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Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Cameridge Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of the twat Seat.

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Speaker 2: A very special guest today who never likes to do

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Speaker 2: anything publicly. It is my very own little sister, Justice Mellencamp,

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Speaker 2: who I like to call bird Face in the Hole.

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Speaker 2: The reason she's been bf ITH since we were little

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Speaker 2: is because you guys may take notice here. How granted

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Speaker 2: I get to say this because she's the cuter, tinier

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Speaker 2: all of the ones, but like, look how her entire

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Speaker 2: face would fit into that. It's like a little bird

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Speaker 2: poking its head out of the hole and it's trying

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Speaker 2: to eat. That's her.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, what do you call me? Oh? I don't know

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Speaker 3: nicknames for you?

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Speaker 2: So many nicknicknames. But Justice and I are four years apart.

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Speaker 2: We are full siblings.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: You know. The last couple of days have been no

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Speaker 2: wig days. But of course I had to put a

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Speaker 2: wig on today because one of our favorite songs to sing.

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Speaker 2: You may have heard of it. It's from Mary Kate

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Speaker 2: Nashley Olsen. I am the cute one.

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Speaker 3: She's just my sister.

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Speaker 2: And we go back and forth on this and I

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Speaker 2: knew if it was a bald day for me, then

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to take either parts, which had

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Speaker 2: been difficult.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think so. No, I think you can

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Speaker 3: totally rock the shaved head.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you. Bird. Bird's being very very nice to

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Speaker 2: me because we've been going through all the stuff. She's

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Speaker 2: been helping taking care of my kids. She's been here

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Speaker 2: to help me because some days I am you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good until about two o'clock. Wouldn't we say

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Speaker 2: that's when I have the switch off.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's tiring. It's a lot going on.

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Speaker 2: It's tiring.

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Speaker 3: It is you've got way too much going on.

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Speaker 2: But she is my best friend. I love her to death.

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Speaker 2: But we You may notice that our voices sound very similar.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: Remember when we would call Dad, like before caller ID

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Speaker 3: existed and cell phones and all the things, and be

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Speaker 3: like which.

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Speaker 2: Kid is this? We just go, hey, hey, Dad.

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Speaker 3: Which kid is this?

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Speaker 2: Which one? Which one is this? He had no idea,

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Speaker 2: and we most most of the time wouldn't tell him,

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Speaker 2: and then he immediately would start talking shit about whatever

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Speaker 2: one he thought we weren't. Yeah, but most of the

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Speaker 2: time he got well, let's start with don't tell your

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Speaker 2: sister like it's a good thing. He doesn't know what

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Speaker 2: daughter this is because we're about to get a lot

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Speaker 2: of information, and that's his favorite thing to do is

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Speaker 2: to call one of us at We should try to

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Speaker 2: call him.

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Speaker 3: Is he on the plane? Y, he's flying already. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: his last text went green, so I know he's a

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Speaker 3: zero service.

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Speaker 2: Well, if it was green for any other than being

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Speaker 2: on a jet, it would really be disturbing, Like, green

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Speaker 2: texts really upset me.

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Speaker 3: Well, then I get all nervous that I'm like, what happened?

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Speaker 3: What happened to the person? Why is it green?

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Speaker 2: If it's because you don't have any friends that are green? No,

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Speaker 2: I have no Android friends.

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Speaker 3: Well only our brother spec.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know that's upsetting too. Hud had it for

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Speaker 2: a while. But then Hud is the one that taught

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Speaker 2: me about the the privacy screen. Privacy screen. Hud got

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Speaker 2: he was on a television show.

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Speaker 3: I know. Well, Hud made fun of me because I

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Speaker 3: also have a privacy screen. But then I text, I'd

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Speaker 3: voice text and let my Siri type everything out, and

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Speaker 3: he was like, you've got to be kidding me. You

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Speaker 2: No, this is my favorite thing about Justice. So recently

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Speaker 2: So I told anybody, anybody who wants to talk to me,

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Speaker 2: from Justice, I can already imagine her like this. She's like, Hi, Teddy, Comma,

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Speaker 2: it's your sister Justice. Period just wanted to tell you

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Speaker 2: I love you. Exclamation point. I'm like, are you.

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Speaker 3: This isn't that's because I normally have Serie type stuff out.

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Speaker 3: The auto notes were very new to me until this.

