WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Philippines or Bust

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you're here. You found the Second Day podcast and

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Want us to invade more of your life, we're on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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<v Speaker 1>to your house and give you hugs.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, you give me foods uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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<v Speaker 2>content that apparently you life, which.

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<v Speaker 1>We're really grateful for.

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<v Speaker 2>You can go over the main feed for the full

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<v Speaker 2>show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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<v Speaker 2>this relationship stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date up Date.

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<v Speaker 4>In this segment, there's a lot of logic that goes

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<v Speaker 4>into our thinking about whether a pair should be together

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<v Speaker 4>or not.

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<v Speaker 3>We're always asking like, is that fair? Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure?

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<v Speaker 4>But I think there's not enough heart in our decision

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<v Speaker 4>making because love isn't always rational.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to start thinking with that other body.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this romantically.

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<v Speaker 3>The heart? The heart? Let's think with that.

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<v Speaker 4>And we've got a guy on the phone who's got

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<v Speaker 4>a whole lot of heart going on.

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Randall.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do I feel like it's a euphemism every time

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<v Speaker 2>you say it, Jack is not it's if you.

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<v Speaker 4>Think with your heart books So, Randall, after after just

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<v Speaker 4>reading your email, I hope whatever the universe gives you

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<v Speaker 4>here today, you accept with open arms.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh brother, I couldn't have said it myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Some of us are more emotional and heart driven in

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<v Speaker 3>this room.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know when you're being serious or not.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a very analytical, pessimistic way to look at me

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<v Speaker 4>as a person.

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<v Speaker 3>He's doing it right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, just accept me for who I am deep inside,

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<v Speaker 4>and not for what I say. What Randall, you're with

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<v Speaker 4>me here, so tell us about your situation.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like it's a little bit complicated.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, it's gonna sound a little unusual. But for a

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<v Speaker 5>year I've been texting a woman in Vietnam and we've

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<v Speaker 5>had a very deep connection and we've gotten to know

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<v Speaker 5>one another so well that I fell deep in love

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<v Speaker 5>with this woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for you, I mean, you guys just found each

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<v Speaker 2>other on the internet somehow.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we found each other on the Internet and decided

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<v Speaker 5>to start texting, and it was like a world one

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<v Speaker 5>romance for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you say it was? Isn't it still?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I wanted to profess my love to her in person.

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<v Speaker 5>So we decided that I was going to fly out

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<v Speaker 5>and I was going to meet her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, were you so nervous?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I flew out. I was excited the whole trip.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Yeah, what was it like when you land and

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<v Speaker 2>you finally get to see each other in person?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I landed, I went to where we were supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to meet and she didn't show up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, I think that that is like the cruelest

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<v Speaker 2>thing that's going on right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's so many people actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude, that's terrible. So we we all hate Vietnamese fake girl.

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>So where are you in your in your love life?

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<v Speaker 5>Now? And you guys will be happy to learn that

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<v Speaker 5>I met another woman from the Philippine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>We met online again? But I know this woman's real.

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<v Speaker 1>How they could be real? But are they employed by

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<v Speaker 1>someone else? Are they?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>They're all real?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you face timed with her?

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't face time, but we've been texting a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>And let me tell you, I know you're gonna think

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<v Speaker 5>I'm crazy, but my heart tells me it's real.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we're throwing logic out the window, all rational, we're

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<v Speaker 4>only listening to our hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, now I understand, jefs intro.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'm real nervous. So is that are we calling

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<v Speaker 3>this girl in the Philippines right now?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, here's what I need you guys to help

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<v Speaker 5>me with my friend. You know everything that happened with

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<v Speaker 5>the last girl. He said to me, why not just

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<v Speaker 5>meet a woman locally, face to face and just see

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<v Speaker 5>how it goes. Yeah, so I did. I actually got

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<v Speaker 5>online and I matched with a young lady and we

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<v Speaker 5>met up at a bar. And her name is Georgina.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you we're on a day with Georgina, but

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<v Speaker 2>you're in love with a woman from the Philippines.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I'm just trying to see if maybe I am

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<v Speaker 5>supposed to meet someone locally, just to see where love

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<v Speaker 5>may take me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and you're a lover, you're a true romantic and

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<v Speaker 2>with everyone you see, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we know more about Georgina at the bar?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we just had a great conversation. She's been through

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<v Speaker 5>some hurt in her past too, so we bonded over

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<v Speaker 5>that and we just really had a deep conversation, nothing

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<v Speaker 5>too deep, just conversations about life and our goals and

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<v Speaker 5>what we would like to achieve, and it was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you suing people?

