WEBVTT - The Twot Seat: Justice Mellencamp 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:15.440 Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Cameridge Edge. 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:20.080 Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of the twat Seat. 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:23.600 A very special guest today who never likes to do 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:29.760 anything publicly. It is my very own little sister, Justice Mellencamp, 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:32.720 who I like to call bird Face in the Hole. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:36.520 The reason she's been bf ITH since we were little 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:41.040 is because you guys may take notice here. How granted 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:44.080 I get to say this because she's the cuter, tinier 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:47.760 all of the ones, but like, look how her entire 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.280 face would fit into that. It's like a little bird 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.840 poking its head out of the hole and it's trying 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:54.240 to eat. That's her. 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:58.640 Thanks, what do you call me? Oh? I don't know 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:01.000 nicknames for you? 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:06.160 So many nicknicknames. But Justice and I are four years apart. 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.080 We are full siblings. 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:11.640 I know. 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:13.720 You know. The last couple of days have been no 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:15.399 wig days. But of course I had to put a 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:19.680 wig on today because one of our favorite songs to sing. 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.560 You may have heard of it. It's from Mary Kate 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:24.000 Nashley Olsen. I am the cute one. 0:01:24.240 --> 0:01:25.400 She's just my sister. 0:01:25.680 --> 0:01:27.400 And we go back and forth on this and I 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.320 knew if it was a bald day for me, then 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:32.120 I wouldn't be able to take either parts, which had 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:32.880 been difficult. 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.920 Yeah, I don't think so. No, I think you can 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:38.360 totally rock the shaved head. 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:43.399 Well, thank you. Bird. Bird's being very very nice to 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.320 me because we've been going through all the stuff. She's 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.960 been helping taking care of my kids. She's been here 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:53.520 to help me because some days I am you know, 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.960 I'm pretty good until about two o'clock. Wouldn't we say 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.120 that's when I have the switch off. 0:01:58.280 --> 0:01:59.960 Well, it's tiring. It's a lot going on. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.680 It's tiring. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:05.280 It is you've got way too much going on. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:09.800 But she is my best friend. I love her to death. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.560 But we You may notice that our voices sound very similar. 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:14.320 I know. 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:17.760 Remember when we would call Dad, like before caller ID 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.080 existed and cell phones and all the things, and be 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:20.840 like which. 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:24.279 Kid is this? We just go, hey, hey, Dad. 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:25.680 Which kid is this? 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.720 Which one? Which one is this? He had no idea, 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:32.000 and we most most of the time wouldn't tell him, 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:35.440 and then he immediately would start talking shit about whatever 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.760 one he thought we weren't. Yeah, but most of the 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:40.000 time he got well, let's start with don't tell your 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:41.920 sister like it's a good thing. He doesn't know what 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:44.560 daughter this is because we're about to get a lot 0:02:44.560 --> 0:02:47.960 of information, and that's his favorite thing to do is 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:51.679 to call one of us at We should try to 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:51.960 call him. 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:54.280 Is he on the plane? Y, he's flying already. Yeah, 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:56.960 his last text went green, so I know he's a 0:02:57.040 --> 0:02:57.880 zero service. 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:00.919 Well, if it was green for any other than being 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.560 on a jet, it would really be disturbing, Like, green 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.120 texts really upset me. 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:07.880 Well, then I get all nervous that I'm like, what happened? 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:09.760 What happened to the person? Why is it green? 0:03:09.800 --> 0:03:12.720 If it's because you don't have any friends that are green? No, 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.040 I have no Android friends. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.600 Well only our brother spec. 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:18.959 Oh, I know that's upsetting too. Hud had it for 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:21.280 a while. But then Hud is the one that taught 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:25.280 me about the the privacy screen. Privacy screen. Hud got 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.600 himself off fancy and got himself an iPhone in a 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.919 privacy screen, and now he thinks he's big time and 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:32.320 he was on a television show. 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.400 I know. Well, Hud made fun of me because I 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:37.080 also have a privacy screen. But then I text, I'd 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:40.200 voice text and let my Siri type everything out, and 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:42.480 he was like, you've got to be kidding me. You 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.680 think you're private, but I can hear everything you just 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:45.480 said on your text. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:49.040 No, this is my favorite thing about Justice. So recently 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:51.320 it was really hard for me to see text messages. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:53.960 So I told anybody, anybody who wants to talk to me, 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.320 voice note me. So the first voice note I get 0:03:57.320 --> 0:04:02.840 from Justice, I can already imagine her like this. She's like, Hi, Teddy, Comma, 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:09.960 it's your sister Justice. Period just wanted to tell you 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:13.680 I love you. Exclamation point. I'm like, are you. 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:19.200 This isn't that's because I normally have Serie type stuff out. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:22.080 The auto notes were very new to me until this. 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:25.040 But now that I've told everybody this, now no one 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:27.760 can stop. Everybody wants to send audio notes so to 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:29.680 the best, and if you don't do it, ruin your 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:32.520 friend's lives by adding it, because you know what, nothing 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:36.080 anybody wants to hear more than one minute and fifty 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.159 five seconds of an auto No. It's for them to 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:42.240 have to take no listen, especially if you work with them. 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.800 It's not fun. Half the time, I just click it 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:46.440 so I can just see it. Typed out. 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:48.880 I don't even listen, but I have typos that way, 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.279 it doesn't understand what I'm saying. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:51.520 That's okay, I can get it. 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.200 No you can't. Sometimes I see it and it doesn't 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.839 even know my name between and not even knowing my 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:00.120 name and face app not even working anymore when I 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.279 don't have a wig on and giving me the option 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:08.599 of adding a beard or hood that you hud, what 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:14.160 are you doing? So we use some listener questions. What 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.000 were you like as kids growing up together? 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.240 Well, I mean I was obsessed with you. I wanted 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:23.520 to do everything with you, but you were way too 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:27.880 cool to hang out. And yeah, I don't know. I think. 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.360 Here's the thing. She likes to say that I was 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:34.159 like maybe not the nicest to her, but she would 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:37.680 do crazy ass shit like I would my room. I 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:41.039 had a room that was looked like a horse stall. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:42.440 Do we have to tell this story? 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:47.960 Yes, we do, because it's my favorite. This is like 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.360 the this is the type of psychosis. So when she 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:53.000 when she lives in her mind of I was always 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:53.760 the bad. 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.320 Way, can we preface it with that? You would have 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.080 friends over and you'd be like, you can sit in 0:05:57.080 --> 0:05:58.839 my room, but you cannot talk and you have to 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:01.320 sit in the floor over there, and I would do it. 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:04.000 I was so desperate just to like be a part 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:05.920 of whatever you were doing. I would do it. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.000 So that was well. Anyway, then I got overdoing that, 0:06:09.040 --> 0:06:11.359 so I just because then she started telling people what 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.559 I was doing in this room. But anyways, my room 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:16.760 was a stall door, so it was like had planks, 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:22.640 and so I tell Justice, I'm like, bird, I think 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:25.400 maybe I had my boyfriend over at the time. His 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.640 name was Jamie, do you remember, yes, So I had 0:06:28.760 --> 0:06:31.599 Jamie over and so the rule was like I could 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.520 keep the bottom thing locked, but I have to leave 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.520 one of the parts undone. But I'm like, don't come 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:40.840 in because you know he's here and we're probably gonna 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:42.560 want to make out or whatever it may be. I 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.000 give her enough warning, but what do I get. She 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.240 starts banging on the door. She's this big, by the. 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:50.320 Way, this I may be five years old by the 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.560 way right now, or six, like she. 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.240 Her feet aren't even touching the ground in the podcast 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:59.520 room because she's she says she's five foot but she's 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:02.960 one million percent four eleven? Am I lying? 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:05.200 I don't know. We could get a tape. Measure out, 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.800 figure it out when we're done. 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:08.839 You could be the judge of this. When you see 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.440 us stand next to each other. Cruise is as tall 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:15.560 as a bird face right now. But anyways, I'm just 0:07:15.600 --> 0:07:18.200 trying to mind my own business, make out with Jamie, 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:21.400 and I see these little beady eyes poking through and 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:25.480 I'm like, Justice, no, And so then I locked the top. 0:07:25.760 --> 0:07:28.320 I locked the entire door, and I use this as 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:31.760 my excuse on why everything could be locked. Justice gets 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:35.800 my fault, totally my fault. Justice goes and gets a 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:39.360 what is it called a crowbar? A crow bar and 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:42.640 starts breaking it down my door like she thinks she's 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:43.280 gonna be able. 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:44.800 To Well, there was a lot leading into it. A 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:47.880 lot of not nice words were being spoken through the 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.680 cracks of the door from you to me. You like 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:52.239 triggered me. I went nuts. 