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Speaker 1: Second date up dated. There's a new trend that's happening

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Speaker 1: right now where people online are posting dating rapped videos.

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Speaker 2: Like you're Spotify rapped, but like, wait, how many matches

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Speaker 2: and s are you got?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Like an end of the year recap of their

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Speaker 1: dating life from the past three hundred and sixty five days.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that.

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Speaker 4: Could go really wrong.

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Speaker 3: It's like who you swipe on, what you don't like,

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Speaker 3: who you know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just it's like a.

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Speaker 3: Type of person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, or like the total amount of dates that you

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Speaker 1: tried for the past year and you're patting yourself on

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Speaker 1: the back.

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Speaker 3: Again, Okay, it's not about the failure.

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Speaker 1: And today's caller, Kelly, mentioned in her email that she's

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Speaker 1: dated around a lot over the past year, so our

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Speaker 1: producer asked if she could give us a dating rap

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Speaker 1: for herself.

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Speaker 3: All right, so.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna hear that in a second. First, Kelly, welcome

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Speaker 1: to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, thank you, thanks for having.

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Speaker 1: Me, Thanks for being on with us. We want to

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Speaker 1: hear about what's your dating rap briefly for us if

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Speaker 1: you can.

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Speaker 3: Every time you say rap, I wanted to like break down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you don't need this.

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Speaker 3: That's what I wanted.

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Speaker 6: Just give me.

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Speaker 3: I can give you a beat if it would make

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Speaker 3: the wraps way more through.

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Speaker 1: There's a quick breakdown. What was your dating life like

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Speaker 1: last year?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's funny. I wish I could wrap my rats.

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Speaker 5: But it was sixteen first dates total, okay, mostly mostly Americans.

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Speaker 5: I had two Australians, one Irish guy, one guy who

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Speaker 5: I don't know what his action was, but I think

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Speaker 5: he may have been homeless also or just.

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Speaker 1: That your version homeless just pick accents from raf wow judgment.

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Speaker 1: So that's good. It sounds like you're keeping your options open.

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Speaker 1: Was there anything more? What what did you think about

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Speaker 1: the sixteen guys that you were with?

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Speaker 6: That sounds like.

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Speaker 1: That you know what I meant? The sixteen guys you

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Speaker 1: met separately during the year, how did they go?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? You know, like the sixteen six made to a

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Speaker 5: second eight out of those six, only three made it

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Speaker 5: to a third date or more right, Yeah, Now all

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Speaker 5: the guys two flat out rejected me right after the date.

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Speaker 5: Eight were like mutual ghostings. Three I rejected and told

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Speaker 5: them it just wasn't going to work. And one block

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Speaker 5: to me like immediately after the date. But I was

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Speaker 5: he was a little suss I think he might have

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Speaker 5: been married.

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Speaker 4: Oho, oh god, yeah, nothing you did wrong there other

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Speaker 4: than go out with him.

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Speaker 1: I suppose alexis looking back at her sixteen first dates.

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Speaker 1: How would you grade her overall experience?

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Speaker 3: It's not like a good but one sixteen for being blocked, Like,

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Speaker 3: that's not bad?

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Speaker 1: What sixteen?

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Speaker 2: And it wasn't for something she did exactly, that's a

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Speaker 5: And out of the sixteen, I only had to pay

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Speaker 5: half on like one of them. And I'm really old fashioned.

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Speaker 5: I prefer the guy pay That's just how my mom

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Speaker 5: and dad taught me.

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Speaker 3: Old fashion your cheap, let's be honest, I mean both.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's how it was. And I cried over

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Speaker 5: two guys last year and ended up with zero.

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Speaker 1: And I do make a lot of women cry when

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Speaker 1: they listened to the show. Oh yeah, we do. So

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Speaker 1: tell me. None of the sixteen guys worked out. But

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Speaker 1: now apparently you say there's a new guy and that's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a new guy. I was hopeful. I don't

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Speaker 5: know yet. His name is Steve. It was like an

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Speaker 5: online match and it was just a casual date. It

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Speaker 5: was really like less than hour, like a forty minute.

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Speaker 3: Oh so you went out with them already.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we just got Cuban sandwiches from this little sandwich

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Speaker 5: shop and just went to the park and he ate

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Speaker 4: What kind of significant in some way the playground that's

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Speaker 1: No, it's a lot of information coming at us. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's sandwiches that, there's a park, there's a playground, there's children.

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Speaker 1: Does that sound like a good date? First, Like, overall,

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Speaker 1: alexis no kids around the sandwich. Sandwich is okay, sandwich

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Speaker 3: Honestly, the playground was empty.

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Speaker 4: I'd play on it, but it's a kid.

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Speaker 5: That would be a fun date, that would be No,

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Speaker 5: it was really just kind of a lunch date really

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Speaker 5: because like the sandwiches are really messy. And at one

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Speaker 5: point he was like, you got something on your face

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Speaker 5: and I was like, oh where, And he was like,

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Speaker 5: you pointed to like my entire lower half, and he

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Speaker 4: That he's paying attention. You know, he's looking at you.