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<v Speaker 2>Follow up?

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing too deep with like favorite movie?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Anyway, what's your dog's name?

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, whoa whoa?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So now.

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<v Speaker 5>I gotta be honest though I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 5>cheating on my Philippine girl. So I'm a little torn,

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<v Speaker 5>and I had a good time. So I want to

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<v Speaker 5>put it in the universe's hands, in the universe being

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<v Speaker 5>you guys, and I want to see if this person

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<v Speaker 5>wants to pursue this. I'm not going to the Philippines,

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<v Speaker 5>but if they don't, then I'm on the first plane

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<v Speaker 5>out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, So if Georgina wants to pursue a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with you, then you're gonna just totally leave the Filipino girl.

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<v Speaker 1>But is she not texting you back? Or why do

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<v Speaker 1>you need us?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? So we just had the date last night, so

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<v Speaker 5>I don't even really know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we can jump in before things go wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, he's a guy that clearly operates through grand romantic gestures,

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<v Speaker 4>and what better way to do like a big gesture

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<v Speaker 4>to Georgina than to have a radio show call engage

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<v Speaker 4>how she feels.

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<v Speaker 3>About him in a cosmic sort of way.

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<v Speaker 2>But we shouldn't push if she says no, because that's

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<v Speaker 2>the universe.

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<v Speaker 3>That analytical, rational, logical talk that.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants to hear and try to act like the universe.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like the universe just comes with.

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<v Speaker 3>A flow jazz exactly, So stop overthinking it.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just lady and see where her heart is at

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<v Speaker 4>when we do the second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>Right after this second Date update, we're in the.

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<v Speaker 4>Middle of your second Date update, and if you missed

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<v Speaker 4>the first part, the universe was brought up a lot. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>because our listener Randall has put his fate into our hands,

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<v Speaker 4>saying we are the universe. And I guess that makes

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<v Speaker 4>brook Uranus.

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<v Speaker 1>A giant gas plan and.

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<v Speaker 3>The rest of us are stars. Because here's the situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Randall's been heartbroken before he flew to Vietnam to meet

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<v Speaker 4>a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Ended up getting.

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<v Speaker 4>Catfished there, then fell for another lady from the Philippines

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<v Speaker 4>who sure he has not met her yet, not even FaceTime,

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<v Speaker 4>but in his heart he feels that their connection is true,

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<v Speaker 4>he's in love.

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<v Speaker 3>He said he's in love with her.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely and randall on a scale one out of ten.

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<v Speaker 4>How serious are you about Philippines girl?

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<v Speaker 5>I am so serious that if this doesn't work out today,

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<v Speaker 5>I am on the first plane to the Philippines with

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<v Speaker 5>a ring in my hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I recommend not the.

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<v Speaker 1>First It's gonna be very expensive flight.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're gonna propose?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes? Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>You went on one date last night, Yeah, with Georgina.

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<v Speaker 1>Writer's the name Georgina.

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Georgiana.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, good memory.

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<v Speaker 2>Georgina is going to decide whether or not you propose

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<v Speaker 2>to a woman in the Philippines.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a lot of Wait, think about it. This could

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<v Speaker 5>be a sign from the universe. So let's just see

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<v Speaker 5>what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Could protecting you and also don't tell Georgina maybe about

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<v Speaker 2>the backup play.

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<v Speaker 1>He's really all or nothing type of guy and very honest.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we just let the universe take control of

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<v Speaker 4>the conversation. We're not going to plan anything out. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just going to start dialing the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but don't you think we should zip it?

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<v Speaker 3>Uranus. We've got the universal business to attend to.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not a star. You're like the moon of Uranus.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it.

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<v Speaker 5>You wish.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn, let's just make this black hole right now?

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<v Speaker 3>You want me to be anyway?

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Georgina.

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<v Speaker 5>This is this is a.

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<v Speaker 3>Morning radio show.

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<v Speaker 4>We're called Brooke and Jeffrey, and we are very eager

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<v Speaker 4>to speak with you today.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook take it away.

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<v Speaker 6>Why are you interested in speaking to me?

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<v Speaker 1>We heard last night you went a really great date.

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<v Speaker 3>I did go on a date last night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, would you say it was great?

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<v Speaker 4>She took.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, why do you even want to know?

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<v Speaker 5>What?

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<v Speaker 3>How did you even get my number?

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<v Speaker 4>We actually got it from that guy Randall. And in

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<v Speaker 4>this segment that we're doing, we're just trying to gauge

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<v Speaker 4>and see how things go. Yeah, okay, so we're just

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<v Speaker 4>trying to pry a little bit and ask you, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>how was your date?

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<v Speaker 3>How was the hangout?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a short review?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean it was a good date. We had a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of drinks. Randall was super thoughtful and nice.

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<v Speaker 3>This all fits his character.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you were feeling really good?

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<v Speaker 6>I was until the very end because it was a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit weird, to say the least.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know what happened at the end. He didn't

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<v Speaker 3>mention that was there like a kiss.

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<v Speaker 6>No, it was not a kiss. So basically he told me,

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<v Speaker 6>I just want you to know this date meant a

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<v Speaker 6>lot to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's good. That must make you feel great.

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<v Speaker 2>It did.

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<v Speaker 6>It did until the second part, in which he said,

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if I'm going to propose to someone

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<v Speaker 6>else yet, but it's been very nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh my god, I bet your heart just sunk, Like.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, yeah, I was more confused than anything.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't wish him luck.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think there's any chance maybe it was just

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<v Speaker 4>a line, like a little hard to get line to

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<v Speaker 4>play towards you, to make himself seem a little bit

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<v Speaker 4>more desirable.

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<v Speaker 1>To get married In second guesses, sounds like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Good joke, Like how wild would it be if he

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<v Speaker 4>really was engaged, Like obviously he's kidding.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, if it was a joke, it didn't work. It

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<v Speaker 6>did not land. He should workshop that with someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>Up until that very last sentence, you were planning on

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<v Speaker 2>seeing me again.

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<v Speaker 6>It definitely seemed like it was going in that direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay our answer, Okay, so that's our answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we ignore the last sentence? Can we just forget

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<v Speaker 1>that happened?

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<v Speaker 6>I think that would be textbook ignoring a red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, maybe we could.

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<v Speaker 4>We could replace it with some new sentences that he

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<v Speaker 4>wants to say to you right now, because he is

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<v Speaker 4>listening to this phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I need to talk to her. I need I

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<v Speaker 5>need to say something. Wada, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sorry, he's on the phone. That's how this segment works.

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<v Speaker 5>We have been waiting, Georgina. I'm sorry. You were wonderful.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a great time, but I got to tell

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<v Speaker 5>you the whole story. A year ago, I fell in

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<v Speaker 5>love with a person in Vietnam. They catfished me. I

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<v Speaker 5>was heartbroken. I didn't know what to do. Then I

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<v Speaker 5>found another person, and this woman's from the Philippines. I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like she might be the one. I haven't met

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<v Speaker 5>her yet. I haven't facetimed her. All.

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<v Speaker 6>You have to wait.

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<v Speaker 1>We were.

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<v Speaker 6>You haven't met her?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, no, I haven't met her yet. I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>trying to so.

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<v Speaker 6>Fine base timed her, have you No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we just heard her voice.

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<v Speaker 7>Do you know what she sounds like?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not sure where she's going with this. Where

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<v Speaker 3>are you going with this?

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<v Speaker 7>You you just admitted to getting catfished for the Vietnamese person,

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<v Speaker 7>and now you're putting yourself in the same scenario potentially

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<v Speaker 7>with this woman from the Philippines.

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<v Speaker 6>Like you do you not see the pattern here?

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<v Speaker 5>But yes, I see what everyone else sees. But sent

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<v Speaker 5>this woman money?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean not a lot, a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Brand probably just for like a new phone so that

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<v Speaker 4>they could text more.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, Randall, I try to be a person.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course she needs help. She's an invisible woman on

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<v Speaker 6>the internet who you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>A man Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Why didn't you ever step in and tell Randall any

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<v Speaker 4>of this stuff earlier?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey Randall, he is a hopeful, truly a heartfelt guy

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<v Speaker 2>and he's just getting taken advantage job and that is

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<v Speaker 2>like so sad.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't see it as a sad thing at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I see, Randall, you give.

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<v Speaker 1>Me money to a woman in the Philippines, It probably

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't exist.

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<v Speaker 3>You give me money to random people you've never met

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<v Speaker 3>you before, and you.

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<v Speaker 4>Call it charity and a sudden europe person like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>He's just he's got a big heart, he has a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of hope, and optimism, and he's willing to do

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<v Speaker 4>whatever it takes to make love happen in his life.

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<v Speaker 4>And he's willing to put himself out there, even put

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<v Speaker 4>himself on the radio like this.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I go with the girl in the Philippines or

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<v Speaker 5>should I continue to pursue Georgina?

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<v Speaker 1>Georgina, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 6>I can hear you.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to say something romantic? Did Georgina tell her

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<v Speaker 1>why you tried this? Why you finally went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a limb and risked because his friend made him.

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<v Speaker 5>Georgina, in all honesty, before our date, I was wholeheartedly

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<v Speaker 5>in love with the young lady from the Philippines. But

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<v Speaker 5>after meeting you, there's just something about you. I thought

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<v Speaker 5>we had a connection. I didn't know if that was

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<v Speaker 5>a universe telling you that I was making the wrong

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<v Speaker 5>decision with the other girl.

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<v Speaker 6>I appreciate your candor, but I will just tell you

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<v Speaker 6>the difference between me and this other woman. I am

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<v Speaker 6>real and the other person is a fantasy. So that's

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<v Speaker 6>that's why you are so swept up, because that's what

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<v Speaker 6>these scammers do.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you mean like there's a small percent, like one percent,

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<v Speaker 5>she's not real.

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<v Speaker 6>Definitely ninety nine one hundred, one hundred and nine a thousand.

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<v Speaker 7>She's not real and you know, I don't know where

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<v Speaker 7>things are going to stand between us, but for now

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<v Speaker 7>we should at least.

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<v Speaker 6>I will be your friend and help you navigate this

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<v Speaker 6>situation if that's what you need, right.

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<v Speaker 3>That is amazing, Randall. You hear that she is willing

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<v Speaker 3>to fight for you.

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<v Speaker 1>We could take it that way.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, So she is willing to do whatever it takes.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like to help you be your Sirpa through

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<v Speaker 4>your romance life.

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<v Speaker 2>Rinda. This is a real one. Georgina is a real one.

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<v Speaker 2>Please don't pass up this chance.

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<v Speaker 5>No woman has ever fought from me before.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, let's get the boxing gloves on and get this going.

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<v Speaker 4>Because Georgina, we want to send you and Randall out

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<v Speaker 4>on another day and we'll pay for it if you

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<v Speaker 4>say yes.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I am willing to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, Thank you, Georgina. You are such a caring

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<v Speaker 5>time person. I can't wait for us to hang out again. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I look forward to it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, And how much money do you want him to

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<v Speaker 4>send you, Georgina before this date happens?

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<v Speaker 6>You could pay me in person.

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<v Speaker 7>We're fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, the universe. Congratulations you two. You're going the

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<v Speaker 3>other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously, thank God for Georgia. Stressful this guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I gotta save this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's brookod Jeffrey in the morning, brooking Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, look at that. We actually got a yes today.

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<v Speaker 1>I have ever been more thankful for one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm The thing is, it wasn't necessarily a romantic yes,

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<v Speaker 4>but the opportunity for romance is there.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, by him, I'm sure he's gonna fall in

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<v Speaker 1>love with her, there's no question on that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean the whole thing is hopefully she saves

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<v Speaker 2>him from getting scammed out of tons of money.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think you're right. He needs to not talk

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<v Speaker 3>to another woman ever. Yeah, because he falls in love

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<v Speaker 3>with everyone. Yeah who said that?

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<v Speaker 4>Because it does feel like everybody Randall meets or talks

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<v Speaker 4>to he immediately falls forth. So just Brook, make sure

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<v Speaker 4>to check your DMS tomorrow because there's probably a message

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<v Speaker 4>in there that says the way you handled that second

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<v Speaker 4>date was just magnanimous. Perhaps the universe willed this call

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<v Speaker 4>into existence just so I could hear your beautiful nasally

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<v Speaker 4>voice and find my true compass.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey yeah, Naisley, Thank you, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>But those are Randalls, Yes, Randall.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're listening, please dm Alexis instead.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, you can hear all of our lovely voices for

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<v Speaker 4>hours on end if you listen to our Second Date

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<v Speaker 4>Update podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Wherever you get yours, just search Brook and Jeffery

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning