WEBVTT - Ep. 47 Don't Be An "At least" B*tch 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:06.400 Talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:12.200 to talk back. What's up, y'all, it's your girl, a 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.960 j Welcome to a new episode. If we talked back 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:20.680 A Hey, y'all, it's tam Bell and I'm broken hearted. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:28.920 You're not. I don't mind. I'm hurting because, man, these 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:32.159 niggas is trash. It's like, not all of them, but 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:37.480 the one I'm thinking about. Yeah. Here. I love y'all. Though, 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:39.880 if I ain't told y'all a long time, I feel 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:45.800 like I ain't told y'all in a minute. Um. I 0:00:45.840 --> 0:00:50.760 went to d Artists past weekend by myself and I 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:53.120 had a lot of fun. Actually, I hung out with 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:56.120 this old man on the first night who was a 0:00:56.160 --> 0:01:01.040 foreign diplomat. Yeah, I know he was. He was cool. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:07.040 Probably was, um, what's those people are hit man? What 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:10.240 if well he hits he hit nothing out there. I'm 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:16.200 gonna tell you that he hit me. He thought he 0:01:16.240 --> 0:01:17.600 was gonna hit me too. At the end of the night, 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:20.360 he looked so disappointed. I was like, sorry, Grandpa, I 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.520 gotta go. Did he have that gray got that gray 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:28.120 line around his pupil? No, he wasn't that old. He 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:33.120 was like fifty three. Mm, that's not old. I kind 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:36.560 of like fifty three year olds. M hmmm, that's too 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:40.320 old for me. They did he was he black. Yeah, 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:42.480 he was youthful. He was a youthful fifty three. He 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:48.000 wasn't like, you know, go get the soldier out the trunk. 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.600 He going my keys. He wasn't that old, but he 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:55.000 was old. He's too old for me, but he was 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.600 a lot of fun and he cut me sauce up. 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.240 I don't know if y'll follow my Instagram, but was 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:05.200 I had a whole Instagram rant drunk is Someone said, girl, 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:07.800 you're drunk. Her in a football back. I don't even 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.800 a football back. She saw that she's drunk, because what 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:17.200 the fun is a football back? Exactly That's exactly how 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:21.640 drunk I was. Then I wrote, I was in Santo Domingo, 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:25.239 and I left Santo Domingo and I went to Punta Conor, 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:27.560 which was like across the country, two and a half 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:31.200 hour drive, and I got an uber and my uber 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:34.800 hit somebody, like literally hit a man on a motorcycle 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:37.920 like I know what you did last summer type ship? Yeah, 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:40.200 some ship like that and drove off. So I hope 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:43.040 it ain't no dominicanting out here ready to come get me. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:45.600 I was a passenger to I was, I was a 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:51.080 victim to sir. And she ain't speaking no English, so 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:53.160 I was like sitting there stunned, and she just was 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.320 looking in the review at me, and then she just 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:58.320 put her hand in the air like and she just 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:03.400 kept going yo. So that's how didn't get down of 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:09.240 dr They just be hitting motherfucker's on the highway. That's 0:03:09.200 --> 0:03:10.919 sound like China and something because they don't be having 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:14.079 on stoplights and stop signs. They just be driving. They 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:15.640 just be going. I don't see e men. Why they 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:19.160 have lanes there just for decoration. I think because nobody 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:22.720 adheres to them, like in the Yes. But that was 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:26.919 really the only adventure I had was you know, someone 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:31.400 getting hit by a car. But but I had a 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:36.560 good time. I went to the beach, but I ain't 0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:38.320 get in the beach. I ain't getting the water. I 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.600 just was out there someplace for the New Year's I 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:44.200 need some sun, I need some saying, I need something dick, 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:47.560 I need all types of ship. I was on our period, 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:53.600 so I know flow was like, fuck you bitch. I 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:55.600 didn't even playing for my peer. You know, I have 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:57.600 a float chart and that my perer was supposed to 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.280 come on the following week, but she came early. Hate. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.520 That's like your vacation. You see all those memes online 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:05.720 like a bitch be packing a little overnight whole back 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:11.280 and the perid come out the other room, like what uppit? 