WEBVTT - Dropping like Fleiss

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most dramatic podcast ever and I heart

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<v Speaker 1>radio podcast. Welcome to the most dramatic podcast ever. I

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<v Speaker 1>am Chris Harrison alongside Lauren Zima. It's so good to

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<v Speaker 1>have everybody here today. Because the show is about you.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to open the phone lines, take your calls.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always one of our favorite episodes that we do

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<v Speaker 1>when we get to interact with you because this show's

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<v Speaker 1>about you. Well, I was we were about to sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and do this episode. I mean, we're planning to

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<v Speaker 1>do it, and then some major news did hit though, babe,

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<v Speaker 1>and I have to say, it's making me wonder what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of questions we might get today because I've had

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<v Speaker 1>several people text me, call me ask if you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to do a podcast about the news that broke

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<v Speaker 1>this week, which is that the creator of The Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Flice, your longtime boss of about twenty years, the

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<v Speaker 1>man who hired you, has quote per the article, stepped down,

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<v Speaker 1>stepped away from the show. So several people reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>and asking is Chris gonna do like an emergency podcast

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<v Speaker 1>on this But you know, obviously, you know, I've had

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty four hours to process this news. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask for everybody out there, though, what was

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<v Speaker 1>your first reaction? I actually what was giving me your

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<v Speaker 1>first emotional or one word for when you first saw

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<v Speaker 1>the headline? Surprising. I was surprised. It was news that

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<v Speaker 1>filtered out early Tuesday morning. Obviously planned very carefully to

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<v Speaker 1>come out after the finale on Monday night, early Tuesday morning.

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<v Speaker 1>This announcement comes out and very surprising. I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to sum it up in one word, it's

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<v Speaker 1>very interesting. It's very interesting to me. Obviously, before you

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<v Speaker 1>and I ever started dating, I covered the show as

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<v Speaker 1>a journalist for three three I don't know, three four

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<v Speaker 1>years before we started dating. And then we started dating,

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<v Speaker 1>and I continued to written. We kind of kept things separate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I wanted to cover it from a place

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<v Speaker 1>of also joy, and so I would ask you to

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<v Speaker 1>not tell me spoilers and not tell me things. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is very it's very interesting. Maybe do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to explain for everybody because this is kind of, on

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<v Speaker 1>the one hand, huge news for the Bachelor world, but

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, like I watched a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>shows and I don't know who the creator of those

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<v Speaker 1>shows might be, So do you want to explain for

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<v Speaker 1>everybody who make places. Yeah, because it's kind of interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this is huge news, It is massive. Mike

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<v Speaker 1>Flice created The Bachelor, it was his idea, it was

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<v Speaker 1>his baby. He's the person who hired me, as Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>said back in two thousand and one, that's who I

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<v Speaker 1>met first. That's who I had several meetings with. That's

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<v Speaker 1>who was on hand every day of the show, especially

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<v Speaker 1>early on. His involvement ebbed and flowed throughout the years,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's who's made every major decision casting who the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor bacherette is, the direction of the show, the pulse

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<v Speaker 1>of the show. That is what the creator and slash

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<v Speaker 1>executive producer does. So that's who Mike Fleiss is or

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<v Speaker 1>was to the show before he quote unquote stepped away

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<v Speaker 1>as of Tuesday morning. And I say that because this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I found confusing about this surprising announcement is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure what that means stepped away, Because as

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<v Speaker 1>the creator of a show, you can be a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things. You can be active, you can be an

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<v Speaker 1>executive producer and be there day to day, or you

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<v Speaker 1>can just sit at home and collect mailbox money. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to step into or step away from? Right. Yeah again,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'll put on my journalist hat here. And

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<v Speaker 1>when I first read this article, the first sentences Mike

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<v Speaker 1>Fleiss is stepping down in the I'm in the article

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<v Speaker 1>Deadline Hollywood, which is where I think it first came out.

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<v Speaker 1>Mike Fleiss is stepping down from the creative team of

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor franchise after more than twenty years. Look, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest. My first reaction was l ol, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't buy it. I don't think that Mike is stepping down.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why he would. It's the this franchise

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<v Speaker 1>is from what I always understood his whole world. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the show he's known for, and these are the

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<v Speaker 1>only shows he does. And there's no reason. There's not

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<v Speaker 1>a reason ever given in the article. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why it's something you would need to announce like

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<v Speaker 1>stepping down. Why would you need to Why would what

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<v Speaker 1>would be the points like there's no he's stepping down

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<v Speaker 1>to do this or away from or there's no reason given,

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<v Speaker 1>which is very strange to me. Maybe let me give

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<v Speaker 1>some some backdrop on what Lauren saying that has nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with this show and nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 1>this person. Mark Burnett incredibly creative, brilliant man, creator of Survivor,

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<v Speaker 1>if you didn't know, among many other things, The Apprentice

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<v Speaker 1>and other great shows. He quote unquote stepped away from

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<v Speaker 1>Survivor many moons ago. Jeff Probst and his crew took

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<v Speaker 1>that show over a long time ago. There's no major

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<v Speaker 1>announcements because Burnett's still it's still his baby, it's still

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<v Speaker 1>his show. He's still the creator of the show. But

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<v Speaker 1>he quote unquote stepped away. Would you compare if you're

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<v Speaker 1>a parent and you announce I'm stepping away from parenting

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<v Speaker 1>my Child's like, get it? It doesn't make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's one sentence in particular that I actually take

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<v Speaker 1>issue with it this article having covered the show for

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<v Speaker 1>many years quote. While he's remained associated with the franchise,

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<v Speaker 1>Fleiss hasn't been involved in the day to day operations

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<v Speaker 1>of each series in about a decade. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just go look at his Twitter, Mike, that's

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<v Speaker 1>either not true or Mike doesn't want you to think

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. Because he would tweet photos from the set.

