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Speaker 1: woman named Alana on the phone, which is a name
Speaker 1: I love, you really do. I thought that when you
Speaker 1: said it, And apparently she went out with a guy
Speaker 1: named Marco, which is a name I don't love. Why
Speaker 1: do you? Why don't you like Marco? I had a
Speaker 1: bad experience when I was eleven years old, involving a
Speaker 1: swimming pool and a bad game of Marco Polo. I
Speaker 1: don't want to get into details of what happened. But
Speaker 1: now whenever I hear Marco, I get triggered. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you're here. We're here to keep your eyes. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: maybe you guys want to like scoot away from me.
Speaker 1: I was like, you're a little bit close, because if
Speaker 1: I hear the name, I might freak out. Anyway, Alana,
Speaker 1: tell us about this guy. I don't want to say
Speaker 1: his name. How'd you meet him. We met online actually,
Speaker 1: and I had a great time chatting with him before
Speaker 1: we met. I was really excited to meet him. I
Speaker 1: will say, I'm kind of recently single after a long
Speaker 1: term relationship that I had just gotten out of. Well,
Speaker 1: it's good that you were excited to meet him. It's
Speaker 1: not so good to go on a date that you're
Speaker 1: scared to meet somebody. So you're off to a good
Speaker 1: start already. True. True, But honestly, like excitement is not
Speaker 1: that normal these days. Usually you're just going out because
Speaker 1: you need to go out because you're single. Like, I'm
Speaker 1: on a date, I'm nervous. Yeah, I mean, what had
Speaker 1: you so excited about? Marco? We just totally hit it
Speaker 1: off in texting conversations, and you can tell with someone
Speaker 1: when you're texting if the vibe is there if it's not,
Speaker 1: and there's definitely text chemistry that's a thing. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: he's a little bit older, so that was the only
Speaker 1: thing that I was like a little bit apprehensive about.
Speaker 1: But I figured, let's just go on the date and see.
Speaker 1: And I'm so glad that I did because I wasn't
Speaker 1: concerned about that at all. Yeah, what is your guys' age? Difference.
Speaker 1: Can I ask it's about ten years okay, but yeah
Speaker 1: that's fine. Yeah, that stuff too bad. So what did
Speaker 1: you guys do? So we actually rode scooters out of
Speaker 1: the city. It was his idea. Fun. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: that was a great idea. It's something I had never done.
Speaker 1: We found a cool little diner and I had a
Speaker 1: meal that I've never had before. I had chicken fried
Speaker 1: skate Welcome to the country girl. Yeah, I figured when
Speaker 1: in Rome, right, Yeah, eat anything covered with gravy. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: It was just a really easy going, kind of no
Speaker 1: pressure gate. We talked about things that we shared in common. Um,
Speaker 1: he actually really likes wine and so do I. It's
Speaker 1: like a hobby of mine. And we bonded over that
Speaker 1: and I love that wine can be a hobby. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot difference between like my being
Speaker 1: able to drink foxwine. Fine with that as someone who
Speaker 1: is actually really into tasting. We'll talk to you about
Speaker 1: the bricks and the wine. And I don't know, can
Speaker 1: yagerbombs be a hobby? No, that all tastes the same terrible?
Speaker 1: All right, So you guys bonded over wine. So long
Speaker 1: story short, we ended up back at his place, and
Speaker 1: I will say I did spend the night okay, nice,
Speaker 1: And I hope you say that with a smile on
Speaker 1: your face. Yes, we had a great time and I
Speaker 1: am really looking forward to hopefully seeing him again. But
Speaker 1: the thing is is that he doesn't answer text like
Speaker 1: right away. And I've been texting him and I will
Speaker 1: get a text back from him, like sometimes it will
Speaker 1: be that same day, like in the evening. Sometimes it
Speaker 1: will be a whole day that goes by, like the
Speaker 1: next day he'll respond, which is a huge change, right
Speaker 1: because before there was a lot of back and forth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So my issue is that it just doesn't seem like
Speaker 1: he is wanting to hang out again. It doesn't seem
Speaker 1: like he's pursuing me whatsoever. He's there, like he hasn't said,
Speaker 1: oh I'm not interested. So I just want to know,
Speaker 1: like what's going on. Was there anything that's running through
Speaker 1: your mind that you think may have gone wrong on
Speaker 1: the date. The only thing that I was kind of like, oh, shoot,
Speaker 1: this is weird. I ate my food so quickly, maybe
Speaker 1: just I we had scootered for so long and I
Speaker 1: was so hungry, and then it never had chicken fried
Speaker 1: steak before you're like, how my life has changed? So
Speaker 1: I kind of ate the whole thing and I finished,
Speaker 1: like he still had about half of his food left.
