1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice, Daisy. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 3: Welcome back to Dirty Rush. 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 4: We're continuing our conversation with influencers who lived the sorority 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 4: experience firsthand, bringing down what rush was really like, the 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 4: moments that surprised them the most, and what they wish 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 4: they'd known going in. 9 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 2: Hi, Chloe, Hi, So where did you go to school? 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 4: So? 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 5: I went to Syracuse University? 12 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, what sorority were you in? 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: I was in stt Okay, fun, that was the sorority. 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 2: When I was at Rutgers. 15 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, they seem really cool, but like 16 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah. 17 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 5: So different, like every chapter is so different at every school. 18 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: I loved it. Oh that's great. So what was your 19 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 2: Rush process? 20 00:00:58,480 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 6: Like? 21 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 2: So? 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 5: I was so nervous because I knew absolutely nothing about sororities, 23 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 5: or especially sororities at Syracuse before going into Rush. I 24 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,559 Speaker 5: didn't even know like what the sororities were, anything about 25 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 5: it really, and the only research I did was like 26 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 5: look on social media. So before going into RUSH, I 27 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 5: had like kind of narrowed it down to like a 28 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 5: few houses that you know, like looked cool online that 29 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 5: I could like see myself in, but I went in 30 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 5: like totally blind, and honestly, the process was pretty good. 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 5: Like I was so nervous, but it was like just 32 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 5: talking to like like girls and friends and you know, 33 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 5: having conversations. 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 2: And yeah, I. 35 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 5: Well, so I like went in like kind of knowing 36 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 5: like what my top house was. Like literally the first 37 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 5: day RUSH, I fell in love with this house and 38 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 5: it totally switched by the end of. 39 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 6: RUSH and I went a different house. 40 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 5: But literally up until the last round, preference round, I 41 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 5: was like, I'm going this house and then everything changed 42 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 5: and there's like a lot that went into that. 43 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, like what was like the main reasons kind 44 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 4: of that you did that? Like spitch you think. 45 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, So basically so I was obsessed with this. 46 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 5: House and I was talking to I think it was 47 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 5: like after preference round, I was honestly like totally conflicted. 48 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 5: I didn't know which house I wanted to go, and 49 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 5: I was like talking to my friends, which they say, 50 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 5: don't talk to your friends about it because it's your process, 51 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 5: your decision. And one of my friends had told me 52 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 5: that the one house that I like really wanted their 53 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 5: nationals had told them that they only wanted me for 54 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:58,399 Speaker 5: my social media followers, Oh yeah, which was literally crazy. 55 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: So going into school, how many followers did you have? 56 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 5: I think I had around like three hundred thousand on 57 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 5: TikTok okay, like around twenty thousand Instagram. 58 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: But you still had a pretty you had a pretty 59 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: big following on TikTok. 60 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, and it was more than like other girls that 61 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:16,519 Speaker 5: I was. 62 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: Of course, so people probably did know you going into 63 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: like going into the rush process. I mean they also 64 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: check your background, They look at absolutely everything, They know 65 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: exactly who you are. And then were you also nervous 66 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: that some sororities would want you also because of knowing 67 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: your sister's following. 68 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 5: Honestly, I was never worried about that. That's a great question, 69 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 5: but I don't think that like ever came across my mind. 70 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 5: But if anything, I thought that maybe would help. Like 71 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 5: I don't know, that sounds horrible, but also like there 72 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 5: was a my sister was in a sorority at a 73 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 5: different school, and when I was rushing and talking to 74 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 5: those girls, I was like, oh, like my sister was 75 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 5: actually in the sorority. 76 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 6: She loved it, and then they dropped. 77 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: To me, Wow, and that's like not even allowed, Like, 78 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: but I should have been able to have legacy going 79 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: into that sorority because your sister was in it. 80 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 6: Yeah. 81 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't like love the conversations I was having anyways, 82 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 5: but I was surprised. 