1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: It is time now for the Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter too, Steve HARVEYFM dot com. 4 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: By clicking on submit Strawberry Letter, we could be reading 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 6 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, And you 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 2: We got it for you here. If it is the 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: Strawberry let. 11 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:29,159 Speaker 1: Up, thank you. Ne few subjects he can laugh, but 12 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: I can't. Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and I have 13 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 1: been married for eight years and we have three children 14 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: under age six. That means I'm always tired and trying 15 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: to get a nap whenever I can. If I happen 16 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: to be in the bed lying down or on the 17 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 1: couch lying down, my husband thinks it's a perfect time 18 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: for him to ask for sex. Although I might be 19 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: very tired at the moment, I will always give him 20 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 1: a quickie so he won't feel neglected. I don't want 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: to be so tired that I make him go seek 22 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: intimacy from another woman. Last week, I was so tired 23 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: that I fell asleep a couple of times during intimacy 24 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: and my husband did not stop. That was the most 25 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: inconsiderate thing he's ever done to me. I ignored him 26 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: for two days until he gave me a proper apology. 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: Right after that, he was out back talking to his 28 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: friend on the phone and I heard him cackling like 29 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: an old hen. He told his friend that the love 30 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: making is getting more terrible than it has ever been, 31 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: and that I expect him to do all of the work. 32 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: Whatever his friend said back to him, he started laughing 33 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: and could not stop. He kept on agreeing with him 34 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: and saying, that's exactly how bad our sex is. So 35 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: since he thought having sex with me was so funny, 36 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: I planned a romantic evening for us, and after we 37 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: got out of the bubble bath, we moved to the bedroom. 38 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: As soon as he touched me, I giggled. He asked 39 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: if I was okay, but I ignored him. Midway through sex. 40 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: I was laughing so loudly that he stopped. I told 41 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: him he's not what he used to do either, but 42 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: I put up with him. He got so offended and 43 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: said that he would not tolerate the disrespect because he 44 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: knows he's a king at pleasing women. Now he's mad, 45 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: so he can laugh, but I can't. Yeah, that's exactly 46 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: what he thinks. That's what he's doing. All you did 47 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: was give him a taste of his very own medicine. 48 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: And of course he hated it. When he was talking 49 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,119 Speaker 1: to his friend, not once did he consider your feelings, 50 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: that you may hear him or anything. It was okay 51 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: for him, but not for you. That's not what he 52 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: should have been telling his friend about that part of 53 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: your marriage anyway. That's why they call it intimacy. Okay, 54 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: it's not his friend's business what goes on in your bedroom. 55 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: That is between you and your husband period. Now his 56 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: fragile ego is bruised and he's mad, and it's a 57 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: good time I think now to talk to him and 58 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: let him know how you feel. And when you're tired 59 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: from the kids and he wants sex, and when he 60 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: complains to his friend, tell him all about that. Maybe 61 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: you know, if he helps you more with the kids, 62 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: maybe you wouldn't be so tired. Tell him all of it. 63 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: So if there's a possibility of you guys working it out, 64 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: you can steve. 65 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 3: Okay, First, of all, before I get started. I like 66 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: Shirley's answer, so I'm not mad at that at all. 67 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 3: I think it has some valid points to it, and 68 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: I can understand where she's coming from because she did 69 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,239 Speaker 3: make a good point about Look, dude, if you help 70 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 3: out a little bit, might be a. 71 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 2: Little bit more property. 72 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: But I think the letter of he can laugh, but 73 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 3: I can't. I don't even really think that's what this 74 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: letter is about, because the damaging part of this letter 75 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 3: is all in the top. It ain't at the bottom 76 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 3: until he made this one stupid statement at the bottom 77 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: that just threw me completely. 78 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: This woman, they have three children. 