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Speaker 2: But now that I've told everybody this, now no one

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Speaker 2: friend's lives by adding it, because you know what, nothing

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Speaker 2: anybody wants to hear more than one minute and fifty

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Speaker 3: It's not fun. Half the time, I just click it

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Speaker 3: so I can just see it. Typed out.

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Speaker 2: I don't even listen, but I have typos that way,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, I can get it.

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Speaker 2: No you can't. Sometimes I see it and it doesn't

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Speaker 2: even know my name between and not even knowing my

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Speaker 2: name and face app not even working anymore when I

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Speaker 2: of adding a beard or hood that you hud, what

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Speaker 2: are you doing? So we use some listener questions. What

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Speaker 2: were you like as kids growing up together?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I was obsessed with you. I wanted

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Speaker 3: to do everything with you, but you were way too

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Speaker 3: cool to hang out. And yeah, I don't know. I think.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing. She likes to say that I was

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Speaker 2: like maybe not the nicest to her, but she would

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Speaker 2: do crazy ass shit like I would my room. I

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Speaker 2: had a room that was looked like a horse stall.

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Speaker 3: Do we have to tell this story?

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Speaker 2: Yes, we do, because it's my favorite. This is like

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Speaker 2: the this is the type of psychosis. So when she

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Speaker 2: when she lives in her mind of I was always

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Speaker 3: Way, can we preface it with that? You would have

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Speaker 3: I was so desperate just to like be a part

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Speaker 2: So that was well. Anyway, then I got overdoing that,

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Speaker 2: so I just because then she started telling people what

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Speaker 2: was a stall door, so it was like had planks,

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Speaker 2: and so I tell Justice, I'm like, bird, I think

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Speaker 2: maybe I had my boyfriend over at the time. His

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Speaker 2: name was Jamie, do you remember, yes, So I had

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Speaker 2: one of the parts undone. But I'm like, don't come

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Speaker 2: want to make out or whatever it may be. I

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Speaker 2: give her enough warning, but what do I get. She

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Speaker 2: starts banging on the door. She's this big, by the.

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Speaker 3: Way, this I may be five years old by the

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Speaker 3: way right now, or six, like she.

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Speaker 2: Her feet aren't even touching the ground in the podcast

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Speaker 2: room because she's she says she's five foot but she's

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Speaker 2: one million percent four eleven? Am I lying?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. We could get a tape. Measure out,

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Speaker 3: figure it out when we're done.

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Speaker 2: You could be the judge of this. When you see

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Speaker 2: us stand next to each other. Cruise is as tall

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Speaker 2: as a bird face right now. But anyways, I'm just

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Speaker 2: and I see these little beady eyes poking through and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Justice, no, And so then I locked the top.

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Speaker 2: I locked the entire door, and I use this as

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Speaker 2: my excuse on why everything could be locked. Justice gets

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Speaker 2: my fault, totally my fault. Justice goes and gets a

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Speaker 2: what is it called a crowbar? A crow bar and

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Speaker 3: To Well, there was a lot leading into it. A

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Speaker 3: triggered me. I went nuts.

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Speaker 2: She went nuts. So she broke through the door. Me

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Speaker 2: and Jamie have yes, you do so then me and

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Speaker 2: Jamie have to jump off my little falcony go running,

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Speaker 2: and she keeps running after me.

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Speaker 3: This is this is exaggerated.

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Speaker 2: Never's not exaggerate. This is the fact.

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Speaker 3: I never got through the door.

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Speaker 2: You well, you got through figuring out a way. You

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Speaker 3: Let's move on from the story. We don't need to

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what other things would you like to talk

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Speaker 2: about us growing up? If you're going to talk about

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Speaker 2: me leaving you as an unaccompanied minor.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well I can do that. That's a good one.

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Speaker 3: So when we'd have to travel every other weekend to Indiana,

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Speaker 3: our parents got divorced when we were I was four.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how old I was. I was eight,

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Speaker 3: they'd trust us to fly with a flight attendant, get

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Speaker 2: Great it seems right.

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Speaker 3: No, I think we're a little older at this point,

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Speaker 3: but it was every other weekend. We were so over it.

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Speaker 2: We didn't want to go because at this point, I mean.

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Speaker 3: Well, we didn't want to go because we like had

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Speaker 2: Sometimes Dad would come to hilton Head so we'd get

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Speaker 3: Just hang at our own house. Well, we would always

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Speaker 3: I would have to just like hold it together, no

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Speaker 3: because at this point, Teddy, you were probably like fourteen,

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Speaker 3: like you were, well, like you were old enough to

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Speaker 3: know better to do this to your ten year old sister.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably didn't, she'd probably piss me off.

