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All thanks to Live Nation. 11 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: You know, I have a hot take. I'm angry at 12 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: the Chicago Bears. I'm angry at and they won, and 13 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm still angry at them. Maybe I'll get to that 14 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: in a minute. It's too much up and down. But 15 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: Kiki said that she discovered football this weekend at the 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: the right page of thirty something, you discovered it? Explain this? 17 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,279 Speaker 1: You discovered football this weekend? How I get it? 18 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 2: I finally understand why this is America's what pastimes every 19 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: they call it? 20 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 3: Yes, No, I think that's baseball. 21 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you know what I meant. 22 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: I am in though I am finally understanding why for 23 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: years people have been running down the field, kicking and chasing. 24 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: I never understood this, never was a fan, never understood, 25 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: never enjoyed it, never sat down and watched a full 26 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: game until this weekend. 27 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: And now I get it. Now I'm in. Now I 28 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 3: want to make chili in hotel. You know what I'm saying. 29 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: It is a new light in my life that I 30 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: never ever thought that I would ever be engaging in. 31 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 3: Like who am I? I don't know, I want to 32 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: order a jersey like here, Oh my gosh, I am you? 33 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 4: Because like literally, this is the first weekend that he's like, wait, 34 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 4: are we watching the game? 35 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 5: Like? 36 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: Where are we watching the game? 37 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 3: But are we doing? 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: Like he. 39 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 3: He stayed up and watched it. 40 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I fell asleep, Like that is how locked in? He was, like, I'm. 41 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: Telling you, I'm dating you just as you are dating me. 42 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 3: That for sure. So you guys get in and the 43 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: Bears are good. 44 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 2: I think that's what it is, like the beard something 45 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: about this story. 46 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, but you live you've lived in in Chicago. 47 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: You've lived in Chicago when the Bears were good, So 48 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know thirteen years ago they were pretty good. 49 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: Then we took a while to get good again. But 50 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: you know, but but this isn't the first time in 51 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: your life that you've lived in a city where the 52 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: sports teams were good. 53 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know what, now I'm here, you know, 54 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: and I want to make up for lost time. 55 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 3: So I'm throwing the super Bowl party. 56 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: We're doing a girl's gonna be a whole thing. Yeah, 57 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. It's it's the buddy Ball 58 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 2: and we're just gonna have a good time. I am in, y'all. 59 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: I am locked in. And I never understood this until 60 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: this weekend. 61 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 3: I don't know what it was. I don't know what got. 62 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: Me in it, but it was like they were down 63 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 2: and then I was I was, I was praying, and 64 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 2: then next thing, you know, they were winning, and I 65 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: was just like, oh my god, I'm here for the 66 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: coach what's his name being? 67 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, what do you think being. 68 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 3: Discovered like water with fruit in it to flavor it? Like, 69 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: I don't understand what's happening right now. Yes, it was great. 70 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: Yes, water tastes so good with this fruit of it, though, 71 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Like if you ever tried it with like a nice cucumber, 72 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: maybe like, you know, throw a couple little berries in 73 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: there and something like that. It's delicious. 74 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: You gets hurd of yoga, Like, yes, bro, I am here, 75 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 2: I am here, and now I'm locked in butterly. 76 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:25,839 Speaker 3: Um, that's what I say. 77 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: You know, I'm sure they appreciate it when they're down 78 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: and you weren't their fans. 79 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,240 Speaker 3: But now that there's good, yeah, sure? 80 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: Would you would you have liked it? Would you be 81 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: still saying this this morning if the Bears had lost? 82 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: Because in this case we're talking about the Bears game. 83 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: I mean the Panthers had a close game? Would you 84 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: be did you watch that game? I mean there were 85 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: a lot of games, and the Bills had a close game. 86 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: Would you Would you feel the same way about any 87 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 1: team or is it just at the team where you live? 88 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: She ums to be doing well now all of a sudden, I. 89 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 3: Think it's the Bears. I really do. 90 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 2: I felt I feel like the energy in the city 91 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 2: hasn't been like this ever. I've never felt like the 92 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: whole city is watching one thing together and we're all 93 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: excited together. 