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Speaker 1: My fiance yelled something awful to my sister, so I

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Speaker 2: Nobody.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, no, I found it. It's coming up all right.

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Speaker 1: I have been my sister's fifteen guardian since she was four.

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Speaker 1: She has an autoimmune condition, PTSD and anxiety. That sounds

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Speaker 1: I've had a rule for her for the past five years.

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Speaker 1: If she ever needs to go home from school for

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Speaker 1: any reason, physical, mental, et cetera, to go to the office.

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Speaker 1: I'll pick her up. No questions, ask nothing, nothing, You

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Speaker 1: need something, I got it, got you gotta no questions.

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Speaker 1: Get a big dead body up done. Where's the shovel here?

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Speaker 1: I would break ground for you, sir. I've had a

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Speaker 1: well for doing anything for any reason. This was around

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Speaker 1: the same time she was diagnosed with her autoimmune condition,

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Speaker 1: This comes from aita kickout fiance on the ar slash Okay, storytime,

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Speaker 1: separate it, Teddy, I missed y'all too, unless you said

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Speaker 1: miss tall and that's what you meant? And are you

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Speaker 1: just calling me short? Probably probably rude anyway. I was

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Speaker 1: also engaged to David. We'd been dating for two years

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Speaker 1: Opie's sister, right, Like, the calls are increasing, but OPI's like, Hey,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to help. I talked to her.

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Speaker 1: Therapist about it, and she told me that a reason

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Speaker 1: I've been working on and making that happen outside of

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Speaker 1: But her last three classes are theater TA and homework

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Speaker 1: That's why we need online school. Yeah, okay, school More

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Speaker 1: than just put your kids in front of this podcasting,

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Speaker 1: they need to put them in the live stream.

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Speaker 2: It's like, we're like tutors, but better tuition Okay, storytime

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Speaker 2: membership yep, what's cheaper? Way better or tuition?

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Speaker 1: Three videos online every weekday? Like cod what more can

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Speaker 1: you ask? Truly, Well, put your huddled masses, your tiny

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Speaker 2: There'll be great relationships. They'll be good, that's all I'm saying. Well,

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Speaker 2: and what is life but a series of relationships? John, Nothing.

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Speaker 1: You don't need math, you don't need engineering. If you

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Speaker 1: I want to be basically with them alone. She called

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Speaker 1: you see what's coming, you see what's coming.

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Speaker 2: I think I do.

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Speaker 1: My prediction. My prediction right now is she's going to

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Speaker 1: Not happy. David doesn't grab the shovel. David won't dig

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Speaker 1: Have you seen those arms? Shovel shrimpy? Shrimpy? Is frick David?

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Speaker 1: He said he was about to go out with his friends,

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Speaker 2: Right then? Probably they're they're married with kids, right, opie.

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Speaker 1: They're married with their own kids, or or David has

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Speaker 2: Kid was punted. I'm not I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, anyway, David yelled at her for

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Speaker 1: you know, David's a lady in the streets, but a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is super sad, and it's like she

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Speaker 1: Congratulations to the sticks in the chat for being a

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Speaker 1: stick being with us for one month said something, but

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Speaker 1: sninky man, ditchem Actually, Rachel Martin, shout out to you. Also,

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Speaker 1: whoa Rachel Martin five gifted memberships. Let's freaking back giving

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Speaker 1: Yeah, never forget it, forget, never forget it until old

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Speaker 1: Let's get a pull up. Would you would you break

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Speaker 1: Mostly extenduin circumstances that go so far that I can't

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Speaker 1: he and I were done, and I'll text him when

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Speaker 1: He tried to tell me that he didn't have anywhere

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Speaker 1: I told him the kids can stay here for two weeks,

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna yell at them the whole time. Justice,

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Speaker 1: don't yell at kids, guys. Also, one hundred people so

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Speaker 1: far with twenty votes are saying break up. I saw

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Speaker 1: you're not ready, So like I don't necessarily fault, but

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00:22:55,240 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: maybe it's also not the most emotionally intelligent way to communicate,

433
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: where it's like, hey, I was having a black it

434
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: was absolute great time. Got to enjoy my twenties. It

435
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 1: was freaking lit and like, oh, by the way, like.

436
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: Hild it wasn't even too I'll send you a postcard

437
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 2: to the parent, like through the parents to pass down

438
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: exactly not even you know what. I think maybe the

439
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: a whole move is the way they addressed.

440
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 1: Yeah quickly, like quick quick t oldr for me again

441
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: on on the whole situation.

