Speaker 1: Second date update.
Speaker 2: There's so many different themed bars nowadays that are like
Speaker 2: fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one where you can
Speaker 2: get drinks on a working carnival carousel.
Speaker 3: Oh that's so cool.
Speaker 2: You just go up and down on your horse sea
Speaker 2: while getting schwasted.
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, that's part of the fun.
Speaker 2: And there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium
Speaker 2: with over one hundred ping pong tables.
Speaker 1: You just play and drink.
Speaker 4: It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.
Speaker 1: Whatever type.
Speaker 2: My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station just off
Speaker 2: the highway. It is themed so it's just like a
Speaker 2: gas station and you can actually pump gas there. You
Speaker 2: just get a six piece sushi and a forty of
Speaker 2: mickeys and then you head into the restroom see what happens.
Speaker 1: That's my style.
Speaker 2: But I guess one of our listeners did a themed
Speaker 2: bar for his first date the other night.
Speaker 1: His name is Matt, so let's talk to him.
Speaker 5: Matt.
Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm doing okay?
Speaker 5: How are you? Guys?
Speaker 4: Are you wishing you knew about lou sooner so you
Speaker 4: could have taken her there?
Speaker 1: I can show you where it is.
Speaker 5: I mean I'm open to new places.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe I'll see you in the
Speaker 2: restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you
Speaker 2: went on. Who is the woman that you met?
Speaker 5: Kanita is her name?
Speaker 3: Did you guys meet online on app?
Speaker 5: No? Actually it was a she's a friend of a
Speaker 5: coworker of mine.
Speaker 1: WHOA.
Speaker 3: We never hear about things like this is weird.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,
Speaker 5: she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.
Speaker 1: Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on you.
Speaker 3: Looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with my husband.
Speaker 1: About pity. Someone felt bad for you and hooked you
Speaker 1: up with some stranger.
Speaker 4: He's a great man. He turned out to be the
Speaker 4: best guy ever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he is.
Speaker 6: You're anyway back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on
Speaker 6: your pitifull life.
Speaker 1: Matt tell us about yours.
Speaker 5: Well, I was kind of trying to make it a
Speaker 5: year of of yes, so I can understand where you're
Speaker 5: coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,
Speaker 5: I'm just going to say yes to these things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.
Speaker 5: We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,
Speaker 5: let's meet in person. So we went to this bar
Speaker 5: that is like a bar and board games place.
Speaker 4: Okay, why do you say, oh, like it's negative Cheford.
Speaker 1: For like, you know, romantic activity.
Speaker 3: I don't know how that goes.
Speaker 2: Yes, like a family game night, but I don't know
Speaker 2: about a date. What games were you playing?
Speaker 5: So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers
Speaker 5: is Sorry? So we grabbed one of those two.
Speaker 4: And those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation
Speaker 4: at the same time you're playing them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Connect four.
Speaker 5: It's like it forces you to look at the person
Speaker 5: because it's vertical.
Speaker 1: You know, you apologize.
Speaker 2: I definitely played both of those games before, but with
Speaker 2: blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a little bit
Speaker 2: different rules than you played.
Speaker 3: How do you know when you win Connect four?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't talk to about that. You did the
Speaker 1: childhood rules?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what was it like?
Speaker 5: It was great? Neither one of us were like overly competitive,
Speaker 5: We had some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me.
Speaker 5: He was like, is there anything that you could think
Speaker 5: of that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that
Speaker 5: was weird. We got to know each other and it
Speaker 5: felt really cool.
Speaker 3: Do you think it was too boring?
Speaker 4: I mean, like that's the only thing, Like, if there's
Speaker 4: nothing that stood out, Yeah.
Speaker 5: No, it was fun. Another thing is after the date
Speaker 5: is kind of a different story. Why So I fully
Speaker 5: intended to go out with her again, and she was
Speaker 5: into it. We talked about it. So the next day
Speaker 5: I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.