94 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 3: It just felt that I could feel it in the air. 95 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, yes, yeah, And then if your team 96 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: lose this this weekend. Then is it over? Is this 97 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 1: is this interest over, this new found love that you 98 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: have for the America's pastime footballer. 99 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 3: Wait for that heartbreak. I don't know. 100 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: I don't know, but you know what, I'm very hopeful 101 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 2: and I feel like, because Mike the mechanic and I 102 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: are now on board, that we are really good luck 103 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 2: charms to this team, and so I think there's no 104 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: limit to what the Bears will do now that I'm 105 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 2: locked in. 106 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 3: So honestly, I think we're going to the super Bowl. 107 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 3: I'm not just being. 108 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 6: Mechanic Mike and Pope Leo. I think he was working 109 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 6: all the time over time. You can't tell me otherwise, we. 110 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: Get a pope from Chicago and all of a sudden, 111 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 1: the Bears are pretty good. 112 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: Now do you understand how it works or where they're 113 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 3: running or why? 114 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: Or so for the life of me, I kept telling 115 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: my brother, I said, why is Caleb william sitting now? 116 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 3: He needs to get in the game. 117 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, he should get in the game. We 118 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: needed it to be his turn a little more because 119 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:16,919 Speaker 1: when I was talking. 120 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: Kids by his turn, I'm like, what you mean his turn? 121 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 2: Like my brother was like, because there's an offense and 122 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 2: a defense, and I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. And 123 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 2: so he explained it to me and I was like, okay, 124 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 2: fair enough. 125 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 3: But you know, when Caleb got in there, he did 126 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 3: what needed to be done. 127 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 2: And the other guy, I don't know, it was another 128 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 2: guy that was running and kicking, and I. 129 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: Was just like, you know, I'm so proud of him kicking. 130 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: There's a running back, you know. 131 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 4: Cayro Santos. If you don't know any other player, know 132 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 4: Cairo happening. I'm so happy for you though. I'm so 133 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 4: happy that you found a new passion. 134 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 3: It's crazy and I never thought this would be me. 135 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: Ever. 136 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 2: I always drag girls because I feel like a lot 137 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 2: of my friends they pretend like they like football because 138 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 2: they want to be around the gay. You know, I 139 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: dated a football player, like I still don't understand what. 140 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: Was going on. Dated a football play. Did you attend 141 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: his game? 142 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 5: I did? I did? 143 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 7: Yes. 144 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 3: All through high school and college. 145 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: I never as impassioned as you are now, not at all. 146 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 2: I only cheer when his family was cheer because I 147 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 2: didn't know what was going on. 148 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 3: I really was confused. But now I'm locked in. I'm here. 149 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm happy for you. I'm happy for you. You 150 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: don't look I was gonna save the rant for later. 151 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 1: But like I pop off King, the games are always excited, 152 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: I would say mostly exciting this time of year because 153 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: they're you know, elimination games. It's the playoffs, so they 154 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: lose once they're they're out. So I feel like everyone 155 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: plays really hard. You win a few games, you went 156 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: up in the Super Bowl, you could win up a champion. 157 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: That's good. But specifically though, if you watch the Chicago 158 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: Bears game against the Green Bay Packers, you don't have 159 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: to be a Bears fan to have watched that game 160 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: because it's a big rivalry game and if you know 161 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: anything about it, then you know that the Bears. You know, 162 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: if you're a Bears fan, you cannot lose to the Packers, 163 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: especially in chic you just can't do it. Like it's terrible. 164 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 1: And if we had, I think it would have been 165 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: I would have taken anything good about this season and 166 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: just everyone would have been mad. And you could tell 167 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: that by watching the first Oh, I don't know, eighty 168 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: percent of the game, eighty five, maybe ninety percent of 169 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: the game because we were losing badly. The Bears were 170 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: in this game, and you could see on everyone's faces. 