442
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 2: Opie's birth mom grew up in a like a very

443
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: harsh family, didn't want any you know, terminated pregnancies, so

444
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 2: she was like, let me just like give this up

445
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 2: to adoption to a great family. Yep, OPI got that

446
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 2: great family had great, great adopted parents. And now eighteen

447
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: years later, Opie's birth mom wrote this note to like

448
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 2: to the parents, but like, hey, can you pass this

449
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 2: along to Opien? Yeah?

450
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: Like like yeah, And like I said, like, I feel

451
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: like it's it's not it's not like a terrible thing

452
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: to do, but it feels like the way that it

453
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:02,879
Speaker 1: was maybe written as like maybe it could could. The

454
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: fact that op He's feeling some sort of way about

455
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: it means it probably wasn't written in the most like

456
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: emotionally intelligent way. But I don't think she's a whole

457
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 1: or anything.

458
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I still need more, but I

459
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: was curious to get takes. But my sister in law,

460
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 2: husband's sister is a married man called Aaron, And this

461
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: is who I called an a hole. Okay, you see,

462
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 2: Aaron has a half half sibling who is placed for

463
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 2: adoption years before he was born, his father's child.

464
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 1: Wait wait, the kid was placed for adoption years before

465
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 1: he was born. It was placed for adoption. Yeah, years before.

466
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 1: So it was like yo, John, Yo, John, me and

467
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: my girl, we're gonna have a kid in like a

468
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 1: couple of years. You got first dips.

469
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is odd that baby, because you know what

470
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 2: it sounds like to me, a fair baby. His father

471
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 2: adopted away the half brother, Like that's that's what I

472
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: thought it was. Possibly maybe it's still.

473
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a little confused by that sense. If maybe

474
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: Chad can enlighten us a little bit, uh, let me know,

475
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: let us know. Wait, wait, but there is more. Maybe

476
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: it was a miss type.

477
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: We'll see. He and his siblings have tried to make

478
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 2: contact with the half sibling, and we're told that he

479
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: was not interested. He then learned that his grandparents had

480
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: offered to raise the half sibling, but the birth mother

481
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: chose to place him for adoption adoption instead, so like

482
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: they were, they were like the family was down to raise,

483
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 2: the grandparents were down to raise, but the birth mom

484
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: was like, don't, like, don't let grandparents raise him, have

485
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 2: him be adopted.

486
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: Which I imagine on their part is like, oh, I

487
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: don't want anything to do with this kid. I don't

488
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 1: want it, Like I don't want the responsibility evenywhere near

489
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: me any yeah, anywhere near me because like might feel bad.

490
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: I feel bad. That doesn't look good, doesn't look good.

491
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 2: This has fun.

492
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: This is again it's you know, like people, people other

493
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 1: reasons for everything. Some people just aren't like great parents

494
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: and it's like they just family someone else. Maybe the

495
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,120
Speaker 1: creations are bads, are bad.

496
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 2: We don't know. We don't know yet, but this is

497
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: filled Aaron with some issues regarding adoption and adoptees not

498
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 2: wanting contact. He knows that I'm adopted and that I

499
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 2: do not wish to know my birth family. This pisces

500
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 2: him off endlessly. He brings it up whenever we see

501
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 2: him and my husband and his and my husband has

502
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: told him repeatedly to drop it, and he has also

503
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 2: started spending less time with his sister and Aaron as

504
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 2: a result, got some for me because he really white

505
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: to build up my my my.

506
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 1: My comprehension is is losing of how are you doing?

507
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 2: I'm doing okay.

508
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 1: So I'm doing okay, but I'm kind of like I'm

509
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 1: getting a little bit confused.

510
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 2: Chat help me up, but I'm gonna I'm gonna go

511
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 2: and give my understand so far. So basically, my sister

512
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 2: and the sister in law's husband is married to a man, Aaron,

513
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 2: who's the a whole he has. He Okay, so Aaron

514
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: has so this guy Aarin that's like spending less time

515
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: and cutting off communication. He has a half sibling who

516
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: basically the family rejected the kid.

517
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: And he's like, he's basically telling you, like going to

518
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: the half sibling and being like, hey, why don't you

519
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 1: want to know your birth family?

520
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: I think he's going to opeir family. He's first hand

521
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 2: seen this scenario or secondhand I guess, see the scenario

522
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 2: of someone who like maybe wanted contact with their adopted

523
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 2: family but they're like no, we're not or the birth family.

524
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 2: But they're like no, we're not gonna let it happen.

