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Speaker 1: Hey, are you cool cats and kittens.

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Speaker 2: It's La La Kent with Ryan with.

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Speaker 1: We have a super dope guest today. She is poised,

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Speaker 1: she is elegant, and she is a gangster when it

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Speaker 1: comes to taking the wrath of La La Kent. Her

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Speaker 1: name is Raquel, motherfucking Levice God.

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Speaker 3: I gotta tell you the reason I'm excited about having

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Speaker 3: Raquel on is the fact that you two have all

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Speaker 3: this stuff going on about whatever to going at it

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Speaker 3: or whatever whatever, and she is the sweetest human and

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Speaker 3: you have the biggest heart in the world. So I

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Speaker 3: don't understand any of this shit, but I am excited

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Speaker 3: to have her because I don't know Raquel that well.

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Speaker 3: I know we're obviously just saying hi at different things, Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: But I'm excited to get to know her because she's

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Speaker 3: always so nice to me, so genuine so and I'm

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Speaker 3: sure you too will talk and we'll hear that.

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Speaker 4: Part of it.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm just glad you two are are talking

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Speaker 3: and friends and whatever it was, we'll we'll get into.

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Speaker 3: But I just got to tell you, Raquel, you know,

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Speaker 3: there's a lot of people on your show and a

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Speaker 3: lot of different personalities and raquel from day one, no

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Speaker 3: matter what.

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Speaker 4: Has been going on?

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Speaker 1: So sweet.

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Speaker 4: So let me ask you a question, Miss Lalla, so

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Speaker 4: soon to be, missus Lala.

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Speaker 3: We're we're in quarantine here on week three hundred. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's getting it's getting now. Am I right to say

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Speaker 3: that when we first got into quarantine, I had just

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Speaker 3: gotten home. So you're already a weekend?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I got home day one. I think I went in

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Speaker 3: a full depression, like what is going on? What just happened?

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Speaker 3: And you already had been in like a week right

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Speaker 3: week two, I was like bouncing off the walls, going nuts,

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Speaker 3: renting r v's, you know, going to our house in

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Speaker 3: Palm Springs, blah blah blah. You were happy as a clamp.

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Speaker 3: I saw you drawing every day. You have four hundred

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Speaker 3: coloring books here in front of us, and so you're

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Speaker 3: laughing right here. You've got lizards, you're drawing, You've got

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Speaker 3: I don't know, you've got states and countries. You were

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Speaker 3: having the time of your life. Yes, not only were

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Speaker 3: you coloring. Then we built our we extended our pickleball court, right,

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Speaker 3: and now we've been playing pickleball. That's been awesome, totally

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Speaker 3: so professional coloriss, professional pickleball player, swimmer, step mom, everything,

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Speaker 3: and you have been the best attitude. And I've been

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Speaker 3: in the like the.

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Speaker 1: Dems, and I've even PMS while in quarantine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that was a rough four days that those four

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Speaker 3: days were off, but we made it through all that,

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Speaker 3: and you kept a great attitude totally. Yesterday yesterday, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I feel like you hit the wall.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm hitting a wall.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Today today you can.

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Speaker 1: Only color and give myself so many facials before I

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Speaker 1: want to fucking shoot everybody.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm looking at you, and at least you're admitting

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Speaker 3: it because you know, you have had the most positive attitude.

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Speaker 4: Baby, I swear to you.

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Speaker 2: Every day I've been like, well, because I'm anti social.

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Speaker 1: So for me, it's like, oh, don't leave your houses,

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Speaker 3: Uh, for you, three weeks of no gym, three weeks

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Speaker 3: of not seeing any of your friends, any of your friends,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean all of my friends are homebodies, so

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Speaker 2: Killing me, and the gym is people.

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Speaker 1: Well, the gym sets the tone for my whole day,

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Speaker 1: and I want to tell people.

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Speaker 4: People don't know this. So normally our schedule.

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Speaker 2: Is we wake up, we talked about this, we did,

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you don't want me to repeat it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I would prefer to talk about something different if

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Speaker 3: I'm a repeater though, Okay, okay, but going backwards, just

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Speaker 3: saying when you go to the gym, it is your

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Speaker 1: Yes, And I've told people a hundred times. If I

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Speaker 4: You have lost weight? Is that a thing? Because I don't.

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Speaker 1: People they're like, oh, that's great me. I want thick,

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Speaker 4: I just want to preface this.