171 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: You could see Soldier Field turning like people were angry, 172 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 1: like wait a minute, we got this far and now 173 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna get blown out by these guys. And then like, 174 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: in the last five minutes of the game, what did 175 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: we score in the fourth quarter? We scored like twenty 176 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: three points or something and won the game, which is amazing, 177 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: and I'm so happy about that because you know, I'm 178 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: an adopted Bears fan. I moved to Chicago a long 179 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: time ago, and I was kind of homeless. I grew 180 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 1: up in Arizona. Football homeless. I should say I had 181 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: a home, but you know, football homeless. If Cardinals were 182 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: just it, you couldn't attach yourself to that. There wasn't 183 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: even any like It's not like the Lions that were Caitlyn, 184 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: You've been a long suffering Lions fan. But there's like 185 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: a long history of generations and Lions fans. I don't 186 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: know if there's a long history of generations of Arizona 187 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: Cardinals fans. I don't think there are. They weren't even 188 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: the Arizona Cardinals. They were the Saint Louis Cardinals at 189 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: one point football anyway, whatever the case may be, I 190 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: just I get it. I moved here, and I feel 191 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: like people were born into this and they love it. 192 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: And I lived here when the Bears were good, and 193 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: I lived in Chicago when the Bears were bad, and 194 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: this town is so much better when sports teams are hitting, 195 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: And wherever you live and whatever your team is, you 196 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: got to agree with me. When sports teams are hitting, 197 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: everybody is happy. But my problem is we should have 198 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: lost that damn game. And then they're they're walking around 199 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: with all this swag at the end like, ah, yeah, 200 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: we did it, you know, Blank the Packers, the whole thing, 201 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: you guys, you put everybody through the worst night. The 202 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: range of emotions were unnecessary. If you can score twenty 203 00:08:55,800 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: three points in one quarter, why are we in this situation? Week? 204 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: Stop it? Stop it. Stop it. Like the second half 205 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: of the season, we were gonna lose every game and 206 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: somehow we wind up winning, which is amazing, but stop it. 207 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: And then Caleb Williams standing there at the end like 208 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 1: he's not even tired, like, oh, yeah, you know, we 209 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 1: probably should have played better, but did it again? Stop it, 210 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: stop it. You're so good. Just blow everybody out. Stop it. 211 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: I'm mad, I'm watching this game. I could have turned 212 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: it off. I think a lot of people did turn 213 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: it off and thought that the Chicago Bears had lost, 214 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: and they won, but they had to do it all 215 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: in the last second. Stop it. 216 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 2: I had a friend who was actually at the game 217 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: and he left the stadium and he was on social 218 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 2: media like this sucks. 219 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 3: I'm so mad at us. And he left the. 220 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 2: Game early and got in the car and then was like, Okay, 221 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guys, I see we're he was. That was 222 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: a funny like story to watch because it was just like, 223 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: look how mad you are. Look how quick you turn 224 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: on your team. See me, I would never I'm riding 225 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 2: with the Bears win and lose. But he left the stadium. 226 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's just frustrating. And like, you know, some dude, 227 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 2: I saw some video early this morning. I don't remember 228 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 2: who it was because I was hav asleep, but some 229 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: kuy in the Packers like, oh, the Bears didn't do anything. 230 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: We just we collapsed. Well that's true. You did. You'd 231 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: give up twenty three points in a quarter and you 232 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: lost a game that you had handily won. I don't 233 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: know that I look at it that way. I mean, yes, 234 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 1: they collapsed, but then the Bears were exceptional. I just 235 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 1: don't get it, like, just be exceptional more, you know, 236 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 1: I mean, like, why are we waiting till the end? 237 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: But it's not even like we did it this one time? 238 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 1: Like what was it? Last five six games has been 239 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: like this, They're gonna lose again and then all the 240 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: miraculously and then they all and then calebly and they 241 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: even tired, like bro, you uhoul to be exhausted. It's 242 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: like it's too easy. I don't understand. Stop putting us 243 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: through this. Fans. I'm like, I love you, and I'm 244 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: so happy that this team is winning and it's so 245 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: much fun. And I know there are people that you know, 246 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: like I said, lifelong Bears fans, multi generation's like and 247 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 1: people are saying that, well, they're called the cardiac Bears. 