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Speaker 1: Second date update.

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Speaker 2: There's so many different themed bars nowadays that are like

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Speaker 2: fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one where you can

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Speaker 2: get drinks on a working carnival carousel.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so cool.

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Speaker 2: You just go up and down on your horse sea

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Speaker 2: while getting schwasted.

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Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, that's part of the fun.

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Speaker 2: And there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium

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Speaker 2: with over one hundred ping pong tables.

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Speaker 1: You just play and drink.

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Speaker 4: It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.

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Speaker 1: Whatever type.

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Speaker 2: My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station just off

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Speaker 2: the highway. It is themed so it's just like a

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Speaker 2: gas station and you can actually pump gas there. You

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Speaker 2: just get a six piece sushi and a forty of

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Speaker 2: mickeys and then you head into the restroom see what happens.

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Speaker 1: That's my style.

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Speaker 2: But I guess one of our listeners did a themed

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Speaker 2: bar for his first date the other night.

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Speaker 1: His name is Matt, so let's talk to him.

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Speaker 5: Matt.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm doing okay?

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Speaker 5: How are you? Guys?

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Speaker 4: Are you wishing you knew about lou sooner so you

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Speaker 4: could have taken her there?

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Speaker 1: I can show you where it is.

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Speaker 5: I mean I'm open to new places.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe I'll see you in the

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Speaker 2: restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you

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Speaker 2: went on. Who is the woman that you met?

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Speaker 5: Kanita is her name?

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Speaker 3: Did you guys meet online on app?

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Speaker 5: No? Actually it was a she's a friend of a

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Speaker 5: coworker of mine.

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Speaker 1: WHOA.

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Speaker 3: We never hear about things like this is weird.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I

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Speaker 5: was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.

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Speaker 1: I hate that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.

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Speaker 1: Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on you.

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Speaker 3: Looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with my husband.

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Speaker 1: About pity. Someone felt bad for you and hooked you

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Speaker 1: up with some stranger.

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Speaker 4: He's a great man. He turned out to be the

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Speaker 4: best guy ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he is.

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Speaker 6: You're anyway back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on

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Speaker 6: your pitifull life.

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Speaker 1: Matt tell us about yours.

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Speaker 5: Well, I was kind of trying to make it a

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Speaker 5: year of of yes, so I can understand where you're

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Speaker 5: coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 5: I'm just going to say yes to these things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.

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Speaker 5: We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: let's meet in person. So we went to this bar

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Speaker 5: that is like a bar and board games place.

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Speaker 4: Okay, why do you say, oh, like it's negative Cheford.

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Speaker 1: For like, you know, romantic activity.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how that goes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like a family game night, but I don't know

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Speaker 2: about a date. What games were you playing?

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Speaker 5: So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers

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Speaker 5: is Sorry? So we grabbed one of those two.

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Speaker 4: And those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation

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Speaker 4: at the same time you're playing them.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Connect four.

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Speaker 5: It's like it forces you to look at the person

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Speaker 5: because it's vertical.

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Speaker 1: You know, you apologize.

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Speaker 2: I definitely played both of those games before, but with

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Speaker 2: blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a little bit

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Speaker 2: different rules than you played.

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Speaker 3: How do you know when you win Connect four?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't talk to about that. You did the

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Speaker 1: childhood rules?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what was it like?

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Speaker 5: It was great? Neither one of us were like overly competitive,

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Speaker 5: We had some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me.

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Speaker 5: He was like, is there anything that you could think

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Speaker 5: of that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that

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Speaker 5: was weird. We got to know each other and it

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Speaker 5: felt really cool.

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Speaker 3: Do you think it was too boring?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like that's the only thing, Like, if there's

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Speaker 4: nothing that stood out, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, it was fun. Another thing is after the date

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Speaker 5: is kind of a different story. Why So I fully

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Speaker 5: intended to go out with her again, and she was

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Speaker 5: into it. We talked about it. So the next day

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Speaker 5: I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.