Speaker 5: So after a few hours I was feeling a little antsy,
Speaker 5: so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it
Speaker 5: to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better
Speaker 5: text me back because I might go out with someone
Speaker 5: else tonight. Like a bunch of cute emojis.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying
Speaker 1: to do there.
Speaker 4: Reading if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially
Speaker 4: when you read it from someone you don't know that one.
Speaker 5: I thought you would see that it was a joke
Speaker 5: and she'd be like, yeah, what's his name? You know,
Speaker 5: like I thought she was gonna rip me back on it.
Speaker 3: So what did she say back? Anything?
Speaker 5: No? And so I just kind of sent a few
Speaker 5: more texts, Oh God.
Speaker 3: What did you say?
Speaker 4: As a follow up, I.
Speaker 5: Just kind of stuck with the same theme. I just
Speaker 5: was like, all right, I'm going out. I like, send
Speaker 5: her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn
Speaker 5: getting balled up.
Speaker 2: Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the islands, say
Speaker 2: I do you don't text me back?
Speaker 3: So bro, try that is so cry.
Speaker 1: I love at all.
Speaker 3: Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 5: Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.
Speaker 3: It's too embarrassed.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry
Speaker 5: jiff with like the commercial from the board game Okay.
Speaker 4: Trying to make an inside joke that don't really happening there.
Speaker 2: Huh, just too far past exactly. This might be too
Speaker 2: far gone. But there's a chance we could bring it back.
Speaker 3: Can we delete the text?
Speaker 4: Is at too late for that?
Speaker 2: It'd be too late for that, but hopefully we can
Speaker 2: get her on the phone and sweetly convince her to
Speaker 2: give it another try.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean, I really, I mean you guys
Speaker 5: know that. So if you can help me, I'd appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Just don't start to conbo with you. Better text me back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well you better stay on hold this entire time,
Speaker 2: but we're going to move on to a different person
Speaker 2: and get them a second date.
Speaker 3: Update, get you a picture of my shoes.
Speaker 5: I deserve that. I deserve that.
Speaker 2: We're going to do your second date update right after
Speaker 2: this hold on second date update.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us.
Speaker 2: We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went
Speaker 2: out on the perfect first.
Speaker 1: Date beers board games, that's.
Speaker 2: Fun, body flirtations that night was flawless. After the date,
Speaker 2: though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits
Speaker 2: he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to
Speaker 2: his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get
Speaker 2: to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a
Speaker 2: little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond
Speaker 2: to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: And he'd only given it a couple hours two for
Speaker 4: her to respond Yeah, she'd like left on red for a.
Speaker 2: Day or two, and when he still got no reply back,
Speaker 2: he kept teasing for a while saying, I'm serious, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna swipe on someone else soon. Now I'm putting on
Speaker 2: my shoes. If you don't call me back.
Speaker 7: Are you a.
Speaker 4: Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.
Speaker 5: I am not a dad.
Speaker 2: But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in
Speaker 2: love with her, but you can tell that he does
Speaker 2: like her, and you might do some questionable things when
Speaker 2: you're really into someone.
Speaker 4: No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.
Speaker 4: I think she did not.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think
Speaker 5: I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try hard.
Speaker 3: We're gonna try harder.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.
Speaker 3: Digging out of a hole.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,
Speaker 2: you're kind of piling. I'm just saying, I like to
Speaker 2: get a little positivity before we make these calls, a
Speaker 2: little forward momentum.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw
Speaker 4: the rest of.
Speaker 1: Them forward bright thinking that we need. Don't you feel
Speaker 1: a little bit better now, Matty thrilled?
Speaker 2: Yeah, good news is we're not blocked, so let's see
Speaker 2: what she has to say.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tanita? Hey Tanita.
Speaker 2: You're on the radio right now with a fun morning
Speaker 2: show called.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Tanita.
Speaker 8: Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's actually our tagline.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,
Speaker 2: but we do want to talk to you about your.
Speaker 1: Dating life a little bit. If you have a second.
Speaker 7: What do you mean, what are you talking about.