525
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 2: Now op has this this possible opportunity, and OPI is

526
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 2: like nah, OLP. He's like I don't want to know

527
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: my birth family, Like that is my choice. And Aaron

528
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 2: is like, Aaron's not even the one who went through

529
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 2: that process. He just saw his half brother gore. Yeah,

530
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 2: and I feel like it's probably coming from a good place.

531
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: He's he's really yeah, he's really being like you know,

532
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: like like I just want you to have this experience

533
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 2: of knowing where you come from. But oh, he's like,

534
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 2: I don't wanna. Yeah, I don't want, just I don't wanna.

535
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 2: I kind of think it gets into a territory of

536
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 2: the like I know it all, or like it's like

537
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: the savior complex.

538
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, the save it's the saving complex, Like oh, let me,

539
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 1: let me teach you savages. How how like a real

540
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 1: person conducts their life. And it's like, dude, I'm fine fishing.

541
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: That's right. I love fish. I love fish. Are you shovels? Yeah?

542
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: I love Oh dude, I saw this Instagram video of

543
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: like a guy catching a fish. He's like, you know, boys,

544
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: you've got a piece of bait right here. You can

545
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: catch a fish anytime you want.

546
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: No thanks, like this the Grabs on new series coming

547
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 2: Sam fine fish just kidding, So shooty we doo. So

548
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: this pissed him off endlessly. That hope he didn't want contact.

549
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: He brings it up whenever we see him, and my

550
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 2: husband has told him repeatedly to drop it. And he's

551
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 2: also started spending less time with his sister and Aaron

552
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: as a result. So he attended a family birthday dinner

553
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 2: over the weekend and Aaron approached me and shamed me

554
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: for not letting my real family get to know me

555
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 2: and have me in their lives. I hate the real

556
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 2: family thing, bro. He called me selfish, said my parents

557
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 2: were selfish for adopting me when they were too old

558
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: and had already been unable to have kids. Then who

559
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 2: he said, it was selfish to keep me from my

560
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 2: real flesh and blood family.

561
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: People are too obsessed with blood, dude.

562
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 2: Who cares? Dude? Ooh ooh, I don't care. I don't

563
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: freaking care.

564
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: I mean you already like like, blood doesn't matter, dude,

565
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: it's blood doesn't matter.

566
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 2: You know what matters? Freaking love?

567
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,479
Speaker 1: True, that was so cheesy, but it's doing ugly babies,

568
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 1: having ugly babies. Love that produces ugly babies. That's what

569
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: I want. That's what I want, That's what we all.

570
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: Blood doesn't matter, Yeah, I don't need that, especially you're

571
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: trying to get like a don donation, Yeah, a blood donation.

572
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: Then it matters. It matters what kind of blood you are.

573
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 2: But other than that, other than that, I'm not Dracula.

574
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: You're not Dracula, dude. So he said, he hoped my

575
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 2: parents would rotten hell. Oh, whoa the ones who adopted

576
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 2: and gave obal life? How dare you kind of gross? Honestly,

577
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 2: did you know that's not your blood? You know that's

578
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 2: not your blood. Did you know that's not your real family,

579
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 2: that's not your real family. You thought you were doing

580
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: such a great service and giving an incredible life to

581
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: a child who so clearly deserved it, But actually you're

582
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: You're the worst ever, You're.

583
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: Your absolute garbage. Do you know how many orphans just

584
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: would hate to be adopted? Absolutely worst thing ever?

585
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: You know?

586
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: They they stay every day in that orphan hope they

587
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: will never be adopted because it's like, oh, like, why

588
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: would I be adopted if it's not my blood?

589
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 2: Dude, it's so gross? Why would I want that? Yeah? Yeah,

590
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 2: let me go back to my abusive toxic fama.

591
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like the abuse of toxic foster system, which

592
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: apparently is not good according to r our audience. Foster's system.

593
00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's like good for some people, but it

594
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: doesn't sound good.

595
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: Don't clip any of that provide context? So I cut

596
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 2: him off as my husband was trying to scold him,

597
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: and I, uh, and I say trying because Aaron talked

598
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: over him. But I called Aaron an interfering ahole who

599
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: needs to get help for his issues and leave the

600
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 2: rest of us alone, because he has no right to

601
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: dig into other people's issues. And I told him to

602
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: keep those judgmental comments to himself because I won't stand

603
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 2: for the disrespect of my parents. Those cheeks are red

604
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: and rosy because they got spabey spage goes on those cheeks.

605
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: I don't need no real parents suspect you. So, oh

606
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: my god. Aaron and my sister in law are unhappy

607
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: with all that I said to him at the party.

