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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to need some input on this because I

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Speaker 3: am starting a new chapter in my life and it

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Speaker 3: is called disciplining your child chapter. Because I have a

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Speaker 3: two year old. I'm gonna say, Okay, I'm not doing

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Speaker 3: this to be annoying. I have a twenty month old

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Speaker 3: because I think it's important in this context because.

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Speaker 1: When do we stop with that efort two, then we

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Speaker 1: don't do months anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'll stop after that.

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Speaker 1: Curious cycle.

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Speaker 3: When we stop with months thing, I just do it

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Speaker 3: because I think as a parent, like every month is

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Speaker 3: so different, okay until like they reach too honestly, that's

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Speaker 3: how I feel. And then once you're like at the

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Speaker 3: two and a half, it makes more sense to really

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Speaker 3: right than twenty five.

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Speaker 2: I get it, you know, so like.

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Speaker 3: That's fine, but the months I feel like up to

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Speaker 3: two it is slightly important because I think in eighteen

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Speaker 3: month old and up twenty two month old, you just

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Speaker 3: know so many different things.

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Speaker 2: Okay that age, yep, I'm seeing it.

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Speaker 3: So my twenty month old, uh does this thing where

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Speaker 3: she gets very upset, she doesn't get her way, kind

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Speaker 3: of like her mother a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But the different difference is you can say same. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The difference is I don't, you know, act out on it.

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Speaker 3: I kind of just like let it sink in what

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Speaker 3: I say at all. No, you know, once she decided

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Speaker 3: to do though she couldn't get her way with something yesterday.

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Speaker 2: It was like a snack or something, and I have one.

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Speaker 3: Of those really big giant Christmas tree bows on my tree,

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Speaker 3: like the one that's like not even funny, like six feet.

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Speaker 2: Long almost, and it's just like on the tree.

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Speaker 3: She decided to smack it because she was so mad

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Speaker 3: she smacked the Christmas tree.

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Speaker 2: Which then hit the bow and the bow fell on

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Speaker 2: the floor.

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Speaker 3: So now I don't know how to discipline anyone, let

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Speaker 3: alone a twenty month old who's my child. And I

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Speaker 3: don't want to do what our parents said. I don't

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Speaker 3: want to yell at all. I'm not going to spanker

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Speaker 3: him and we're not talking, we're not doing any of that.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know what to do though, because I

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Speaker 3: can't let that be okay. But I also need to

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Speaker 3: show her I am boss, okay, I am Boston's house,

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Speaker 3: and I.

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Speaker 1: Have identify the problem.

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Speaker 3: Nowry started with me because I don't even believe it.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: To do, and like at first she did that, I

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Speaker 3: gasped because I thought that would make like a dramatic effect,

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I was taken aback and let

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Speaker 3: And her dad happy, my husband he was there, her

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Speaker 3: dad that guy, yeah, my husband, Hobby, and he's like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we don't do that type thing, and like me,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, I got this And I

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Speaker 2: Going to time out?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And she stared at me, and I said, going to

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Speaker 3: time out. I took her little chair. She's like a

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Speaker 3: that probably wasn't the greatest thing I've done, but I

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Speaker 3: to understand me. You're gonna be separated from the situation.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna act down and smack my Christmas tree like

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Speaker 3: we're not doing that.

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Speaker 1: You can't. You can't let her do whatever she wants. Yeah, something,

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Speaker 1: But it was just so funny, like looking at this

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Speaker 3: Not great because she doesn't really understand it yet and

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Speaker 3: she will soon, but I feel like if you do

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Speaker 3: it more, she'll get it. This is like the timeout area.

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Speaker 3: This is the not okay area. And I said, no,

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Speaker 2: And she was trying to talk to me, and I

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Speaker 2: said no, no, no, you can't talk to mommy right now.

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Speaker 2: She turned heround and said, I'm sorry. I love you. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I get your time out.

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Speaker 1: Why we have a problem.

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Speaker 2: You did a great job.

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Speaker 1: She's working you.

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Speaker 3: She is, but it was the cutest thing and I

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Speaker 3: love her so much that I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 3: know how to do.

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Speaker 1: She was I have to imagine that it's hard when

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Speaker 1: it's your little being there and and like you. But

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Speaker 1: she did say she was sorry, and she doesn't do

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Speaker 1: it again unless it learned, I guess. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think I'm gonna cry. I feel like I would be

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Speaker 1: such a whoos as it pet like if the girls

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Speaker 1: or if I had a little I mean, I just

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Speaker 1: like I wouldn't have it in me. Okay, fine here,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't feel like it's wallet right exactly, Like

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you can just tear the

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Speaker 1: tree down to fine. I don't you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 1: I just I don't think i'd be good at this either.

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Speaker 1: It's gotta be hard.

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Speaker 2: It's so hard.

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Speaker 1: What is Hobby doing? Is he just watching this with

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Speaker 1: entertainment the whole time?

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Speaker 2: So him and I are doing this thing now.

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Speaker 3: We're glaring at each other because we can't don't laugh

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Speaker 3: when right, because he gets like so funny, So we're

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Speaker 3: not laughing.

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Speaker 2: We're not getting noise.

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Speaker 3: You know, we're both on the same page here Okay,

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Speaker 3: we're doing time out. No, you know you can't be

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Speaker 3: hitting trees. And she hits the wall when she's mad.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, this is getting a little Yeah, this is

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Speaker 3: getting like not great because she just gets angry. Aren't

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Speaker 3: you a wall puncher too? I punched the wall before.

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Speaker 3: Yeahs are wild. I'm like a hormonal a little teenage boy.

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Speaker 3: But those days are those days are past me. Okay

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Speaker 3: I have not punched the wall. Maybe in seven years?

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Speaker 1: Did you act that as a kid? Yeah, because I

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Speaker 1: feel like sometimes you get what you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how bad though, Like I don't know

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Speaker 3: I actually should ask my mom because I don't think

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Speaker 3: I was terrible, but I know that I had a

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Speaker 3: little towed, a little attitude.

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Speaker 1: I also can see Marta being a real enforcer of

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Speaker 1: the law, like I can. I can see I can

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Speaker 1: see things not flying with Marta from the very beginning.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't think Marta had Mama Marta didn't have

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Speaker 1: the same issue with feeling bad about telling you to

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Speaker 1: act right, I can. I can almost guarantee that.

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Speaker 3: Mama Marta is from Poland. Was Marta does things differently

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Speaker 3: Mama Marza?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Maybe I met a couple of people or a couple

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Speaker 2: of things in my life.

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Speaker 3: I've met the belt, I've met cables near me, I've

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Speaker 3: met a what does it called, like a flip flop,

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Speaker 3: like a chankola, like yeah, foot flop, oh boy, oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I've had everything in their aim my way good. Oh

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Speaker 2: the aim never misses, martsin, never missed.

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Speaker 1: And I love my mom.

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Speaker 2: But you know what though, that that I deserved every

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Speaker 2: minute of that. I'm gonna lie to you, like I

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Speaker 2: know when I got my little butt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 1: It's got to be hard. It's got to be hard

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Speaker 1: to uh, you know, to try and lay down the law.

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Speaker 2: It is with a two year old, not even a

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Speaker 2: two year old, but that's what I'm saying. Twenty month old.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, she.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't know what this is. I say, and I've asked her,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna put you in time out. You want to

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Speaker 3: go to time out? She goes, yeah, because she doesn't know.

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Speaker 3: She got something working this last time. This might have

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Speaker 3: been a guy.

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Speaker 2: We'll see transforming, you know, maybe she's different now.

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Speaker 1: She's totally changed.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: At twenty one months, this whole thing will go away.

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Speaker 1: Everything's fine, yeah. I used to be like stepping to

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Speaker 1: my room. I got TV in there. Actually, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: like I got a little phone, like yeah, off to

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Speaker 1: the room, I go.