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Speaker 3: Whatever however you say you look right now, I think

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Speaker 3: you look stunning, thank you, And I think you look

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Speaker 3: people every day and that is the truth. And you

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Speaker 3: know I say that day, thank you. But what I

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Speaker 3: do want to say is we've hit this wall, both

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Speaker 1: And we feel like I'm in the Walking Dead kind of.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like this is our this is our base, this

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Speaker 1: And the kids are the walkers because they're stuck at

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Speaker 4: Everybody's stuck, are we?

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Speaker 3: You know, people don't people who don't a lot of

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Speaker 3: people who listen I have kids, but people don't have kids.

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Speaker 2: Let me just tell you I love being with my children.

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Speaker 1: The people that have kids know exactly what works.

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Speaker 4: That's I'm but I'm trying to tell the people that don't.

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Speaker 3: And people know I love Riley and London obsessively, and

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Speaker 4: You. But here's the thing. When they don't go to

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Speaker 3: You can only color so much, you can only play

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Speaker 3: Jenga so much. You can only play Hide.

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Speaker 1: And seek, swim pickle, run them into.

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Speaker 2: The ground so many times.

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Speaker 1: Yes, before you're run into the ground by freaking three

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Speaker 3: But you know, so we so we face that, and

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Speaker 3: and I just think, look, I think we're halfway through

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Speaker 4: I think we're on starting to head towards the other side.

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Speaker 3: I've read a lot of articles that say the curves

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Speaker 4: Look, we don't know yet, but I am optimistic.

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Speaker 3: I don't know shit I know, but I'm optimistic seeing

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Speaker 1: Will All I know is my mother has put two

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Speaker 1: obviously we're stepping our game up. You can't come in

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Speaker 4: It's popping off.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, right now we're in a

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Speaker 1: We used to take for granted, right Like I used

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Speaker 4: It's tough.

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Speaker 3: It's tough, and I'll tell you, and for you, I

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Speaker 1: I'm really happy that you brought that up, because I

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Speaker 3: And I want to second that, just when I've gone

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Speaker 3: that comes around you, watching the love that you get,

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Speaker 3: And to not have that right now, for you not

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Speaker 4: You can't do that.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Hello, Hey, Raquelala, Raquel I am I got to say,

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Speaker 4: So I just want to thank you, amazing.

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Speaker 7: Thank you. No, I'm excited to be here talking to

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Speaker 1: So you said earlier, like you get you get nervous,

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Speaker 5: It's really weird watching myself on TV. I don't particularly

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Speaker 2: That makes two of us for Keul trust me, two

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Speaker 4: Wait, can you do me a favor, Kaul?

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Speaker 3: Can you take me back just so I understand you

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Speaker 4: But that did you know that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait tell me now, hold on, because this is

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: This is because Qul, whether you like it or not,

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Speaker 2: How does that a good story?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Randall's never heard Kell. You have to tell him.

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Speaker 7: It's it's like a perfect fairy tale.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Tell me, tell me, tell me, tell me.

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Speaker 3: It didn't invote wait one sec Forkel, it didn't involve

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Speaker 3: range Rovers, right, just just kidding, just kidding, that's my.

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Speaker 3: Okay, tell me tell me how you guys met. That's

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Speaker 5: So my sister Kate invited me out to New Year's

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Speaker 5: And I thought he was so cute and I had

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Speaker 7: So I go over there and I song requested Beyonce.

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00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:18,359
Speaker 5: Of course he's like, well, I don't normally take song

448
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:21,440
Speaker 5: request but for you, I will oh I love this.

449
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:22,680
Speaker 4: I love this story.

450
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,040
Speaker 2: I'm such a romantic.

451
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:24,880
Speaker 4: This is awesome.

452
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,879
Speaker 5: Yes, And that was the first time I heard his

453
00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,240
Speaker 5: British accent.

454
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:31,760
Speaker 7: You die the first.

455
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 5: Time and I was like, oh my god like and

456
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,679
Speaker 5: for a moment I thought he was shaking his accent

457
00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:41,919
Speaker 5: because it was so so strong. It caught to like

458
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:45,160
Speaker 5: a point that it was like such a thick British accent.

459
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 5: But now looking back on it, I was looking back

460
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 5: on it, I've noticed that James will amp up his

461
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,679
Speaker 5: British accent according to.

462
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 1: Second wait, according to who he's talking to.