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<v Speaker 1>He would say at night one, here we go. He

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<v Speaker 1>would tweet that he was making major announcements about the show.

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<v Speaker 1>He would say, this news is coming up. He would say,

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<v Speaker 1>are you watching? And I mean, it was always my

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<v Speaker 1>understanding that he was like I'd heard from other journalists

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<v Speaker 1>that he was in the control room on night one.

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<v Speaker 1>There were some journalists who were sometimes brought into the

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<v Speaker 1>control room. I never was I and that and that

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<v Speaker 1>was very recent. That was in my time on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I think somebody did. Somebody did like a piece like

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<v Speaker 1>reporting from the control room a few years ago. Who

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<v Speaker 1>was it. Was it Christin Baldwin, Yes, and she was

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<v Speaker 1>like live in the control room, and I think she

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it. So if you're in the control room

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<v Speaker 1>on night one, I don't that's you being pretty involved

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<v Speaker 1>in the operations of the show. And I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>have met Mike a few times, but it's been at

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor things. He was when they started to do the

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<v Speaker 1>those Bachelor live when they tried to do that live

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<v Speaker 1>tour with Ben and Becca a few years ago, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like there on the opening night. It was my

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<v Speaker 1>understanding that Mike was still involved in a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and to say he wasn't for a decade

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<v Speaker 1>is wild to me. There are obviously a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things I know and I just can't say, but there

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<v Speaker 1>are a lot of things that make you go. I

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<v Speaker 1>can definitely say more will come out only that I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what these people are working on, but

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<v Speaker 1>I heard that there are multiple journalists working very hard

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<v Speaker 1>on this story, and that I found very interesting. And again,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything about what those journalists are working on,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did hear that that is happening, So there

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot more to come. We will follow this

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<v Speaker 1>story because obviously it is a big story that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think we'll just be swept under the rug because

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<v Speaker 1>it came out Tuesday morning, the night after The Bats

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<v Speaker 1>are finale. Hey, guys, sorry to interrupt, but I'm just curious,

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<v Speaker 1>who are these producers that are taking over? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel about this, Kendall Producer Kendall. I love when

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<v Speaker 1>Kendall jumpson because Kendall is such a long time fan

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<v Speaker 1>of the show. Kendell, I'm glad that you brought that

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<v Speaker 1>up because that stuck out to me too, actually, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd forgotten to mention it. So it says longtime executive

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<v Speaker 1>producer Bennett Grabner, along with Claire Freeland and Jason Erlick.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be taking over as executive producers and showrunners for

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<v Speaker 1>the franchise. Now. I know Bennett. I'd met Bennett several

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<v Speaker 1>times covering the show over the years, and he's just

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<v Speaker 1>been there a long time. That was not surprising to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But having covered it and met meeting several of the

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<v Speaker 1>producers year after year, I was really surprised by these

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<v Speaker 1>other two names because I don't know them, and many

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<v Speaker 1>other producers had come to mind for me. Who I

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<v Speaker 1>would have thought the show would have promoted along with Bennett,

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<v Speaker 1>people who've been putting their time in there, who are

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly talented people. So, Babe, do you know Claire and Jason?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it says Claire was from Bachelor Canada. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Claire, I do not know she came from Bachelor Canada.

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<v Speaker 1>Jason Erlich worked with me. He's an old friend. I've

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<v Speaker 1>known Jason for many, many years. Famous uncle Kenn Erlick

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<v Speaker 1>who did the Grammys and a lot of award shows

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<v Speaker 1>for many years. Yeah they're related. Nepo baby, no different story,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, Jay worked on the show for many years

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<v Speaker 1>and then went off and then kind of came back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth and jumped in a bunch of reality shows.

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<v Speaker 1>And then obviously Bennett, as you said, you know Bennett.

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<v Speaker 1>He's an old friend as well. Bennett's been with me

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<v Speaker 1>on the show for decades. He came rose through the

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<v Speaker 1>ranks and talented producer. And so yeah, those three are

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<v Speaker 1>now according to this article in Charge, you know the

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<v Speaker 1>Bennet of it all. Even Jason Erlick not there's most shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was a little surprised. There were a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people I worked with for decades who are unbelievably

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<v Speaker 1>talented that I thought that their names would be on

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<v Speaker 1>this list. Were even either executive producers or co executive

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<v Speaker 1>producers that aren't there anymore. And that's that again surprises me. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just speaking from my experience of covering the show. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I would sit on set for hours to explain you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like I would go on what's called a set visit,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that means you sit on the set and

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<v Speaker 1>you wait for hours waiting for the contestants or the

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<v Speaker 1>bachelor bachelorette to be available to do an interview. And

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<v Speaker 1>during those hours of waiting for when they'd have a

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<v Speaker 1>break in production, I would talk with the producers and

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<v Speaker 1>make small talk with them and get to know them

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And again, many of them are just

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<v Speaker 1>lovely and talented. Some incredible female producers there by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would hear a lot from producers frustrations that

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<v Speaker 1>they were not getting the chance to move up, that

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<v Speaker 1>they were not getting their talent fostered, that they were

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<v Speaker 1>not getting opportunity on the show. So that popped into

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<v Speaker 1>my mind a little bit when I saw that these

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<v Speaker 1>other two names, again, I just knew. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>covered the show for like six seven years, and there

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<v Speaker 1>are so many other producers who I thought would have

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<v Speaker 1>been in that trio with Bennett, and so I was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little bit surprised by this. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really understand why, what it means, or where it comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>It's another strange point of note in this article to me,

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<v Speaker 1>so very mysterious. I think what it leads you to

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<v Speaker 1>believe is that there is more to this story, more

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<v Speaker 1>to this than what was kind of quietly put out

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday morning, the day after the finale. So there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more to talk about when it comes to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's journalists and other people looking into this

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<v Speaker 1>that think there is more smoke where this fire's burning.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll see, We're gonna wait and see. We'll continue

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<v Speaker 1>to follow it up with you, Chris. We actually had

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<v Speaker 1>a direct message. That's a great question, and I'm actually

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<v Speaker 1>curious what the answer is. Did Mike Fleiss hire you?

