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Speaker 1: Hey, you're here. You found the Second Day podcast and

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Speaker 1: we love that. Thank you so much. Stop here here.

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Speaker 1: You know what, if you.

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Speaker 2: Want us to invade more of your life, we're on YouTube,

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Speaker 2: yeah with Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Your address, I can show up Jose. Jose will come

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Speaker 1: to your house and give you hugs.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, you give me foods uh huh.

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Speaker 2: And also there's forty five more minutes of this dumb

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Speaker 2: content that apparently you life, which.

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Speaker 1: We're really grateful for.

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Speaker 2: You can go over the main feed for the full

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Speaker 2: show Brook and Jeffrey. But right now, let's get into

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Speaker 2: this relationship stuff.

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Speaker 3: Second Date up Date.

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Speaker 4: In this segment, there's a lot of logic that goes

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Speaker 4: into our thinking about whether a pair should be together

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Speaker 4: or not.

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Speaker 3: We're always asking like, is that fair? Does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 4: But I think there's not enough heart in our decision

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Speaker 4: making because love isn't always rational.

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Speaker 3: We need to start thinking with that other body.

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Speaker 1: Is this romantically.

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Speaker 3: The heart? The heart? Let's think with that.

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Speaker 4: And we've got a guy on the phone who's got

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Speaker 4: a whole lot of heart going on.

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Speaker 3: His name is Randall.

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Speaker 2: Why do I feel like it's a euphemism every time

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Speaker 2: you say it, Jack is not it's if you.

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Speaker 4: Think with your heart books So, Randall, after after just

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Speaker 4: reading your email, I hope whatever the universe gives you

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Speaker 4: here today, you accept with open arms.

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Speaker 5: Oh brother, I couldn't have said it myself.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Some of us are more emotional and heart driven in

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Speaker 1: But I don't know when you're being serious or not.

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Speaker 4: That's a very analytical, pessimistic way to look at me

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Speaker 4: as a person.

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Speaker 3: He's doing it right now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, just accept me for who I am deep inside,

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Speaker 4: and not for what I say. What Randall, you're with

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Speaker 4: me here, so tell us about your situation.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like it's a little bit complicated.

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Speaker 5: Okay, it's gonna sound a little unusual. But for a

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Speaker 5: year I've been texting a woman in Vietnam and we've

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Speaker 5: had a very deep connection and we've gotten to know

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Speaker 5: one another so well that I fell deep in love

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Speaker 2: Good for you, I mean, you guys just found each

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Speaker 2: other on the internet somehow.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we found each other on the Internet and decided

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Speaker 5: to start texting, and it was like a world one

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Speaker 5: romance for me.

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Speaker 1: Why did you say it was? Isn't it still?

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Speaker 5: Well? I wanted to profess my love to her in person.

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Speaker 5: So we decided that I was going to fly out

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, were you so nervous?

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Speaker 5: Yes, I flew out. I was excited the whole trip.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't sleep, I couldn't eat. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, what was it like when you land and

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Speaker 2: you finally get to see each other in person?

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Speaker 5: Well? I landed, I went to where we were supposed

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I think that that is like the cruelest

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Speaker 1: Here's so many people actually.

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Speaker 4: Dude, that's terrible. So we we all hate Vietnamese fake girl.

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: So where are you in your in your love life?

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Speaker 5: Now? And you guys will be happy to learn that

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Speaker 5: I met another woman from the Philippine.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, here we go.

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Speaker 5: We met online again? But I know this woman's real.

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Speaker 1: How they could be real? But are they employed by

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Speaker 1: someone else? Are they?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: They're all real?

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Speaker 3: Have you face timed with her?

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Speaker 5: We didn't face time, but we've been texting a lot.