Speaker 1: But I think that men actually like that. Men like
Speaker 1: a woman with a real appetite, and you can fit
Speaker 1: a whole steak in your mouth at once. That's hot. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wasn't thinking about like I need to take my
Speaker 1: time eating, like, I was just living in the moment
Speaker 1: and having a good time, and so I just was
Speaker 1: eating back. I mean you wouldn't. You wouldn't want to
Speaker 1: go out with a guy who judges how much you
Speaker 1: eat anyway. Yeah, so we'll see. I'm curious. I mean
Speaker 1: it is strange because you guys spent so much time
Speaker 1: together too. Yeah, was anything weird the next morning? Oh
Speaker 1: honestly it wasn't. You know. I did have to leave
Speaker 1: to go to work, so there was I had like
Speaker 1: a legitimate reason why I needed to, like but no,
Speaker 1: it wasn't awkward at all. Okay, Well, before we play
Speaker 1: a song first, what wine would you recommend with a
Speaker 1: chicken fried steak? Maybe like a white wine. I would think,
Speaker 1: like nothing too heavy, because the steak is so fried
Speaker 1: and heavy, you would want something like, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna go buy some wines online, we're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: we'll come back and then we'll call you know, Mark,
Speaker 1: Oh no, we're gonna call get your second date up
Speaker 1: date after this. If you're just tuning in for the
Speaker 1: second date update, we're talking with one of our listeners, Alana.
Speaker 1: She went out with a guy that she met online recently,
Speaker 1: and even though he was ten years older, they still
Speaker 1: connected and they went on a scooter ride into the
Speaker 1: country together enjoyed some chicken fried steak. She did say
Speaker 1: that she ate hers pretty fast and was worried it
Speaker 1: may have been a little bit of a turn off
Speaker 1: hungry girl, but it wasn't so much of a turnoff
Speaker 1: because they did end up spending the night together totally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but after that, he's not calling her back, so she's
Speaker 1: wondering why that is. Well, I mean, yeah, he is
Speaker 1: messaging me back. It just is taking him a long time. Okay,
Speaker 1: are you just aid shaming him because he's not good
Speaker 1: with technology? Is that what you're saying. It's like ten
Speaker 1: years older, he's not a senior citizen. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It makes a big difference sometimes. Well, I guess we're
Speaker 1: gonna call his name Mark Marco. Oh, recall Marco. Sorry,
Speaker 1: and we'll see what the deal is. Are you ready, Lana? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello. Hi, can I speak to Marco please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is Marco. Hi, Marco. My name is Jeffrey from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. You
Speaker 1: have a moment to talk with us. What's this about?
Speaker 1: This is about a segment that we do called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update. Have you ever heard of that before
Speaker 1: or are you familiar with our show at all? I
Speaker 1: might have. How'd you get my number? Though? Well, somebody
Speaker 1: emailed us about you because you went out a date
Speaker 1: with them and they had a really good time with you,
Speaker 1: and afterwards you've been kind of slow to get back
Speaker 1: in touch with them. Okay. Her name is Alana, so
Speaker 1: she messaged you about me. It's not a good vibe there, Marco. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And she told us what you guys did when you
Speaker 1: were hanging out together, and she had glowing reviews. Really,
Speaker 1: I gotta say a plus for date planning. I mean
Speaker 1: we heard about the scooter, the countryside, the chicken fried steak.
Speaker 1: What girl wouldn't swoon? Yeah, it was fun. Okay, not
Speaker 1: as excited as I am about your date. I mean,
Speaker 1: you even spent the night with this woman, so she
Speaker 1: told you that. Yeah, is that not true? No, it's true,
Speaker 1: I guess is on the radio. I mean it's kind
Speaker 1: of an important fact, right. She's not ashamed by spending
Speaker 1: the night with you. She thought that you guys really connected,
Speaker 1: that you had a really good time together. Don't you
Speaker 1: feel like you owe her an explanation for why you're
Speaker 1: not getting in touch with her. I've been in touch
Speaker 1: with her, but not the same. Yeah. I mean, even
Speaker 1: your reaction when we said her name wasn't great. This
Speaker 1: is on me? Is yeah. I don't even know how
Speaker 1: to tell her this. Oh my god, are you in
Speaker 1: a relationship? No? No, no, no, no, no, nothing like that.
Speaker 1: I should have done my due diligence beforehand. But I
Speaker 1: was checking out some of her social media afterwards, and
Speaker 1: I made a connection that didn't sit right with me.