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<v Speaker 1>And how did he find you? Yeah, it was he

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<v Speaker 1>actually did. Being the creator of the show, he was

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there were others involved, obviously from the network

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<v Speaker 1>in the studio, but yes, he was the first meeting

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<v Speaker 1>I had, and he was essentially the person that had

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<v Speaker 1>to give the final say, just like he does on

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<v Speaker 1>who the Bachelor Bacherette's going to be, etc. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he hired me. And it was really a funny story

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<v Speaker 1>because I did less to get this job as the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor host than pretty much any job I had ever

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<v Speaker 1>had in my life. There were you know, usually you'll

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<v Speaker 1>have to go in and read or you'll audition, but

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<v Speaker 1>there was just this show that was rumored about for

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<v Speaker 1>quite some time, like six to eight months, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had an agent. My agent said, there is this reality

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<v Speaker 1>show and again this is early days, so that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even mean much. And it's this kind of relationship show

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<v Speaker 1>about dating and it seemed very odd, very weird, and

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<v Speaker 1>all I knew it was from the guy who did

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<v Speaker 1>it Who wants to Marry a Millionaire or whatever that

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<v Speaker 1>old Rick Rockwell Darvia Congress show that was on Fox.

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<v Speaker 1>And when the list there was, you know, there's always

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<v Speaker 1>a list in Hollywood. This list got narrowed down, narrowed down, narrowdown.

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up on the final four, and they said

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<v Speaker 1>they would like to meet with you. I went in

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<v Speaker 1>and met with Mike and some other executives and the

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<v Speaker 1>meeting was horrible. I mean it was a disaster. Mike

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<v Speaker 1>and I hated each other. It was like oil and water.

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<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, it was, I mean the worst meeting hate

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<v Speaker 1>someone in a meeting. What happened? We just we just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get along, honestly. So, my son Josh had just

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<v Speaker 1>been born. He was like six weeks old. I was

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<v Speaker 1>so tired. I think I probably had spit up on

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<v Speaker 1>my jacket. I was just a mess, and so on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not put my best face forward. They were

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. What I heard was the guy next door

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<v Speaker 1>kind of that just married, you know, a dad, someone

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't threatening. Yeah, you know it was interesting. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember you told me they really wanted someone who was married. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and another thing that was in my favor, they wanted

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<v Speaker 1>a no name. A lot of times, what they'll do

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<v Speaker 1>with shows is, oh, we really want a name that'll

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<v Speaker 1>help sell and help promote the show, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, bring in Jimmy Kimmel, will bring in

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry Seinfeld or whatever, so that'll help. And they wanted

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<v Speaker 1>an unknown. They didn't want anybody to steal the limelight

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<v Speaker 1>from who the Bachelor bacherette was. Thankfully that played right

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<v Speaker 1>into my hands because I was an absolute nobody. When

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense they wanted someone married because you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be around possiful of women. Yeah, they didn't want it.

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<v Speaker 1>I want questions raised or but I did hear later

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<v Speaker 1>it's funny that first season because nobody knew the concept.

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<v Speaker 1>No one knew what the heck was going on, and

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't even really understand how to set up Night one.

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<v Speaker 1>When everyone got out of the limo, there was Alex Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>the first bachelor, and I stood like twenty feet behind him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I heard later, you know, to us, he was obvious,

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<v Speaker 1>but the women, they had no clue. So they got

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<v Speaker 1>out of the limo and the women said, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who the bachelor, which one is the guy?

0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Which dude is it? Yeah? Which one am I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be excited about. So that's how it kind of started.

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<v Speaker 1>And then later obviously I was nowhere to be seen

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<v Speaker 1>on the arrivals and all that stuff. We clearly got

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<v Speaker 1>the hint. But that's how it all started. When. But

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<v Speaker 1>so in that meeting, what went wrong? It was just

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<v Speaker 1>we were like oil and water. Realized we were you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was, you know, buttoned up and my suit and tie,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hair combed, combed over and you know, typical

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<v Speaker 1>ready for a job interview. And Mike Flice is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of this large man that wears sunglasses indoors and wears

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<v Speaker 1>flip flops and yeah, very la. And so I see

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<v Speaker 1>you were like Texas, We're a college shirt and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, lam in my flip flop. Yeah. At that

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<v Speaker 1>point in my life, I was fresh off the boat

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<v Speaker 1>from Oklahoma City. So I'm coming out of Oklahoma, Oklahoma City,

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm a newscaster, sportscaster, and I meet this very

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<v Speaker 1>La guy, and I don't get this city. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get to Hollywood. That's not me it's not my family,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not my life. So we just didn't click at all.

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<v Speaker 1>But bizarrely, I got a call several weeks later that says,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to meet you again, And I said, why

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<v Speaker 1>to continue this joke? Like are they punking me? They

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<v Speaker 1>just want to see how much worse I can be.

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<v Speaker 1>But I went in and flies came out and he

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<v Speaker 1>yelled across the room. He's like, Harrison, you were horrible

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<v Speaker 1>at our first meeting, but I hear you're a good guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do this again. And despite our differences, we hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off and I got the job and the show

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<v Speaker 1>began that spring. That was like in October whatever, November

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and one, heading into the holidays. And then

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<v Speaker 1>that spring of two thousand and two is when we

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<v Speaker 1>started shooting the show and we started the Bachelor franchise.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's how it all began. And so yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>was he was there from day one. Let's go back

0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:12.440
<v Speaker 1>to the phone lines. Julie's calling in from Sacramento, California. Julie,

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<v Speaker 1>what's on your mind today? Well, I'm wondering your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched this show from the very very beginning, and

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<v Speaker 1>this was the one season that I chose not to

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<v Speaker 1>watch it. I couldn't even record it. Oh wow, why what? What?

