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Speaker 2: this relationship stuff.
Speaker 3: Second Date up Date.
Speaker 4: In this segment, there's a lot of logic that goes
Speaker 4: into our thinking about whether a pair should be together
Speaker 4: or not.
Speaker 3: We're always asking like, is that fair? Does that make sense?
Speaker 2: Sure?
Speaker 4: But I think there's not enough heart in our decision
Speaker 4: making because love isn't always rational.
Speaker 3: We need to start thinking with that other body.
Speaker 1: Is this romantically.
Speaker 3: The heart? The heart? Let's think with that.
Speaker 4: And we've got a guy on the phone who's got
Speaker 4: a whole lot of heart going on.
Speaker 3: His name is Randall.
Speaker 2: Why do I feel like it's a euphemism every time
Speaker 2: you say it, Jack is not it's if you.
Speaker 4: Think with your heart books So, Randall, after after just
Speaker 4: reading your email, I hope whatever the universe gives you
Speaker 4: here today, you accept with open arms.
Speaker 5: Oh brother, I couldn't have said it myself.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Some of us are more emotional and heart driven in
Speaker 3: this room.
Speaker 1: But I don't know when you're being serious or not.
Speaker 4: That's a very analytical, pessimistic way to look at me
Speaker 4: as a person.
Speaker 3: He's doing it right now.
Speaker 4: Okay, just accept me for who I am deep inside,
Speaker 4: and not for what I say. What Randall, you're with
Speaker 4: me here, so tell us about your situation.
Speaker 3: It sounds like it's a little bit complicated.
Speaker 5: Okay, it's gonna sound a little unusual. But for a
Speaker 5: year I've been texting a woman in Vietnam and we've
Speaker 5: had a very deep connection and we've gotten to know
Speaker 5: one another so well that I fell deep in love
Speaker 5: with this woman.
Speaker 2: Good for you, I mean, you guys just found each
Speaker 2: other on the internet somehow.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we found each other on the Internet and decided
Speaker 5: to start texting, and it was like a world one
Speaker 5: romance for me.
Speaker 1: Why did you say it was? Isn't it still?
Speaker 5: Well? I wanted to profess my love to her in person.
Speaker 5: So we decided that I was going to fly out
Speaker 5: and I was going to meet her.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, were you so nervous?
Speaker 5: Yes, I flew out. I was excited the whole trip.
Speaker 5: I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, what was it like when you land and
Speaker 2: you finally get to see each other in person?
Speaker 5: Well? I landed, I went to where we were supposed
Speaker 5: to meet and she didn't show up.
Speaker 2: Oh man, I think that that is like the cruelest
Speaker 2: thing that's going on right now.
Speaker 1: Here's so many people actually.
Speaker 4: Dude, that's terrible. So we we all hate Vietnamese fake girl.
Speaker 5: Now?
Speaker 3: So where are you in your in your love life?
Speaker 5: Now? And you guys will be happy to learn that
Speaker 5: I met another woman from the Philippine.
Speaker 3: Oh god, here we go.
Speaker 5: We met online again? But I know this woman's real.
Speaker 1: How they could be real? But are they employed by
Speaker 1: someone else? Are they?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: They're all real?
Speaker 3: Have you face timed with her?
Speaker 5: We didn't face time, but we've been texting a lot.
Speaker 5: And let me tell you, I know you're gonna think
Speaker 5: I'm crazy, but my heart tells me it's real.
Speaker 4: Okay, we're throwing logic out the window, all rational, we're
Speaker 4: only listening to our hearts.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, now I understand, jefs intro.
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm real nervous. So is that are we calling
Speaker 3: this girl in the Philippines right now?
Speaker 5: No? No, here's what I need you guys to help
Speaker 5: me with my friend. You know everything that happened with
Speaker 5: the last girl. He said to me, why not just
Speaker 5: meet a woman locally, face to face and just see
Speaker 5: how it goes. Yeah, so I did. I actually got
Speaker 5: online and I matched with a young lady and we
Speaker 5: met up at a bar. And her name is Georgina.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you we're on a day with Georgina, but
Speaker 2: you're in love with a woman from the Philippines.
Speaker 5: Yes, I'm just trying to see if maybe I am
Speaker 5: supposed to meet someone locally, just to see where love
Speaker 5: may take me.
Speaker 2: Well, and you're a lover, you're a true romantic and
Speaker 2: with everyone you see, that's okay.
Speaker 3: Can we know more about Georgina at the bar?
