1 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,720 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for 2 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: joining us. How are you doing, Susan? 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: Hi? I am so happy to be back, and today 4 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: we are going to be answering more of your questions. 5 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: We absolutely love these episodes, don't we, Kathy? 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Oh so fun? 7 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 2: So keep those questions coming, and you know what to do, 8 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: Bachelor nation dot com slash Golden Hour and submit them 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 2: so we can talk about it. 10 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: No question is too big or too small, right Susan. 11 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 1: We love answering them, but today we're really excited to 12 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: get into our questions. But for Susan, what do you 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: think of last night's episode of The Golden Bachelor? Direct? 14 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: God, where do I start? First of all, my favorite 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 2: dress was her in the green at the Rose ceremony. 16 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: I was texting Carrie, going good job. 17 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I just I want if you don't if you 18 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: and I do not say this at the same time 19 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 1: pasco where it's too high maintenance. But I love them. 20 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: I absolutely Well. You know what, Susan Pascal, if you're listening, 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: if Jenny hasn't chosen you, you're all. 22 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: Susans, yes, because a run for your money. 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I'm sorry. I haven't done laundry in forty years. 24 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: I love that. Okay, I would love to be such 25 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:28,639 Speaker 2: a queen. 26 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: I mean really, but you won't be a queen, sweetheart, 27 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: You'll be doing his laundry. 28 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 2: No, I will not. I would be easy. Well, I think, well, 29 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: if you're going to reach out for me, just no, 30 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 2: I'm just as queen as you can be. How about 31 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 2: Taylor Dane being there? 32 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:48,279 Speaker 1: Unbelievable? Who was it that dated? I can't remember? Okay, 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: but wait, I loved Greg doing Pascal's laundry. I mean there, 34 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: he was. 35 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: Giving him one hundred bucks a load. 36 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: I know because you hear what he said, goes his cloes. 37 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: His underwear is more valuable. Love and the USA untreated 38 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: sleep apnea. That was who the guy is? Great? 39 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 2: Because they were all complaining about his snoring. They were 40 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: mocking his. 41 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:18,839 Speaker 1: I don't care. I want to meet him. I don't 42 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: care if he snores. I don't know. 43 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 2: I think you should wait. How about the pink tuxedo 44 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 2: on Jonathan at the prom and he was prom king it. 45 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: Was you can you imagine the girl canceling him right 46 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: before the prom? 47 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 2: Do you know how many times that must happen to people? 48 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 2: A lot, but he held on to it for forty 49 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 2: plus years. 50 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: And he's king of the problem. Last night, I was 51 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: so sweet, Okay, what about guy was break dancing on 52 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: the floor. 53 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: Oh, that was hysterical. And then the other one came 54 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 2: and spun him around the help. 55 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: Did you seeing? Somebody had to come and lift him up, like, 56 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: come on, guy, but he gets wait for the. 57 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: First one on and one, Kathy, I've got vibes. Okay, 58 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: if you don't, I don't know. I think I think 59 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 2: my guy here is gonna go. 60 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: Really, I'm sorry. He wasn't your guy. If you go 61 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,279 Speaker 1: back and listen. 62 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 2: No, no, not my guy. You know what I mean. 63 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 2: I think they Chuck and her have a lot of chemistry. 64 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: Then Charles talking about losing his wife to an aneurysm. 65 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: I just oh, so sad. And and then I'll tell 66 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: the one that got me aside from you know about 67 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: the photo booth. 68 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 2: And then she gave him the picture of. 69 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: Like, I know, it's so sweet, but Dan, okay, Dan, 70 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: so that my sister has that a couple of people 71 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: in my family have that. It's called a benign non 72 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: essential tremor. It's not Parkinson's or anything. It's just a 73 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: lot of people get it, and he has it in 74 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: both of his hands. 75 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: Did you hear when he told the story that the 76 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: doctor hold him like your life was pretty much over? 77 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: I guess it was a mistake. Is that a mistake. 78 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: Well, since he's still with us, I'm going to go 79 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: with the obviously, But I'm just saying to be able 80 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: to be that vulnerable on National TV, clearly, I have 81 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: a guy I dated has it. It's really hard. You know, 82 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 1: they can't hold glasses, they have to do things with 83 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: two hands. It's it. Just my hat is off to 84 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: Dan for sharing that on National TV. 85 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: It took a lot, and you know what, I also 86 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 2: think it helped him come out of his comfort zone, 87 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 2: you know, like it made him deal with what he 88 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: has and nationally of course, and I think maybe he'll 89 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 2: be better for it. 90 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think, you know, it doesn't kill you, 91 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 1: makes you stronger. And then I have to say Kim 92 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: singing that romantic song to Joan about finding his person 93 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 1: over the rainbow. Remember, my husband was a naval officer, 94 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: he was not a captain. 