0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:32.040
<v Speaker 1>What made you change like that? What made you turn away?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I'm just bored. I'm bored with that

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<v Speaker 1>super predictable, you know. I mean, I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I could write the script. Well that's I guess if

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like if if you feel like there is

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<v Speaker 1>a script and there's a format that's repeating itself over

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<v Speaker 1>and over and over, then yeah, that that you know

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<v Speaker 1>is something and you know, look there there is something

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<v Speaker 1>to that of the ratings, you know, being down there.

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<v Speaker 1>This season was again the lowest rated season. Monday Night's

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<v Speaker 1>finale was by far the lowest rated finale in the

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<v Speaker 1>history of the show. And there was something to know

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<v Speaker 1>going in and talking to the bachelors or bachelrettes and

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, Okay, we're getting ready to travel or

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing this, and there was nothing that they didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, these people, as you just said, Julie, you

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<v Speaker 1>grew up. You're going to date yourself because you've been

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<v Speaker 1>watching you said from the beginning. That's twenty one years,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've been around as long as I have. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>it's formulaic and things haven't changed that much in those

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<v Speaker 1>two decades, and so the audience, you're not dumb. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on with reality TV, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when you know what's coming next week and you've seen

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<v Speaker 1>it and done it before, it's hard to watch over

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<v Speaker 1>and over. Well, I think what you were alluding to,

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<v Speaker 1>Babe by Julie, how are you? I think what maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you were alluding to, though, is the idea, like you

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<v Speaker 1>just mentioned, when you would go in and people would

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<v Speaker 1>know what was coming. I do. It's interesting. A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of years ago we started talking as I was covering

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<v Speaker 1>the show about how you know, and I think everybody

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<v Speaker 1>felt there's this problem with people wanting to come on

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<v Speaker 1>the show just to be influencers, Like they know they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to come on the show and they're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a certain following out of it, and so that

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<v Speaker 1>takes away that genuine desire for love and makes it

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<v Speaker 1>all seem fakeer and kind of gets them in their

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<v Speaker 1>heads on the way they're being on the show. I

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<v Speaker 1>think now what you have. An addition to that issue

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<v Speaker 1>is that people auditioning for the show have grown up

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<v Speaker 1>watching the show, so they know the formula inside and out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like when you you know, when you've like prepared

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<v Speaker 1>and studied for a test, you know, they just know

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<v Speaker 1>what's coming. They're like, oh, here's where hometowns are going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen, or here's where the travel is going to

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<v Speaker 1>get announced now, And I wonder if that's contributing to

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<v Speaker 1>the boringness of it. But Julie, what do you think

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<v Speaker 1>what's turning you off about it at this point? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's I mean, let's again dating myself, so twenty one years,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm almost fifty four, so I mean I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>an old lady. I'm watching girls that would be my

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<v Speaker 1>daughter's age, So that could be part of it too,

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<v Speaker 1>that it's just not interesting anymore at my age. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a demographic change, right, Well, Julie, whatever. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I think fifty four is you're a young as young

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<v Speaker 1>spring chicken to me. But I mean because I'm look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the same boat as you, not from the

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<v Speaker 1>aspect of watching somebody who's twenty five. But I from

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<v Speaker 1>the very beginning of covering the show, I always struggled with, like, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go back, babe, the very first Bachelor was

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<v Speaker 1>in his early thirties, right, he was like thirty one,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty two. Yeah, I believe Alex was. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>he was thirty thirty one. I think this bachelor's twenty six. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>I've struggled for years with covering. I know it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that many years of a difference, but there is something

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<v Speaker 1>very different about where you're at and how ready you

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<v Speaker 1>really are to get engaged at like twenty people. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying person a person, it could be different, but overall,

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<v Speaker 1>I've struggled for years with twenty four, twenty five year

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<v Speaker 1>olds versus thirty two thirty three year olds. I think

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<v Speaker 1>are in a very different place, and I do think

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<v Speaker 1>that genuineness has been missing from how young the contestants

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<v Speaker 1>on the show have continued to get over the years. Julie,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for your call, and I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>you lost one of the great loves of your life

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<v Speaker 1>in this show. I'm glad we were there for you

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<v Speaker 1>for so many years, but it is it's tough when

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<v Speaker 1>you when you kind of wake up and realize this

0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:28.600
<v Speaker 1>doesn't do it for me anymore, and then you got

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<v Speaker 1>to go find that new thing. And so I hope

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<v Speaker 1>you I hope you find the new loves. Thanks Julie. Elsie,

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<v Speaker 1>you had a good point you brought up to me

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<v Speaker 1>the other day because you mentioned something that just struck

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<v Speaker 1>with me about the influencers and people that came on

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<v Speaker 1>the show, and you noticed how that's changed dramatically as

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<v Speaker 1>far as their impressions and their involvedment. Oh yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>was well, we were just talking about. I look, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I haven't watched the show since you left.

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<v Speaker 1>I had not looked up anybody on social media from

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<v Speaker 1>the show in a why And I was just curious

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<v Speaker 1>because I did see the headline this week that it

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<v Speaker 1>was once again, I mean honestly, every season since you've left,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been the lowest rated show, the new lowest ratings

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<v Speaker 1>that there's been. And then I saw a headline when

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<v Speaker 1>they announced Mike Flice's leaving. There was some headline like

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<v Speaker 1>is this the beginning of the end for the Bachelor?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was just curious, and I went and looked

0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:28.439
<v Speaker 1>at the instagrams of the leaving bachelor and the leaving

0:21:28.840 --> 0:21:34.200
<v Speaker 1>the exiting woman then he picked and the new Bachelorette. Yeah,

0:21:34.200 --> 0:21:37.399
<v Speaker 1>I looked at the new Bachelorette and the guy the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor leaving the show, I think when I looked, had

0:21:40.960 --> 0:21:45.479
<v Speaker 1>one hundred and forty thousand Instagram followers, And that spoke

0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:49.000
<v Speaker 1>volumes to me because it used to be a million.