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.720 She went nuts. So she broke through the door. Me 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.280 and Jamie have yes, you do so then me and 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:01.320 Jamie have to jump off my little falcony go running, 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:02.800 and she keeps running after me. 0:08:02.960 --> 0:08:04.800 This is this is exaggerated. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:08.160 Never's not exaggerate. This is the fact. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.160 I never got through the door. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:13.080 You well, you got through figuring out a way. You 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:16.680 crawled over the outside where the stairs were and got 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:19.160 into the somehow she got to move on. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:22.280 Let's move on from the story. We don't need to 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:23.200 go any further. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:25.480 Okay, So what other things would you like to talk 0:08:25.520 --> 0:08:27.840 about us growing up? If you're going to talk about 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:30.120 me leaving you as an unaccompanied minor. 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.320 Yeah, well I can do that. That's a good one. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:33.400 Yeah. 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.640 So when we'd have to travel every other weekend to Indiana, 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:39.280 our parents got divorced when we were I was four. 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:41.880 I don't know how old I was. I was eight, 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:46.679 obviously four years older. So at some point they thought 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:51.679 they'd trust us to fly with a flight attendant, get 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.960 a greeter, I guess you'd call them, and because my 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:57.040 mom would have to do the trip with us, and 0:08:57.080 --> 0:08:59.040 that got old for her. So finally we got to 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:00.600 the age where they're like, you guys could just go 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.000 on your own. It's fine, we'll get a. 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:02.920 Great it seems right. 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:05.600 No, I think we're a little older at this point, 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:08.360 but it was every other weekend. We were so over it. 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.680 We didn't want to go because at this point, I mean. 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.320 Well, we didn't want to go because we like had 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.840 friends and things going on on the weekends, and. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:19.040 Sometimes Dad would come to hilton Head so we'd get 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.079 really excited so we could. 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:24.560 Just hang at our own house. Well, we would always 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:27.880 do hilton Head to Charlotte, Charlotte to Indianapolis, and Teddy 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:32.120 would be less than nice on the travel days and 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.000 I would have to just like hold it together, no 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:38.240 crying in public, until the one time she left me 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:43.080 in the bathroom at the Charlotte airport and walked to 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:47.000 the gate, and the flight attendant who was like supposed 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:49.560 to be greeting us, was talked out of greeting us 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:51.680 because at this point, Teddy, you were probably like fourteen, 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.040 like you were, well, like you were old enough to 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.280 know better to do this to your ten year old sister. 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:59.360 Yeah, I probably didn't, she'd probably piss me off. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.400 Well, luckily it was the same gate every single time, 0:10:02.520 --> 0:10:05.280 flying back and forth, so I knew exactly where to go. 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:09.600 But after that, the flight attendants were back on full schedule. 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:11.160 We had one every single weekend. 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.040 Yeah. I may have left her, But if you have 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:15.080 a kid that's looking to play a fun game, this 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.920 is our favorite game. Okay, put your handshair. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:19.480 Well we'd have to share the arm rest. 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:21.520 We'd have to share the armrest, but it'd be We 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:23.560 played a game and it's called Don't Touch Me. 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:26.319 Well, Teddy played the game. I just was living my life. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:28.920 So what you do is you share an arm rest 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.200 and that if one person touches you, then you get 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:36.600 to punch them. So she would never touch her, but 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:41.520 I would get dangerously close and then touch her and 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:46.320 then and then she'd cry. So you know what this is. 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.520 This is a tip to most. If you live in 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:52.080 a different state than your significant other, your spouse, you 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:54.120 may want to think about living in the same state 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:55.599 because traveling. 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.600 Together, or just make sure you always have a greeter, 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.280 don't don't send your k A lot have already been there. 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.520 We were in our Oh that's true. We're in our 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.360 own seats now playing Don't Touch Me. 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:08.280 We weren't playing, you were playing. It's all just because 0:11:08.280 --> 0:11:09.800 I wanted to be your best friend. 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.160 I mean, you're my best friend now and we're about 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:16.520 to get so we'll get back into the questions that 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:19.600 you guys asked. But since we were younger, we always 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:25.600 wanted this little knife tattoo and justice. How mad were 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.040 you when I went and got it by myself. 