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Speaker 5: And let me tell you, I know you're gonna think

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Speaker 5: I'm crazy, but my heart tells me it's real.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we're throwing logic out the window, all rational, we're

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, now I understand, jefs intro.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm real nervous. So is that are we calling

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Speaker 5: No? No, here's what I need you guys to help

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Speaker 5: me with my friend. You know everything that happened with

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Speaker 5: the last girl. He said to me, why not just

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Speaker 5: how it goes. Yeah, so I did. I actually got

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Speaker 5: online and I matched with a young lady and we

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Speaker 5: met up at a bar. And her name is Georgina.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you we're on a day with Georgina, but

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm just trying to see if maybe I am

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Speaker 2: Well, and you're a lover, you're a true romantic and

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Speaker 3: Can we know more about Georgina at the bar?

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Speaker 5: Yes, we just had a great conversation. She's been through

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Speaker 5: some hurt in her past too, so we bonded over

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Speaker 5: that and we just really had a deep conversation, nothing

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Speaker 5: what we would like to achieve, and it was nice.

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Speaker 1: Were you suing people?

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Speaker 2: Follow up?

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Speaker 1: Nothing too deep with like favorite movie?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Anyway, what's your dog's name?

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Speaker 2: Whoa?

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Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa whoa?

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Speaker 3: All right, So now.

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Speaker 5: I gotta be honest though I felt like I was

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Speaker 5: cheating on my Philippine girl. So I'm a little torn,

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Speaker 5: and I had a good time. So I want to

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Speaker 5: put it in the universe's hands, in the universe being

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Speaker 5: you guys, and I want to see if this person

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Speaker 5: wants to pursue this. I'm not going to the Philippines,

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Speaker 5: but if they don't, then I'm on the first plane

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, So if Georgina wants to pursue a relationship

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Speaker 2: with you, then you're gonna just totally leave the Filipino girl.

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Speaker 1: But is she not texting you back? Or why do

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So we just had the date last night, so

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Speaker 5: I don't even really know what to do.

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Speaker 1: Well, we can jump in before things go wrong.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Also, he's a guy that clearly operates through grand romantic gestures,

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Speaker 4: and what better way to do like a big gesture

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Speaker 4: to Georgina than to have a radio show call engage

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Speaker 4: how she feels.

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Speaker 3: About him in a cosmic sort of way.

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Speaker 2: But we shouldn't push if she says no, because that's

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Speaker 2: the universe.

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Speaker 3: That analytical, rational, logical talk that.

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants to hear and try to act like the universe.

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Speaker 1: And I feel like the universe just comes with.

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Speaker 3: A flow jazz exactly, So stop overthinking it.

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Speaker 4: Let's just lady and see where her heart is at

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Speaker 4: when we do the second date update.

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Speaker 3: Right after this second Date update, we're in the.

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Speaker 4: Middle of your second Date update, and if you missed

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Speaker 4: the first part, the universe was brought up a lot. Yes,

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Speaker 4: because our listener Randall has put his fate into our hands,

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Speaker 4: saying we are the universe. And I guess that makes

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Speaker 4: brook Uranus.

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Speaker 1: A giant gas plan and.

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Speaker 3: The rest of us are stars. Because here's the situation.

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Speaker 4: Randall's been heartbroken before he flew to Vietnam to meet

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Speaker 4: a woman.

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Speaker 3: Ended up getting.

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Speaker 4: Catfished there, then fell for another lady from the Philippines

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Speaker 4: who sure he has not met her yet, not even FaceTime,

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Speaker 4: but in his heart he feels that their connection is true,

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Speaker 4: he's in love.

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Speaker 3: He said he's in love with her.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely and randall on a scale one out of ten.

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Speaker 4: How serious are you about Philippines girl?

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Speaker 5: I am so serious that if this doesn't work out today,

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Speaker 5: I am on the first plane to the Philippines with

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Speaker 5: a ring in my hands.

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Speaker 3: Can I recommend not the.

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Speaker 1: First It's gonna be very expensive flight.

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Speaker 5: Maybe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're gonna propose?

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Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: You went on one date last night, Yeah, with Georgina.

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Speaker 1: Writer's the name Georgina.

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Speaker 5: Her name is Georgiana.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, good memory.

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Speaker 2: Georgina is going to decide whether or not you propose

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Speaker 2: to a woman in the Philippines.

