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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all is your girl lexp And it's Sugarl

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Speaker 1: Dre and La Call and y'all know we're wrapping up

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Speaker 1: the tour, so y'all know we had to come home.

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Speaker 2: We had to come home, and you know we love

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Speaker 2: a good thing home. We wanted to do a theme

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Speaker 2: so bad, Yes, so we doing a freaking nick thing

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Speaker 2: for the Houston show.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be slowly, y'all. Yes.

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Speaker 1: November twenty fifth, Doors open at six pm. Show starts

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Speaker 1: at seven at House the Blues. Y'all, we got beat

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Speaker 1: king coming through. We got zero coming through, and I'm

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Speaker 1: telling y'all it's a lot more people coming through because

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Speaker 1: we own.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna be our surprise. Bye. We have so

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Speaker 3: many surprises. It's freaknick things.

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Speaker 1: So get your hair up, put your grills in, your

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Speaker 1: spripe painted t shirts. Get real good because we finished

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Speaker 1: half the time we finished. Shake some ass eternal.

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Speaker 3: Y'all, best your best nineties attire. Put this shit on period.

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Speaker 1: So we'll see y'all soon.

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Speaker 3: No Vember two, fifth, House the Blues in Houston. What's up,

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Speaker 3: y'all is your girl lex p Andy, Sugarl Dre and

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Speaker 3: the cold.

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Speaker 1: And you are tuned in to another episode.

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Speaker 2: Upon mind, whereas mine speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: All right, it's just us today, per I.

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Speaker 2: Had to cross my legs. I feel like that makes

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Speaker 2: me look more professional.

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Speaker 3: So you know what, when I found out.

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Speaker 1: Crossing your legs this is actually like a whore thing

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Speaker 1: to do, so like, no, don't make me look so

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Speaker 1: how you're supposed to sit? This is literally, this is real.

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Speaker 1: You're actually supposed to cross at the ankles. You're supposed

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Speaker 1: to cross at the ankles, like that's what's more professional

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Speaker 1: and more lady like?

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Speaker 3: Why, I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I just feel like if you looked

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Speaker 2: it up, then why you didn't really look it up?

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Speaker 3: It was like a random like fact a long time

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Speaker 3: ago that I learned and you didn't care to find out.

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Speaker 1: I didn't care to find out why, But because I

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Speaker 1: just still cross my edge, I'm still once a long

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Speaker 1: time not long ago. I was just you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I feel like I sit more comfortable

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Speaker 1: like this because I feel like when you're sitting like this,

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Speaker 3: Have a dress on that gap be right there, that

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Speaker 2: In your dress, Well I mean if you have a

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Speaker 2: dress on, depending on how short childress is, Like, if

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Speaker 2: you sit like these, people can see up your dress.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if I sit like this and I

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Speaker 1: little space right here, and that makes sense. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: I feel like I like crossing my legs, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: they say you're supposed to cross that the ankle just

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Speaker 1: a little fyi for y'all.

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Speaker 3: So, okay, I love a fun fat, a little fun fat.

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Speaker 3: I love me a fun fat. So it's been up, girl,

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Speaker 3: Like we've been traveling in the life.

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Speaker 2: We've been like all over the place, all over the pimping,

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Speaker 3: The women in the can why did they? Why did

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Speaker 3: he say caviar?

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Speaker 2: Like a lot of a lot of people like caviar,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like maybe I'm just still ghetto. It

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Speaker 2: hard because my pellty is not that extensive. I personally

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Speaker 3: It's like fishy. It just it's not It's just not

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Speaker 2: I don't like the way it tastes. And I feel

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Speaker 2: like I've tried numerous different types and I just don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's like a certain type that you

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Speaker 1: can have that's supposed to be like, you know, like

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Speaker 1: a beginner caviar. But I'm not a beginner. I tried

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Speaker 3: What is? What is expert caviard?

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Speaker 2: Bitch the people, the real Cavard connoisseurs, that's what they eat.

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Speaker 3: You're real. Now, I'm not a real eater. I'm not.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it. It's not why would you stick y'all?

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Speaker 3: Fat ass tongue? Fat you? It's fat? Why would you

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Speaker 3: do that? I was drinking my dream. No, he was nice.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you a questions. This is a serious question.

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Speaker 3: It's nice, bro, come on, you know me. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: But that tongue work okay well in the pinions because

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Speaker 2: like you see yr song, at least it's not white.

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Speaker 3: If it was white, if he had a white tongue,

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Speaker 1: Like, and then he had two straws like this, he

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Speaker 3: I would feel a violady.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, that's very like that is sexually aggressive for

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Speaker 2: the first day.

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Speaker 3: Why did you say a first day? I just said,

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Speaker 2: If we already, if we already doing it, yeah, then

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Speaker 2: I would be like, you ready.

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Speaker 3: Look so you would like it? I mean like, if

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Speaker 3: how you gonna think it's funny?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't think we having fun like it's funny.

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Speaker 2: But no, but if it was the first day, hell no,

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Speaker 2: I would feel fucking violated. Its actually a salty, low

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Speaker 2: key like why would you do that to me?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you don't even know if I'm own eggs? So

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Speaker 1: Ask you this though, how do you feel about kissing

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Speaker 1: on the first date?

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Speaker 3: Cause y'all know I recently have came.

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Speaker 1: Out that I am I'm single again back on the

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Speaker 1: prow which you know, I'm okay with because I enjoy dating.

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Speaker 1: I have fun dating because I feel like I'm a

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Speaker 1: good dater. I'm not a perfect person, but I'm a

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Speaker 1: fun dater. So I went on a first date and

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Speaker 1: I had actually a really fucking good time. So how

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Speaker 4: Shee.

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Speaker 3: If I like you do, you can kiss me.

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Speaker 1: So you don't mind kissing on the first goal. I

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like.

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Speaker 2: Cause I'm not gonna kiss you first though. You gotta like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I like you, then I'm like, I'm cool with you.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, don't get me wrong, like I would

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Speaker 1: you're trying to take it slow, cause the most act

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Speaker 1: if the first date is good, I'm fucking by the

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Speaker 1: third day.

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Speaker 3: Wait. Wait, I thought we was connecting them. I thought

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Speaker 2: You no, I just know you.

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Speaker 3: So I knew it was go go left, queen.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you, like okay, So I

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Speaker 1: went on the first date the other day. Then we

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Speaker 1: went on a second date, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: It was so hard not to get I was. I

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Speaker 1: almost gave them yams up real.

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Speaker 3: Bad on the first day.

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Speaker 2: It was the second day then I'm sorry bad second date.

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Speaker 1: He had the mac and cheese, I had the yams

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Speaker 1: and they was touching.

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Speaker 3: It was looking like a Thanksgiving place. So what happened?

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Speaker 2: Why you didn't give it up? Because I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: third day?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So no, wait, let me one more date. Nigga.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is about me. I think

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Speaker 1: it's because I always like, I don't know. I always

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Speaker 1: am very open, Like I like to travel, I'm very

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Speaker 3: Of woman I am.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is about me. But every

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Speaker 1: on a trip. Yeah, every time I meet a guy,

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Speaker 1: he's like, where you want to go? I want to

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Speaker 1: take you on a vacation. It always happens to me,

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Speaker 1: So I feel like a lot of times that's what

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Speaker 3: Like, fucky, we are side.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying like, you know, my last little

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Speaker 1: but we never gave him a nickname because that's my homie,

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Speaker 1: like we friends, like we're cool now, but.

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Speaker 3: Like our fourth day. No, we never gave him a nigad.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say no, you you gave him a

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Speaker 1: feel like I don't know, but I'm gonna try. I'm

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Speaker 1: out to I don't know. I'm gonna actually I'm try.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try the ninety.

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Speaker 3: Day rule again. I'm taking an old school that's a

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Speaker 2: I just feel like, if you like somebody, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I have this theory on like making

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Speaker 2: six with you, because I just feel like if that's

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Speaker 2: what a nigga won't, then he gonna still fuck you

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Speaker 2: and not fuck with.

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Speaker 3: You like that. And I always believe that too.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we were right and obviously we're not talking

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Speaker 2: about shoe situation, like not saying that that's what this

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Speaker 3: Or try to do to you.

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Speaker 2: But I just have a theory of like if you

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Speaker 2: like somebody and you feeling them, and that's what you

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Speaker 2: want to do.

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Speaker 3: We all grown adults like.

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Speaker 5: That.

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Speaker 3: I did up and really feeling you. Remember that song?

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Speaker 3: There was this guy that I'm digging. I don't think

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Speaker 3: that's how we go?

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Speaker 4: Was this guy that I'm I don't know what I'm

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Speaker 4: looking for, don't know what to be. We've been talking, Yes,

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Speaker 4: you know what I'm talking to.

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Speaker 3: You know, I swear I really do remember this. That

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Speaker 3: is so funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead, go ahead that I I think I

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Speaker 2: harmony this.

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Speaker 3: I gotta start over. What we drinking? That called me

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Speaker 3: off guard? What are we drinking? This is damn?

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Speaker 1: What was that?

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Speaker 3: Was not prepared? I had a few not prepared? I

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Speaker 3: got it, I got it.

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Speaker 6: I'm really trying to find the Salaun song that she

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Speaker 6: was talking about because I could not figure.

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Speaker 3: It out at all. I'm like, Tony, what's the name

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Speaker 3: with it? This one?

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Speaker 6: We're gonna call the cuffing season. Okay, so it's cold

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Speaker 3: Today, speaking of letting the.

446
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 1: Chop of scene, that brings us to the first topic.

447
00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 1: So today I wanted to talk about this because you

448
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,360
Speaker 1: know what, on this show, we talk about dating a lot,

449
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,239
Speaker 1: We talk about relationship topics a lot, and we talk

450
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: about how men don't do this, men don't do that,

451
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 1: and we always get on the men and we talk

452
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: about how dating is so hard for us because we

453
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 1: feel like we're the complete package.

454
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. I still stand by that.

455
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: I think I'm beautiful, I think I'm funny. I think

456
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 1: I have things to bring to the table. I'm a

457
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,679
Speaker 1: very confident person. But you know what, I had a

458
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: moment and I had things happen in these last three

459
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 1: days that realize, you know what, when people say it's

460
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: pee in the dating pool, I.

461
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: Might be a little bit of that YearIn lit. I mean, licks.

462
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 1: All right, bitch, hold on, bring it back now that

463
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,239
Speaker 1: god damn it.

464
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair, that's fair enough.

465
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:51,159
Speaker 1: Because I realized, y'all, this is something that I'm truly confessing.

466
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:56,199
Speaker 3: On the show. I have anger issues and it was

467
00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 3: brought to me and my ex.

468
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to say his name on the show,

469
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: no mom, but I don't give a fuck because that's

470
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: my nigga, like Rapper Bay me and him. Still, you know,

471
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 1: I'm a that's somebody who's always gonna be a character.

472
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 3: In my life. I was it's good and juicy. But anyway,

473
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 3: so y'all, Rapperbe is somebody.

474
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: Don't y'all for y'all out there, who know who Rapper

475
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 1: Bay is.

476
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 3: You don't know who he is. You mayby fucking him,

477
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 3: you may be So. I ain't going nowhere. I'm just

478
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 3: that girl that always gonna be around. Why would you

479
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 3: say that there's probably some girls out hit.

480
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 1: Up be like ah, because the girl he was with,

481
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: she was a listener, so she put two and two together. Girl,

482
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: she probably don't watch no more. But anyway, So I

483
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: said all that to say I had a conversation with

484
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,919
Speaker 1: him and we were talking. He was like, yeah, he

485
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 1: was like, when you're drinking, or even when you're sober,

486
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 1: when you're sober, like when you are mad and you're upset,

487
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 1: you be coming for blood.

488
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 3: He was like, it's things that you've said to me

489
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 3: that are literally unforg givable. But I love you so much.

490
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 1: I forgive you, and you're somebody I know who's gonna

491
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 1: be around. I know it's things that you need to

492
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: work on. And he was like, but you don't understand

493
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: that chips away at me. So I had a situation

494
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: with you know somebody, and I got mad.