Speaker 2: It's a segment that we do on our show called
Speaker 2: second Date, and one of our listeners has reached out
Speaker 2: because he went out with you recently, had a great time,
Speaker 2: and now hasn't been able to arrange that second meetup.
Speaker 1: His name isn't Matt Oh Okay, yeah.
Speaker 4: He said, yea, he's played board games together, which sounded
Speaker 4: really fun.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until
Speaker 7: after the date.
Speaker 1: After the date wasn't fun.
Speaker 7: Well yeah, I mean, I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 7: if he told you anything or.
Speaker 2: Whatever, but I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,
Speaker 2: and by exchange, I mean just from him and.
Speaker 4: The Degus he's self aware at how embarrassing those are.
Speaker 7: Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just
Speaker 7: some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know
Speaker 7: to the extent of what he said, but like he said.
Speaker 2: There was a lot that he was trying to like
Speaker 2: egg you on and say he was going to go
Speaker 2: on a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.
Speaker 4: He was trying to joke, but we also understand how
Speaker 4: it could be read as a joke, Saul, and by
Speaker 4: like read literally just as a red flag.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well, he like literally walks from me through an entire
Speaker 7: date with somebody. And that's where I kind of was like, maybe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean, Wait, what do you mean
Speaker 2: you walked you through a date?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 7: Yeah. It was first like he was talking about, like
Speaker 7: let's meet up, and then he's like, oh, I'm going
Speaker 7: to go out with somebody if you don't text me back,
Speaker 7: and then it was like I'm out with a girl.
Speaker 5: Now missed out?
Speaker 1: Wait, wait he really went out on dates.
Speaker 3: No, I think it was a joke. I think he
Speaker 3: was just joking.
Speaker 1: I thought that was that was that was the perspective
Speaker 1: that we got hold on. You read us the text
Speaker 1: and maybe we can decide.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, okay, hold one secon.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna look it up.
Speaker 1: You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm walking out the door out that was the
Speaker 8: last Okay, okay, I just bought a drink.
Speaker 7: Everything's going well.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny
Speaker 4: to us.
Speaker 1: This feels achy now though.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll read you his next text.
Speaker 8: I'm playing pinball with her, But sure wish I was
Speaker 8: playing games with you.
Speaker 1: The board games that you were playing on your date.
Speaker 4: Still get Wait, there's I like that you can find
Speaker 4: the humor in this, though, I appreciate that.
Speaker 8: It's a little bit terrifying actually. But his next text,
Speaker 8: this is the last one I got. So I kissed
Speaker 8: her at the end of the night, but was thinking
Speaker 8: of you the whole time. Smiley face, winkie face, hurt.
Speaker 1: No, that's like me.
Speaker 4: And this is this is over like a what three
Speaker 4: hour time span that he's said.
Speaker 7: Any of these, Well, it was like a whole day
Speaker 7: from the beginning of.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, how did you not respond?
Speaker 7: For the first one, I was at work. It was
Speaker 7: like there wasn't even even enough time between the I
Speaker 7: mean to answer him, and then it just went off
Speaker 7: the rail.
Speaker 1: Did he make up those that dates too? Is that
Speaker 1: a real thing?
Speaker 4: I mean, like literally texting at the same time he's
Speaker 4: kissing someone after.
Speaker 2: I'm very curious, and I just want to ask him directly,
Speaker 2: because I need to tell you to Anita that Matt's
Speaker 2: on the other line right now listening to.
Speaker 4: This yeah with another girl, doesn't.
Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, man, I thought I was embarrassed before.
Speaker 7: That.
Speaker 1: Phili, same buddy, what's going on?
Speaker 5: I mean, what do you want me to say? I
Speaker 5: told you guys and sent some embarrassing texts already.
Speaker 4: Well, but you said you sat like four not a
Speaker 4: whole day's worth not I just made out by date?
Speaker 5: Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean
Speaker 5: a date.
Speaker 2: What were you on a date with another woman for real?
Speaker 2: Or was that all just like made up as a joke.
