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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome the Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Joe and

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Speaker 1: I'm Serena, and we are here with the lovely Caitlin Bristole.

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Speaker 1: Did callout your name collect correctly?

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Speaker 2: Joe? I can't with you? Are you now? Are you

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Speaker 2: doing that on purpose?

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Speaker 1: Why? Because because you do it to me?

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Speaker 2: Because no, no, because you would think you would think

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Speaker 2: this many years into our friendship. You could pronounce my

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Speaker 2: last name?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I I uh, okay, this is actually we did

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Speaker 1: do another podcast.

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Speaker 3: The answer is no, he can't pronounce your last name Bristol.

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Speaker 2: It's just Bristol. Why are you making it weird? If

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Speaker 2: she gets I think it's my accent, it actually could be.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Caitlin Bristown.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so we are. Actually we did another podcast recently

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Speaker 1: with Chicks in the Office. So we were like, on

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Speaker 1: a scale of one through ten, your best friend, you're doing.

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Speaker 3: This again, okay, go go go.

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Speaker 1: So your your absolute best friend in life is a ten? Right?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Where would you place our friendship on the on the

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Speaker 1: on the friendship marker?

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Speaker 2: You know, my best friend in the world being a ten? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I would give you like a like a like a

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Speaker 2: hard five.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's I respect that, and that's I I agree.

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Speaker 1: I think I think I would give also give you.

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Speaker 1: I was actually probably gonna go six, but whatever I would.

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Speaker 2: Say, I was thinking six. That's why I said hard five,

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, I would give it a soft six.

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Speaker 2: Hard five.

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Speaker 1: That's fair? Yeah, almost, like yes, like we're trending towards

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Speaker 1: a six. Who knows what the next years are gonna

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Speaker 1: are gonna hold, but right now we're at a heart Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's that's right.

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Speaker 2: It depends on how you behave Yeah, yeah, what.

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Speaker 1: Are your thoughts over there, Serta.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm aligned. I'm aligned with the hard five.

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Speaker 2: I'm aligned.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So what else, Caitlyn? Anything anything new?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't think I can say it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've something so exciting to share. I'm on the last

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Speaker 2: day of negotiation, so something exciting coming up that I

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Speaker 2: will be filming soon.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Uh, any we just saw what do we see?

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Speaker 1: What do we see? For you? You've got a lot

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Speaker 1: going on.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, sad about the oilers.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, don't don't bring it up. No

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Speaker 2: we could. I'm very proud of the oilers. I'm like

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Speaker 2: that was such an overwhelming experience because I had the

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Speaker 2: opportunity to, of course, like go as an influencer, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, I want to pay.

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Speaker 2: I want to be right behind the team's bench. I

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Speaker 2: want to like make eye contact and be like Connor,

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Speaker 2: you got.

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Speaker 3: This, and I want to like be I just and

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Speaker 3: I didn't your see your spirts? They were so good.

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Speaker 2: They were bananas. I'm totally canal, but it was I mean,

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Speaker 2: it would have been really worth it if they won,

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Speaker 2: but they didn't. It was very sad, but it was

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Speaker 2: such a cool experience because they just had that was

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Speaker 2: just a wild series and the comeback was great. And

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Speaker 2: I don't know if Bachelor of Nation fans that are

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Speaker 2: listening to this are in hockey, but my gosh, I

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Speaker 2: like I thought I was going to have a heart attack.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you Canadians, you just it's hard for

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Speaker 1: you guys to land the Stanley Cup.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's like over thirty years ninety three? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Was it was it the was it the Maple Leafs

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Speaker 1: that won in ninety three or Vietna? Was it Vancouver?

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Speaker 2: I actually don't recall. I don't know, you know that

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Speaker 2: I should know that but I don't remember.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Calgary, We don't know.

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Speaker 2: It was definitely not count definitely don't count about that.

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Speaker 3: It would have been Vancouver, Toronto or Edmonton, but I

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Speaker 3: don't think it was Whinton. Well it was Montreal. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I forgot about them.