Speaker 5: Yes, we just had a great conversation. She's been through
Speaker 5: some hurt in her past too, so we bonded over
Speaker 5: that and we just really had a deep conversation, nothing
Speaker 5: too deep, just conversations about life and our goals and
Speaker 5: what we would like to achieve, and it was nice.
Speaker 1: Were you suing people?
Speaker 2: Follow up?
Speaker 1: Nothing too deep with like favorite movie?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Anyway, what's your dog's name?
Speaker 2: Whoa?
Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa whoa?
Speaker 3: All right, So now.
Speaker 5: I gotta be honest though I felt like I was
Speaker 5: cheating on my Philippine girl. So I'm a little torn,
Speaker 5: and I had a good time. So I want to
Speaker 5: put it in the universe's hands, in the universe being
Speaker 5: you guys, and I want to see if this person
Speaker 5: wants to pursue this. I'm not going to the Philippines,
Speaker 5: but if they don't, then I'm on the first plane
Speaker 5: out of here.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, So if Georgina wants to pursue a relationship
Speaker 2: with you, then you're gonna just totally leave the Filipino girl.
Speaker 1: But is she not texting you back? Or why do
Speaker 1: you need us?
Speaker 5: Yeah? So we just had the date last night, so
Speaker 5: I don't even really know what to do.
Speaker 1: Well, we can jump in before things go wrong.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Also, he's a guy that clearly operates through grand romantic gestures,
Speaker 4: and what better way to do like a big gesture
Speaker 4: to Georgina than to have a radio show call engage
Speaker 4: how she feels.
Speaker 3: About him in a cosmic sort of way.
Speaker 2: But we shouldn't push if she says no, because that's
Speaker 2: the universe.
Speaker 3: That analytical, rational, logical talk that.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to hear and try to act like the universe.
Speaker 1: And I feel like the universe just comes with.
Speaker 3: A flow jazz exactly, So stop overthinking it.
Speaker 4: Let's just lady and see where her heart is at
Speaker 4: when we do the second date update.
Speaker 3: Right after this second Date update, we're in the.
Speaker 4: Middle of your second Date update, and if you missed
Speaker 4: the first part, the universe was brought up a lot. Yes,
Speaker 4: because our listener Randall has put his fate into our hands,
Speaker 4: saying we are the universe. And I guess that makes
Speaker 4: brook Uranus.
Speaker 1: A giant gas plan and.
Speaker 3: The rest of us are stars. Because here's the situation.
Speaker 4: Randall's been heartbroken before he flew to Vietnam to meet
Speaker 4: a woman.
Speaker 3: Ended up getting.
Speaker 4: Catfished there, then fell for another lady from the Philippines
Speaker 4: who sure he has not met her yet, not even FaceTime,
Speaker 4: but in his heart he feels that their connection is true,
Speaker 4: he's in love.
Speaker 3: He said he's in love with her.
Speaker 4: Absolutely and randall on a scale one out of ten.
Speaker 4: How serious are you about Philippines girl?
Speaker 5: I am so serious that if this doesn't work out today,
Speaker 5: I am on the first plane to the Philippines with
Speaker 5: a ring in my hands.
Speaker 3: Can I recommend not the.
Speaker 1: First It's gonna be very expensive flight.
Speaker 5: Maybe.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're gonna propose?
Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely.
Speaker 2: You went on one date last night, Yeah, with Georgina.
Speaker 1: Writer's the name Georgina.
Speaker 5: Her name is Georgiana.
Speaker 3: Yeah, good memory.
Speaker 2: Georgina is going to decide whether or not you propose
Speaker 2: to a woman in the Philippines.
Speaker 5: That's a lot of Wait, think about it. This could
Speaker 5: be a sign from the universe. So let's just see
Speaker 5: what happened.
Speaker 2: Could protecting you and also don't tell Georgina maybe about
Speaker 2: the backup play.
Speaker 1: He's really all or nothing type of guy and very honest.
Speaker 4: I think we just let the universe take control of
Speaker 4: the conversation. We're not going to plan anything out. I'm
Speaker 4: just going to start dialing the numbers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but don't you think we should zip it?
Speaker 3: Uranus. We've got the universal business to attend to.
Speaker 1: You're not a star. You're like the moon of Uranus.
Speaker 1: I know it.
Speaker 5: You wish.
Speaker 1: Damn, let's just make this black hole right now?
Speaker 3: You want me to be anyway?
Speaker 5: Here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Georgina.
Speaker 5: This is this is a.
Speaker 3: Morning radio show.
Speaker 4: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey, and we are very eager
Speaker 4: to speak with you today.
Speaker 3: Brook take it away.
Speaker 6: Why are you interested in speaking to me?
Speaker 1: We heard last night you went a really great date.