248 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: Seven comeback games, but you're that good? So like why 249 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: why are we so bad? And then all of a 250 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: sudden so good? I don't get it, Like which one 251 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 1: is it? I think it's I think we're good actually, 252 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 1: and I think that the Bear is gonna be good 253 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: for a long time. But like whatever your team is, 254 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: if you have every single week, if you have to 255 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 1: live through this, yes, it's exciting, but then like, we're 256 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: eventually going to lose a big game this way because 257 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: it's not gonna work out this way every single time. 258 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,599 Speaker 1: Wait till we play the Seahawks or something, or like, 259 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. We can't do this every time. 260 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: Oh no, man, you gotta have faith, you gotta believe. 261 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: Man, I'm just frustrated. I'm watching this game. I'm like, 262 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: I can't believe this. Man, this is a great season, 263 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: and we're gonna lose to the Packers and then everyone's 264 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: gonna be mad and like you just what a waste? 265 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: And then oh, let's just go ahead, real quick. Score 266 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: twenty four just real quick, just a couple of touchdowns, 267 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: real quick. Oh good we won? Wow, better play better 268 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: next time. I guess I don't know. I can't be 269 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: the only one who's just impassionate about it. Oh it's 270 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: twenty five points in the fourth quarter, Sorry, twenty five points. 271 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: Twenty five Man, I don't think my heart can handle it, 272 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: is what I mean. Like, if you saw my instant stories, 273 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: I was like, this is bad and then like two 274 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: hours later, that was exceptional. I went from calling my 275 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: therapist to drinking for good reasons, not bad reasons like 276 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: I normally do. So I don't know, there's no one else. 277 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: Your Kiki's over here celebrating, jumping up and down because 278 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 1: you watch something it was truly exceptional, and I'm over 279 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: here going I'm tired of seeing this, like just blow her. 280 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: They start winning, like play well the whole time, right 281 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: from the beginning, right, That's all I'm saying. Quit doing 282 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: this to us up front. 283 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 6: Yes, when you're like at a party two and then 284 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 6: like the vibes like they're going. 285 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 3: In waves, I don't like that. I want to be 286 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 3: like on a high at all times. So I agree 287 00:12:57,880 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 3: with you, Fred, I'm gonna ride with you on this one. 288 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 3: I'm sure that's what they want to, you know, make 289 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 3: it happen. 290 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure they do too, But isn't that someone in 291 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: there control. I don't know how you go from being 292 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: so average to so exceptional and then just turning it 293 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: off and doing it over and over again. That's my problem. 294 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 1: Someone says, stop complaining. You know how many years of 295 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: being up until the fourth quarter and then blowing the game? 296 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 1: We had to watch. That's true too. I mean that's 297 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: true too. I just if it were if it were 298 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: one game, I would say, wow, who we got lucky there. 299 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: It's a bit of a theme this season, and I'm 300 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm just saying stop it. 301 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 3: Not at all. 302 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 8: I so understand, like what's happening with you right now? 303 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,719 Speaker 8: And I stand with you, my brother, I get it. 304 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you you. I'm grateful. I mean again 305 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: and again, not everyone lives in Chicago, but if you've 306 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: lived in a team in a city where your team 307 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 1: was doing exceptionally well, I mean, what ten years ago 308 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:53,760 Speaker 1: the Panthers went to the super Bowl. That was such 309 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 1: an exciting time. Even this weekend in Charlotte where our 310 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 1: show is on. It was exciting because they had exceeded 311 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: experts and it was electric like it was awesome. And 312 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm happy for that. Wherever, wherever you were, Baseball, whatever 313 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 1: sport it is. I mean, black Hawks have been good, 314 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: Cubs have been good in my time living in Chicago, Socks, 315 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll be good again. It's one of those things. 