WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Trying To Connect 4

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>There's so many different themed bars nowadays that are like

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<v Speaker 2>fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one where you can

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<v Speaker 2>get drinks on a working carnival carousel.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>You just go up and down on your horse sea

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<v Speaker 2>while getting schwasted.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah, that's part of the fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium

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<v Speaker 2>with over one hundred ping pong tables.

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<v Speaker 1>You just play and drink.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever type.

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<v Speaker 2>My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station just off

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<v Speaker 2>the highway. It is themed so it's just like a

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<v Speaker 2>gas station and you can actually pump gas there. You

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<v Speaker 2>just get a six piece sushi and a forty of

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<v Speaker 2>mickeys and then you head into the restroom see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my style.

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<v Speaker 2>But I guess one of our listeners did a themed

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<v Speaker 2>bar for his first date the other night.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Matt, so let's talk to him.

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<v Speaker 5>Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, I'm doing okay?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you wishing you knew about lou sooner so you

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<v Speaker 4>could have taken her there?

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<v Speaker 1>I can show you where it is.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I'm open to new places.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe I'll see you in the

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<v Speaker 2>restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you

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<v Speaker 2>went on. Who is the woman that you met?

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<v Speaker 5>Kanita is her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you guys meet online on app?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Actually it was a she's a friend of a

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<v Speaker 5>coworker of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA.

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<v Speaker 3>We never hear about things like this is weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on you.

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<v Speaker 3>Looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with my husband.

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<v Speaker 1>About pity. Someone felt bad for you and hooked you

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<v Speaker 1>up with some stranger.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a great man. He turned out to be the

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<v Speaker 4>best guy ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he is.

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<v Speaker 6>You're anyway back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on

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<v Speaker 6>your pitifull life.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt tell us about yours.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was kind of trying to make it a

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<v Speaker 5>year of of yes, so I can understand where you're

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<v Speaker 5>coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just going to say yes to these things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.

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<v Speaker 5>We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>let's meet in person. So we went to this bar

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<v Speaker 5>that is like a bar and board games place.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, why do you say, oh, like it's negative Cheford.

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<v Speaker 1>For like, you know, romantic activity.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how that goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, like a family game night, but I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>about a date. What games were you playing?

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<v Speaker 5>So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers

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<v Speaker 5>is Sorry? So we grabbed one of those two.

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<v Speaker 4>And those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation

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<v Speaker 4>at the same time you're playing them.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Connect four.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like it forces you to look at the person

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<v Speaker 5>because it's vertical.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you apologize.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely played both of those games before, but with

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<v Speaker 2>blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>different rules than you played.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you know when you win Connect four?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we don't talk to about that. You did the

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<v Speaker 1>childhood rules?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what was it like?

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<v Speaker 5>It was great? Neither one of us were like overly competitive,

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<v Speaker 5>We had some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me.

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<v Speaker 5>He was like, is there anything that you could think

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<v Speaker 5>of that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that

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<v Speaker 5>was weird. We got to know each other and it

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<v Speaker 5>felt really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think it was too boring?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like that's the only thing, Like, if there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing that stood out, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was fun. Another thing is after the date

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<v Speaker 5>is kind of a different story. Why So I fully

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<v Speaker 5>intended to go out with her again, and she was

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<v Speaker 5>into it. We talked about it. So the next day

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<v Speaker 5>I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.

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<v Speaker 5>So after a few hours I was feeling a little antsy,

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<v Speaker 5>so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it

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<v Speaker 5>to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better

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<v Speaker 5>text me back because I might go out with someone

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<v Speaker 5>else tonight. Like a bunch of cute emojis.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do there.

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<v Speaker 4>Reading if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially

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<v Speaker 4>when you read it from someone you don't know that one.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought you would see that it was a joke

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<v Speaker 5>and she'd be like, yeah, what's his name? You know,

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<v Speaker 5>like I thought she was gonna rip me back on it.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did she say back? Anything?

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<v Speaker 5>No? And so I just kind of sent a few

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<v Speaker 5>more texts, Oh God.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you say?

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<v Speaker 4>As a follow up, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Just kind of stuck with the same theme. I just

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<v Speaker 5>was like, all right, I'm going out. I like, send

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<v Speaker 5>her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn

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<v Speaker 5>getting balled up.

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<v Speaker 2>Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the islands, say

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<v Speaker 2>I do you don't text me back?

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<v Speaker 3>So bro, try that is so cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I love at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>It's too embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry

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<v Speaker 5>jiff with like the commercial from the board game Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to make an inside joke that don't really happening there.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh, just too far past exactly. This might be too

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<v Speaker 2>far gone. But there's a chance we could bring it back.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we delete the text?

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<v Speaker 4>Is at too late for that?