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Speaker 4: You have like a I'm not even joking. When I

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Speaker 4: met my husband I didn't realize I carried so much

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Speaker 4: food on my face until I met that man, and

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Speaker 4: I was like, he always has something to point out.

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Speaker 4: No one else before him ever said anything.

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Speaker 1: Amazing how the women on this show can spin anything

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Speaker 1: into a positive.

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Speaker 4: Another you heard the odds, Jeff, I don't think that's bad.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how'd you guys end it?

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Speaker 5: After we ate? We were just kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 5: if we had a frisbee, we'd throw it, but we

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Speaker 5: just kind of kind of like picked up a stick

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Speaker 1: Go get it, Go get your date.

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Speaker 5: I mean I got no, but it got a little awkward.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 5: I was really hoping he'd say, like, you know what,

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Speaker 5: let's grab a drink and proceed to like a nighttime thing.

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Speaker 5: And he's so cute. I'm sure he gets a lot

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Speaker 3: So well, he doesn't sound very good at a date.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he didn't even bring a frisbee. He didn't

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Speaker 3: even get the sandwich place. He went to a park.

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Speaker 1: Why is the man in trouble? We're paying for the

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Speaker 1: sand which she's the one that date.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying that I don't think he's getting hit

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Speaker 2: as experienced as he should be, which was a good ride.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's the man's fault somehow, but let's prove

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Speaker 1: it when we come back. We're gonna call Steve for

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Speaker 1: you and try and get you your second date update

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Speaker 1: right after that. Your name is Steve, you better pick

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Speaker 1: on hold on second date update. I feel like in

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Speaker 1: the first part we definitely miss something we miss and

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Speaker 1: by we I mean Brook.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I know that we were going there.

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Speaker 1: Brooke was out of it that even though the guy

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Speaker 1: is the one not calling Kelly back. Yes, and Kelly

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Speaker 1: said herself, he's very good looking and must get a

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Speaker 1: lot of attention on the dating apps, and Kelly's the

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Speaker 1: one that had sandwich pieces all over her face. Brook

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Speaker 1: hurt all of that and says, Nope, the guy is

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Speaker 1: a bad date planner. I bet no women want to

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Speaker 1: go out with you.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't say no women. I just said I

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Speaker 2: don't think that he's as wanted as she thinks.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to hype her up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she has something to offer on this table and

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Speaker 2: he is going to maybe maybe he was too intimidated

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Speaker 3: You know, the sandwich all over her face. Listen, I've

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Speaker 3: gotten food on my face. It shouldn't stop anything, Okay.

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Speaker 1: But no, actually normally just eating politely once someone of

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Speaker 1: your dates try that. But look, the whole thing is

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Speaker 1: Kelly really liked the guy that she met up with, Steve.

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Speaker 1: They did a casual date in the park with Cuban sandwiches.

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Speaker 1: They tossed a stick back and forth. It was a

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Speaker 1: great time. Was a little straight, yeah, I mean they

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Speaker 1: weren't sure what else to do. It was short though, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And so now afterwards she's hoping to get one more

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, have you heard from him at all, Kelly?

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Speaker 5: I haven't. And now I'm nervous because I was really slobby.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I was. I grossed him out. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: The mason that you had going into that sandwich is

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Speaker 7: Understanding.

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Speaker 1: If you could do that to a sandwich, just imagine

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Speaker 1: what else you could.

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Speaker 4: That is right, Jeffrey, we are here to hide up sandwich.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's disgusting, all right, that's not what he says.

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Speaker 1: But here we go with Dill his number. We'll see

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Speaker 1: what he has to say. Let's do it.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Steve speaking and Hey Steve, I

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Speaker 1: said we because you're on the radio right now with

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Speaker 3: How you doing man?

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Speaker 6: Uh, but you're from the radio.

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Speaker 3: And podcasts podcast.

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Speaker 1: To Yeah, yeah, we got a good podcast.

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Speaker 3: We are multifaceted here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're in the future with our entertainment, but we're

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Speaker 1: focused on you right now because one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: went on a date with you the other day and

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Speaker 1: really had a good time. He wants to see you again,

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Speaker 1: but that hasn't quite happened yet, and she's not sure why.

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Speaker 1: Her name's Kelly.

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Speaker 6: Ah Man.

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Speaker 1: Okay Man, Okay, oh Man.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: The fact that you're not reaching out for another date

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Speaker 1: not sure if that's true or not. We want to

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Speaker 1: know what you think about Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 6: She's very nice, like, Kelly's cool, but you know, I

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Speaker 6: just don't think it's going to work out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Is there is there a reason?

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Speaker 2: I mean, did you went into it thinking that it

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Speaker 2: could work out?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean definitely, but you know, like we got

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Speaker 6: some food and then we went to the park and

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Speaker 6: it just it started to get a little weird. But like,

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Speaker 6: you know, I don't want to blow up for a spot,

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Speaker 6: like I don't even know you guys.