0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:51.399
<v Speaker 1>It used to be one. You would leave the show

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<v Speaker 1>as the lead with about a million followers, typically pretty

0:21:54.440 --> 0:21:56.399
<v Speaker 1>much a week after we announced you were the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>of the Bachelorette, you'd be at almost a million already

0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:02.320
<v Speaker 1>before your season for guys who guys get much less

0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:06.040
<v Speaker 1>following than women do, the vecherettes blow up even more.

0:22:06.600 --> 0:22:10.560
<v Speaker 1>But I mean one hundred and forty thousand followers that

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<v Speaker 1>and then I thought, you know, maybe I'm maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>following is happening on TikTok now. And then I went

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<v Speaker 1>on looked on TikTok, and I could be wrong if

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at the wrong account, but I think

0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:24.240
<v Speaker 1>he had five thousand followers on TikTok. Five thousand. Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's wild to me, because I do think that probably

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<v Speaker 1>what the show has been saying over the years the

0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:33.200
<v Speaker 1>past year or so is like, well, the ratings are down,

0:22:33.240 --> 0:22:35.359
<v Speaker 1>but like the streaming numbers are up, but if people

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<v Speaker 1>are watching it on streaming and still loving it, then

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<v Speaker 1>they would still be going and following these people on

0:22:39.440 --> 0:22:42.480
<v Speaker 1>social media and that is not happening. Yeah, it makes

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:44.640
<v Speaker 1>you kind of go back to a point we made

0:22:44.760 --> 0:22:48.359
<v Speaker 1>weeks ago, which is the social relevance is just not there.

0:22:48.440 --> 0:22:51.480
<v Speaker 1>But you know who is there? Abby from Cleveland, Ohio

0:22:52.160 --> 0:22:55.800
<v Speaker 1>is here with us on the line, Abbe, what's going on? Hi, guys?

0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:59.520
<v Speaker 1>I love you guys both so much. I literally have

0:22:59.800 --> 0:23:01.919
<v Speaker 1>The Bachelor and in the background, but I have it

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:05.399
<v Speaker 1>on mute because honestly, I kind of want to echo

0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 1>what you guys were saying about, like how this season

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:11.879
<v Speaker 1>just hasn't been as great. I definitely like feel the

0:23:11.920 --> 0:23:14.600
<v Speaker 1>same way like I feel like it hasn't been I

0:23:14.640 --> 0:23:16.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know, it's not the same since Chris left. I

0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:19.600
<v Speaker 1>think that's pretty obvious. But yeah, it's just not been

0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:22.679
<v Speaker 1>like as good in my opinion. Well, it's interesting, is

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:26.840
<v Speaker 1>there something in particular? Abby? Well, so I love that

0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:29.160
<v Speaker 1>it's now your background. It's like CNN at the airport.

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:32.399
<v Speaker 1>It's just on a TV, just playing. But you know,

0:23:32.520 --> 0:23:36.879
<v Speaker 1>I saw you know, stories written and social media, you know,

0:23:36.960 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 1>saying that this was a snooze fest and people were

0:23:39.000 --> 0:23:41.560
<v Speaker 1>bored by it. But I'm curious because I don't watch.

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I haven't watched since I left. Is there something in

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<v Speaker 1>particular you feel has changed? Is there a tangible just

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:54.480
<v Speaker 1>reason why it has now means less to you? I

0:23:54.520 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 1>think I honestly have a hard time like pinpointing. But

0:23:58.280 --> 0:24:01.760
<v Speaker 1>I think the last season I really enjoyed was probably

0:24:02.680 --> 0:24:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Um Pilot Pizza. That was great television. Yes, I don't

0:24:08.600 --> 0:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know like what it is in particular, but

0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:13.440
<v Speaker 1>it just it's dropped off for me a little bit,

0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:16.000
<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, And I really think it has

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot to do with you, Chris, like leaving, but

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:23.240
<v Speaker 1>maybe just maybe it's bar Yeah, we all miss Bart,

0:24:24.800 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe she was the key to this whole show.

0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 1>I think you I think I would agree with you, Abby,

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:35.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, those couple of seasons there was a run

0:24:35.280 --> 0:24:38.720
<v Speaker 1>there with like Hannah, Colton and Peter where there were

0:24:38.760 --> 0:24:42.240
<v Speaker 1>some major moments. You just had TV moments, Colton jumping

0:24:42.280 --> 0:24:45.399
<v Speaker 1>the fence, Barb, Hannah and Luke and her moving that

0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:49.119
<v Speaker 1>pedestal away from him at the Rose ceremony, Like those

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:52.320
<v Speaker 1>moments so stick in my mind, and that was really

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:56.040
<v Speaker 1>good television. I just love that. I'll never forget stating

0:24:56.080 --> 0:24:59.040
<v Speaker 1>there and Hannah just picking up the entire rose pedestal, which,

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:01.439
<v Speaker 1>by the way, was it very light and while like

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm taking my ball and going home. Yes, that was brilliant.

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:08.040
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, those were epic seasons. Do you have a question?

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:12.040
<v Speaker 1>My question for you, Chris was what season of The

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>Bachelor was your favorite to work on? Well, the way

0:25:16.560 --> 0:25:20.199
<v Speaker 1>you kind of articulated that question is very interesting. My

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 1>favorite to work on is a great question, because it's

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:26.280
<v Speaker 1>not my favorite season per se. The one I enjoyed

0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:28.639
<v Speaker 1>working on the most, honestly, would have to do with

0:25:28.680 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 1>my kids. Most of the major events on The Bachelor

0:25:32.280 --> 0:25:34.359
<v Speaker 1>I can relate to my children. My son was born

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 1>when I got the job, and my daughter was born.

