WEBVTT - MON PT 1:  The Truth About Bobby + Our Perfect Days + Does Amy Expect Chivalry? 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:07.600 Transmitting this. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:14.120 Hope you had a great weekend. Welcome to Monday Show 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:18.759 Morning Studio Morning. Big fire happens, house burns down. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:19.439 It sucks. 0:00:19.480 --> 0:00:22.000 They're trying to figure out what happened with a stove 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:26.040 left on, curling iron, left on, electrical short none of that. 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:28.360 It turns out there was a stupid squirrel that chewing 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:30.640 through a line, electrical line at the house. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:31.400 Spark boom. 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:35.440 House goes up, dang, completely out of everyone's control. That's 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:39.639 not something that you can keep from happening. Yeah, right, 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.240 unless that you cover your wires better. But a Florida 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.559 family is starting over after their house burned down due 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:48.199 to a fire caused by a squirrel chewing through electrical wires. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:51.720 Did the squirrel make it? I don't know. 0:00:52.440 --> 0:00:55.520 I don't Maybe maybe that's how they knew that the 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:56.400 squirrel had done it. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.760 There's a fried squirrel next to the. 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:01.080 It's get out a little out of there. 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.440 Rodent damage in my car, like a significant amount of 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:11.240 damage that was not cheap at all, and it was 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:15.400 the cause was rodent, Like they put that on the assessment. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.160 Like when I got the they were like, cause. 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:20.920 I bet those rodents didn't die though, No. 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:24.440 Yeah, shooting, thankfully, but they caused a lot of damage. 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:29.000 This family, Donnie and Stacey and their kids and their pets, 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.479 were sleeping in their home right before the fire began 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:32.680 on January thirty. 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:36.360 First. This is from WMBB quote. We were all asleep. 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:37.959 I heard a break or flip in the back, so 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:39.520 I got to see what the noise was, and I 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.560 heard the sound rustling in the attic, and then I 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:45.440 smelled an electrical smell. So I walk and woke everybody up. 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.080 I said, hey, everybody, wake up, let's get out of 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:47.480 the house. 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:49.760 And they're out. Next thing you know, the house goes 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:50.480 up in flames. 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:52.840 Wow. And so when they go to figure it out, 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:57.840 it was a squirrel. That's crazy because there's really nothing 0:01:57.920 --> 0:01:58.800 you can do about that. 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:02.760 No. I wonder why the squirrel chews wires, Like. 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.800 Does it feel good on their teeth or do they 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:06.080 think it's like licorice? 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:06.200 Like? 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:06.560 What are they? 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:08.760 Why are they chewing wires If I teeth like that, 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:11.880 I'd be looking to use them on whatever. Yeah, like 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:15.280 these tools, why not use them? It's like, if you're tall, 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:15.960 why not done. 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:20.040 There's this one guy on TikTok He takes care of 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:21.760 squirrels and he takes them to the dentist. 0:02:22.200 --> 0:02:23.880 Have you all seen this guy? Stupid? I don't even 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:25.680 know what this guy. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.000 Needs a stock, it's so cute. 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.400 He has a little cage and he traps them and 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.440 he takes them in and they. 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.760 Have to get to those what is this again? 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:36.560 It's obviously a veterinarian. But they put a little gas 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:38.800 mask on the swirrel they pass out and they do 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:41.320 the dental work and then that way because what happens 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:44.200 is when their teeth aren't whatever's going on with their teeth, 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.240 they can't. They're not going to be able to survive 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:48.040 because they need their teeth to be able to eat. 0:02:48.320 --> 0:02:51.520 And squirrels get some I don't know damage, there's something 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:53.600 that can be done, and he helps the squirrels get 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:54.160 it done. 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:59.040 Good for him, Good for him. I feel like that's 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.480 energy being used there they can I mean, and this 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.480 guys like using better places. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:05.079 But now I like it. I do like it. Don't 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:05.280 be a. 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:08.119 Manly man like he He does not look like he'd 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:10.639 be trapping squirrels and taking them to get their teeth done. 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:16.040 Squirrels chew on wires to file down. They're constantly growing teeth. Wow, 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:20.680 the teeth grow and they chew on wires, in addicts, vehicles, 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:24.800 and polls because the material is durable or it's super convenient. 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:26.519 But again, it is just that because their teeth won't 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.280 stop growing, and they're filing them down a little bit. 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.120 Okay, that must be what he's catching them to do. 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:32.600 Their teeth are out of control and they need to 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:33.239 be filed down. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:35.280 A guy tried to hire a friend to help him 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:39.840 murder his ex, and two minutes she dated after him. Okay, 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:42.440 so there's a guy he's up his buddy, Hey, you 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:45.960 mind murdering doing some murdering for me? If somebody doesn't 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:47.880 have a history of doing some murdering, I would never 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.120 ask somebody to do some murdering. 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:51.640 His friend had a history of murdering. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:52.000 Okay. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.720 So Eric forty one years old, was on Facebook and 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:57.920 he messaged Steven, an old school friend he had not 0:03:57.920 --> 0:04:01.960 spoken to in years. He said, hey, quit me up 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:03.920 on Tuesday. He's like, I hadn't seen you in a while. Okay, 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:05.560 they get together. He said, I gave five thousand bucks 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.240 to help murder my ex and then two other men. 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.520 The guy obviously was not a murderer because he was 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.360 so shocked he went to the place immediately. Oh my gosh, Like, 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:15.600 you got to know if you're going to ask somebody 0:04:15.600 --> 0:04:17.200 to do some murder, and they've probably done some murdering, 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:19.119 have been close to murder, and some murderer's not crazy 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:19.360 to them. 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.880 Yeah, not just like your craziest friend or just like 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:24.960 from the first person that'll answer right. 0:04:26.120 --> 0:04:26.240 Uh. 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.640 Yeah. He was busted on Wednesdays. He was getting into 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.920 an uber. He had a duffel bag with them and 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:34.279 a loaded gun, cocaine, and cash. He was charged with 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.800 three counts of criminal solicitation for murder, three counts of 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:39.719 attempted to murder, three counts of terroristic threats, three counts 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.800 of recklessly endangering another person, among other charges. 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.760 New York Post see, I'd be worried if he ever 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:44.360 got out of jail. 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:45.640 He tried to hire somebody to kill the guy who 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:48.480 turned him in. Yep, and hopefully that guy would turn 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:51.560 him in. But what a weird message. Hey, I haven't 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:53.160 heard for me wire. Yeah, I'd love to get together. 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:54.920 So I think it's gonna be really hard to find 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.599 someone to murder three people for five thousand dollars so it's. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:57.960 A low rate. 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.400 But so I'll meet you the puffy muff one can't 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:01.599 wait to see what we're going to talk about. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:06.240 Hey, manum doing some murdering for me. Zane Malick, you 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.680 know that is Amy? 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.120 Yes, yeah, he's in one of the boy bands. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:13.400 Was Yeah, that was first one to leave One direction 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:14.000 One direction. 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:17.880 And so now he's doing a residency in Vegas and 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:21.839 they had asked him because he has a young daughter 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.560 and she lost a tooth. We you think he gives 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:28.520 her for the let me let me do this again. Uh, 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:30.880 what do you think the tooth fairy drops by the. 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.080 House and how. 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:40.200 Okay to give her one tooth one tooth? It's got 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.520 to be something crazy. This wouldn't be a story. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:42.920 Who knows? 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.599 Tooth very different everywhere because it could be the tooth 0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:47.040 fair could be so cheap and you're like, you got 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:48.560 to know if you're going by Saint Malex house to 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:49.200 be right? 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:53.200 Yeah, what do you give? What you. 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:55.680 Like? A dollar? 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:59.039 What did your tooth? I guess I'm struggling here. Tooth 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:00.000 fairy gave a dollar. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.360 That's what he chose to do. 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:06.279 Oh, mine's a girl. Yeah, I think any fairies I 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:06.640 told you. 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.440 I grew up with el you Kneffer. He's a man. 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:10.680 Man. 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:14.000 My toothairy's up to five dollars now is bizarre, zaying. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.880 Malick says his tooth fairy gave his daughter seven hundred 0:06:16.880 --> 0:06:17.640 dollars seven. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:19.640 Oh my gosh, I was going to guess one hundred, 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.880 and I was even thinking that's so ridiculous. I can't 0:06:21.880 --> 0:06:23.960 even say that. 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:25.960 That's not I mean, what's the tooth fairy doing that's 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:28.960 not good for the child? She did seven hundred dollars? 0:06:29.560 --> 0:06:30.760 Understand what that is? 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.240 What seven hundred dollars? Yes they do. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:36.719 No, No, I don't think that they have a concept 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.280 of the know, it's a lot of money. 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:41.640 Mm hmmm, Like yeah, yeah, I think when it came. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.320 To them, a hundred would be a lot. So like, 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:45.480 why make it seven hundred? I break so many teeth. 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:46.920 I wonder if I just put under the pillow, see 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.160 what happens? Yeah, because I got like teeth issues and 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:53.000 head veneers. But Super half way come by and drop 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:57.599 it off of my own super Yeah whatever, Yeah, yeah. 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:57.680 I do. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.320 It's weird to me. Nobody else knows about oh you 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:03.400 of her. This is just an internal family thing. 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:08.200 We're cool with keeping it that way. It's a lot 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:12.400 of a sin bo, A lot of a sin bo. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:23.640 Here's a question to be well, Hello, Bobby Bones, have 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:24.080 a question. 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.920 What is something about you that most people get completely wrong? 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:30.000 Signed? Here for the plot twist? To me, this is 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:30.880 pretty easy about me. 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:33.360 It's I think most people expect that I have a 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:35.679 big ball of energy. Once I am out in public, 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:39.400 like or even in a group setting, I'm usually the 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.360 one that's not talking at all, So I would say 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.160 that's it. I also get when people meet me, Hey, 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:46.720 you're a lot taller than I thought. I like that one. 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:49.560 That's a good one. Yeah you say really like that. 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.040 I just know that you get that a lot. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:51.720 I get that a lot. 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:52.600 You get that a lot. 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.400 Yeah, you're a lot taller than I thought. 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:57.720 Why are you being a hater? You are You're being 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:58.600 a hater. 0:07:59.480 --> 0:08:01.440 I feel like you're getting me wrong right now. 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:07.560 I'm a solid six to one. Thank you. You want 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.600 to driver's license? Yes or no? You want to see 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:11.600 driver's license? Yes or no. 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.160 I'm aware that you can just tell them. 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.520 What I can't say six five. They're going to know 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:17.960 I'm lying. 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:20.440 Well, yeah, but I mean, if you just like bump 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:21.160 it up a little bit. 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:25.080 They're not going to know male six one eyes hazel. 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:27.880 Yeah, And when you're getting that, they're like, what color 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:28.360 your eyes? 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:30.200 Hazel? How tall are you? Six to one? 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:31.800 But it's official right there though, yea. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:32.880 But they don't measure you. 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:35.880 But they would know if I was lying, and you 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:42.640 can tell on my face anyway. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:41.520 You'd be a such a hater. 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.040 I'm not. You're taller than I thought. 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:48.800 Why did you say it? Like what, I didn't expect 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:49.559 you to be so tall? 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:51.120 I didn't know that's what they say. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.680 Yeah, oh wow, i'd expect you to be so tall. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:56.920 Gosh, I didn't expect you to be so tall. 0:08:57.960 --> 0:08:58.640 What are you doing? 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:02.720 I's stocking, My doctor and my driver's license all have 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:03.600 down six foot one? 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:05.000 Right? 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:08.320 What would you put me at six foot? 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:09.280 In a little bit? 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:10.800 That would be the one. 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:11.520 I don't know that. 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:16.080 I put a solid, little clear six foot yeah, like 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:17.960 you're definitely six foot. 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.920 But I wouldn't. I just wouldn't say that. I look 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.240 at you and think like, wow, he's. 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:27.600 So tall, but they so does that mean in pictures 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:30.000 they think you're like five eight? 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.080 Well, if I'm standing next to people like Blake Shelton 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:33.720 or Trace Atkins and they're monsters. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:35.480 Yeah, but how often? 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:36.920 I mean, you know, how tall are you? 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:37.800 How tall is Eddie? 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:39.040 I'm six foot? 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:41.920 Okay, he's who you're next to a lot in pictures. 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:43.080 Okay, you want to stand next to me? 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:43.640 No? 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:48.240 No, I do people say to you you're taller than 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:48.640 I thought? 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:53.720 I've never gotten that. How did they say it to you? Again? 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:56.120 So if we're like taking a picture or something like, dang, 0:09:56.120 --> 0:09:56.960 you're taller than I thought. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:02.240 Huh. I don't know why it's so funny. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.600 I know neither. I'm five six. Ray and I are 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:05.960 the same. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:08.840 Why why. 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.240 Ray wasn't even in this conversation He's back there like 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:14.200 pushing the button. 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:17.680 Over the years, Ray and I have gone back to bragging. 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:20.280 We have measured multiple times because he shries to say 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:22.040 that he's taller than five six. 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:23.160 But he's not even in this conversation. 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:26.120 This is what people and he might even be five 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:26.480 to eleven. 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:30.480 Now that he's six ft solid six foot? 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:33.520 Does Ray get like, Wow, you're shorter than I thought? Hey, 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:34.080 what do you get? 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:36.880 I gotta be real because you guys ragging me so 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:39.440 much for being short. When people meet me, they say, wow, 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:41.719 you're taller than I about. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:47.560 So morgan'st the shortest of all of us, which. 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:50.920 Is who's five No, guys, I'm five foot and three fourths. 0:10:50.679 --> 0:10:53.199 Of one inch, so basically five to one. 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:55.640 Yeah, basically, okay, so now we know how you do them. 0:10:58.160 --> 0:10:59.439 But I'm not going to say five foot in three 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:00.000 fourths every time. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.360 Oh yeah, you said yours is a solid one. 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:06.360 And Morgan's five to one, and then Amy and Ray 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:10.559 are five to six. Lunchbox probably five to ten, five eleven. 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:12.920 I don't know if I got her five eleven. Actually, 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:18.480 Eddie's six foot even close and I'm six one, not close. 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:21.640 We should measure lunchbox. 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:26.800 Amy's been a hit on everybody's high. 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:31.920 I just I just told Eddie. 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:35.640 Five eleven six foot, you're probably five eleven. 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:39.800 He's taller Eddie, just taller Eddie, lunch that's a good question. 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:41.160 I don't want to do. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:43.439 I guess Eddie because he's saying he's six ft and 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:44.240 Lunch saying. 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:46.200 The government is saying no. 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.040 Do you realize you tell the government. 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.320 Don't want to go to jail because the government bust 0:11:50.360 --> 0:11:51.440 and he goes. We need to check and see if 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:52.559 you're telling the truth, and I don't want to go 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:53.640 to jail because I lied on it. 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:56.800 I feel like over the years that you have insinuated 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:58.480 that you just make it six one. 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:05.040 You said that, no insinuated anyway, So that was it. 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:06.360 People are like, you're so tall. 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:09.880 Wow, Wow, You're way taller than I expected. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.760 Mostly it's that people expect me to be the live 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.079 of the party, which I'm not. And then I wasn't 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:16.760 even saying that to get a reaction. People just say 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.680 you're anyway. Thank you for the email. You can email 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.720 us anytime. Just hit up to email address. What is it, 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:25.720 Morgan mailbag, Bobbybones dot COMCT Yeah, there you go. 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:27.600 Amy. 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.520 We're now at week three of the Sound Reset Challenge, 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:34.199 brought to you by Audible. Audible's well Being collection has 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.000 everything to inspire and support you in every step of 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:39.080 your well being journey. What's going on this week? 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:42.000 Well, this week we're talking compassion and this weekly challenge 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:44.800 is inspired by my conversation with Dan Harris and his 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:48.720 book ten Percent Happier, available on Audible. And your three 0:12:48.800 --> 0:12:53.400 week challenge is add some compassion. Now that you've had 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:56.400 a practice of your own, let's try what Dan calls 0:12:56.720 --> 0:13:00.000 meta meditation, where you add thoughts of love and compassion 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:03.440 into your practice. This week, continue to meditate for ten 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:06.679 minutes per day. At some point in the session, bring 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:11.080 to mind people who you'd like to send compassionate energy toward. First, 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.559 think of someone that is very easy to love, and 0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:17.199 in your mind send them four phrases. May you be happy, 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:21.040 may you be safe, may you be healthy, and may. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:21.800 You live with ease. 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:25.520 Then move on to family members, a mentor, the planet, 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.920 and even people who are more difficult. 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This daycare worker was giving 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:04.959 toddler's laxative so the toddler would be sent home, so 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:06.880 this daycare worker didn't have to deal with them. 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.520 Oh my, oh that's why. 0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.280 So this daycare worker in Saint Charles, Illinois been charged 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:14.960 with giving laxative to toddlers. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:16.120 And he. 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:21.640 Would say it was candy a dude. Well the name 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:24.000 is Zelle. I don't know what that is. I just 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.200 assume it was a dude. And you know, so this 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:28.920 feels like a dude thing, totally Yazelle Warez reportedly wanted 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:30.840 kids to get six they'd be sent home. It's and 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:32.720 it says, I guess he's as a woman. I don't 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:35.640 know why is Yeah. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.000 I mean I feel like a woman could do this. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:40.400 You do? Yeah? 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.920 One parents that are seventeen month old suffered from diarrhea 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.640 for two months before they learned what was happening. 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.320 They just thought the kid was always sick, over and 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:47.160 over and over. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:47.920 Terrible. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:49.400 Uh. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.360 She faces charge of attempt to aggravate a battery and 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:53.440 child endangerment from Law and Crime. 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:57.360 If you hate kids that much working there, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:58.000 yeah yeah yeah. 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.240 What would you do if this was your daycare? Would 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:02.000 you pull them out? Or would you just want it 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.680 to be fixed with that person? 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.000 That person needs to be fired for sure, because finding 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.320 a daycare, getting into a daycare, a daycare that is, 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.040 you know, in good proximity to where you live or 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:14.560 work like that can be difficult. 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:16.680 So I guess to just depend on my circumstances. What 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:17.080 I would do. 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.120 Would you give a bad review? 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:22.600 Uh m, it sucks because this was one. 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:25.280 Employee, Yes, you'd give them a bad review. No. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.320 I struggle with giving my delivery drivers bad reviews, even 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:33.200 when they suck, and they've been sucking lately. I struggle 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:37.160 because I think, bad day, I don't know what's going 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:39.520 on in Alive, and I don't think I would give 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.200 this place a bad review. They just fire the person, 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:43.480 and then I think we're going to be okay because 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:47.240 I don't think it was a fundamental part of that 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:52.560 their child development at Staycare right, Well. 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:54.960 Yeah, I mean I obviously they didn't know she was 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.240 doing it. Now, if they knew the whole time and 0:15:57.280 --> 0:16:00.560 they were okay with it, yeah, then that's some problem. 0:16:00.600 --> 0:16:02.680 What would you do, Lunchbucks? Oh, I would sue. 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.320 I'd sue one hundred percent, try to get my name 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:06.560 on that daycare. 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:07.200 Take it over. 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:08.680 You know, just because you sue doesn't me you're gonna 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:10.120 get an money, especial if it's DACA. When they don't 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:12.080 have much money, all they do is go, we're bankrupt. 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.240 We followed our business, We're done. You're happy with You 0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.080 get no money and you don't even name on the 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.240 daycare the bill, it wouldn't exist. 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:20.400 He said, he's going to take it over. 0:16:20.720 --> 0:16:23.080 Yeah, just because you sue and win doesn't really mean 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:24.960 you're getting money, especially if they don't have any money. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.800 Well, then I'm definitely writing a negative review of my 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:28.680 kids out of there. 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:33.960 Wow, it's different. And whoever that person is civil court? 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:36.400 Huh civil court? Civil court? 