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Speaker 5: That's a lot of Wait, think about it. This could

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Speaker 5: be a sign from the universe. So let's just see

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Speaker 5: what happened.

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Speaker 2: Could protecting you and also don't tell Georgina maybe about

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Speaker 1: He's really all or nothing type of guy and very honest.

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Speaker 4: I think we just let the universe take control of

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Speaker 4: the conversation. We're not going to plan anything out. I'm

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Speaker 4: just going to start dialing the numbers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but don't you think we should zip it?

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Speaker 3: Uranus. We've got the universal business to attend to.

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Speaker 1: You're not a star. You're like the moon of Uranus.

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Speaker 1: I know it.

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Speaker 5: You wish.

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Speaker 1: Damn, let's just make this black hole right now?

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Speaker 3: You want me to be anyway?

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, we're looking to speak with Georgina.

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Speaker 5: This is this is a.

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Speaker 3: Morning radio show.

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Speaker 4: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey, and we are very eager

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Speaker 4: to speak with you today.

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Speaker 3: Brook take it away.

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Speaker 6: Why are you interested in speaking to me?

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Speaker 1: We heard last night you went a really great date.

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Speaker 3: I did go on a date last night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, would you say it was great?

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Speaker 4: She took.

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Speaker 6: Okay, why do you even want to know?

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 3: How did you even get my number?

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Speaker 4: We actually got it from that guy Randall. And in

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Speaker 4: this segment that we're doing, we're just trying to gauge

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Speaker 4: and see how things go. Yeah, okay, so we're just

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Speaker 4: trying to pry a little bit and ask you, you know,

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Speaker 4: how was your date?

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Speaker 3: How was the hangout?

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Speaker 1: Is a short review?

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Speaker 6: I mean it was a good date. We had a

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Speaker 6: couple of drinks. Randall was super thoughtful and nice.

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Speaker 3: This all fits his character.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you were feeling really good?

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Speaker 6: I was until the very end because it was a

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Speaker 6: little bit weird, to say the least.

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Speaker 3: We don't know what happened at the end. He didn't

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Speaker 3: mention that was there like a kiss.

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Speaker 6: No, it was not a kiss. So basically he told me,

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Speaker 6: I just want you to know this date meant a

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good. That must make you feel great.

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Speaker 2: It did.

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Speaker 6: It did until the second part, in which he said,

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Speaker 2: Okay, Oh my god, I bet your heart just sunk, Like.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I was more confused than anything.

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Speaker 3: I didn't wish him luck.

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Speaker 4: Do you think there's any chance maybe it was just

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Speaker 1: To get married In second guesses, sounds like a.

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Speaker 4: Good joke, Like how wild would it be if he

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if it was a joke, it didn't work. It

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Speaker 2: Up until that very last sentence, you were planning on

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Speaker 6: It definitely seemed like it was going in that direction.

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Speaker 2: Okay our answer, Okay, so that's our answer.

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Speaker 1: Can we ignore the last sentence? Can we just forget

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Speaker 6: I think that would be textbook ignoring a red flag.

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Speaker 3: Well, maybe we could.

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Speaker 4: We could replace it with some new sentences that he

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Speaker 5: Well, I need to talk to her. I need I

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Speaker 5: need to say something. Wada, what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, he's on the phone. That's how this segment works.

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Speaker 5: We have been waiting, Georgina. I'm sorry. You were wonderful.

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Speaker 5: I had a great time, but I got to tell

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Speaker 6: You have to wait.

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Speaker 1: We were.

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Speaker 6: You haven't met her?

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, I haven't met her yet. I'm just

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Speaker 6: Fine base timed her, have you No?

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Speaker 5: No, we just heard her voice.

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Speaker 7: Do you know what she sounds like?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not sure where she's going with this. Where

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Speaker 7: You you just admitted to getting catfished for the Vietnamese person,

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Speaker 7: and now you're putting yourself in the same scenario potentially

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Speaker 6: Like you do you not see the pattern here?

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Speaker 5: But yes, I see what everyone else sees. But sent

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Speaker 5: this woman money?