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:28.640 Well, I mean that was kind of messed up. We've 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:30.640 been talking about it for three years, or you've been 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:32.240 talking about it for three years? 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:35.720 Can you sing the song as I've pad it? So? 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.720 No, I want you to sing it. It makes more sense. 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:42.079 But for like three or four family get togethers, Teddy 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.920 has tried desperately to get a tattoo artist to come, 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:46.480 and no one will come to the house. Like these 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.280 people are like, no, you're insane, Like we're. 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:50.160 Because also, you guys said it had to be. 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.439 A thin Oh I wanted a single needle tattoo, correct, 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.800 but yeah, we haven't been successful. And then what is 0:11:57.920 --> 0:11:59.880 what does she do? She goes and gets it just by. 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:04.080 Her and so it's I think, I like this little knife, 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:10.120 and it's really so like I've already done it to 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.360 Justice and she hasn't even realized it. But like it's 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:16.360 when somebody's pissing me off, I just tap it, tap it, 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:19.920 like this is your little before we play don't touch 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:23.360 me cut off. But we're gonna go get one after 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.240 this pod today. But Justice says she doesn't want to 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:27.920 get it in that spot. Where else are you going 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.320 to be able to tap it that people are going 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.640 to see if you try to get this on your 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:32.839 leg or something, you're gonna not like that. 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:34.720 I mean, I was kind of just thinking, like here 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:39.400 this little knife right here. 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:53.760 Just a little knife. How would you describe your relationship 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:55.240 back then compared to now? 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:59.000 Well, I mean, obviously, now we're adults, we have so 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:02.800 much more in common. I mean, the four year age 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.680 difference when you're a child is huge, right, Like you 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.480 were able to drive and do all these things, and 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:12.040 you know, I was like still playing with barbies. So 0:13:12.440 --> 0:13:17.120 I feel like now we you know, we're both moms, 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:20.480 we're both working. We have a lot more in common 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:24.640 and a lot more that we can talk about as 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:27.480 far as like getting advice from each other. Right Like 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:29.439 when we were kids, that wasn't really. 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:31.520 And I mean we can say this as much as 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:35.440 we weren't close, Like I still slept Injustice's room every night, yeah, 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.640 I mean, and like we had this one rule. 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:39.240 She faked not to like me. 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.320 I just didn't like her in front of other people. 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:47.080 But we had this one rule. We were allowed to 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:49.720 watch TV going to bed, which guys, don't judge. This 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:50.520 was the eighties. 0:13:50.840 --> 0:13:51.760 Well it was the nineties. 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.800 But yeah, remember old school TVs where you'd see the 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:57.320 little things line up. Yeah, it would go to like 0:13:57.400 --> 0:13:58.560 the end of the volume. 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.320 The word volume was on the screen and then there 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:04.200 was little dashes underneath, like how loud it can be. 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.600 So our rule was at night time it could not 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:11.120 be above the e. And we lived downstairs and my 0:14:11.160 --> 0:14:14.720 mom lived upstairs, and so I would go and stay 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:17.120 in Jay's room. She had two beds, you know, I 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.360 had a horse room. She had a room that had 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:23.160 all of gymnastics equipment, so there was like a trail 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:26.720 plane and what are those things you walked off balance, 0:14:26.960 --> 0:14:29.960 a balance beam. It was all these different colors. But 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:32.520 either way, we'd like go to bed at whatever nine o'clock, 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.080 and then we'd hear our mom go, it's above me. 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.800 She always knew, like how she know? I have no 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:43.240 idea because it was sometimes above the even sometimes it wasn't, 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.480 and she'd still yell and we're like what in the world. 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:49.080 But we watched this, and also our VHS machine was broken, 0:14:49.120 --> 0:14:51.320 so we watched the same movie for years. 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.560 Well that was later when the TV when it got stuck. Yes, 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:57.280 that we watched the same movie for probably three years 0:14:57.280 --> 0:15:01.000 in a row again, still sleeping in my bed. Well 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:05.120 that was when we were teenagers. Yeah, You've Got Mail. Actually, 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:07.640 I mean, but we typically would watch it through the 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.480 credits in the first scene and then both be sound asleep. 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:11.880 But we knew every word. 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:13.880 But we'd also have to wait until it got to 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:16.320 the very end so it would rewind itself, so we 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:16.920 could watch it. 0:15:17.160 --> 0:15:18.440 Yeah, if you woke up in the middle of the 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:21.360 night and turn the TV off, you were screwed. 