much cooler when I was single. Like, I 267 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 4: think you got to give this guy. 268 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 3: She's cool. Sounds she's cooler than you. Sounds like she's 269 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 3: got a lot more going on. 270 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: See, but here's I feel like she's trying to find 271 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: negatives about this guy's thing about it because you can 272 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: twist these. He goes to the gym, crazyself. That's good, 273 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: works ten to seven every day. That's commitment. He's a 274 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: provider's his career for the job. 275 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 4: Do you know many people want people with jobs? Continue Mark, 276 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 4: who doesn't go out with his friends. 277 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 1: You don't want an alcoholic always out there partying, going. 278 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 4: The friends always sway. 279 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: Guys, guy friends are the worst. 280 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 3: This is terrible advice. 281 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: I say, girl, find someone that you want to have, 282 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 2: that can have it on the first few days at least, 283 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 2: pretend to have interesting conversations and deep answers. You want 284 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 2: any low he hates your dog, red flag immediately get out. 285 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: The deep answers thing would be nice if you can 286 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: carry on a decent conversation. But he had insightful questions. 287 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: That's positive. 288 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 4: And he's twenty five. A couple of years is an oof. 289 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 4: It's gonna ripen up real nice. 290 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 5: Does he go to bed at seven? When he gets home? Like, 291 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 5: I'm so curious what he's doing between work and bed. 292 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: That's probably like. 293 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 4: Meal prepping and like showering and watching a little Paradise. 294 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 3: Boring. 295 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, I say move on. Being too picky is okay? 296 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: You know I agree with that. But is he super hot? 297 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: Like maybe that's an element year She doesn't mention that, 298 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: but maybe he's younger. 299 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 4: He's going to bring a youthful spirit when he's when 300 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 4: he's thirty, you're gonna be I can do this. 301 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 2: Six He has no friends. He has no friends at 302 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 2: twenty five when he should. This should be where he's thriving. 303 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: I think give him a few more dates. 304 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 3: I do too. 305 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 4: Okay, car from Love is from Love Island what nobody 306 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 4: understands them on? 307 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: All right, the next one, we're going to tease. It's 308 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: about friendship boundaries. Oh boy, something you guys said in 309 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: the Bahamas made think about her friends and her boundaries, 310 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: and we're gonna get into that. We're gonna dig deep. 311 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: Coming up right after this, how about about Oh I'm 312 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: not sure who won that one? That was like the 313 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: La Marathon right there? 314 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so crazy and so crazy. 315 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: All right, this is from ray she listened to the 316 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: tube changes everything. The second episode from Baja mar And 317 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: there's a question about friends and boundaries. Quick story, quick question. 318 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty eight year old first time mom and 319 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: I had a friend who left my literal baby announcement 320 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: on red. She could have just hearted the photo, give 321 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: me a little bread crumb of friendship, but no acknowledgement whatsoever. 322 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: My baby is now eight weeks old and I still 323 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: haven't heard from her. Where's the line where we have 324 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: to give grace to our friends, knowing they may struggle 325 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: with be overwhelmed by time blindness, decision fatigued, while also 326 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: respecting yourself. You deserve to have friends to show up 327 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: for you and want to make you feel loved and 328 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: that your news matters. Would love to hear any thoughts 329 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: or advice you have when it comes to navigating texting 330 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: relationships with friends. Love you, guys from Ray. 331 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 2: I am offended that I'm being compared to the eye 332 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: am inspiring the thought process of the friend who didn't 333 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 2: even acknowledge the baby announcement. 334 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 3: You know, I, even though I read a lot, you 335 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 3: are left on red a lot, but not for important things. 336 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: I think Tiny's definition of important things is different than yours. 337 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's timeline, and I guarantee if I did a 338 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 2: poll on what important things or we know where. 