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Speaker 1: This is not this is not a sports podcast. Okay, no, okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get to it. So we have been recapping former

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Speaker 1: leads night ones and we just did yours, which was like,

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Speaker 1: just the premise of having two leads and one of

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Speaker 1: them being eliminated that first night is just so wild.

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Speaker 4: So can you take us back to like, did you

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Speaker 4: so when you got cast it as the Bachelorette?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that you were one of two?

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Speaker 2: They kind of delivered it. They delivered it to me

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Speaker 2: in a very interesting way because I never in my

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Speaker 2: life thought I would ever be the kind of girl

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Speaker 2: that they would cast for Bachelorette. I always thought it

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Speaker 2: was like, you know, girl next door, like America's sweetheart,

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Speaker 2: not like this Canadian who can't reel in her emotions.

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Speaker 2: So I was very shocked at all to even be considered.

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Speaker 2: And so when they ended up picking me, it was,

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Speaker 2: as you know him obviously very well and he picks

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Speaker 2: me up for coffee and he goes, I have good

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Speaker 2: news and bad news. What do you want to hear first?

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Speaker 2: And I was like just whatever, order just tell me

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Speaker 2: and he goes, so you're you are the bachelorette and

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Speaker 2: I was like okay, and I was like, what could

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Speaker 2: the bad news be?

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Speaker 3: He goes, You're also like, why are you telling me

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Speaker 3: this like in a Starbucks? Like something's weird here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like why. He like took me for

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Speaker 2: coffee and then we brought it down by the beach.

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Speaker 2: Like I was like, this feels very serious, and he

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Speaker 2: was like, yeah, the bad news is so is brit

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Speaker 2: and I for two seconds I just went okay, and

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Speaker 2: then I was like no, no, and then I just

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Speaker 2: burst into tears as I do. And uh, I was

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Speaker 2: just like that feels so wrong that like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be pit against another woman. And at the time,

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Speaker 2: like it was she like she was the girl in

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Speaker 2: the house that everyone was like, she's perfect, She's like

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Speaker 2: the A ten, she's so pretty, she's so nice, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, the guys are gonna love her over me,

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Speaker 2: and it was like made me so insecure, But it

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Speaker 2: ended up being in the long run, which we'll get

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Speaker 2: it to such a cool experience and a blessing not

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Speaker 2: only because I got picked, but it actually shifted something

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Speaker 2: to my brain to turn it into a positive like

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Speaker 2: of women supporting women and not hating on her or

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Speaker 2: comparing myself to her. And it was a really like

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Speaker 2: pivotal moment in my life.

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Speaker 1: So what was what was the social media space like?

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Speaker 1: Because you said like people were like, oh, Britt, you're

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Speaker 1: You're the greatest. But was there? Yeah, what was social

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Speaker 1: media like? Were people talking about it? Where people talking

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Speaker 1: about the show?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It was so social media was when I was on

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Speaker 2: Crystal Season. It was really when Instagram became a thing.

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Speaker 2: And I remember watching my followers just like quadruple all

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Speaker 2: the time and going like what does this mean? Like

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Speaker 2: it didn't even phase me because I was like, I

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Speaker 2: don't know what is Instagram going to do for me?

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Speaker 3: And what am I supposed to do with this? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: other than like cool people want to follow me?

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Speaker 2: I was like this will either be gone in like

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Speaker 2: a few months or I don't know. I didn't know

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Speaker 2: what to think. But I remember it just growing and

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Speaker 2: growing and then getting offered money from it, and I

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Speaker 2: was saying people online were like a little bit torn

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Speaker 2: between Britt and I. But I actually got a lot

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Speaker 2: of support in that time from the internet. I think

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Speaker 2: people were like craving something different from the show. And

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Speaker 2: but then you had like your loyal Bachelor nation who

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Speaker 2: really loves the girl next door, which kind of was

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Speaker 2: what she was, but yeah, it was it was a

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Speaker 2: kind of split, and it was more of like us

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Speaker 2: girls in the house in the Bachelor mansion that were like,

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Speaker 2: how is she so pretty and sweet? And like we

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Speaker 2: were all like, she's going to be the bachelorette, but

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Speaker 2: then she got eliminated kind of early, and so we