608
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: I think what he said is worse. But am I

609
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 2: the A whole? We have relevant comments, but first we

610
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 2: need to pull and to talk to Sam. Is op

611
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 2: the A whole? Yes or not? Vote in the in

612
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: the chat, you.

613
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: Know, like sometimes people are are acting up continuously and continuously,

614
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: like you know, there's the first defense where Aaron was like,

615
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:31,959
Speaker 1: you know, you know said that like the first night

616
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: comment about it's not your real family.

617
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and man just keeps going and going and going.

618
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: And at a certain point when someone is just disrespecting you,

619
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: like time after time, and you put your boundaries up,

620
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: you might need a like you might need to do

621
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: a little you know, like hey, like badah yeah, like

622
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: not not not physically, but like verbally.

623
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also like I don't know that what she said.

624
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it was probably you know, impassioned. Yeah,

625
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 2: but it was very clear and direct of like give

626
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 2: me you exactly anything wrong. So he called me selfish,

627
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 2: saying the parents should rotten. Hell. I cut him off.

628
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: I called Aaron an interfeeling, interfering a whole who needs

629
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 2: to get help for his issues and leave the rest

630
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: of us alone because he has no right to dig

631
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 2: into other people's issues, and told him to keep his

632
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 2: judgmental comments to myself.

633
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: I think all of that is true. It is, there's

634
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: there's a little bit of a spank, has a little

635
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: bit of it. It's warranted at this it's it's warranted,

636
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: and like the edge is not that much. Yeah, you know,

637
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: it's not like it's not like you know, she's like,

638
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: is cursing out all of his ancestors, all of his blood?

639
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 2: Yes, a real family. Yeah. There's a difference between like

640
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 2: sternly telling someone what they're doing wrong, which it comes

641
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: off harsh because what they're doing.

642
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: Is bad, Yeah, and deserves a banking. Yes, so yeah,

643
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm saying not the ahole at all. Yeah, I think

644
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: not the a hole. I feel like it's pretty warranted.

645
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 2: Tweaked it slightly, but I think it didn't go to

646
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 2: too far.

647
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: I only went too far. I mean it's like, not

648
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: like you are.

649
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 2: You're not the angel.

650
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you're like like the angel, Like all right,

651
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: if the angel would have been like like sitting him

652
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: down and say I think you need help, Yeah, my brother.

653
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: But even that, it's like honey, you know, like it

654
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 2: has its own level of yeah, and he does need,

655
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 2: he does need. Like literally everything op he said was

656
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 2: a fact.

657
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: Aaron, you were damaged goods, but don't worry. Amazon has

658
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: a a return and refreshed policies, so we can get

659
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: you spick and spam. But you just have to be

660
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: the one to say, I think I I think I

661
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: got an order that's a little bit damaged, a little

662
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 1: bit roughed up.

663
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 2: We can prime deliver your new attitude. Yeah, with a therapist.

664
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 2: First you have to order it first. You have to

665
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: order first. You have to let it inside. That's right,

666
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 2: to open up your open up your account.

667
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: Open up your open those cheeks. But we're just include

668
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: it not the not the a whole, not the ale.

669
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: We got one vote, that is the ah who said it?

670
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 2: Who is it?

671
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 1: Who?

672
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:10,279
Speaker 2: Freaking? Because we will? We want to know why?

673
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: Truly is that Hannah Rose Oh no, Hannah Roses is

674
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 1: not whoever voted?

675
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 2: Please put your explanation why. I'd actually love to read it.

676
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 2: I'm very curious why you think so, but but we

677
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: do have some relevant comments. It accreating, thanks says not

678
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 2: the ahle. Aaron is clearly upset because he's not getting

679
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: his way with the adopted relative. And I find with

680
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 2: people like that that they don't actually care at all

681
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:37,919
Speaker 2: about the moving parts or the other people involved. Ergo,

682
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 2: he doesn't actually care about like the connection to the

683
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: you know, birth family or whatever. They're just upset because

684
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 2: they've been told no, and they proceed to behave like

685
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 2: it's the worst thing anyone has ever done to him,

686
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 2: undone to them. He likely can't fathom why why someone

687
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to know him, So it's the evil adoption

688
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 2: enterprises to fault, and he's made you a part of

689
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 2: his grand allusion and conspiracy. No narrative matters, accept this

690
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: one in his head. Aaron and sister in law are

691
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 2: unhappy with what you said because it hurt their feelings.

692
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: But that's a them problem. Ooh, you've done what you

693
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: needed to do. He keeps disturbing the peace with his nonsense,

694
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 2: and maybe sister in law needs to have it pointed

695
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: out to her that she's got no horse in this

696
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 2: race other than standing up for her partner's feelings, the

697
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 2: feelings of someone she loves. And that's exactly what you've

698
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 2: done in the face of your parents being unfairly tarnished

699
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: with whatever brush Aaron dipped in his own family drama. Dude,

700
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,920
Speaker 2: I love when we have relevant comment that just is

701
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: so relevant, so relevant and accurate. It feels like it's

702
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 2: one hundred percent relevancy. I think. So this is a

703
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 2: this is a fantastic breakdown.

704
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say thank you, thank you for that,

705
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: thank you for your service.

706
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 2: Thank you, aggravating thanks, I aggravatedly thank you. Thank you.

707
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: Funny Zebra ten thirty seven says, so, your biological grandparents,

708
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 2: in some form imprisoned your bio mother to prevent her

709
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: from choosing what was happening in her body by adopting

710
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 2: you out and not giving her family a choice to

711
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: raise you. She protected your autonomy. She's a hero. Not

712
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 2: that I minimize your parents' role in raising you, but

713
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 2: I imagine there were lots of frightening moments for her

714
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 2: during her pregnancy and onwards. So basically, I think the

715
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 2: argument here is like, hey, look, she removed you from

716
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 2: this seemingly.

717
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: Very toxic environment because you know she's actually going back.

718
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 1: I'm remembering that the the grandparents, the reason that the

719
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: only the option was adoption was the grandparents for like,

720
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: you cannot, I'm taking away your right to terminate the pregnancy.

721
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: So it's like, I guess she actually is doing the

722
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: best thing by saying, maybe this family isn't is going

723
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: to be the right family for you to be in.

724
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 2: And in fairness, from everything we have here, it seems

725
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 2: to all say that OPI is very happy with their

726
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: upbringing with their adopted parents, like like they were ultimately

727
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,319
Speaker 2: in a better scenario versus a completely unprepared single mom

728
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 2: who maybe she would have gotten kicked out by their grandparents.

729
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 2: Like we don't know for sure, but it does seem

730
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 2: like OPI was placed in a pretty good position. But

731
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 2: it's not blood though, you know, dude, if it's not blood,

732
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: then it's mud. This is much gosh Ollie Melissa in

733
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 2: past seventy one oh oh p response and says, yeah,

734
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: from what I was told, they did a lot of crap,

735
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: some of it illegal to make sure my birth mother

736
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: couldn't terminate her pregnancy. And they are anti abortion even

737
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:57,840
Speaker 2: in the most extreme terminating anti terminating even in the

738
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: most extreme circumstances. Parents said it made a lot of

739
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,720
Speaker 2: sense from the limited interactions that they had with them. Okay,

740
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: so the parents are also kind of seeing like this.

741
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 2: I think the adoption makes it makes sense. Yeah, yeah,

742
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 2: makes me sad for a young woman who knew she

743
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: didn't want kids and found herself in the position she did,

744
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 2: And I'm so grateful she gave me to the people.

745
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: She did best choice. Ever, so that puts to rest

746
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 2: our assumption from earlier, which was Op's like, this was

747
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 2: the best decision because I had the right upbringing.

748
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: Dude, Aaron's just like a steaming pile of duty.

749
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 2: Dude, dump flush him down the toy Yeah, dumb truck,

750
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 2: dumb truck. Yeah. But that's it, that's it, that's all

751
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 2: we have. That's all. She wrote, little orange guy in

752
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: the back, you know I could oh yeah, true. I

753
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: do have a little orange slice over there. Yeah, there

754
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: we go. I'm repping hard. Yeah, there we go. Orange

755
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 2: is out. But Sam, we're not out yet. We're not

756
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 2: out yet.

757
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 1: We are still firmly within the closet of this next.

758
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: Story or plump origins are planted.

759
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: Rah rah rah, let's get into it. Who My sister

760
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 1: in law started selling gifts my wife and I gave her.

761
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: I told her she's a bad person.

762
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 2: Friend.

763
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, It's one thing to regift something, but to sell

764
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 1: it on Facebook marketplace. Yeah, dude, honestly, Gary Vee got there.

765
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 2: That's right. You gotta your bro gos right after Christmas time. Bro,

766
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: you're up there we go.

767
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: So, my brother thirty three male and his wife thirty

768
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 1: female have two young boys, three and one. My wife

769
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: and I have a five year old son. So over

770
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: the years we have given them quite a few items

771
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: that we no longer use slash need it. So we're

772
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 1: talking cribs, clothes, toys, various baby items, et cetera. Most

773
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: of the things were just taking up space in her

774
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 1: house and we knew they would put them to use,

775
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: so we had no problem giving them away. This comes

776
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 1: from side hustle Ai t a on the R sage okay,

777
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: story times, sod it. So we visited them a couple

778
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: of weeks ago for the three year old's birthday party,

779
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: and during the party, sister law mentioned that she had

780
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: been selling off a bunch of baby stuff as a

781
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: side hustle, selling the stuff we gave you.

782
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 2: Is that like, is that bad? I don't know. I'm

783
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 2: I think I might be on their side a little bit.

784
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: I could see John doing this. John's like business opportunity

785
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 2: cares well. I'm like, okay if you don't, they're like

786
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: passing down a hand. They're giving them a hand.

787
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, they're giving you the old junk and what

788
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: I'm the ale for for making a profit.

789
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 2: Well like if they're like, hey, this is better used

790
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 2: as is cash, then dud.

791
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: I could see me gifting John Rolex and him being like,

792
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 3: I don't wear watches, and then he would go out.

793
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: That's not a one to one, it's more like you

794
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 1: had been aware of Rolex for a long time. And

795
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: then he said, John, I think you need.

796
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,919
Speaker 2: You want to know why I'd never sell it because

797
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 2: I'd make more money because it's gaining interest.

798
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: But woulish wret wreckt all right, anyway, let's keep it going.

799
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: So both she and my.

800
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: Brother are the Oh, don't sur fire, We demand the

801
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: presence of the worm queen. Worm Queen is coming. Don't

802
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: you worry? WM Queen is coming? Uh well maybe yeah

803
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 1: right after Yeah. So during the party, sister in law

804
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: mentioned that she had been selling stuff as the side hustole.

805
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: Both she and my brother are the youngest of their families,

806
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: and she said they get so many hand me downs

807
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: from their siblings that they couldn't keep track of them all.

808
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: Her solution was to start selling these gifts off online

809
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: to make a few extra bucks. She was basically bragging

810
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 1: about it. I told her that is a pretty crappy

811
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: thing to do, considering that these ideas were given to

812
00:42:56,360 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: them as gifts that they willingly accepted and were expected

813
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: to use. I asked her if they had sold some

814
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: of the things we have given them, and she laughed

815
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: and said that she was sure she did because we've

816
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 1: given them a lot of stuff.

817
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 2: Are they the a hole right now? There's more to

818
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 2: the story. Okay, I think they're the a hole for

819
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 2: bragging out. They're bragging about it. I'm still on the fence.

820
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 2: I will give a ultimate answer by this, say to

821
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: the end of the story. But I don't know. I'm

822
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 2: still on the fensive. Actually the act is an A

823
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 2: just made one hundred and twenty five bucks off of

824
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 2: grandma's gifts.

825
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 1: Yo, Grandma's ashes, Dude, it'd stick on Facebook marketplace.

826
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 2: Dump. I dumped those out. But the face though, face,

827
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 2: that's nice face. She could be in a bag.

828
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to see the world ziploc bag I made

829
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: Grandma can look and peer through. Can't peer through the

830
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: vase exactly. She drafted the windows where it's the sunlight.

831
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 2: Come on, if I remember parting to earn, can you

832
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,719
Speaker 2: guys put a window so I can see?

833
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, old kid, I hope you're not in an urn. No,

834
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 1: I'm not ideed if anyone's going to be on an

835
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,640
Speaker 1: earned first, it's just.

836
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:12,439
Speaker 2: We're back.

837
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: Maybe I told her that I had no If I

838
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: had known she was going to sell those items, I

839
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: would have given them away to someone else or donated

840
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: them to a local nonprofit that helps young mothers in need.

841
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 1: I think she is the young mother in need trying

842
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,720
Speaker 1: to make extra money for her children. She got defensive

843
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: and told me that it's not like she's making a

844
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: lot of money off these things, just a few bucks

845
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,760
Speaker 1: here and there. I told her that the people buying

846
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: those items are probably the same people who would benefit

847
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: from getting them for free, and that she's taking advantage

848
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 1: of them.

849
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: I don't know about that.

850
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: She went off about how hard things are with the

851
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: economy right now and how they need all the help

852
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: they can get financially. Mind you, both she and my

853
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: brother have college degrees and work full time. I know

854
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: raising kids is expensive, but they aren't in dire straits.

855
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,919
Speaker 1: Bro It's hard to raise it. It's expensive to raise kids.

