1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: How many of you guys still have stuff that's being 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: paid for it by your parents? 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 2: Right here, my cell phone bell and I will never leave, 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,040 Speaker 2: never nice can never kick me off. 5 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: My sister is thirty thirty five years old, about to 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: have another kid, and she and my parents are still 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: paying for her cell phone bill. 8 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 3: That's say an icon. Well, no, I'm just not doing 9 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 3: it right. 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: Apparently, no you're not, but this is out this morning. 11 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: Forty seven percent of parents with a child under or 12 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: excuse me, older than eighteen provide them with at least 13 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: some financial support. So half of parents with a kid 14 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: over eighteen or still paying for something for their kid. 15 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: Savings dot Com found that these parents are shelling out 16 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: thirteen one hundred dollars a month on average for their 17 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: kids compare with their parents. And I granted older than 18 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: eighteen could include like college age, so like eighteen to 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: twenty two, and my parents were definitely spending more than 20 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: eighteen thirteen hundred bucks a month on me when I 21 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: was in college, like, way more than that. Sixty one 22 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: percent of adult children still living at home don't contribute 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 1: to household expenses at all. For parents, however, supporting grown 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: children can be a substantial drain when their own retirement 25 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: security is at risk. In fact, fifty eight percent of 26 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: parents said that they've sacrificed their own financial security for 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: the sake of their adult children. I want to know 28 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: what your parents are still paying for eight five, five, 29 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: three five, or as a parent, what you're still paying for, 30 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: and if you're okay with it or if you're like, 31 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: my kids are dead beats. 32 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 3: My kids are dead beats. Oh wow, and my kids? 33 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 3: He doesn't pay for nothing? 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, the one in my belly. 35 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 5: You gotta pay for all these things for this kid. God, yeah, 36 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 5: you get a job, Ashlyn. Put that dimple to work. Son. 37 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: So will your parents pay for your phone? That's it? 38 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 3: And then Mike pays for everything pay for everything else. 39 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 2: My parents up until like a couple of years ago, 40 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: I was still on their auto insurance, which was amazing, 41 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: but yeah no, And I stayed on that healthcare until 42 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 2: twenty six, until literally the day I turned six or 43 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: twenty seven, whatever day got kicked off. 44 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 3: I did not ask you question respectfully. Go ahead, why 45 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 3: are you so broke? Do you want to. 46 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 6: You did? 47 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: You didn't pay for health insurance? Hell yeah, pay for 48 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,119 Speaker 1: car insurance? 49 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 7: Yeah? 50 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: You don't pay for your cell phone. Yes, HI don't 51 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: have any money. So I left college with debt the 52 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 2: size of a mortgage. So yeah, most of my pay 53 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 2: goes to that for a degree that I don't use 54 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: every day, which is great. 55 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 3: Thanks a lot, Suster, Gene. 56 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 2: Right, sister Geane wants her coin. No matter how much 57 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 2: I fight her, she has her hand in my pocket. 58 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 4: They sent so many kids off with that, those students. 59 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 2: Oh if I could do it, Oh my god, the 60 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: things I would do differently, hold you differently. I would 61 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:54,079 Speaker 2: go to a state school. I would probably start a 62 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 2: community college for two years and then transfer. Instead of 63 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 2: paying forty thousand dollars a year to go to college, 64 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: I would do a way. Coming from a Catholic school, 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: they tell you this is the only way, Like, you 66 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: gotta go here, you gotta take these loans out, you 67 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: gotta go to these really big schools. You don't got 68 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: to do all that. I know, and it ruins your 69 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 2: life for like twenty years. I think by that with Polly, 70 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: with my niece. You know, she's three, So when fifteen 71 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 2: years and now she'll go to college, what would that 72 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 2: look like? You know, will you actually go to college? 73 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: Will you live in a dorm. 74 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: M I know, this sounds ridiculous, seriously, like, well, just 75 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: she I don't know. I mean, maybe maybe she wants 76 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: to go to trade school, maybe she wants to do 77 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: something else, maybe she wants to who. 78 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: Knows, somehow, it'll be even more expensive when she gets there. 79 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: It's crazy. 80 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: I know because my parents. 81 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: I went to four year school and they told me 82 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: all growing up that they were saving and that that 83 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: was their gift to me, that they would pay for college, 84 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: and it was the greatest gift they gave me. And 85 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: I had zero college debt. However, that's amazing. The day 86 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: I graduated college, they were done, We're done with you. 87 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: We're not paying for anything, which is which backfired on 88 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: them because they wanted me to go to law school 89 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: and I couldn't get into the law school I wanted 90 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: to go to. So I took the job that I 91 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: could get at the time, which was doing a radio 92 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: DJ job in Austin on you know, at night or whatever. 93 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: And they did not want me to do that, but 94 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: it was but that was the deal. 95 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 3: It was. 96 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: Hey, guess what, I graduated today and I don't have 97 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: any money tomorrow. So that's the job I can get, 98 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: so I'm taking it, and my mom's like, well, we'll 99 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: support you for a little while if you want to 100 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: go to law school. 101 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, no, no, that was the deal. 102 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: And then I never went to law school and so 103 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: you know what, their own deal backfired on them. 104 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, the only role is that I had to graduate college. 105 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: So I did that, and I don't know, they still 106 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 2: help out. 107 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, Julie High, Hey, how's it going? 