463
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 2: He was out there, Raquel, meaning if he liked.

464
00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 7: You, he was into it. I know he's.

465
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 2: Oh, James's got swagger, swag.

466
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 3: I mean I already know James has got swagger, but

467
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 3: knowing this when he saw you, he went from like, oh,

468
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 3: I could be in America to hal.

469
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 1: He's definitely never like American. He's like true blue British boy.

470
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 1: So funny that he like amped it up for a

471
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 1: cal right.

472
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 3: That's but I think that's a door. So after he

473
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 3: puts plays a song, what happens next?

474
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:36,960
Speaker 5: Okay, so the countdown, the midnight countdown, New Year's Deep

475
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 5: countdown and so he's like announcing it on the mic

476
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 5: and I'm like dancing by him, and then he pulls

477
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 5: me over and we kissed that midnight.

478
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 2: Oh this is the greatest story, like Cinderella. This is

479
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,800
Speaker 2: pretty dum, I know, cute.

480
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 5: So then he invited my thrity sister Mandy and I

481
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 5: to this place us djaying afterwards.

482
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 7: I was like, hell yeah, hell.

483
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go.

484
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 7: Mandy, like be my wing woman. Let's go.

485
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 3: Mandy is is definitely going to be your maid of

486
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,200
Speaker 3: honor and she has.

487
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 7: Sure she will definitely be a bridesmaid.

488
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 2: Love love that.

489
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 3: Okay, let me wait, let me ask, let me ask

490
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 3: another two questions. So, first of all, after just getting

491
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 3: to know you more here, you and I have a

492
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:30,360
Speaker 3: bond on how we met our significant others because I,

493
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 3: as you know, met Laala for the first time when

494
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 3: she was manning the hostess stand when I had a

495
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 3: Christmas Well.

496
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Speaker 4: Okay, womaning of course I have to.

497
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 3: Be sir, yes, so I I met Laala at sir

498
00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:47,440
Speaker 3: the same What's.

499
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Speaker 1: I know that those those places that Lisa Vanner Pump

500
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: owns are just like the they told a lot of

501
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: love that.

502
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 5: Is insane.

503
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 7: I love that I.

504
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 3: Had no I had no idea. I love this story

505
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 3: about you and James. I had no idea.

506
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 1: But once you once you you you didn't follow him.

507
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: But once he invited you to the after party, you

508
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,479
Speaker 1: went there and what happened? Yes, did you let him

509
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 1: hit it the first night? Raquel Levis, you're a lady.

510
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, if.

511
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 7: You're asking me this, because.

512
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 5: No one's asked me straight up that way, no one's

513
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 5: asked me.

514
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 7: And the answer is, yeah, it was.

515
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 2: A one night Dan.

516
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 1: Yes, that's my girl.

517
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,120
Speaker 2: Raquel, say something.

518
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 4: I gotta say something. You know, Lala was the same.

519
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 3: She was the same, And I will say, look at

520
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 3: us now, and look at you and him now.

521
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: So there we go.

522
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 1: See, I always tell people, I'm like, you know what,

523
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't think that that that like holding off the cookie,

524
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: really applies at all times. No, it's a it is. Okay,

525
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: So then you go, you're at Sonoma at this point, right,

526
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: like you just came in for were you at home?

527
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

528
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: For like Christmas?

529
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, at this point. At this point, it was my

530
00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 7: third year in college.

531
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 5: Okay, So I was at Sonoma State in northern California.

532
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 5: So it ended up being that James wanted to continue

533
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 5: dating me and he was down to do long distance.

534
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 5: So the first date that we had when he came

535
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,920
Speaker 5: up to visit me, we went mind tasting, because that's

536
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 5: what we do in of course, we keep a classy

537
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 5: We go barrel tasting.

538
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 4: This is amazing.

539
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,719
Speaker 5: Then we get a party bus. So we got a

540
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 5: party bus and we went out there to all the

541
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 5: different wineries.

542
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 3: Oh, this is as romantic as I really had. I

543
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 3: swear to you, law I had no idea that. I mean,

544
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 3: this is a great fairy tale.

545
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 2: It is, it really is.

546
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: And then, so how long had you guys been together

547
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: when you made your first appearance on vander pump Roules.

548
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 5: It must have been maybe five months because we met

549
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 5: the first of January, and then we started filming that summer.