Speaker 5: I really don't want to have to say.
Speaker 4: Oh, well, then it's not funny at all that you
Speaker 4: were like ha guy.
Speaker 5: No, look look, okay, here's what I so, I went
Speaker 5: on another date. Okay, yeah, oh my god, I thought
Speaker 5: about you the whole time.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: Nothing.
Speaker 6: In the last two minutes to charge you, but I
Speaker 6: was thinking about you the whole time.
Speaker 2: I mean, does it change your mind a little bit
Speaker 2: that he actually followed through and went out with a
Speaker 2: real girl. It's like kind of sweet and truthful in
Speaker 2: that way. If it kind it's arranged. If he made
Speaker 2: that whole.
Speaker 7: Thing up, yeah, if he made it up, I would
Speaker 7: have gone out with him again because that was like
Speaker 7: I totally would have because he's really really trying hard
Speaker 7: and maybe making the joke, but no, this is.
Speaker 5: Like a hard pass, hard pass.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, maybe got into that part yetta.
Speaker 5: Okay, Hey, can I change my answer? I made the
Speaker 5: whole thing up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.
Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like this is the first
Speaker 4: time ever. It's like, normally people want what they can't have,
Speaker 4: and Tanita just doesn't want.
Speaker 1: It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure yet.
Speaker 3: It's pretty good, but go ahead.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's part of before I asked.
Speaker 2: Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows
Speaker 2: he made a mistake. And sometimes when you really really
Speaker 2: are into someone, you do really really dumb stuff because
Speaker 2: you're afraid.
Speaker 4: Of losing, like make out with other women.
Speaker 3: I mean that happens.
Speaker 1: Plus Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: No, I mean good answer. Okay.
Speaker 4: I think it was just about to say, let's.
Speaker 1: Stop and stop asking.
Speaker 2: If you'd like to go out with Matt one more
Speaker 2: time and we'd pay for it.
Speaker 8: You know, he was so good at Connect four and
Speaker 8: so good at Sorry. He wins all the games, so
Speaker 8: he's really good at playing games. I'm gonna say no, like.
Speaker 1: Like, what are you doing all right? Matt? Answer? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we we can't get you into the date, buddy.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I thought of something to say, but I almost feel
Speaker 5: like it's worse than the other stuff.
Speaker 3: I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at
Speaker 3: this point.
Speaker 4: Matt.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Yeah, go.
Speaker 5: Ahead, Tonita. I just wish you would quit playing games
Speaker 5: with my heart. Oh my god, cringing as I said it,
Speaker 5: but I have.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, so thank you
Speaker 1: for that.
Speaker 8: Man.
Speaker 1: Look Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Oh man, I was so hoping when we asked the question,
Speaker 2: tell me that wasn't a real date. I really wanted
Speaker 2: him to say, no.
Speaker 1: That's not real. Are you crazy? I made that up
Speaker 1: to get under her skin.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly what he should have said, even if
Speaker 4: it was a lot. My god, this man, I swear,
Speaker 4: and like he didn't fill us in on that part,
Speaker 4: like when we first.
Speaker 3: Talked to him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is like important information.
Speaker 2: So when he told us he really did go out
Speaker 2: with someone else, you could hear all of our reactions.
Speaker 1: Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.
Speaker 3: Just call him an idiot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We
Speaker 2: did get one text in support of Matt, though.
Speaker 3: Was it the other person he was out with.
Speaker 2: No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,
Speaker 2: this is Matt. I'm listening to myself on the radio,
Speaker 2: and I think.
Speaker 1: She should reconsider. It's not as bad as it sounds.
Speaker 3: Come on, man, he's texting while he doesn't.
Speaker 1: Matt, it was as bad as it sounds.
Speaker 4: But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he had too. Mac's back. Is that next one?
Speaker 1: We'll keep working on that for you.
Speaker 2: But if you want some help getting another date, we
Speaker 2: can try just email the show.
Speaker 1: We'll call that person. Wasn't calling you back?
Speaker 4: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,