108 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 8: Guy? 109 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: Hey, you pay for almost good morning, by the way, 110 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: you pay for almost everything for your thirty six year 111 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: old son. 112 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 9: I do, Unfortunately I do, and it's because I don't 113 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 9: want him to come back home. I still have a 114 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 9: seventeen year old and a twenty one year old in 115 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 9: college that I'm trying to get out and about. And yes, 116 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 9: I have actually risked my own financial security just to 117 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 9: keep that one afloat. 118 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 3: Let me ask you a question, Julian. 119 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: There's no judgment here, but do you feel somewhat responsible 120 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: for the fact that your kid's thirty six and you're 121 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: still having to pay for his stuff? Like is that why? 122 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: Is it kind of out of guilt? Like I didn't 123 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: prepare my kid well enough. 124 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, it can be that because I had him at 125 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 9: eighteen and so like without a dad or anything like that, 126 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 9: you do everything for them, so in fact, you enable 127 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 9: them to be that kid that you got to take 128 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 9: care of forever because they didn't know how to do 129 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 9: anything for themselves or they feel entitled that, oh I 130 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 9: didn't have a dad and then you have the other 131 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 9: two later in life, and so you kind of feel guilty. 132 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 9: But to protect my own well being, insanity, I will 133 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 9: go that extra mile to try and make sure that 134 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 9: he's getting things done. And actually he's just moved out 135 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 9: last year. 136 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, direction here and this is good maybe 137 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: by forty And I'm joking with you. 138 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 3: I'm not judging you. 139 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 9: I'm joking with you, but come on, no, no, but you 140 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 9: know what, so the twenty one year old, he would 141 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 9: say things like, you know, oh, is he on the 142 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 9: thirty year plan now? Or does he have a thirty 143 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 9: five year plan? 144 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 7: Now? 145 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 9: Are we moving towards the forty year plan now? And 146 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 9: I'm in there and they were, you know, the seventeen 147 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 9: and twenty one year old are constantly saying stop, stop, stop, 148 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 9: and I get it. But if I don't stop, he's 149 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 9: coming back. Yeah, so I try to put down the 150 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 9: hammer with him, and it works a little bit here 151 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 9: and there, but then something happens and he gives you 152 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 9: that story. 153 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 1: Well, the reason I asked the question, Julia is because 154 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: and it's not my sister, I'm not talking about this. 155 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: And there's an extension somewhere in my family lineage. There's 156 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: a person who is was unable to care for herself, 157 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: and not because she was unable, but because she just 158 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: these people in my life. My grandparents mad for this 159 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 1: one of their daughters, for their whole life. In fact, 160 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: in their death, they're still paying for her life. And 161 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: and my mom, who like created her whole life her 162 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: own life, got married, you know, had kids, got divorced, 163 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: left with nothing, rebuilt her life with kids again, the 164 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: whole thing. My mom now looks back on this and goes, well, 165 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: why did I work so damn hard and why did 166 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: I basically support my you know, she was there for 167 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: her parents till the very end, did everything for them, 168 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: and yet some of the money continues to go to 169 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: this other person, and there's a lot of resentment there. 170 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: And so I just I guess I wonder, like, and 171 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: what I say to my mom is well, you realize 172 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: they had to do that because they created this, and 173 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: what were they going to let her do just flounder? 174 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 3: Right, They're gonna let her starve. But they could the 175 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 3: same way. 176 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 9: I feel the same way. But I tried to tell 177 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 9: so my my younger ones, I tell them I'm really 178 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 9: hard on them because I didn't want them to be 179 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 9: the older ones. So I always tell my younger friends 180 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 9: and stuff. Listen, when you have children, remember and this 181 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 9: is the one thing I want you to remember always. 182 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 3: You are not their friend. 183 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 9: You need to buckle up from day one. The minute 184 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 9: they can stand on the stool, have the washing divisues, 185 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 9: the minute that they can hold accountability, do it because 186 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 9: you are going to wind up with this. And then 187 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 9: I reflect to my thirty six year old that you 188 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 9: have to remember we are not here to be their friend. 189 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 9: We are here to create and build productive people in society. 190 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 9: So I unfortunately had to deal with a person that 191 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 9: I enabled in life because I did everything for him, 192 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 9: you know. Yeah, And so the two younger ones are 193 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 9: constantly we didn't do this with Michael I and you 194 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 9: didn't know. 195 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: It's almost like you're a victim of your own success, right, 196 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: because you did better, so I don't have to do 197 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: this for you. But yet at the same time, it's like, well, yeah, 198 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 1: that was the and Julie, thank you so much for 199 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: sharing that for I want you to have a great day. Yeah, 200 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: it was supposed to be kind of funny and like chilly, 201 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: but honestly, no, it's true and like, it really resonates 202 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: in my family because my mom, I think has you know, 203 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: I don't think she'd mind me sharing this. She has 204 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: a lot of resentment, a ton of resentment because she 205 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: she made it work multiple times in her life, like 206 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: she you know, from the bottom to the top, back 207 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: to the bottom of the top, you know, the whole thing. 