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Speaker 2: Thomas is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Nanny.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Thomas, what's up man?
Speaker 2: How long has it been since you talked to Nanny?
Speaker 3: I spent a couple of days some texts, no reply.
Speaker 4: Okay, you sound bummed.
Speaker 5: I really thought I.
Speaker 3: Nailed this date. I thought this was the best date
Speaker 3: I ever made.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, well, why don't you tell us about the date? Then?
Speaker 6: Well, we went to this night market. You know, it
Speaker 6: was just like pop up, mainstream thing, lots of food
Speaker 6: vendors and like you know, street our performers.
Speaker 3: That kind of stuff. And you know, it's actually a
Speaker 3: lot more fun than I thought it was gonna be.
Speaker 3: The honest, She's taking pictures.
Speaker 6: The whole time and like seeing that you have a
Speaker 6: good time, Like this is like a total like Instagram
Speaker 6: little date, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Okay, so is she like an flinter or something?
Speaker 3: No, she's an insurance but like she's business insurance. I'm
Speaker 3: actually trying.
Speaker 6: To start my own business this year, So I was,
Speaker 6: you know, hell interested in all her insurance knowledge.
Speaker 4: You know, did you guys, I don't know, get close
Speaker 4: and flirty, Like how did that vibe feel outside of
Speaker 4: the instagrammable moments?
Speaker 3: I mean I thought so, I mean, she's crazy.
Speaker 6: I you know, I was still into her, like mega,
Speaker 6: Like I could look at this girl for a decade.
Speaker 3: I thought she was feeling the same without me.
Speaker 6: You know, maybe I don't know, maybe shouldn't get my
Speaker 6: humor or something, or the clothes weren't right.
Speaker 5: I don't really know what it was.
Speaker 4: So that was like the conversations during the date.
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I kept making jokes, and I
Speaker 3: think she thought she was. She was like laughing on
Speaker 3: the inside. You know, she's not a big laugher, but
Speaker 3: like the inside, I'm talking at her job becaus like
Speaker 3: I'm saying, I'm trying to start this business next year,
Speaker 3: and like she's in business insurance. I had a lot
Speaker 3: of questions, and I thought we were having a good report.
Speaker 4: Going, you know, Okay, did anything happen that was kind
Speaker 4: of awkward? On the date other than talking about business
Speaker 4: the whole.
Speaker 3: Time, So maybe some of my jokes were over herhead.
Speaker 3: There was there was one thing.
Speaker 4: It was bad. You know.
Speaker 3: I don't want I don't want to talk about on
Speaker 3: the radio. I'm just gonna hope it wasn't that thing.
Speaker 4: You don't want to talk about what it was. But
Speaker 4: it's a safe place, Thomas. Well, I mean, let us
Speaker 4: be the judge with it.
Speaker 3: I just I just I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 4: Whatever that makes me feel like it's that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, it's it's hard to I just
Speaker 3: don't want to talk about it. I don't think it
Speaker 3: was that. It could have been that whatever.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, can you just do this for us, Thomas, Like,
Speaker 4: was it perverted? Wasn't funny? Is it awkward?
Speaker 3: No, it was just it was the thing that just happened.
Speaker 3: It could happen anyway. Don't let's move on. I don't
Speaker 3: want to talk about.
Speaker 4: It, peer post. I know now my head's going to
Speaker 4: a lot of the censor us that Dan, he's your pain.
Speaker 3: I did not see my pants.
Speaker 4: Okay, A pause on that. Maybe you did. All right, Well,
Speaker 4: we'll try to figure it out.
Speaker 5: For you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if to tell us why she's ghosting.
Speaker 4: You and maybe get you another data.
Speaker 2: Right, let's do this, Okay, we'll play a song, come
Speaker 2: back and get your first date follow up, next first.
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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first date follow up
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Thomas is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Nanni. We're about to call
Speaker 2: her and see if to tell us why she's ghosting him.
Speaker 2: But first, Thomas, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on
Speaker 2: your situation.
Speaker 3: We had a good.
Speaker 6: Date at the night market, you know, taking pictures, a
Speaker 6: little time, having a good.
Speaker 3: Time at oh we were connecting beautiful boy and Nanni,
Speaker 3: and I don't know why she goes to me. Okay,
Speaker 3: there's one thing I think it.
Speaker 6: Could be, and if it's that, then whatever, But I
Speaker 6: don't I'm hoping it's not that thing and something else
Speaker 6: and maybe we can work through this.
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about it, so it makes
Speaker 4: us feel like it is that thing. Yeah, you said
Speaker 4: it was bad.
Speaker 3: If you knew you'd understand it's a story, but I
Speaker 3: forget who said it.
Speaker 2: Okay, well maybe she'll tell us then we'll see. All right,
Speaker 2: you're ready for us to call her, let's do it. Okay,
Speaker 2: here we go. Hell, Hi, miss Victani please here there?