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Speaker 5: So after a few hours I was feeling a little antsy,

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Speaker 5: so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it

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Speaker 5: to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better

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Speaker 5: text me back because I might go out with someone

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Speaker 5: else tonight. Like a bunch of cute emojis.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying

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Speaker 1: to do there.

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Speaker 4: Reading if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially

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Speaker 4: when you read it from someone you don't know that one.

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Speaker 5: I thought you would see that it was a joke

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Speaker 5: and she'd be like, yeah, what's his name? You know,

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Speaker 5: like I thought she was gonna rip me back on it.

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Speaker 3: So what did she say back? Anything?

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Speaker 5: No? And so I just kind of sent a few

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Speaker 5: more texts, Oh God.

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Speaker 3: What did you say?

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Speaker 4: As a follow up, I.

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Speaker 5: Just kind of stuck with the same theme. I just

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Speaker 5: was like, all right, I'm going out. I like, send

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Speaker 5: her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn

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Speaker 5: getting balled up.

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Speaker 2: Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the islands, say

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Speaker 2: I do you don't text me back?

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Speaker 3: So bro, try that is so cry.

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Speaker 1: I love at all.

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Speaker 3: Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: It's too embarrassed.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry

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Speaker 5: jiff with like the commercial from the board game Okay.

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Speaker 4: Trying to make an inside joke that don't really happening there.

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Speaker 2: Huh, just too far past exactly. This might be too

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Speaker 2: far gone. But there's a chance we could bring it back.

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Speaker 3: Can we delete the text?

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Speaker 4: Is at too late for that?

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Speaker 2: It'd be too late for that, but hopefully we can

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Speaker 2: get her on the phone and sweetly convince her to

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Speaker 2: give it another try.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, I mean, I really, I mean you guys

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Speaker 5: know that. So if you can help me, I'd appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Just don't start to conbo with you. Better text me back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well you better stay on hold this entire time,

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Speaker 2: but we're going to move on to a different person

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Speaker 2: and get them a second date.

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Speaker 3: Update, get you a picture of my shoes.

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Speaker 5: I deserve that. I deserve that.

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Speaker 2: We're going to do your second date update right after

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Speaker 2: this hold on second date update.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went

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Speaker 2: out on the perfect first.

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Speaker 1: Date beers board games, that's.

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Speaker 2: Fun, body flirtations that night was flawless. After the date,

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Speaker 2: though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits

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Speaker 2: he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to

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Speaker 2: his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get

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Speaker 2: to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a

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Speaker 2: little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond

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Speaker 2: to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: And he'd only given it a couple hours two for

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Speaker 4: her to respond Yeah, she'd like left on red for a.

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Speaker 2: Day or two, and when he still got no reply back,

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Speaker 2: he kept teasing for a while saying, I'm serious, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna swipe on someone else soon. Now I'm putting on

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Speaker 2: my shoes. If you don't call me back.

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Speaker 7: Are you a.

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Speaker 4: Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.

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Speaker 5: I am not a dad.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in

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Speaker 2: love with her, but you can tell that he does

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Speaker 2: like her, and you might do some questionable things when

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Speaker 2: you're really into someone.

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Speaker 4: No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.

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Speaker 4: I think she did not.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think

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Speaker 5: I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try hard.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna try harder.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.

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Speaker 3: Digging out of a hole.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,

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Speaker 2: you're kind of piling. I'm just saying, I like to

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Speaker 2: get a little positivity before we make these calls, a

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw

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Speaker 4: the rest of.

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Speaker 1: Them forward bright thinking that we need. Don't you feel

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Speaker 1: a little bit better now, Matty thrilled?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good news is we're not blocked, so let's see

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Speaker 2: what she has to say.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tanita? Hey Tanita.

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Speaker 2: You're on the radio right now with a fun morning

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Speaker 2: show called.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the show, Tanita.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's actually our tagline.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,

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Speaker 2: but we do want to talk to you about your.

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Speaker 1: Dating life a little bit. If you have a second.

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Speaker 7: What do you mean, what are you talking about.