95 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 2: I always think of him, Kathy every time. 96 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,720 Speaker 1: I mean, but I saw I saw in one of 97 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: the promos. I saw him on the floor cleaning up. 98 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: I thought, oh boy, that is a captain of the 99 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: Navy everything. 100 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: What I wish about him that he laugh a little bit, 101 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 2: Like I don't see his humorous side yet. I think 102 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 2: he's very serious. 103 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: Not everybody is a laugh a minute. And I think 104 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: he's a genuinely nice guy. And I may say he 105 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,799 Speaker 1: certainly is not. What did you think about Jack going home? 106 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: I know, I mean, I love the song at the end. 107 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: He's my kind of guy. That guy. 108 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: Wait, I did the cannon balls. 109 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 1: In the pool, Susan, you and he. I mean, I 110 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 1: was diving at the end of the pool. But this guy, 111 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: you can tell he genuinely left nothing on the table. 112 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 1: He had a I mean, I didn't really see Joan 113 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 1: and him together. But what a great fun guy. Wouldn't 114 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: you love to go out on the town. 115 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: All the guys are going to miss him. I'm telling you, 116 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 2: he was your entertainment. 117 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: They were like, hi Jack, cha, but what what a 118 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: cool guy. And some of the other guys that went home, 119 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: Joe was so sad to set them home. We all 120 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: would be I mean that, I know, I just I 121 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: feel like she is really caring for their hearts. She 122 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: really she kept. 123 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: That high maintenance man. 124 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: Well, okay, I mean he's a good looking guy. I'm 125 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: just saying, you know, I think that that's who he is. 126 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: You got to hand it to him. He's vest is 127 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 1: who I am. I don't do my laundry. I you know, I. 128 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: Make his bill in the closet. To see his closet. 129 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: Did you see his Gucci his I mean, I can't 130 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: even I don't even know the names. You know, my Louistan, 131 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: my Gucci, my, this my bad. You know what I 132 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: was thinking, Susan. 133 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: Then he's. 134 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: We have to sneak into the mansion. We're going into 135 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: his closet and we are ripping everything out of there. 136 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: With the cellar on the black market, I don't know that. 137 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: I think he's tall, but he looks a little bit. 138 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 2: I don't know if things would fit me, But it. 139 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 1: Doesn't matter if you're selling them. It's called we're gonna 140 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: make money on the stale, Suasan. 141 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,679 Speaker 2: But but he did an awesome haircut for his talent. 142 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: I'm going to ask you about that. Yes, it was 143 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: a great haircut. It was one hundred and seventy five 144 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: dollars haircut. 145 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: But did he do it in thirty seconds or do 146 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 1: you think that was time lapse? 147 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 2: No, he did it in thirty didn't you see him 148 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: take one chunk off the bat hair? 149 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: I hate to tell you just lost me as a client. 150 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: A client. I'm going to Pascal because I know I could. 151 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: Do it in thirty seconds. You want that blunt clipper cut, 152 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 2: you want it sharp? That takes more time. 153 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 1: Okay, And and let's be clear, I'm not paying one 154 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 1: hundred and seventy five dollars here obviously. Well, maybe you 155 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 1: know what if I sell Pascal's shoes and belts for 156 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: not money, I'll have me. Then. 157 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: I loved Also when Mark was talking in German and 158 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 2: the end he wanted a kiss, and then she said, 159 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: you should have asked me sooner. 160 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: I know. And Joe did a great job. My son 161 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: is fluent in German, so I had a little cheat there. 162 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: I knew what he was saying, I knew what exactly. 163 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: But how great was she? She really was pretty able 164 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: to she did good. I don't know. I think I 165 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: think this is a great season. I think Joan is 166 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: making us proud, She's making the Golden People proud. She 167 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: is handling herself with such dignity and grace and being 168 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: so kind all the men and Joan, if you're listening, 169 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 1: so proud of you and all you guys. Susan and 170 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: I will put our numbers up. Very simple. 171 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: Just stay tuned to our podcast. 172 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: That's right. 173 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: No, I absolutely love the whole evening, and as you said, 174 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: she did a fabulous, fabulous job. I did feel for 175 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: some of the people that went home. They weren't really 176 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 2: ready but can stay. Yeah, I mean, I remember in 177 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: our season when we said goodbye to the first batch. 178 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: But however, Kat, if you remember that first week when 179 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: they left, we had three less people in our bedroom. 180 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: I know, but don't you think don't you think that 181 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: just like when we left, we left stronger and more confident. 