Speaker 4: Hey, how are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jubel. I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Nanny, my name is Nina. Also on the show. Hi,
Speaker 4: In and Ntoria? How are you? Hi? Hi?
Speaker 3: I'm fine?
Speaker 5: What's going on?
Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I listened before.
Speaker 4: Have you ever heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: God?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I actually have great?
Speaker 4: Would you like to be on one?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Okay, yeah, I guess I should have sawn this coming.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Sure.
Speaker 2: You're ghosting somebody and they emailed us because they want
Speaker 2: to know why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4: Do you know who it is?
Speaker 5: I mean it has to be Thomas, Yes.
Speaker 2: It is, You got it right? Do you mind telling
Speaker 2: us about Thomas, like why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 5: Uh? Okay, here you okay? Some of his greatest hits.
Speaker 5: The first thing he said to me, he said, oh damn,
Speaker 5: you're hotter than the internet, which was flattering but like
Speaker 5: a lot.
Speaker 4: Kind of funny. Let's hear more. That's okay.
Speaker 5: He commented on my shoes four times, even to the
Speaker 5: point of asking me if I needed to take them off,
Speaker 5: which reminded me of like, I don't know, like a teacher,
Speaker 5: a parent, I don't know. It was like to leave
Speaker 5: my shoes alone. It was a lot. He was like
Speaker 5: tall enough, like it should have mattered. I thought, like
Speaker 5: maybe that who cares? He's so much attention in my shoes,
Speaker 5: Like it was a lot.
Speaker 4: Does he have like a hoot fetish?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I didn't even think of that.
Speaker 4: I mean, you're trying to get somebody's shoes off real quick.
Speaker 4: That tells me about that.
Speaker 5: Oh no. So he also just carried on and on
Speaker 5: and on about this new business, like let's not get ourselves.
Speaker 3: This dude's not starting a business, like okay, and then.
Speaker 5: Okay, About thirty four and fifty seven times throughout the
Speaker 5: night he commented on the other women at the market.
Speaker 5: They they weren't nearly as hot as I was, and
Speaker 5: like I started to get a little like embarrassed. It
Speaker 5: was embarrassing, so like it was gross honestly. So no,
Speaker 5: dude's not it.
Speaker 4: I mean that can definitely be a little awkward. I
Speaker 4: feel like saying they're hotter than you.
Speaker 6: Sure, oh he wasn't because I farted on you at all?
Speaker 5: What? Oh my god, are you period? I got cut
Speaker 5: that cut that.
Speaker 3: No, don't use that.
Speaker 2: Thomas is actually on the phone listening and wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you. We can't cut it now, Thomas, you
Speaker 2: said it. I guess you cut it that night too.
Speaker 3: Cut that punt, Cut that punt. I don't get out there.
Speaker 5: I wasn't even going to bring that up, but like,
Speaker 5: yeah he did far like on you though.
Speaker 4: How did that happen?
Speaker 5: It was like it wasn't I got my shoes. Yeah,
Speaker 5: he gets really excited about feet apparently.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is confusing. So you asked her to take
Speaker 2: off your shoes and then.
Speaker 3: You were nice shoes. We all know nice shoes. He uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: I was trying to be courteous.
Speaker 4: Okay, how did you fart on her? I'm back over,
Speaker 4: I just come on, we don't got to talk about that.
Speaker 3: Come on, it happened to me, so that was the
Speaker 3: best one.
Speaker 4: But that wasn't the reason.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's one of the reasons.
Speaker 5: One of the reasons.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I mean you were embarrassed.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 4: It didn't help his cause.
Speaker 6: Yes, no, I can't control them whatever, I guess whatever.
Speaker 3: Look, I was complimenting you though. I was just trying
Speaker 3: to make you feel you know, seen and secure. I mean,
Speaker 3: if it wasn't the art thing, I mean, come on.
Speaker 5: You you you definitely made me feel seen. It was.
Speaker 5: It was a lot like this one of other women, Like,
Speaker 5: I think they heard you saying that I was hotter
Speaker 5: than them, and that's like embarrassing. Brow that. How is
Speaker 5: that embarrassing?
Speaker 3: You're hot, you guys. People don't get embarrassed. They're hot.
Speaker 4: Now, he would you like another date with Thomas? Will
Speaker 4: pay for it?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 5: No, I'm good.
Speaker 3: Thanks, though, they'll pay for it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll pay for it. Thanks, Thomas. I'll probably tell
Speaker 4: you you're hot again.
Speaker 5: You guys, theft was bad, Like, no, yeah, I really
Speaker 5: want to go out again.
Speaker 3: But just you don't know this. I always think you're hot.
Speaker 3: If you want to go on a date with someone
Speaker 3: who says you're hot, I'm here because I think you're hot.
Speaker 5: Thank thank I appreciate that. Thomas thinks.
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