495
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 3: I got mad, and I released a baby beast because I.

496
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 1: Didn't think I was going hard. The shit that I've

497
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: done to raper bad. I'm not gonna lie like when

498
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: I be going in on him, nigga, it gets ugly

499
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: in the field.

500
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 3: Okay.

501
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 1: So I was like when I called him and I

502
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 1: was like, am I a mean person?

503
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 3: He was like, hell, yeah, you mean as fuck.

504
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: Especially when you're mad, you don't know how to express

505
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 1: yourself properly, like you be trying to break a nigga down.

506
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, that's that's my

507
00:24:54,280 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: pee that's my urine, you know.

508
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 3: And yeah, it is, that's my urine.

509
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: Like when people like somebody I date, that's why, like

510
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: this is like it's peeing the day Like he could

511
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: the person I did that too, you know, you could

512
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 1: possibly say that about me, because it was like, you know,

513
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: this is the second time you've done this, and I

514
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: don't like that. And I was like, fuck, I need

515
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: to really take a step back and really kind of

516
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: evaluate the things I do and my communication. And when

517
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 1: I was talking to you about it this morning when

518
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 1: we were on the phone, you expressed that to me.

519
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: You was like, yeah, you know, I've never seen you

520
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: get mad, but you saw an instance where you was like, oh, Okay,

521
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: this ain't the side I've ever seen.

522
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

523
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 2: So you know, Lex is very non confrontational when it

524
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 2: comes to her friendships, and I feel like that's because,

525
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: like you always said on the show all the time,

526
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: it's because you like really value your friendships.

527
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 3: I guess because you never really had.

528
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: Like a big family stuff, so you look at your

529
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: friends and family. So I feel like lexis not conversational

530
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: like anytime me and herdin't got into it over the years,

531
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 2: or we done have a disagreement, it be me, because

532
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 2: I'm gonna, well not it be me, but I'm gonna

533
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 2: say something like I'm the reason why we having the

534
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 2: conversation in the first place, because I'm like, look at me,

535
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: you like you didn't need this issue. Don't get me off,

536
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 2: like you up whatever we talk and were talking about

537
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 2: it Indian, she do sometimes she be calm, but then

538
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,919
Speaker 2: sometimes she do react like we really have got into

539
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 2: like deep arguments, alcations and stuff.

540
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 3: But she ain't never like charged at me or like being.

541
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 2: Disrespectful or like spass.

542
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 3: Or called me some crazy sit.

543
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 2: So I didn't even know you was like you had

544
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 2: this side of you in you and I had been

545
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 2: knowing you at this point last year for like six years.

546
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: I didn't even know that she was in hung I

547
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 2: was like, oh, she's so, she's so nice. Like, I know,

548
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,120
Speaker 2: you disagree with people and stuff, but like the way

549
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: you argue with that nigga outside of the club. Last year,

550
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 2: she got real and this was not her X or

551
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,239
Speaker 2: nobody like, this was like a nigga that she was

552
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 2: cool with. Now, I guess you know, at one point,

553
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 2: y'all kind of did like you should have, but he

554
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 2: just never like I was bored.

555
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 3: I was bored, let's be honest, that's fair.

556
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 2: But y'all was kind of y'all talking.

557
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 3: We were texting, Okay, y'all were texting. We never went

558
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 3: on a day.

559
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 2: Y'all was texting, but you know, it was never nothing

560
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 2: that was the series. They never went nowhere.

561
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 3: But like the way y'all, she's passed on anything outside

562
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 3: the club, like I was shook. She was told to

563
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,439
Speaker 3: cold with this nigga. I was ready to find you.

564
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 3: Was like, yeah, yeah, bitch, ask nigga. I was like,

565
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 3: I was like, you a bitch, your mama, bitch, everybody

566
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 3: a bitch. When eventually you have a kid, She go

567
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 3: be a bitch, hang your broke away. Hobby was there.

568
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 3: Hobby was Hobby was there there like Hobby was it

569
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 3: was he was Hobby. Do you mind coming into space

570
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: and saying your experience?

571
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: Can I give you the micro quick, because no, I

572
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: want to hear it from Hobby's point of view.

573
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,679
Speaker 3: That was a different time. And then Ryan and Chatty

574
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 3: geta and it.

575
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 2: Was like, al, all right, let's get Hobbies this side

576
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 2: of the stool last year and he's.

577
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 3: Gonna lose on tour.

578
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 5: I mean, it was just one of them situations where

579
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 5: like I really can't describe it, Like.

580
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 3: You never seen that side of her before? Yeah?

581
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 5: Yes, like y I never want to fuck up ever.

582
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 5: Like seeing that side, I'm like, yeah, uh uh. And

583
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 5: you ain't know she had it in because she's just

584
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 5: so nice and sweet and ship but it's like you

585
00:28:58,960 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 5: pissed legs off.

586
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 3: It's m hmm. I'm surprised you ain't swing. She was

587
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 3: about too.

588
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 2: That's when Brian them mad to come in because you

589
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: was mad, Like it was crazy and like even at

590
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: your even at your best friend, like I've been on

591
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: you since we since I was with twenty three.

592
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 3: Was twenty five, Like, I have never seen you be

593
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 3: like that with nobody ever.

594
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: So I'm just like, well, damn, if that is how

595
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 2: you be with your niggas, then you definitely gotta ang

596
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: a problem for show.

597
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: Okay, So let me say this, like, if this is

598
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: how you be going a nigga, that's crazy.

599
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 3: And what's crazy?

600
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: Like I said, when I got into an argument with

601
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: this person, thank you Hobby, Thank you Hobby, your test.

602
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 3: For your testimony.

603
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: But I'm glad that he said that because for him

604
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: to describe me as a month, I was a month.

605
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 3: I was a monster.

606
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: But I need to hear that because I always felt

607
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: like every time I got into it with like Rapper

608
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: Bear or any of my exes, I was like, cause

609
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: you deserved it.

610
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 3: This is a reaction to your actions. So I was always.

611
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: Making it an excuse. So and I am an advocate

612
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: for it. It's not about what you say, is how

613
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: you say say it. Because my feelings are valid, but

614
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: I need to learn how to express them properly.

615
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 3: So when I'm going back and looking.

616
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: At these text messages, I'm like, oh my god, like you,

617
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: this was a little harsh and this is a little mean,

618
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: But I mean. He I literally I got on the

619
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: phone with Rapper Bay this morning and I was talking.

620
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 3: I was like, am I a mean person?

621
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: He was like, hell, yeah, you mean because he has

622
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: gotten the butt of everything Like that shit that y'all

623
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: saw that was light work compared to what I'll be doing.

624
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 3: First of all, I have to play. This was ebagre.

625
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 3: He be doing some yeah of crazy. No, he definitely does.

626
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 3: He definitely does. I'm not saying I'm.

627
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 2: Saying that that's an excuse because I am a person

628
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: who I do feel like if you don't want somebody

629
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: to talk to you crazy, or if you don't want

630
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 2: somebody to handle you crazy, you don't need to be.

631
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: Talking to them like this.

632
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: I'm big on stuff like this, So I definitely feel

633
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: like that doesn't give you a right just because he

634
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: be doing shit, It don't give you a right to

635
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 2: like call him a be chass nigga or like. So

636
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: that doesn't make things okay. But at the same time,

637
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 2: like people be doing shit too, Like he be doing

638
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 2: stuff too. He be triggering you, Yeah, And that's why

639
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 2: I just ultimately the point of what I'm trying to

640
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 2: say is I just feel like y'all are both toxic

641
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 2: for each other, Like, yeah, it's just a toxic situation,

642
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 2: Like it's both parties, Like he be doing shit, then

643
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 2: the way you react and then y'all end up getting.

644
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 3: Into a fight, Like it's just it's toxic.

645
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 2: Like you need to be with a man who know

646
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: how to handle your emotions, but you also need to

647
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 2: be with a man who don't make you want to

648
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: react that way. Because I feel like I can honestly

649
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 2: say two we was talking about this earlier. When I

650
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 2: was younger. I used to pass on niggas like that too,

651
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: Like I used to be like a nigga had me

652
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 2: fucked up, I'll be on the phone, you be chass, nigga,

653
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 2: I'll be going off. Now I feel like I don't

654
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: even date niggas who make me want to react.

655
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 3: And that's fine. Like I would never talk to people

656
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 3: that I've dated.

657
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 2: I would say, in probably like the past two three years,

658
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: I would never talk to none of them like this,

659
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: And I'm dated now, right and that, And you know what,

660
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: we talked about this a little bit on that episode

661
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 2: we had with Breathe. So what I'm realizing is I

662
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: don't want to talk to anybody that way.

663
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: And I'd be in my head thinking I would never

664
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: talk to this man this way. I would never do that.

665
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: It don't matter who it is. I got anger issues.

666
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: But I disagree because you don't have anger issues when

667
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 2: it comes to your friend.

668
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm also not sucking your dick and fucking

669
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: you and I'm not in love with you or whatever

670
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: feelings that I have. It's a different it's a different level,

671
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: it's a different it's just different. I don't have this

672
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: energy from my friends because.

673
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 3: I don't know why I don't.

674
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: But when it comes to men, something in me is

675
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: a little bit broken and hurt.

676
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 3: I don't know where that anger comes from. And people

677
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: probably see it on the show and they be like, oh,

678
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: she's just a she hates me, and she maybe it is.

679
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I am, But I am finally okay with saying

680
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: it out loud and admitting it. I have some hurt

681
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: deep down inside, some kind of trauma that I need

682
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: to address because I be even when Neil shot Bay,

683
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 1: I done said some mean ass shit to him. I'm

684
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: not nice as I thought I was, so all this stuff,

685
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: all these great characteristics too.

686
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. And we had a conversation

687
00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 3: about that this morning.

688
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: All these great characteristics I have, I've been thinking, oh,

689
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: you're this perfect woman, and I ain't gonna lie. I

690
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: had a situation because I'm used to everybody babing me

691
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: too every time I do something. He like Rapper Bay

692
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: was always forgiving me. Nail Shot Bay was forgiving me

693
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: all these other men. Because I don't know why this

694
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: nigga he's he.

695
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 3: He was standing on business. He said, I appreciate your apology,

696
00:33:55,360 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 3: but I don't forgive you. I said, God, you don't

697
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 3: have to. Yeah. So I was like, Okay, this is

698
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 3: an issue.

699
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: And when I actually was calm, you know, me and

700
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: Rapper Bay are friends now, and I got on the

701
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: phone with him, he was like, yes, and I cannot

702
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: believe you're actually admitting this and saying this.

703
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 3: But this also goes with growth, Like I'm growing.

704
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm not perfect, nigga, I'm still trying, but the first

705
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: step is admitting, right, you know. So I wanted to

706
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 1: talk about obviously we're talking about anger issues today. I

707
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: want to talk about signs that you have anger issues, symptoms,

708
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: and how to help help with it, because honestly, moving

709
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: forward in my therapy sessions. I think if you're in

710
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: therapy out there a lot of times what I do

711
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: in therapy is I talk about how people have hurt

712
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: me and how they wronged me.

713
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 3: I never talk about what I've done to add to that.

714
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: So moving forward, I am a victim.

715
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 3: Baby. I will shoot somebody in a leg and they

716
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 3: shoot me back. I'll be like, look what she did.

717
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: Look at this bitch, But I ain't tell you I

718
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: shot her on the leg a little bit.

719
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: Be damn, it was just the ankle, little See the

720
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 3: thing about me. I'm gonna tell y'all, she shot me.

721
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: Lexy playing I do. We was at the show, instantly,

722
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: at the show if it was the Philly or DC,

723
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: whenever we was there, and the girl was like, Drey

724
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: are always snitching on legs.

725
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 3: That's supposed to be your friend. I don't be on her.

726
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:36,920
Speaker 3: She be lying and victim and being a victim.

727
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna read some of these things that show if.