182 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 1: I feel like those guys did too. I think it 183 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: helped get to the show. It's one you have that experience. 184 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: You definitely gained something. Yes, yes, I can't wait till I. 185 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 2: Can't wait for next week, I know, and I can't 186 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 2: wait for more one on ones. That's when you really 187 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 2: see people and they tell their story. 188 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: But don't you wait a minute. But Susan, don't you 189 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: feel like last night's episode lest I can't tell time, 190 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: which is always a possibility. It was two hours and 191 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: I thought it was two hours. Maybe it wasn't our 192 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be an hour. Name I know, but 193 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 1: I again, I have trouble, you know, if it's not digital, 194 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 1: and I remember, I'm struggling here. But I think one 195 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: of the great things about Jones season, on top of 196 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 1: all these handsome, wonderful guys and and watching Joan, is 197 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: that we're getting to know all the guys much faster 198 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 1: and better, right because there's more time. 199 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, what we see more, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, 200 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 2: we see more. I don't know that they have longer 201 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 2: time than we did as they sit for those few 202 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 2: minutes when they get to chat. I don't know if 203 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 2: that's long. 204 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm just saying exactly what you said the 205 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: first time. We're getting to see more Jones interactions with 206 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: the guys, and so I feel like I'm getting to 207 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: know them better. 208 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: Did you also notice who's coming on next show? 209 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 1: Gary? 210 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 2: Are Gary? 211 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: Okay? So there's been a lot of stuff on social 212 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: you know, do you think he's going to try to 213 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: rip Joan back? Or I think absolutely not. I think 214 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 1: he's just going to support her. 215 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 2: I mean, he's our buddy. You know, we made friends 216 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 2: instantly and we still are. 217 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: Okay, but still I want the Gucci loafers, belts and sneakers. 218 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 1: But it's been it's been a great two weeks. You 219 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: can't wait for the next one. 220 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I'm excited. And I loved her fashion. You know, 221 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 2: how about her coming out of the Limma with the 222 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: d white with the tool on both sides for prom night, 223 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,079 Speaker 2: and then she did her Disney blue you know in 224 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 2: Disney World. 225 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: That was so she looks she did look like a prince. 226 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: She can wear anything. Hello, she can wear any. 227 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: She can do anything. We hate you, Joan, No, we don't. 228 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: We love you. 229 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 2: We love you unbelievably so. But we wish you all 230 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 2: the very best and we look forward to next week. 231 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: All right, Susan, it's time for a question of the day. 232 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Boy? Are you ready? No? 233 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: Oh wait, it's not the game. Yes, sure, I'm ready 234 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 2: for the question. 235 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: There we go. 236 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: Okay, The question is what does being a good parent 237 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 2: mean to you? 238 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 1: You know, for me being a good parent, you'd have 239 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: to say, now, you have to put a time limit 240 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: on it, because being a good parent for me when 241 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: my children were young was making sure they were well fed, 242 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: got enough sleep, kept safe, exposed them to lots of 243 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:29,079 Speaker 1: cultural things, books, making sure they were learning things in school, 244 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: all those things that you do for young children. But 245 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: I will tell you now, and I have adult children 246 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: and I have two grandchildren, I think being a good 247 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: parent to me now means listening to my kids and 248 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 1: just being there for them and not solving their problems 249 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: for them as we do. You know, we have to 250 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: evolve as parents. We solve all their problems when they're young. 251 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: When they get older, our job is to listen and 252 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 1: just be a support system for them. What about you. 253 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 2: I agree with everything you say, and I also feel 254 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 2: good parenting is loving your kids and like you said, 255 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 2: keeping them safe, getting them an education, just healthy, clean teaching, 256 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 2: teaching them what they're going to pass on so they 257 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 2: could be good parents. What we instill in our kids. 258 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 2: Although I was in eat freak always and not all 259 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 2: of them are in eat freak, so you know I 260 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 2: still do. 261 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: I still do love to remind you of the time 262 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: you were sweeping up the table while I was still eating. 263 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: You know, it's funny when you talk about that when 264 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: I am, I think if I could do it over, 265 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 1: like most things, I would be. I have great, three 266 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: great kids, but I think I would be a better 267 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 1: parent now because they. 268 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 2: Didn't come with instructions. I know. 269 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: Well, it's just that you and I. I know you 270 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,079 Speaker 1: and I've talked about this. We both have three kids. 271 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: We have great kids, but we have learned what's important 272 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: and what isn't. And so all the things that I 273 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: was so or were important with my kids, they just aren't. 274 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I laugh when I think I'm also a 275 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 1: neat freak. I used to make my kids clean up 276 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 1: their rooms. And I walked in Kyle's room one time, 277 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 1: and uh, I told them all to clean the room, 278 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: and Kyle came out. I was said, you know, uh, 279 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: be a smart be smart Kyle. He would come out 280 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: after five minutes and tell me the room was clean, 281 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 1: and I would go in him it was, well, it 282 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: was clean, Susan, it was spotless until you looked under 283 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: the bed and open the closet doors. It just all 284 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: came floating. So then I would, you know, throw everything 285 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: out in the hallway and make them start over. So, 286 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: you know, do I care? Would I care now so much? Nah, 287 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: I wouldn't care. 288 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: I know, I hope I was a good parent. I 289 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: think I was. I know we all love each other. 290 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: Would you well, I love my children, I do agree 291 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: with Would I do some things different, yes, definitely, But 292 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: you know what I think of our kids. I never 293 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: really felt that loved as a child. I know my 294 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: three kids are totally love and would feel would say 295 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: that that they. 296 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 2: Were absolutely absolutely all. 297 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: Right, let's get into these fan questions. You want to 298 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: take the first one? 299 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 2: Sure, Okay, this is an anonymous Hello, golden ladies. I've 300 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 2: got what I believe is a pretty unique question for you. 301 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 2: At the start of this year, I was laid off 302 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: from a company i'd worked at for over seven years, 303 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:32,119 Speaker 2: and have since launched a metaphysical podcast and more recently 304 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 2: started my own psychic reading business. It's been a major 305 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 2: period of growth and self exploration. Hold on the questions 306 00:15:48,560 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 2: I have stems from a longtime friend who has not 307 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 2: been supportive of this journey. For context, we met sophomore 308 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 2: year of college through a sorority and have been friends 309 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 2: for eleven years. I was a bridesmaid in her wedding 310 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 2: as well. We've always had different beliefs, but it's never 311 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 2: gotten in the way of our friendship until now. Back 312 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: in April, a few weeks after my pod launched, we 313 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: got lunch and she told me she hadn't listened. Her 314 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 2: conflicting beliefs have made her afraid of my content. I 315 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 2: calmly explained that psychic readings aren't like that, and the 316 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: first few episodes of our show focused on intuitive experiences 317 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: we've had, mostly predating our friendships, astrology, and human design. 318 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 2: I kept it together as we changed the subject, but 319 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: my heart completely sank. I knew this friendship was or 320 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 2: soon twould be, at a fork in the road where 321 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: either she accepted me or I had to end our relationship. 322 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 2: Needless to say, I cried on the drive home and 323 00:16:57,160 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: felt devastated. Fast forward till now. My podcast has continued 324 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 2: and I launched my business in June. We haven't spoken 325 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 2: at all. Normally, one or the other of us would 326 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: reach out to meet in person or do a FaceTime 327 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:16,199 Speaker 2: to catch up. I've been reevaluating all of my friendships 328 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 2: and how I approach dating to set better boundaries where 329 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 2: I'm not always the person to reach out. That shift, 330 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 2: in tandem with being busy, has resulted in the months 331 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 2: absolutely flying by. My question is should I A reach 332 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: out to her and act normal and just see if 333 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 2: she says anything about what I'm up to and go 334 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:43,719 Speaker 2: from there, or B reach out and directly bring up 335 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:47,719 Speaker 2: my concerns, or see continue doing my own thing and 336 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 2: see if she eventually comes to me in her own time. 337 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 2: I so appreciate getting your perspectives on this. 338 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: Also. 339 00:17:55,840 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 2: I'm from Massachusetts and love hearing Kathy represent much love 340 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: to you both. I really enjoy your show. Oh thank you, Anonymous. 341 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 2: That was a lot of information. 