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:24.640 You could watch it, and then you were just stuck 0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:27.640 because then you just had to live on repeat. You've 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:30.680 Got Mail still to this day. If we don't watch 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:34.720 it this afternoon, I'm going to be upset about it. Yeah, okay. 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:39.600 Were we ever jealous of each other or our brothers? 0:15:40.160 --> 0:15:43.760 No, I don't think so. No, I don't know. 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.640 We like to all claim that we're the favorite, but 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.520 I mean it's clear I am. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:51.440 Well now, I mean, you had to go and do 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:55.680 all this crazy shit keep favorite. But it was me 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:56.960 for a really long time. 0:15:57.200 --> 0:15:59.920 Well you know what, It's always been me. But we'll 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:03.240 we'll let you have it. Sometimes we think it's one 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:05.160 of our brothers and then we get all revved up. 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.160 But if we say one thing about our brothers, we 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:08.080 get a lashing sea. 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.000 We're not allowed to talk about them, but we. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.640 Are allowed to talk about each other, which may mean 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:13.960 we are not the favorites. 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.840 No, I mean we're clearly the favorites. Just you're in 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:18.680 the lead right now. 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:22.480 Okay, Well it's because I got some things going on. 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.280 Yeah, well just wait till you beat it. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:29.440 How do you think we're different different as moms. 0:16:29.720 --> 0:16:31.680 Well, I'll let you start because I would love to 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:32.720 hear your opinion on this. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:36.520 Well, it's a little bit different because my I'm very 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:40.440 like type A and particular so's Jay. But she's one 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.640 of the worst kind where she pretends she's not but 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:48.400 she is. But like my kids are pretty like on it, 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:52.480 you know, where justice is more of like a free 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:56.360 loving like sure you want to do cookies, we'll do 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.960 it right here, last minute. And so she's like so 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:03.360 kind and so but like chaos could be accruing and 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:06.879 she doesn't even realize it. Like think about like Thanksgiving 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:07.800 dinner with Woods. 0:17:08.359 --> 0:17:12.679 Listen, Woods, Woods is chaos. That's different. I think also 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:17.639 because I had trend when I was twenty, and I 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:20.760 think I just kind of let more things go. I 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:23.320 was so uptight. I'm trying to keep him this like 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:27.040 perfect child and reprimanding him for everything. Well, there's no 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:30.240 such thing as perfect, and every kid's different, and I 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:33.000 think with each kid you kind of have to parent differently. 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:37.639 And Woods is kind of a nightmare. He's the cutest 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:38.639 nightmare I've ever seen. 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:42.480 But yeah, mile's a ponytail guys, He's three man bun 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:43.520 man fun. 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:46.480 He calls everybody's hair a man bun. Two, why are 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:49.160 you wearing your men bun? I'm like, well, because I've 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:52.960 wanted it up today. Okay, he is. So he's the 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:53.560 cutest thing. 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:56.359 But he like, after three days of him, You're like, 0:17:57.359 --> 0:17:58.840 you deserve a special metal. 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.680 Yeah, you've done definitely something. 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.040 But the next question is what's the best advice we've 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:10.000 given each other. I would say we're different in certain ways, 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:13.800 Like when I'm upset, I just shut down and kind 0:18:13.840 --> 0:18:17.399 of disappear, And when Justice is upset, she wants to 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:19.400 do it the right way and like talk it through. 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:23.560 Well, I definitely don't let anything not get talked about. 0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:25.880 Like if it's bothering me, I kind of just say 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:28.160 it and get it off my chest. And if it's, 0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:31.720 you know, not the nicest thing. I try to word 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:33.560 it better, but I'm gonna go ahead and say it. 0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:36.440 But what we have learned is if there's certain topics 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:39.200 that we know we don't agree on, we're like, we're 0:18:39.200 --> 0:18:41.159 not going to talk about these things. Yeah, no, this 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.360 is not good for us. This doesn't you know it does. 0:18:44.640 --> 0:18:47.000 We'd rather enjoy the fun that we do have, which 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:51.320 we laugh a lot, we can get emotional a lot, 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:55.040 but like, it's kind of better for us to know 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.320 our topics that we stay away from. 0:18:57.320 --> 0:18:59.520 Well, I mean, the one time that I kind of like, 0:18:59.680 --> 0:19:02.000 was I guess a little mean to you. I was 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:04.159 not feeling well. I had no idea you cried for 0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:06.919 like a year. She secretly went off and forgot. 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:08.080 What was I mad at you about? 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:12.119 Well, it is so crazy, but made you told the 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:16.400 Crowbar story. I mean, so we were at Thanksgiving at 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.679 our grandfather's who at the time was like ninety two. 0:19:19.440 --> 0:19:22.320 I'm so sick. It's like COVID already happened. You'd think 0:19:22.320 --> 0:19:24.399