83 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 6: I thought that it would help. 84 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 2: But yeah, wow. 85 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: So then yeah, so then you were talking to your friends, 86 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: they told you that this one sorority was interested in 87 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: your following. 88 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, so then how did that how did you navigate 89 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 2: the rest of that experience? 90 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 5: Well, there was also so there was that. And then 91 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 5: also during my preference round, I had spoken to this 92 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 5: girl who I absolutely fell in love with, like I 93 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 5: was obsessed with her. I saw her as like she 94 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 5: could be like a true sister to me, Like I 95 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 5: really looked up to her, and she just a lot 96 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 5: of the girls that I spoke to at the house 97 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 5: that I ended up going just seemed a lot more 98 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 5: genuine and real to me. And like, reflecting back, I 99 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 5: was like, honestly, like, I don't I don't want to 100 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 5: go a house where I feel like I have to 101 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 5: put on a face for them, Like I want to 102 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 5: go where I feel comfortable and a lot of my 103 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,559 Speaker 5: decision came into like I want to see this girl 104 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 5: on mid day because I'm obsessed with her. I'm obsessed 105 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 5: with these other girls that I spoke to. And also 106 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 5: obviously I don't want to go a house that would 107 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 5: say that, like that's that's disgusting, that's horrible. 108 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: I don't want. 109 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 6: Anything to do with that. 110 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, did you meet a lot of girls that were 111 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 4: like in that sorority throughout your like college time. 112 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 5: I wasn't really friends with a lot of them, especially 113 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 5: after I chose the other house. A lot of those 114 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 5: girls were like really mean to me after, Like they 115 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 5: would like see me out like the older girls, and 116 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 5: they would like make faces or curse at me, Like literally, wow, 117 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 5: crazy stuff. 118 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: You didn't end up in that one though, I know, 119 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 2: And that's bizarre. Literally, I mean clearly they were just 120 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 2: salty because you picked the other house, But to also 121 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 2: act like that, it's like, grow up. 122 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, thank god I made the right decision, made. 123 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 2: The right decision. 124 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: And also like they're very aware of how sorority rush works. 125 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: And that's the whole thing about frown, where you have 126 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: your top two houses and you make a decision, so 127 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 1: it's a fifty to fifty chance that she's not going 128 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: to go with you, and you just need to just 129 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 1: like it's a fifty to fifty chance that the rest 130 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: of the girls that you're picking are not going to 131 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: choose you. 132 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 2: So that's crazy. 133 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, sorry, that happened. 134 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 2: It's not the end of the. 135 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 6: World, like to die over it. 136 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 2: Were you in SDT all four years? Yes? 137 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 5: I was, and I loved it involved. Yeah, I knew 138 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 5: that I wanted to be involved like from the beginning 139 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 5: just because I don't know, I always loved like kind 140 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 5: of being a leader in those types of settings. So 141 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 5: I did. I was the rush chair twice my sophomore 142 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 5: year and then my senior year. And I also like 143 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 5: did the social media. Yeah, so I know, I know 144 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 5: all of the all of the inside scoop and being 145 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 5: a rush share. 146 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what can you tell us? 147 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: What is a misconception about rush? 148 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 2: What do you think? 149 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 6: Oh? 150 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 151 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 4: Was there anything that like shocked you when you were 152 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 4: rush shair? 