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.200 Where the fund you going without me? Bit? You know, 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:16.760 I always thought that if I was planning to do 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:19.400 some whole ship and my perid came on, I thought 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:21.960 it was aside from God, like I'm not supposed to 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:24.160 be doing this ship. That's why God like passing your 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:26.599 sucking ass down for the weekend. You're trying to go 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.600 fun with something you ain't got no business sucking with? 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:39.000 Who you h at my heart? Did you hurt my heart? 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.479 You know? You can get herpes from someone using a condom? Yeah, 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:48.279 because of skin contact. It's not like it's not like liquid, 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:51.800 not liquid but body fluids like people think of other s. 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:57.760 Cd S is skin contact that it's not really technically 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:03.440 is it really uh an STD? It's not really an STD. 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:07.240 It's more like a skin condition, right, But it has 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:11.080 like such a very bad stigma more than it it is. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:14.359 You know, a sickness. Yeah, because if somebody gives you 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:19.120 all sex who has like fever blisters, simplex one, you 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:22.160 can get that on your pussy. It may not come 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:25.520 up as a simplex too, but you're gonna have to be. 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:30.400 It'll be oral. It'll be oral herpes on your vaginant. Yeah, 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:35.839 fool fool, fool, fool fool. He got's to be careful. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.240 It looks of y'all. Didn't know that. Y'all be with 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.280 the niggs who always be getting the fever blisters. I 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.960 always see you want light skin, dudes, and it wins 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.960 the time, Like if y'll be fun with them, dudes, 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:51.320 get them fever blisters. Just no, pussy might look like 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:56.240 a damn herpes cry crunch, I mean nestly crunch star Crunch, 0:05:56.800 --> 0:06:01.400 Star crunch bar. We don't hurt be shaman though. What 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:04.839 about you? What's your what's your weekend? Look like? My 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:07.960 weekend was all right? I actually did something this weekend. 0:06:08.000 --> 0:06:11.880 I went to a friend's birthday party, little gathering, and 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:19.640 guess who the DJ was? Erica fucking do Yes. I'm 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:24.360 jealous of you, Yes, girl, I love I love her. 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:29.960 She's beautiful too, She's beautiful one of my karaoke songs 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:32.799 is Tyrone. When I do karaoke, it's either Dixie Chicks 0:06:32.800 --> 0:06:37.560 Earl or Tyrone or UM. I also do Jill Scott 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.440 he Loves Me. Those are my three songs. But Erica 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.680 Bardou is like one of the greatest all time. I love, love, 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.200 love Erica, and she was with her was fat. Yes, 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:52.600 she would listen like she'd fucking mixing too, like she's 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:55.520 a real live DJ, like she'd be mixing and all 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:57.800 of that. But she seems like she might have had 0:06:57.839 --> 0:06:59.680 her leg up on something. But she just was like 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:05.080 making that thing just like in DJ with her eyes closed. Bitch. 0:07:05.720 --> 0:07:09.320 She gave like some real good Lott affirmations before she 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:15.400 started um DJ and I love Erica bad Man me too. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:19.280 It was a real intimate uh sating that she was there. 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.040 But I was excited about that because that's one of 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:22.840 my favorite I want to be close friends with your 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:24.400 close friends so I can be in the midst of 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:32.000 all that ship. Okay, good luck, bitch, like I'll be 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:35.040 sending you with people. Not for real, we're gonna be 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:38.640 in there. But whenever you get a plus one, just 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:44.920 let me be it until you get one Okay, cool, 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.880 Well that sounds like a fun weekend. I love Erica, 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:49.560 but do if you tune into the show, we love 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.640 to have you as a guess. You should have tried 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:53.960 to plug that ship. I know she got the funk 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.360 up out of there too quick though, like she literally 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:59.040 came to DJ. You know what I'm saying, Like she 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:03.080 you know what I really want from Erica? Bad God, 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.240 just give me the check. I need like a super 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.080 duperd check when I have a kid. I want Erka 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:11.560 Baidu to be my dola. That's like a real life 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:16.560 life goal of mine. I need a h I bring 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:20.440 some life on this fuck up ass planet. I need 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:24.400 Erica one of these. I just want to I just 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:29.320 want to do Erica. I don't want to give no 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:33.199 no baby behind. I want to play play makeup baby 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:38.440 with her ass. I'm just joking. People don't think I'm 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:43.720 gave for real and real life like you you gave 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:50.920 for the check. I'll just be talking. I'm scared of possy. 