342 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: That was a lot of information, Anonymous. I love that 343 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: you're from Massachusetts. Yeah. I always love to hear from 344 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 1: a fellow Massachuset. I don't even know what the noun 345 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: is anyway. I don't know a Massachusetts site. I don't 346 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: know what that is. Anyway. Let me say, Anonymous, you 347 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: gave me three choices, gave us three choices. Here's what 348 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: I would say to you. The months are flying by 349 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: for you, so you're clearly happy in what you're doing, 350 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: and sometimes in life, we all make choices. In your case, 351 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: it's your podcast and your business, and you seem completely 352 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: involved and thoroughly happy with your decision. So I would 353 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: say to you, you can wait, or you can reach 354 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: out to your friend, or you can do nothing. Here's 355 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: the point. Your friend is entitled to believe and feel 356 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: the way she does, just as you are. And sometimes, 357 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 1: as Susan likes to say, people come into our lives 358 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: for a reason, and I say, people come into our 359 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: lives for a reason and a season. So maybe this 360 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: time is up for you. We're involving this friendship. But 361 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,719 Speaker 1: just accept that not everyone's going to agree with you, 362 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: and you sometimes have to go on your own journey 363 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: in your own road. 364 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,399 Speaker 2: What do you think, Susan, It sounds to me like 365 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 2: she has moved on and doing her own thing and 366 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: she's healthy for it. But you, like, just like in relationships, 367 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 2: you have to agree to disagree. Not everybody believes what 368 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 2: you believe or shares the likeness for what you're doing. 369 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,919 Speaker 2: And that's okay. I know it probably stung because she 370 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 2: was your friend and you wanted everybody to be happy 371 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 2: for you and so on. I get it, but like 372 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 2: Kathy said, the three things, at the end, that's only 373 00:19:56,800 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 2: your choice. Me personally, I would probably think about it 374 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: from time to time, but I would keep moving forward. 375 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, at the end of the day, your life is 376 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: your life and it's your journey, and we both wish 377 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: you the best in your business and your podcast as 378 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: fellow podcasters. Congratulations to you and hope only to do. 379 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 2: A reading for us. 380 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so good lucking out? Question all right? Question number two, 381 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: Casey writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan. I am really enjoying 382 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 1: your episodes and advice on the podcast and could really 383 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: use your perspective. I am twenty three years old and 384 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 1: I recently got into a relationship with someone five years 385 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: older than I. We met on a dating app and 386 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: I am his first relationship and sexual partner. I have 387 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: been in relationships previously and had a self proclaimed hoe 388 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: phase while I was in college. Whoa that I've been 389 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: with other men, But early on in dating I didn't 390 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: share just how many partners I have had. Now that 391 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: we're in a relationship and are hooking up with each other, 392 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 1: I'm scared to bring it up. Do I have to 393 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,879 Speaker 1: tell him the exact number? Or is this something we 394 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: can gloss over? Thank you so much and I can't 395 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: wait to hear your. 396 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: Thoughts, Casey, darling. Unless he's putting pressure on you, yeah, 397 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 2: keep your mouth shut. 398 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm sorry, Susan. Even if he's putting pressure on her. 399 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 2: This was her past. Yes, he don't tell, Yeah, you don't. 400 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 2: That's going to make him overthink things and think. And 401 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 2: he doesn't have to know you had your hoe face either. 402 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: Yeah. See, I'm stuck, Casey on maybe this is my 403 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 1: age and I don't know where you'll go with Susan. 404 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:54,200 Speaker 1: But I don't like the fact, Casey, that you called 405 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: it your hoe face. I don't like that that tells 406 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: me that you tell it. I could be wrong, but 407 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: I said that you're not respectful of yourself. You don't 408 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 1: respect yourself or you didn't back then. And that's a 409 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: much greater concern to me than whether or not you 410 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: tell your boyfriend if it was eight, ten or one 411 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 1: hundred sexual partners you've had. It's none of his business. 412 00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:22,680 Speaker 1: A it's only his business if you're having sexual partners 413 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 1: with other men besides the guy you're dating. 414 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,879 Speaker 2: And she says, I'm scared to bring it up. So 415 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 2: he's obviously not even questioning it, so leave well enough alone. Yeah, 416 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 2: And I've been because gloss Over, I've had these conversations 417 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 2: with my girlfriends and like you, know how many partners, 418 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,680 Speaker 2: and I was blown away by some of my friends, like, ah, what, 419 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 2: you know what, I didn't judge them for that. 420 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, well she's judging herself soon like that. 421 00:22:54,920 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: So Casey, if you found a great guy, stick with that, meaning, relish, 422 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 1: revel in the fact that you found a really great guy. 423 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: He's five years older, he's got a little more experience. 424 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: Maybe he's the guy for you, Maybe he isn't. I 425 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: would say, you got a lot of life left to 426 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: live before you settle down with one guy. But don't 427 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 1: worry about your past. 428 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:18,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but the. 429 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: Past is what teaches you how to live your future. 430 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 2: That's right, and we wish you luck, all right. Question 431 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 2: number three, Alicia writes, Hi, first of all, I love 432 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 2: listening to your podcast. My husband and I are planning 433 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: a trip to Italy to celebrate our ten year wedding anniversary. 