339 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 4: There's a fine line. 340 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: But I would never leave you on red for a 341 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: baby announcement or a big life event as such. If 342 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 2: you go, guess what and I don't respond because I 343 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: know you'll go. 344 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 3: When you're something crazy. I knew my period was coming 345 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 3: this month, and it came. It came on the day 346 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:25,400 Speaker 3: that I was feeling that story. Okay, very impressing anyway, 347 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 3: like leaving you on. 348 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 4: Red for that is fair saying I could see you 349 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 4: leaving me on red for like saying I'm pregnant or 350 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 4: something that is such a. 351 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 3: Bull and you're just trying to get me fired up. 352 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 4: No, because if I said it in like that way, 353 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 4: if I said, like a guess what, and then you 354 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 4: would just like leave me hanging there, and then I 355 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 4: would never pay it off because you would never ask 356 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 4: me what. 357 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: You would never give me a guess what for a 358 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 2: pregnancy announcement. 359 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 3: You never know, And don't take advantage of me. 360 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: Don't be boy who cried wolf, because if you keep 361 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 2: going guess what, guess what, and I keep answering and 362 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 2: it's still period things, it is going to get left 363 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 2: on red because you took advantage of my curiosity. 364 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 4: All I'm saying is Ray, I understand you. 365 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, ray, this this is not her friend. 366 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: And whether if you want to know why she's not 367 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,359 Speaker 2: responsive or say like, hey, I don't know if you 368 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: have things going on in your life, but it hurt 369 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 2: my feelings that I, you know, told you something that's 370 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,240 Speaker 2: so exciting and meaningful and you didn't respond. I think 371 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 2: that's a valid conversation to have. And if she doesn't 372 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 2: respond to that, then it's time to say friends for 373 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 2: a season and a reason. 374 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:42,000 Speaker 3: What are you smiling about? 375 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,879 Speaker 4: There's two paths you can take with my God. The 376 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 4: one beca is saying where you can head on, hey, like, 377 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,160 Speaker 4: have a conversationalization, which I have done with you before. 378 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 3: Yes, and it works. Yes. 379 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,640 Speaker 4: However, passive aggressiveness also works, Tonya. 380 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 3: This is a bad habit that you don't need to 381 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 3: give advice on it to share on. 382 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 2: You need to work through it yourself, and we don't 383 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 2: need other people to be. 384 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 3: Being passive aggressive. 385 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 4: Sometimes it works so aggressive, I don't know, because she's 386 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 4: not really giving you much to work with here. So 387 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 4: sometimes when Becca's being silent, I'll give her the silent 388 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 4: treatment back. 389 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, it doesn't do anything for me. I just I 390 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 2: just know, and I'm like, oh, she's mad, all right, 391 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 2: I have to get in her good graces again. 392 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 4: And then and then we suddenly end up at dinner. 393 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, so it works. 394 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 4: All I'm saying. Ray two paths. 395 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 2: I think you have a conversation. Let her know that 396 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 2: that hurt your feelings and that you can understand that 397 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 2: she has things going on, but for big life events, 398 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: you know you want her to be excited and. 399 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 4: Maybe send it again double text, riple text, who cares? 400 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: Or just move on? Can just move on? 401 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 4: Well, if it's a really good friend, my best friend. 402 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 1: How good a friend is this? If she ignores your 403 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 1: birth announcement, live your life? 404 00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 4: What is a birth announcement? 405 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 3: I think saying I'm pregnant, showing a photo. 406 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 4: Of your baby on the message. 407 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, look I had my baby. Imagine you sent me 408 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 3: I had my baby. Imagine I wouldn't know. 409 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 4: You're taking pictures in the room. 410 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah we can't relate because I'll be in the room 411 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 2: my baby out. 412 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 3: Okay, wes that? 413 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 2: But Ray, I think a true she's not a true friend, 414 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 2: and I think, GUF, she's someone you need that you 415 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 2: really want your life, then you have a conversation. If 416 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 2: she's someone that you're okay not having in your life, 417 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 2: you move on. 418 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 3: That's my advice. You deserve. We're so happy for Send 419 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 3: us a photo of the baby. 420 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 4: I want to see a baby eight week old baby. 421 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 3: Oh so good? Yeah, send her over him. 422 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 1: Her they the boy girl didn't say Jazzy, says Hi, 423 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 1: Becca Easton, Tanya and Mark? Could you have Easton all right? 