208 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: And then she's like, well wait a minute, and I 209 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: you know, to this day, I think she has a 210 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: lot of resentment about it. And I have to say 211 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: to her, I said, Mom, you realize it's because they 212 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: expected more from you, because they because you were capable 213 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: of more. And that doesn't make anybody feel better, you 214 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like it's like, well, then you 215 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: know what I mean, because you want you want, Like 216 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 1: if I guess if my sister and I were both 217 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: pretty successful, but if my sister were a total loser 218 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: and my my or if I were a total loser 219 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: and my parents supported me, I would expect my sister 220 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: to resent me, because it's like, wait a minute, why 221 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: did I have to go out and make a life 222 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: for myself? And you don't you know what I mean? 223 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: Why are you getting so much of our resources? Hey, Sarah, 224 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, Sarah. 225 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: Are you a total loser? 226 00:09:59,000 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 9: Oh? 227 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 3: My god, good, so good. I was just checking. 228 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: You're twenty seven. You still live with your parents, and 229 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: what are they paying for? 230 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 3: So my car insurance, in my phone and so with 231 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 3: me and living with my parents. 232 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 7: It's a little complicated because I graduated in twenty nineteen 233 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 7: and then obviously COVID hit right, so I had a really. 234 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 4: Hard time finding a job during that time period. 235 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 10: And yeah, so I don't know if this is true 236 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 10: for you, But I mean I've dated people, and culturally, 237 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 10: in some cases they stay in the home with their 238 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 10: parents until they get married. 239 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: I think that was an Eastern European thing. Like one 240 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: woman I dated, she was very capable of saving her money, 241 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: She could have lived on her own, but her parents 242 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: didn't want her out until she married someone, and then 243 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: she moves out with him. Which I seemed a little 244 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 1: bit antiquated. But I don't know if you've ever heard 245 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: of that or if that's a thing. 246 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 4: I think it's common a lot of cultures, to be honest. 247 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think it's Yeah. 248 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 10: My mom didn't move out of her parents' house until 249 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 10: she married my dad, and she lived in England. 250 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: So are you saving a ton of money though? Like 251 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: you're not paying rent or you like Jason where you're 252 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: just buying Taylor Swift merchandise. 253 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,959 Speaker 3: That's kind of ugly, honestly. 254 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 4: Not saving anything. 255 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 9: There. I've got a pretty good collection of Taylor Swift stuff. 256 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: Oh yes, fair enough. She pulls up in a bands. 257 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: She's got all the latest Taylor Swift. Dear, she got 258 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: the cardigan and the sweatshirt. You know, yeah, Sarah Island. 259 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 7: Well, I am going to. 260 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 4: Visit her in England this year. 261 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 3: So you're going to visit Taylor's I take us Mom 262 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 3: and dad are gonna change the lots when you get 263 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,079 Speaker 3: no kidding, no one. You're living at home? You want 264 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 3: to see Taylor Swift? 265 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 11: I am taking my mom. 266 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 6: There. 267 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: You going to pay for the trip? You're a good 268 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: sports Sarah. Thank you have a good day. 269 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 7: Thanks love you guys. 270 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad you called. Love you too. 271 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: Hey, Julia, Hi, Hi your twenties and what are your 272 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: parents still pay for my student loan payments? Well, that's 273 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: nice of them, that's nice. Was that always the plan 274 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: or was it like this is just getting out of hand. 275 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 6: I think they just didn't realize how little money I 276 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 6: would make as a teacher, and how the cost of 277 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 6: living would get so high. And you know, they paid 278 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 6: for a fair amount of my college and then when 279 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 6: I graduated, and then they saw the salary that I 280 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 6: was actually going to be making, and then they saw 281 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 6: that the student loan Sally may or whatever wanted like 282 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 6: fourteen hundred bucks. 283 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 3: A month for me. I think they kittied me and 284 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: they just said, you know what, here you we'll cover 285 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 3: these loans. 286 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 4: We can do it. 287 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 6: And they just got promotions at work, so they're like, 288 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,840 Speaker 6: we can cover it, but everything else is on you. 289 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 6: So you got to manage your rent, your phone, your 290 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 6: car payments, all that, but we'll just take the debt 291 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 6: off your back. 292 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah that's a big deal, Julia, that's a really big deal. 293 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: But I'm glad you called. Thank you. 294 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 9: Yep. 295 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 3: Bye, that's that's a pad. That's not like, yeah, I'm 296 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 3: out of here. 297 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 1: I make one hundred grand a year as a nurse, 298 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: and whatever's a doctor a couple hundred grand. My parents 299 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 1: still pay my you know, like my cell phone bill. 300 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,559 Speaker 1: Like my parents were like, we'll pick up the cell 301 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: phone bill for you because it's fair, you know, we 302 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: pay for your sisters. 303 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:11,079 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm. 304 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 2: Forty years old, Like no, oh my god, say yes girl, 305 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 2: take that. 306 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't make still pay for your trip, your little 307 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 5: Euretha trip once a year. 308 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: Yes, they do, they pay. No, you know what isn't true? Well, 309 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 1: they pay for part of it. I have to get 310 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: there now. My sister doesn't have to get there, nor 311 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,959 Speaker 1: does because of Polly Good because because you know what, 312 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: my sister will sit back and go, ah, you know, 313 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: it's kind of expensive, and so we're gonna sit back 314 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: this year. My parents like, we'll pay for it. She 315 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: the smart one because they want Polly. They're leveraging the 316 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:41,719 Speaker 1: grand shot. Got to do it right, you want me to? 317 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: You got to pay my cell phone bill? 318 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 3: What is pride? We don't need that. 319 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 2: I swallowed everything. 320 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, the college, all right, you know what? 321 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: On that note, I'm just I mean, no wonder you're 322 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: not paying bills. Oh make a sense to me now. 323 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: Trending stories, audio journals like were writing in our die. 324 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: We called them blogs. Klein, you got one. 325 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 3: Yes, take it away, dear blog. 326 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 8: So I told some of you guys this off air 327 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 8: when it happened, but I need advice on how to proceed. 328 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 3: Okay. 329 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 8: So I think I told some of you guys that 330 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 8: one of my best guy friends kissed me out of nowhere. Okay, 331 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 8: just out of nowhere, kissed me and it was very weird. 332 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 8: I very much did not want it very much, was like, 333 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 8: what the hell are you doing? And we never talked 334 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 8: about it again. 335 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 3: Okay was that your reaction? Did you say, You're like whoa? 336 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 8: So my literally my mouth stayed like this, okay, her. 337 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: Mouth is not in a kissing no case, you can't 338 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 1: see it at home. 339 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 8: Right, My mouth stayed opened the exact same position. 340 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 3: And then when he pulled. 341 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 8: Away, I kept that face to. 342 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 3: Go, yo, what the hell are you doing? 343 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 4: Fam? 344 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 8: And he just said yeah, like he was very drunk, 345 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 8: right right. I was like, oh, so we're doubling down 346 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 8: and he was very drunk, but he goes yeah, And 347 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 8: so I was like what the hell? So right exactly? 348 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 8: So I went home and was obviously like very much 349 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 8: like that's not okay. I need to take a little 350 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 8: space and he'll address it whatever. 351 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 12: Okay. 352 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: By not okay, you mean like I just want to 353 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: be friends, not like a consent issue, Like I just 354 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: want to be friends. 355 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 8: I mean it's not a consent issue, but like, why 356 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 8: are you just kissing people when they're not like in 357 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 8: a well yeah, we were in in a very well 358 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 8: lit bar, like just talking, you know what I mean. 359 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: It wasn't like I was like, hey, yeah, okay, I see. 360 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: So he he completely misread the whole situation. 361 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 3: I think he just did what he wanted to do. 362 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 8: I don't think there was any misreading, but I don't 363 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 8: feel like I don't yeah right, and then you double down. 364 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 3: So I was like, what that. 365 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 8: We've never had a moment like that. This is very 366 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 8: much like I don't know why he would ever think 367 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 8: that was okay okay. So I pulled away because I 368 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 8: was very like uncomfortable, like I don't I don't know 369 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 8: how to into that. 370 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 3: Also, that's on you. 371 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 8: He's never brought it up, but he reached out to 372 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 8: me semi recently was like, Hey, just want to check in, 373 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 8: like see how things are going. And I'm I'm like bruh, 374 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 8: Like are we still not going to address like what happened? 375 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 3: Did you say that to him? 376 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 8: No, because I don't think that's on me. I feel 377 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 8: very uncomfortable. But I'm also really sad because I don't 378 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 8: want to lose the friendship. But I don't know how 379 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 8: to tell someone like that's not okay when they're not 380 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 8: willing to have an adult conversation about what they did. 381 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: Well, maybe he read the room after the fact as 382 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 1: that wasn't a good idea, and now he's trying to 383 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: make it just go away as opposed to because you 384 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 1: know me, I like to overthink things and then I'm 385 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: the one who will typically bring it up again or 386 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: like harp on the thing, and then that can sometimes 387 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: make it worse. Yeah, So maybe what he's maybe he'd 388 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: assessed that, I mean he had to have that you 389 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: were not giving back anything, and he was like that 390 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: was a complete misread and now I'm gonna I'm just 391 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: gonna pretend it didn't happen. 392 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 3: So I think some. 393 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: People might brush you under the rug and be like, uh, 394 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: we don't have to have the uncomfortable conversation. 395 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 3: You got it. 396 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 1: I don't like you like that you're saying that you'd 397 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 1: rather talk about it, which is not on you. But 398 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: if you think it's going to affect the friendship, and 399 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: you think the friendship salvageable, then I feel like maybe 400 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: you should say, hey, can we talk about can we 401 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 1: just quickly? Can we just quickly cover what happened right there? 402 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? Do you remember the situation? Does he remember it? 403 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 8: I don't know, I don't know, but like, how could 404 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 8: you not? Like I don't know, I mean, and how 405 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 8: could you? Because why else would he think? Like I 406 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 8: feel like he would come out and be like, why 407 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 8: are you being weird me? Because we talked all the time. 408 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 8: And I just feel like very frustrated because I feel like, Okay, 409 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 8: if I just brush it under the rug, am I 410 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 8: showing someone that that that's okay? A? 411 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 3: And B? 412 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 8: Why do I always have to be the freaking one 413 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 8: to bring stuff up and have a conversations. 414 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 3: But I'm really sad because I lost my friend. 415 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 12: I was gonna say, I feel like your friendship, in 416 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 12: my opinion, might not be the same after this. 417 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you know what I mean? 418 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 12: I mean you guys can still be cool by all right, 419 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 12: all means, but it's just never going to be the same, 420 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 12: Like you know what I mean. 421 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 4: You'll just kiss your friends like you. 422 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 12: Don't just kiss me, you know you can, like I'm 423 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 12: gonna take pat drink and like very much. 424 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. So I don't know. 425 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 8: I just so you guys would just not say anything. 426 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 3: I don't know. It's tough. 427 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 5: It's a tough one because but it sounds like you 428 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 5: want this friendship to continue. 429 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 8: Well, I'm sad that he went and ruined it is 430 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 8: what I'm mos sad about that. I don't understand. I 431 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 8: never gave any education. We've been friends forever. I'm pissed off. 432 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 8: And I did that because it was a great friendship. 433 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it sucks. 