434 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 2: We have three children, ages three, five, and seven. It's 435 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 2: been two years since my husband and I have had 436 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: a trip away alone. I know it will be good 437 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 2: for our marriage, but I am feeling very anxious and 438 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 2: guilty about leaving our kids for eight nights and going 439 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 2: that far away. Is going on this trip a bad idea. 440 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,639 Speaker 2: Please give me any advice. Thank you. Oh my gush, 441 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 2: it's so good. You need to do this for the 442 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 2: kids as well. 443 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 1: So, Alicia, I would say to you, Uh, you know 444 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: my kids. My daughter doesn't like to leave her daughter 445 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 1: at all, but she'll leave it with me. I guess 446 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 1: I would ask you, Alicia, who are you leaving your 447 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: kids with? If you're going to living with your mom 448 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 1: or a sister, a family member, that's great. I will 449 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: say to the first trip my husband and I took away. 450 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: We were living in Texas and we went to Hawaii 451 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: and some friends kept our We only had one child 452 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: at the time. I cried pulling away from the curb 453 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: for about thirty seconds. Uh, it was the best thing 454 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 1: we ever did. You'll have a blast. Are you going 455 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 1: to miss your kids? Yes, you'll be fine. 456 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: And you'll go buying them things over there, and you'll 457 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 2: be thinking, and then you're both going to look at 458 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 2: each other as you sleep in and go, oh my god, 459 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 2: this is nice. 460 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna you have a great time. And you 461 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: know what brings up something that we've talked about before. 462 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 1: You have three young kids and they take a ton 463 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: of time and energy, but you know what needs time 464 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: and energy. Your marriage and relationships take time and energy, 465 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: So give yourself the gift of this time to spend 466 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: with your husband. Go, relax, enjoy yourself. You'll come back 467 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: being in a better place in your marriage, and if 468 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: it's good now, it'll be even better when you come back, 469 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: and you'll also come back a better parent. It's a 470 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 1: win win, Alicia. 471 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 2: To answer your question, No, this trip is not a 472 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 2: bad idea at all. 473 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,720 Speaker 1: And have a great time and let us right but 474 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 1: send us supposed card. Yeah really, I just got back 475 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: from Italy. You're going to have great time. All right. 476 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 1: Let's move on to question for Hi, Kathy and Susan. 477 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:07,239 Speaker 1: I've been really stressed out about this situation and I 478 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: really think you guys could give me some sound advice. 479 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 1: My friend started seeing someone new a few months ago, 480 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: and I really like them together. She had a tough 481 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: past with dating, so I'm really glad she's with someone 482 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 1: that's really kind and respectful. But I'm starting to worry 483 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: that she's about to ruin this relationship. Sorry if I'm 484 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: being too vague trying to stay anonymous. Basically, he'll do 485 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 1: things like forget to text her or we'll show up 486 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 1: to parties late, all because he has a really stressful job. 487 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 1: Even though she's able to talk herself out of assuming 488 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 1: the worst like cheating, she still gets really upset because 489 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: it brings her back to when her exes were cheating, 490 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: but blame things on work. I want to give her advice, 491 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: but here's my question, since it's so early on in 492 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: their relationship, is it worth me telling her to work 493 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:03,239 Speaker 1: on it or is this just a circumstantial incompatibility. She 494 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: definitely still needs to heal, but she's working so hard 495 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 1: at it and her emotions just need to catch up. 496 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 1: She really likes him, but his job won't stop being 497 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: demanding anytime soon. He's in finance, so it's honestly, she 498 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 1: either learns to deal with it or she deals with 499 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,399 Speaker 1: these feelings single. What do you think makes more sense? 500 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: He's patient and understanding, but I know it adds stress 501 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,959 Speaker 1: to his plate as well when he gets tied up 502 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 1: at work and can't immediately communicate with her. Oh boy, 503 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 1: that's a lot. 504 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I think if you really love your girlfriend, 505 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:42,639 Speaker 2: you pull her aside and tell her exactly what you 506 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 2: see that she's doing and she needs to get some 507 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 2: help by herself not share it with him, because she 508 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 2: could very well ruin this relationship and she's hurting herself 509 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 2: because I get not trusting and you got to be 510 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,199 Speaker 2: careful and all that. You got to take chances in life, 511 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 2: and you don't want to be the one to blow 512 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:06,439 Speaker 2: it because you had a pass that somebody did wrong 513 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 2: to you. That doesn't mean this man's going to do wrong. 514 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,199 Speaker 2: So I would go see a therapist or talk to 515 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 2: your girlfriends or whatever you need to do. 516 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: And well, this is her, Susan, this is her friend. 517 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 2: That's going to but I want her to tell her thish, gotcha. 