424 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: I'm meaning to I didn't ask this question that pops 425 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: in my mind. I started listening to the podcast after 426 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 1: the official Becca and Haley relationship reveal. I've listened to 427 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: most episodes since then, have occasionally listened to older episodes. 428 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: Did I miss the conversation about when Mark and Easton 429 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: found out about Becca and Haley dating and what their 430 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 1: reaction was Listening to some mentions of Haley before the 431 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 1: ninety five p nickname from some of the eighteen nineteen episodes, 432 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 1: They say or ask things that make me think they 433 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 1: didn't know. Also, after listening to the recent episode, Rebecca 434 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: casually mentions Haley's mom being a figure skating choreographer. Trailblazer 435 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 1: icon Z Sarah Kawahara is an O G modern woman. 436 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: Can we get her on the pod? She's a legend. 437 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: We'd love to hear her thoughts on the American skaters 438 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: and all her personal career accomplishments. PS. It was me 439 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 1: asking if we were getting trolled about the jingle ha 440 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: ha ha. Love you guys. Maybe it's time to phone 441 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 1: a friend or fiance. Love the podcast. Thanks for being 442 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: so gracious and positive with the feedback you get from listeners. 443 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: We want the podcast to be as impactful in the 444 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: podcast world as it is to scrubbers. Thank you guys. 445 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 2: That's so nice. Yeah, Haley's mom is a legend. She's 446 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 2: like if you mentioned her in the ice skating world, 447 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 2: everyone knows her. 448 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,120 Speaker 3: It's pretty crazy and it's really cool. 449 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 2: It was fun because, like we watch a lot of 450 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 2: the Winter Olympics ice skating and it was fun to 451 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 2: like watch. 452 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 3: Them with her and hear her opinions on everything. I 453 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 3: try to get her on. 454 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 4: The plus see if she's available for the podcater on 455 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 4: the schedule, get on the books. 456 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah wait, I feel like y'all knew quite early on 457 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 2: about me and Haley. 458 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 459 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 5: My favorite moment from that was if you go back 460 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 5: and listen to this was so early. It was just 461 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 5: you and I and we're interviewing the people from the sandlot. 462 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I remember that. 463 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a lot of fun. But you had 464 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 5: gone on tour with Haley at that point, uh huh, 465 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 5: and you were telling and you're like, yeah, I got 466 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 5: to sleep on the bus. It was so cool, and 467 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 5: I was like, wow, how cool. What a good friend 468 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 5: to have. And I had no idea. 469 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:58,879 Speaker 3: I wonder when that was. That must have been like 470 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 3: really early, because in my mind, I felt like y'all 471 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 3: knew within the first few months. 472 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: I remember a stretch of knowing you were dating someone 473 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: but not knowing who. I don't remember that happening, but 474 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: maybe it did. 475 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:09,400 Speaker 4: Oh you always know, was Haley. 476 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 3: That's I'm saying. I don't think I was ever dating 477 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 3: someone Like. 478 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 2: I don't think I ever talked about dating someone without 479 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 2: y'all knowing that who It was. 480 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 1: Right, because we kind of had to know so we 481 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: could avoid pronouns. 482 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 4: And that was the biggest challenge Ricky as. 483 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,719 Speaker 3: We did it for years, almost four years. 484 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 5: So it was June twenty eighteen, was that Sandlot? 