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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from April in Lexington. April writes,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I had a bad breakup and my

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Speaker 1: sister was there for me without telling me. She called

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Speaker 1: him to get his side of the story. He called

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Speaker 1: to let me know that my sister sided with him

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Speaker 1: on a few things.

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Speaker 2: Why would she do that and not tell me?

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't know. I don't know your sister, So

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Speaker 3: that's a hard one. Now listen to me. Now, be

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Speaker 3: very careful because your boyfriend could be playing you. She

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Speaker 3: might have called to try to reconcile y'all. She might

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Speaker 3: have called to see if she could help, and then

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Speaker 3: along the way she may have even said to him,

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Speaker 3: I understand where you're coming from. You right, you're right

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Speaker 3: about that, but y'all need to sit down and talk.

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Speaker 3: That conversation could have went just like that. But then

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Speaker 3: he picks the phone up and tell you, Yeah, your

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Speaker 3: sister called me, she sided with me. Why don't you

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Speaker 3: just call your sister and clear clear the ab But

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Speaker 3: don't call her accusing her of anything, because she might

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Speaker 3: have made the phone call to help you out.

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Speaker 2: But since he probably lost the argument and he did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he probably trying to say, well, your sister called

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Speaker 3: me and she think I'm right. You know how many

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Speaker 3: times I've seen that scenario play out, So I would

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Speaker 3: be conscious of that.

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Speaker 2: I would be conscious of that.

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Speaker 3: Don't just say your sister tried to turn on you

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Speaker 3: to do something behind your back, because he'd have told

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Speaker 3: that too. Yeah, your sister feeling me. Oh, if he

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Speaker 3: had that card to play, Oh, he'd have played that.

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Speaker 3: So it's probably nothing.

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Speaker 1: In the first place.

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Speaker 2: May just say, hey, look right, she should be on

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Speaker 2: my team. Why are you talking to.

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Speaker 3: But she might have called herself being on your team inside?

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Speaker 2: All right, No, come on, c l O from We're

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Speaker 2: moving on my team him, She shouldn't have called them.

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Speaker 1: I came in Tulsa, right, I had an outside I

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Speaker 1: had an outside baby.

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Speaker 2: Listen Celo.

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Speaker 1: I had an outside baby and my wife accepted it,

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Speaker 1: so I got full custody. My daughter is two now

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Speaker 1: and she and my wife are besties. My wife filed

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Speaker 1: for divorce and said my child is going to live

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Speaker 1: with her. Is this best for my daughter? Should I

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Speaker 1: allowed it?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Whoa whoa say today?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Deep right here, you know something dog how keen, you

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Speaker 3: cheated on your wife? You had a baby with another woman,

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Speaker 3: Your wife accepted it and took you back. She fell

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Speaker 3: in love with the baby. Now y'all getting a divorce?

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Speaker 2: Man? You know why y'all? Why y'all getting a divorced?

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Speaker 2: How keen?

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Speaker 3: Did you do something again? Or did she never get

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Speaker 3: over the first time? She's getting a divorce and she's

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Speaker 3: taking the baby. I don't want to get into where

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Speaker 3: it is the original mother. Is she okay with that?

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Speaker 3: I don't know the situation. Should I allow it?

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Speaker 2: M hm, br you ain't.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you stacked up that strong and it

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Speaker 3: just don't sound like you got enough. I don't know

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Speaker 3: why y'all getting the voice. If you did something else,

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Speaker 3: you ain't in a real strong position. But that should

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Speaker 3: I allow it?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: You can be vindictive if you want to. Let me

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Speaker 3: ask you just one question, what do you really think

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Speaker 3: would be best for the child?

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Speaker 2: Yep, just answer me that question. That's what he's asking.

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Speaker 3: Well, if you got to ask, it's probably her because

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Speaker 3: he said, you know, his only question is he didn't

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Speaker 3: say I love how I won't I never give up

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Speaker 3: my child?

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Speaker 2: Should I allow it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Is this best for my daughter?

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Speaker 2: Should I allow it? Bruh, Only you can tell us

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Speaker 2: that is it best for your daughter?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Based on what I'm hearing, it sound like she the

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Speaker 3: best move for the baby.

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Speaker 1: She certainly thinks so, wifey.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I hope it's not a vindictive move

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Speaker 3: just to hurt you because you've hurt her.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, let's just hope that's not the.

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Speaker 1: Case for the wife and the baby.

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Speaker 2: He says, are besties, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Maryland and new Er Schelle, maryl One says,

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Speaker 1: I was in the hospital briefly and both of the

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Speaker 1: guys that I'm dating showed up at the same time.

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Speaker 1: I think they both knew what was going on, but

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Speaker 1: they haven't said a word to me about it. Am

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Speaker 1: I supposed to bring it up and explain myself or not.

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Speaker 2: That would have been a good time to slip into

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Speaker 2: a mile, Cob. That's what I.

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Speaker 3: Saw them, walk in the room and just close my

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Speaker 3: eyes and hit that call button.

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Speaker 1: With my first time. I agree with you with this life.

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Speaker 2: This is a good lie. You in the hospital, they

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Speaker 2: both came.

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Speaker 3: Yourself into a mile coma.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just twitch didn't no way did that so fast?

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Speaker 2: My man seizure. Yeah, I had both of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she didn't do it. And she's supposed she's asking,

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Speaker 1: is she supposed to bring it up or explain herself?

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Speaker 1: What is she supposed to do?

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Speaker 2: She don't say nothing. You don't even remember this.

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Speaker 3: You in cohering. He was in that hospital, heavily medicated.

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Speaker 1: You came to visit me? Is that her question to him?

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Speaker 2: Who? When? No, I love it? I love it? Where

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Speaker 2: was I? Oh? Yeah, all of that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good answer to clo. All right, last one

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Speaker 1: this is Nathan and Glendale. Nathan says, I love buying antiques.

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Speaker 1: When my son said he was ready to ask his

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Speaker 1: girl to marry him. I found a nice diamond solitaire

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Speaker 1: at a thrift store and gave it to him. He

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Speaker 1: laughed in my face. It's like you're doing right now, Steve, and.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't take it.

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Speaker 1: How could he be so rude and turn it down?

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Speaker 2: Dog? And found his ring at a thrift stone?

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Speaker 3: You calling it an antique, It's just an old raggedy ring.

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Speaker 3: Your boy laughed so hard at that thing. First of all,

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Speaker 3: what ring? Have you ever seen a value at the

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Speaker 3: thrift stoe?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I never had You've been better off making your move

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Speaker 3: at the pawn shop, the thrift stone.

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Speaker 2: It's where you donate.

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Speaker 1: All right, boy, that ring wasn't work with You're listening

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show