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Speaker 2: It's a segment that we do on our show called

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Speaker 2: second Date, and one of our listeners has reached out

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Speaker 2: because he went out with you recently, had a great time,

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Speaker 2: and now hasn't been able to arrange that second meetup.

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Speaker 1: His name isn't Matt Oh Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 4: He said, yea, he's played board games together, which sounded

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Speaker 4: really fun.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until

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Speaker 7: after the date.

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Speaker 1: After the date wasn't fun.

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Speaker 7: Well yeah, I mean, I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 7: if he told you anything or.

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Speaker 2: Whatever, but I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,

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Speaker 2: and by exchange, I mean just from him and.

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Speaker 4: The Degus he's self aware at how embarrassing those are.

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Speaker 7: Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just

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Speaker 7: some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 7: to the extent of what he said, but like he said.

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Speaker 2: There was a lot that he was trying to like

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Speaker 2: egg you on and say he was going to go

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.

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Speaker 4: He was trying to joke, but we also understand how

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Speaker 4: it could be read as a joke, Saul, and by

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Speaker 4: like read literally just as a red flag.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Well, he like literally walks from me through an entire

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait he really went out on dates.

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Speaker 3: No, I think it was a joke. I think he

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, okay, hold one secon.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna look it up.

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Speaker 1: You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I'm walking out the door out that was the

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Speaker 7: Everything's going well.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll read you his next text.

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Speaker 8: I'm playing pinball with her, But sure wish I was

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Speaker 8: playing games with you.

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Speaker 1: The board games that you were playing on your date.

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Speaker 4: Still get Wait, there's I like that you can find

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Speaker 8: It's a little bit terrifying actually. But his next text,

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Speaker 1: No, that's like me.

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Speaker 4: And this is this is over like a what three

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Speaker 2: I'm very curious, and I just want to ask him directly,

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Speaker 4: This yeah with another girl, doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, man, I thought I was embarrassed before.

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Speaker 5: I mean, what do you want me to say? I

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Speaker 4: Well, but you said you sat like four not a

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Speaker 5: Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean

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Speaker 2: What were you on a date with another woman for real?

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Speaker 5: No, look look, okay, here's what I so, I went

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 5: Nothing.

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Speaker 6: In the last two minutes to charge you, but I

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Speaker 2: I mean, does it change your mind a little bit

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Speaker 7: Thing up, yeah, if he made it up, I would

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Speaker 7: I totally would have because he's really really trying hard

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Speaker 5: Like a hard pass, hard pass.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, maybe got into that part yetta.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hey, can I change my answer? I made the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like this is the first

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Speaker 1: It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure yet.

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Speaker 3: It's pretty good, but go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's part of before I asked.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows

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Speaker 4: Of losing, like make out with other women.

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Speaker 3: I mean that happens.

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Speaker 1: Plus Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: If you'd like to go out with Matt one more

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Speaker 8: You know, he was so good at Connect four and

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Speaker 1: we we can't get you into the date, buddy.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I thought of something to say, but I almost feel

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Speaker 3: I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at

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Speaker 4: Matt.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, Yeah, go.

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Speaker 5: Ahead, Tonita. I just wish you would quit playing games

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, so thank you

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 1: Look Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I was so hoping when we asked the question,

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Speaker 1: That's not real. Are you crazy? I made that up

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's exactly what he should have said, even if

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Speaker 3: Talked to him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is like important information.

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Speaker 2: So when he told us he really did go out

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Speaker 1: Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.

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Speaker 3: Just call him an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We

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Speaker 3: Was it the other person he was out with.

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Speaker 2: No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,

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Speaker 2: and I think.

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Speaker 1: She should reconsider. It's not as bad as it sounds.

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Speaker 3: Come on, man, he's texting while he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Matt, it was as bad as it sounds.

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Speaker 4: But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had too. Mac's back. Is that next one?

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Speaker 1: We'll keep working on that for you.

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Speaker 2: But if you want some help getting another date, we

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person. Wasn't calling you back?

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Speaker 4: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,