856
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: I told her that she probably shouldn't expect us to

857
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 1: give them anything else in the future, and I would

858
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: probably suggest to my siblings that they refrain from doing

859
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 1: as well and look into other options for donating things.

860
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 1: You know what, she's the a hole to her business.

861
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: You know, Honestly, I was gonna say, I don't know,

862
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 2: Opie might be sliding for.

863
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: I feel like Opie is a little bit the a hole.

864
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: But in terms of like, like are you know what

865
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: the sister is the a hole for for not doing

866
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: like the sister in a low A hole for not

867
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: like thinking thinking smart about the business like, you never

868
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,439
Speaker 1: tell your supplier that you're getting a great deal selling

869
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: to this person. Yeah, you know you're not. You're not

870
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 1: thinking like a business owner. This could be huge. Get

871
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 1: all of your family, get your friends to donate too,

872
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: That's true, dude. The margins on that so are so

873
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: sweat of everything. Yeah, smart, wicked smart. Anyway, I asked

874
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: her if they just sold some of the signings I did.

875
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: They did so.

876
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,959
Speaker 1: She got defensive again and told me she doesn't feel

877
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: like she's doing anything wrong. I told her she's entitled

878
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: to feel that way, but my opinion of her as

879
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: a person is now lesser because of this. She said

880
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: that selling things they don't use to make a few

881
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 1: bucks doesn't make her a bad person, and I told

882
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: her that, considering they were given these things for free,

883
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 1: it kind of does. By this point, the other people

884
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: had noticed the conversation. My brother stepped into and the

885
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 1: conversation before things got too heated. He told me I

886
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: should mind my own business and then if I don't

887
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: want to give them anything else in the future, that's

888
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: my choice. But I took this too far by calling

889
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: his wife a bad person for selling things they don't use.

890
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: We have eight response from Opie and before the response

891
00:46:57,680 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: from OPI, I think we have some relevant common that

892
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: are gonna get give OPI a little spanking little This

893
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: is a spank episode with Pow, but really quick John

894
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: a whole or not a whole? I would love to

895
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: have a poll from the audience. Do you think Ops

896
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: being an A hole?

897
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 2: I think that everybody's the a hole, everyone's the ale.

898
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: I think give me that bakedown, OPI. Uh, op is

899
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 2: coming way too hard on her sister. I think Bell

900
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,919
Speaker 2: Conkling said something to the effect of, like if it's old,

901
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 2: used stuff, it's okay for them to like sell it.

902
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 2: Like if it was like a brand new, very intentional gift,

903
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 2: that is a completely different story than like, hey, I'm

904
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 2: not using it, Like like I don't even know if

905
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 2: that's bordering on a gift.

906
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: You know, it's not even it feels not a gift.

907
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, I'm gonna it almost feels like this

908
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: is either going to the trash slash good Will or

909
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm giving it to you. Yeah, it's not like it's

910
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: not like it was intentional. It's like like literally what

911
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: op said is I'm getting rid of stuck up in

912
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: the house and I thought i'd give it to you.

913
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Hey you want some trash, some trash, Like.

914
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 1: Wait, you're selling You're selling the cans that I put

915
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: in my garbage.

916
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 2: Excuse you. I sipped out of those cans on some

917
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 2: of the best days of my life. You know someone

918
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 2: could use those cans.

919
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: Someone can reuse those cans, and you're taking away cans

920
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: from someone that really needs them.

921
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 2: Dude. Yeah, So I think I think OPI is just

922
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: taking this way too seriously.

923
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: And if you're selling cans for extra money, you probably

924
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: need the money, yes, totally.

925
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 2: And then and then yeah, I think, honestly, I think

926
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 2: OPI is more of a hole. But I think that

927
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 2: the way that, like if I was doing the same thing,

928
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 2: I wouldn't go to the person he gave me. They're like,

929
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 2: oh yeah, I'm making freaking baaby, you know that. You

930
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: know that carriage gave me three hundred dollars.

931
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 4: Fucking looseup. You give that to me, you gonna have

932
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 4: three hundred dollars. But you know how much I'm making

933
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 4: off this crab you eatiot. By the way, can you

934
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 4: give me some more?

935
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 1: That's you got a stroller you don't need, bro, You

936
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: never tell your supplier how much you're making.

937
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:04,959
Speaker 2: True.

938
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: First rule of fight club and drug dealers. Exactly tell them,

939
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 1: don't tell them, tell them.

940
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 2: So I think I think everyone's a ale, but I

941
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: believe that OP is more than a hole.

942
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 1: I do see some threes saying everyone's the A hole.

943
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't know if the threes are getting a register

944
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: right now, sorry, but I do see a lot threes.