485 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah. 486 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,479 Speaker 2: I feel like y'all may have found out in like July, 487 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 2: because that was when she performed with Taylor Swift and. 488 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 3: I came home from it and I think I was 489 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 3: I don't know, I was upset about something and I 490 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 3: feel like I. 491 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 2: Told y'all about it because I remember crying and I 492 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,199 Speaker 2: was like I was like having a hard time, and 493 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 2: I was. I think I told y'all about it that time, 494 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 2: so I feel like from twenty eighteen y'all knew. 495 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like when you were telling people, you 496 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 4: were telling people it. 497 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 3: Was bad reaction. 498 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 2: So I think I would come in as like comfort 499 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 2: from y'all. Like I think I told y'all like knowing 500 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: that y'all were going to be supportive, and so it 501 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 2: was like a comfort to tell y'all. I never felt 502 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 2: like the people that were consistently in my life had 503 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 2: I hid it from anyone. I don't know what I'm 504 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 2: saying either, but yeah, we did the pronoun thing for 505 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 2: long years. 506 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta be careful because by avoiding the pronoun, 507 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: you can draw attention to the fact that you're avoiding 508 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 1: a pronoun to I just have to be so careful. 509 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: Every story I. 510 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 3: Told I was like restructuring the sentence you. 511 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 4: Any time I asked you anything, it was like, I 512 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 4: was that was hard on my brain. 513 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, everyone. 514 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 4: That for four years. 515 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we'd do it for ninety five p didn't 516 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 2: it start till twenty twenty, which is when we did 517 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 2: the live show. 518 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 4: And then we just started calling Haley ninety five p Yeah, which. 519 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,960 Speaker 2: Was the first time we kind of started talking about it. 520 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I remember, yeah that he I'm just looking back 521 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 5: at my notes. I have notes from August thirty first, 522 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 5: twenty twenty, and there's like five different pronoun moments and 523 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 5: then part like, Jesus is this is so hardout pronounce. 524 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: It was? 525 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 3: It was a challenge. So I really thank y'all for that. 526 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think you we also want the podcast 527 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 2: to be as impactful in the podcast the world. 528 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 3: As it is to you all. Yes, we just hear 529 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: about y'all, so we want you all to be happy. 530 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 3: That's this. It's just funny that this whole dear Bonia 531 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 3: thing that I started the episode saying, like they don't 532 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 3: want from the script. 533 00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 4: It's a real three sixty for Jazzy. 534 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, Jazzy, I hear you and I see you. Okay. 535 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 2: I like this question about bot mitzvah questions because I 536 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 2: don't know much about I'm learning through you. 537 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you just found out what Shabbat was, which was, yeah, 538 00:24:59,200 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 4: so interesting. 539 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 2: So it's crazy because I grew up in the South obviously, 540 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 2: and I was not surrounded by many Jewish people at all, 541 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 2: so I know nothing about like I really only knew 542 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 2: about my beliefs and my culture. 543 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 3: And like that was it. 544 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 2: So then when I moved out here, I started meeting 545 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 2: people obviously from like all different walks of life and 546 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 2: beliefs and cultures. And then Haley and I were talking 547 00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 2: about it, and She's like, almost all my friends growing. 548 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 3: Up were Jewish. 549 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,399 Speaker 2: So I went to all the bar mitzvahs and bot mitzvahs, 550 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 2: and like, she knows everything in the Jewish culture. 551 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 3: So I feel like I'm like learning. 552 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 4: Like you I grew up. I mean, I guess where 553 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 4: I grew up in Orange County. I didn't really grow 554 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 4: up with many Jewish people at my high school. Yeah, 555 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 4: so I never went to a bought mitzvah until recently 556 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 4: as an adult. 557 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: Well, I Wisconsin. I grew up in Monona, Wisconsin, and no, 558 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: not only were they no Jewish people, like I heard 559 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: about Jewish people, but it seemed like this far away 560 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: things like interact with Jewish people. Well, that's like the 561 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: other side of the world thing. And then I went 562 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: to college in Madison, which is literally eight miles from Monona, 563 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 1: and a huge population of the University of Wisconsin is 564 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 1: Jewish and that that was my education. That's when I 565 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 1: learned I can count to tend in Hebrew. I learned 566 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 1: very much. No, thanks to my friend Josh. 567 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 4: You best believe I'm going to be going to a 568 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,959 Speaker 4: little taking some lessons with a rabbi. 