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Speaker 3: Well, luckily it was the same gate every single time,

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Speaker 3: flying back and forth, so I knew exactly where to go.

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Speaker 3: But after that, the flight attendants were back on full schedule.

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Speaker 3: We had one every single weekend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I may have left her, But if you have

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Speaker 2: a kid that's looking to play a fun game, this

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Speaker 2: is our favorite game. Okay, put your handshair.

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Speaker 3: Well we'd have to share the arm rest.

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Speaker 2: We'd have to share the armrest, but it'd be We

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Speaker 2: played a game and it's called Don't Touch Me.

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Speaker 2: Were we ever jealous of each other or our brothers?

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Speaker 3: We're not allowed to talk about them, but we.

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Speaker 2: of Christmas. So I made a Christmas miracle was that

438
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:02,959
Speaker 2: I was silent.

439
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 3: What was Thanksgiving? But I was so sick. I didn't

440
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 3: even notice you weren't speaking. And it took two years

441
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:12,639
Speaker 3: for you to finally tell me.

442
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,680
Speaker 2: And by the way, I didn't tell you. Dad told you.

443
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,439
Speaker 3: No, you did because we were on the phone.

444
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,159
Speaker 2: No, I told Dad, and Dad goes, you either tell her,

445
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell.

446
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 3: Her, well that I don't know about all that, but

447
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 3: you told me first, and then I told Dad and

448
00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: he was like, what you made her cry. I'm like, yeah,

449
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 3: I didn't even know.

450
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 2: It was like, that's why I didn't stay up late

451
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 2: that last night we were there. I was pissed.

452
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 3: Well, you should have just said something like I do

453
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 3: when I'm pissed, and then you just get over it.

454
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 2: I was just going to hold a grudge until you

455
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 2: realized how you wronged me. Okay, this next one is

456
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 2: Teddy's diagnosis. Oh gosh, this should be good for us.

457
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 2: What went through your head when I mean, I don't

458
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,200
Speaker 2: even know who told you? It says when Teddy told

459
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 2: you about her diagnosis, I was not in a position

460
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 2: to be telling anybody.

461
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 3: You didn't tell me so well, I mean obviously for

462
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: two years prior you had the surgeries and you're you know,

463
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 3: we're battling it for a while.

464
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,880
Speaker 2: But this is when the melanoma was on my back.

465
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, when it was just on your back, So I

466
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 3: mean that was obviously scary, and you know, we tried

467
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 3: our best to never think it would go to where

468
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 3: it did and kind of just pushed it to the back,

469
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: you know, like, just Okay, she's going every three months,

470
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: like she's taking care of herself. This is great. We

471
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 3: had a couple of trips in between that we had

472
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 3: so much fun together. You felt good. I was like, Okay,

473
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 3: she's beat this, this is done. But I mean when

474
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 3: I found out that it had metastasized, I was well

475
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 3: leaving Nightmare Babies swim lesson and he had finally turned

476
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 3: a corner and listened to his swim and instructors.

477
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, this is why he.

478
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 3: Did well for a minute.

479
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 2: Yes, I knew you needed a little bit of happiness

480
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 2: well before.

481
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. So we're walking out and Dad calls, and typically

482
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 3: if you don't answer Dad's call, he keeps calling.

483
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 2: And then he writes call me.

484
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,040
Speaker 3: So that happened like three times because I'm trying to

485
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: get the kids in the car and the call me

486
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: right now. I called. I'm like Dad, I'm sorry, I'm

487
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 3: trying to like get the kids in the car. What's up?

488
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 3: And he's like drop everything, and I'm like, oh god,

489
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,879
Speaker 3: he's so dramatic with everything. Well, he had a reason

490
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 3: this time, obviously, and he told me so. Of course,

491
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,439
Speaker 3: what I normally do is try to do best case scenario.

492
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, there's no way, like it's got

493
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 3: to be this. It's she you know, maybe she fell

494
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 3: and just maybe it's a concussion. She's had a lot

495
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 3: of concussions when she was writing when she was younger, like,

496
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 3: maybe this is what it is. And unfortunately it was

497
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:52,639
Speaker 3: none of that. And yeah, I mean it was tough.