Speaker 1: I mean a connection. So it's gonna sound bad however
Speaker 1: I phrase it. Um, I knew her dad, and I
Speaker 1: didn't know that I knew her dad when we went out.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she said that you were ten years older.
Speaker 1: You actually older than ten years older than her. She
Speaker 1: said that I said I was ten years older, because
Speaker 1: I never said that. She just guessed, Oh, she just guessed.
Speaker 1: How much older are you? Uh? More than ten? Oh
Speaker 1: my god. So what's the connection to her dad? Then?
Speaker 1: Are you like buddies with her dad? Her dad used
Speaker 1: to be my boss for a little bit. I'm your boss.
Speaker 1: Well he was like boss for like a year. He
Speaker 1: hired me for a job. Well, like when she was born,
Speaker 1: my boss had handed up cigars. Oh god, do you
Speaker 1: like basically went to her baby shower? Shut? It is
Speaker 1: not cool anymore. Oh yeah, I know. I mean, oh
Speaker 1: my god, they get it. Oh wow, you guys looks
Speaker 1: so good for your age. Thank you. Uh yeah, I
Speaker 1: basically worked for like a year looking at her baby photos.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay. And I had no idea. I never
Speaker 1: put the name together. And once I went online, yeah,
Speaker 1: it just kind of clicked into place. And now I
Speaker 1: feel really dirty. Yeah, you're a dirty boy. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like your uncle Marco. Yeah say that, bro, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't go that far. It's not a family creep out.
Speaker 1: It's just kind of like it's weird. Yeah, I've never
Speaker 1: been there. It's not a big deal, but the fact
Speaker 1: that you yeah, yeah, well I don't. I don't want
Speaker 1: to make things more awkward for you. But part I
Speaker 1: need to tell you, Marco that Alana has been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and she heard everything that she
Speaker 1: said me right, yeah, I'm Oh my god, I had
Speaker 1: no idea first of all, and I what a crazy connection,
Speaker 1: Like what a crazy wool? Yeah, this is so awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really is. Um, I you totally understand, like why
Speaker 1: you're kind of weirded out by it, And I guess
Speaker 1: I am too, but I'm glad that it's not because
Speaker 1: like I did something wrong. But I no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: And I totally understand. This is the most uncomfortable thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if you remember having a
Speaker 1: toy elephant, but oh my god, oh my god, no,
Speaker 1: it has to zob, it has toop. Wait, oh god,
Speaker 1: why are you an elephant? Wait? Did you give her
Speaker 1: an elephant when she was a baby. I gave her
Speaker 1: father an elephant when, oh my god, it was like
Speaker 1: my favorite toy. Look at that. You guys had similar
Speaker 1: interest right beginning. Oh my god, I'm dad, this is
Speaker 1: too much. The elephant's name. No, don't don't even who cares, Jeff,
Speaker 1: I don't know. She couldn't talk. Okay, this is too weird,
Speaker 1: this is too much. Okay, wait, hold on them, let's
Speaker 1: hold on. Let's let's take a deep breath here. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's take a deep breath. Yes, it's weird, but it's
Speaker 1: not like you babysat her or changed your diapers or
Speaker 1: anything like. You never even met her as a baby.
Speaker 1: You just saw pictures. I mean technically I held her
Speaker 1: once where No no, wait what well they had brought
Speaker 1: her to the office one time. Yeah, hold the baby,
Speaker 1: you held her as a newborn. Oh my god, it's
Speaker 1: real bad. No, no, no, no, no, no no, no, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, I can't. I can't. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: wait are you not? Are you not attracted to him anymore? So?
Speaker 1: Just are we even asking? She's from Idaho? She doesn't
Speaker 1: get it. This is this isn't even bad where she's from?
Speaker 1: Agree to your friend. I well, I understand your sentiment,
Speaker 1: but I'm legally obligated to ask. Yes it is. Would
Speaker 1: you like to go on another date with Alana Marco?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Oh my gosh, I'd rather
Speaker 1: you pay for the hot water bill, for all the
Speaker 1: showers I'm gonna need. You guys have a lot more
Speaker 1: in common. Maybe you could show up to the family
Speaker 1: reunion see your dad again, just like a whole time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so glad we cleared that up. So you're glad.
Speaker 1: Focus Like, actually, I kind of like baby Tuck. Okay,
Speaker 1: I feel like we're bad people now, I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: It's just a joke on light Now. Well, I'm not
Speaker 1: even sorry that we're not doing a second date on
Speaker 1: this one. But I don't know, who knows. Maybe there's
Speaker 1: a booty call in your guys' future. You never know
Speaker 1: what happens when you get drunk. You know that wine,
Speaker 1: She loves her wine, Moving ninety two point five