550
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that was that's quick. Raquel and I

551
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: want to I'm really gonna like pick your brain. We're

552
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: going to take a short break and we will be

553
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: back in a hot second with a beautiful Raquel Levis.

554
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: And we are back with Raquel Levis. How you doing, boo,

555
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: You're still hanging in there with us?

556
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 8: I am all.

557
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 3: Right, So I am excited that we just heard an

558
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 3: incredible fairy tale which I had no clue. Raquel and

559
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 3: I are bonded because we both met our significant others

560
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 3: at sir.

561
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:50,879
Speaker 1: Now she met him at pump you both okay, it

562
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:52,280
Speaker 1: was about a block away.

563
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: Okay, so I at least get that.

564
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay.

565
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 3: Now the question I have for Raquel is everybody shacked up,

566
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 3: everybody walking down the aisle.

567
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 2: It's like the cool thing of twenty twenty.

568
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're asking her about marriage. Now, we're

569
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: asking if she wants.

570
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 3: No, I didn't ask anything about the hitting on the

571
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 3: first right, I'm the romantic one is related? No, by

572
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 3: the way, is if you guys haven't discussed it? But

573
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 3: is there any intention soon? Do you guys see that

574
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: happening in the future. Has there been talks or is

575
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 3: it just your You're just gonna wait to the right moment.

576
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I definitely see that in the future. For us,

577
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 5: we are. We're not in a rush. I keep telling

578
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 5: him I'm not in.

579
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 7: A rush because I still feel.

580
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: Like I'm really young and I don't know I'm how

581
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: old are you Quale twenty five?

582
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 7: I'm twenty five?

583
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 4: Oh wow?

584
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: Also, you're not you have twenty of times and James.

585
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 4: Hold is James, he's young too. How old?

586
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 1: I think he's only twenty seven twenty oh, you guys

587
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,640
Speaker 1: are like twenty eight twenty oh, you guys got if

588
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: no rung. I will say this though, I know there

589
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: have been moments that James and I are in the

590
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 1: studio and that's definitely his buobo. You know, Raquel is

591
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 1: the one, so that'll definitely listen to me. I'm answering

592
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: the question for you Quel, I'm like, oh, though, for sure.

593
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 3: I like Raquel's attitude, like like it's just say it's

594
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 3: going to happen. I know it's going to happen, and

595
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 3: it's gonna happen when we're both LIFs.

596
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: How it works.

597
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 2: You, on the other hand, what my pressure pressure?

598
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 5: Oh?

599
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.

600
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: I us you you said this ship's going down by

601
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 3: the end of this year or you're going out. It

602
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 3: was pretty much like that. But wow, you don't remember

603
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 3: that you got amnesia?

604
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that was probably one of my in my

605
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: drunken store. Okay, so Raquel, let's talk about we have

606
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: had two seasons together that have been rocky.

607
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 7: Little rocky.

608
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, Royd absolutely, and for you know, you and I

609
00:27:56,160 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: have had conversations off camera, off podcasts where you know, we've,

610
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: in my opinion, have come a very long way. Yeah,

611
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 1: and this season we had our coffee date, which I

612
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: know that we both felt was for me it was

613
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: a highlight.

614
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,479
Speaker 5: But I loved filming that scene with you. That was

615
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 5: one of my highlights of these because we got to

616
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 5: speak on such like like real and civilized and like

617
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 5: nice level where like we were hearing each other and

618
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 5: and I just got to talk to you about my

619
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 5: experience with James's steps to so variety, and I feel

620
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 5: like we were able to really like relate in a way.

621
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I felt like we related in that moment too.

622
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: And I have to ask, because I am obviously a

623
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: hotthead you have been on the receiving end, how in

624
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: the world do you maintain being so calm and poised

625
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: during attack? Like, what the hell did your mom teach

626
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: you to be like that?

627
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 7: No?

628
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 5: No, I don't know, I just born that way.

629
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: That's amazing, Raquel, Raquel, I give it to you mad

630
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: credit and mad props because I am on the receiving

631
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 3: end sometimes of my fiance's frustrations. I like, I use

632
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: the word frustrations, but uh right, And I'm pretty.

633
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 4: Level headed, babe, don't you think.

634
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm pretty yeah, Oh, you're pretty normal. But

635
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 3: I think I think, uh, you know, you're not marroring Lalla.

636
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: So the fact that you can be calm is mad

637
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 3: props to you.

638
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: No, I really think it's amazing. Do you like when

639
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: you go into filming? I know I asked you this,

640
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: but like cause you don't know what to expect and

641
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: you're so like normal and level headed, Like what is

642
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: your process of being Like Okay, I know I got

643
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: into it with La La or whatever, like going into

644
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: a scene, Like, how do you maintain that? I mean,

645
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm asking you for advice.

646
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 3: Here, I knew that Ike Raquel, I'm going to shut

647
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 3: up right after this, I knew where she was going

648
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 3: with Raquel. She was basically had to hit it on

649
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 3: the head. She wants you to help her, Raquel, give

650
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 3: her advice?

651
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: How does she remain calm? Please?

652
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 5: I wish I had an easy answer for you, But

653
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 5: all I can say is every time I.

654
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 7: Go into scene filming.

655
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 5: I try to just like be really happy going into

656
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,479
Speaker 5: it and like, I don't know, try to enjoy the

657
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 5: moment because it's in those moments where I grow personally

658
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 5: and the sense that I get super anxious when we

659
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 5: do film.

660
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 7: And we're in.

661
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 5: Positions that aren't the easiest and I'm very non confrontational.

662
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 4: So right, So that's just your DNA.

663
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 3: It's basically it's your DNA the way, yeah, the way,

664
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 3: the way, the way that you function day to day.

665
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 2: You don't sister like that?

666
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: Is your sister like calm too?

667
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 2: No, No, she's not.

668
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 7: We're very opposite.

669
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I love it. Have you Have you

670
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: ever battled with her?

671
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 5: No, we're our age gap is too much but six

672
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 5: years apart, so we never like battled it out like that.

673
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: Okay, but you're like more of the calm child and

674
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: your sister's more of the one that's like just a killer,

675
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: not a killer, but you know what I mean with

676
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: a fighting Yeah, okay, I totally get it. Wow. I

677
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: mean I have told you this many times, and before

678
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: we sign off, I'm going to tell you again.

679
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: You have been.

680
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: You've made an extremely you know, hard, life changing moment

681
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: like coming onto this show. I know that it's not easy,

682
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: and from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry

683
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: that you've been on the receiving end. Of my wrath.

684
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: It will not happen again. And I want to tell you,

685
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: not only were you cool, calm and collected, you are

686
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: so fucking fun to watch this season. Raquel.

687
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 4: You need to know.

688
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: That all this is so I mean this, I want

689
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 3: to out if we weren't quarantine, if we weren't in quarantine,

690
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 3: I would hug it out with both of you right now.

691
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 4: This is really sweet.

692
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: I mean, that's and I and I love Raquel, that

693
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 3: you shared your story because it really is a beautiful story.

694
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: And I think sometimes we don't just like you know, Lala,

695
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: and I like, people don't get to see all of us,

696
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: and I think just like people don't get to see

697
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 3: all of you and James and hearing kind of how

698
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 3: you came together and the love that you have and

699
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 3: you're you know, you got pushed into this world like

700
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: I did, and it's not an easy world to be in.

701
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 4: And I give you a lot of a lot of

702
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 4: respect for that.

703
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you so much.

704
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: We are so happy that you that you gave us

705
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: some of your quarantine time. And I hope that you

706
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: go and enjoy the rest of your day, my love.

707
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 7: Yes, thank you, you too.

708
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 2: You guys thank you.

709
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 4: You were so fun to have on and we appreciate it.

710
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: Yes, bye baby, Okay, Wow, I have to say, like,

711
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: there have been many moments and I'm not gonna get

712
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: choked up about this. I'm sure it's because I'm like

713
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: stuck in this.

714
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 4: House bouncing off the wall.

715
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:15,239
Speaker 1: But you know, filming a reality TV show is a

716
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 1: lot of work. It's a lot of pressure. You're asked

717
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 1: to be surrounded by people that you don't always click

718
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: with or see eye to eye, and you know, most

719
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: times people want to slam you for the way that

720
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: you've treated somebody, and absolutely I did not treat her correctly.

721
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: But people also have to understand that we don't get

722
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: one minute to sit back and reflect on what's happened

723
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: or think about what's been said. We are thrown into

724
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: positions where you know, you either are a fighter like me,

725
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: or you're very cool and calm like Raquel, And I

726
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: respect that, but I think you know, the making up

727
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: of my cast members, when we can see eye to

728
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,719
Speaker 1: eye and show love because we're in this together, that

729
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: is the most beautiful moment.