728
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 2: He sent my uh apple pile, I'm fucking weak.

729
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

730
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 1: So these are some signs that you have anger issues,

731
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: And like I said, anger issues don't necessarily mean that you.

732
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 3: Are physically violent.

733
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: I feel like most of the time I be spassing,

734
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm a screamer. I'm gonna text some mean I'm gonna

735
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: say some.

736
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 3: Mean ass shit.

737
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 1: Like when I was looking back at these texts, I

738
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 1: was like wow, like and to me it wasn't bad,

739
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: but obviously knowing the person I'm dealing with, like he

740
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: didn't deserve that, you know what I'm saying.

741
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 3: So one of the.

742
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: Signs that you have anger issues is reacting quickly and

743
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: violently to small problems, like for example, they put an

744
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: example becoming angry when somebody bumps you. So I feel like, honestly,

745
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. Okay, let me tell you what

746
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 1: happens that makes me mad. I hate when I'm walking

747
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: some way and this is I was like, this is

748
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: the thing that I have to talk to my therapist about.

749
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: If we walk in the same way and we in

750
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: a tightening spect, if I move my shoulder, you need

751
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: to move yours too, and we need to work together

752
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: to squeeze through this fucking spot.

753
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: If I don't see you move at the last minute, bitch.

754
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: I'm bumping you and I'm looking back at you because

755
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: I started doing that because I feel like, especially with

756
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: white people, they just don't be wanting to move over

757
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: on the sidewalk, and they feel like we should always move.

758
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 3: Maybe that's me being too woke. Maybe I don't know,

759
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: but I'm not. If you move, we can move together, bitch.

760
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: If I move, you move, just like that. Period.

761
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, hey, DJ, bring that the fuck back. You

762
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: know you feel me?

763
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 3: So yeah? That shit do be fit.

764
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: Another one accusing friends and relatives of disrespecting you or

765
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: going behind your back.

766
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: You think you do that. I'm not gonna lie.

767
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: When me and this person got into it, it was

768
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,879
Speaker 1: because I did something and he reacted to what I did,

769
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: and then I got mad at him for reacting to

770
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: what I did because I, like I said, I do

771
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: play the victim. I will throw a rock and hide

772
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: my motherfucking hands. And I always think everybody out to

773
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: get me, and it's like, bitch, sometimes people not always

774
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: out to get you.

775
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: You just be doing stupid shit. So I took that.

776
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 3: As you find disagree, you don't need to comment no more.

777
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 3: Shut up. I like this cos he's going, well, okay,

778
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 3: I'm taking accountability. Okay, I know.

779
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, okay, So this is the big one

780
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: for me.

781
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,479
Speaker 3: So when I read this, list. I was like, this

782
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 3: is the big one.

783
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 1: Feeling frustrated with your actions during an argument or regretting

784
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: them instantly after the event.

785
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 3: So this is when I realized. I was like, okay,

786
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 3: this is me.

787
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: Because the next day we was at the like when

788
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: that incident that Hovey and Drea just talked about the

789
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: next day at the airport incident.

790
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 2: It was an incident, was not aid is making it

791
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 2: seem like it was small. That was a catastrophe.

792
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: A catastrophe is crazy? It up. I did shut it down,

793
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 3: like everybody went home.

794
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 2: They had to put cones on the street. They shut

795
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 2: the street down.

796
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 3: But your my name, bring the whole city out. Okay, okay,

797
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 3: but what I'm saying.

798
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: All but the next day, now, don't get it twisted.

799
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 3: I didn't regret charged that nigg up because he had

800
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 3: me fucked up.

801
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't regrett how you got to everybody neither

802
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 2: you told everybody and funck all of y'all said that Hobby.

803
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 2: She was like the only person I the only person

804
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 2: I've apologizing.

805
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 3: To is Drea.

806
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 2: And that's because me and Drea have a business together

807
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: and that's my best friend.

808
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry Drea. If I embarrassed you, I was.

809
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: The only person you apologized, and I stand on that.

810
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: She said it, sorry, Hobby, I apologize you too. I apologize, Hobby.

811
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, okay.

812
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 2: And I was sitting They're.

813
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: Like, oh to me, Toronto, no, you was cutting up bad.

814
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 3: That's one of them.

815
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: I was about to say, that's one of them instidents

816
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 2: where I wish we had a video, but I do.

817
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: I forgot. Do you do remember? Remember you remember Jordan

818
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,919
Speaker 3: send this to me? Oh yeah he did.

819
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 2: He did, Okay you they had cameras outside.

820
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: He didn't have the cameras, but he was sending it

821
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 3: to people too. That was That's why.

822
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: That's how I see it, because he sits into Jordan

823
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you was.

824
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 3: Ready to cut it. I I was ready to fight

825
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 3: that you was couldn't up.

826
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: But anyways, one of the things about anger management is

827
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 1: like the next day you regretted.

828
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 3: The next day I regretted.

829
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: Not not to him, but when I walked in that

830
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: airport and everybody was like sitting because we were waiting

831
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: on our flight. I was like this, hey, hang on

832
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: your like Cat was the only one.

833
00:40:55,520 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 3: I was like, what's up? Hey? Hey? Cat was ready

834
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 3: than everybody was like, Dray was like this, you were

835
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 3: so bad. I could not believe you were behaving that way.

836
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: But that's I know, Dread, I'm really bad and so honestly,

837
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: I was.

838
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 3: A liquor to though.

839
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: But which gets into head another thing that they have

840
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: on the least, becoming angry or violent during or after

841
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,520
Speaker 2: consuming alcohol. When I get there, you would never act

842
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 2: like that if you were sober.

843
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: But okay, so this is where I'm like, hmm, because

844
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: sometimes I do, but it's not as bad.

845
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 3: But when I'm drinking and you do something to upset me.

846
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: But this is also the thing I also give people warnings.

847
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: I kept telling that nigga, I don't want to talk.

848
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to I said that constantly. He was

849
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 3: pressing me. Yeah.

850
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: So one thing I will say is like, even when

851
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: I got into it with this person, it's like they

852
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 1: can texting me. And I was like, you know, I

853
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: was like outside and I'm like drinking and doing x

854
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: y Z all right, was shipping to get real ugly academics.

855
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Sorry I thought this was

856
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 3: patre Hunt. Still look fucking you know what I mean.

857
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is like, I just felt like

858
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: when you try to back me in the corner, I

859
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: gotta fight my way out. I don't know where this

860
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: anger comes from. I don't know what, but I'm glad

861
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: that you was on.

862
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 3: The boulevard acting real ugly. Yeah, you was cutting up.

863
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 3: I look.

864
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 2: I get it though, because we had talked about these

865
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: earlier too, and I was saying for me, I don't

866
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: think I have anger issues necessarily, but I definitely when

867
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 2: when the Lika gidi me woul drunk, I'm gonna let

868
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: the chop of c every time on everybody, like it

869
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 2: don't matter if you piece me off. It could have

870
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 2: been you pieced me off like last year, and I'm like, Beach,

871
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: I'm on your ass.

872
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 1: Drea, don't forget shit, drab be bringing up shit seven

873
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: years ago.

874
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 3: I'm like, bro, that was the first day we met Lex.

875
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 3: We think we moved on, not oh bitch never.

876
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: But and I will also say this, so today I

877
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 1: made a conscious decision though obviously with my job, I

878
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: feel like I'm more comfortable on camera. I can be

879
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: honest and real, like I'm gonna drink whenever we record, whenever.

880
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just like much, so like socially drink

881
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,479
Speaker 1: as much though, like when I go out to eat,

882
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: or I go on a date, or or especially.

883
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 3: If I'm going through something.

884
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 1: Last year, when my mom passed, I made a conscious

885
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: decision not to drink. I wanted to go through that sober,

886
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: and I wanted to get through it on my own.

887
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,479
Speaker 1: I didn't want to turn to alcohol, and I didn't

888
00:43:58,560 --> 00:43:59,800
Speaker 1: drink unless I was working.

889
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: So I think what I'm.

890
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: Going to do for the next you know, few months,

891
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:05,919
Speaker 1: is just I need to back up on the liquor

892
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: a little bit and take accountability and really stand in

893
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: my shit. I need to stand in my shit to

894
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: really heal and grow and become a better person for real.

895
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: Because honestly, when I was talking to this person and

896
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: talking to Rapper Bay about my anger issues, I didn't

897
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: even think of that instance.

898
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 3: You the one who brought it up to me. You

899
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, bitch, because.

900
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 2: That not well only because and the only reason I

901
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: brought it up is because you were explaining to me

902
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 2: how you react to them in private, and like the

903
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 2: conversations y'all be having, and then you were saying how

904
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 2: you be so angry and you be fasting and I'm like, well,

905
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: I have never seen you act that way ever towards

906
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 2: any of your friends when me and you get into

907
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 2: an argument, like, I've never seen you react that way.

908
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 2: If anything, I would consider you to be a non

909
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: confrontational person.

910
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 3: But then I was like.

911
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, bit chy'all went back to that time

912
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 2: and I said, I'm not gonna lie.

913
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 3: I didn't even know you had this shit eu. I

914
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: was shug. I was shug. I was a little scared, dude.

915
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 3: I was like, what is going on? I would never

916
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:10,720
Speaker 3: treat you like that? Book?

917
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 2: No, I know, I know, but it's also not okay

918
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:14,879
Speaker 2: to treat other people like.

919
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: No, it's not it's not And that's something that, like

920
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 1: I said, moving on in therapy, I'm going.

921
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 3: To talk to her about the shit I do.

922
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times in therapy I was

923
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: playing the victim and I need to stop doing that

924
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: because bitch.

925
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 2: But I told you, I don't feel like you play

926
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 2: victim on purpose, like I feel like you're you don't

927
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: never have bad intention right, I don't think you ever

928
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 2: have bad intentions. And so because you don't have bad intentions,

929
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 2: and you could be a little selfie shit at times

930
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:54,000
Speaker 2: I think that you would be feeling like, oh, well,

931
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 2: like that wasn't my intention.

932
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to do.

933
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,479
Speaker 2: This, so like, why are you attacking me? Or why

934
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: do you feel or why are you trying to make

935
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 2: me feel bad about it? But it's like, Okay, even

936
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 2: though there wasn't Joe Int, this is how you made

937
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 2: somebody feel like, this is how you reacted to the

938
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 2: situation or whatever you need. This is still what you

939
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: did right even though there wasn't Joe Int, and you

940
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 2: got to own it.

941
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: I still beat your ass, though, so stop playing with me.

942
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: What that means everybody who wants to smoke bitch.

943
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 3: I ain't learned. Okay, let's move on to the next topic.

944
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 3: And this is why you need betterhelp dot com.

945
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: Guess better help dot com for real? I cannot wait

946
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: till my therapy.

947
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966
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Speaker 3: Did you go ahead? Drea? So, But the second topic,

967
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 3: I had seen this.

968
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 2: Video that was going viral or whatever on Twitter, and

969
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 2: it was basically like a woman saying that you either

970
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: can have a man or you can have standards, but

971
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: you ain't gonna have both, okay. And I thought that

972
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 2: that was a very interesting, you know, perspective to have because.

973
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: I could kind of see I could kind of see

974
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 3: what she's saying. So, like, I want to know how

975
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 3: you feel about that, a man?

976
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: So, do you feel like you don't like, do you

977
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: feel like all of your standards are still held? And

978
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: you have your man or do you not, like you've

979
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,240
Speaker 1: had to lose a couple of stands.

980
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 2: Your mind, not lose, not lose my standards. No, never that,

981
00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 2: because I'm never gonna lose my standards, Like I still

982
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 2: have certain standards. A nigga gotta meet certain things in

983
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 2: order to date me or be my man.

984
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,799
Speaker 3: But I think that it's certain things that.

985
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 2: Especially too, when you fall in love with somebody, and

986
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: you love someone, you gonna you you being.

987
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 3: A little bit more than you normally. Would you hit

988
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 3: that stinky leg a little bit?