945
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 2: We see you, we see you. I don't know.

946
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: I don't know how many threes there are, but it

947
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: seems like there's almost equal threes, if not more threes

948
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: than the a I'm seeing a lot. I'm seeing a lot.

949
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 1: But uh, I think it could be everyone's the a

950
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: hole here.

951
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 2: I don't know if. I don't know if the people

952
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: were gonna be behind me on this one, but I

953
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: think everyone's.

954
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 1: The ale because you just don't talk about how much

955
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: you're making off things people give you.

956
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, unnecessary, Yeah, even if it's trash. But again in uh,

957
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 2: in the sister's defense, I think she's talking about it

958
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 2: because she doesn't even understand that it would be hurtful. Yeah, op, yeah,

959
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: So I don't think there's any bad intent.

960
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: It's not that it's not it's not that it's not

961
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: worth the SmackDown Op's giving, but it also isn't like

962
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: in the best taste either.

963
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, none of the best. So yeah, low key.

964
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 3: If she's able to do this with her sister stuff,

965
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 3: imagine you give her fifty bucks any yard sell to

966
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 3: go buy stuff and flip it on Facebook marketplace.

967
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: Dude, she's got a whole business right here. Take a

968
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 2: couch carrying on the subway and just sell it. Bro

969
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 2: just sell it.

970
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: But we got some relevant comments, so silver Ing Fox says,

971
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: you're the a hole. You gave her family some stuff.

972
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 1: At this point, the stuff is no longer yours. She

973
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: can do whatever she wants with it, burn it whatever

974
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: you get. Zero say. Yes, you're perfectly entitled to no

975
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 1: longer give her husband. You no longer give her hand

976
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,920
Speaker 1: me downs. I you'r trash. That's your choice. You're the

977
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: a hole mostly because you're judging her for what she

978
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 1: does with her family stuff and listening to the rest

979
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: of the family to follow your lead. Low They get

980
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: to make their own decisions and all. Crank no Speak

981
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: says he's an a but it does seem like burning

982
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: hand me downs is also an a hole.

983
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: Move.

984
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: You can say no, thank you and carry on with

985
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 1: your life. And how Trelanna si q O says, if

986
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: they were still clearly useful her head sentimental value. Sure

987
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: stuff is broken beyond repair and made of easily burnable material,

988
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: then it would make sense to burn it. Of course,

989
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: she could dance naked beneath the full moon and cover

990
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 1: the hand me downs and menstrual blood, and that wouldn't

991
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: make her an a hole super weird, but not an

992
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 1: aol because it was freely given to her to use

993
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,240
Speaker 1: and to do with as she pleased. The givers should

994
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: have made that clear before handing them over, and Hopie responds, Oh,

995
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: to this, it would have been so much It would

996
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: have made so much more sense to show her what

997
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,320
Speaker 1: you were looking to get rid of, or ask what

998
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: she needed, and then tell her to pick what she

999
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,359
Speaker 1: wants and that you'll deal with the rest. And then

1000
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: Opie responses, exactly what we did, though. My wife and

1001
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: I literally took stuff out of storage and laid it

1002
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: all for her and my brother before their youngest born.

1003
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: They looked it over, took what they wanted. What they

1004
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: didn't take, my wife and I donated to the mother

1005
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: in need nonprofit.

1006
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's still fine. Yeah, because

1007
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 2: it's so it sounds to me like they probably because

1008
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 2: if if they were what OPI is suggesting, almost like oh,

1009
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: they're just taking all the stuff and flipping it. They

1010
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 2: only took some of the items that it seems they

1011
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: needed and left the rest for you to donate. So

1012
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 2: why if they really were trying to get everything, they

1013
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 2: would have like you know, just been like a right.

1014
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:38,240
Speaker 1: But no, I don't think I think op completely overreacting.

1015
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:40,399
Speaker 1: You're trying to stam up on small businesses right now?

1016
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 2: What are we doing?

1017
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: What are we doing? We support small businesses.

1018
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: We support the side hustle. We support the side hustles,

1019
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 2: you know, not side pieces. But you know what, I

1020
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 2: support the side pieces. That's their own, that's their own hustle.

1021
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 2: Don't give some side pieces some love. The Mormons do it.

1022
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 2: That's they do.

1023
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 1: They do multiple all fundamental sorry, fundamental fundamentalist Mormons. Freaking

1024
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: all right, gosh, you gotta be you gotta be so

1025
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 1: specific here they're.

1026
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:14,280
Speaker 2: Collecting wives like used rollers. But I digress, We digress,