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget it was right around Tristan and Ryan's

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:45.360
<v Speaker 1>wedding and Meredith season of The Bachelorette was wrapping up,

0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and so I remember my kids being born on this show,

0:25:49.440 --> 0:25:52.440
<v Speaker 1>growing up on this show, traveling with me. They lived

0:25:52.440 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 1>with me in Paris, they lived with me in Italy,

0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:58.280
<v Speaker 1>and so those of the season's early days, when you know,

0:25:58.359 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 1>it was more about walking down to the Trucadero and

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:04.040
<v Speaker 1>getting as my kids called a crape, a chocolate taco

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:06.199
<v Speaker 1>and sitting there and watching the Eiffel Tower light up

0:26:06.200 --> 0:26:08.879
<v Speaker 1>at night. And so those are the nights and the

0:26:09.040 --> 0:26:11.760
<v Speaker 1>seasons that meant the most to me, and I guess

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:13.439
<v Speaker 1>I would go further. There are seasons where I just

0:26:13.480 --> 0:26:16.200
<v Speaker 1>met dear, dear friends, people that are now a part

0:26:16.200 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 1>of my life, our life as Elzie sitting here, like

0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Andrew Firestone, Bob Guiney, Trista, Joejoe like. There's people that

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:27.360
<v Speaker 1>came into my life, Ben Higgins, you know, and I'm

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:30.399
<v Speaker 1>forgetting many. But those are all special seasons to me

0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:33.639
<v Speaker 1>that I really enjoyed working on. Some you know, weren't

0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:36.000
<v Speaker 1>as fun as others, but it's work, just like everybody

0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 1>else's job. There were some seasons that were tougher than

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:42.360
<v Speaker 1>others to get through. Yeah, absolutely, I love hearing that.

0:26:42.359 --> 0:26:44.240
<v Speaker 1>That's so cool that your kids got to travel and

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:46.680
<v Speaker 1>everything too. That's awesome it was, and to watch them

0:26:46.680 --> 0:26:48.960
<v Speaker 1>grow up under that was pretty good. And by the way,

0:26:49.000 --> 0:26:51.200
<v Speaker 1>thanks to all the teachers out there, because I, you know,

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:53.200
<v Speaker 1>would allow us to say, hey, by the way, we're

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 1>leaving this week again, can you just send the homework

0:26:55.960 --> 0:26:58.200
<v Speaker 1>with us? And so we got a lot of support

0:26:58.240 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 1>back home. But Abby, I appreciate Collin and thank you

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:04.600
<v Speaker 1>for listening. And I hope you find love either in

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>this show or a new show soon. Yeah, I hope.

0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:22.479
<v Speaker 1>So thanks Abby. We're gonna go to Katie in Ben Higgins'

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:25.880
<v Speaker 1>home state of Indiana. She's up next. Hey Katie, Hi,

0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh thanks, I'll just take you quick. Um, it's nice

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:31.640
<v Speaker 1>to be on the found you guys. Cool. I love

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 1>looking to your podcast. Um. I just had a question,

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.400
<v Speaker 1>would you ever consider going back to the Bachelor now

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 1>that there are new producers involved? Great question, Katie, great question.

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:46.679
<v Speaker 1>I said this before when the rumors came out that

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 1>were swirling several weeks ago about ABC or whoever the

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.919
<v Speaker 1>network talking about bringing me back or asking me to

0:27:55.920 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 1>come back, and I said at that time, never say never.

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:02.679
<v Speaker 1>But I also said at that time there were some

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:06.880
<v Speaker 1>things that would have to happen. And it's not just financially.

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 1>There are things that would have to change and things

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:12.720
<v Speaker 1>that would have to happen. I can say one of

0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 1>those things has happened. One of those things, one of

0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>the biggest hurdles, has now happened. Now does that mean

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:24.399
<v Speaker 1>I want to go back or would not necessarily? I

0:28:24.520 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 1>love my time on the show, and I liken it

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:29.520
<v Speaker 1>to a relationship. It's not necessarily a great idea to

0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:32.000
<v Speaker 1>go back into a relationship because you just remember the

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:35.200
<v Speaker 1>fun great things about it. There were some bad things

0:28:35.240 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>that you obviously got away from that were toxic and bad,

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:40.400
<v Speaker 1>or there wouldn't have been a breakup in the first place.

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>So again, I never you know, as my mom taught me,

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll never say never. But that has you know. Things

0:28:49.760 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 1>things change in life, things can change. Well, you have

0:28:54.720 --> 0:28:57.360
<v Speaker 1>been my favorite host, and when you asked, I was

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 1>definitely sad, and I've watched a few season then, but

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I agree with everyone else. I think you've been the

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 1>best post. Thank you, Katie. I appreciate it. And there

0:29:07.320 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>there was one other part of your question that I

0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 1>will finish, um, because you mentioned about working for different

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>producers because there are new producers. Well, two of them

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I actually know very well, and they're both I would

0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:21.600
<v Speaker 1>consider friends of mine, and that is Jason and Bennett.

0:29:21.600 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 1>Bennet and I have worked together for many years. We

0:29:23.360 --> 0:29:25.840
<v Speaker 1>still talk and text and Um he's a good man

0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>and a good producer, and so is Jason and Um

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>Jason actually met his wife on the show. His wife

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>was a bachelorette on Doctor Travis Storks season and it

0:29:37.120 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>was a contestant on the show, and they it was

0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>it didn't and by the way, nothing there was nothing nefarious.