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Speaker 2: didn't think that was an option after that.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, well we go ahead through you.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: I was just gonna say, like, I guess that's kind

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Speaker 3: of why they went with it with you too as well,

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Speaker 3: because like you are both like your simile and says

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Speaker 3: you were both like beautiful burnettes, but like because you

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Speaker 3: were different, that's what made it interesting. Of like if

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Speaker 3: everyone I just really loved one of you like that

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Speaker 3: wouldn't have worked. It would have just been awkward. There

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Speaker 3: had to been like some like okay, like people want

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Speaker 3: to Caitlin or Britt, Like who's it going to be?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And also it was so like with who they cast,

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Speaker 2: you know, like usually they will cast for the Bachelorette

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Speaker 2: for their type, with people that they would like. And

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Speaker 2: so when I was sitting down on night one with

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Speaker 2: so many of the guys, I was like, this really

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Speaker 2: seems like they're here for me and not her. And

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Speaker 2: I couldn't really compare myself to her because we are

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Speaker 3: It, right, Like if they're into her, they're probably not

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Speaker 3: going to be into me, and I exactly not going

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Speaker 3: to be into them, because like we're just sting people.

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Speaker 1: Well we when we were watching it, I even told

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Speaker 1: Sarna'm like, just the way Britt was talking, I would

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, they're they're going with her, right. I

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Speaker 1: in no offense to her by any means, but I

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Speaker 1: would be like, they should go with this Caitlin, because

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Speaker 1: because it was she was giving, she was giving more

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Speaker 1: of the stereoterial type totally.

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Speaker 3: She's when they had always gone with like that kind

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Speaker 2: She's definitely the safe, the safe choice, and I was

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Speaker 3: My biggest question the whole time I was watching this

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Speaker 3: was did they have you guys like film your promos,

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Speaker 3: do your photo shoots, do your fittings, like do all

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Speaker 3: the full season prep? And like was that really bittersweet?

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like I wouldn't be able to enjoy it.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, this is making me want to get

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Speaker 3: because then if it just gets like ripped away from me.

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Speaker 3: I have all these like beautiful dresses that like, I know,

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Speaker 3: I don't get to wear.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, like it was a roller coaster. I really

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Speaker 2: really tried to be like, Okay, I'm doing this with

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Speaker 2: a friend because we got along. We got along really well,

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Speaker 2: so we tried. Yeah, we got along, and so we

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Speaker 2: kept trying to like it was still awkward and it

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Speaker 2: who's it going to be? It was more uncomfortable than anything.

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Speaker 2: But I kept trying to be like okay instead of

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Speaker 2: being selfish and being like this should be me, and

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Speaker 2: I wish I was doing this by myself and getting excited.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I get to do this with a friend,

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Speaker 2: and let's just treat it like like two friends doing

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Speaker 2: something crazy in their life and who knows how it's

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Speaker 2: No, because then I was like, who are these mother

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Speaker 3: I literally said like I can't really shouldn't walk back

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Speaker 2: Did you have They were all like, oh, oh, I'd

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Speaker 3: You were a brit boy, weren't you. Did you ever

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: They like they're showing people say like oh, I think

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Speaker 3: You didn't even vote for me. You want to be

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, didn't you vote for Brett? So that's enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was very fo that would have been what

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Speaker 2: It's exactly what Jared did. Jared was so cute and

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, that's so honest, And I

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Speaker 3: Was it harder for you to lean into the guys

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Speaker 2: No, my sick little brain wanted them more.

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Speaker 1: I actually I actually get that that I can actually

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Speaker 2: What I wait, I'm going to show.

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Speaker 3: You in love with me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah I was, but you didn't want me. Well, now

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Speaker 4: What about the approach what about the approach of I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if they were, she seemed brilliant to me, like

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Speaker 2: I would have lived for the honesty. I anyone that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay and cool and that makes sense. I believe

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Speaker 3: Just doesn't think you're lying, You're wondering, just to.

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Speaker 1: Let you know. Do you look looking back on your

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: What really like stands out to you any any moments.