153 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 5: Yes, like basically you know, like every single girl before 154 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 5: they come into the house, like you, like we had 155 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 5: like all the houses had lists of all the girls 156 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 5: like with a picture their hometown, who they're friends with. 157 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: They're literally doing a background check on you. 158 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, and it felt wrong, but like it was 159 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 5: also fun. 160 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: Like like it was like, Okay, I'm getting all the 161 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: tea before they're even walking in. 162 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 5: There's a lot of like we we had to pair 163 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 5: up each girl individually with a girl in our house, 164 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 5: so we'd have to like figure out who would vibe 165 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 5: with who based on literally pictures, which is awful, but 166 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 5: that's kind of how it works. And obviously you're not 167 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 5: supposed to like pair up girls together. It's supposed to 168 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 5: be random, but like most of the houses do it 169 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 5: that way. 170 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 2: Did you also gauge your audience into sorority life once 171 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: you got to school? Kind of? 172 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 5: I feel like when I got into a sorority, I 173 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 5: like wasn't really posting that much because there's so many 174 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 5: rules and you have to be careful of like what 175 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 5: you post. And that's something that I didn't love about 176 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 5: being in a sorority at first, because like you couldn't 177 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 5: post certain things, you couldn't say certain things, and so 178 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 5: I kind of had to keep a lot of it 179 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 5: like private. But I don't no, I didn't really speak 180 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 5: on social media about like soarty life until honestly, I 181 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 5: graduated because I felt more like free and like. 182 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: I was like, and you were also on like the 183 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: EC committee, like you had like you were on EXAC, 184 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: you had roles in your sorority. So it's not like 185 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: you wanted. You probably did never want, wanted to say 186 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: the wrong thing. But now that you're graduated, you're like, 187 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm free. 188 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, And I didn't want people and other sorties to 189 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 5: like talk about about me or hate me for saying 190 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 5: these things. Yeah, but now I'm free and I'm like, 191 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 5: you know what, like it. 192 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 2: Was just a soorty, it was just a sorority. Yeah. 193 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: But did you leave with friends that you still have today? 194 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 5: Yes, of course, I have so many friends in my sorority. 195 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 6: I love. 196 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 5: I still keep in contact with all the older girls, 197 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 5: all the younger girls, And that is my favorite thing 198 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 5: about being an assorty, like all the people that you meet, 199 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 5: and I love being able to have older friends and 200 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 5: younger friends. And also like with Swarty fans, you get 201 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 5: super close with them. And also half of my so 202 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 5: my friend group now literally my friend group is the 203 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 5: same from a freshman year of. 204 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 6: College to now. 205 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 5: It's ten of us, five of us went at one 206 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 5: house and the other five one another house, and we're 207 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 5: still all like best friends. 208 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 4: That's exactly how mine was. 209 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 2: Really Yeah. 210 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, And everybody warns you like your friends will change, 211 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 5: which is usually true, but surprisingly we all stay together. 212 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 2: Oh that's great. 213 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: Well, Chloe, thank you so much for coming on and 214 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 1: telling your story on Dirty Rush. 215 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 6: Hey Chloe, Hi, how are you? 216 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: How are you? 217 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 6: I'm good, I'm good. I'm so excited to be here. 218 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 6: Thank you for thinking of me. 219 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 2: So tell us where'd you go to school? 220 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 1: What? 221 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: So already did you end up in? Okay? 222 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 6: So Syracuse A five very classic Jewish girl from New 223 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 6: York went to Syracuse the Jewish Sorority. 224 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. And you have a podcast, right, 225 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 2: I do. 226 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 6: It's called We Met at Summer Camp. I co hosted 227 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 6: actually with my best friend who I met at sleep 228 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 6: Boy camp and also she went to Syracuse, so we 229 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 6: were like camp and college. 230 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 5: So we have a lot to talk about. And yeah, 231 00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 5: we're hoping to start our. 232 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 6: Second season at the end of the month, so I'm 233 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 6: really excited. 234 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: That's amazing And that's so cute that you get to 235 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: do with your best friend. 236 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 2: That's probably so fun. 237 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 6: It's so much fun. 238 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 2: Did you graduate already? 239 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm twenty four, So I graduated from Syracuse in 240 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 6: twenty three. 241 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 2: Okay wait same yeah, yeah, same. We're the same age, right. 