498
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 3: We all got on a plane the next day while

499
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 3: you were in surgery. Unfortunately my flight got canceled because

500
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 3: flying to Hilton Head is always questionable. So I came

501
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 3: a day after that and just kind of came to

502
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 3: be by your side. You know.

503
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were all there. Unfortunately I don't remember any

504
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,439
Speaker 2: of them being there. I'm glad you don't. But I

505
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 2: can say this is going to sound so morbid, but

506
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: like some of the most fun and hilarious conversations we've

507
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: all been, including my friends, my family, everybody that we've

508
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: been able to have post this diagnosis and my surgeries,

509
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:40,199
Speaker 2: has been some of the behavior in the ospital.

510
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 3: Teddy was just being her true authentic self that she

511
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:48,160
Speaker 3: doesn't let anyone normally see because there's just all out there.

512
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what medication was it that made me

513
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 2: stay well?

514
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 3: You were on steroids, well.

515
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 2: Steroids, but there was another one that they give you

516
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 2: that's a pain killer. There's zero memory.

517
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 3: Well, thank god it nice little.

518
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 2: Things that would happen, would be when Justice told me

519
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 2: she was leaving.

520
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 3: Well, no, no, I so right after your surgery, you

521
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 3: know you were sleeping when when we were in the

522
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 3: rich in.

523
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 2: My mind, I didn't sleep any of the sixteen days

524
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 2: I was up twenty four.

525
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 3: Oh you were sleeping, which you know, you were so peaceful.

526
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 3: And we were talking about how beautiful you looked, and

527
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 3: she did, I mean you did. You looked beautiful. I

528
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 3: mean your skin color was perfect, everything, And I'm like,

529
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 3: how does she look this great? After brain surgery, shaved head,

530
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 3: Like I look like literally been dragged through the mud.

531
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,439
Speaker 3: They're traveling nineteen hours to get here with all my

532
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 3: delays and canceled flights. But anyway, I'm like, she looks amazing,

533
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 3: and so I'm talking about her. Whoever else was in

534
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 3: the room, it's.

535
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 2: Kyle Tamra, Jen Jen Marcella, like all my best friends

536
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: out here.

537
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 3: So we're all raving about how great she looks, and

538
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 3: she like opens her eyes and I'm like, hi, Hi,

539
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: Like it's the first time she's seen me. I'm like,

540
00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 3: how are you? I love you so much? Can you

541
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 3: see me? And she goes unfortunately, and I'm like, well,

542
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: there she is, and like you could tell everybody in

543
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 3: the room was like, yeah, there she is.

544
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: Pretty much went downhill from there.

545
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. It added some comic relief in

546
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 3: a really really shitty situation.

547
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I as much as things are really hard,

548
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 2: like seeing my family come to that hell every day

549
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 2: really meant a lot to me. Yeah, but it's we

550
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 2: had some highs and lows, Like there's definite moments that

551
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 2: I'm so grateful that, like some of my friends caught

552
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: on video and we get to watch like we still

553
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 2: talk about it. The next question is did it make

554
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 2: you feel differently about your own health hearing about the

555
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: stuff with me? Well, for sure.

556
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 3: I mean everyone just kind of goes through life living

557
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 3: and doing their own thing, and you end up putting

558
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 3: a lot on the back burner, your health being one

559
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,400
Speaker 3: of them. But certainly after your diagnosis with the melanoma

560
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 3: on your back, I started going every year for my

561
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 3: checks and have had two biopsies. Thank god they've been clear.

562
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 3: But I never in a million years would have thought

563
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 3: that was something I needed to start doing or even

564
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 3: think about. But I mean we were beach baby.

565
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: Cat scan, so I just put scan.

566
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, it just it brings a lot,

567
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 3: You've brought a lot awareness also, so many people, including

568
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 3: you know, my husband for instance, We were just talking

569
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: about it before I flew out here, like that melanoma

570
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:29,639
Speaker 3: is not just skin cancer that it can spread. It

571
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 3: you need to be on top of on top of it.

572
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: It's very surprising to me that I never had gotten

573
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: a pet scan after having sixteen.

574
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's insane.

575
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 2: It's insane, and I had a lot of anger towards that.

576
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 2: But how do you think that this has changed our relationship.