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.600 I would need to that should look like a oyster, 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:59.920 like I love oysters, and my thing is just like 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:01.960 I just don't want to bitch what we've eating. My 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.640 pussy leg and then like what happens where both of 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:08.880 our periods sync up, like we're gonna be fighting. We're fighting. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.160 I'm not with that ship. Like at least a man 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:12.920 can sunk the ship out of you after he piss 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.480 you off. Like, now I gotta get this cold plastic dick. 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:19.360 I'm not good with that. I put it in the 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:30.199 microwave for you, baby shame. Now you got what's the 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:36.199 ship that microwaves give off? Uh? Girl, we're gonna all 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:43.480 die one way or another, might as well radiation. No, 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:48.240 you're eating up food with that motherfucker when I using microwave, 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:50.440 So I definitely was wouldn't put dick in the microwave. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.480 I don't use the microwave. I recooked my food on 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:55.439 the sober I put in the oven. Yeah, me too, 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:58.160 or the air frying. I'm scared of air friers. Like, 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:01.120 how then does that work? It's like a it's like 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.400 a I have the stove upside down with a face. 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:07.960 It's like a confection of him. Is it confection and convection? Yeah? Okay, 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:10.200 But what we got going on the old school eyes 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:13.240 though they had to wire, you know, not these flat 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.480 top ships that we got Now, it's the old school, 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:20.560 that's it. Remember that where you m oh, I guess 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.240 I never even looked at them to see how they 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.640 were actually made. But I don't know. I'm scared of 0:10:25.760 --> 0:10:27.600 I'm scared of all that ship. I just want to 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:31.640 cook my ship and the stove on the stainless steel pot. Y'all, 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:35.719 bitches be using them, uh not stainless steel, yeah, stainlessteel. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:37.880 You'll be using them non stickpots. All that should be 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:39.920 scraped up in them pots. That's going to your food. 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:43.560 I've seen this white lady at the hotel and she 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:48.360 had on some of those Cardier Love Bengals and I 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.240 was like, oh, they're so pretty. I'm not gonna line 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:51.640 because I'm gonna see if I can get me one 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:55.400 for Christmas. Bit simp ships about seven thousand dollars a piece, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.079 and she had on three, Like bit y'all robbed you 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:03.600 out here like a bit just jumking. I want to 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:07.360 rob nobody, but yeah, on three of them, I just 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:08.960 won't want what the hell I got to do with 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:12.600 the damn air fryer? Bit Like, why you think about that, lady? Bracelets? 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:19.920 I don't know, so just took me back to beautiful. 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:24.520 If anybody want to buy me a Cardier bracelet, thank you, 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:27.920 I love you? All right? Did you see Stevie J? 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.959 Girl moving right along? Did you see Stevie J what 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:37.520 he did to Faith? Faith? Did his I'm gonna tell 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:42.320 you something, So I saw somebody like when they put 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:45.280 the video out of them arguing and him accusing her 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:48.840 of having stuff like having somebody in their house. They're 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:51.440 probably broken up. And yeah, she might have had the 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:55.439 next nigg over very well possible, right, but that's funked up, 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:58.040 all right, y'all. If y'all y'all weren't paying the taste 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:01.400 to this week, Stevie J and ain't broke up, y'all. 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.480 But did we not see that coming? But they tried. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:09.559 I didn't think that was gonna last forever. And then 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:13.760 the altercation aired and you know, went viral, and he 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:16.080 accused her of bringing the nigg in the house and 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:20.280 sucking him in the house. Listen, that's that's the kind 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:22.920 of strict get you killed right there. You gotta be careful. 