730
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 4: Well, I'm sitting here looking at you with tears in

731
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 4: your eyes and makes me happy. Because I know you know,

732
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 4: and not to get into too much, but I know

733
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 4: that you have been very affected by just this thing

734
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 4: with Raquel that happened on the show.

735
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,959
Speaker 1: And you don't have anybody that like who I think

736
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: should get the wrath of whatever I'm feeling. She is

737
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,399
Speaker 1: so not the one I know, Bob, I feel really

738
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: bad about that.

739
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 3: Well, I love you, and I know that in your

740
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 3: heart you're the sweetest human in the world.

741
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 1: And I know that Raquel, I'm definitely not the sweetest

742
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: human in the world.

743
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 4: Well, you're the sweetest human to me. Well, I think, okay,

744
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:38,959
Speaker 4: but what I want.

745
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: And I'm really grateful that she came on the podcast

746
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: that was amazing, like her talking about how she met

747
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: James amazing.

748
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 3: And by the way, what I'm trying to say is

749
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 3: this that you are the sweetest inside.

750
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 4: That's who you are.

751
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 3: And I think that you're put in a situation that

752
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 3: you know, you're on a show where you guys are

753
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 3: together every day for months and months and months and

754
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 3: months and months, and people explode.

755
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 4: And I think the fact, let me say this, the

756
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 4: fact that.

757
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 3: Today you can sit here and admit you know your

758
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 3: your faults, right, that's.

759
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 4: You know how big of that that.

760
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 3: That takes a lot of courage, just like it took

761
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:16,839
Speaker 3: her a lot of courage to be able to come

762
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: on the podcast and say, hey, we are okay, we

763
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 3: are friends. Now we did bury the hatchet. And I

764
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: want to tell you that you deserve the same amount

765
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 3: of credit because you don't give yourself any credit ever.

766
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 3: And I'm looking at you and I know you still

767
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 3: probably won't give yourself credit. But Lala, it takes a

768
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 3: lot to apologize.

769
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:34,399
Speaker 1: There's just step up and say there's something that I

770
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,919
Speaker 1: The part that I need to work on is when

771
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: I went off on Raquel the two times this season,

772
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: what she was saying, I felt that I was the

773
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: things that I cared about were an attack. Even last year,

774
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: I felt that she was attacking my dad, and I

775
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: needed to take a step back and be like, she's

776
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: not meaning this in an ill way. Correct, she's not you,

777
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: but you also instead I and I was like, I'm

778
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: ready to fight. And I should know by now the

779
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: difference when someone's trying to be evil and mean and

780
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: when someone is saying something where I'm taking it the

781
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,359
Speaker 1: wrong way.

782
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 3: And I want to say, again, it's huge of you

783
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: to be able to apologize say you were in the

784
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: wrong at the same time, and I'm not I mean,

785
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 3: I am your partner, but I'm also going to be honest.

786
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 3: You were in a really, really difficult place the last year,

787
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 3: losing your dad. You were I mean, you were in

788
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 3: a spiral. So I mean, I'm not justifying anything. I'm

789
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 3: just saying you weren't in your right head because you'd

790
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 3: lost your dad. So now today I look at you,

791
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 3: and I see a different woman sitting here saying, you

792
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 3: know what, Sorry, I didn't mean to come at you

793
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,399
Speaker 3: that way. You didn't deserve that. And look at you too.

794
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: Now now you guys are friends and you guys talk,

795
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 3: and she trusted to come on our podcast, which is

796
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 3: huge of her, and it's huge of you to be

797
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 3: able to want her to come on this podcast. I

798
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 3: just think if we weren't in quarantine right now, we'd

799
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 3: all be at dinner.

800
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my stay, And I want to say one

801
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: more thing before we sign off. Most people that know

802
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: me know I know that I have negative comments in

803
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: my DMS. I know that I have negative comments in

804
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: the comments section, which is why I avoid reading them,

805
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 1: because it affects me However, when I watched the show

806
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: back and I saw my behavior, that is what is

807
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 1: sitting with me, not anything else. I mean the other

808
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: day we did Andy Cohen's show, Watch Rabin's Life, and

809
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: he was like a lot of people. I asked him.

810
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: I was like, are you asking me these questions? Did

811
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 1: I get a lot of hate from that? And he

812
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: was like, oh, we had so many comments about it.