316 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: It's better when your teams are firing. Quit playing with 317 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: my emotions. And I know Caitlin knows this. Because because 318 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: this is what the Lions they're They're good and good 319 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: and good and good until they have to be good 320 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: and then they're bad. Yeah. 321 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 8: Well, I mean we got knocked out right before the 322 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 8: Super Bowl last year, so you can imagine the pain 323 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 8: that I was going through on that walk home. 324 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: I walked home from the bar, like, man, I sat 325 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 3: on a bench like I didn't know. 326 00:14:38,960 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 8: I'm not even joking, Like I like truly, like where 327 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 8: do I go from here? I had my Nana's ashes 328 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 8: because I thought we were gonna have this moment and 329 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 8: it was just us on that bench. 330 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: And Kiki just discovered this and she thinks every game 331 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: is like this. I wish every game we're not like that. 332 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, it's a great story, great story. 333 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: Oh man. Yeah, anyway, I'm gonna play a song now. 334 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it. My breathing was getting weird at 335 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: the end of that game. I'm like, I do I 336 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: need to insult a physician or something. This is The 337 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: Fresh Show. 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Order a fresh show. 347 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: It's Kiki's Court, all right, the honorable Kika Leikue Judge Kiki. 348 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: Yes, let's get in the courtroom. The gabble has been hit, 349 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 2: all right. It says, hey, kikey am I wrong for 350 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 2: dating my best friends X after. 351 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 3: She dumped him. 352 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 2: My name is Danielle and I've been best friends with 353 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 2: Tiegan since childhood. Teagan started dating Carter in high school 354 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: and they were on and off for eight years. However, 355 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: last year, out of nowhere, Teagan said she was no 356 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 2: longer attracted to Carter. She dumped him and said she 357 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:20,240 Speaker 2: wanted to experience life. Her exact words were, if he 358 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 2: dates someone else tomorrow, good for him. So Carter took 359 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: the break up really hard, and he started reaching out 360 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: to me because he felt like I knew them both 361 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: really well. I was just being nice and supporting him 362 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 2: until we accidentally slept together. 363 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: Okay, after that's very supportive. 364 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 2: The process that Okay, after that, we realized that we 365 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 2: had real chemistry and we started secretly dating. A few 366 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 2: months later. Now we're expecting a baby. So last week 367 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: I finally broke the news to Teagan, and to my surprise, 368 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 2: she lost it on me. She accused me of waiting 369 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: years for my turn with him, and I had to 370 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 2: quickly remind her that she dumped him. Now she's telling 371 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 2: everyone that I trapped him and stole her future, and 372 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 2: half of our friends won't talk to me. 373 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 3: Am I wrong stole her future? 374 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: She dumped him? 375 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 3: She did dump him, she did, however for it. What 376 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 3: are you doing with my ex? Like that should be 377 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 3: off limits? 378 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 2: Girl called one on one like, there are a lot 379 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:27,040 Speaker 2: of people in this world. 380 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: How did you end up with my man? I mean, 381 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 3: well my ex? 382 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 2: You know, yes, I gave him back to the streets, 383 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 2: but that didn't mean for you to go have a 384 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 2: baby with him. 385 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 3: She's in the streets and ruddy baby. 386 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: Wait what was her quote again? He could date anybody 387 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: he wants, No, she said. 388 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 3: If he dates someone else tomorrow. 389 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 2: Good for him, But that doesn't mean I want him 390 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 2: to date my best friend. 391 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:53,720 Speaker 3: She's somebody. Oh no, he's the loyalty in the room here. 392 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 8: That's absolutely insane, Like that's to call the cops, report 393 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:03,359 Speaker 8: her right online, a smear campaign, cancel her. 394 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on. I mean, first of all, the 395 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: jury is you guys are a jury in the room. 396 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:09,959 Speaker 1: And of course at home made five five, five, nine 397 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: one one o three five. I would not like this 398 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: at all. But and if it was a very good 399 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: close friend of mine, then I guess I would hope 400 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: that they could see from my perspective why the relationship 401 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: didn't work out, and maybe that would not be something 402 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,479 Speaker 1: they would want to engage in. And and yes, there 403 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,199 Speaker 1: is such a thing as loyalty. I get that, But 404 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 1: like you do run the risk when you dump someone 405 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 1: of them meeting someone you know and dating them. I mean, 406 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 1: you don't. Unfortunately, when you break up with someone, you 407 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: don't get to control their actions for the rest of 408 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: their life. And and yeah, you may have lost a 409 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: friend in the deal, but like, I don't know that 410 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: anyone actually did anything wrong here. 411 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 3: Fred, I am shocked. 