0:16:36.760 --> 0:16:38.400 Same if she doesn't have any money, you can't really 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.520 squeeze mount and do a return it right, Yeah. 0:16:40.320 --> 0:16:41.880 But I mean they can garner her way just for 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:42.640 the rest of her life. 0:16:44.400 --> 0:16:46.640 And what's crazy is I read that headline and I 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.120 didn't understand, like, oh, she gave him the laxative so 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:51.440 she wouldn't have to take care of them. I'm like, no, 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:52.640 that means she would have to take care of him 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.480 more of it. Then I remembered the when it's the 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:59.040 you know that liquidity, they do get sent home, and I. 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:01.600 Did the whole bool shut down and that happens. No, 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:07.159 just that kid, get a call, bro fools clothes. 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.639 Also remember on Lunchbox's daycare trying to call him, get 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:11.560 a hold of him for hours. 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:14.360 I was napping because he was taking you know who? 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:19.400 They called Eddie's wife they did? Yeah? Why odd? 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:21.000 Because I think she was one of the phone numbers 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.320 on the to call, like Marke, get a hold the 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:25.000 mom or dad. 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:26.399 Did you wake up and you see a bunch of 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:29.119 numbers on your phone? Well, no, I heard it, really 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:30.200 a bunch of calls on your phone. 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:31.879 But I had just got I think we had just 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.160 got back from iHeart, and so I needed a rest 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.960 that day and my wife's and my wife was out 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.680 of town, and so I knew that I if I 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:40.680 didn't get sleep, I couldn't go pick him up right then. 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:42.680 So I had to ignore the call. So did my 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:43.520 wife pick him up? 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:43.639 No? 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:46.760 She called me and you answer her call? No? No, I didn't. 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:48.360 It was like an hour and a half later when 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.560 I got up and your wife had called me and 0:17:50.600 --> 0:17:51.560 the daycare had called. 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:53.120 Me, and I was like, oh, I'm sorry, I didn't. 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:57.879 I just missed the call. Yep. Wow, So what do 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:00.760 they do with your kid? What? Was wrong with your kid? Okay, 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:02.080 so what do they do with them the whole time? 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:03.560 They take him out of the class and put him 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:06.600 like behind the front desk, like with the receptionist. 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:09.680 Son't get the other kids sick? Got it? What'd you 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:10.199 learn from that? 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:15.160 I didn't really learn anything. I just learned that you know, hey, 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.000 they don't. You're not gonna get in trouble if you 0:18:17.040 --> 0:18:18.040 don't go get him right away. 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:26.879 That's what you learned. It's time for the good news. 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:30.480 On Friday morning in Stuart, Florida, this guy's on his 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:32.680 way to work. His name is Logan. He sees a 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.400 car on the side of the road. But it looks 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:39.600 weird because the car isn't a pond on the side 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:41.120 of the road. He's like, am I seeing this right? 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:44.919 And so he slows his car down, pulls over and 0:18:44.960 --> 0:18:48.680 sees the car is actually sinking in a pond. He 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:52.119 runs toward the car. He jumps into the pond. He 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:55.919 swims out to the car. The car was still above 0:18:55.960 --> 0:18:58.680 water a little bit or the back passenger door because 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:01.080 the nose tends to go to first and go down 0:19:01.440 --> 0:19:06.520 and so it's sinking, and so he jumps in, opens 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:08.200 the car door which is hard to pull open because 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:11.560 there's water holding it, and goes in and pulls her out. 0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:13.720 Oh, he sees it. It's just crazy. 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:18.119 He sees it while driving, slows down, understands it, and 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:19.800 then takes off tour to all on foot and all 0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:22.520 this like right moment, right time. Oh yeah, she's pregnant too, 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:22.880 by the way. 0:19:22.880 --> 0:19:26.119 Oh whoa. I was gonna ask if she was the 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:27.880 only one in the car, but I guess not. Well, 0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:29.480 in her body, there were two people. 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:32.720 So he said he's comfortable in the water because he 0:19:32.800 --> 0:19:37.520 works as a like a private fishing boat captain. He's 0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:40.080 never performed to rescue like this before. He was swimming 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:43.240 her back to shore. That's when he realizes she's pregnant, 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:46.320 and so he made sure that she stayed up upward anyway, 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.040 that he didn't put too much on her to swim. 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:51.840 And so then they're like, okay, we got her, She's okay. 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.080 And then she had like she gave birth like a 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:58.720 few hours later. Are you serious at the Florida Lawood Hospital. Yeah, 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:02.720 hours after the rescue. That's crazy. Oh okay, probably some 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:05.920 of that trauma, Oh yeah, paused it. So I've had 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:07.760 some people now that are like very very pregnant or 0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:08.640 like what you go sink somewhere. 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:10.600 To get to induce this, you have to be in 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:11.600 a traumatic situation. 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:14.080 Oh yeah, he saved it. That's all that's wild. That's 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:17.920 from WPBF. That's what it's all about. That was tell 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:22.040 me something good. We think about chivalry? Do you like it? 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:22.960 Is there a limit of it? 0:20:23.040 --> 0:20:23.359 You like? 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:23.959 Uh? 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:27.240 And I like it? That's no limit really. 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:29.600 I mean I think you can maybe go over the 0:20:29.640 --> 0:20:31.600 top a little too much. If you need to like 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:34.240 pull my chair out everywhere we go, that might be 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:34.879 a little much. 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:36.320 I don't mind you getting. 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:38.479 The car door, see you like a good amount, But 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:40.080 what if you guys like I'm never letting you pay 0:20:40.119 --> 0:20:42.879 for anything. You are only standing on this side of me? 0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:45.240 You well that part well, you. 0:20:45.160 --> 0:20:47.640 Mean because he wants to stand on the side closest 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:49.119 to the street so I don't get hit by the 0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:49.679 car first. 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:50.200 Okay. 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:52.359 I always thought that was kind of weird though, because 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:55.240 the car is gonna hit and like go rogue unto 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:58.240 the sidewalk. It's probably not just clipping the outside person. 0:20:58.280 --> 0:20:58.760 But I get it. 0:20:58.840 --> 0:21:00.879 I like that because sometimes I'll end of that and 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:02.960 then it's like, you know, he swoops in and is 0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:05.040 like you stand over here, I've got you. 0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:08.400 They had this whole thing. Are women still into chivalry? 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:11.760 And you would say, generally, yeah, what are the top 0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:13.880 three things a guy can do for you? There's chivalrous? 0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:15.520 Well, that the street thing. 0:21:16.000 --> 0:21:19.400 If you're cold, give you his jacket, even though he 0:21:19.520 --> 0:21:20.360 might be what. 0:21:20.359 --> 0:21:22.600 If you're still cold, will you accept his shirt? 0:21:23.119 --> 0:21:24.399 Wait? That would be weird. I don't need to. 0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:26.120 He's out there cutting glass. 0:21:26.240 --> 0:21:28.520 I'm not going to do that, okay, not that there's 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:33.600 a lemon and then yeah, I mean I can favor myself, but. 0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:34.720 But but that's part of you don't need that level. 0:21:34.920 --> 0:21:38.240 No, you just said if he wants to pay for 0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:46.600 everything like that, okay, Like I'm fine, I know I 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:48.680 can pay for it. I'll just put that money away, 0:21:48.760 --> 0:21:49.159 thank you. 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:52.920 An overwhelming majority of women eighty five percent like it 0:21:52.920 --> 0:21:55.199 when a man a chivalrous because it is a what. 0:21:55.680 --> 0:22:00.480 It's just what, Okay, it's a it's nice. Like I 0:22:01.720 --> 0:22:05.919 understand some women that just if if they're not attracted 0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:08.480 to that, I try to understand where they're coming from. 0:22:08.560 --> 0:22:09.520 But I don't get it. 0:22:10.080 --> 0:22:14.440 The top chivalrous things women enjoy one ensuring they get 0:22:14.480 --> 0:22:17.720 home safe. Oh yeah, so again, this is just a 0:22:17.760 --> 0:22:21.240 little nitpicky thing I have about this. If you're going 0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:26.640 to actually take her home or it's hard to say, 0:22:26.720 --> 0:22:29.200 like watch her go home, it feels creepy. I get it, 0:22:29.240 --> 0:22:31.880 But text me when you get home doesn't count as 0:22:31.880 --> 0:22:33.600 being chivalrius and like looking out for her. 0:22:33.920 --> 0:22:35.520 They may call and be like, hey, I just want 0:22:35.560 --> 0:22:37.080 to make sure you made it home, okay. 0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:39.320 Or I want to look for you on life three sixty. 0:22:40.000 --> 0:22:42.199 Oh if you're sharing your place with them after like 0:22:42.240 --> 0:22:44.080 three dates, oh, i'd worry they're going to come to 0:22:44.119 --> 0:22:48.240 your house and hard are you uh yeah, yeah, okay, Okay. 0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:50.600 Number two is helping with heavy things. 0:22:50.920 --> 0:22:56.480 M that's nice, that's what that's show. Rist Like you're 0:22:56.560 --> 0:22:58.280 telling me. Men are just. 0:23:00.040 --> 0:23:03.119 Well in a way where y'all are typically stronger. I 0:23:03.119 --> 0:23:05.679 know there's some women that are stronger than some men. Okay, fine, 0:23:05.680 --> 0:23:08.479 but generally speaking, a man is going to be stronger 0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:12.240 than me and he I'm want to carry the table. 0:23:12.040 --> 0:23:16.280 Why why are you carrying a table or whatever? 0:23:16.680 --> 0:23:20.359 But something heavy or a heavy box, and he's going 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:21.679 to just stand by and watch. 0:23:21.920 --> 0:23:22.560 No, thank you. 0:23:22.720 --> 0:23:24.320 So I don't even think that has to be chivalrous. 0:23:24.320 --> 0:23:25.919 Like if I see a white it's not romantic, and 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:27.480 she's like, I get. 0:23:27.359 --> 0:23:30.000 That, that's what I mean, Like that doesn't seem chivalrous 0:23:30.000 --> 0:23:32.360 to me. That just seems like genetically speaking, it makes 0:23:32.400 --> 0:23:33.960 more sense that you come offer to help. 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:36.160 Is chivalry only romantic? 0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:36.320 Though? 0:23:36.359 --> 0:23:37.000 I never thought. 0:23:36.800 --> 0:23:40.360 About this, No, because I think that like I feel 0:23:40.400 --> 0:23:41.880 like I'm just being nice and I'm opening the door 0:23:41.880 --> 0:23:42.280 for a woman. 0:23:42.760 --> 0:23:44.639 Is that called chivalry or is that just being I 0:23:44.680 --> 0:23:45.920 think it's chivalry or like. 0:23:45.920 --> 0:23:48.959 Okay, yeah, it doesn't have to be romantic because you 0:23:48.960 --> 0:23:51.520 can you can pay for things for me. 0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:53.159 I held the door for someone the other day and 0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:55.160 they said, oh, chivalry is still alive. 0:23:54.880 --> 0:23:56.639 And I'm like, I don't know what that means. They 0:23:56.640 --> 0:23:59.520 thought you wanted to get with someone. No, I hope not. 0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:04.760 Another one is showing them you're thinking of them. 0:24:04.840 --> 0:24:09.720 Okay, that just sounds like being intentional, like that can 0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:12.719 go both ways. 0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:16.760 When people check in. This is something that I don't understand, 0:24:16.760 --> 0:24:18.840 but I do understand that people like it. Like I'll 0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:20.479 get a text on somebody going, hey, just checking in, 0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.880 what's what's What's happening. I don't get it. 0:24:23.960 --> 0:24:24.920 That's just connection. 0:24:26.280 --> 0:24:28.280 Isn't that just going hey, don't forget about me? 0:24:29.760 --> 0:24:30.960 Then checking in on you? 0:24:31.240 --> 0:24:35.280 Yeah, because I'm not going to like pour anything into 0:24:35.320 --> 0:24:37.399 that and be like, oh, I'm glad you checked in. 0:24:38.200 --> 0:24:41.520 Well a torm a rectum. 0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:45.080 So wait, hold on, you think that's them saying don't 0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:45.920 forget about. 0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:49.240 Me kind of, But but I know it's not because 0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:51.760 but I never just go, hey, I'm just checking in 0:24:51.880 --> 0:24:54.000 on you, because they're not going to tell me anything 0:24:54.040 --> 0:24:56.240 deep anyway, or I'd already have a very close relationship 0:24:56.240 --> 0:24:57.800 with him, And then I feel like they're just going, 0:24:57.800 --> 0:24:58.600 why is he texting me? 0:24:58.680 --> 0:25:00.639 Just checking because you're you're t out if it's a 0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:01.720 random person. 0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:03.200 But it's just somebody I know, like maybe I haven't 0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:04.520 seen him in six months, and I'm like, hey, just 0:25:04.600 --> 0:25:05.080 checking in. 0:25:05.440 --> 0:25:06.360 What does that even mean? 0:25:06.560 --> 0:25:08.960 Okay, yeah, six months, that's that's a little weird to 0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:09.760 just check in. 0:25:09.920 --> 0:25:11.399 If I checked in on you, I would know that 0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:14.320 you have something going on. We're close. I go, amy, hey, 0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:15.080 check in you good? 0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:17.120 Right like when my power was out, Hey you're good, 0:25:17.240 --> 0:25:19.760 or like I'm different, but why it is pregnant. So 0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:22.040 sometimes randomly if I haven't even talked to her for 0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:22.800 a week, I'll be like. 0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:25.880 Hey, checking in. What's like how? 0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:28.320 And that means like, how are you feeling? I know 0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:30.479 that you're pregnant, do you need anything? Like you were 0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:32.920 out of town and I just wanted to like check 0:25:32.960 --> 0:25:33.640 in because. 0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:37.600 Checked in with Jay Shannon, who was our program director 0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:38.440 for years and years. 0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:41.040 Maybe you would say something more long lines of Hey, 0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:42.320 I was just thinking about you. 0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:45.520 Any thinks I want to get with them? It's a 0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:47.440 risky man sing, or. 0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:50.400 You came up in conversation and I've been curious how 0:25:50.440 --> 0:25:50.880 you're doing. 0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:51.600 I don't know. 0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:53.920 What I understand is that I don't understand about checking 0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:55.680 in because I think it comes from a good place 0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:57.200 and I think it's a hey, I was thinking to you. 0:25:57.560 --> 0:25:59.800 But I never would send a text to somebody going hey, 0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:01.480 just checking in, just seeing what's up. 0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:03.040 I would just be thinking about them and wondering. 0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:04.399 But if I really wondered what was up with them, 0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:06.840 I'd ask a specific question, like, Hey, was wondering, I 0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:07.480 know you had. 0:26:07.320 --> 0:26:10.639 That gout problem. How's that going? Right? You know? But 0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:12.000 I do know I'm wrong on this. 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:13.600 Well, I don't know that you're wrong when now you're 0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:17.800 assigning like a timeline that has, you know, like six 0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:18.919 months attached. 0:26:18.520 --> 0:26:21.159 To it or a couple of years just checking in. 0:26:21.320 --> 0:26:23.399 I thought you were just saying, like just checking. 0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.720 In at my Instagram, like what's up? Yeah? 0:26:26.720 --> 0:26:28.640 Yeah, but I mean if if you just haven't talked 0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:30.000 to him in a couple of weeks, then you can 0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:30.399 check in. 0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:34.240 Planning dates is chivalrous according to this, things like and 0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:37.200 then paying for meals. Yes, what if I'm gonna ask 0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:41.199 you this and I'll finish on this. You're walking, it 0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.679 had been raining, there's a puddle, and your boyfriend goes 0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:45.920 hold on it, takes a check out of lays it 0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:47.480 on top of the puddle so you can walk over it. 0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:51.960 Hey, yeah, is that that somewhere? No, it's not real 0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:55.639 because also I would be like, you're it's kind of 0:26:55.640 --> 0:26:59.080 an idiot, okay, because like what you're now your now 0:26:59.119 --> 0:26:59.840 your coat's. 0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:04.000 Wet, Like I can leap over the puddle. What would 0:27:04.040 --> 0:27:06.399 be really sweet if seat sweeps you up. 0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:08.240 Off your feet and then carries it takes you up 0:27:08.280 --> 0:27:11.359 like he's walking across the Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you 0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:13.919 wouldn't like that either. What I would love that no, 0:27:14.000 --> 0:27:15.600 you would just go I could have walked around the puddle. 0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:18.800 I know, but like in a moment of like whimsy, 0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:20.240 if you just like did that, that. 0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:20.760 Would be cute. 0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:22.040 Again, he's trying to get with you right then. 0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:26.360 If he's doing that take out, it's talking to Blake 0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:30.480 Shelton about what would be a realistic perfect day for him. 0:27:31.040 --> 0:27:34.240 Perfect day is in Oklahoma at the ranch when is 0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:39.080 there and the boys, and the boys are outside doing things. 0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:41.119 You know, it makes me happy to see him just 0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:44.560 out messing around. It is simple and that sounds It's 0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:46.920 just makes me happy and it's not hot. 0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:49.880 I'll take five degrees over one hundred degrees. 0:27:50.640 --> 0:27:53.600 So a realistic perfect day in your mind, So I'll 0:27:53.600 --> 0:27:55.960 go first. I think we'd be in fan of Ville. 0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:59.320 It'd be a Saturday. It'd be a three pm Razorback 0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:02.520 Game house in Fayeville. I don't want the eleven o'clock game. 0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:02.880 That sucks. 0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:04.280 I don't want the night game because I hate waiting 0:28:04.320 --> 0:28:05.679 all day because I'm just looking forward to the night 0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:09.000 game all day. So like a three pm game, wake up. 0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:11.520 I like to wake up and then go back to sleep. 0:28:11.560 --> 0:28:13.160 I like to wake up, eat and fall back asleep 0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:14.800 for a little bit. So I would do that and 0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:20.080 then I watch games and then walk over to the 0:28:20.080 --> 0:28:22.040 tailgate like an hour and a half before the games go. 0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.480 We win, We beat the crap out of Ole miss 0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:28.359 or LSU, and then we go to a nice dinner 0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:31.160 after the game at like eight pm. The weather it's 0:28:31.200 --> 0:28:33.720 one of those where it's not cold. It's like fifty eight. 0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:37.479 It's long sleeves, but it never is super cold. So 0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:42.280 we get that big win afternoon game in Fayetteville football season. 0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:43.480 That's my perfect day. 0:28:44.160 --> 0:28:47.360 And Oklahoma's off that week, so caylyn'st I try to 0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:50.120 watch on her phone. Oh, she's totally focused on Arkansas 0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:54.880 winning the game, and so that would be my perfect 0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:57.160 day that I really could have Amy. 0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:01.640 I would wake up and call Ad, probably a summer 0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:04.200 morning at my sister's house, and we would have coffee 0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.160 on her back deck by the river, and then later 0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:09.120 we would go on a hike, and then we would 0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:12.320 head over to the spa and get some massages, and 0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:15.400 then maybe we sit by her fire and read a 0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:17.880 little bit, and then at some point either she's cooking 0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:20.000 because she's an amazing cook, or we just order Thai 0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:22.280 food or something and we eat in and then that's 0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.320 when the rest of the family shows up, like my kids, 0:29:24.320 --> 0:29:27.680 her kids and everybody. They always have tons of people 0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.000 sitting around their dining room table, like you have to 0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:32.240 pull up chairs and squeeze everybody in. And I love 0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.120 that feeling. And maybe after that we curl up and 0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:36.080 watch a movie. 0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:37.440 Could you make that day happen? 0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:38.520 Yeah, we could do that. 0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:40.520 And I feel like I could do most of mine 0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:42.800 except getting the wind. Yeah right, that's what the last 0:29:42.880 --> 0:29:45.280 few is. Arkansas football. I'm not sure I can make 0:29:45.360 --> 0:29:46.200 all the rest of that happen. 0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:48.560 I just can't. I can't guarantee we get a win 0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:50.120 over all, miss or Lsu. You know. 0:29:50.520 --> 0:29:52.360 Yeah, mine doesn't have any sports. 0:29:52.680 --> 0:29:56.800 Yeah. Got mountains though, got mountains, yeah, Eddie, Oh, mine's wonderful. 0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:59.320 I wake up about seven thirty eight o'clock, get my 0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:00.640 cup of coffee, watch. 0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.360 The birds for a little bit at the bird feeder, and. 0:30:03.320 --> 0:30:05.280 Then I have an eleven o'clock tea time, so I've 0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.560 got to go, right, So I go play golf, drink 0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:10.640 a couple of beers, a great round. Then on the 0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:12.800 way home, I stop at the grocery store pick up 0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:15.080 some meat, because I'm about to turn the smoker on. 0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:18.920 Pick up some more beer, smoke some meat, and then 0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:21.440 we have dinner. And after dinner we play a board 0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:23.320 game with all the kids. And then I stay up 0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:25.280 late and watch a movie with my son because he 0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:26.240 loves watching movies. 0:30:26.600 --> 0:30:28.760 Could you make that happen? I can make that happen 0:30:28.840 --> 0:30:31.800 every Saturday. Lunchbikes. Oh it's easy. 0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:36.080 You wake up, have some breakfast tacos, absolutely the best 0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:38.880 breakfast on the planet. Have some breakfast tacos, head to 0:30:38.920 --> 0:30:41.560 the golf course with your buddies, and like Eddie said, 0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:43.840 you have a couple of cold ones. Then you come 0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:45.480 home after that round of golf, and what. 0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:47.600 Do I love to do? Take a nap. 0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:51.000 Take an hour and a half, two hour nap, beautiful, 0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:54.520 feeling rejuvenated. Kids, come home, play for a little bit, 0:30:54.840 --> 0:30:57.800 and then what oh, time to go to a soccer game, 0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:00.880 because you know I love to play co ed soccer 0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:03.280 at forty four years old. Get out there, score a 0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:06.880 couple of goals, come home, sit on the couch, have 0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:10.840 a night cap, and uh tell the lady ready to 0:31:10.840 --> 0:31:11.400 go ustairs? 0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:15.040 All right, right, right, right? Forgot about that? Yeah, none 0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:17.200 of you guys have that thing. Got weird that one. 0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:20.479 None of you guys, like, none of you grown adults 0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:22.200 thought about that on a perfect day. 0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:23.600 Can I change minds? 0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:23.720 Like? 0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:27.320 That's embarrassing. I just didn't really talk about it. 0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:30.640 Oh right, that's a perfect day. 0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:34.560 Didn't say that. Yeah, it's weird too. 0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:39.360 That he didn't say that on a perfect day. Okay, 0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:42.400 I hope all you guys try to have that. 0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:44.440 Eddie just said he could do it every Saturday. 0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:46.800 I can do it. The golf's hard to convince my wife. 0:31:46.840 --> 0:31:48.640 I'm gonna go play golf for four hours. That's tough. 0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:50.560 And then theirs, they didn't play with each other. They're 0:31:50.600 --> 0:31:52.640 at the same golf course and they're not playing. 0:31:52.320 --> 0:31:52.800 With each other. 0:31:52.920 --> 0:31:59.240 We ignored each other. Today's President Today. It's Washington's birthday, 0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.400 so it's President's Day. So we celebrate all the presidents. 0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:07.600 Let's do President's Day trivia example question what kind of 0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:14.560 crop did President Jimmy Carter and his family own? Okay, 0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:17.920 write your answer down. Who's the only president born in Hawaii? 0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:25.600 I'm in. I'm in for the win. Everybody good? 0:32:26.880 --> 0:32:29.800 What founding father and future US president wrote the first 0:32:29.880 --> 0:32:31.160 draft of the Declaration of. 0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:41.840 Independence I'm in. I'm in for the win. Amy Jefferson Lunchbox, 0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:46.880 Thomas Jefferson, Eddie, TJ. Thomas Jefferson, you need to be cute. 0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:51.280 I almost wrote TJ to dude, and that's scared. What's 0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:53.320 the address at the White House? 0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:55.440 Oh? 0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.320 Man gets me every time. Man, I think I know it. Now, 0:33:03.520 --> 0:33:08.520 I'm in. I'm in for the win. Eddie, I don't know. 0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:10.800 Sixteen hundred Pennsylvania Avenue. 0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:13.760 Lunchbox, twelve hundred Pennsylvania Avenue, Amy. 0:33:13.560 --> 0:33:15.520 Sixteen hundred Pennsylvania Avenue. 0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:21.200 Correct, and Eddie appoint Wow. Who was the youngest president 0:33:21.240 --> 0:33:23.200 elected to the office? 0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:35.200 The youngest I'm in, the youngest president elected to the office. Oh, 0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:36.680 I'm in for the web. 0:33:38.280 --> 0:33:43.920 I'm in, Eddie Obama lunchbox Obama. Amy J. Kennedy is correct. 0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:47.800 He was not the youngest president though ever, how can 0:33:47.840 --> 0:33:51.120 that happen? Someone got assassinated and then that's exactly it 0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:53.600 moved up. Theodore Roosevelt was the youngest person to become 0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:56.560 president at age forty two. He assumed the position upon 0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:57.920 the death of his predecessor. 0:33:58.040 --> 0:34:01.080 I get a bonus point for that. No, Oh, he 0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:01.800 was elected. 0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:06.640 God, who is the oldest president elected to office. 0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:14.560 Oh question, I'm in, I'm in for the wind. 0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:16.160 What sing has that change? 0:34:18.520 --> 0:34:24.000 The oldest president? Am in an answer? 0:34:24.200 --> 0:34:24.480 No? 0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:30.960 Okay, What do you have Biden lunchbox? Biden, Eddie? I 0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:34.160 have Joe Biden's Donald Trump. He's old. 0:34:35.560 --> 0:34:38.040 Donald Trump was elected office at seventy eight years, two 0:34:38.120 --> 0:34:40.520 hundred and twenty eight two twenty days. Biden was seventy 0:34:40.520 --> 0:34:43.680 eight years sixty one days. They just keep getting older. 0:34:43.760 --> 0:34:45.440 It did change to him. 0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:47.760 What was the name of the theater where President Abraham 0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:48.920 Lincoln was assassinated? 0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:58.960 I'm in, I'm in. 0:35:01.680 --> 0:35:05.319 I'm in for the Williams Lunchbox, A paramount, one of 0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:06.040 my favorite theaters. 0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:07.560 Great, great theater in Austin, for sure. 0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:12.200 Not it, Amy, Ford, Eddie, It's the Ford Theater, Ford Theater, Washington, 0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:12.440 d C. 0:35:12.560 --> 0:35:13.200 That's correct. 0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:18.239 Which US president taught law at the University of Arkansas. 0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:26.800 That's it. I'm in, I'm in for the win. Amy's 0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:27.959 struggling right now, she's crossing. 0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:28.879 Have a guess, but. 0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:34.800 What do you Amy Clinton lunchbox? Obviously Clinton, Eddie, Bill Clinton. 0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:38.400 Bill Clinton taught courses including constitutional law and criminal procedure 0:35:38.400 --> 0:35:41.040 from seventy three to seventy six, after graduating from Yale 0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:44.759 and before being elected as Arkansas Attorney General. Next up, 0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:46.800 Which president is on the two dollars bill? 0:35:49.960 --> 0:35:56.520 Whoa wow? Two dollars bill? Those are the coolest things. 0:35:57.920 --> 0:35:59.359 I have not seen one of those in a bit. 0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:04.279 Got some in my house. Dang, dang, dang. 0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:06.520 And when I look at him, who's looking back at me? 0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:11.960 Two dollars bill? Five seconds? Oh? Man? Amy? 0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:13.640 George Washington? 0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:15.640 Lunchbox? Taft Eddy? 0:36:15.840 --> 0:36:18.160 I think it's the second president for the two dollars bill? 0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:23.440 John Adams smart? I would have accepted TJ. Thomas Jefferson 0:36:26.400 --> 0:36:28.840 Jay tallest president? 0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:35.279 Who was it? I'm in, I'm in. Oh, you guys 0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:41.560 are in that quick? Huh? Think we'll go that lunchbox? 0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:45.560 Ronald Reagan, Amy Lincoln, Eddy, Abraham Lincoln? 0:36:45.640 --> 0:36:48.120 Correct, Lincoln was sixty four. How do you guys know that? 0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:52.439 Would you guess? Ronald Reagan? I don't know. He looks tall. 0:36:53.680 --> 0:36:55.359 He was in the movie, so he had to be tall, right. 0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:57.440 Who was the first president to be born at a 0:36:57.480 --> 0:36:59.160 hospital in nineteen twenty four? 0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:06.960 Twenty four? 0:37:07.480 --> 0:37:09.359 Who was the first president to be born at a 0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:11.799 hospital in nineteen twenty four? 0:37:13.280 --> 0:37:17.879 Roaring twenties. I don't even have a clue. Le bout 0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:25.600 I'm in. I'm in for the whim. 0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:31.600 Amy Carter, Lunchbox taft, Eddie Warren g Harding. 0:37:32.080 --> 0:37:35.680 One of you is right, I got it. It is Carter, 0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:36.319 Jimmy Carter. 0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:39.400 Now we got two final questions where you can make 0:37:39.480 --> 0:37:40.080 up the deficit. 0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:42.440 He was born in the twenties. 0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.799 You have to age him to win. 0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:46.880 He was I don't know hold right now. 0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:49.200 The score is Amy eight, Eddie six, Lunchbox three. But 0:37:49.239 --> 0:37:50.759 we have two questions where you can make up a 0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:51.440 bunch of points. 0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:53.759 I love it. So you get a point for each 0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:54.439 that you get here. 0:37:54.560 --> 0:37:58.640 Oh wow, Name the four US presidents on Mount Rushmore. 0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.239 Go okay, go ahead, just right now, name the four 0:38:02.320 --> 0:38:04.840 US presidents. Write them down on Mount Rushmore. 0:38:06.760 --> 0:38:11.160 I'm gonna lose points on lose impossible to lose points though, 0:38:11.760 --> 0:38:13.319 So the competition. 0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:28.919 I'm in. I think I'm in. Uh why not? I'm 0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:29.440 in for the win. 0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:33.360 Lunchbox Lincoln, Washington, Jefferson, Adams. 0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:35.440 You got three. Give the guy three points. 0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:38.960 Amy Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln, Roosevelt. 0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:40.600 Give her four points. 0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:46.600 Eddie Washington, Roosevelt, Abe Lincoln and TJ four points Eddie. 0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:49.600 Now here's the big one though, final question. 0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:52.400 I need to learn this, Roosevelt guy, I don't know 0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:52.960 who that is? 0:38:54.480 --> 0:39:00.600 How many rooms are in the White House? There's no 0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:02.920 I'm going to get this. So I got I'm in. 0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:07.000 Whoever's closest it's ten point, it's five points. 0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:13.480 All right? Okay, if you're going there this room? Oh yeah, yeah, 0:39:13.480 --> 0:39:13.960 you go in? 0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:15.600 I remember that rum. 0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:20.719 Oh yeah yeah that room. 0:39:20.760 --> 0:39:22.880 Remember yeah. Soon get the closest. 0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:24.719 So the secretary to that. 0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:26.960 How many rooms are the White House? Are you counting bathrooms? 0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:32.239 That's a room. I don't answer questions about questions. I'm 0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:38.239 in for the win on my tour. Are you in? 0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:40.439 I'm in? What do you have? Man? It just came 0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:42.360 to me the number as soon as you asked the question. 0:39:42.800 --> 0:39:44.359 I saw the number thirty two. 0:39:45.040 --> 0:39:52.000 Okay, over what over lunchbox? 0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:53.399 Thirty? 0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:54.719 Like? 0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:57.080 Oh you mean he went over? Yeah, he went he 0:39:57.160 --> 0:39:58.000 went way over. 0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:01.120 Wait story just bedrooms? 0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:05.080 Amy? How many rooms a bedrooms? Right? What do you have? 0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:07.479 I have sixty one? And I don't know why. 0:40:08.000 --> 0:40:09.799 Oh I got to win that. You guys are not 0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.560 even close on hit me. But he's not even It's 0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.279 like you guys think it's huge. It's really not that big. 0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:19.239 Yeah, there's kitchen that they're no differ is not a room. 0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:21.439 There are different The kitchen is a room. 0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:24.319 According to White House Dot go come on, baby, there 0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:25.160 are six levels. 0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:28.400 See there are thirty five bathrooms. 0:40:28.960 --> 0:40:31.759 Oh man, ed you saw thirty two because there are 0:40:31.760 --> 0:40:33.080 one hundred and thirty two rooms. 0:40:33.400 --> 0:40:36.839 Oh my goodness, so you are remote view ain't good 0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.319 for you. But Amy is the winner. It's time for 0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:46.280 the good news already. There's a store clerk in Missouri. 0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:48.560 It's just working and he sees this old man walking 0:40:48.600 --> 0:40:51.319 to the store and go to a crypto ATM. So 0:40:51.640 --> 0:40:53.520 the old man's on the phone while he's trying to 0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:56.080 get money out of the ATM, and the store clerk goes, 0:40:56.120 --> 0:40:56.840 this looks weird. 0:40:56.880 --> 0:40:58.239 So he goes up to the man and says, hey, 0:40:58.280 --> 0:40:59.560 are you you good? Like, what are you what are 0:40:59.560 --> 0:41:00.520 you working on? What are you doing? 0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:02.920 Oh, I'm on the phone with a Microsoft. They say, 0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:04.480 I have a virus on my computer and I need 0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:08.600 forty thousand dollars to transfer to these guys. And that 0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:10.640 of sound the alarm. The guy's like, I gotta call 0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:11.840 the cops. This is not real. 0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:15.120 Sure enough, he was being scammed and the store clerk 0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:16.240 saved him from being scammed. 0:41:16.320 --> 0:41:19.000 I would think anybody over forty eight walking to that 0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.120 machine at all, we need to stop them. 0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:23.200 There's about to be a scam. It's crypto. I've never 0:41:23.239 --> 0:41:25.799 seen an ATM like that. You probably haven't. Just didn't 0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.640 know that that crypto availability on it. Wow, So you 0:41:28.680 --> 0:41:31.200 can just go to that and like buy crypto. Wow. 0:41:31.239 --> 0:41:31.839 I didn't know that. 0:41:32.000 --> 0:41:33.399 So that way, if you see an old person walking 0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:35.640 up to it, I didn't know what crypto is. Yeah, exactly. 0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:39.879 That's why some of like fifty five are up. Excuse me, sir. 0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:42.880 Then there fifty five year olds to know what crypto is, 0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:47.200 but eighty gonna say go higher. I don't know, man, 0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:50.400 even like fifty, I'm like, you do you know what's happening. 0:41:50.600 --> 0:41:52.000 I've never seen one of those, so that would happen 0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:52.120 to me. 0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:54.879 If it happened to Eddie, I'd be like, Sarah, that's 0:41:55.160 --> 0:41:57.280 glad that that person was looking out good story. 0:41:57.360 --> 0:42:02.040 That's what it's all about. That was telling me something good. 0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:07.200 Wake up, wake up in the morning and it's on 0:42:07.360 --> 0:42:09.400 the radio and the Dodgers. 0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:10.319 He's on time. 0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:14.319 Already and the lunchbox. 0:42:14.360 --> 0:42:17.279 More Game two Steve Bread and it's trying to put 0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:18.600 you through bag. 0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:22.200 He's riding this week's next bit. The Bobby's on the mix, 0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:30.560 so you know what this. 0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:28.920 Is about? 0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:33.120 It ball time for the Morning Corny. 0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:36.280 The Morning Corny? 0:42:36.480 --> 0:42:38.200 Which presidents were the greenest? 0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:45.880 Like the theme greenest? I don't know the bushes? Oh okay, 0:42:50.239 --> 0:42:52.839 that was the Morning Corny voice. 0:42:52.880 --> 0:42:56.120 Now, you guys have been talking about the Elizabeth Smart documentary. 0:42:56.719 --> 0:42:59.400 I wanted to watch it. I am in my twenties, 0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:01.960 so I didn't the story, and you guys went and 0:43:01.960 --> 0:43:03.400 spoiled it. So now I feel like I don't need 0:43:03.440 --> 0:43:05.960 to watch the documentary. It was in the news, but 0:43:06.080 --> 0:43:08.200 those of us who weren't around then don't remember it. 0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:09.640 But you guys spoiled it, and I think you guys 0:43:09.640 --> 0:43:12.440 should be punished. Okay, Bye, we had this debate. 0:43:12.480 --> 0:43:16.319 It's a documentary, it's recent. I don't think we spoiled it. 0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:18.760 She's in it, she's alive, she's. 0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:19.920 The dumb nail we spoil. 0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:22.440 I mean, yeah, I don't agree with this at all. 0:43:22.480 --> 0:43:24.799 Someone was accusing Amy of spoiling when she watched it first. 0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:27.839 I didn't say the guy's name, but I'm not gonna 0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:28.600 say it again. 0:43:30.239 --> 0:43:30.839 News. 0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:32.359 I know. I thought that that was just. 0:43:32.320 --> 0:43:34.120 Like why, I'd love to do some punishing. I'm in 0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:36.760 the punishing mood. But it's all of us though. Yeah, 0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:39.520 but we didn't spoil it. 0:43:39.840 --> 0:43:41.920 Also, us talking about it like that still did not 0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:44.520 give away everything that makes that documentary worth watching. 0:43:44.680 --> 0:43:45.840 I think if she watched. 0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:48.120 It and then said, hmm, they said everything about that 0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:51.239 in the show. After I finished the documentary, I'm gonna 0:43:51.239 --> 0:43:53.200 call them, and you felt a way, maybe I consider it. 0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:54.600 I don't know. I don't think that's the case. 0:43:54.719 --> 0:43:56.239 Yeah, and I still think you should push it. 0:43:57.080 --> 0:43:58.600 Oh, it's so sad though, man. 0:43:58.520 --> 0:43:58.759 It is. 0:43:58.760 --> 0:44:00.000 They're ruined daddy's life. 0:43:59.840 --> 0:44:07.280 For moved two days terrible. Yeah, it is extremely compelling. 0:44:08.560 --> 0:44:11.040 There are some very sad parts to it. But I 0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:12.840 did think they did a great job of telling the story. 0:44:12.960 --> 0:44:14.759 It's weird to just say it's a great documentary when 0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:18.279 it's about something sad. But she lived, It's obvious she lived. 0:44:18.280 --> 0:44:20.360 It's not a spoiler because she's talking in the documentary. 0:44:21.120 --> 0:44:24.200 But it's the Elizabeth Smart documentary on Netflix. I still 0:44:24.200 --> 0:44:24.799 recommend it. 0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:28.200 Robby Bone Show. Sorry, up today. 0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:32.840 This story comes us from Denver, Colorado. Police got a 0:44:32.920 --> 0:44:34.960 nine to one one call from a driver saying, Hey, 0:44:35.000 --> 0:44:37.800 I'm downtown at this intersection. I'm waiting at the stoplight 0:44:38.200 --> 0:44:40.759 and there's a unicyclist juggling in the middle of the intersection. 0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:42.879 He said, Oh, what's he juggling. They said, oh, he's 0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:45.279 got something that's on fire. He's juggling fire in the 0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:48.640 middle of downtown. So police responded and he was like, oh, what, 0:44:48.719 --> 0:44:50.160 I'm just practicing for my act. 0:44:50.440 --> 0:44:51.520 Yeah, what's what's problem? 0:44:52.239 --> 0:44:54.600 You're juggling fire in the middle of a city and 0:44:54.600 --> 0:44:56.440 there's a lot of ordinances that you can't do that. 0:44:56.719 --> 0:44:58.399 I think we need to change his ordinances. Yeah, that'd 0:44:58.440 --> 0:44:58.640 be fun. 0:44:58.719 --> 0:45:01.000 Say so he's on a uni cycle juggling. 0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:04.080 Yes, he's on a recycle sitting in the intersection juggling fire. 0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:07.080 I don't see a fine. I don't see an ordinance violation. 0:45:07.400 --> 0:45:08.680 If so, we should change it. 0:45:08.719 --> 0:45:09.920 Is he blocking traffic? 0:45:10.280 --> 0:45:14.080 Is he wearing a nose that hawks he was blocking traffic? 0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:17.200 Amy, I suppose that that's problematic. And then also if 0:45:17.239 --> 0:45:20.799 you drop one of the fire things like couldn't catch 0:45:20.840 --> 0:45:21.719 something else on fire? 0:45:21.880 --> 0:45:23.840 Oh, he's on a street. I'm looking at a picture. 0:45:23.840 --> 0:45:25.040 He's like a crosswalk. 0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:26.440 The only thing I. 0:45:26.400 --> 0:45:29.080 Guessed that would be would be a distraction if he's 0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:31.080 out there juggling. But you could distract people on the 0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:33.959 corner as well. I mean, he's going to town. 0:45:34.040 --> 0:45:37.000 He is. It's awesome. That was awesome. 0:45:37.000 --> 0:45:39.640 He should be rewarded by the city, not fined. Okay, 0:45:39.880 --> 0:45:42.120 I'm lunch boxed. That's your bonehead story of the day. 0:45:43.800 --> 0:45:44.800 Let's talk about secrets. 0:45:44.960 --> 0:45:48.200 On average, a secret lasts just forty seven hours and 0:45:48.280 --> 0:45:54.239 fifteen minutes before curiosity, trust or casual coffee chat takes over, 0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:56.960 and that's when it is whispered or so. 0:45:57.000 --> 0:45:59.000 If you tell somebody's secret, they only hold it for 0:45:59.000 --> 0:45:59.760 forty seven hour. 0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:01.440 Twenty seven hours, fifteen minutes. 0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:03.160 It's wrong with people. 0:46:03.280 --> 0:46:05.880 M h. I feel like I'm a great secret keeper 0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.960 because I think I forget them pretty quickly and then 0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:09.440 I can go back. 0:46:09.480 --> 0:46:12.319 I'm like, oh, yeah, I knew that at about forty 0:46:12.320 --> 0:46:13.160 seven hours. 0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:15.279 No, I'm not really a gossip now. 0:46:15.280 --> 0:46:17.560 I don't think well, speaking of gossip women, here at 0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:19.920 least three pieces of gossip per week. 0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:23.600 Yeah, I kind of don't want to know gossip because 0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:25.320 I don't want to have to deal with gossip like 0:46:25.360 --> 0:46:27.279 anything that's happening, Like you know, I'd rather not know 0:46:27.600 --> 0:46:29.920 I'm that person. The least information you can give me 0:46:30.000 --> 0:46:31.880 the better when it comes to things that don't affect me, 0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:34.680 because I don't want to like use my energy on it. 0:46:35.920 --> 0:46:41.280 A lot of people have blamed alcohol for revealing the secret. Yeah, 0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:47.200 the secrets were most likely told to spouse's boyfriends, a mother, 0:46:47.440 --> 0:46:48.240 or best friend. 0:46:49.239 --> 0:46:51.799 Is there anyone that knows they're not a good secret keeper? 0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:54.080 Because I feel like everybody thinks they are, but realistically 0:46:54.120 --> 0:46:54.800 everybody isn't. 0:46:55.960 --> 0:46:57.439 Man, I'll tell you I got one of my brother 0:46:57.480 --> 0:47:00.560 that I've never told. What is it? Good? See? 0:47:00.760 --> 0:47:04.320 And I think he told me when I was sixteen, 0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:05.399 seventeen years old. 0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:07.560 I think a little bit though, the fact that you're 0:47:07.600 --> 0:47:10.080 saying you have a secret about that specific person is 0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:11.680 a little bit of killing the secret. 0:47:11.600 --> 0:47:14.040 Yeah, because you have no idea. But no, But if 0:47:14.080 --> 0:47:16.560 I was like, guys, I got someone Amy, Oh. 0:47:17.080 --> 0:47:18.799 My mother is raising like what did Amy do? 0:47:18.800 --> 0:47:18.840 No? 0:47:19.320 --> 0:47:19.720 Gosh? 0:47:19.760 --> 0:47:23.359 I speaking of siblings, I have something my sister told 0:47:23.400 --> 0:47:24.960 me And I don't feel like this is weird to 0:47:25.000 --> 0:47:27.799 say but she she asked me not to say anything, like, 0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:30.160 not even to my boyfriend or anything. And that part's 0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:32.440 been I feel like it's something that would be good 0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:35.080 for my boyfriend and I'd talk about and she would never 0:47:35.200 --> 0:47:36.160 know if I told him. 0:47:36.280 --> 0:47:38.480 So we're bragging about the secrets with KEP. Yeah, a 0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:39.200 pretty good secret. 0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:42.120 I feel pretty in that I've far exceeded the forty 0:47:42.160 --> 0:47:44.319 seven hours, so I feel like once you get over that, 0:47:45.120 --> 0:47:47.240 you're likely going to keep it. And to answer your question, Bobby, 0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:50.520 part of this research, it says that even though secrets 0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:52.880 are being told, eighty three percent of people believe that 0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:56.080 they are completely trustworthy and seventy five percent claim they 0:47:56.080 --> 0:47:58.000 would never betray a friend's confidence. 0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:01.640 Right, it's probably like twenty percent the people that actually 0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:03.800 hold on to the secrets. I got some big secrets 0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:07.920 about celebrities. Yeah, yeah, like I know some they're gay. 0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:11.160 Seriously, I feel like you're saying that. 0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:19.200 Is whoa which one and I'm happy for him? Huh exactly, 0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:25.879 exactly exactly. Okay, Well, thank you everybody for listening. That's 0:48:25.920 --> 0:48:28.080 what's up. We'll see you guys tomorrow. 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