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be too late for that, but hopefully we can

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<v Speaker 2>get her on the phone and sweetly convince her to

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<v Speaker 2>give it another try.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, I mean, I really, I mean you guys

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<v Speaker 5>know that. So if you can help me, I'd appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't start to conbo with you. Better text me back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well you better stay on hold this entire time,

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<v Speaker 2>but we're going to move on to a different person

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<v Speaker 2>and get them a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Update, get you a picture of my shoes.

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<v Speaker 5>I deserve that. I deserve that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to do your second date update right after

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<v Speaker 2>this hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 2>We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went

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<v Speaker 2>out on the perfect first.

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<v Speaker 1>Date beers board games, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun, body flirtations that night was flawless. After the date,

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<v Speaker 2>though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits

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<v Speaker 2>he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to

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<v Speaker 2>his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get

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<v Speaker 2>to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond

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<v Speaker 2>to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>And he'd only given it a couple hours two for

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<v Speaker 4>her to respond Yeah, she'd like left on red for a.

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<v Speaker 2>Day or two, and when he still got no reply back,

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<v Speaker 2>he kept teasing for a while saying, I'm serious, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna swipe on someone else soon. Now I'm putting on

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<v Speaker 2>my shoes. If you don't call me back.

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<v Speaker 7>Are you a.

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<v Speaker 4>Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.

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<v Speaker 5>I am not a dad.

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<v Speaker 2>But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in

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<v Speaker 2>love with her, but you can tell that he does

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<v Speaker 2>like her, and you might do some questionable things when

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<v Speaker 2>you're really into someone.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she did not.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think

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<v Speaker 5>I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try hard.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna try harder.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.

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<v Speaker 3>Digging out of a hole.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,

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<v Speaker 2>you're kind of piling. I'm just saying, I like to

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<v Speaker 2>get a little positivity before we make these calls, a

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<v Speaker 2>little forward momentum.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw

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<v Speaker 4>the rest of.

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<v Speaker 1>Them forward bright thinking that we need. Don't you feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit better now, Matty thrilled?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, good news is we're not blocked, so let's see

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<v Speaker 2>what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tanita? Hey Tanita.

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<v Speaker 2>You're on the radio right now with a fun morning

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<v Speaker 2>show called.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to the show, Tanita.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's actually our tagline.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,

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<v Speaker 2>but we do want to talk to you about your.

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<v Speaker 1>Dating life a little bit. If you have a second.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you mean, what are you talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a segment that we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 2>second Date, and one of our listeners has reached out

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<v Speaker 2>because he went out with you recently, had a great time,

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<v Speaker 2>and now hasn't been able to arrange that second meetup.

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<v Speaker 1>His name isn't Matt Oh Okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>He said, yea, he's played board games together, which sounded

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<v Speaker 4>really fun.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until

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<v Speaker 7>after the date.

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<v Speaker 1>After the date wasn't fun.

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<v Speaker 7>Well yeah, I mean, I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>if he told you anything or.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever, but I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,

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<v Speaker 2>and by exchange, I mean just from him and.

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<v Speaker 4>The Degus he's self aware at how embarrassing those are.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just

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<v Speaker 7>some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 7>to the extent of what he said, but like he said.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a lot that he was trying to like

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<v Speaker 2>egg you on and say he was going to go

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<v Speaker 2>on a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.

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<v Speaker 4>He was trying to joke, but we also understand how

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<v Speaker 4>it could be read as a joke, Saul, and by

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<v Speaker 4>like read literally just as a red flag.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, he like literally walks from me through an entire

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<v Speaker 7>date with somebody. And that's where I kind of was like, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what do you mean, Wait, what do you mean

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<v Speaker 2>you walked you through a date?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. It was first like he was talking about, like

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<v Speaker 7>let's meet up, and then he's like, oh, I'm going

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<v Speaker 7>to go out with somebody if you don't text me back,

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<v Speaker 7>and then it was like I'm out with a girl.

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<v Speaker 5>Now missed out?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait he really went out on dates.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think it was a joke. I think he

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<v Speaker 3>was just joking.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that was that was that was the perspective

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<v Speaker 1>that we got hold on. You read us the text

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe we can decide.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, okay, hold one secon.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna look it up.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I'm walking out the door out that was the

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<v Speaker 8>last Okay, okay, I just bought a drink.

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<v Speaker 7>Everything's going well.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny

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<v Speaker 4>to us.

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<v Speaker 1>This feels achy now though.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I'll read you his next text.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm playing pinball with her, But sure wish I was

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<v Speaker 8>playing games with you.

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<v Speaker 1>The board games that you were playing on your date.

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<v Speaker 4>Still get Wait, there's I like that you can find

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<v Speaker 4>the humor in this, though, I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 8>It's a little bit terrifying actually. But his next text,

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<v Speaker 8>this is the last one I got. So I kissed

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<v Speaker 8>her at the end of the night, but was thinking

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<v Speaker 8>of you the whole time. Smiley face, winkie face, hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's like me.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is this is over like a what three

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<v Speaker 4>hour time span that he's said.