989
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you you gonna be in the little big if

990
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 2: you really care about somebody, And sometimes it might be

991
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 2: to the point that it makes you maybe a little

992
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: bit uncomfortable or takes you out of your comfort zone

993
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:58,240
Speaker 2: because normally about this about certain shit, I'm standing on business.

994
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 3: Like, no, nigga, you got me fucked up.

995
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 2: But because I love you, because I'm with you, because

996
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: I want to make this work, I'm like, Okay, well,

997
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 2: I mean we'll see, like we can see what we

998
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 2: could do, we can try to figure it out. So

999
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 2: I don't want to say you have to lose your

1000
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 2: standards to have a man, but I definitely feel like

1001
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 2: to be in a relationship and to sustain a relationship,

1002
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 2: you have to be a person who is willing to

1003
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 2: hit that Yeah, you gotta hit that stanky And I

1004
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: don't even want to say compromise because to me, sometimes

1005
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 2: it's a little further than compromise.

1006
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 3: Yes, it's not compromised.

1007
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: You gotta past what what what's past compromise?

1008
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 3: Okay, that you gotta and you don't want to do it.

1009
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to do it, but you're gonna

1010
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 1: do it, but you hit that whole.

1011
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna still hit.

1012
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: That hole because I love you, nigga, But I think

1013
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: that it goes both ways.

1014
00:49:59,160 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 3: Pull yeah, for sure.

1015
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: And that's what I wanted to get at too, because,

1016
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 1: like I said, me sitting in my shit, I'm standing

1017
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: in my shit this episode.

1018
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 3: This is what I'm doing.

1019
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: That nigga was hitting that stanky leg for me. He

1020
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 1: hit that stink leg real hard. You know what I'm saying,

1021
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: Because even before you know this shit that we went

1022
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: through in the past year and a half, I was like, damn,

1023
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: I did a lot of shit. I did some fucked

1024
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: up shit, and he was hitting that stankilate like a

1025
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: motherfucker so a lot of times in a relationship period,

1026
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that you have to let go all

1027
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: of your standards. So in that video, it was like

1028
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,879
Speaker 1: she was basically saying, you're gonna have standards, you're gonna

1029
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: have a man.

1030
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 3: You can't have both, so you gotta. Yeah, she was like,

1031
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 3: you gotta let go of your standards and then you

1032
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 3: can have a man. You know what I'm saying.

1033
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that, and I don't put that

1034
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that either.

1035
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 3: I don't put that.

1036
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,439
Speaker 1: Energy in the air because I truly believe I'm gonna

1037
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: find a person that's for me.

1038
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 3: Now, I'm not gonna check off all.

1039
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: Of his boxes and maybe vice versa, but it's gonna

1040
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: be like nine out of ten of the boxes gonna

1041
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: be checking, and it's gonna be that one thing I

1042
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: don't mind hitting the thanky leg about. I'm a very

1043
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: optimistic person. I know my person's out there. I'm very

1044
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 1: confident in that same so I don't like to even

1045
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: put that energy in there. So I feel like there's

1046
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,240
Speaker 1: somebody out there for everybody. But a lot of times

1047
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,760
Speaker 1: y'all have this certain vision.

1048
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 3: And y'all just be looking at surface level shit.

1049
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: And this is why sometimes dating is hard for me,

1050
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: because I'm not a surface level person.

1051
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: And I realized that too, especially when I moved to Atlanta.

1052
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 1: Because I thought all I wanted, y'all, you know, we

1053
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: don't even say this on the show no more. I

1054
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: thought I wanted a bedb and all he had to

1055
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: do was have money and be able to take me

1056
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: out and show me a good time and take me

1057
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 1: shop and take me on trips. That's like, yeah, that's

1058
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 1: what I still want, but that's not even what really

1059
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: fucking matters.

1060
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 3: Can I sit on the couch with you, not for

1061
00:51:58,040 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 3: a real relationship.

1062
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:00,800
Speaker 1: Can I sit on the couch you in silence and

1063
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: it's not awkward and you're not bothering me, like what's wrong?

1064
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:04,760
Speaker 3: What's long?

1065
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: Can we sit and have a deep conversation and end

1066
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: up talking for four or five hours and be like, damn,

1067
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 1: where has time gone?

1068
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 3: Can we you know?

1069
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 1: Can I bring you? People don't even feel comfortable praying

1070
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: over a meal. They don't even want to grab the

1071
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: partner's hand and pray together.

1072
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,320
Speaker 3: I feel like you can't be with nobody that brings

1073
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 3: t ricks though.

1074
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: You know who it is.

1075
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: The person Hobby was just talking about t Rex is crazy.

1076
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:47,840
Speaker 1: I'll give a Jurassic Park set a monster and you

1077
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 1: said Jurassic Park t rigs.

1078
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 3: This about to name this episode. No, it's just more

1079
00:52:57,560 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 3: like t Rex got the two right.

1080
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: Well, maybe I need to call you something else.

1081
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 3: Care of that. I don't know.

1082
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not about somebody bringing that out in me.

1083
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 3: That's in me.

1084
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: I need to hear that every man is gonna bring

1085
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: that out in me because I'm broken and I'm hurt

1086
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 1: from something and I need to find what it is.

1087
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1088
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: You keep saying I don't need to date somebody every

1089
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 1: nigga brings that out of me.

1090
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:30,000
Speaker 3: But I don't think so.

1091
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 2: I think that when you find your person, the person

1092
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: that you are supposed to be with, I don't think

1093
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 2: that they're gonna bring that side out of you. And

1094
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 2: I'm I don't be patient, no, but I'm I'm speaking

1095
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 2: from a real perspective of like somebody who has dated

1096
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 2: multiple people in my life and I feel like I

1097
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: have cared like I don't. I'm a person who it

1098
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 2: takes a lot for me to really have like real

1099
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: feelings for somebody, for real but I have dated a

1100
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 2: few guys over my lifetime and over the time that

1101
00:53:58,360 --> 00:53:59,959
Speaker 2: me and you have been friends where it's being nigga

1102
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 2: that I cared about some of some of them niggas.

1103
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 2: I used to spast on them, like I used to

1104
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 2: really go off, like I really used why are you

1105
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,880
Speaker 2: roll your eyes t ricks?

1106
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: Because those were niggas that you loved, And that's.

1107
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 3: Be my thing.

1108
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, okay, And that's fair. Those

1109
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 2: were niggas that I loved, but they was not my person.

1110
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 2: They was not like a person who was meant for me.

1111
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 2: I feel like your person, a person who is meant

1112
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 2: for you will be able to calm you to a

1113
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 2: certain easy, enttain you, but not make you feel restricted,

1114
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 2: not like they trying to like keep you boxed in,

1115
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:36,800
Speaker 2: but just they know how to deal with.

1116
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 3: You, Okay.

1117
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 2: And so I feel like now the situation that I

1118
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 2: am in now, I do not react that way.

1119
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 1: But Drey, you just said they know how to deal

1120
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: with me. So it's like they're bringing it out of me.

1121
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: They just know how to handle it.

1122
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 2: No, that's not Les, No, that's not what I'm saying.

1123
00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 2: I can get into an argument with the person that

1124
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm dating now, and I will not call that a nigga,

1125
00:54:58,800 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: be ch ass nigga.

1126
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 3: I will not talk to him crazy because at the

1127
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 3: end of.

1128
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 2: The day, I respect him. I'm not gonna talk to

1129
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:09,280
Speaker 2: him like that. It's also our communication. Our communication style

1130
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:13,560
Speaker 2: is not toxic, like it's very mature adult communication. I

1131
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 2: feel like in my past it's been like toxic shit

1132
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 2: like you blocking me, I'm blocking you. You will be

1133
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 2: chanting to go okay, batch you got me fucked up too,

1134
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 2: And we blocking each other and were doing all of

1135
00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,719
Speaker 2: these extra sheet It's like, yeah, we did love each other,

1136
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 2: we cared about each other, but like clearly you bring

1137
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 2: the worst out of me. You are not good for me,

1138
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 2: And I feel.

1139
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,719
Speaker 3: Like, go ahead, don't go ahead and finish.

1140
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, I feel like these situations

1141
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 2: that you're talking about that you've been in, it's because these.

1142
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 3: Are not necessarily good people for you.

1143
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:45,399
Speaker 2: If we're if me as your friend, I'm talking about

1144
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 2: the things that I've seen from the outside looking in

1145
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 2: and the back and forth, and you know, certain things

1146
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: that have come to pass since you've been dating. They're

1147
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,879
Speaker 2: not really the best person for you, and that's why

1148
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: y'all always.

1149
00:55:58,320 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 3: And I'm not disagreeing with you.

1150
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I cannot blame everything on

1151
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 1: these people bringing something out of me.

1152
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 3: I have anger issues, But.

1153
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 2: I disagree because I feel like a person in this

1154
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 2: is my opinion. Maybe we could look up having anger issues.

1155
00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 2: I feel like a person who has real anger issues.

1156
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: But you don't matter who the fuck it is. I'm

1157
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 2: spasing on everybody. I'm going off on everybody.

1158
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: I think. I feel like it's.

1159
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 2: Different that you can pick and choose, like the fact

1160
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: that you can be like, Okay, I'm gonna only go

1161
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 2: off on my niggas. I'm not gonna go off on

1162
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 2: my friends, right, I'm not gonna go off on my sister.

1163
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna go off on these people.

1164
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:37,399
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna go off on these persons. I don't.

1165
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 3: Maybe it's selective.

1166
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: Anger is because I told you I think I have

1167
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: something with men.

1168
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 3: It's something with man's deep in me. That's what I'm saying.

1169
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 3: I agree with you. These people aren't my people. They're not.

1170
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is I got some shit deep

1171
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:57,400
Speaker 3: rooted in me. I have some kind of issue.

1172
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 1: I just come in a situation like mmm, and then

1173
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: when I feel like, Okay, I meet this man, I'm

1174
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: gonna let my guard down and we're all humans, and

1175
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: as soon as you make a mistake, I'm on your

1176
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: ass and I'm on your ass super hard. And it's like,

1177
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I can say that. That's why

1178
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 1: I say I agree with you. These people aren't my people. Obviously.

1179
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 3: I have men that I dated. We're still cool, we're

1180
00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 3: still friends.

1181
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, my reaction to

1182
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: what they did, they did not deserve that. Because what

1183
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 1: I do I take shit too fucking far. And that's

1184
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,040
Speaker 1: what I'm and that's what I'm saying. I still the

1185
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 1: reason I'm disagreeing with you because I have to stand

1186
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: in my shit and hold my accountability. I cannot blame

1187
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 1: this person. Oh just because you don't bring this side

1188
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:46,959
Speaker 1: out of me kill A, don't, Lauren, don't, my sister don't.

1189
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that that is not in me. Y'all, just

1190
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: don't see that side. Because I love y'all differently. I

1191
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 1: have something weird with men that I really need to

1192
00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 1: heal and fix.

1193
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 3: And that's the truth. That's why.

1194
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: I'm not a little bit of Yarine, and I feel

1195
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: like I'm the little pee a little bit. And when

1196
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 1: men were talking about having standards or having a man,

1197
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 1: I feel like men that I've dealt with they had

1198
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: to bend their standards a little bit because they probably

1199
00:58:17,280 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: want a woman that knows how to communicate properly. I

1200
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: always thought of myself as being a good communicator because

1201
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm a degree in that I talk for a living.

1202
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: And just because I'm all these amazing things, that doesn't

1203
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: mean that I don't have my issues.

1204
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 3: And I have to stand in my shit. Drea.

1205
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: So as much as you you love me, and I've

1206
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: never done that to you, so you don't see things

1207
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: from a different point of view.

1208
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 3: You like, but that's not what it is.

1209
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: That's not what it is because I wasn't even dating

1210
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 1: that nigga, you know, I didn't even like that nigga.

1211
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: I have a weird vendett. I don't know what it is.

1212
00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: It's something in my childhood trauma maybe, or something that

1213
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: I haven't tapped into yet or figured out.