0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Let me just clean this up. Nothing nefarious. Nothing happened

0:29:45.720 --> 0:29:47.720
<v Speaker 1>while they were on the show. It was much later

0:29:47.760 --> 0:29:50.320
<v Speaker 1>that they reconnected and fell in love and got married,

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 1>and they'd been married for quite some time. But you know,

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Jason and Bennett and I know, um the woman they

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:57.920
<v Speaker 1>brought down from Bachelor Canada, I don't know, but obviously

0:29:57.960 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>they feel like she can do the job. So it

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:02.560
<v Speaker 1>really wouldn't be that strange. As far as going back

0:30:02.600 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 1>to people, I don't know, but Katie, thank you. I

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. All right, Thank you guys so much. I

0:30:07.760 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>hope you guys have a wonderful day. Thank you you too.

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:13.959
<v Speaker 1>God bless And let's go to Lisa, coming in from Tennessee.

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>We've been all over the map today. Hi Lisa, what's

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 1>your question? Hi guys, go first? Oh okay, so huge,

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:24.480
<v Speaker 1>huge fan of both y'all. Thank Jim oh. I love

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>your accent. Lisa. We have what for the beginning from

0:30:27.640 --> 0:30:31.800
<v Speaker 1>the first season and actually Chris since I'm always going

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:34.160
<v Speaker 1>to be fans. He called me one day and said,

0:30:34.280 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, you should meet him. I'm married, so she

0:30:37.680 --> 0:30:39.320
<v Speaker 1>sometimes said a good fans. She's like, you should be

0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:41.360
<v Speaker 1>on he loves to be a millionaire. You can't be

0:30:41.440 --> 0:30:44.040
<v Speaker 1>on the bat Flare. So I was on with you.

0:30:44.080 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I was a contestant on your show, No Way, and yeah,

0:30:47.480 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>I met you in the Beginner's Luck week. Do you

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 1>remember that one that the contestants who had never been

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 1>to Vega? I was. I say, so, we're talking Vegas

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>because I shot. I shot in Connecticut one year, so

0:30:58.640 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you you were during the Vegas year and we had

0:31:00.560 --> 0:31:02.880
<v Speaker 1>beginners Luckily. Yeah, where we did a I think it

0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 1>was a tie in with Caesar's or whoever it was,

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, we brought people in put you up.

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I do remember that. That's that's amazing. How do

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 1>you do, by the way, did? I did pretty well?

0:31:14.480 --> 0:31:16.800
<v Speaker 1>But I see what I remember about you. You were

0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>just as nice and sweet in person as I thought

0:31:20.600 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you'd be. And I know how it sounds that I

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:24.840
<v Speaker 1>met other celebrities and that's not always the case. Well,

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:27.160
<v Speaker 1>thank you, that's why you know you were exactly you

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 1>were the Chris Harrison that I saw The Bachelor, and

0:31:30.360 --> 0:31:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I think, actually, I've been listening and you were talking

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:37.080
<v Speaker 1>about what the show's lacking. I remember our conversation. I

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 1>remember you asking me questions in between us, you know,

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:43.000
<v Speaker 1>tasting the show, where I was from, what was my job,

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, the colleagues that I taught out at the time,

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>and you were very focused and I think there's a

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:51.280
<v Speaker 1>lack of that. Nothing against Jessey, but I think when

0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:54.600
<v Speaker 1>you talked to contestant, you were focused on them and

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:57.200
<v Speaker 1>very authentic, and I think that's what it is lacking.

0:31:57.480 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I really do thank you. Lisa's part of what you

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>brought to But I do have a question for you.

0:32:01.840 --> 0:32:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, please um since you yeah, since you found

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 1>love after divorce, as have I, because you know, the

0:32:09.360 --> 0:32:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Bators different. Everybody out here looking for love is you know,

0:32:13.640 --> 0:32:15.560
<v Speaker 1>in their twenties or thirties, you go out of viewers.

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Fortunately I found love too, so I'm happily married, just

0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>like you guys are going to be. But haven't said that?

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 1>What advoss would you give for your viewers who are

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:29.680
<v Speaker 1>in their forties and haven't to navigate being single again?

0:32:29.680 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 1>Because there's a completely different dating world as you know, um,

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:35.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, when it's been you know, ten twenty years

0:32:35.720 --> 0:32:38.600
<v Speaker 1>since you've been out there. For me, I guess my

0:32:38.680 --> 0:32:41.640
<v Speaker 1>advice because this is what I did. Find your own

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 1>lane and find your own speed, and it's not a

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:47.040
<v Speaker 1>one size fits all, and it's up to you to

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:49.880
<v Speaker 1>make it your priority. And I do think you have

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 1>to treat it a bit a little bit like a job.

0:32:51.440 --> 0:32:53.720
<v Speaker 1>If you're going to date, it has to be something

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>that's important to you to go put yourself out there

0:32:57.120 --> 0:32:59.760
<v Speaker 1>in whatever arena that is. If you want to try

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:01.800
<v Speaker 1>the apps, if you want to try it, that's fine.

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 1>But maybe you're a different type of person and you

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:06.840
<v Speaker 1>want to just try and meet someone at church, or

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:08.960
<v Speaker 1>you want to meet someone in a church group or

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:12.920
<v Speaker 1>something different in that regard. So find your speed in

0:33:13.000 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>your lane and go with that. Because it's what works

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 1>for Lisa is not what's going to work for me.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 1>It's not what's going to work for Elz and Elza.