518 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,959 Speaker 1: So I think that's really sound advice. I totally agree. 519 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: I think though that Anonymous, you have to be careful. 520 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: It's a fine line between inserting your will and your 521 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: ideas on what you think she should be doing and 522 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: making suggestions of you know, I was looking at your 523 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: da da da, and I think, why don't you think 524 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: about this, think about that. You have to be careful, 525 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: not to be too judgy, and not too pushy if 526 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: you will, about what you want to do. But I 527 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 1: think your heart is absolutely in the right place, and 528 00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: I agree with Susan, she needs to go on, that's 529 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: your girlfriend. Yeah, and she does need to learn how 530 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: to trust. And I agree with Susan, she probably needs 531 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: some therapy, some professional help to do that, because you 532 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: know what, a relationship without trust is going absolutely nowherewhere 533 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: and you're smart a relationship. 534 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,360 Speaker 2: Yes, thanks for writing into us, and we wish your 535 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 2: girlfriend lots of lots. 536 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: Let us know. Hopefully she'll get the help she needs. 537 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 2: Oh no, Kathy, do you see what's noting? 538 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Everybody do it. We are going to 539 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: play Kathy's favorite game and Susan's least favorite game. It's 540 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: called moral Quandary. We set it up where one of 541 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: us reads a prompt and then we have to guess 542 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: what the other one would do. Susan loves to say 543 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 1: what she would do, so I'm going to remind her 544 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: once again. You're going to guess what I would do. 545 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: So I'm going to start us off and you are 546 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 1: going to guess what I I would say or do. 547 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 1: Two of your friends are getting married. On the day 548 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 1: of the wedding, the groom goes m Ia for hours, 549 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: but after a lot of talking inventing, his nerves calm 550 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: down and he returns before the ceremony begins, the bride 551 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: is clueless the entire time and asks you why you 552 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: seem so stressed out? Do you ever tell her about 553 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 1: this or keep it a secret? What would I do? 554 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 2: Susan, You wouldn't say anything. 555 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: Ever. 556 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 2: They're not asking me ever. They're asking me the day 557 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,719 Speaker 2: of the wedding. 558 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:45,120 Speaker 1: No, it says, do you ever tell her about this? 559 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: Or do I keep it a secret? Do you think 560 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: I might tell her? Or you don't think I ever would? 561 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 2: No? I don't think she needs to know that. 562 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: You know what I would do probably sit what's the 563 00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: movie where the girl's in love with the same guy 564 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: and and she runs away to the bus station. I'd 565 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 1: probably take my friend and sit down and watch that 566 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: movie and see what a reaction was. Then I would 567 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 1: decide if I was gonna tell her? 568 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 2: What about me? You don't answer that one yet. 569 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna no I am. I'm going to say I. 570 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 1: I don't think you would tell her. I think you 571 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 1: would let it lie. Yeah, I think you already said that. 572 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 2: I don't think good could come out of that. 573 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean they're already married. That's just going to 574 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: stress up for the wedding. Yeah, he's there. I mean, 575 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure. 576 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 2: She's gonna hear it, like, oh my god, he wasn't 577 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: he was late, and then she's going to ask him. 578 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: It's just going to start. 579 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Would it have changed it, would 580 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 1: she not have married him? So you know what I'm saying. 581 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: They're already married. So uh, you know, like I said, 582 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: I would take a humorous approach, and humorous approach and 583 00:31:58,720 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 1: all right, all right. 584 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 2: The next one, you get out of your car after 585 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 2: arriving at work, and as you walk to your office, 586 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 2: you see someone pull out of a parking spot and 587 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 2: hit a parked car, leaving a huge debt. Before speeding off, 588 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 2: the driver makes eye contact with you and shrugs. You 589 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,960 Speaker 2: then notice they're leaving a reserved parking spot with their 590 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 2: name on it. You discover it's your boss's boss. There's 591 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 2: no cameras, and you have no idea who the damaged 592 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 2: car belongs to. 593 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: What do you do? I think you would probably write 594 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 1: down the license number and put it on their windshield, 595 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: but not put your name on it. 596 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 2: I'd have to tell somebody. 597 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: But the question is you wait, we haven't. Don't guess 598 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: about me yet? Finish with you? I gave you. I 599 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 1: So you're saying you would not let the person know. 600 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 2: No, I would, but indiscreetly. 601 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: Well, how are you gonna let him know? Indiscreetly? 