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:26.960 I never was interested in what what her sign was 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:31.000 her astrological sign until I read I think either was 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:36.640 on ts R ball alert. The video right, yes, listen 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.800 when he said you had another bit of the house 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:43.640 and she was like m but just said, wait a minute, 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:45.720 what the fuck is Faith signed? Because that would have 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:53.000 been my response another nigga, I'm sleep, I'm going to 0:12:53.120 --> 0:13:01.040 sleep whatever whatever. Hey shout out to all the geminis. Hey, 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:04.600 I'm gonna tell you something. Don't think y'all can do that, 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.040 like Faith did, bring nig and talking about you in 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:09.240 the house. Probably her house. All them damn kids that 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.600 nigga own. He can't own no property or nothing because 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:15.480 the damn text man and child support man coming. It's 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:17.760 probably her house and he's concerned about her having a 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:22.960 niggin by. He's seeking spouse of support. From what I understand, Listen, 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:25.079 I'm not against that because men have to take care 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.440 of women all the time, like whoever has the most money, 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:30.320 blah blah blah blah blah blah. You know, they really 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:33.079 weren't married that long for him to be trying to 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:36.040 three years, that's not long enough. Nigga, You forty something 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:38.480 years old. Damn they're fifties. So now I'm having to 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.720 pay because I was married to you for three years 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:44.000 and you're used to some lifestyle after three years, I 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:47.680 gotta help you keep up with that's some bullshit. He's 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:49.520 not gonna get that. They don't even have no kids together. 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:57.760 He's not gonna get that. Did you see right? Well? 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:00.600 I hope he gets a little a little bit. You 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:03.880 really hope he does that to Faith. She knew who 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:07.959 the funk he was before she married his friends. They 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:10.040 really thought they probably was going to be together forever, 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:12.240 you know, because that's the whole ching you gotta, you 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:16.120 gotta During that time, everybody was watching love and hip hop, 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.160 but you weren't watching, you know what I'm like, You 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:20.760 didn't see how doing Josh. Look, you know, I'm light skinned. 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.760 Bitches think that the exception, but you ain't no exception. 0:14:23.800 --> 0:14:29.080 But you gonna dog right, it's gonna be the same ship, right. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.080 He want a light skin now, he wants a spou 0:14:31.400 --> 0:14:39.120 he wants he wants to check now. So I mean, 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.800 I feel you know, sorry, Faith, we love you, but 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:50.160 that's how a cookie curl sometimes. Alright, moving right along, No, 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.640 let's go to a commercial, bitch, let's face some bills. 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:59.880 He'd be right back. What's out with Tristan? Now? He's 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:05.080 wilding out? Okay, did you read the fucking Tristan throw 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:10.000 that Dick Thompson and his back at it again. He's 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:13.160 so fine, he said, he about to be unemployed, so 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.400 you ain't gonna get no money, but to a millionaire, 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:19.320 I'm getting something every month. He is terrible. You know, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:24.240 every day I see future in a different light. It's 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:29.040 just something that's a little worse than a lot worse, 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:35.120 a lot worse. Poor clothes. You want to pay her. 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:36.960 My thing is so you want to you want to 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.760 keep the millionaire, but you want to keep impregnant in 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:43.000 all these regular women and then trying to force them 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:46.400 to have an abortion. My thing with men and abortions, like, nigga, 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:49.480 don't suggest nothing to me. If I decided to have 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:52.960 an abortion, that's gonna sucking me. You don't have to 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.320 deal with this ship even with a morning after playing 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:57.440 b pill. Like you don't have to deal with the 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.800 after effects of having to take the pill. You don't 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:03.600 have to deal with the emotional and physical ship you're 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.800 gonna go through after having abortion. Don't suggest a motherfucking 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.840 thing to me now. But I have taken the seventy 