434 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 5: I know you don't want to be the one to 435 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 5: bring it up, but you might have to if you 436 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 5: want to let this friendship somewhat survive. 437 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: Because it sounds like he's just it sounds like he 438 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: realized that what he did didn't work. How could he 439 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 1: not have, And so it sounds like he's trying to 440 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 1: just move on like it never happened. And it sounds 441 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: like that doesn't work for you. So Unfortunately, I would 442 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: agree that if it's going to affect the friendship moving forward, 443 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: and that doesn't work for you, you might have to say, hey, 444 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 1: can we talk about that and then let him apologize 445 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: and then see where it goes. 446 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 3: Because I I. 447 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: Can't necessarily say this has happened to me, but I 448 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: think I've done a thing that I thought was embarrassing 449 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: in front of somebody, and I've tried the thing where 450 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 1: I bring it up only for people because that's me. 451 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 1: I'll bring it up again and be like, oh my god, 452 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 1: can't be and everyone's like, we're way over that, Like 453 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: I forgot it, even happened, doesn't matter, and then I 454 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: made it weird when what I should have done is 455 00:19:09,480 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 1: just pretend like it never happened and move forward, you 456 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's like, it's kind of 457 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: tough to know what to do in that situation when 458 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 1: you screwed up and he screwed up. 459 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm just not an elephant in the room kind 460 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 8: of girl. It's very difficult for me. And to add 461 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 8: another layer of like why he shouldn't have been doing that. 462 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,120 Speaker 8: A girl that he actively is now dating and likes 463 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 8: was at the bar and left minutes before, so he 464 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 8: was even more so, like and they weren't dating yet, 465 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,520 Speaker 8: but like that was even more so, like came out 466 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 8: of left field, like he was essentially on a date, 467 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 8: you know what I mean. So yeah, I just get 468 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,959 Speaker 8: frustrated that, like I feel like I'm the only one 469 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 8: everyone to have like adult conversations. 470 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 3: Do you want us to leave the room so you 471 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 3: and if I could talk? 472 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 2: Right? 473 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 3: Is something you want to say the case? 474 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 9: Right? 475 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,200 Speaker 3: My mom was open. I was not kissing you bad 476 00:19:51,280 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 3: back in the zone. Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, 477 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 3: k okay forgiven I had just left the petty girl. 478 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 3: I'm sorry to She's what I'm with. 479 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 1: She's the one I liked for a long time and 480 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: I finally got an approval and now came and has 481 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: to bring this up and next time, here's more tongue. 482 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I realize it. I know that was the problem. Seeus. 483 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: So Kiki has a hot take and I can't wait 484 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: to hear the feedback on this one eight five, five, 485 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: five nine, one three five. 486 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:32,400 Speaker 3: This should be good. So on TikTok. 487 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: The last I don't know, thirty six hours or so, 488 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: there's been a man hunt for a guy whose name 489 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 1: I won't say, but they think they know who it is. 490 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: This is it all started with, and correct me if 491 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm wrong the way that I understand him, because I 492 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: was watching this, but I think I may have joined 493 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: in about halfway. So a woman made a TikTok video 494 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: about an experience at a Las Vegas pool over the 495 00:20:55,720 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: weekend where she claimed that there was a guy there 496 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,920 Speaker 1: who is the bachelor in a bachelor party who cheated 497 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,399 Speaker 1: on his soon to be wife and also tried to 498 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: flirt with her right And then she said, this woman 499 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: that she found his Instagram and wouldn't say his name, 500 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 1: but it rhymed was something that made it seem like 501 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: the name was very obvious. And so this man's being 502 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 1: called out, and there are women across the world now 503 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,399 Speaker 1: trying to find this guy to get a hold of 504 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: his fiancee to let her know that he was cheating 505 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: at his bachelor party. And they were all wearing pink 506 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: hats and a lot of distinguishing features about this event 507 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: we're being put online. 508 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 3: Kiki, Yes, you got to take about this. I do. 509 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 13: And you know, TikTok has its uses for good things 510 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,880 Speaker 13: and his uses for bad things, and to me, this 511 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 13: is a bad example and a bad reason to use TikTok. 512 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 13: If you are at a Las Vegas pool and there's 513 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 13: a bachelor party there, I feel like it is not 514 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 13: your job to then you on TikTok and expose this 515 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 13: man to his soon to be wife. He's on a 516 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 13: bachelor trip. That's what happens sometimes. So let these people cheat. 517 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 3: In peace the bachelor Well, you know, you know where 518 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 3: I'm going with this. Yes, what her name? Marriages on 519 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 3: TikTok for what? You know where I'm going with this? 520 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,400 Speaker 3: Where are you going? 521 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: So you're you're you just made the statement that basically 522 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: anything goes on the bachelor party. So Big Tim's on 523 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: the bachelor party then, and then he's the guy wearing 524 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: the pink hat and he's the guy who cheated, and 525 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: there's a woman online trying to find you, so that 526 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 1: you know that he cheated on you. 527 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 3: You're saying that that doesn't need to happen. No, it 528 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 3: does not. 529 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 13: Let him cheat, and Pete, I will find it on. 530 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 13: What I need to find out eventually is what you 531 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 13: never do. And then I'm happy after you waste your life. 532 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,680 Speaker 3: Yes, I am not. 533 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 13: In the business of blowing up people's relationships because again 534 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 13: you always say you never know what their arrangement is. 535 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 13: He may have a path or on this bachelor trip, 536 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 13: and here you are sitting at the pool being a 537 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 13: private eye and exposing people. 538 00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 3: That is, first of all, it's invasion of privacy. 