1214
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 3: So that's why I'm.

1215
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: Disagreeing with you, because I have to find out what

1216
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: it is within me and men. I talked about this

1217
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: before even when my sister and my brother in law

1218
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: got together, I was so mad at him. I was

1219
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 1: so mad at him, and I was just like ripping in.

1220
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: I was going in me mad, nasty. It ain't it ain't.

1221
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: It's something in me. And I can't blame these people

1222
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: for that. So that's why I say, but that's gets

1223
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: into the everybody around me babies.

1224
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 3: Me to a certain extent.

1225
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: See what you just did, You was like, what did

1226
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: they do? And they're everybody does the same thing to me.

1227
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 1: They always do like okay, but these people are not

1228
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 1: your people and they bring this side out.

1229
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 2: I don't think that's baby into you though. I think

1230
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: that that's just reality. Like everybody that you date, everybody

1231
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 2: that you come in contact with, friends, uh, people, men,

1232
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: everybody is just not your even fucking family, everybody.

1233
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 3: He's just not your people, right.

1234
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,840
Speaker 1: But I will say this, like when people are not

1235
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,560
Speaker 1: my people, like we just talked about on the episode

1236
01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: with New New, I was talking about how my friend

1237
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: fucked my nigga that I was dating. I didn't go

1238
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: off on her, I didn't pass on her. I didn't

1239
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: do anything, but I had that energy for him.

1240
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 3: Though. Are you on?

1241
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a day or two later, like I went

1242
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,479
Speaker 1: off on him and we're cool now, but.

1243
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 3: It's like I didn't.

1244
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: She still don't know. I'm mad and that's why I

1245
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: said it's something. It's something, It's very much something. I

1246
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: just don't know what it is. So I feel like

1247
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: as much as women we bend our standards for men,

1248
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,640
Speaker 1: they be I don't want to sound like a peat me.

1249
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: I don't, but you know, I know men have been

1250
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: their standards for me because they probably be like I don't.

1251
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: I want a woman who wants to communicate, who's healthy,

1252
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 1: who can and I can. I can honestly say I

1253
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: haven't always been that person. All I can do now

1254
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,880
Speaker 1: is take this day right now and move forward and

1255
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: acknowledge that and do things to change. But I think

1256
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 1: we all need to sometimes hold up the mirror in

1257
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: front of our faces to.

1258
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 3: Yail me.

1259
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, So let us know how y'all feel about that.

1260
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: We chatted this episode, No, I mean not really.

1261
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 3: I think we on time. So now it's time to

1262
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 3: get into the big about pal.

1263
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: So today I wanted to talk about this because we

1264
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 1: talked about this on Patreon a few weeks ago, and I.

1265
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 3: Wanted to talk about bisexual men.

1266
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 2: Sorry, can I can I get like a little apple

1267
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 2: cider on the side, though, I think I just want

1268
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 2: it on the side because I don't want a full dream.

1269
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 3: Thank you? What a sold on sade.

1270
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: So, I wanted to talk about bisexual men today because

1271
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,840
Speaker 1: like a month ago, or not a month ago, a

1272
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, whatever, Dwight Howard and all his stuff

1273
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: was going on. We talked about it on Patreon a

1274
01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, obviously, So I want to talk about

1275
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: like dating bisexual men or being sexually involved with him.

1276
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 1: Is this something that you would do open to? If

1277
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 1: you don't, if you're not open to a why or

1278
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: why not?

1279
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 3: And why not? Because I'm just not interested? Yeah, Like,

1280
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1281
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 2: It's not that I see anything necessarily wrong with it.

1282
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 2: I just want my men to only be with me.

1283
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: But a man could be straight and not only be

1284
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,919
Speaker 1: with you. What do you mean, like a man could

1285
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: be like not bisexual.

1286
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 2: Well, I talk about I want a man that's gonna

1287
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: only be with me period, at least a little girlfriend

1288
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 2: or something, because you know, I'm kind of into that, but.

1289
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 3: I just that's just not something that I'm into. That's

1290
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 3: fair though.

1291
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like and it's and it's not a problem.

1292
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 2: Like it's not a problem, it's not anything. It's not

1293
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,800
Speaker 2: that I see anything wrong with it. I just want

1294
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 2: my men to be not secondly for me and I.

1295
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't. I don't want my niggas.

1296
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 3: Look at gig. I don't want him took a digg

1297
01:03:12,080 --> 01:03:13,960
Speaker 3: I don't want him taking dig. I don't want him

1298
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 3: giving another nigga.

1299
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 2: I just it's just not what I'm interested in. I

1300
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 2: think that it's okay. I love thank you, tob. I

1301
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 2: think people that you know, push the envelope, that's crazy,

1302
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 2: but I like my envelope.

1303
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 3: I kind of want mine to stay closed.

1304
01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 1: Okay, that's I'm not trying to push it, you know

1305
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: what smart I'm more interested in It's like, why is

1306
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: that a problem if a woman has a preference that

1307
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to date bisexual men. That's what I

1308
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: just be curious about. Now what I like mess around?

1309
01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: Maybe a little one too, Yeah, But I feel like

1310
01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: when it comes down to like somebody i'm really with.

1311
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 3: I don't think I would be interested either.

1312
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 1: But I also don't like men who like you, like

1313
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 1: a man that would be interested in three somes, I

1314
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: don't want to even I don't want to be with

1315
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,439
Speaker 1: nobody but my man. I don't even want another girl

1316
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 1: in the bedroom for me, That's what I'm saying. So

1317
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: it's not even about this in x y Z. I

1318
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:14,160
Speaker 1: just want it to be me and you you know

1319
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I think that it's so strange,

1320
01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: like if a woman says I don't want to have

1321
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: three someomes with a man with another woman, or I

1322
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: don't want a man who is interested in having more

1323
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: than one partner x y Z. But as soon as

1324
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 1: a woman says like she necessarily doesn't want to bisexual man,

1325
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: it's like a big issue.

1326
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 2: So why wouldn't you date or take a bisexual man series?

1327
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,520
Speaker 2: And you know, it's just so crazy because I just

1328
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 2: feel like even with having these conversations, like you just

1329
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 2: want to tread lightly with everything that you.

1330
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 3: Say, you know, which I feel like sometimes kind of.

1331
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 2: Suck a little bit too, just because if it's my

1332
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,240
Speaker 2: opinion and this is time feel and I don't that's

1333
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,360
Speaker 2: not what I want, then why could I possibly get

1334
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 2: shunned or get like, oh no, she's homophobic by the

1335
01:05:02,480 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 2: community because I.

1336
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 3: Don't want daily is homophobic.

1337
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you think that, but I'm saying that

1338
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 2: the reality of how sometimes people react and respond to

1339
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 2: when you say things.

1340
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 3: Right, right, I agree.

1341
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 1: I think my reasoning is it's more so I just

1342
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 1: don't like to share.

1343
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 3: Period. I'm not interested in threesome. Period.

1344
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 1: I don't care if it's a fucking woman, man, cat dog,

1345
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: whatever you're into, you need to be into me, but

1346
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: you need to be into me period.

1347
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 3: Hey, but we not. But it's not a threesome.

1348
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 2: If he's bi sex, if it's a bisexual man, then

1349
01:05:38,640 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 2: it could be like, Okay, prior to dating you, he

1350
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 2: was with a man. He was a relationship with a man,

1351
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 2: and now he in a relationship with you. It doesn't

1352
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: necessarily mean y'all are sharing him. Okay, he's sexually fluid.

1353
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 2: He's sexually fluid. I think for me, I like what

1354
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 2: I like and I'm not sexually fluid.

1355
01:05:58,920 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 3: Okay.

1356
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: I am not eating Kuchie. I am not interested. I

1357
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: want somebody who is one hundred percent into couchie because

1358
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent into deep. It may sound silly,

1359
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 1: it may sound crazy, but that is my reasoning because I'm.

1360
01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 3: I'm just not attracted to anything else, and I just

1361
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1362
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a mind thing, maybe it's something one day

1363
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 1: I'll get over.

1364
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 3: But I'm not sexually fluid. I think I.

1365
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 1: Want because I am a straight up heterosexual female.

1366
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 3: I would like a heterosexual male.

1367
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 2: But I also don't think it's something that you gotta

1368
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 2: get over or one day be into, like it's nothing

1369
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 2: wrong with that. I think that that's the problem. That's

1370
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 2: what I was just trying to say. I think that

1371
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 2: sometimes society make us feel like, oh, well, well, why

1372
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 2: aren't you open to it? What's wrong with that? Why

1373
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 2: aren't you like I just this not.

1374
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: That's also for everybody. It's billions of people in the world.

1375
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 1: It's billions of women who love that and they're okay

1376
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:00,400
Speaker 1: with that. And I think people all, we all need

1377
01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:03,479
Speaker 1: to find our tribe. Like if everybody would just find

1378
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 1: their tribe and stick with that and love one who

1379
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 1: love you, because I don't have no problem with the community.

1380
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: I love you know what I'm saying. We were just

1381
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: talking about Jerome in the uh Patreon episode, like I

1382
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 1: obviously we don't have nothing, and I know what that

1383
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 1: sounds like, Like you know how people like, oh I

1384
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: got a black friend. I'm not racist, It's not even

1385
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 1: about that. I just feel like we all need to

1386
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 1: find our tribe and love who loves on us. But

1387
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 1: also understand that people have preferences, and it's okay. It'd

1388
01:07:33,320 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: be a lot of men out here who would never

1389
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: date me because I'm not light enough, or I'm not

1390
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 1: skinny enough, you know what I'm saying. Maybe my ass

1391
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: not fat enough, maybe my waists not small enough, maybe

1392
01:07:41,880 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm too tall.

1393
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 3: People have preferences, and.

1394
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,960
Speaker 2: I like, you know, like I like dig I just

1395
01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 2: don't want my nigga to like Dick too like.

1396
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 3: And I don't think nothing is wrong with big.

1397
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: I understand why if a nigga like d I understand good.

1398
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 3: We could be the best of friends. No.

1399
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: Now, Now, some girl tweeted the other day she said

1400
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 1: every women would be a lot better off they realized

1401
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:09,919
Speaker 1: every nigga is a little bit bisexual.

1402
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 3: How do you feel about that man is a little

1403
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 3: bit by sexual? What was her like? What was what

1404
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,640
Speaker 3: did she say after that? I think? Okay? So no,

1405
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 3: I disagree. It was because I feel like it had

1406
01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 3: you know, soaked in it.

1407
01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 2: It's it's real me, So I just I disagree with

1408
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 2: that because in order for me to agree with that statement,

1409
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,799
Speaker 2: I need a little bit more background on why.

1410
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 3: You feel that way. She just said, I need a

1411
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 3: little more information as the.

1412
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: You know what, because people always say women are a

1413
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 1: little gay. Yeah, Katy Perry is not a lesbian all.

1414
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 1: She came out with a song I Kissed the Girl,

1415
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: and I liked it. When Nicki Minaj first came on

1416
01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:59,599
Speaker 1: the scene, she was like, you know, she's bisexual.

1417
01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:04,440
Speaker 2: Not the pedestrians or real real red, the bad lesbian.

1418
01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 3: She used to have a whole thing when she was

1419
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 3: signing boobs. You know, I keep a bad bitch.

1420
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 1: Let me say I keep a bad bitch like Lady

1421
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: Gaga and Lady god Got. Still it's to this day

1422
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: she's been sexually fluid. So she came out, but I

1423
01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: think for women it's more acceptable. For women, it's more acceptable,

1424
01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: of course, because it's like a turn on thing or whatever.

1425
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 3: But I think that's stupid too, Like I don't know,

1426
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 3: I just feel like I don't know.

1427
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: I just think like people are okay to have their

1428
01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: their preferences.

1429
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 2: From my experience, though most women he is a little gay.

1430
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 3: So why can't most women be a little gay?