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<v Speaker 7>Any of these, Well, it was like a whole day

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<v Speaker 7>from the beginning of.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, how did you not respond?

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<v Speaker 7>For the first one, I was at work. It was

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<v Speaker 7>like there wasn't even even enough time between the I

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<v Speaker 7>mean to answer him, and then it just went off

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<v Speaker 7>the rail.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he make up those that dates too? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>a real thing?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like literally texting at the same time he's

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<v Speaker 4>kissing someone after.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very curious, and I just want to ask him directly,

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<v Speaker 2>because I need to tell you to Anita that Matt's

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line right now listening to.

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<v Speaker 4>This yeah with another girl, doesn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, yeah, man, I thought I was embarrassed before.

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<v Speaker 7>That.

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<v Speaker 1>Phili, same buddy, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, what do you want me to say? I

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<v Speaker 5>told you guys and sent some embarrassing texts already.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, but you said you sat like four not a

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<v Speaker 4>whole day's worth not I just made out by date?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean

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<v Speaker 5>a date.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you on a date with another woman for real?

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<v Speaker 2>Or was that all just like made up as a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>I really don't want to have to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, well, then it's not funny at all that you

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<v Speaker 4>were like ha guy.

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<v Speaker 5>No, look look, okay, here's what I so, I went

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<v Speaker 5>on another date. Okay, yeah, oh my god, I thought

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<v Speaker 5>about you the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 6>In the last two minutes to charge you, but I

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<v Speaker 6>was thinking about you the whole time.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, does it change your mind a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>that he actually followed through and went out with a

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<v Speaker 2>real girl. It's like kind of sweet and truthful in

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<v Speaker 2>that way. If it kind it's arranged. If he made

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<v Speaker 2>that whole.

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<v Speaker 7>Thing up, yeah, if he made it up, I would

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<v Speaker 7>have gone out with him again because that was like

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<v Speaker 7>I totally would have because he's really really trying hard

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<v Speaker 7>and maybe making the joke, but no, this is.

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<v Speaker 5>Like a hard pass, hard pass.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, maybe got into that part yetta.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Hey, can I change my answer? I made the

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<v Speaker 5>whole thing up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I feel like this is the first

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<v Speaker 4>time ever. It's like, normally people want what they can't have,

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<v Speaker 4>and Tanita just doesn't want.

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<v Speaker 1>It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure yet.

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<v Speaker 3>It's pretty good, but go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's part of before I asked.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows

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<v Speaker 2>he made a mistake. And sometimes when you really really

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<v Speaker 2>are into someone, you do really really dumb stuff because

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<v Speaker 2>you're afraid.

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<v Speaker 4>Of losing, like make out with other women.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean good answer. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was just about to say, let's.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop and stop asking.

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<v Speaker 2>If you'd like to go out with Matt one more

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<v Speaker 2>time and we'd pay for it.

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<v Speaker 8>You know, he was so good at Connect four and

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<v Speaker 8>so good at Sorry. He wins all the games, so

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<v Speaker 8>he's really good at playing games. I'm gonna say no, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what are you doing all right? Matt? Answer? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we we can't get you into the date, buddy.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought of something to say, but I almost feel

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<v Speaker 5>like it's worse than the other stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at

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<v Speaker 3>this point.

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<v Speaker 4>Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, Yeah, go.

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<v Speaker 5>Ahead, Tonita. I just wish you would quit playing games

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<v Speaker 5>with my heart. Oh my god, cringing as I said it,

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<v Speaker 5>but I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, so thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for that.

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<v Speaker 8>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Look Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, I was so hoping when we asked the question,

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<v Speaker 2>tell me that wasn't a real date. I really wanted

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<v Speaker 2>him to say, no.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not real. Are you crazy? I made that up

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<v Speaker 1>to get under her skin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's exactly what he should have said, even if

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<v Speaker 4>it was a lot. My god, this man, I swear,

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<v Speaker 4>and like he didn't fill us in on that part,

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<v Speaker 4>like when we first.

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<v Speaker 3>Talked to him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is like important information.

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<v Speaker 2>So when he told us he really did go out

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<v Speaker 2>with someone else, you could hear all of our reactions.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.

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<v Speaker 3>Just call him an idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We

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<v Speaker 2>did get one text in support of Matt, though.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it the other person he was out with.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>this is Matt. I'm listening to myself on the radio,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think.

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<v Speaker 1>She should reconsider. It's not as bad as it sounds.

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, man, he's texting while he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt, it was as bad as it sounds.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he had too. Mac's back. Is that next one?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll keep working on that for you.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want some help getting another date, we

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<v Speaker 2>can try just email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person. Wasn't calling you back?

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<v Speaker 4>Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,