539 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 13: You on the day before, if somebody took a picture 540 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 13: of our shoes or something, she did. 541 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: A pedicure, I didn't see it that way, but I 542 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 1: didn't ask for that picture, by the way. But yeah, 543 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 1: and then they outed her and that wasn't But that's 544 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: a lot different than cheating. Right. 545 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 8: We can't normalize cheating on bachelor parties. 546 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 3: That's not well, I. 547 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 13: Don't want and that's not what I want to do. 548 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 13: But I want to normalize leaving people alone. Like I'm 549 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,880 Speaker 13: seen all these tiktoks and some of them are for good. 550 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 13: And it's like, girl, if your friends were at Applebee's 551 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 13: at two o'clock on Friday, they were talking about you. 552 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 13: So now I can't gossip in peace, like over my 553 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 13: two dollars, Magarita. I want to be able to do this. 554 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:36,639 Speaker 6: You know. 555 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 13: It's like, at what point, guys, do we just mind 556 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 13: our own business? 557 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 3: Okay? 558 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 1: So Here's the question that I'd like to know if 559 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 1: people agree with Kiki's take on this eight five, five, five, 560 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: nine one one oh three five is say you get 561 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: a hold of us. You can also text the same 562 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: number fretshire radio on Instagram. So do you believe then 563 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: that if a guy cheats on his bachelor party or 564 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: a woman cheats on her bachelorette party, and you're privy 565 00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: to it, and you're just you're just to sit as 566 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: an engaged citizen, you're not involved with this at all, 567 00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: do you have a right slash obligation to then be 568 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: the private eye and find this woman who he's marrying, 569 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 1: to let him, to let her know or him know 570 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 1: that the person they're about to marry may or may 571 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 1: not be a great person. Or is it not up 572 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 1: to you if this guy gets caught because he gave 573 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,359 Speaker 1: her of you know, he cheated, and then one of 574 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: his buddies squeals or he cheated or she cheated, and 575 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: then you know, he gave her the Instagram and then 576 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: you know, the other party tries to remain in contact 577 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: with I mean, is it up to that person then 578 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: to get themselves caught or do you as a witness like, 579 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: let's say, let's say you were the person who got 580 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 1: hit on. Yeah, and by the way, the woman who 581 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 1: he cheated with, there's no way that she didn't know 582 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 1: that he was on a bachelor party, so's she was 583 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,479 Speaker 1: probably privy to it. So she should price stay out 584 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: of it because she's no better, right. But the other person, 585 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: this just random person, has now blown up this guy's life. 586 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 3: Yes, and why would you do that? 587 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 13: I have paid for a reception hall, I ordered dresses, 588 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 13: I got a new wheel comment, and you want to 589 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 13: tell me what. 590 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,920 Speaker 3: He did on his back. I don't care. You always 591 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,919 Speaker 3: say you don't know what their arrangement is. You always 592 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 3: say this, you don't know what the arrangement is. I do. 593 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 3: I do sort of think. I do sort of think 594 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 3: that it's not. 595 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: I don't think people realize how powerful the internet and 596 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 1: social media is. If in fact, this is this guy's 597 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 1: real name, this is gonna do more than just blow 598 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: up his marriage and potentially and I'm not saying he 599 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: doesn't deserve it, but is that for us to decide? 600 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna, We're gonna. I say the same 601 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 1: thing about a lot of stuff. People post stuff thinking 602 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: that they're you know that they've got the scoop or 603 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: that they're outing some bad guy or whatever. But you 604 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: know he may wind up getting fired from his job. 605 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 1: And granted, if you cheat, that's not good, but is 606 00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: it worth blowing up someone's entire life for he or she? 607 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,879 Speaker 8: You, guys, are the reaction to an action. If you 608 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 8: don't cheat, the reaction doesn't happen. 609 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: But the person who's trying to out this guy isn't 610 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: even involved. She actually pursued him at the pool, if 611 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: I remember the story correctly, just to see if he'd 612 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: flirt with her, which he did. 613 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,880 Speaker 8: Well that I don't agree, So she basically. 614 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,160 Speaker 3: Injected herself into this situation. 615 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 8: And flirting and cheating, I don't think are the same thing. 616 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 8: I will flirt for the rest of my life. I 617 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 8: flirted with the doctor when I was born. 618 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:25,959 Speaker 3: I will do that. 619 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 8: But cheating is very different, and you could save someone a. 620 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: Lot of time, and he doesn't have a right to cheat, 621 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: and it's not right. I want to make it very clear. 622 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: Cheating is not okay. However, let's say he got it 623 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: out of his system and this dude was kind of 624 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: let me finish my foot. This guy was kind of 625 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,160 Speaker 1: a jackass too, because I guess the girl who now 626 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 1: has injected herself in this and sort of blown it up. 627 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess he did. She did say to him, 628 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,440 Speaker 3: or aren't you getting married? 629 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,479 Speaker 1: And he said some would say or some sort of 630 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: like a very some sort of a very arrogant response. 631 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 1: So basically he doesn't care. But let's say the dude 632 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: screwed up on his bachelor party, got drunk, did something 633 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: he shouldn't have done. It's not going to happen again. 634 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: It really never should have happened to begin with. Are 635 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: we going to blow up someone's entire life over? 636 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 9: This? 637 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 3: Is the question them out Andrea, Hi, good morning. Hi 638 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 3: guys you hey, what are you doing? Good morning? What 639 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 3: do you think about Kiki's take on all this? 640 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 1: So? 641 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 7: I think one doesn't cancel the other one out. I 642 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 7: do think that this girl is not her business to 643 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 7: bless the guy if she's just been enjoying herself and 644 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 7: just you know, let this guy do his thing. However, 645 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 7: I don't think that bachelors are a reason to cheat. 