Speaker 3: I did go on a date last night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you say it was great?
Speaker 4: She took.
Speaker 6: Okay, why do you even want to know?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 3: How did you even get my number?
Speaker 4: We actually got it from that guy Randall. And in
Speaker 4: this segment that we're doing, we're just trying to gauge
Speaker 4: and see how things go. Yeah, okay, so we're just
Speaker 4: trying to pry a little bit and ask you, you know,
Speaker 4: how was your date?
Speaker 3: How was the hangout?
Speaker 1: Is a short review?
Speaker 6: I mean it was a good date. We had a
Speaker 6: couple of drinks. Randall was super thoughtful and nice.
Speaker 3: This all fits his character.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you were feeling really good?
Speaker 6: I was until the very end because it was a
Speaker 6: little bit weird, to say the least.
Speaker 3: We don't know what happened at the end. He didn't
Speaker 3: mention that was there like a kiss.
Speaker 6: No, it was not a kiss. So basically he told me,
Speaker 6: I just want you to know this date meant a
Speaker 6: lot to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good. That must make you feel great.
Speaker 2: It did.
Speaker 6: It did until the second part, in which he said,
Speaker 6: I don't know if I'm going to propose to someone
Speaker 6: else yet, but it's been very nice to meet you.
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my god, I bet your heart just sunk, Like.
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I was more confused than anything.
Speaker 3: I didn't wish him luck.
Speaker 4: Do you think there's any chance maybe it was just
Speaker 4: a line, like a little hard to get line to
Speaker 4: play towards you, to make himself seem a little bit
Speaker 4: more desirable.
Speaker 1: To get married In second guesses, sounds like a.
Speaker 4: Good joke, Like how wild would it be if he
Speaker 4: really was engaged, Like obviously he's kidding.
Speaker 6: Yeah, if it was a joke, it didn't work. It
Speaker 6: did not land. He should workshop that with someone else.
Speaker 2: Up until that very last sentence, you were planning on
Speaker 2: seeing me again.
Speaker 6: It definitely seemed like it was going in that direction.
Speaker 2: Okay our answer, Okay, so that's our answer.
Speaker 1: Can we ignore the last sentence? Can we just forget
Speaker 1: that happened?
Speaker 6: I think that would be textbook ignoring a red flag.
Speaker 3: Well, maybe we could.
Speaker 4: We could replace it with some new sentences that he
Speaker 4: wants to say to you right now, because he is
Speaker 4: listening to this phone call.
Speaker 5: Well, I need to talk to her. I need I
Speaker 5: need to say something. Wada, what are you doing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, he's on the phone. That's how this segment works.
Speaker 5: We have been waiting, Georgina. I'm sorry. You were wonderful.
Speaker 5: I had a great time, but I got to tell
Speaker 5: you the whole story. A year ago, I fell in
Speaker 5: love with a person in Vietnam. They catfished me. I
Speaker 5: was heartbroken. I didn't know what to do. Then I
Speaker 5: found another person, and this woman's from the Philippines. I
Speaker 5: feel like she might be the one. I haven't met
Speaker 5: her yet. I haven't facetimed her. All.
Speaker 6: You have to wait.
Speaker 1: We were.
Speaker 6: You haven't met her?
Speaker 5: No? No, no, I haven't met her yet. I'm just
Speaker 5: trying to so.
Speaker 6: Fine base timed her, have you No?
Speaker 5: No, we just heard her voice.
Speaker 7: Do you know what she sounds like?
Speaker 3: No, I'm not sure where she's going with this. Where
Speaker 3: are you going with this?
Speaker 7: You you just admitted to getting catfished for the Vietnamese person,
Speaker 7: and now you're putting yourself in the same scenario potentially
Speaker 7: with this woman from the Philippines.
Speaker 6: Like you do you not see the pattern here?
Speaker 5: But yes, I see what everyone else sees. But sent
Speaker 5: this woman money?
Speaker 1: Oh we didn't know that.
Speaker 5: I mean not a lot, a little.
Speaker 4: Brand probably just for like a new phone so that
Speaker 4: they could text more.
Speaker 5: Oh, Randall, I try to be a person.
Speaker 6: Of course she needs help. She's an invisible woman on
Speaker 6: the internet who you don't know.
Speaker 1: A man Brook.
Speaker 4: Why didn't you ever step in and tell Randall any
Speaker 4: of this stuff earlier?
Speaker 2: Jeffrey Randall, he is a hopeful, truly a heartfelt guy
Speaker 2: and he's just getting taken advantage job and that is
Speaker 2: like so sad.
Speaker 4: I don't see it as a sad thing at all.