577
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 3: I think you have let yourself be a little more

578
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 3: like vulnerable about things, you know. You know, you've always

579
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 3: tried to be the strong sister who, like we said earlier,

580
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 3: like if I was mad, you knew I was mad,

581
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 3: you know. Like it's I think you have let yourself

582
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 3: kind of express a little bit more with me at least.

583
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 2: And I think it's you know, I'm not if you're

584
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 2: not in my face, then I'm not the world's best communicator.

585
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: Like I've really worked harder on it with like my

586
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 2: kids and my family, and like when I say family,

587
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: I mean the people that live in this home, but

588
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: the people that aren't as geographically close, Yeah, I keep

589
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 2: everybody at a little bit of a distance because I

590
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 2: don't want to trouble them.

591
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 3: Well, it's you're not troubling people.

592
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 2: I know, But now it's kind of I've realized, like

593
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm like, if I'm having a hard moment, yeah,

594
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call my sister and cry to her, because

595
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 2: you know what, Like even yesterday I told her something

596
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 2: and I wasn't expecting like the sister reaction. I was

597
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: expecting like just like, oh, that's all right, and her

598
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 2: face she was like I'm gonna have that conversation with

599
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 2: this person, you know, like she was pissed, like.

600
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: To stick up for you. Yeah, I mean I've always

601
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 3: been that way, but you maybe not have shared your

602
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 3: feelings about something happening with me to the point where

603
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: I would be like, well let me try to handle

604
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: this situation.

605
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: Well, now we get to change this sad topic and

606
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: go to an even more depressing topic, which is Teddy

607
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 2: on Housewives. What did you honestly think when you found

608
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: out I was going to be.

609
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 3: Well, first you called and asked for everyone's advice. That

610
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: we knew you weren't going to listen to I mean

611
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 3: that was a dead giveaway, like she's calling for this

612
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: advice that she's already made up her mind. Well, I

613
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 3: have to say, I've watched Beverly Hills like forever. It

614
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: was kind of my mindless fun turn it on. I

615
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 3: don't know these women like this is something I can

616
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 3: watch and it's entertaining and I like it. And then

617
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 3: you went on it and I was like, that girl's

618
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 3: a bitch. I hate her, Like I was fully investing.

619
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 2: You thought I was a bitch from the beginning.

620
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 3: Not you. I'm talking about when someone would be mean

621
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 3: to you like these women as no, Nope, not gonna

622
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 3: do that. But like watching the show prior to you

623
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 3: being on it, I didn't care if they were mean

624
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 3: to each other. That's what made the show. And then

625
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: you go on it and ruin it because now I'm

626
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 3: like fully invested.

627
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: Well, I have a question. Yesterday you met both Tamra

628
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: and Erica. Yes, did you feel like they were different

629
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: than when you saw them on the show.

630
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 3: Well, I think I met Tamara in the hospital. I

631
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 3: think Tamra's very well, no, I don't know. I think

632
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 3: they're both very nice. I thought that. I, well, let's

633
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 3: be honest, you and Erica did not get along your

634
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 3: first season, right, and I kind of disliked y'all's relationship then,

635
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: But she was so lovely yesterday, so nice. You guys

636
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: have such a great relationship now. But also like, because

637
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 3: of you being on the show, I learned it is

638
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 3: a show no one wants to see. You guys all

639
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 3: like getting along and like having tea together, Like I

640
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 3: get it.

641
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 2: I hated having to. I hated it, But yeah, I

642
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 2: mean and Tam was pretty effortless, like she doesn't care.

643
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 2: Like we all sat on the floor of this carpet

644
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 2: eating pizza, eating pizzas. I can still see the two

645
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: grease stains, which I'm trying to get over.

646
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: But you did drop a little bit of your pizza.

647
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: That was you too.

648
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: I know it dripped because I squeezed it in half.

649
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: That pizza was huge, it was delicious, It was good.

650
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: What was your favorite part of me being.

651
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 3: Well, obviously in Provence when you were like, just I'm sorry,

652
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 3: very very overserved at the winery and it was hilarious.

653
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: When Kyle's not letting me eat your chips, eat my chip, and.

654
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: Then you wouldn't go to bed. You would not go

655
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 3: to bed. I mean I was like howling, dying, laughing,

656
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 3: and I kind of knew it was coming because I

657
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 3: don't know if you remember you called me that morning.

658
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I called everyone because I was like so anxious.

659
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 3: I may have ruined our lives. I don't know what

660
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 3: I said you. I was driving to work because of

661
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 3: the time difference. I was like, you know, starting my day,

662
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,959
Speaker 3: and maybe it wasn't morning for you, maybe it was night.

663
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 3: I don't even know, but you were panicked. You're like,

664
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: I really hope I didn't do anything to embarrass the family.

665
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I hope you did, because I've been

666
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 3: waiting for this since you started the show, and but no,

667
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 3: I think I really loved like seeing the family on

668
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: there and your kids, and you know, I I think

669
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 3: it was good that you obviously went on this show.

670
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: But by the time you were, you were leaving. I

671
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: think all leaving, you're exiting whatever you want to call

672
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 3: them of your exit, that you were invited to exit

673
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 3: when you weren't invited back. I think we all as

674
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 3: a family knew it was time we had seen you

675
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 3: go through some tough stuff. You know personally that wasn't

676
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 3: actually being shown and and I just thought it was

677
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 3: it was good like you you were on the show.

678
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 3: You you did your your best when you pregnant, which

679
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 3: was I know, not fun.

680
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah, now they want to know about your

681
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 2: private life, my private life. I love that she checks

682
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 2: the notes to see if I'm making it up for

683
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 2: people who don't know. Why did you choose not to

684
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: be in the public eye like me and Hudson?

685
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 3: Because I'm very private in a sense where like I'll

686
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 3: be open and share my opinion and if you know,

687
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 3: you get to know me, you know all about me.

688
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 3: But I have had the same group of girlfriends literally

689
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 3: since I was a child. I married a guy that

690
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 3: I've known since I was four.

691
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: I've been boyfriend girlfriend since kindergarten.

692
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I just I keep my circle very tight

693
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 3: and very close. Like any big group situations, I'm like, nah,

694
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 3: I'm good. I think I'm going to pass on that.

695
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 3: It's just I when you wanted me to do that

696
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 3: one interview, zoom interview and then I bailed last minute.

697
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there was a show that they wanted the

698
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 3: sisters or something. Yeah, there was like a sister show

699
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: they wanted us to do, and I really wanted I

700
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 3: always call her Slight by the way, so if you

701
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 3: see me pausing, and because I don't know why, they

702
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 3: remind me of each other. But I called Burn and

703
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, would you want to do it? And she's like, yep, sure, yeah,

704
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: I'll do it. And then well no, I said no,

705
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: I don't want to be on the show, but I

706
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 3: will do this for you.

707
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: And then the day of she's like, I'm canceling and I'm.

708
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: Like, bitch, yeah, well, I mean I had some stuff

709
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,959
Speaker 3: going at home, but I felt like I was gonna

710
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 3: throw up the whole day. I was like, there is

711
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 3: no way.

712
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 2: Did you feel like you were going to throw up

713
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 2: before doing this pod? Or you knew I'm just such

714
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: an effortlessener.

715
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 3: Well it helped.

716
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 2: Watch.

717
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 3: It helps watching and you guys do it yesterday and

718
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: seeing kind of like how it would go down. But

719
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: when you initially asked me, Michael could see my face

720
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,239
Speaker 3: when you asked, and he's like what, and she was like,

721
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:52,560
Speaker 3: she wants me to do the pod. He's like, well,

722
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 3: did you say no? And I was like, I can't

723
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: say no. I'm gonna do it.

724
00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 2: I see you give Michael a little shout out my husband. Yeah, yeah,

725
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 2: But also, can we talk about what the things are

726
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: that Michael's obsessed with really quick, just so they can

727
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 2: get a shout out?

728
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 3: No, we cannot.

729
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,760
Speaker 2: Hold on? What are they called? Please tell me what cryptocur? Crypto?

730
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 3: We can't because it's actually not allowed to be spoken

731
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,479
Speaker 3: in my house. Like I'm like, we are not talking

732
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 3: about hold on, but what is.

733
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 2: The little thing? What? He has his own name?

734
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 3: Oh no, he got rid of it. Oh no, don't

735
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 3: even he.

736
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 2: Had his own Instagram, guys, So if you're into cryptocurrencies,

737
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 2: he got.

738
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 3: Rid of it.

739
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 2: Hold on, but what was the name?

740
00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 3: I don't even know. I never thought. I don't know.

741
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 3: I never followed it.

742
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 2: I cannot, guys, find Michael Moore. Oh no, he can't

743
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 2: find cryptocurrency.

744
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: Guys, it's gone. Don't even waste your time. Even if

745
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 3: you were like entertaining the idea of trying to find it,

746
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 3: you will.