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Speaker 2: I think like how instantaneous my connection was with Sean

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Speaker 1: That yeah, I wish they, like, if anything, like they

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Speaker 3: Like consolation prize. Yeah, but just yeah, I'm sure to

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Speaker 2: I'll never forget Ryan McDill, who was like the wasted

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Speaker 3: He was so he left your ass.

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Speaker 2: He slapped my ass, which was so terrible, and I

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Speaker 3: He was funny until he's like he had like funny drunk,

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Speaker 2: It was like, okay, like it was giving. It was giving,

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Speaker 2: I was like, why didn't I keep him? Because even

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Speaker 3: was probably just a lot of like Okay, like this

439
00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 3: person's cool, I'm down to like hang out with that,

440
00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,399
Speaker 3: Like this person's a kid, you can go home. You

441
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 3: want voted for Brett, you're out?

442
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly. It was. That was a really easy out.

443
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: I remember one guy voted for Britt and I didn't

444
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 2: want to kiss him, and he like went in like

445
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks in and I was like, you know, yeah,

446
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,120
Speaker 2: still not over it. You voted for Britt. I can't

447
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 2: do it yet.

448
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, I guess.

449
00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

450
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 1: That is a that is a positive thing. That's it's

451
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 1: an easy out. It's it's definitely an easy out.

452
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, you talked to Britt, Like when you got your

453
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,600
Speaker 3: phone back, did you reach out to her at all

454
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 3: or did she reach out to you?

455
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, because we had to do a bunch of

456
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 2: press together. So we ended up, Yeah, we talked, and

457
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 2: then a couple of years later we ended up doing

458
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,320
Speaker 2: a podcast together that was really fun. And then she

459
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,280
Speaker 2: unfollowed me on social media and I was like okay,

460
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 2: and so I'm like, oh, I guess we're not friends anymore.

461
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,199
Speaker 2: But you know what I do an unfollowed clean up

462
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,040
Speaker 2: all the time of like, you know, if you just

463
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 2: maybe don't talk to that person anymore, connect with them.

464
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 2: She's in a total different place in her life. I

465
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: Mean I always joke like, who really won at the

466
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 2: end of the day. Britt one. She's married with two kids,

467
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 2: and I'm still single engaged twice, Like who really won here?

468
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: You're doing just bying Caitlin.

469
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's my joke. It's my joke.

470
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 3: But yeah. One of my best friends does like a

471
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: social media cleanse every year where she's just like, yeah,

472
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 3: like I don't talk to this person and so long,

473
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 3: like she's like, I just she's not a big social

474
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 3: media girl, so she really just likes to keep it

475
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: like contained, and like one year she's like, yeah, I

476
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 3: went a little too ham with the unfollows to the

477
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 3: point where I was like getting messages and she's like, damn,

478
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 3: like I need to Like she's like I got trigger

479
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 3: finger happy and was just like unfollow and follow and follow,

480
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: and she's like I had like two or three people

481
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 3: messaged me and be like are we okay? Like I

482
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: saw him and followed me, and she just was like

483
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 3: I just chalked it up to an accident, like I

484
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 3: probably shouldn't have unfollowed them.

485
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,159
Speaker 2: I've already thought about my excuses if people call me

486
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 2: out for like I'll be like, oh, my my assistant

487
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 2: she must have hit that. Yeah, yeah I got hacked.

488
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 1: It's not even more honestly that you might having the conversation.

489
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: It makes it not even worthy. Just keep the fall

490
00:22:55,400 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: just like it, just simply Okay. So we got a

491
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: new new season of The Bachelorette coming up.

492
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 3: The lead is not you, but it is gen clarifying.

493
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 1: What are your people? What are your what are your

494
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: thoughts on Jen? And any advice?

495
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: So I got to interview Jen. That podcast will come

496
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 2: out when her season starts airing, So I actually got

497
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 2: to know her better than probably most of America watching uh,

498
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 2: and I just adore her. I think she's really cool

499
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: to see somebody that is so willing to lean into

500
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 2: not knowing who they are and work through that on

501
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 2: national television. And I feel like she's really going to

502
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 2: lean into that growth and like we'll see the evolution

503
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 2: of her. I think it's cool that she gets to

504
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 2: be a role model. She was saying that, you know,

505
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 2: she didn't get to grow up watching people that look

506
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 2: like her in these kinds of roles. I'm excited for

507
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: her to be able to do that. I feel like

508
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: she is. She's really an intelligent, beautiful, kind, sweet soul,

509
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 2: and I am really excited for everyone else to kind

510
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 2: of get to know her better because we obviously didn't

511
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: get that chance on the last season, so I'm excited.