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:11.840 five dollars because this nigga said he don't want a 0:16:11.840 --> 0:16:16.360 baby and we had four weeks. Absolutely the fuck, Like, 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:18.920 I'm not into forcing anybody to do some ship they 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:24.360 don't want to do. But that baby is in you. First, Nigga, 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.640 I would have been like a hundred fifty extra yes, 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:34.040 a hundred fifty double it bit outside an NDA and 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:37.080 going about my fucking business. But you're not about to 0:16:37.120 --> 0:16:39.120 play me via text like that, like who are you 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:42.880 talking to? And I'm pretty sure why I think I did. 0:16:42.880 --> 0:16:45.680 They show up images of well, maybe that girl wanted 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:47.440 to be a mom. You never know, like what if 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:50.200 she never could get the future? The girl who were 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.480 not the last woman, but the Haitian girl who had 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:54.680 the baby for the future. I forgot her name from Miami. 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.520 She was like, you know, I'm thirty six years old. 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:01.160 I've never been pregnant. Now I'm pregnant. The doctor said, 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:04.000 like this could be like a high risk pregnancy. Who's 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:05.960 to say I would ever be able to get pregnant again. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:11.200 I'm keeping my fucking kid right. Furthermore, just somebody even 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:14.159 sucking raw for how long? Forever? She said her in 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:16.639 future I had never used the condom. We also know 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:20.280 that Tristan on me using the goddamn condoms. He don't 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:22.320 use no condoms. It's clear he don't be using it. 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.880 He's sucking the trainer wrong. You're just sucking everybody wrong. 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:31.520 You don't give a damn dog as a woman, as 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:35.359 a woman as Chloe, and he finds his hell. I 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:38.080 probably would have gave something too, but I would I 0:17:38.160 --> 0:17:40.960 just listen. I know this come up every week, but 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:45.040 I'm gonna say it again this week. Y'all. Just use condoms, y'all. 0:17:45.119 --> 0:17:47.800 What the fuck is wrong? Right? You don't gotta have 0:17:47.920 --> 0:17:50.360 these niggas baby down. You don't have to have amortion. 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:58.240 You can't use the condom. Yeah, he Chloe, he busting 0:17:58.280 --> 0:18:01.040 in that thing. He probably ain't got no control. He'd 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:04.560 probably be in there like he like really hang in 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:07.880 these women and then saying ship like heading sandy fire 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.879 racks like that's some expensive ass nuts. Just use the 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:16.520 cond yeah, yeah, a box of what's some skin condoms? Day, 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:22.440 like eleven ninety nine bro eleven dollars an sid You 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:26.040 could have saved seventy four thousand, nine hundred nine and 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:29.959 nine note nine hundred eighty nine dollars if you just 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:33.199 bought a box of Countos stupid ass. I hope she 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:35.520 keeps that baby, and I hope Chloe leave your ass 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:38.360 because you don't deserve to be with nobody right now, 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.600 absolutely until you get your ship together. But you keep 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:46.680 them how you get them? Sorry, Chloe. Ye oh, and 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:49.520 she stole him from somebody. Remember his other his first 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:53.320 child's mom. She was pregnant. She was pregnant with that 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:58.520 kid when he got with Chloe. Mm hmm. So hey, 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:01.120 and we already know that family. Maybe they definitely snatch 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:04.600 your nigga up. But the thing I noticed about them, 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.360 they can't keep no nigger. That pussy wax his hell 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:10.080 over there. They're going to get white men now, they're 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:12.960 going to get like white rock rocker dudes. That's the 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:17.160 I'm gonna go get me one. I'm gonna go get 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:19.159 me one too, with the skims outfit. I'm gonna give 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:20.960 me some scams, and I'm gonna get me a white 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:25.280 rocker boy with the tattoos and ship like the cool 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:28.960 white boys. They're going to get like some white boysencies 0:19:29.040 --> 0:19:32.359 it's what they're trying to do. Like it's like with 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:35.919 all the cool but not all the you know, generational trauma. 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:42.000 Tristan Jamaican. You know here a whole whole lot here 0:19:42.760 --> 0:19:46.320 girl buy he ain't got no choice. And Chloe like, 0:19:46.320 --> 0:19:47.920 how do you think you can have that? Fin ask 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:50.920 man like that he ain't gonna nobody. Come on, man, 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:54.760 he's you know what kind of it's not even the 0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:59.439 fucking other people? Is the how you do it? I 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:01.640 want you to. It was so smooth at like doing 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:08.760 like how what's his name, Lebron? Yeah, Lebron, That's what 0:20:08.800 --> 0:20:11.800 I'm talking about doing like Lebron. It's not cheating on Savannah. 