242 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 6: I've stalked to you a little bit, we have. 243 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 3: Talk. 244 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 6: We're the same age. 245 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 4: That's so fun. And then on TikTok, you do like 246 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 4: some recruitment guides and yess right. 247 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 6: Yes, So I've spoken a lot at different universities, like 248 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 6: different hellales and student centers. So actually eighty five, like 249 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 6: my sorority the national Instagram, I guess had reached out 250 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 6: about doing a recruitment guide, so I kind of workshops 251 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 6: my recruitment guide. And I also have gained a lot 252 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 6: of traction on TikTok and Instagram for doing like rush 253 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 6: bag guides and you know what to wear for each 254 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 6: round guides. And I really liked doing it because I 255 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 6: think like when I rushed, I wouldn't have considered myself 256 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 6: like one of the cooler girls in the grade. Like 257 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 6: I was a theater kid. I was a theater major 258 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 6: in my freshman year. I did switch after freshman year, 259 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 6: but like I came in there being like yeah, like 260 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 6: studying drama, and I love broad Like I wasn't like 261 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 6: a cool girl by any means. And I also like 262 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 6: I was in the sorority, but I wasn't the most 263 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 6: hyper involved person. I wasn't, you know, so obsessed with it. 264 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 6: It wasn't my identity that said. I was always incredibly 265 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 6: observant and I loved my friends, and I was always thinking, like, 266 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 6: how can I help girls make joining a sorority the 267 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 6: most positive experience possible? And I've noticed that like a 268 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 6: lot of my following is like, you know, girls in 269 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 6: their late teens and early twenties who like this content. 270 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 6: And if I had had TikTok, because I rushed January 271 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 6: of twenty twenty when TikTok was like kind of first 272 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 6: becoming popular, and I was like, if I had had 273 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 6: like older girls doing recruitment guides, like I would have slayed. 274 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 6: I wouldn't have been nervous, I wouldn't worn Bretts in 275 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 6: my hair. 276 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 2: No, you did it. 277 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 6: So I was like, you know what, I would have 278 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 6: loved to have this, But yeah, I do a lot 279 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 6: of recruitment guides. It's really fun. 280 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: Wait, that's amazing. 281 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: So like it's like the dos and don'ts, like what 282 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: to wear and during recruitment, what to not wear, what 283 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: to expect during rush, like exactly, Yeah. 284 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 6: That's amazing to kind of do some like sketch parodies 285 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 6: of like the worst girls you'll meet during rush or 286 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 6: oh my gosh. 287 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: You're still bringing that theater kid out with these. 288 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 6: Absolutely, I initially like went viral from doing like pov 289 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 6: comedy content. I definitely bring out the theater kid from 290 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 6: time to time. 291 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: Oh I love that. That's amazing. But then, so, how 292 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: was your rush experience? Like, yes, you ended up in 293 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: Alpha FE and it was great, But how was that 294 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: experience for you? Because I know you're saying you went 295 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: into rush brush with barettes in your. 296 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: Hair, Like did you ever feel judged or was the 297 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 2: experience actually really positive for you? 298 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 6: So it was a fine not Alpha FE and they're. 299 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: Oh sorry, it's okay, I'm sorry, it's. 300 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, it's totally fine. Well, they're just they're 301 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 6: two different houses. Yeah. I definitely, like again, lacked a 302 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 6: certain level of confidence when I was a freshman in college. 303 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 6: I was definitely still a little bit like awkward and 304 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 6: hadn't come into myself yet, which you don't see on 305 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 6: social media at all. Girls who are freshmen like not 306 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 6: fully being like confident in knowing who they are. Yet 307 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 6: like I really didn't I knew going in that I 308 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 6: think I wanted to be in more of a Jewish 309 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 6: yeah already, I mean obviously, like they don't discriminate against 310 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 6: people who aren't Jewish, but typically a fine stt are 311 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 6: like founded on Jewish value and most of those houses 312 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 6: end up being primarily Jewish. I would say, my mom 313 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 6: was in a FI at Oneonta, so I knew I 314 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 6: was like a legacy for that house, and it was 315 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 6: just sort of a matter of like where I felt 316 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 6: more at home. When I did rush. It was really scary. 317 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 6: I didn't know a single person going in because my 318 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 6: freshman year I was a theater major, which was the 319 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 6: theater building was like a mile off campus. It was 320 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 6: very isolating. It was literally like eight to five we 321 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 6: were in the theater building. I was never on main campus, 322 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 6: and these girls would ask me questions and I literally 323 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 6: would not know the answers to them, and honestly that 324 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 6: sparked me like wanting to change my major. I was 325 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 6: like I am getting up at six am to like 326 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 6: roll on the floor and like breathe and pretend to 327 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 6: like become an elephant, like I don't even know. It 328 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 6: was just the most bizarre, like if you're in a 329 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 6: BFA acting rome, it's like a whole other thing. And 330 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 6: I was like, maybe I want to be on main campus, 331 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 6: Like maybe I want to understand what people are talking about, 332 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,199 Speaker 6: Like if you went to Syracuse you would know this. 333 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 6: Like I didn't know what Varsity Pizza was my freshman year, 334 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 6: which is like it's like the like pizza spot on 335 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 6: Marshall Street, which is like that main strip. They were like, 336 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 6: how do you not know what that is? And I 337 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 6: was like, I only know the theater building, like you know. 338 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 6: So I definitely had a sense of uncomfortability because I 339 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 6: literally didn't know anything. I felt like all of these 340 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 6: girls knew each other or were going in with friends, 341 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 6: and I didn't. I went in with no one. I 342 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 6: went in like completely alone, and whether they really were 343 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 6: confident or not, everyone seemed so much more confident than 344 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 6: I did, especially I feel like because they knew people already, 345 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 6: Like I, Yeah, I wound up choosing a five just 346 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:03,640 Speaker 6: because I I just vibed with the girls a lot 347 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 6: more than I did in any of the other houses. Also, 348 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 6: I you know, the positive vibe of my mom having 349 00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:12,439 Speaker 6: been in the house. I think it was good. And 350 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 6: even though I was very happy with the bid I received, 351 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 6: I still felt really lost on mid day because I 352 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 6: didn't know anyone, and all of these girls knew each other. 353 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:25,119 Speaker 6: It was literally like they had accepted one like mega 354 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 6: friend group of like thirty girls where it was kind 355 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 6: of like, you know, two or three friend groups combined 356 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 6: into a bigger friend group, and then there were a 357 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 6: couple like random stragglers, and we were all like, hey, 358 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 6: and my friend group now is comprised of those random 359 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 6: stragglers and we're still tight. 360 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 2: I love that. 361 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, any tips for girls going into like recruitment this semester, 362 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 4: I mean, like advice you would give them. 363 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, I always say one of my main things, and 364 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 6: this has nothing to do with the actual physical recruitment, 365 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 6: but this is so important to me. Think about what's 366 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 6: going in your bag. You are going to be out 367 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 6: and on your feet all day. You're not gonna have 368 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 6: time to go back to your dorm and like change 369 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 6: or eat or anything. 370 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 2: Like. 371 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 6: First of all, it's flu season. Bring some purel. You're 372 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 6: gonna be like shaking hands with all these people who 373 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 6: are like in a stuffy house meeting thousands of girls, Like, 374 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 6: bring some purel, bring some wet wipes. That's I narrowly 375 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 6: avoided the flu during rush, and that was huge. I 376 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:41,360 Speaker 6: would say, yeah. Also bring like makeup, touch ups, perfume, deodorate, 377 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 6: breath mints, change of socks, change of clothes if you 378 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:49,959 Speaker 6: need it. Also bring like snacks and water just in 379 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 6: case you, you know, get fatigued. There are so many things. 380 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 6: That's a more like surface tip. Obviously, I would say 381 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 6: just be yourself, because if you're trying to be cool, 382 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 6: maybe you'll end up in an objectively like you know, 383 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:11,919 Speaker 6: more upper to your house, but you ultimately won't be happy. Yeah, 384 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 6: and you should value your happiness over like the ranking. 385 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 6: I guess because like I think objectively when I had rushed, 386 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,360 Speaker 6: and I again, I don't really know how it is 387 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 6: like now or what had happened, but I think when 388 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 6: I rushed, like SDT was cooler than a five quote 389 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 6: unquote or mixed with better frats. But I didn't really 390 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 6: care so much about that. I was like, I think 391 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 6: I would be kind of uncomfortable. 392 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you were in that. 393 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's honestly so good that you know yourself 394 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: that well. And then after going through that rush process 395 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: and finding you know your home, is that when you 396 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 1: started your tiktoks? Like when did your following come about? 397 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,479 Speaker 6: I did not start my TikTok until after college. I 398 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 6: was really I had like randomly one viral video during COVID, 399 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 6: but I think everyone randomly had one viral video during COVID. 400 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 401 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 6: I had one video during COVID that got like three 402 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 6: million views, and since it was like that COVID era, 403 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 6: that one video gave me like, you know, fifteen thousand followers, 404 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 6: which is insane because that would never happen now. And 405 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 6: then I didn't post. I was just like I was embarrassed, 406 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 6: like you know, and that was like I also wanted 407 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 6: the older girls and my stroorty to like think I 408 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:39,919 Speaker 6: was cool, yeah, and so I didn't. I didn't post 409 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:44,640 Speaker 6: very much. And then it was actually like a week 410 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 6: or two before I graduated. I was freaking out. I 411 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 6: didn't have a job lined up, I had no idea 412 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 6: what I was going to do, and I was like 413 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 6: thinking of all the things that I was good at, 414 00:21:57,359 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 6: and I just started posting. I posted this one video 415 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,640 Speaker 6: and it got like one hundred two hundred thousand views, 416 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 6: and I was like, Okay, I feel like I can 417 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 6: I can get behind this, like I can start doing it. 418 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 6: And I started really fully posting like five six months 419 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 6: after I graduated, and I would go full throttle and 420 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 6: post like five times a day and really try to 421 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 6: get and at that time I did end up having 422 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 6: a different job and now I do it full time, 423 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 6: but it it took. It definitely took a bit to 424 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 6: like grow the following and now I've been doing it 425 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,640 Speaker 6: full time for about a year, which is really amazing. 426 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Kllie, I'm glad you know, sorority life and all 427 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: of the experiences helped you find your bit and you know, 428 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 1: helped you really express yourself and obviously your podcast. 429 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 2: That's amazing. 430 00:22:48,760 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: But thank you so much for coming on Dirty Rush today. 431 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 2: Hi, Audrey, are y'all good? How are you welcome to 432 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 2: Dirty Rush? Good? 433 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 3: Thank you. 434 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 4: So you went to the University of Texas, right, yes. 435 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I graduated in twenty twenty. 436 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: Four and what. 437 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 4: I was in Alpha Kai okay awesome. Yeah, how was 438 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 4: your like whole experience being in a sorority. 439 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 3: I loved being in a Sowartie. 440 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:33,239 Speaker 6: I was. 441 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 3: It made my college experience, especially going in from out 442 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 3: of state. I'm from California and then I went to 443 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 3: University of Texas and so that was a big thing 444 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 3: going through Rush, also being out of state, but also 445 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 3: finding the friends and home away from home kind of 446 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 3: thing for sure. 447 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 4: Definitely switched up going from California to Texas. 448 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 449 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 3: I actually was born in Texas then did the high 450 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 3: school in California, so I wasn't completely blind to it all. 451 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 2: But still say you say y'all. 452 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: I was like, I feel like it's in California. Don't 453 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: say y'all unless you inherited that from going to ut Yeah. 454 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,920 Speaker 3: My parents are always they've been from the South, and 455 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 3: I also picked it. I would have picked it up 456 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 3: from yout Honestly, I think y'all is a great word. 457 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,719 Speaker 2: It's fun, it's fun, it's cute, charming. 458 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: But I mean, clearly you had a really great experience 459 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 1: because now you have a recruiting coach business called the 460 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: Sorority Sister. 461 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 2: Yes, so tell us about that. 462 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I started it. I've been on social media 463 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 3: for a while. I started posting YouTube videos in high 464 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 3: school and it's now my full time job. And so 465 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,639 Speaker 3: through that content, I had been posting like social like 466 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 3: Soorty content of living in the house and already kind 467 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 3: of giving Rush advice through that. 468 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 1: So you kind of documented your whole experience of doing 469 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:57,360 Speaker 1: it when you were a freshman. 470 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 3: Yes, so, like I have a full to vlog of 471 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 3: me going through Rush crying on camera, like all the 472 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 3: details my freshman year, which is also just so fun 473 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,239 Speaker 3: for me to look back on. 474 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 4: Too, so fun to look back on stuff like that. 475 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 1: So then what made you really want to start this 476 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 1: recruiting coaching business? 477 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 3: So I wanted to have all of the advice and 478 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 3: everything in one so something different about the Soorty Sisters. 479 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,919 Speaker 3: We offer an online course, so it's videos for me 480 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 3: talking through everything, and it's way more accessible than one 481 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 3: on one coaching can be from a price point standpoint. 482 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 3: And so I wanted to make all of the information 483 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 3: more accessible and more like put together in one place 484 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: versus scrolling through all my videos and it kind of 485 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 3: being all over the place. And I have a partner, Kendall. 486 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 3: She was in a sortia ole miss and so she 487 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 3: also came to me with this idea and we were 488 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 3: the perfect pair, And I started it in twenty twenty three, 489 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 3: right before my senior year of college, so we made 490 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 3: the course at that point. Also, my younger sister was 491 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,640 Speaker 3: going through Rush, and so it was on the top 492 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 3: of my head of like being that older sister figure 493 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 3: from my sister, and also like, how can I help 494 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 3: girls who don't have that older sister, who don't have 495 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 3: the experience knowing about what rush is. 496 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 2: That's awesome, that's so cool. 497 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 4: How many girls do you have, Like, is it like 498 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 4: usually like per rush that you work with. 499 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, So we started in twenty twenty three and then 500 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 3: that was when we were kind of only doing We 501 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: have two different courses. We have a pre Rush Prep 502 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 3: Club course, which talks about all the before things, so 503 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 3: like your resume registration, all the things that you're kind 504 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 3: of doing in the summer and how to prep for that. 505 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 3: And then the Rush week course where it talks about 506 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 3: what actually happens in those houses, what you should talk about, 507 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 3: how to prepare yourself for, like how to make this 508 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 3: decision of what sorority to go to. And then it 509 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 3: last last year in twenty twenty five, we started doing 510 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 3: one on one clients. So we've kind of grown and 511 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 3: still our main focus is the course clients, and we've 512 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 3: grown throughout the years and each year new girls go 513 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 3: through Rush, which is so exciting, Like I love now 514 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 3: the girls that are going to Rush in fall twenty 515 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 3: twenty six are starting to get into colleges and already 516 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 3: starting to reach out and thinking about Rush, which I 517 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 3: love because I think starting earlier just helps you feel 518 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 3: more confident and prepared going into Rush in fall. 519 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely. 520 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 1: What do you think the biggest takeaway of your courses? 521 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 3: I think we really focus on what you want and 522 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 3: feeling confident in yourself. So going in to Rush with 523 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 3: the goal of finding your forever friends because that's what 524 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 3: I found in a sorority, and I think that it's 525 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 3: more than just going the top house or going what 526 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 3: you're maybe want you wants you to go. It's more 527 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 3: about where are you going to find your best friends 528 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 3: and the people that like you want to spend college with. 529 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 3: And so we really think about in the course, like 530 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 3: what are you looking for in a friend? What kind 531 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 3: of friend are you? What do you want out of 532 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 3: this sorty experience? And then Taylor that to how do 533 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 3: you show these girls during Rush what your qualities are 534 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 3: and what you want to find that good match. 535 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 2: Oh, I love that. So it's more so of like 536 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 2: about what's on the inside. That's what's not what's on 537 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: the outside. 