747
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 2: I don't even know what it is. But some days

748
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 2: we would sit there and I'd be like an hour

749
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: and a half in and finally I was like, I

750
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 2: got to give up on this, buddy.

751
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 3: No, I I gave up on it pretty early. But yeah,

752
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 3: so he knew by my face that I was like,

753
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 3: oh God, like, okay, go talk about myself.

754
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: Well do you feel so a lot of people and

755
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 2: Erica even said something yesterday about how we had a

756
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 2: different life growing up because of our dad, and nobody

757
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 2: ever believed me when I'm like, we really realize it.

758
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: We really didn't. Really, I didn't realize it until I

759
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: moved to La. Well.

760
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 3: I mean it's not that we didn't realize it. I

761
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: think our mom did a really good job on just

762
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 3: making sure we had the upbringing we would have if

763
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 3: we didn't have a famous dad, you know, like she

764
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 3: gave us a great you know life at the beach

765
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,680
Speaker 3: and did all the things that she could do as

766
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 3: a single mom. And I mean we definitely had some

767
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 3: really cool experiences, me more than you. I feel like,

768
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 3: because you were riding all the time. I didn't have

769
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: a sport that I was like, so listen, I just

770
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 3: got beaten horse with Cruise yesterday. I am not an athlete,

771
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 3: but when she's talking about horse the basketball, yeah, I

772
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 3: mean I was. I was done for like it was awful,

773
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: but you were gone a lot where I was kind

774
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 3: of like you're you're with dad this week, You're going

775
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 3: to go ahead and travel with him. So, I mean

776
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 3: we definitely got some really cool experiences. Yeah, I went

777
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 3: on tour with Dad for a whole summer. Like there

778
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 3: was things that were very different than your quote traditional upbringing.

779
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 3: But I think mom for the most part, because we

780
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 3: were in hilton Head and Dad lived in Indiana, Like

781
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:21,320
Speaker 3: there was no like glamorous stuff like people would assume.

782
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 2: I would say the most truly is like when somebody's

783
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 2: grandparents would come to one of our like games or something,

784
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: and they'd be like, oh, is that Johnny Couger.

785
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 3: No, I mean yeah, I mean there was just hilton

786
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 3: Head was like a very.

787
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 2: Very girls girls were into the old the older girls

788
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 2: were into Dad.

789
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but I think people like respected the privacy

790
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 3: of it all too, Like they weren't going to.

791
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 2: People because like we graduated from a class of how many.

792
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: Well I had thirty two in my class. In years

793
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:56,280
Speaker 3: it is probably even smaller.

794
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so like there we weren't filled around tons of

795
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 2: new people, like it was always the same.

796
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, and also there was no social media. There

797
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 3: was no you know, in my Dad's so private that

798
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 3: it wasn't like he was like broadcasting that we were

799
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: his kids anywhere. You know.

800
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's not like now where everything's in the press.

801
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 2: I mean, sorry, dad, Oh, do you feel like you

802
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: have ownership over your dad's song Justice and Independence?

803
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 3: I mean I should, but no I don't. But I

804
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 3: the story behind that is the whole time they thought

805
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 3: I was a boy and they had a name which

806
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 3: was Hud, which is our brother. But they had no

807
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 3: idea that I was a girl until I was born,

808
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 3: and so no girl name. And I guess they're sitting

809
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 3: in the hospital and they were getting ready to go home,

810
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: and they're like, you gotta name this kid, Like you

811
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 3: can't just take it home. You have to name your child.

812
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 3: And so dad and mom decided because he had written

813
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 3: that song that year, which is an awful song.

814
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: Guys like it is, no, that's gonna be everywhere now

815
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 2: it is not. Okay, So you just screwed yourself. Thank

816
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 2: you so much for stepping into my world. And People

817
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: magazine you better be clocking that one as well, right

818
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 2: next to my Mazu league.

819
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 3: He would admit the best thing that came out of

820
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 3: that song was my name. Let's say that.

821
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 2: Well, also showing more that Justice is the favorite. The

822
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: Big Daddy cover was supposed to be Justice, but she

823
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 2: was throwing such a major fit that that's why I

824
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 2: am on the cover holding my dad in like a

825
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 2: dirty white T shirt.

826
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 3: You were not Pictureretti. I, on the other hand, was

827
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 3: not having it that day.