412 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: Now, I wouldn't mind you don't have to like it, Kiki. 413 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: There's a difference between not liking something someone did and 414 00:18:58,640 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 1: it being wrong. 415 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 3: That's true, but you know, if I don't like it 416 00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 3: is wrong. 417 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 2: They've been friends since childhood, so yes, if you if 418 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 2: you end up with the girl that we had science 419 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 2: class with, okay, but my childhood best friend. 420 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 3: You're dating my ex and we were together. 421 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 2: For eight years? What are you doing? Like I feel like, 422 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 2: come on, girl, there has to be some type of loyalty. 423 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,360 Speaker 2: And now you're having this man's baby, Like what. 424 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: I mean, it's that great? 425 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 9: She said she wasn't attracted to him anymore, Like what 426 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 9: does it matter? Maybe they're meant to be together and 427 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 9: it started in high school. Like I know there are 428 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,679 Speaker 9: exceptions to the rule, but like high school relationships, like 429 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 9: come on, oh my god. 430 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: When you just don't get to control people once you 431 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 1: break up with them unfortunately you know, I mean yeah, 432 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: because it's not ideal, but like you don't get to 433 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: say if if you don't want someone anymore and they 434 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,360 Speaker 1: want someone that you know, then that's their right. And 435 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 1: and I look, I think if the we're like, well, 436 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: we should still be best friends or I don't know 437 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 1: why you have an issue with that. I mean, she 438 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: can have an issue with it, but like, no, no, sir, 439 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: how you doing, Sarah, Welcome to the show. Good morning, 440 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. 441 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 5: Man. 442 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 10: That's that's a number that's negative. Ain't no way that's 443 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 10: cool like that. That's kind of like a guy called 444 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 10: too no if she was mine, bro, come on it 445 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 10: wet limit. We're not talking no more. 446 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: But listen to your listen to you man, Like like 447 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: it's this ownership things like you don't want to be 448 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: with someone, why do you care if somebody else does? 449 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 10: Yeah, but if you my partner, if you my partner, 450 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 10: bro to go behind you, I cannot do that. 451 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 1: That's Look, I'm a I'm a loyal guy. I Am 452 00:20:58,400 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: not going to go out and date my best friend 453 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: you know, ex wife or whatever. But I think it 454 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: says something about the friendship, and it might say something 455 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:10,199 Speaker 1: about you if someone chooses your ex over you. Why 456 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: are we not flipping this at all? Why are we 457 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 1: not looking at this from the other perspective for one second? 458 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: What if? What if this girl was kind of nutty 459 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: the whole time, and like it came down to, look, 460 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,679 Speaker 1: I'm your friend, but I don't I don't like your 461 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: behavior here, and I think he was a decent guy. 462 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: And then what if they go off and have a 463 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: nice life together. Yes, you lost a friend in the process, 464 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: but it's your life, I means true. 465 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 10: Everybody got their own life to live. I'm not taking 466 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 10: out of this. But at the end of the day, 467 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 10: we played in it shame together, right, no flipping, no turning. 468 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 10: Now we're gonna always go right. 469 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:49,959 Speaker 3: Right, that's right. 470 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear no, I thank you, sir. Have a 471 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: good day. I think. Wow, I get it. 472 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: Though it's real personal and I'm believed well. 473 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 1: And from the other side, I mean, I'll advocate for 474 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: the other perspective for just a second. Maybe this person 475 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: was not that great of a friend anyway, clearly, you know, 476 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 1: maybe maybe this person was not really your your patna 477 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 1: as as sir would say. And and so you know what, 478 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: that person's gone, This person that wasn't all that loyal 479 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: to you is gone. Let them have it, Let them, Paulina, 480 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: let them. Hey, mel Robbins, I'm on this one. 481 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,439 Speaker 6: I can't let them because at the end of the day, 482 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 6: like I have history with this person, and then that's 483 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 6: my best friend. There's enough fish in the sea. Okay, 484 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,360 Speaker 6: there's enough out there. You don't want to take mine 485 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 6: even though he's not mine no more. 486 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, people are really upset it it it's the idea 487 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 1: of controlling other people that I don't like. It's it. 488 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I would not like this person that's not yours. 489 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:49,160 Speaker 1: And that's what that person is not my friend, that person, 490 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 1: that person should not be. We should not be as 491 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 1: invested in one another as we are. If they're going 492 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: to do if they're going to do that. But I 493 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 1: really don't like the idea that everybody I've ever touched 494 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: is off limits to any when I've ever met. I 495 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: just I don't I don't like. I don't like the 496 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: way that feels. 497 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 2: This is your childhood best friend, Okay, And first of all, 498 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 2: when we broke up, you shouldn't even be talking to 499 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 2: him anymore after that? 500 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 3: What is she consoling him for? I hear, I knew, 501 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 3: what the hell all my friends know when they break 502 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 3: up with that man? 503 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 2: I know, I don't know him. He can't run up 504 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 2: to me in the streets like, no, we're good. I 505 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:22,880 Speaker 2: don't even talk to you after. 506 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:27,159 Speaker 1: Lindsay, how are you doing? Lindsay good? How are you guys, Hi, 507 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: what did you want to say? Welcome? Do you take 508 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 1: it away Kiki's court? But this is a situation of 509 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: a best friend winding up with an ex that that 510 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 1: was discarded. I think we all agree that, yeah, the 511 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: primary friend discarded this person and the best friend wound 512 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: up having a kid with him. What do you think? 513 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 11: I think it's it's not right girl code one on one. 514 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,360 Speaker 1: I actually was in the same situation. 515 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 11: H after I graduated high school and I am no 516 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 11: longer best friends with her. 517 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Wow, are they still together? Oh no, No, 518 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 3: it was a fling exactly. 519 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: But I keep coming back tout that's very hurtful. But like, 520 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,920 Speaker 1: this is a person that you I guess, let's just 521 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: let's say that this person, I mean, so, she's not 522 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: that good of a friend to you anyway, and she 523 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,159 Speaker 1: wants to be with your ex wal you don't like, 524 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 1: So goodbye to both of them. I guess. I mean, 525 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it doesn't hurt, But what I'm saying 526 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: to you is what is the point in dwelling on 527 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: it or harboring any sort of like long term. She's 528 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: not going to be in your life anymore either way. 529 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: So what difference does it make? Right? 530 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 11: But it's still hurtful because I was your best friend 531 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,639 Speaker 11: and then you're wondering, Okay, that whole time I was 532 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 11: in a relationship with him, was she having feelings for 533 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,960 Speaker 11: him that whole time? Or did she find him attractive? 534 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 11: Like then you're wondering all these things, and then all 535 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 11: the trust is just not there anymore. You're just and 536 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 11: that breaks your heart. 537 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it doesn't hurt. But what I'm saying 538 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: is do I have a right to control what happens 539 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: after I break up with somebody? And what I can 540 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 1: control is whether I want those two people in my 541 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 1: life anymore, and apparently I don't, So that sucks. I 542 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: think there's I think there are two things that could 543 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: be true here. But thank you so much. Have a 544 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: good day, you too, Jessica, or excuse me, Lindsay was good. 545 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 1: But Jessica, we have to talk. Jessica. Hi, Jessica, Hi, Hi. 546 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 7: I'm Jessica. 547 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 11: I have very strong feelings. 548 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 3: About this topic today. 549 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 1: What do you think? 550 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, so I had a best friend who I knew 551 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 7: since I was five years old, and throughout high school 552 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 7: and college she dated three of my boyfriends that I 553 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,879 Speaker 7: dated within months four times, so so one of them 554 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 7: was more than once. I kind of disconnected with her. 555 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 7: I was as an adult. I was like, oh, let's 556 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 7: let's be friends again. And then my now husband then 557 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 7: she kissed him on at one point as well too 558 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,479 Speaker 7: when I reconnected with her and we are not friends anymore. 559 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 7: So no, I think that that is it's a completely 560 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:54,439 Speaker 7: valid for. 561 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,479 Speaker 1: Her, and I'm sure that happened to you. But can 562 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 1: we connect? Can we at least now that your situation 563 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: is different from this one, and that it's clearly this 564 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: person who you were friends with was going for you, 565 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: going for the jugular, I mean repeatedly going after anything 566 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: guy you dated. Is there not a possibility that this 567 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 1: person that these two were meant to be together? These 568 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: other two we're not talking about. She's not sloppy seconds 569 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: every single time. I mean, that's like, that's some weird 570 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 1: obsession with you kind of stuff. But is it absolutely 571 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: possible that in the course of knowing that couple that 572 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,479 Speaker 1: they realized that they were better off together. And by 573 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: the way, the guy didn't even do it. He got dumped. 574 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: It's not like he left her for the other girl. 575 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 7: I just I think two things can be can be 576 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 7: right at the same time. 577 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree on that. I think we agree on that. 578 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: I think we are on that. 579 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 7: No, I think more so in my situation was my 580 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 7: friend she just didn't necessarily have the confidence to go 581 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 7: and find anybody that she was that she could date 582 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 7: or anything like that. So I don't know if that 583 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,159 Speaker 7: was the same situation. It was just more of a 584 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 7: comfort of eye, know, like I know your boyfriends, so 585 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 7: like I already know them, so when I might as 586 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 7: well date them. 587 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, goes with that saying thank you, Jessic, have 588 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: a great day. 589 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 3: Yeah you two, Fred, thank you. 590 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 1: A lot of a lot of opinions here, Emily. Emily, 591 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 1: you say everybody's wrong. 592 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 5: Oh my god, I didn't know that's how poories in 593 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 5: this list. Okay, yeah, so everyone's wrong. Because here's the thing, 594 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 5: you guys are right. That one the girl who broke 595 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,239 Speaker 5: up with the first girls, it sounds like she kind 596 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 5: of had moved on already when she did break up 597 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 5: with him, so like, yeah, she doesn't can't control him. However, 598 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,119 Speaker 5: in some aspect of girl code, I think that the 599 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 5: friend should have said something before she was pregnant with 600 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 5: his child, because now she's just saying something because she's 601 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,680 Speaker 5: the other friends going to obviously see she's pregnant. So 602 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 5: like I feel like that would have been more respectful, 603 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 5: and probably she probably had such a strong reaction because 604 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 5: she then you know spiral too, well, how long has 605 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,040 Speaker 5: this been going on? You know, she obviously knows they've 606 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 5: been keeping secrets in regardless of if you know is 607 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 5: inner life or not, it's still someone you know you 608 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 5: cared about for power long and that hurts knowing that 609 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,360 Speaker 5: they're keeping things from you. But yeah, everyone's wrong. 610 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, this isn't I'm not arguing this is great. Again. 611 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: My only real issue here is this whole thing where 612 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: it's I own I own you. Uh, no one, no 613 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: one else can be with that person. I know because 614 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: because I said so, she. 615 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 5: Does not own him. She definitely cannot dictate if they 616 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 5: are together or not. I do think she has the 617 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 5: right to feel hurt. She does not have a right 618 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 5: to dictate they they are break up or they are together. 619 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 5: She or you know, she does not get to have 620 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 5: an opinion on that because she had very much given 621 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 5: him up already. 622 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: I agree with it. I think you're right. You know 623 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: what everybody's wrong case closes, everybody recording? 624 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 5: Can that be my found it? Can I get a 625 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 5: recording of that? 626 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: Fread Everybody's wrong case clothes? You're welcome to that copyright. 627 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 3: You a good day. 628 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, Hey, I don't say it a whole a 629 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 1: whole lot. You're right. 630 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 5: I appreciate I thank you all so much. 631 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: Have a good one. She really wanted to soak that 632 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: one in.