512
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 2: I think she's amazing. I think it's gonna be a

513
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: great season. And I always have the same advice for people,

514
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 2: and it gets boring and it's simple, but it's just

515
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 2: I still like to think of my season and the

516
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 2: relationship that came out of it somewhat of a success.

517
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 2: Even though we didn't get married. We were together for

518
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: almost four years, and I truly believe it's because I

519
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 2: went into that role being like, people are gonna hate

520
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 2: me for this, or people are going to love me

521
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: for this, but this is just who I am. And

522
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 2: if I'm really going to have some sort of foundation

523
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 2: for a relationship to thrive, I have to just be

524
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: so true to myself just so that person doesn't come

525
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: out of it and be like, wait, who the hell

526
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 2: are you? What are you like? This is who you are.

527
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 2: So I just always encourage people to like even if

528
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 2: they feel messy or you know, America is not going

529
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 2: to like what they say or do. I just think

530
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: you have to just be absolutely true to yourself in

531
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 2: order to have somewhat of a successful relationship after with

532
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: that person, with yourself, with your following which Bachelor Nation

533
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: is very loyal and they'll see through it. So it's

534
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:22,880
Speaker 2: always just being true to yourself.

535
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: Off the Vine is a popular podcast hosted by Kaitlin Bristyle.

536
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: You've had a lot of big You've had a lot

537
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: of big guests. Have you had anyone, like any like

538
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: dream guest that you ended up interviewing or anyone that

539
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,440
Speaker 1: you were just you were a either shocked you got

540
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: or just like starstruck.

541
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: You know what's funny is this was years ago when

542
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: Chris Harrison had never really done a podcast before and

543
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 2: I got to interview him, which is really cool because

544
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: we were so tight at the time, and I just

545
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 2: went over to his house and we drank so much

546
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 2: wine and did a podcast and it ended up being

547
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 2: like a two part podcas because he'd never like, people

548
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: didn't really know who Chris Harrison was other than the

549
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: guy that comes in and says like this is the

550
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: Final Rose and like it does all that, and people

551
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: didn't really know his personality because again social media, he wasn't, like,

552
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 2: you know, doing stories and all this stuff. So that

553
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 2: was a really cool one for me and a memorable

554
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 2: one that I always think about. And then Jay Shetty

555
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 2: was a dream guest for me, and yeah, and so

556
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 2: I got him on the podcast and it was like

557
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: one of my favorite conversations. And to have Ja Shetty

558
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 2: to your horn was like something I'll put on my grave.

559
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 2: He like complimented my questions and that like He's like,

560
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: nobody's asked me these questions before, and I'm giving really

561
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 2: new answers. So thank you so much. I was like,

562
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,719
Speaker 2: j Shetty, So that was probably my favorite.

563
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 3: That is so cool. Oh my god.

564
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

565
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 3: I would literally just drop dead if Jason Sheddy was

566
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 3: like wow, like you're interviewing, like you're asking me really

567
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 3: new questions, like you're making me the podcast. Yeah, I'd

568
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 3: be like, all right, I'm just so insightful and smart

569
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 3: and like my ego is so big now because jays Sheeddy.

570
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 5: No, no, Now.

571
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: Every time I like have like a low vibe moment,

572
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, cale remember that time, and then I just

573
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 2: get right back on the high vibe.

574
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go, It's all you need.

575
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: How about how about how about favorite uh favorite? Within

576
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation?

577
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: Are you looking for a little compliment?

578
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 3: Joe is always setting up questions for people to answer

579
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 3: his name.

580
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: That I just want I just want the truth and

581
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: I want to I want to preface this by saying that,

582
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 1: you know, we're on a scale, you know, number five,

583
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: it's friendship, but that could change drastically depending on what

584
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: is said in the next five seconds.