828
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:42,399
Speaker 2: Ummmm, Okay, if there's one thing you and Teddy could

829
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 2: do together, sort of like a bucket list, what is it? Oh?

830
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 3: I don't know.

831
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 2: I would say, we've never this is the first time

832
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 2: since we've had kids where we've had any kind of

833
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 2: like alone time. I'd love to go on a trip

834
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 2: with Justice. Yeah, without our seven thousand kids and husbands,

835
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: and yeah, that would be fun brothers and dad. And

836
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 2: because we're always having to take care of everybody, Well.

837
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it would be fun to take a

838
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 3: trip just you and I somewhere.

839
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 2: Oh, what's it like having to live in Teddy's shadow? Oh?

840
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't know I was in your shadow, but.

841
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 2: Well I'm in dad's. Well you're smaller.

842
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 3: Well, I'm in everyone's shadow. When you're five feet you're

843
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 3: four eleven, whatever, I'm always in the shadow. I didn't

844
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 3: know I was, though.

845
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 2: But I didn't. I don't think so either, because we

846
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,760
Speaker 2: watched You've Got Mails so much. How did we feel

847
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,040
Speaker 2: when Dad started dating may Ryan? I mean obviously we

848
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 2: were at sick. We're like, what how we had never

849
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: been when I walked in.

850
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 3: Well, she was the nicest I mean right off the bat,

851
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 3: you know.

852
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 2: She not nicest. Ever, there's a new night, there's a

853
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: new nicy, so we don't want to share the old.

854
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 3: Well, I just meant compared to some other people Dad dated.

855
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: Yes, there was one that was.

856
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,839
Speaker 3: Her pretty relieved that he you know, but I think

857
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 3: I told her right away. I was like, just so

858
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 3: you know Teddy and I know every line, so you've

859
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 3: got mail. And she was so embarrassed that I said that.

860
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 2: It's like I was like, no, play it cool, don't

861
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: be all uncool. And then I was like, we do

862
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 2: you want to see us.

863
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: The whole thing.

864
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 2: You've got Mayo?

865
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 3: I mean it was it was a great movie.

866
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 2: Let's just you know what sometimes what's the little shop

867
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: in the corner, shop around the corner shop, around the corner.

868
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 2: It was one of the greats. No, we love her,

869
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: and no they they you know, things happened, but things happened.

870
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 2: But We were ecstatic and we still are, like, she's

871
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 2: such a good person in all of our lives. So yeah,

872
00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 2: we we appreciate Meg always, and yeah a lot. I

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00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 2: love that you had to call out the other chick.

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00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,399
Speaker 2: Do you think people are going to figure out who

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00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: the other chick is?

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00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: She was a famous one and she licked it.

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00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was tough.

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00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: That was tough.

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00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 3: When she showed me away to order room service once,

881
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 3: I was like, we are and I was pregnant, so

882
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 3: my hormones were not in a good stitch. I was like, yeah,

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00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 3: no more.

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00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 2: When she got her when we were at Craigs for

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00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 2: dinner and we were about to walk out and like

886
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: we were still going through the back, but she opened

887
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: up her those called cosmetic mirror, her cosmetic mirror to

888
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:33,720
Speaker 2: touch up her lips. I was like, I am actually done.

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00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 2: Yeah it was a lot, but you know what, I

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00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 2: guess a lot of people do the touch ups. But

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00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,439
Speaker 2: totally She's not Dad's type.

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00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: And we knew it.

893
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 2: We knew it. I was like, Dad is wearing overalls.

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00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're name ones from yesterday.

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00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 2: But thank you guys for tuning in to another episode

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00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 2: of too cheese and a pod. She is private, so

897
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 2: it's gonna be hard to find much on Justice, but

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00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 2: you could follow her at Justice Smelling and if she

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00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: likes your jewelry or whatever it is that you're slanging,

900
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: she may follow you back. If not, we'll let you

901
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: know in a couple of years when she comes back

902
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 2: on the pod, or I'll just video the crap out

903
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: of her at Christmas or whatever holiday. She's already trying

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00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,399
Speaker 2: to plan out Fourth of July. I'm like, Jay, I'm

905
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 2: trying to get through this week. Calm your tits. But anyways,

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00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: thanks for tuning in. Thank you. Her Instagram name is

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00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 2: Justice Smellingcamp. She left the bird out, which I thought

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00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 2: was rude. Love you, Love you,