79 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 3: They've been married eight years and got three kids, all 80 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 3: under the age of six. 81 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: She been pregnant the whole time. 82 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 3: You've been married eight years, three kids, all of them 83 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 3: under the age of six. After two years, this woman 84 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 3: been pregnant half the time. If you do the math 85 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 3: on it, right, I mean, that's been a lot, and 86 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 3: having children is hard, and having children is like, oh, 87 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 3: it's a phenomenal thing that women are able to do. 88 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: So she says she's always tired. I can believe that. 89 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: I really can't. 90 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 3: She's trying to get a nap whenever she can. Three 91 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 3: kids under six. Now here's a problem. If I happen 92 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: to be in the bed lying down or on the 93 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: couch lying down, my husband thinks it's the perfect time 94 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 3: for him to ask for sex. Well, let me give 95 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: you the male point of view on that. You know 96 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 3: what your husband is thinking. Well, you are just laying there. 97 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 3: You ain't doing nothing, which is what she needs to do, 98 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 3: be able to lay there and do nothing, because when 99 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: she's awake and them kids are awake, she busy. But no, no, no, 100 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 3: mister selfish, Well you just lay in here. And then 101 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 3: you said, although I might be very tired at the moment, 102 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 3: I will always give him a quickie so he won't 103 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 3: feel neglected. I don't want to be so tired that 104 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,799 Speaker 3: I making go seek intimacy from another woman. Wow, that's 105 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: awfully considerate of you. Now it's too bad he don't 106 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 3: give you the same consideration. 107 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 2: I want it, I want it, I want it, I 108 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: want it. 109 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 3: I want it. Well, damn dog, Okay, so I got it. 110 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 3: So now you're a very considerate person. 111 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: He isn't. 112 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 3: So then last week she said she was so tired 113 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 3: that she fell asleep a couple of times during intimacy 114 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 3: and my husband did not stop. 115 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: Well, now we got a problem here. 116 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 3: You mean I ain't doing nothing worth for Damn, Where 117 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 3: you can just go to sleep while I'm while I'm working? 118 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 3: And you fell asleep a couple of times doing intimacy 119 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 3: and he didn't stop. Damn, that was the most inconsidered 120 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: thing he's ever done to me. Ignored him for a 121 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 3: couple of days until he gave me a proper apology. 122 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 3: That's that's crazy. I don't think this dude is all 123 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 3: that spectacular bed now. I know later on he gonna 124 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: say that, and then I'll point that out. But you 125 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: you ain't going to sleep while I'm in your working 126 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 3: That's all right? 127 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, We'll have part two of your response 128 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 129 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter subject he can laugh but I can't. 130 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 2: We'll get back. 131 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: Into it right after this. You're listening morning show, all right? 132 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject 133 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: is he can but I can't. 134 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 3: Well, this woman has these children, right, and she has 135 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 3: three children, all in the age six. He's been married 136 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 3: to a guy eight years and she's always tired from 137 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: the kids, and so she's laying down on the sofa 138 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: of the bed. Her husband thinks that's a perfect time 139 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 3: to ask for sex. She accommodates him even though she's tired, 140 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 3: because she don't want him to go seeking intimacy from 141 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 3: another woman. And then she'll so she'll give him a 142 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 3: quickie so he don't feel neglected. 143 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 2: She's very considerate and. 144 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 3: So anyway, last week she said she was so tired 145 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 3: that she fell asleep a couple of times during intimacy, 146 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: and my husband did not stop. Damn dog, while y'all 147 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 3: was be an intimate she fell asleep twice. What was 148 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 3: you doing, dog? I'm telling you right now, Bro, you 149 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: ain't the cook in the kitchen. You thought you were 150 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 3: cause she's sleep So then he didn't stop, And then 151 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 3: she said, that's the most inconsiderate thing he's ever done 152 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: to me. So ignored him for a couple of days 153 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 3: till he gave me a proper apology. Right after that, 154 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 3: he was out in the backyard talking to one of 155 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 3: his friends on the phone, and you heard him laughing 156 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:19,559 Speaker 3: and joking to his friend on the phone. He told 157 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 3: his friend that the love making is getting more terrible 158 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 3: than it's ever been, and that I expect him to 159 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 3: do all the work. 160 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: This is what your husband is saying. 161 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: Whatever his friend said back to him, he started laughing 162 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 3: and couldn't stop. He kept on agreeing with him and saying, 163 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 3: that's exactly how bad our sex is. 164 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, man, I didn't know. Excuse me. 165 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 3: I've been a man a long time. I didn't know 166 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: that men did that. I really didn't. I personally have 167 00:08:55,840 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 3: never had a conversation with any of my friends about 168 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 3: their wife and their sex life, not a one. I've 169 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 3: never been in a group of men and we're talking 170 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 3: and one man started talking about his sex life with 171 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 3: his wife, his girl. 172 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 2: That's a whole nother thing. Some chick over there, yeh, 173 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: that that. 174 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 3: But I've never heard a man discuss him and his 175 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 3: wife sex life to another man. I've never heard it. Obviously, 176 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 3: it happens, but I've never heard it. This must be 177 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 3: a young couple, because in the old school book of things, 178 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 3: that that's it's just not how we do it. A 179 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 3: group of me and friends and I get together. We 180 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 3: all went to college together. We together once a year, 181 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 3: and we are as cool as cool can be. We've 182 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 3: never had that discussion amongst each other ever, and we are. 183 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: We're close, so I didn't know you could do that. 184 00:09:58,120 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 3: But anyway, let's get down to this. 185 00:09:59,800 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 2: Left. 186 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 3: Whatever the friend said back, he laughed. He couldn't stop it. 187 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 3: He kept agreeing with him, saying, that's exactly how bad 188 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 3: the sex is. So, since he thought having sex with 189 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 3: me was so funny, I planned this romanic evening. We 190 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 3: get out the bubble bath, we in there having dinner. 191 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 3: We go to the bedroom, and as soon as he 192 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: touched me, I giggled. So he asked if I was okay, 193 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 3: but I ignored him. Midway through sex. I was laughing 194 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 3: so loudly that he stopped. Okay, so she giving him 195 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 3: a taste of his own medicine. I told him he's 196 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: not what he used to be either, but I put 197 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: up with him. He got so offended and he said 198 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 3: he would not tolerate the disrespect. Now this is the 199 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 3: next line I couldn't believe came out his mouth. He said, 200 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 3: because he's no he knows he's the king at pleasing women. 201 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: But he was mad. He was mad. 202 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you told that to your wife. 203 00:10:56,280 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 2: Dumb, dumb. I'm the king of pleasing women. You said 204 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 2: that to your wife. 205 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 3: Now that gives me a time to point out something. 206 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 3: If you're the king of pleasing women, what happened when 207 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: doing intimacy? A couple of times your wife fell asleep 208 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 3: while the king of pleasure was in the handling his business. 209 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 2: Ain't king. I got news for you. You ain't who you 210 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: think you are. Dog, she will sleep twice. You said 211 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 2: you're the king at pleasing women. 212 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 3: The one you got went to sleep twice while you 213 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: was in there at work. Now you ain't the king 214 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 3: of pleasing women. You ain't even depressed. You're the court gesture. Yeah, yeah, 215 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 3: you're a kualud dog, that's what you are. You're a 216 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 3: nice little kuelude. Now he's mad, so he can laugh, 217 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 3: but I can't. I can't believe your husband said that 218 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: it's too bad. He'll get over it. He don't tolerate 219 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 3: the disrespect. Well, you see me sleep and you keep 220 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 3: on badgering me. That's disrespectful too. If y'all don't sit 221 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 3: down and have a conversation real soon, y'all had it 222 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 3: for for an ugly part of your marriage. And that's 223 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 3: the real deal. Y'all need to sit down and have 224 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 3: his talk. Surely was one hundred percent correct. You need 225 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 3: to tell him how he feels, how you feel sometime 226 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 3: about him not allowing you to give it rest, and 227 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 3: then y'all can have instead of a bunch of a 228 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:44,679 Speaker 3: little short or remorseful quickies, you can have some actual 229 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 3: real times if you plan it a little bit better, 230 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 3: and then both of y'all could be happy. But he's 231 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 3: self centered and selfish because he wanted when he wanted, 232 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 3: and quit giving it to him. Because you ain't gonna 233 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 3: do nothing but go to sleep right now, because you're 234 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 3: king of pleasure. 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