585
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: Okay, no, no, no, no.

586
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, honestly, I don't even think that the answer is me,

587
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: but I will say, just take take me out of it,

588
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 1: take me out of the oas.

589
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: Okay, I will tell you. I will tell you you

590
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: are actually one of my favorite people to talk to

591
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 2: in all of Bachelor Nation because I feel like we

592
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: just have a good friendship and like I feel like

593
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 2: we have good banter and it's just easy. So I

594
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: do feel like you are in in the group. I'm trying.

595
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 2: I'm actually trying to think of a Wells. Of course,

596
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 2: Wells is probably one of my favorite people to podcast with,

597
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: just because he's you know, he also gets it. He

598
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 2: was on the radio for years. He has two podcasts

599
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 2: or however many he's doing, and like he gets it,

600
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 2: and we also have that banter. So i'd say you

601
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 2: and Wells, to be honest with you, Okay.

602
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 1: That's that's that's that's incredible. Incredible answer. That is exactly

603
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: what I was looking for. Thank you, thank you.

604
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 2: We are not SOP six for sure. Yes you also

605
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: wait wait who's your favorite?

606
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: Uh my fuh no, I do I honestly, I've told

607
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: this many of times. Love podcasting with Caitlin Bristow, and

608
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: we've we've actually done we've actually done a live podcast

609
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: together where that was fun because we were very missed.

610
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: Thats my gosh, it was fun. Yes, okay, okay, moving.

611
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: On, Yes, moving on. We're gonna play for me.

612
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: I guess I also this podcast.

613
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: What do you?

614
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 3: What do you?

615
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: Bahamas?

616
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: She's on island time, Yeah, she is on island time, Cayla.

617
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a quick game. You're down for that?

618
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: Always down, down to get around? All right?

619
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: Down a clown see Joe and I actually played this

620
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 3: at breunch the other day.

621
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 5: Fun.

622
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 4: I like it all right?

623
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 2: You ready?

624
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: Okay?

625
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 5: Uh? Pizza or cheeseburger, pizza, pizza, pasta, pasta pasta or

626
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 5: steak and fries pasta pasta or ramen pasta pasta, Sushi,

627
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 5: sushi or fried chicken sandwich, sushi, sushi or poutine.

628
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 2: Oh good one, sushi.

629
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,280
Speaker 1: Sushi or gelato.

630
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 2: I don't even like gelato, So sushi I think sushi might.

631
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: Sushi is like my bread pit. You know, if you like,

632
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 2: put two guys together and you do it, would you rather? Yeah,

633
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 2: Sushi's my bread.

634
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 3: Pity sushi or Spade and Sparrow wine.

635
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: Oh, she found a loophole. She found a loophole. I'll

636
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 2: take spand and Sparrows every day, all day.

637
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 3: Guys, A slow sugar, It's great, go buy it.

638
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: Spade and Sparrows love it. I drink it not very often,

639
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: but if i'm if i'm, if I'm in a facility

640
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: where it is, I will What do you where do

641
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: you sell that? You sell it at a lot of places.

642
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of states have it in Target or

643
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 2: in their little like local liquor stores. But you can

644
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: just go on Spadensparrows dot com and then there's a

645
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 2: place that says like a store locator. You can just

646
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: type in your zip code and I'll tell you where's

647
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 2: the closest one.

648
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 3: Well, LCBO, because I have friends that used to drink

649
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 3: it and they were like, I can I can't get

650
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 3: it anywhere.

651
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: The shipping and like legal stuff and hoops we've had

652
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: to jump through for Canada, but we're trying to get

653
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: back on the Canadian train. We're actually working really hard

654
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 2: on that right now because Canadians drink wine and I can't.

655
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: I can't. I got to take care of my people.

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Speaker 1: I really like the I really like the Rose. I'm

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Speaker 1: actually I'm actually getting back on my getting back on

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Speaker 1: my rose grind. But as I was saying it, I

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Speaker 1: was like, I love.

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Speaker 2: That saying yeah, I'm always on my rose grind.

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Speaker 1: Caitlin, thank you so much for taking the time and

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Speaker 1: of course jumping on Bachelor Happy Hour was just lovely

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