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Speaker 1: So see, we didn't hear anything like weird. She said

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Speaker 1: but nothing stood out to be weird.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's weird to him, you know, like maybe it's

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Speaker 2: weird to him to have a female have food all

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Speaker 6: No, no, actually I thought that was kind of cute.

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Speaker 3: See I talked to you guys.

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Speaker 1: What was the issue? You said it was weird?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I'm like, so, you know, we were sitting

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Speaker 6: you know, that's in this park that we're in, and

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, So she was describing a nightmare, right, Like

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Speaker 3: Our life would be.

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Speaker 6: She sounded thrilled, Oh thrilled.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean like I've known you for like twenty

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Speaker 3: Maybe she was just trying to, like I say, dumb things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's obviously kidding, Well that should be a positive

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Speaker 3: He would only have seven.

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Speaker 1: There you go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she'd say she was a good mother, just a mother, okay.

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Speaker 1: But that it sounds like it was all that conversation

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean you know, like, yeah, but if.

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Speaker 3: She was joking, maybe you could work it out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And there's a perfect person to find out whether

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Speaker 3: Did she give another one up for adoption? Or we

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Speaker 5: Ever since she heard that Kelly there, Yeah, Steve, it's Kelly.

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Speaker 5: I am I ex fuming. I'm so offended. Yes, because

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Speaker 5: because they were all like you, Steve, like emotionally and

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Speaker 3: Why are you upset? Why are you so mad?

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Speaker 5: Because, my god, Brooke, you were totally right, Steve, you

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to hype you up, tear it down.

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Speaker 1: What happened.

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Speaker 5: Listen, if you even had like an ounce of a

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Speaker 1: All right, well, all right, I think we're I think

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Speaker 1: we're going down a path we don't need to go

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Speaker 1: down any farther we were. You weren't happy with Steve's response. There, Steve,

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Speaker 1: are you there?

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Speaker 6: Zerah? Yeah, yeah, you're here barely, but I'm still here.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to respond to any of the allegations

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Speaker 4: I thought you guys were all gonna have a big

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Speaker 5: Bottom line, you planned a boring date and now I'm

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Speaker 1: That's nut, Steve. You see your data, and I'm not

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Speaker 5: Just the looks like I thought you were super.

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Speaker 1: Cute too much?

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Speaker 6: What kind of radio show is this? You just trash, dude?

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Speaker 1: It depends on how many drinks Brooks.

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Speaker 4: I was just trying to make her feel better about

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Speaker 4: you not calling her, And now I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think that this was already happening and I didn't

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Speaker 6: You know, you don't have to tear somebody else down

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Speaker 3: That's a good life. I agree with you, all right.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to tear you down. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know, did I don't think you said anything wrong, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Those are thoughts that should have happened before you said

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Speaker 6: It me either, I'm it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, everybody be honest with everybody. This is a

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Speaker 5: Yeah he didn't, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And maybe Kelly didn't make the best conversation trying

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Speaker 5: Conversation that Kelly owned that, well, I'm sorry that I

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was an apology.

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Speaker 3: You could have imagined the kids in like a sweatshop

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Speaker 1: Trying to get her business planned. So, Steve, if you're

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Speaker 1: And that's why we would be delighted to send you

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Speaker 1: I don't know, the same day, messy sandwiches and all

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Speaker 6: No, no, I'm not going out with her yet. I

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Speaker 6: don't know what she's talking about. You went on sixteen

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Speaker 6: failed dates like what like this? This woman is blew

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, dear humor some day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's okay, Brooke. You know you're absolutely right.

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Speaker 5: This guy knows nothing about planning and you should absolutely

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Speaker 1: God, if you're going to hope for all women, Brooks, congratulations.

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Speaker 3: Not freaking Jeffrey in the morning Black Call.

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Speaker 1: Was a great example of the power that Brooks words

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Speaker 3: I don't know what what went so wrong.

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Speaker 1: I really don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how I went from trying to hype

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Speaker 1: You weren't typing anybody up though you were pushing the

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Speaker 2: She was feeling self conscious because she's like, this is

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, mad, the guy doesn't even bring a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you call the guy boring because he didn't book

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Speaker 7: it's a good reminder that we, and when I say we,

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Speaker 7: If it's not your ideal cup of tea first date

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Speaker 4: And I just was trying to make her feel better, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: You that it's not worth it let other people feel sad?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I got to.

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Speaker 4: A fast food burger place with a Bogo coupon on

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Speaker 3: Still gone out with the guy again.

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Speaker 1: I don't care.

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Speaker 7: Everybody says low as Brooks are and your dating life

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Speaker 7: couldn't possibly be bad.

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Speaker 1: We're just saying we can try and help you with

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person wasn't

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Speaker 5: Calling you back, Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.