538 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I mean we talk about the outfits and 539 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 3: what to say because that's what RUSH is. And it's 540 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,440 Speaker 3: almost kind of like I think of it too as 541 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 3: an interview process if you want to be prepared going 542 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 3: into an interview, and RUSH can be so overwhelming that 543 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 3: just having more knowledge and information about it and kind 544 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: of prepping what you want to say about yourself and 545 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 3: talk to just really helps going in confidently and will 546 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 3: help you more yourself in this like crazy situation that 547 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 3: RUSH is. 548 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:06,960 Speaker 4: You know, that's so fun. And so your friend Kendall, 549 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 4: right that you do? And how did you guys meet? 550 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,080 Speaker 3: So I actually met her, she was my I met 551 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 3: her through my internship that I had. She was my 552 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 3: internship like kind of mentor and met her through that. 553 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 3: And she's the CMO of a company, so she has 554 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 3: all the marketing brains and so we're the perfect pair. 555 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 3: And I think that she also brings another perspective of 556 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 3: kind of what Russia used to be and all of 557 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 3: the traditional southern things that you look for. She was 558 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 3: recruitment counselor at her Soarty years ago, and so she 559 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 3: kind of knows the ins and outs of behind the 560 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 3: scenes when I bring in the newer perspective of what 561 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 3: girls are looking for on social media and like in 562 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 3: these new times. 563 00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 2: Did you go through rush coaching yourself? 564 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 3: No? I didn't, so I I went in. I mean, 565 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 3: my mom was an Ausrity. I knew I wanted to 566 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 3: be an Ausrity. I had known, like my cousin and 567 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 3: one of my other older friends had gone through rush, 568 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:14,120 Speaker 3: but very I knew very minimal information. And I always 569 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 3: say I rushed in twenty twenty, so it was virtually 570 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 3: and I always say I'm so glad that it was 571 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 3: virtual because I would have not been prepared to rush 572 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 3: in person at a school like Texas, but I didn't. 573 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 3: I know a lot of people who have rush coaching, 574 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 3: and it's very common, especially at the kind of school 575 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 3: that I go to, But now I didn't have a 576 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 3: rush coach myself. 577 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 2: Where do you hope to take your company in the future. 578 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 3: I really want to this year bring the course more 579 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 3: in person and talking to girls in person, because right 580 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 3: now it's very virtual in me just filming videos and 581 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 3: them watching, but I love when I get to interact 582 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 3: with the girls going through rush. I got to last 583 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,959 Speaker 3: year ago to University of Georgia and University of Flo 584 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 3: during their rush, and that is really my favorite part, 585 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 3: is connecting in person and so really bringing the course 586 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 3: to life in person where your mom can come with you, 587 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 3: mother daughters and you can kind of network and also 588 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 3: just ask questions and be more in an in person 589 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 3: environment and learning from that. 590 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 4: So then you're there like on campus while they're going 591 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,120 Speaker 4: through recruitment. 592 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but also I would like to I mean, really 593 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 3: the prep works before rush happens, but I did go 594 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 3: to a couple of schools last year and just kind 595 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 3: of talked to girls as they went through rush. 596 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 2: They needed like that extra support kind of. 597 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, at that point, it's just kind of encouragement, like 598 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 3: the sortie sister. We really focus on prepping you before 599 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 3: you show up on that day. But it's fun to 600 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 3: be that like face of encouragement kind. 601 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 4: Of thing, definitely, and to be like a part of 602 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 4: that too. 603 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. It's so fun, especially at the bigger schools, 604 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 3: just seeing all the girls going into the houses again, 605 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 3: like I rush virtually and then during school when you 606 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 3: are a swarty girl, you're locked in the house like 607 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 3: you don't get to see the p and ms outside 608 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 3: until they come and talk to you. So it's fun 609 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 3: fully being like on the outside of it and seeing 610 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 3: all everyone. 611 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: Well, Audrey, thank you so much and best of luck 612 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: with your company, the sorority sister and I hope in 613 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 1: person is in your near future. 614 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 2: But thank you for coming on Dirty Rush. 615 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 3: Thanks guys, thank you.