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Speaker 1: Oh we didn't know that.

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Speaker 5: I mean not a lot, a little.

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Speaker 4: Brand probably just for like a new phone so that

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Speaker 5: Oh, Randall, I try to be a person.

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Speaker 6: Of course she needs help. She's an invisible woman on

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Speaker 1: A man Brook.

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Speaker 4: Why didn't you ever step in and tell Randall any

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey Randall, he is a hopeful, truly a heartfelt guy

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Speaker 2: and he's just getting taken advantage job and that is

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Speaker 4: I don't see it as a sad thing at all.

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Speaker 4: I see, Randall, you give.

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Speaker 1: Me money to a woman in the Philippines, It probably

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Speaker 3: You give me money to random people you've never met

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Speaker 4: Call it charity and a sudden europe person like, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: He's just he's got a big heart, he has a

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Speaker 4: And he's willing to put himself out there, even put

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Speaker 5: Can I go with the girl in the Philippines or

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Speaker 1: Georgina, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 6: I can hear you.

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Speaker 1: You need to say something romantic? Did Georgina tell her

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Speaker 1: why you tried this? Why you finally went out on

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Speaker 5: Georgina, in all honesty, before our date, I was wholeheartedly

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Speaker 5: after meeting you, there's just something about you. I thought

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Speaker 5: we had a connection. I didn't know if that was

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Speaker 6: I appreciate your candor, but I will just tell you

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Speaker 6: that's why you are so swept up, because that's what

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you mean like there's a small percent, like one percent,

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Speaker 5: she's not real.

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Speaker 6: Definitely ninety nine one hundred, one hundred and nine a thousand.

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Speaker 7: She's not real and you know, I don't know where

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Speaker 7: we should at least.

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Speaker 6: I will be your friend and help you navigate this

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Speaker 3: That is amazing, Randall. You hear that she is willing

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Speaker 1: We could take it that way.

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Speaker 3: I love it, Jeff.

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Speaker 4: Sure, So she is willing to do whatever it takes.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like to help you be your Sirpa through

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Speaker 2: Rinda. This is a real one. Georgina is a real one.

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Speaker 2: Please don't pass up this chance.

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Speaker 5: No woman has ever fought from me before.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's get the boxing gloves on and get this going.

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Speaker 4: Because Georgina, we want to send you and Randall out

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Speaker 4: on another day and we'll pay for it if you

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Speaker 4: say yes.

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Speaker 6: Well, I am willing to do that.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you, Georgina. You are such a caring

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Speaker 5: I look forward to it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, And how much money do you want him to

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Speaker 6: You could pay me in person.

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Speaker 7: We're fine.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, the universe. Congratulations you two. You're going the

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Speaker 1: Seriously, thank God for Georgia. Stressful this guy.

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Speaker 5: I gotta save this guy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's brookod Jeffrey in the morning, brooking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: Hey, look at that. We actually got a yes today.

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Speaker 1: I have ever been more thankful for one of our listeners.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm The thing is, it wasn't necessarily a romantic yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, by him, I'm sure he's gonna fall in

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Speaker 2: But I mean the whole thing is hopefully she saves

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I just think you're right. He needs to not talk

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Speaker 3: to another woman ever. Yeah, because he falls in love

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Speaker 3: with everyone. Yeah who said that?

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Speaker 4: Because it does feel like everybody Randall meets or talks

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Speaker 4: to he immediately falls forth. So just Brook, make sure

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Speaker 4: to check your DMS tomorrow because there's probably a message

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Speaker 4: in there that says the way you handled that second

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Speaker 4: date was just magnanimous. Perhaps the universe willed this call

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Speaker 4: into existence just so I could hear your beautiful nasally

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Speaker 1: Hey yeah, Naisley, Thank you, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: But those are Randalls, Yes, Randall.

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Speaker 1: If you're listening, please dm Alexis instead.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you can hear all of our lovely voices for

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Speaker 4: hours on end if you listen to our Second Date

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Speaker 4: Update podcast.

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Speaker 3: Wherever you get yours, just search Brook and Jeffery

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning