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Speaker 2: Ritt is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean,

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're going to get him

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Speaker 2: on the phone and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if

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Speaker 2: she still wants one. But, Britt, before we talk about

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Speaker 2: your date, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Sean?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Freagain? Twelve days?

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Speaker 1: You we're not counting her. I'm sorry that sucks. Where

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Speaker 1: How did you meet Sean online?

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Speaker 5: On an app or something else?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried,

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Speaker 3: and I've heard good things.

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Speaker 5: No, I have to that makes sense. Yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 5: Let's go back to the date. Can you tell us

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Speaker 5: about that?

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Speaker 3: Well, it was good at first because we like met

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Speaker 3: at one of those like fun bars where there's like

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Speaker 3: you know, bar games, and he was paying for stuff,

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Speaker 3: you know, like he was getting her drinks and I

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Speaker 3: was winning who So it was fun and it was

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Speaker 3: like a flirty good time and you know, we we

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Speaker 3: even like kissed, Okay, well, we made out at the bar.

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Speaker 2: Oh was there any moment where something weird happened? Why

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Speaker 2: you might be getting ghosted?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't plan this or anything at all, but a group

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Speaker 3: of my friends showed up and they you know, came

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Speaker 3: and played a round of darts with us, and that's

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Speaker 3: the only thing I could think of, because I mean,

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Speaker 3: he left shortly after, but he he said he had

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Speaker 3: to get up for work or.

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Speaker 5: Whatever, like how are the vibes?

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Speaker 3: When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I realized the time it is, I have to go,

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Speaker 3: So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,

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Speaker 3: I was definitely like including him and then like it

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Speaker 3: was I thought it was like going fine.

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Speaker 4: So I didn't think that.

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Speaker 1: Would have been it were your friends kind of monopolizing

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Speaker 3: No, no, that so I was like, I think, like

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Speaker 3: we were just all hanging out, Like the only reason

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Speaker 3: it could have been awkwards just because they had never

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Speaker 3: met before, because it was like a first date.

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Speaker 4: But I think it went fine. Like I even like

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Speaker 4: text them that night to apologize that they shut up.

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Speaker 3: But I thanked him for like being cool and said

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Speaker 3: I couldn't like to.

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Speaker 4: See him again.

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Speaker 5: Did he say anything back to that or was that

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Speaker 5: the last time you heard from him?

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Speaker 4: No, he text me back the next morning.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I was like, oh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you must have gone home gone to.

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Speaker 3: Sleep early, because he woke up text me.

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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, I had fun and then ghost.

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Speaker 5: Is it possible he's dated any area of friends?

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Speaker 4: Uh? None of them said anything about that, so I.

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Speaker 1: Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,

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Speaker 1: remember when you had that date and you ran into

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Speaker 1: your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're already meeting their friends and you're just not ready

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Speaker 5: Welso it's a very first state. So like you're meeting

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Speaker 5: their friends and you're like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is weird, but hi, like you're introducing yourself

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Speaker 2: and yeah, that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 5: Well that's besides the point though.

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Speaker 1: So if that's what happened and then he goes ghosts

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Speaker 1: like something had to have happened in that interaction. Were

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Speaker 1: their guy friends there too? So that was like guys

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Speaker 4: No, I's a group of girls.

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Speaker 5: And what was the last thing he said to you.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 3: He said that he had fun and I did, like

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Speaker 3: try texting him within those twelve days, like one or

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Speaker 5: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okays, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll play a song come Back, get your first day

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Speaker 2: follow up next, so Ju will show right in the

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Speaker 2: middle of your first Day follow up if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us. Britt is on the phone and she's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted by a dude named Sean. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call him and see if he'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 2: ghosting and maybe get her another date. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Britt, why don't you remind everybody of the

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Speaker 2: situation with Sean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,

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Speaker 3: who I met online, and we were having a super

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Speaker 3: fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran

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Speaker 3: into a group of my girlfriends, played some darts with them,

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Speaker 3: and then Sean left, briefly text me back once and

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Speaker 4: And I don't know why, because it's a great first date.

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Speaker 5: Well, we're about to get him on the phone and

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Speaker 5: find out why you're ready.

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Speaker 4: I'm ready?

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Speaker 6: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, misspeak to Sean.

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Speaker 6: Please Nicky, Who is Sean?

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Speaker 5: How are you? My name is Jebel and I'm on

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Speaker 5: a radio show called the Jebel Show. Hi, Sean, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 5: Also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this

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Speaker 5: is a radio show called the Jubil Show. How are you?

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Speaker 7: I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio. What's this about?

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Speaker 5: Do you ever listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 7: I am not familiar with your guys, with your guys

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Speaker 7: this show?

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Speaker 2: Now all right, well now you will be I guess.

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Speaker 2: But we do a segment on the show and it's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and then it

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Speaker 2: end up ghosting them, they can email us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you from a girl named Britt.

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Speaker 8: Oh Britt, Okay, well that's a uh, yeah, I can

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Speaker 8: understand why she might wanna might want to get some answers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys

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Speaker 2: went out and the last thing you texted her was

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Speaker 2: had fun, So what's up.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step

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Speaker 7: last time we went out.

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Speaker 5: Why is that?

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Speaker 4: It's not her?

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Speaker 9: It's uh and I'm not sure if she told you this,

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Speaker 9: but when we were out, we went into some of

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Speaker 9: she was giving me. She was making sure that she's

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Speaker 9: being scared of both parties and being you know, being

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Speaker 7: She just happened running to her friends. But okay, uh,

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Speaker 7: it is because of her friend, Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we used, Yeah, we used to.

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Speaker 7: Hook up, and Sabrina at one point in time. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 7: she was just like two years ago. But Sabrina at.

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Speaker 9: One point in time cornered me and basically was like, oh, like,

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Speaker 9: I'm so good to see you, I'm so happy to

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Speaker 4: And all this other good stuff.

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Speaker 9: And then yeah, asked me if I wanted to have

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Speaker 9: a threesomes.

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Speaker 5: Well what with her friend or.

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Speaker 8: Well, well, well Sabrina and Brittany both at the both

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Speaker 5: Time, I wonder if she knows that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, see wanted a little bit of space.

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Speaker 4: It's a little weird.

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Speaker 5: Wait, so you think Britton knows about that?

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Speaker 7: I would I would guess that she does, because you know,

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Speaker 7: girls talk. I feel like that came up from the

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Speaker 5: I don't really know what to say about that.

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Speaker 8: It's like, I mean, you know, it wasn't just you know,

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Speaker 8: types of things, and uh, I'm not good at you projects, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, I can see that. Yeah, you know, Hey, thank

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Speaker 5: you for being honest, and I appreciate it. Also see

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Speaker 5: that coming. No, not at all.

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Speaker 2: And I want to let you know that Britt is

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Speaker 4: Uh what okay?

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Speaker 3: Uh Britt, Hey, I wish someone would have told me

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Speaker 3: that I had no idea.

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Speaker 1: You had no idea that he used to suck up

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Speaker 3: Neither. I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She's

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Speaker 3: I only really see her in group setting. I don't

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Speaker 3: know why she said then. Also, I don't know why

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Speaker 5: Just like of course everybody's going on with me. She's like,

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to technically seal her date.

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Speaker 1: If I include Process, I'll ask him first because guys

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Speaker 3: Wo And the only thing we've ever done together is

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Speaker 4: They were like kind of us. But that's a little

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Speaker 4: different than a reason.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, so you didn't know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I

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Speaker 3: I would have heard her on Instagram, But no, nothing,

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Speaker 3: And really, like I said, she's not that close her friends.

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Speaker 3: So that's like whenever you guys have like, I don't care.

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Speaker 3: I still love a second chance.

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Speaker 5: With you, Sean, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina?

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Speaker 7: Uh, I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to

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Speaker 7: keep doing that, would like to, would like to on

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Speaker 7: a second date just just the two of us though, No,

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Speaker 7: don't know yeah, Saint.

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Speaker 5: Sean, you would like to go out with brit again. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 7: Uh, that would be awesome, especially after the holidays. But

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Speaker 7: if that, if that could be a thing, you guys,

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Speaker 7: the whole thing about is just you know, me and

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Speaker 7: her type intimate setting versus the group aspect of it.

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Speaker 5: I think that would be Bret. You don't care that

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Speaker 5: he's hooked up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 4: No, you've got it in the past, And okay.

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Speaker 5: You want another date, Britt, Yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 3: We could do dinner or something where there's only room

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Speaker 3: for two of us.

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Speaker 4: In the book, you from this.

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Speaker 2: Wholesome Dinner, they're going to be the only person going

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Speaker 2: on a second date in the restaurant who's demanding that.

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Speaker 5: They just make sure it's a table for two. That's it.

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Speaker 5: Nobody else at the table.

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Speaker 10: Of the waitress comes up, they're like, no, yeah, no,

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Speaker 10: we know what you're asked her. No, we're trying to

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Speaker 10: go out with each other. Well, congratulations, you guys got

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Speaker 10: another date.

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Speaker 4: Juble's first day follow up