646 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 7: I think it's not an excuse to cheat. I don't think. 647 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 7: But I also disagree with Kiki where she says that 648 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 7: he's technically single. Just because you haven't signed a piece 649 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 7: of paper, you know you're still committed to the other persons. 650 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 7: You still committed, And thank you still committed to the 651 00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 7: other person. 652 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 1: Thank you so much to Rush. I don't have a 653 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: ton of time, but I want to get to a 654 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: couple more of these. I will also say this, I 655 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: don't think it's our job to be the moral police 656 00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: as bystanders. 657 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:00,160 Speaker 3: I really don't. 658 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: I also do firmly believe that people who lie in 659 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: cheat eventually get what's coming to them. I do believe that, 660 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: and it's hard to remember that at times, and I 661 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 1: know it's not concrete, but I truly believe if you 662 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 1: lie in cheat, you can tell yourself whatever you want, 663 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: but you will get yours. You will get yours. Someone 664 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,120 Speaker 1: will do to you what's done to you in one 665 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: way or the other. It comes back every single time. 666 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: And I don't know that it's for us to be 667 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: out here policing everybody else. 668 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 3: There's that too. 669 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 4: I mean I need to see though. 670 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 3: Hey Katie, keep it up, Yes, Katie, what do you think? 671 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 7: I think it ain't none of her business. 672 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 9: She needs to just keeps herself out of it and 673 00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 9: let them do a. 674 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 12: Thing he wants. 675 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 3: Katie. 676 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: Let's face it, this woman on TikTok. As much as 677 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: she's trying to be the vigilante here and trying to like, 678 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: you know, save this woman, she's getting millions of likes 679 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: and follows or and you know whatever, she's getting clout 680 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: on her own. So is she really doing it because 681 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: she's being altruistic or is she doing it because she 682 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: wants to be in the center of it and that 683 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: she wants to get attention and he. 684 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 7: Wants to be in the center of it. 685 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 9: He sure wants to be in the center of it. 686 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 7: And I'm sure his girlfriend has some idea what he's doing. 687 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 11: And if she don't care, then you know, I don't know. 688 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: That that's true either, Katie. And thank you for calling. 689 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 1: Have a good day. I'm glad you did. I don't 690 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: know that we know that she knows anything. I just 691 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. 692 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 3: I don't know. It's gonna this stuff always can p 693 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 3: s a. 694 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 8: If my man is ever cheating, pleaing, holme me expose 695 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 8: him in every which way. 696 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 3: I can't wait for Big TAM's bachelor party. You won't 697 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 3: be there. I'm gonna be there. 698 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 13: I'm gonna make sure I'm gonna knows you talk too much. 699 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 1: I have a feeling there's not an arrangement here. And 700 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 1: if this is all real, I have a feeling this 701 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: dude got caught cheating on his bachelor party. But is 702 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: it up to the rest of the world to go 703 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,560 Speaker 1: on TikTok and expose every aspect of this man's life 704 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: and we don't really know the whole story for sure. 705 00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 13: What I'm saying like, if I know Caitlin, so if 706 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 13: I see her, man, I'm taking photos, I'm gonna tell 707 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 13: you right. But if I don't know this lady, I'm 708 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 13: not gonna get. 709 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:02,360 Speaker 3: On the internet. 710 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 1: And why am I get in the middle of it? 711 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: Because I'm a busy body. That's why. Christina, Yes, hi, Christina, Hey, 712 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: you get the final say on this because we're out 713 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: of time. What do you think about Kiki's take on 714 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 1: the on the TikTok cheater? 715 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 11: Well, I think that she could do it. They could 716 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 11: try to find them, but privately, so I wouldn't I 717 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 11: want to post it on social media. I would try 718 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 11: to do my little investigation work trying to find this girl. 719 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that idea. 720 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 1: That's better, because, by the way, now every guy with 721 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: this name that she thinks she knows and she's put 722 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: out there for everyone, every single every one of them 723 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: is in trouble now and they're all getting blown up, 724 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: and everyone who knows them is calling them, going hey, hey, hey, 725 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: And we don't even know which one it is. Obviously 726 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: we do it's the one who was in Vegas with 727 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: the pink cattle. 728 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 13: They're even looking up the wedding websites and going on 729 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 13: underneath their wedding registries, and it's like, that's why you 730 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 13: just mind your business? 731 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: Yea, I agree? I agree. Hey, Christina, thank you so much. 732 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: Have a good day. 733 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 3: Let me cheat in peace. Yeah. Oh my god, here's 734 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 3: the thing. 735 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 1: This is going up on TikTok Uh, the fread Show 736 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: TikTok and on the Grand Fred Show Radio. I can't 737 00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: wait to see what people people are going to eat 738 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: you a live Kiki. Even though I don't think you're 739 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: I don't think you're entirely wrong. 740 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 3: You always agree with me, but I take the fall. 741 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 3: So here we are. 742 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm on a Fred show next. I like writing in 743 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. 744 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: You ready, Yes, Paulina, we'll take it away. 745 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, dear blog. 746 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 12: So we are in the thirty six weeks of the pregnancy. 747 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 12: That's the journey, thirty six weeks milestone. You know, got 748 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,080 Speaker 12: some forty total forty total. I think I'm going to 749 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 12: thirty nine from what I'm told. I will find out 750 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 12: exactly that information next week. 751 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,240 Speaker 4: I'm so anxious. I'm like, we do what we a 752 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 4: bat before? 