0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:14.159 Fine ass. I don't believe that they're both cheating on 0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:17.880 each other. They got sign people believe that happily happily 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:21.960 leave that? Who said that? Who said that? I don't 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:25.080 believe that. I'm trying to go with both of y'all. 0:20:27.240 --> 0:20:28.840 That's how you try to put that narrative out there 0:20:28.840 --> 0:20:32.440 because you're trying to snatch like you're trying to be there. 0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:38.320 I love Savannah, Yes, I love Savannah Ward and Lebron. 0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:41.840 I don't know. She seems like we could be good friends. 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:43.679 I do her hair, we go shopping, she eat my 0:20:43.720 --> 0:20:52.240 people like sounds so good. I'm joking, Savannah, unless you 0:20:52.320 --> 0:21:00.679 win it. These are jokes, guys, don't be bad? Is 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:11.800 that inappropriate? Do you care? Inappropriate? So? What the hell 0:21:11.880 --> 0:21:15.480 we talk about today? Job? No, let's let's pay in 0:21:15.520 --> 0:21:17.280 a one more bill before we get into the thick 0:21:17.320 --> 0:21:28.360 of one. It's gonna change another another one. Okay, y'all, 0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:32.600 we're back now. I bought this book over the weekend because, 0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:35.320 as I told y'all in the beginning, I'm going through 0:21:36.320 --> 0:21:42.320 a little heartache. Oh this man. So I bought this 0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:45.200 book and it's called Getting Over Him and Back to You, 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:48.640 and it's by Kindled. If you ladies are going through 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:53.720 a breakup of any sort, please buy this little book 0:21:53.760 --> 0:21:56.240 and you can. It's gonna ask us a couple of questions, 0:21:56.840 --> 0:21:59.320 and well asked quite a few questions. We're just gonna 0:21:59.320 --> 0:22:02.560 answer a couple all of them. A j actually recently 0:22:02.640 --> 0:22:06.120 went through a split, and I want her to answer 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.200 these questions. And we're gonna be it with you guys, 0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:11.199 and then you guys can like pause us and do 0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:15.479 it yourself, you know beforehand, like why like I know 0:22:15.560 --> 0:22:19.560 you because I want you to be vulnerable. I don't 0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:22.520 want you to prepare. Yeah, I know me too. Let's 0:22:22.520 --> 0:22:28.560 cry together. I'm a real nigga, man, I can't be crying. Well, 0:22:28.800 --> 0:22:31.560 let's cry. It ain't two yet. Let's cry it all 0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:33.760 out now so we can be good for the new year. 0:22:34.200 --> 0:22:37.480 Damn it. All right. So it stars and says you're 0:22:37.520 --> 0:22:40.000 crying is stressed out over a man that won't even 0:22:40.080 --> 0:22:42.679 be your type anymore once you level up and become 0:22:42.760 --> 0:22:47.000 your highest self. And there's a mm hmmm, and it's 0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:50.200 a picture woman and then she's her body is stretched 0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:52.560 up and her chin is to the sky and it's 0:22:52.600 --> 0:22:56.199 like butterflies floating from her chest. So now look at 0:22:56.240 --> 0:22:58.280 me asking right quick. Because I always tell my niece 0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:00.720 that the niggas you're fucking now, they're not gonna be 0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:03.480 able to see your pussy thirty years old. When you 0:23:03.480 --> 0:23:05.639 get thirty like these same type of guys, you're not 0:23:05.640 --> 0:23:08.359 gonna be interested in him. So keep them regrets to 0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:11.240 him and him and go ahead. All right. So the 0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:14.560 first question, oh my god, you wait, wait, wait, are 0:23:14.640 --> 0:23:17.960 you gonna be answering these fucking questions too? Yeah, yeah, 0:23:17.960 --> 0:23:21.640 I'm gonna answer them first. Okay, we'll see. Oh, I'm 0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:24.680 gonna answer this one first, all right. Alright, So it 0:23:24.720 --> 0:23:28.520 says what attracted me to him. What did I find 0:23:28.720 --> 0:23:32.840 attractive about him? So I'm gonna tell y'all. I'm at 0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:36.400 this nigga in the club. I was in his section. 0:23:36.840 --> 0:23:39.479 He was sitting on the top of the chair, and 0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:43.120 he was looking all shiny's brown, his hairs are curly, 0:23:43.880 --> 0:23:47.359 and he smiled, and his smile just like lit up 0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:50.880 the whole club. I was like, damn, he fine as hell, 0:23:51.000 --> 0:24:02.200 looking like a fucking Boston here. That was my initial attraction. Okay, 0:24:03.080 --> 0:24:06.320 let's see. So I met my ex through his sister, 0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:10.119 Actually met his sister at a wedding, and she hooked 0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:11.880 me up with her brother, right and I was going 0:24:11.920 --> 0:24:13.840 through a bunch of ship, almost went to prison right before. 0:24:15.520 --> 0:24:17.479 I just thought it was gonna be a solid fucking 0:24:17.520 --> 0:24:21.880 hook up. Right, So when I met him, I met 0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:25.800 the very next day. We link up. We go to um, 0:24:26.880 --> 0:24:29.920 this little spot in Charlotte, actually two different little spots, 0:24:29.960 --> 0:24:36.080 and like little bar and all that. But I would say, um, 0:24:36.080 --> 0:24:39.240 maybe how he was dressed, Maybe because he just seemed 0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:45.159 different from men I usually date. Um, this nigger like 0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:47.679 had a headband on, like he made his shirt, he 0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:52.240 made his shirt that he was wearing. Um, he just 0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:56.320