569 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just love it. I love like I love this. 570 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 2: Email from the scrubber because I love people wanting to 571 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 2: expose their kids to other religions and cultures, because the 572 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 2: world makes up so many different belief systems, and it's 573 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 2: like to only know or like learn about your own 574 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:47,880 Speaker 2: is so limiting for yourself. 575 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 3: So I love that. Well, you can go ahead and 576 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 3: read that. 577 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: Sure. Thank you so much, Kristin, Banya and Marston on 578 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: this one, thank you so much. This is more of 579 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: a fun question for Tanya. My son's invited to a 580 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: bought mitzvah. I'm so excited I did for him to 581 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: be exposed to other religions and traditions, but we have 582 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: never been to anything like this. Instead of asking shat GPT, 583 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: I was hoping Ton you could give me some tips. 584 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 1: What does you wear? What kind of a gift does 585 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: he give to her? What is the evening like? Any 586 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,120 Speaker 1: info you give can be helpful. Thank you so much. 587 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:14,719 Speaker 1: It's Kristin. 588 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,719 Speaker 4: So I wouldn't consider myself an expert considering I'm rk. 589 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 4: You might know more considering I've only been to a handful, 590 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 4: but i'd say what your son should wear. I think 591 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 4: most of the kids I see they wear like buttoned 592 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 4: downs and slacks and like, you know, maybe sneakers or 593 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 4: nice shoes, like more, you know, a little more dressed up. 594 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 4: In terms of a gift, we always just give like cash, 595 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 4: I think is that and like a little bit more 596 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 4: than you would give than like a birthday gift, you 597 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 4: know what I mean, like a little bit more than 598 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 4: you would give for like a gift, because this is 599 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 4: like the big birthday, you know, and then uh, what 600 00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 4: is the evening? Like it could be? I mean I've 601 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 4: been to some that are like near pond and water, 602 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 4: and then I've been to some that are like dance 603 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,160 Speaker 4: parties like glow sticks and like the people that are 604 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 4: you know, like like total just dance parties. Yeah, so 605 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 4: I don't really know. I mean I think it just 606 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 4: depends on like the family. 607 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's all it's a party, right, It's not 608 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,040 Speaker 2: like serious. Once you get to the party. 609 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 4: There's like a ceremony portion and then there's like a 610 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 4: party portion. Yeah, kind of like a wedding. Oh, like 611 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 4: that's the reception kind of. 612 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 613 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 4: And they're often as expensive as a wedding too, Yeah, 614 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 4: depending on like some like some can be like very. 615 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 1: Big, big deal big deals. But I think the over 616 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: arching concept of this conversation we're having is it is 617 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: great to learn about these other cultures because that's the 618 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: issues of the world in a nutshell. In my opinion 619 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: is that you know, when I was growing up, people 620 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: don't there are people who don't celebrate Christmas. That was 621 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: so weird to me. And that's weird. Those people are weird, 622 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: and then you meet them, like, oh, they're people like me, 623 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,959 Speaker 1: and we all like similar things and we're all similar ale. 624 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, And you know what's actually I didn't know much 625 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 4: about like the Jewish holidays, and like they're very like 626 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 4: there's some that are so meaningful and sweet and they're 627 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 4: all about like just like bringing your family together at 628 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 4: the end of the day, you know. So I really 629 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 4: I love the Jewish holidays. 630 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say. A lot of it 631 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 2: when I've asked Tanya about it. It's like, it's about 632 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 2: togetherness and being together with your family and the people 633 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 2: you love. 634 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 3: And I'm like, how it's beautiful. 635 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I love I love people exposing it's 636 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 2: it's it's a It only benefits your child to expose 637 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 2: them to more, otherwise they grow up like me, and 638 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 2: they're like. 639 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 3: What, all right? Shall we finish the episode? 640 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 1: I think we should take a break and notice on 641 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: the birthday game. I'm on it. Let's do it. 642 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 6: Coming up next, we're back, no competition, none. 643 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: Before we get to the birthday game, the celebrity whatever 644 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: birthday game, Anika says, Dear Becca, Tanya, Mark, and Easton. 645 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: I thought you'd find this funny. On Valentine's Day, my 646 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I worked together. He drove me up to 647 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: Tahoe to skew with my cousin and he hiked around 648 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: there with his brother. We said Happy Valentine's Day, but 649 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: that was it. No cars, no present, no nothing. We've 650 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 1: been together for five years. We have the best relationship. 651 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: He's very kind and thoughtful and sweet. Flash forward to 652 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: me listening to the podcast when you guys were talking 653 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: about that, even a card or flowers, it's all that's needed. 654 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: I was folding laundry and he came in and he 655 00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: was listening as well. Easton said the guys should do 656 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: something at the bare minimum. My boy headford really bad 657 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: and said, did you play this for me? And we 658 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: were both cracking out. The next day, I came home 659 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: with it to a card, a full weekend of plans 660 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: for a late Valentine's Day weekend. Thank you all for 661 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: the little push. Love you guys, And I'm a day 662 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: one scrubber. You might remember me. I was the one 663 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: who wrote in early who wrote in early on asking 664 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: you to harmonize for Becca, back when you were the 665 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: code for every commercial. 666 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 2: Wow, I'm still it should be scrubbing. 667 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 1: It's scrubbing. 668 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, we love that. I love that. I just want 669 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 3: to give her an a plug. 670 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 4: But I'd also like to point out that she said 671 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 4: he did nothing for her originally. I know she's still happy. 672 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 3: She is happy, but she said thanks for the push, 673 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 3: which means she she did want it deep down, just 674 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 3: saying Tonya's still hanging She's rolling down, but she's hanging on. Wait. Okay. 675 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 2: Also, the last the cat the girl that had the 676 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 2: scary cats into photo and it is the cutest I know. 677 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 4: It's sow. 678 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 3: It looks like the cat from a Shrek. 679 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 5: Ess. 680 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 3: There's no evil, I know. 681 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 4: The fact that this cat is so mean to people 682 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 4: makes me like. 683 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 2: It was so funny watching picturing the scene of people 684 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,240 Speaker 2: running and hitting their head and falling downstairs. 685 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 3: Though from this cat, it makes it even funnier. 686 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 4: Matt Matt Matt Mark told me today that he thinks 687 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 4: I was a cat in a former life. 688 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: I didn't. That was somebody else that said that I 689 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: didn't want you tag team. I tag teamed, Yes. 690 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 3: He said. I won't deny that. Yeah. I was like, 691 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 3: excuse me, that makes sense, but not. 692 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 1: Sicany said it because I was on my computer and 693 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: you were hovering next to me at a closer than 694 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,440 Speaker 1: normal human distance. And I don't even think I was 695 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: looking something up for you. You were just watching what 696 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: I was doing on my laptop. 697 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 4: I was curious. 698 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: Great, All right, are you ready for our little birthday 699 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 1: game action here? Yes, a week for birthdays here in 700 00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: the world that we live in. All right, let's begin. 701 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: You want to play Easton? 702 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:05,719 Speaker 2: Oh? 703 00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 5: Yes, I would? 704 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: All right, right, then we will start with Tanya on 705 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: this first round. Here we go putting my score sheet together, Tanya. 706 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: How old is bad Bunny this week? Bad Bunny as 707 00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: a birthday? 708 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 4: Bad Bunny is thirty four? 709 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 1: He's thirty four. Well he's not so Becca, How old 710 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: do you think he is turning? 711 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 3: He is thirty two? 712 00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: He is thirty two? Very nice, And that's how this 713 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,080 Speaker 1: game usually goes. And we don't even get to Easton 714 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,760 Speaker 1: on that one. Becca will start with you on this one. 715 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: Carrie Underwood has a birthday this week? How old is 716 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 1: she turned on this Oh? 717 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 3: I would say Carrie Underwood is. 718 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 1: Forty two, forty two? No Easton thirty seven, thirty seven, Tanya? 719 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 4: She is forty three, Yes, very nice. 720 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: Very good. She is turning forty three currently forty two. Easton, 721 00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: We start with you on this one. How old is 722 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 1: John hamm turning? This week? We all love John Ham? 723 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 5: John Ham is fifty one, not fifty. 724 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 4: One, Tanya, fifty five? 725 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: Fifty five, Yes, he's fifty. 726 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 4: Five because he seems younger. 727 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 1: That goals for John Ham. All right, back to you, Tanya. 728 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,120 Speaker 1: Jack Harlowe has a birthday this week? How old is 729 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 1: Jack Harlow? 730 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 4: I think he was young when he found success, So 731 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 4: I'm gonna guess twenty nine. 732 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: Twenty nine. 733 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,400 Speaker 3: Becka, I'm gonna say twenty seven. 734 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,760 Speaker 1: Twenty seven Easton twenty six, twenty six. He is twenty 735 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:36,359 Speaker 1: eighth tie between you two, but Becca, Tanya went over, 736 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: So Beca gets the point and we are tied at. 737 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 3: Chris is right right, Rice is right. Rules. 738 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: This is right, but only as a tie record. That's 739 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: the price is right rules coming to play? All right, Becca, 740 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 1: We go to you now for Olivia Dan no banks 741 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 1: to star up and coming. 742 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 4: She was up and came, okay, man I need. 743 00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: Olivia Dean has a birthday this week? How old is 744 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 1: she turning? Becca, I just feel oh not twenty five? Easton? 745 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 4: Guess though, Olivia Dean. 746 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 5: Yes, Olivia Dean, she's twenty two. 747 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 4: No, Tanya, I'm gonna say twenty seven. 748 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: She is turning twenty yes, help, thank you. Tanya is 749 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 1: one correct answer away from winning this game. This is 750 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,240 Speaker 1: a big and we are starting with Easton on this one. Easton. 751 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 1: Will I am has a birthday this week? Will I 752 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,280 Speaker 1: am from the Black Eyed Seas? How old is will 753 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: i am turning? 754 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 5: Let's get it started. Will i Am is fifty four. 755 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:41,759 Speaker 1: Fifty four, Tanya fifty six fifty six Beca fifty one 756 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: fifty one is correct? Time the game. Three for Tanya, 757 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,280 Speaker 1: three for Becca, none for Easton. 758 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,320 Speaker 4: Could you get three August seven? 759 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 1: One more? We have one more for you. I'm gonna 760 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: make it a good one, all right. Here we go 761 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: coming up this week we have a birthday four Eva Longoria. 762 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: Eva Longoria has a birthday this weekend. How old is 763 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: she turning? And for this one we go to Tanya 764 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 1: to begin. And this one should decided, might not, but 765 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 1: should forty five forty five for Eva Longoria. We go 766 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: to Beccatilly now forty seven, Easton forty three this weekend. 767 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: Whether we have a winner, it has been determined the winner. 768 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:36,959 Speaker 1: This will decide it this weekend. Eva Jacqueline Longoria, bath 769 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: Stone on Sunday, turns fifty one years old. 770 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 3: Becca, your winner, Longoria, we weren't even clad. Mostly con 771 00:36:54,640 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 3: runs to her. Yeah, Clo, shoot next time. 772 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 1: And you knew Carrie Underwood, so one of them was 773 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: a layup for you. And still the Angels. 774 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 4: Why do you like to play the game is a 775 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,879 Speaker 4: little joy? Okay, okay, yeah. 776 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,960 Speaker 3: Well that's all for now, folks. But don't worry, don't worry, 777 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 3: don't worry. 778 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 2: We're not We're not we because one thing we are 779 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 2: is consistent. 780 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,439 Speaker 4: For nine years, half and half half. 781 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, long show, short shows, it doesn't matter. It's consistent. 782 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, we got shows. We got shows in different area code. 783 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 3: I don't know what's on your area. 784 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 2: We got shows, the multiplying and. 785 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: Control. 786 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 3: All right, Well, we'll be back Monday. We love you 787 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 3: so much. 788 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,840 Speaker 1: Have a great b