602 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 2: I'd tell somebody else that would tell. 603 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 1: Oh, so you'd pass the buck? What what do you 604 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: think I would do. 605 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 2: What you said, take the license plate and leave it. 606 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: On the I want to believe I would do that. 607 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 2: I would probably even think of that. 608 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 1: It's but when you know it's your boss's boss. Yeah, 609 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: I you know. I want to believe that I am 610 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: ethical and that I would just write the license number 611 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: down and leave it at that. Yeah, all right, let's 612 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 1: do the next one. You meet a really great guy 613 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 1: and begin dating. Oh. I like to start of this, 614 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 1: don't you. You quickly learned that he is a widower 615 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: and has two children in their twenties. After almost eight months, 616 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: you realize his kids have no idea you exist. You 617 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: talk about it with your boyfriend, and he reveals that 618 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 1: his last relationship ended because she wasn't kind to his kids, 619 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: and his relationship with his kids took a hard hit 620 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,720 Speaker 1: from it. He says he'll tell them about you quote 621 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: when he's ready unquote. 622 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 2: How do you proceed eight months. I would have dealt 623 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 2: with that. Oh what would you do? 624 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Susan, I caught myself. 625 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 2: You didn't even catch it. I did see that. 626 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: Oh no I did. I was waiting for you to 627 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,160 Speaker 1: do it. You go ahead, What would I do? 628 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 2: You would have a conversation about it. You would say, 629 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,359 Speaker 2: it's been eight months. I would think he would meet 630 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 2: the children be probably by six months. 631 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,080 Speaker 1: So this actually happened to me with the guy I 632 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 1: did and you know who we're talking about, and he 633 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,840 Speaker 1: was exactly the opposite. He wanted me to meet his 634 00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: kids right away, and I was like, nope, nope. I 635 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: think in this case, knowing me and the kind of 636 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:09,359 Speaker 1: person I am, I would have already if it were 637 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 1: if this relationship were going anywhere, I'd have already met 638 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: his kids before it once. And I think that's exactly 639 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: what you would do. You would have already met the 640 00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: kids or that's right, definitely. 641 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 2: Okay. You're hosting a brunch at your house with homemade 642 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:28,320 Speaker 2: bloody Mary's. Someone accidentally spilled a ton of the bloody 643 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 2: mary mix, so you're very low on the most popular 644 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 2: drink at the party. You bring one over to a 645 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:40,440 Speaker 2: guest of yours that you didn't realize was vegetarian, and 646 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 2: there's bacon on the garnish. After taking a sip, they 647 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 2: apologize and ask if they could have a brand new 648 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 2: one without the bacon. With little despair, a friend recommends 649 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 2: just taking the bacon out and giving it back to them. 650 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 1: What do you do? What you would do? Yeah? You 651 00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: take them give it right back to him. Am I right? 652 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 1: What would I do? 653 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 2: You don't have to have the bacon? Well, what you 654 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 2: would say? I have none left? I'll take the bacon out. 655 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 1: No, I would say, if there's enough for another drink? 656 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: I would say, who wants this drink with the bacon? 657 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: And I got to make one without the bacon right now? 658 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 1: That's also no brighter? Like you know all right? You're 659 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 1: redecorating your home. When a friend with a very successful 660 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:30,439 Speaker 1: handmade furniture business offered to make you a custom coffee table, 661 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:34,400 Speaker 1: you only declined due to the price, despite getting a 662 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 1: hefty discount, and your friend completely understood. Later that week, 663 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: you passed by a big competitor of your friend's business 664 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: and fell in love with the coffee table in the window. 665 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 1: Priced a little higher than your friend's offer. You really 666 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: want to buy it, but you worry your friend will 667 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,320 Speaker 1: ask about it the next time they are over. What 668 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: do you do? Susan buys the coffee table and says, 669 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:57,960 Speaker 1: stuff it if you don't like it. 670 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say that, but I would buy the one 671 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 2: I wanted. 672 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: Of course you would. What would I do? So we 673 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 1: do absolutely absolutely, And you know what people need to 674 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 1: learn that your friend's business. You wish them well. You 675 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: hope that they, you know, make a great business and 676 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 1: sell lots of furniture. That doesn't mean you have to 677 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:22,320 Speaker 1: buy their furniture. 678 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 2: It doesn't. It doesn't. And I probably like feel odd 679 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 2: when they came over, But why because I didn't buy 680 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 2: it from them. 681 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: It's a different coffee table. It's a different coffee table. 682 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,880 Speaker 1: It is it is anyway, that's a new brainer too. 683 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 1: They were easy ones today. I passed everybody out there. 684 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: You hear that, Susan, You are really you are marketing 685 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 1: it up here. I am impressed. And that is going 686 00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 1: to do it. We're going to end it on that 687 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 1: happy note, Susan. That ends this episode of Bachelor Happy 688 00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,040 Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour. 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