Speaker 4: I see, Randall, you give.
Speaker 1: Me money to a woman in the Philippines, It probably
Speaker 1: doesn't exist.
Speaker 3: You give me money to random people you've never met
Speaker 3: you before, and you.
Speaker 4: Call it charity and a sudden europe person like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 4: He's just he's got a big heart, he has a
Speaker 4: lot of hope, and optimism, and he's willing to do
Speaker 4: whatever it takes to make love happen in his life.
Speaker 4: And he's willing to put himself out there, even put
Speaker 4: himself on the radio like this.
Speaker 5: Can I go with the girl in the Philippines or
Speaker 5: should I continue to pursue Georgina?
Speaker 1: Georgina, are you kidding me?
Speaker 6: I can hear you.
Speaker 1: You need to say something romantic? Did Georgina tell her
Speaker 1: why you tried this? Why you finally went out on
Speaker 1: a limb and risked because his friend made him.
Speaker 5: Georgina, in all honesty, before our date, I was wholeheartedly
Speaker 5: in love with the young lady from the Philippines. But
Speaker 5: after meeting you, there's just something about you. I thought
Speaker 5: we had a connection. I didn't know if that was
Speaker 5: a universe telling you that I was making the wrong
Speaker 5: decision with the other girl.
Speaker 6: I appreciate your candor, but I will just tell you
Speaker 6: the difference between me and this other woman. I am
Speaker 6: real and the other person is a fantasy. So that's
Speaker 6: that's why you are so swept up, because that's what
Speaker 6: these scammers do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you mean like there's a small percent, like one percent,
Speaker 5: she's not real.
Speaker 6: Definitely ninety nine one hundred, one hundred and nine a thousand.
Speaker 7: She's not real and you know, I don't know where
Speaker 7: things are going to stand between us, but for now
Speaker 7: we should at least.
Speaker 6: I will be your friend and help you navigate this
Speaker 6: situation if that's what you need, right.
Speaker 3: That is amazing, Randall. You hear that she is willing
Speaker 3: to fight for you.
Speaker 1: We could take it that way.
Speaker 3: I love it, Jeff.
Speaker 4: Sure, So she is willing to do whatever it takes.
Speaker 4: It sounds like to help you be your Sirpa through
Speaker 4: your romance life.
Speaker 2: Rinda. This is a real one. Georgina is a real one.
Speaker 2: Please don't pass up this chance.
Speaker 5: No woman has ever fought from me before.
Speaker 4: Well, let's get the boxing gloves on and get this going.
Speaker 4: Because Georgina, we want to send you and Randall out
Speaker 4: on another day and we'll pay for it if you
Speaker 4: say yes.
Speaker 6: Well, I am willing to do that.
Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you, Georgina. You are such a caring
Speaker 5: time person. I can't wait for us to hang out again. Oh,
Speaker 5: I look forward to it.
Speaker 4: Okay, And how much money do you want him to
Speaker 4: send you, Georgina before this date happens?
Speaker 6: You could pay me in person.
Speaker 7: We're fine.
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, the universe. Congratulations you two. You're going the
Speaker 3: other day.
Speaker 1: Seriously, thank God for Georgia. Stressful this guy.
Speaker 5: I gotta save this guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's brookod Jeffrey in the morning, brooking Jeffrey in
Speaker 4: the morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, look at that. We actually got a yes today.
Speaker 1: I have ever been more thankful for one of our listeners.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm The thing is, it wasn't necessarily a romantic yes,
Speaker 4: but the opportunity for romance is there.
Speaker 1: I mean, by him, I'm sure he's gonna fall in
Speaker 1: love with her, there's no question on that.
Speaker 2: But I mean the whole thing is hopefully she saves
Speaker 2: him from getting scammed out of tons of money.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I just think you're right. He needs to not talk
Speaker 3: to another woman ever. Yeah, because he falls in love
Speaker 3: with everyone. Yeah who said that?
Speaker 4: Because it does feel like everybody Randall meets or talks
Speaker 4: to he immediately falls forth. So just Brook, make sure
Speaker 4: to check your DMS tomorrow because there's probably a message
Speaker 4: in there that says the way you handled that second
Speaker 4: date was just magnanimous. Perhaps the universe willed this call
Speaker 4: into existence just so I could hear your beautiful nasally
Speaker 4: voice and find my true compass.
Speaker 1: Hey yeah, Naisley, Thank you, Jeff.
Speaker 3: But those are Randalls, Yes, Randall.
Speaker 1: If you're listening, please dm Alexis instead.
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Speaker 4: hours on end if you listen to our Second Date
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