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:23.520
<v Speaker 1>You weren't married for twenty years, but you had to

0:33:23.520 --> 0:33:25.320
<v Speaker 1>do the same thing. You had to get back out

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:28.560
<v Speaker 1>there in this modern age and you had to decide. Well,

0:33:28.560 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>when you just said treat it like a job, I'm

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:32.920
<v Speaker 1>a theater kid, and I always made it made the

0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 1>analogy of you've got to like do rehearsals, you know,

0:33:35.520 --> 0:33:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I think that I think it can be a really

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:41.040
<v Speaker 1>intimidating thing to start dating again. But I would just

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 1>tell myself, look, what am I really going to lose

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 1>if I go out on this date and it amounts

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:48.560
<v Speaker 1>to nothing, you know, nothing really like, Okay, I had

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 1>a date, it didn't work out. It doesn't reflect on me.

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 1>It just means we weren't a good match. I think

0:33:52.760 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the time people take rejection personally it's

0:33:56.840 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 1>very hard not to. But I looked at it as

0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 1>you're just trying to find the right Finn, and we

0:34:01.600 --> 0:34:03.320
<v Speaker 1>weren't the right Finn, and that's okay, And you just

0:34:03.400 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of have to know you're going to have to

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:07.960
<v Speaker 1>get those reps in to find that right person. You

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>are going to have rejection. You are going to have

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>dates that go bad because you've got to get your

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:15.440
<v Speaker 1>rehearsals or your practices in before you find that new

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:18.799
<v Speaker 1>right person again. You think about how long you were married, Well,

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:20.319
<v Speaker 1>it's going to take a little while to get back

0:34:20.360 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 1>in the dating pool again. So don't be discouraged and

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 1>It's just as important to know what you don't like

0:34:25.280 --> 0:34:27.080
<v Speaker 1>and what you don't want out of love and life

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 1>as it is to know what you do want. And

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:30.920
<v Speaker 1>the only way you know what you don't like is

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:34.439
<v Speaker 1>to find out, and that's going on dates. And look,

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 1>those bad dates, they made for good stories that I

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:39.160
<v Speaker 1>still tell to this day. And I'm sure many of

0:34:39.160 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>those women tell stories about our first date and how

0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:46.560
<v Speaker 1>bad it was. Well, Lisa, I appreciate the time. And

0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I'm so glad you found love. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you, and congrats. I can't wait to

0:34:53.360 --> 0:34:55.960
<v Speaker 1>see this wedding. And I'm so happy for you guys. Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. What a sweetheart. Thank you. From Tennessee, let's

0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:02.799
<v Speaker 1>drop down to Florida. Sarah Sarah, Hi, you just might

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:08.080
<v Speaker 1>be the final call tonight, so the pressure is on. No, Sarah,

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:12.359
<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? I'm great? How are you phenomenal?

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 1>I just have a smile on my face, honestly because

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm just talking to listeners and I enjoy this, Elsie

0:35:20.160 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and I love this. Oh, that's so wonderful. And your relationship,

0:35:24.760 --> 0:35:27.920
<v Speaker 1>this seems so beautiful. You and Laurence seem so happy

0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and I'm happy that you seem happy. I've been watching

0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:37.120
<v Speaker 1>The Bachelor since the very beginning and you starting this

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:41.719
<v Speaker 1>podcast has been so therapeutic for me because I've been

0:35:41.760 --> 0:35:46.319
<v Speaker 1>going through just sadness and withdrawal not watching you on

0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:49.479
<v Speaker 1>the show, as I'm sure there are many fans who

0:35:49.560 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 1>have felt that way. And Katie brushed John what I

0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:55.279
<v Speaker 1>was going to ask you, you know, how do we

0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 1>get Chris to come back? And whether you even want

0:35:58.000 --> 0:36:01.160
<v Speaker 1>to or not. You know, I can tell that you've

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:05.719
<v Speaker 1>made a peace with a lot of what's happened. But

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:08.320
<v Speaker 1>my question was going to be, as a fan base,

0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:12.719
<v Speaker 1>is there anything that we could do to our love

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:16.359
<v Speaker 1>for Chris Harris? And first of all, Sarah, those are

0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:21.080
<v Speaker 1>unbelievably kind words, and thank you. I have found peace

0:36:21.239 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 1>and that is the best thing you can say about

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:26.959
<v Speaker 1>me and about this whole thing that's happened and going

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>through this process as I am one piece and this

0:36:32.560 --> 0:36:36.279
<v Speaker 1>podcast has been cathartic for me just as much as

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:38.719
<v Speaker 1>it has apparently for you, and being able to come

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.279
<v Speaker 1>out here and connect again and talk and it has

0:36:41.320 --> 0:36:45.359
<v Speaker 1>kind of reignited the fire, and so to go maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit further on a question I answered earlier

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:51.720
<v Speaker 1>from Katie about coming back. You know, coming back doesn't

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:56.920
<v Speaker 1>necessarily mean it has to be on the Bachelor or Bachelorette,

0:36:57.400 --> 0:37:00.640
<v Speaker 1>and maybe there's a better way, Maybe there's a new way,

0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and so I'll leave it at that for now. I

0:37:05.160 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 1>want to thank everybody who took the time to call

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>in today. Truly appreciate talking to you. That's what this

0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 1>whole show is all about. It's what the podcast is

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:16.400
<v Speaker 1>all about. As one of our callers said, just reconnecting,

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:18.680
<v Speaker 1>a chance for all of us to be together and

0:37:18.760 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>speaking of this show obviously is for you. So I'm

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 1>curious who would you like to hear and see on

0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:30.280
<v Speaker 1>the show. If you have a suggestion of a guest

0:37:30.440 --> 0:37:32.760
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0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:36.720
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0:37:44.239 --> 0:37:47.440
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0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:50.360
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. We will continue to follow the

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:52.719
<v Speaker 1>big story out of The Bachelor as well, because I

0:37:52.760 --> 0:37:54.359
<v Speaker 1>think there's a lot more to be said out of that.

0:37:54.719 --> 0:37:57.920
<v Speaker 1>But in the meantime, thank you for listening. And I'll

0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 1>talk to you next time because we have a lot

0:38:00.800 --> 0:38:03.600
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