753 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: Then? 754 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 4: We do got a bat. 755 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 12: We gotta get our parslays in parsh Yeah, thanks right, 756 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 12: uh huh so that'd be cool, and uh yeah, we're 757 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 12: we're getting there. Yesterday was the doctor, you know, got 758 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 12: some swabs done. Those are at thirty six weeks and 759 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 12: all this like souff that I'm learning, and I'm curious, 760 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,719 Speaker 12: like what you guys think I should do for this 761 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 12: part because I'm trying to get up the down the 762 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 12: car seat, like all these little things that you. 763 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 4: Guys know me. 764 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 12: I'm a last minute kind of gal. So I'm like, 765 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 12: you know what else we have to get done. We 766 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 12: got the nursery done, that's all good. Now I have 767 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 12: to pack a hospital bag. I was told, what the 768 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 12: hell is the hospital bag? Like, don't they just give 769 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 12: you stuff like why would I have to bring. 770 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 5: My ownself the hospital bags, like the clothes you're gonna 771 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 5: leave like a vacation. 772 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 3: I wouldn't bring a bathing suit. 773 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 6: I don't. 774 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 5: Like if you want to take a shower, make up, 775 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 5: stuff like that, toilet tries. 776 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,200 Speaker 12: Yes, okay, so basically as if I'm going at a 777 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 12: many vacation, but not the swimsuit part. 778 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 8: Not well, the baby needs clothes too to go home, hardly. 779 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 4: Going home out with me? 780 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 8: Right? 781 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 3: Okay? Got that? 782 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: Do I bring because you're going home with another human? 783 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if you knew that. I'm not sure 784 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: if that's issue yet. The crazy part is it hasn't. 785 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: It hasn't in three weeks. My whole life is about 786 00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: to be rocked. I look at Hobby every day and 787 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 1: I go, You're world is about to be rocked. But 788 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm projecting because it's really my world too, And take 789 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: all of them, all the diapers. I'm paying for that, right, gotcha? 790 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 4: And then seeing now too. 791 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 12: I'm confused about the formula part because if I don't, 792 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 12: if I don't breastfeed, like, do I want to start 793 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:15,840 Speaker 12: her on a certain formula because they give you some 794 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 12: but then I don't want. 795 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,640 Speaker 4: To confuse yeah, uh huh uh huh see. 796 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 12: It's like these little things that I'm just like, this 797 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 12: is annoying, Like I mean this, it's a great process. 798 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 4: This is fun, like. 799 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:26,880 Speaker 3: A checklist or anything. At the hospital, they don't do 800 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 3: anything like that. 801 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 4: I think they did give me one or put it. 802 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 12: But I go on and talk a lot and it'll be 803 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 12: like pack my my, uh you know, hostitle bag with me, 804 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 12: and everyone's like so different too. Like I bought pajamas 805 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 12: like the ones little button down because just in case 806 00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,400 Speaker 12: if we do try the breastfeeding. But I don't know, 807 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 12: seem like everyone's just confusing me. It's like what do 808 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 12: I gotta bring? Like they're like bringing out for bring this, bring. 809 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 3: You want to Jacob if I don't. If you're to 810 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 3: take pictures, you have to. 811 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 12: Pack two no no, no, you didn't pack yours? 812 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 3: No? 813 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:58,440 Speaker 4: Or I don't like were you're not there? 814 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 3: You were saying what you know? I went home and 815 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 3: came back. 816 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 4: Oh okay, you can do that. I guess too. 817 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 818 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 4: So it's just like these like little things that I'm like, 819 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 4: oh my good, but all right, we'll figure it out. 820 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 3: FRENCHI radio. 821 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 8: Right, if there's any moms who like have essentials, yes, 822 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:12,279 Speaker 8: French All. 823 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 12: Radio, hit me up, let me know at Paulina Road 824 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,879 Speaker 12: because I'm seriously I'm like, I don't know what to pack. 825 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 12: And then I had like a little bag of little purse. 826 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 12: My mom is like, oh, that's so big, and everybody's 827 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 12: like that's not big enough. You need like almost a 828 00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 12: luggage now baffle bag, and then bring another bag to 829 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 12: put all the free stuff in that. 830 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,400 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Forgot, Yeah, bring an empty. 831 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 8: Bag, right and Jason and I will bring you what 832 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 8: is it, a strawberry margarita. 833 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,919 Speaker 4: And then that part, I did a sandwich, my pop 834 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:39,280 Speaker 4: belly sandwich. Okay, Polly sandwich. 835 00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're not supposed to being cold cuts. 836 00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 4: I can't wait. I'm gonna just me and that sandwich 837 00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 4: are gonna make lunch me? 838 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:46,720 Speaker 3: Which one? 839 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: I think I'm gonna do some Ham Swiss. I love 840 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 4: Ham and Swiss Ham and switch. Yeah, put some Jardon 841 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 4: on it. 842 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 3: Spicy. 843 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 4: I like a spicy and a strawberry Mark and the 844 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 4: cool cool. So we're not going to Canco and we're 845 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:04,359 Speaker 4: gonna have a Mark. 846 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 3: It's trying to pack your hospital bag. 847 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 4: I'm gonna cry, I know same. 848 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to hear more about the sandwich, though, sandwich. 849 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: Tell me more about the sandwich, okay, because I know you. 850 00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 1: You're fantasizing about the babies out. Now you can have 851 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: whatever you want. You can consume whatever you want. What's 852 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 1: it gonna be? 853 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, honestly, pop belly sandwich and a little bit 854 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 14: of ham Swiss. 855 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 3: Everyone turned the. 856 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 4: Radio off, so she got pregnant. 857 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 3: Wow, you're gonna have a sandwich a little bit when 858 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 3: you go to pop belly like pop belly sandwich. It was, 859 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:46,760 Speaker 3: what are the damn sandwich? 860 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 8: Any chips or anything? 861 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:55,440 Speaker 12: No chips, lots of may wow that stuff on there too. 862 00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 15: Yeah, donwell, anybody else's not klyss You got get pregnant 863 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 15: with that voice. 864 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 3: Damn all right. The Entertainment Report is the next Friend 865 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 3: Show