1431
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:46,600
Speaker 2: But most men, because I'm talking about my personal experiences,

1432
01:09:46,680 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 2: I feel like most women is a little gay. I

1433
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 2: don't got not one friend that ain't no little bit

1434
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 2: of gay she'd happen between us. Even from the straightings

1435
01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 2: of the straightings of how you be trying to make.

1436
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 3: Your self esteem, you done need a little gay she.

1437
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 2: First of all, I'm just saying, but with every man

1438
01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,640
Speaker 2: that I have ever been friends.

1439
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,120
Speaker 3: You don't know that though you don't know.

1440
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 1: That I ain't seen me. Sometimes that's that you got

1441
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 1: to be kidding. You have done some ship that you

1442
01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: don't that you take it to the ground.

1443
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 3: You think niggas be kissing when we know I will

1444
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 3: never know how me looking like.

1445
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 2: And I don't even time. I'm sorry, I don't feel

1446
01:10:26,720 --> 01:10:28,800
Speaker 2: that way. I do not feel okay, So let me

1447
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 2: ask you, because I feel like with women too, like

1448
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:33,680
Speaker 2: you just said, it's not looked down upon. So I

1449
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 2: feel like women be feeling like, oh I.

1450
01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 3: Can kiss my friend. That's cute. People gonna double tap it.

1451
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 1: They might go by rule okay, whatever, But I feel

1452
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 1: like this at the end of the day, if you

1453
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 1: curious as a person to eat little.

1454
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 3: Koochie, why can't a man be a little curious. I

1455
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 3: was saying that he can't be.

1456
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:52,679
Speaker 2: I'm disagreeing with the statement of what you just said.

1457
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 2: That girl said that every nigga is bisexual. I disagree,

1458
01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:58,679
Speaker 2: but I kind.

1459
01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,800
Speaker 3: Of don't feel like every girl need a little gay ship.

1460
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:04,720
Speaker 2: But even if it's like kissing your friend on the

1461
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 2: lib poor a picture, that's a little gay you kiss before.

1462
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 1: That's why I had to cover up my drink. You

1463
01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:14,640
Speaker 1: be trying to come over here. Why did you have

1464
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 1: to cover I don't know anyway, So let me ask

1465
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 1: you this, though, So I did a little gay shit

1466
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 1: a long, long, long time.

1467
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 3: You did a lot of gay shit a long time

1468
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 3: ago that was very gay with you. What you did

1469
01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,479
Speaker 3: with me was a little gay. What you did that

1470
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:36,559
Speaker 3: time was a like, okay, anyways, would you dat a.

1471
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 2: Man that like and that's the point, amazing if he

1472
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:44,920
Speaker 2: sees I am very matero sexual because I did like it.

1473
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:45,760
Speaker 3: I didn't like it.

1474
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: But let me ask you this, would you dat a

1475
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 1: man who sucked dick fifteen years ago?

1476
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 3: He didn't like it, but he only did it one time.

1477
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 3: He ain't like it.

1478
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: Though he ain't like it, he was just trying it.

1479
01:11:56,080 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 1: Would you data, man, that suck a little dick before.

1480
01:11:58,560 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie if you.

1481
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,640
Speaker 1: Did it alone and you tried it, I don't care

1482
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: if you did it last week or I'm not.

1483
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 3: Gonna lie and you didn't like it.

1484
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: At least we know that, and I don't got to

1485
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 1: worry about you trying to try it later on while

1486
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:10,719
Speaker 1: we married.

1487
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 3: But what if he might try it again?

1488
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 1: You know, if.

1489
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:19,639
Speaker 3: You do something once, you'll do it again.

1490
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:21,600
Speaker 2: I think if you I think you will eat a

1491
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 2: little cooucie again, I would not.

1492
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:26,719
Speaker 3: I don't think that I think you would. I don't

1493
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 3: want no coucie man, I don't know the one you

1494
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 3: had was not sizing. I don't want no kuchie.

1495
01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:36,719
Speaker 1: If I would have ate some kouchie, i'd be around

1496
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 1: you naked all the time, a beautiful woman.

1497
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 2: And it not never stay. I would have been ate

1498
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 2: yo coochie. If I wanted to eat cool, I just

1499
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:47,799
Speaker 2: ate my coochies. I would have been excuse me, bitch,

1500
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 2: you would no, I would not legs no, I would not.

1501
01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:01,240
Speaker 1: I get hit on by women all the time. If

1502
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 1: I were a little fine ass coachie, I could have been.

1503
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't want it I'm just not interested.

1504
01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 3: I hear you, but I had I just don't. Why

1505
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:12,680
Speaker 3: can you give me that grace? But not? I mean,

1506
01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 3: I don't give you no grades. I'm not fucking you.

1507
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 3: That's show business.

1508
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:18,840
Speaker 2: If you ate a little coochie making the day you

1509
01:13:18,960 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 2: ate a little couchie, I just be saying you be

1510
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 2: loving to be.

1511
01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:24,680
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I'm very head of rod sax you a

1512
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:28,880
Speaker 3: little gay? Okay? I thought I was. You did something.

1513
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 2: You did some gay ship, Yes, you did one time,

1514
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 2: and you're proving my points.

1515
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 3: So you stole that little bloss from Walmart? Are you

1516
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 3: a thief?

1517
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 2: Yes?

1518
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 3: Don't you know you can?

1519
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 2: You as a saf didn't because I used to steal alike,

1520
01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:50,720
Speaker 2: but you don't do that. I stole the bloss a

1521
01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 2: few times when I was like, you know what high

1522
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 2: school is she?

1523
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:55,760
Speaker 3: But you was grown? Are you still that same person? No?

1524
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:57,639
Speaker 3: You would never still love lost now.

1525
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:03,719
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're not a thief formed clip though, cool.

1526
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 3: I'll take that.

1527
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 1: Whatever you are reformed cool, I'll take that.

1528
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:14,000
Speaker 3: I was not a lesbian stupid. I just let's move

1529
01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 3: on or fuck you for fight anyways. I just feel

1530
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 3: like if you did something once, you would do it again.

1531
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 3: So I just don't know, Like if a dude.

1532
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 2: Was openly oh yeah, if a dude was openly honest

1533
01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 2: with me, he was like, oh yeah, I sucked a

1534
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 2: little deep like last year, but I promise how he

1535
01:14:34,320 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: likes this year, I'd probably still be like, you know.

1536
01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 3: Okay, okay.

1537
01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 1: So for the item of the week this week, I

1538
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: know we haven't done the item of a week in

1539
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:46,000
Speaker 1: a while, y'all.

1540
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 3: Okay. So I'm a girl.

1541
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,599
Speaker 1: I didn't use it today, but these are old curls.

1542
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:50,679
Speaker 1: These are a week old.

1543
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 3: I'm a girl. So if you get your hair done,

1544
01:14:55,120 --> 01:14:56,759
Speaker 3: you know, curling your.

1545
01:14:56,680 --> 01:15:00,120
Speaker 1: Hair is a skill. Yes, with a curling iron, you

1546
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:05,519
Speaker 1: gotta know a wrist, it's all. It's a lot. This

1547
01:15:05,600 --> 01:15:07,559
Speaker 1: tool is going to save your life, y'all. This is

1548
01:15:07,560 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 1: not endorsed. I got this from Olta. What's the company.

1549
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: It's Infinity Pro by con Air. It's obviously not plugged in,

1550
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 1: so it gets up to the temperature of four hundred

1551
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: and ten degrees. There's three different settings. So obviously you

1552
01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 1: can't see this, but it lights up because it has

1553
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: an LED light.

1554
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 3: So you have three.

1555
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 1: Different choices, like a tight curl, a mid curl, and

1556
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 1: like a beachwave. So I did like a beachwave. This

1557
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: is so old, you know, I'll be taking off my

1558
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: wig at night. I left this when we went to

1559
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 1: Philly in DC, so I didn't even curl my hair.

1560
01:15:39,760 --> 01:15:41,639
Speaker 3: So these are old curls from this machine.

1561
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,479
Speaker 1: All you have to do is stick your hair in

1562
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 1: it like this and you press the button and it

1563
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 1: sucks the hairing and it curls it for you. You can

1564
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 1: choose the direction it curls, you can choose the temperature,

1565
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:59,360
Speaker 1: and you can choose how tight the curl is life changer,

1566
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 1: really game changer if you cannot curl your hair literally

1567
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: and it's quicker. I literally be going.

1568
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 3: Like this small piece, small piece. I hate that. I hey,

1569
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 3: it gets the job done. And what is it called

1570
01:16:16,360 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 3: to you?

1571
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,800
Speaker 1: The Infinity Pro by con Air. You can get it

1572
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 1: from Alta. I have to order this, I'm telling you.

1573
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 3: I'm know this shit about to sell out. That's why

1574
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 3: I'm about to order before this, make sure.

1575
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 1: I put my Amazon link in the bio. I gotta

1576
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:30,880
Speaker 1: make some money.

1577
01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:32,120
Speaker 3: Because this is the ship.

1578
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 1: This is the ship, I'm telling you, and I have

1579
01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 1: this is like some twenty inch hair, So it works

1580
01:16:39,640 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 1: on longer hair.

1581
01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:42,320
Speaker 3: I have my bob with it.

1582
01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,880
Speaker 1: I was using my bob, but it works so good, y'all.

1583
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 1: So if you're a girl who ness, I hate using

1584
01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:50,640
Speaker 1: a flat iron to curl my hair. I don't like

1585
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:54,639
Speaker 1: using a curl curling iron. This is the one period.

1586
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not good at using a curling iron either.

1587
01:16:56,840 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm definitely the girl that curls.

1588
01:16:58,880 --> 01:16:59,880
Speaker 3: My hair with a flat iron.

1589
01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: But I'm a pro.

1590
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:03,680
Speaker 3: But I'm a pro with this ship. I am too.

1591
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:07,720
Speaker 1: But sometimes curly lions they be too tight or they

1592
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 1: don't I don't know it.

1593
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 3: Just don't give that beach wave like I like a

1594
01:17:10,920 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 3: little that volume. At Farah fawcet.

1595
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 1: When you go to the salon, they always give you

1596
01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:16,839
Speaker 1: that Farah fawcet.

1597
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:18,799
Speaker 3: This is gonna give you that Fara fawcet.

1598
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 1: Now I got another product because I don't use that

1599
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 1: on my bangs though.

1600
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:25,719
Speaker 3: Because you need that fluff for your bank. I'm gonna

1601
01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 3: give that to y'all next week. I can't get too much.

1602
01:17:28,880 --> 01:17:30,840
Speaker 3: I can't give him too much. You can't give you

1603
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 3: so much. You gotta drop it on slow. Okay, So

1604
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 3: now it's time to get into.

1605
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:45,400
Speaker 1: The a bowow Okay, So my bop of the week

1606
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:50,639
Speaker 1: this week. I've always talked about Alan Stone. Alan Stone

1607
01:17:50,800 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: is an artist I would say he does like jazz,

1608
01:17:53,800 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: not jazz, not jazz.

1609
01:17:55,080 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 3: He does like blues music.

1610
01:17:57,320 --> 01:18:00,720
Speaker 1: He gets on that guitar, baby, and he gonna sing

1611
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: your draws off. And honestly, when I first heard his music,

1612
01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 1: I didn't realize he was white. I've talked about his

1613
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:10,599
Speaker 1: music before on the show a long time ago when

1614
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 1: it was Wine Down Wednesday. He had a song called

1615
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 1: I want to say it's brown Eyed Lover. Yeah, brown

1616
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 1: Eyed Lover. Brown Eyed Lover is my favorite song by him.

1617
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god. But anyways, I'm a big fan of his.

1618
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 1: He has a song called Magic that he dropped earlier

1619
01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 1: this year, and he was basically like he opens a

1620
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: song talking about Abra cadabra, like, yeah, you put it

1621
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: on me. You that girl, everything about you was magic.

1622
01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 1: And he's so soulful. He is so soulful. It's a

1623
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 1: beautiful song, but it's like beautiful man, but it's not

1624
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:47,360
Speaker 1: like a ballad. It's like he like he owned his guitar.

1625
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,960
Speaker 1: He like talking about how cold this girl is and

1626
01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:54,679
Speaker 1: how she feels like magic. So yeah, that's my Bob

1627
01:18:54,720 --> 01:18:58,599
Speaker 1: of the week, Alan Stone Magic. I decided I have

1628
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,679
Speaker 1: to go see him. I'm not a concert girl because

1629
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 1: I don't like big venues and big concerts. I'm more

1630
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 1: of an intimate type. So he's kind of a still

1631
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 1: like you know, I was considered.

1632
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 3: Him an indie artist. So I'm gonna go see him live.

1633
01:19:11,560 --> 01:19:11,920
Speaker 3: I have to.

1634
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 1: He's amazing, He's dope, and he constantly drops music's music

1635
01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:17,400
Speaker 1: and projects.

1636
01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, Alan Stone Magic, bop hard. Okay, period, what

1637
01:19:24,080 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 3: you've been listening to? Girl?

1638
01:19:26,400 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 2: I like it's one song that I really do like

1639
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,920
Speaker 2: from the CD girls album Okay Fancy Ass Beach.

1640
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:34,599
Speaker 3: Oh with Juicy Jane.

1641
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 1: We talked about this, but on the show No, we

1642
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:38,599
Speaker 1: talked about this together.

1643
01:19:38,800 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 2: I walk hey yeah yeah, because I feel like we

1644
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 2: was listening to it the whole weekend and we were

1645
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:43,960
Speaker 2: emptily in DC.

1646
01:19:44,760 --> 01:19:47,160
Speaker 3: I really like that song. I love how Like.

1647
01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 2: And I love I Love Will produced the remads because

1648
01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 2: I think everybody these days most of the songs are remakes. Yeah,

1649
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 2: most of the song songs I remakes these days, and

1650
01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 2: I think sometimes I kind of be getting tired of

1651
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,720
Speaker 2: it because I'd be like, where's the originality, but when

1652
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 2: it's a really well produced remake, I'll be fucking witty.

1653
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 3: And I really like that song.

1654
01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:15,719
Speaker 2: And honestly, international players anthem like classic good song.

1655
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:19,479
Speaker 1: And as quiet as it kept, as quiet as it's kept.

1656
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:21,120
Speaker 3: Juicy J fucks with the girls.

1657
01:20:21,200 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, he let Glorilla Redo slob on my knob and

1658
01:20:25,360 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 1: that song is hard.

1659
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:34,040
Speaker 3: It is. Yeah, motheruck Creek, that's my ship. Juicy J.

1660
01:20:34,280 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 3: Obviously he loves Meg.

1661
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:39,080
Speaker 1: Juicy J is a hotty and he did the City

1662
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: Girls remake and he did that.

1663
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 3: It sounds so it's a good song. Jt ate that course.

1664
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:45,320
Speaker 2: I know the people been trying to hate on him

1665
01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:46,559
Speaker 2: by their little album, but.

1666
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 3: I like it. It's solid. It's what they do. I

1667
01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:51,920
Speaker 3: like it. I like it too, and I mean, I

1668
01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 3: feel like that's a good song. Yeah, it's a good song.

1669
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:55,760
Speaker 3: So that was a good bop of the week. That

1670
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:56,800
Speaker 3: was a good bop of the week.

1671
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:01,519
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna get into our favorite segments of

1672
01:21:01,880 --> 01:21:05,360
Speaker 1: the show. We're gonna answer questions. If you want your

1673
01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:06,480
Speaker 1: questions answer.

1674
01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 3: Pour your heart out more. You wanted to do a

1675
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 3: lyric break now you know I was, but today Yeah,

1676
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 3: we're gonna do. We're gonna save it for next week.

1677
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 3: I'm gonna save it for next week.

1678
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:16,639
Speaker 1: So if you want your question to answer the show,

1679
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 1: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

1680
01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure

1681
01:21:22,800 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 1: you put that in the headline.

1682
01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 3: So you can skip the line. Period.

1683
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:31,720
Speaker 2: This a long question. She feels it's fuzz I feel deep.

1684
01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: Oh that's because it's two cards a way.

1685
01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:37,759
Speaker 1: Oh, and y'all make sure when y'all send us something

1686
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,640
Speaker 1: in y'all try to keep it short as possible.

1687
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:47,920
Speaker 3: Okay, period, go ahead, little dream Hi, Alex Andrea. I

1688
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:52,640
Speaker 3: like when people call me out. I like it. I

1689
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 3: do like it. I'll be trying to figure out why

1690
01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 3: do because.

1691
01:21:55,200 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: The Lex and they think it's short for Alex, and

1692
01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it gives me another identity.

1693
01:22:00,040 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, firstly, let me say I love y'all.

1694
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:05,120
Speaker 1: Down.

1695
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 2: I have been listening. Tell everyone about the podcast. It's

1696
01:22:08,439 --> 01:22:12,439
Speaker 2: the Booty Whole episode on eighty five souds. I thought

1697
01:22:12,479 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 2: about writing other podcasts about a problem I keep having,

1698
01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 2: but the way Lex describes her experiences, I relate more

1699
01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:21,599
Speaker 2: to my girls at poor Minds. Okay, So I'm a

1700
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:25,599
Speaker 2: young early thirties mixologies. So I find myself casually day

1701
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:29,240
Speaker 2: drinking with people for networking purposes. No big deal because

1702
01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:32,240
Speaker 2: I'm not a heavy drinker anyway, so it's never an issue.

1703
01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:33,799
Speaker 3: Every now and then.

1704
01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:37,639
Speaker 2: Though someone presents the opportunity to smoke one weed before

1705
01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 2: or after drinks and meals. My issue starts here because

1706
01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 2: I only do enjoy one to two weeds alone before bed.

1707
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:46,639
Speaker 3: Or throughout the day on an off day.

1708
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:49,679
Speaker 2: So I would consider myself a smoker, but I don't

1709
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:52,759
Speaker 2: know how to manage staying professional infeminine. After I smoke

1710
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 2: with someone, whether it's a date or legit networking, I

1711
01:22:56,400 --> 01:23:00,759
Speaker 2: feel paranoid and like I sink immediately after I smell.

1712
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 3: I smell goods like.

1713
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:08,880
Speaker 2: The I smell goods like the Arabic oil sprays my

1714
01:23:09,080 --> 01:23:12,639
Speaker 2: perfumes and a personal stash of osium in my car.

1715
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 3: It's osio. Oh oh, like an air freshener.

1716
01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:20,519
Speaker 7: Oh.

1717
01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:24,240
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, ladies, How do I remain soft and feminist

1718
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:27,200
Speaker 2: smelling and feeling for the rest of the night. When

1719
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:30,479
Speaker 2: y'all smoke with a BDB, do y'all let him hot box,

1720
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 2: or do y'all smoke one weed before you leave the house.

1721
01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:36,600
Speaker 2: Any advice will be helpful. Thank y'all so much for

1722
01:23:36,680 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 2: the last over the years. Love y'all, So do y'all.

1723
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 2: Nigga smoke, Okay, I.

1724
01:23:43,200 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 3: Don't really date niggas, says, I don't know what happens.

1725
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:48,120
Speaker 1: I always end up dating men who smoke. So I'll

1726
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:51,280
Speaker 1: say this for me. I this is the thing. You

1727
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 1: are a beautiful woman. You are in control more than

1728
01:23:57,000 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 1: what you think you are. I'd be smoking with these niggas,

1729
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: but I also let them know.

1730
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:05,000
Speaker 3: I give me one puff and I'm done. Stop letting people.

1731
01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 1: Pressure you and to do things you don't want to do,

1732
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:12,240
Speaker 1: like I be smoking with niggas who smoke. Smoking like

1733
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:17,040
Speaker 1: my y'all remember a throwback bag. Throwback Baby was a smoker.

1734
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:18,759
Speaker 1: I never really smoke with him, but then I started

1735
01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:21,840
Speaker 1: dating my other and he smokes heavy, and I started

1736
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:23,880
Speaker 1: smoking heavy with him. When I went and hang out

1737
01:24:23,880 --> 01:24:25,719
Speaker 1: with throw Back Back, he was like, dang, you be smoking.

1738
01:24:25,720 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 1: But I also don't let people pressure me. Let me

1739
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:30,600
Speaker 1: hit it one time and see how I feel and

1740
01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:34,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna move from there. Okay, So I'm not I'm

1741
01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:36,200
Speaker 1: not trying to be paranoid. I'm not trying to be

1742
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 1: like because I'm I'm not I get past me to

1743
01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:42,880
Speaker 1: Reggie if you got it, I don't want no strong shit.

1744
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really smoke like that.

1745
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:47,639
Speaker 2: Like most of the time dudes that I date, they

1746
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:51,040
Speaker 2: niggas who only smoke like on ac cagion.

1747
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:52,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, like they'll smoke a little.

1748
01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:55,439
Speaker 2: One weed here there, and I'll smoke a little one

1749
01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:57,719
Speaker 2: weed here and there. But I've never been a smoker,

1750
01:24:57,720 --> 01:24:59,799
Speaker 2: and I've never really dated like yeah.

1751
01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 1: I've been and like I feel like when we smoke too,

1752
01:25:02,240 --> 01:25:05,400
Speaker 1: it's like we'll either like we be waiting.

1753
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 3: So if we smoking.

1754
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 1: Before we go out, yeah, we'll still be in our

1755
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,920
Speaker 1: like chill clothes. We smoke a little bit, then we'll

1756
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:14,280
Speaker 1: get ready put our other clothes on, so when we

1757
01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,559
Speaker 1: go out, we don't smell like that. And then when

1758
01:25:16,560 --> 01:25:18,519
Speaker 1: we get back, you know, we chilling for the rest

1759
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:21,000
Speaker 1: of night. So then we smoke, cause I don't know,

1760
01:25:22,720 --> 01:25:24,719
Speaker 1: we ain't never been in public smelling like a pound,

1761
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:27,639
Speaker 1: like we always smell like you know, his colone, my perfume.

1762
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:29,400
Speaker 1: So but I just feel like at the end of

1763
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: the day, when it comes to anything, drinking, smoking, doing anything,

1764
01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:35,280
Speaker 1: you the woman you the baddy.

1765
01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:38,120
Speaker 3: You have control of your situation. You can't.

1766
01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:40,240
Speaker 1: Don't make no if you don't want to smoke no more.

1767
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: You want to hit it one time? Hit it one time?

1768
01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:44,559
Speaker 3: Pass it? Oh man, come on hit again. No, I'm cool.

1769
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:48,400
Speaker 3: I don't want to smoke period. You scaring the hose.

1770
01:25:48,720 --> 01:25:50,760
Speaker 2: Because I will say, whenever I do smoke weed, I'm

1771
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,599
Speaker 2: eat this sheep, probably like no more.

1772
01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:55,599
Speaker 3: Than two or three times. I just know my.

1773
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 2: Leaving and I know if I hit it any further

1774
01:25:57,600 --> 01:25:59,840
Speaker 2: than that, I'm gonna be highest.

1775
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 1: For I don't let nobody pressure me into Yeah. I

1776
01:26:02,479 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 1: don't want to do because I know what I can handle.

1777
01:26:04,360 --> 01:26:05,559
Speaker 3: Dan all right.

1778
01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:08,559
Speaker 1: Question number two, Hey, beautiful ladies, I'm a forty one

1779
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:10,720
Speaker 1: year old woman and there's this guy that I have

1780
01:26:10,800 --> 01:26:13,360
Speaker 1: been dealing with and I really like him. We haven't

1781
01:26:13,360 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 1: had sex yet because of my insecurity. I have ventures

1782
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:21,400
Speaker 1: and he doesn't know. I want to give him that

1783
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:25,120
Speaker 1: velveteen rub? What's velveteen rub?

1784
01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1785
01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:29,760
Speaker 1: Oh, but I'm afraid he won't mess with me once

1786
01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 1: I take my teeth out to show him a good time.

1787
01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:36,280
Speaker 3: How would I go about telling him?

1788
01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:41,559
Speaker 1: Okay, hey man, what does this show become?

1789
01:26:42,160 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 2: How the fuck did you know what a velveteen rub is?

1790
01:26:46,720 --> 01:26:49,680
Speaker 3: She got a freaky grandma.

1791
01:26:52,240 --> 01:26:54,240
Speaker 1: So this is what I have to say. You do

1792
01:26:54,320 --> 01:26:56,679
Speaker 1: not have to take your teeth out to some good dick.

1793
01:26:57,400 --> 01:26:59,400
Speaker 1: Like don't let me not call you a bitch, but like,

1794
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 1: why you gotta take some teeth? Ould super head don't

1795
01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 1: got ditches and she's known forgiving good head. Now, maybe

1796
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:07,759
Speaker 1: the gums feel different.

1797
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:10,960
Speaker 3: I don't know. But if she got had for somebody

1798
01:27:10,960 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 3: with our teeth.

1799
01:27:12,160 --> 01:27:16,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get into details. Wall she was older,

1800
01:27:16,800 --> 01:27:18,640
Speaker 1: she took out her teeth. Okay, what is this?

1801
01:27:18,760 --> 01:27:24,040
Speaker 3: A wall girl? So a wall our style Inderdre say.

1802
01:27:23,960 --> 01:27:26,000
Speaker 1: He's got a head for somebody with gums and the

1803
01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:28,920
Speaker 1: gummy feels different, So I think this.

1804
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:33,120
Speaker 2: It probably I'm thinking it probably also hurt though, if

1805
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:35,080
Speaker 2: you have d interesting and you're trying to give head

1806
01:27:35,120 --> 01:27:38,440
Speaker 2: with them, Okay, because.

1807
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:40,920
Speaker 3: I mean so she probably don't want to be though

1808
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:42,680
Speaker 3: people with teeth that stay in.

1809
01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but it's not uncomfortable because these are our teeth.

1810
01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:51,120
Speaker 2: Oh you feel like I feel like it's probably uncomfortable

1811
01:27:51,160 --> 01:27:51,559
Speaker 2: for her.

1812
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:53,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, so she probably just want to be free and

1813
01:27:53,960 --> 01:27:54,479
Speaker 3: take them out.

1814
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:57,080
Speaker 1: You know what that's fair because I feel like this

1815
01:27:57,400 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 1: when I lay down when a man at night, sometimes

1816
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:01,759
Speaker 1: I want to take off my Yeah, so you deserve

1817
01:28:01,840 --> 01:28:02,840
Speaker 1: to take out your teeth.

1818
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:05,519
Speaker 3: You know what. You changed my mind.

1819
01:28:05,520 --> 01:28:07,439
Speaker 1: You're right, you deserve to take out your teeth. I

1820
01:28:07,479 --> 01:28:09,679
Speaker 1: think this is a conversation you needs to have with him,

1821
01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 1: and that's him how he feels and be, and sometimes

1822
01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:13,479
Speaker 1: you gotta convince him a little bit.

1823
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:17,360
Speaker 3: And hey, you know what, turn the lights off and

1824
01:28:17,400 --> 01:28:18,080
Speaker 3: do it first.

1825
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:21,720
Speaker 2: No, because if he's hurting them holes on and she be,

1826
01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:27,360
Speaker 2: I think maybe the first tut on the first and

1827
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:29,160
Speaker 2: he gonna he's gonna be like this the best head

1828
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:30,000
Speaker 2: I ever got.

1829
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 1: And then if a nigga get good head, we all

1830
01:28:33,240 --> 01:28:35,160
Speaker 1: know niggas love good head. If you give him some

1831
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:37,479
Speaker 1: good head one time, he gonna be like, I don't

1832
01:28:37,520 --> 01:28:38,800
Speaker 1: give a fuck, take them teeth out.

1833
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 3: He's gonna be requesting them teeth.

1834
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 1: He gonna he gonna be requesting you to show up

1835
01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:46,240
Speaker 1: and ask teeth. He's gonna say, bab, I'll take you

1836
01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:48,959
Speaker 1: the s t K to Knight lead the teeth at home.

1837
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:52,360
Speaker 3: Like this gun.

1838
01:28:53,920 --> 01:28:58,760
Speaker 1: She gonna get it real moist, suck on it. She Donna,

1839
01:28:58,760 --> 01:29:02,800
Speaker 1: suck on that steak a little bit, gummy, gumming down,

1840
01:29:03,400 --> 01:29:05,960
Speaker 1: show it in the back them gums in a hardby back,

1841
01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:07,240
Speaker 1: a little hard, a little bit.

1842
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you can chose steak with gums.

1843
01:29:10,200 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 2: I feel like at the end of the day, I

1844
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:18,840
Speaker 2: need to order bowlonaise. It's already, it's already, you know,

1845
01:29:19,000 --> 01:29:21,519
Speaker 2: thepastas aft, it's already mashed up.

1846
01:29:22,160 --> 01:29:27,200
Speaker 1: People with no teeth too like that, like, you can't

1847
01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:31,120
Speaker 1: you regular? What is it about that? No, I'm serious,

1848
01:29:31,240 --> 01:29:32,080
Speaker 1: what is it about this?

1849
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 3: And then they hold their mouth like them because they

1850
01:29:38,200 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 3: don't have no teeth. Just hold it regular. You can't

1851
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:42,320
Speaker 3: hold it regular.

1852
01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 2: Your teeth is what makes your lips and everything look

1853
01:29:45,479 --> 01:29:49,599
Speaker 2: more structured, because your teeth is like keeping everything in place.

1854
01:29:49,880 --> 01:29:52,559
Speaker 2: If you don't have no teeth, your mouth came would

1855
01:29:52,560 --> 01:29:55,280
Speaker 2: be like, oh I hate that.

1856
01:29:56,560 --> 01:30:01,439
Speaker 3: Just sit regular they came. I think like this they

1857
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 3: be doing that to.

1858
01:30:05,680 --> 01:30:15,880
Speaker 2: People don't have tea, be like this soup. We need

1859
01:30:15,920 --> 01:30:20,200
Speaker 2: to fucking stop. Why ain't let me quivering too it?

1860
01:30:20,360 --> 01:30:22,000
Speaker 3: Don't? You said, don't?

1861
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:28,559
Speaker 2: I ain't never seen food out their teeth, But it's crazy,

1862
01:30:28,560 --> 01:30:30,640
Speaker 2: how like teeth really make a different stuf because I

1863
01:30:30,640 --> 01:30:31,960
Speaker 2: remember my granny didn't have no seat.

1864
01:30:33,560 --> 01:30:36,960
Speaker 3: Why would you say, okay, I was she didn't have

1865
01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:41,920
Speaker 3: no teeth. Did I know my grandaddy was already dead?

1866
01:30:42,520 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 3: She was like somebody did all right? Anyways, my granny

1867
01:30:47,520 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 3: didn't have no teeth.

1868
01:30:48,439 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 2: And it was just so crazy because when I will

1869
01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:52,559
Speaker 2: see her without her teeth versus when she would put

1870
01:30:52,600 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 2: them in, she looked like two different people. Like teeth

1871
01:30:56,040 --> 01:30:59,639
Speaker 2: really make a difference. They really do. Like a person,

1872
01:30:59,680 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 2: I have teeth and then having teeth, it really makes

1873
01:31:02,439 --> 01:31:03,840
Speaker 2: you look like a whole different person.

1874
01:31:03,880 --> 01:31:05,920
Speaker 1: But I don't think that she should talk to him

1875
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 1: about not having teeth. I think she needs to turn

1876
01:31:09,960 --> 01:31:12,040
Speaker 1: the lights off and suck his dick without the teeth

1877
01:31:12,080 --> 01:31:15,800
Speaker 1: to show him what she called it, the velveteen.

1878
01:31:15,320 --> 01:31:21,240
Speaker 2: Rub velveteen rub is that's I lied. We're not naming

1879
01:31:21,280 --> 01:31:28,760
Speaker 2: this episode. Te we know rub is velveteen.

1880
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:31,559
Speaker 3: That's my life. I don't know. I've never had dentures.

1881
01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:33,680
Speaker 3: I got on my teeth. Say, but I think you

1882
01:31:33,760 --> 01:31:35,760
Speaker 3: need to turn the light lights off and go to

1883
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:36,320
Speaker 3: work on that.

1884
01:31:36,400 --> 01:31:39,720
Speaker 1: Nigga change his life a little bit, and he ain't

1885
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:42,280
Speaker 1: gonna never let you go.

1886
01:31:42,280 --> 01:31:46,519
Speaker 3: Good head, goes along, you go a long way, he said.

1887
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:50,559
Speaker 1: A wall said, head with the gums is different. I

1888
01:31:50,600 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 1: think you need to put it on them. I think

1889
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:54,599
Speaker 1: you need to turn the lights off and put it

1890
01:31:54,640 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 1: on them. Put him on the make the moan a

1891
01:31:56,920 --> 01:32:00,479
Speaker 1: man Ramian put it on and make them on a rock.

1892
01:32:00,520 --> 01:32:03,040
Speaker 3: She the knew what she was talking about. Maybe she.

1893
01:32:04,760 --> 01:32:09,040
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1894
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1896
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1897
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1898
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Speaker 3: Ting in my better.

1920
01:33:28,840 --> 01:33:33,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, some girl, please don't be.

1921
01:33:37,880 --> 01:33:48,920
Speaker 3: Hold hold yeah, there's something beating in my bed so

1922
01:33:49,080 --> 01:33:50,760
Speaker 3: please don't make me.

1923
01:33:56,520 --> 01:34:02,640
Speaker 2: But you swear you don't like girls looking at my

1924
01:34:02,840 --> 01:34:05,160
Speaker 2: rollie I see somemo sign.

1925
01:34:06,280 --> 01:34:12,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I hope you're kidding. Ready, girl, and don't forget

1926
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:13,280
Speaker 3: the wine.

1927
01:34:17,760 --> 01:34:18,200
Speaker 2: How long?

1928
01:34:18,360 --> 01:34:29,120
Speaker 3: No thing thing like heavy you around? So I gotta

1929
01:34:29,200 --> 01:34:34,000
Speaker 3: put your down so be there or b s way

1930
01:34:35,840 --> 01:34:45,959
Speaker 3: that's a betcheck in my bed room, So girl, please

1931
01:34:46,120 --> 01:34:46,800
Speaker 3: don't be.

1932
01:34:50,560 --> 01:34:57,080
Speaker 7: I guess a meeting in my.

1933
01:34:55,280 --> 01:35:03,679
Speaker 1: My betterme on man, so please don't make.

1934
01:35:03,760 --> 01:35:05,599
Speaker 3: Meuay a.

1935
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:11,560
Speaker 7: There's a meeting and to get a meeting in my

1936
01:35:15,080 --> 01:35:18,759
Speaker 7: stepping to me const lay you down.

1937
01:35:22,560 --> 01:35:26,600
Speaker 2: Got a little sum seping for my sexy mama.

1938
01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:33,280
Speaker 3: Mama, I'm shake it for you. Since they what You're

1939
01:35:33,320 --> 01:35:46,599
Speaker 3: my moony, you're my sight. I'm taking you. Stay love.

1940
01:35:46,680 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 1: Peace.

1941
01:35:48,920 --> 01:35:51,240
Speaker 3: There's a mean take it in my.

1942
01:35:52,920 --> 01:35:59,640
Speaker 1: There's a meaner in my bedroom, so now please don't be.

1943
01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:15,559
Speaker 3: I'm getting for Ringer. I'm getting for riger some girl

1944
01:36:16,320 --> 01:36:23,800
Speaker 3: on me. There's a meeting in my bed. There's a

1945
01:36:23,880 --> 01:36:30,200
Speaker 3: meeting in my bedroom. Clearing. I said, man, fuck this.

1946
01:36:30,320 --> 01:36:33,559
Speaker 3: She I'm out. I'm ungry.