813
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: So I had no idea until he said that, and

814
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I was already feeling badly about what

815
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 1: was going on. So I'm just really grateful we had

816
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: her on. She's a freaking.

817
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 2: Badass, but I can already see you all And it was.

818
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: Fun because she even told us she gave it up

819
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: on the first night see a girl after my own,

820
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: damn heart. I'm sure she's gonna be like, oh no,

821
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a girl.

822
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: After a while, I was sorry, Okay, I'm just gonna

823
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 3: leave this one alone. But I want to say, you

824
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 3: already look lighter and happier like the fact that you too,

825
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 3: bet yeah, I think you know.

826
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 4: Look, this is weak.

827
00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 3: I don't know anymore. I'm just going to leave it

828
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 3: at that week whatever of quarantine because this is I

829
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 3: feel like we live in quarantine now, but I think

830
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: doing this podcast connects us to people that are kind

831
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: of in the same boat. And I think, you know,

832
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 3: I want to say, relationships are hard, and then when

833
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 3: you put people in quarantine, they're harder. So anybody out

834
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 3: there that's going through a tough moment in their relationship,

835
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 3: stay positive and stay strong and just keep working through it,

836
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 3: because the stronger you are in quarantine, the better your

837
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 3: relationship will be out of quarantine.

838
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: Absolutely, we are sending you all all of our love

839
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: and our prayers. And before we sign off and I

840
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: tell you guys to go sleigh the day, let's listen

841
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: to some voicemails you already ran to.

842
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 4: This is like my favorite part of it.

843
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: I know, it's so fun. I feel like I know

844
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: these people.

845
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 9: Yep, Hi, Lala, I'm Randall. This is Andrea from Atlantic City,

846
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 9: New Jersey. Love you, l La and everything you stand

847
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,879
Speaker 9: for on vander Pump. But I love Randall, So rand

848
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 9: you better stop saying you don't have any fans, because

849
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 9: you do now. My question is for Randall. I want

850
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 9: to know more about your background on poker. I've watched

851
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 9: videos of you playing it's amazing. If you ever come

852
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 9: to Alantic City to play a tournament, let your fans know. Thanks.

853
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 4: I love this question.

854
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, a locker question.

855
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 3: While I was going to fall asleep here and is

856
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 3: they're banging my head. First of all, thank you Atlantic City.

857
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 3: I love and the Borgata as the best tournaments ever.

858
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 3: So when I do come, I definitely will post. I

859
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 3: don't know, I am so obsessed with poker. It's my passion,

860
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 3: you know. What can I say? I put a lot

861
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 3: of time in studying the game. I love tournaments. I

862
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 3: love the competitiveness. I love how I'm always trying to

863
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 3: get better and you can never, you know, beat the game.

864
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 3: You're always working in a proving the game as it evolves,

865
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 3: and it's just one of my favorite things in the world.

866
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 3: It's a happy place for me, and I've really the

867
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: community of poker.

868
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 4: Is just so special.

869
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 3: I love meeting people from all over the world at play.

870
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 3: You can go to any country, any city, any state,

871
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 3: find a poker room and play and you don't you know,

872
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 3: it's just it's just a really really unique game. So

873
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 3: thank you, and I'm glad I have a fan. I

874
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 3: think you're one of my first fans outside of my family.

875
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 3: So thank you.

876
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: And I'm just dying that someone asked you about.

877
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: You know, I could do all Podcosker you know what, and.

878
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 3: And I'm going to tell you something, Andrew, you know

879
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 3: what I'm gonna do for you and Lala is not

880
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 3: gonna let me, but I'm going to win this battle.

881
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 3: I am going to do a poker podcast with you,

882
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 3: Lawa maybe in a few weeks where we bring on

883
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 3: Phil Hellmuth and a couple of the best pros in

884
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 3: the world.

885
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: Okay, so we'll have all of ten listeners that week.

886
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 3: Fine, and and all right, anyway, thanks Andrea, and I

887
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 3: appreciate it, and all the poker payers out all the

888
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 3: poker players out there, keep listening, keep playing, all right.

889
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Speaker 8: Next question, Hey, Lala and Randall. This is Lee and

890
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Speaker 8: from New Jersey. Me and my kids absolutely love watching

891
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 8: Lala on Standard Pump Rules, and I love listening to

892
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 8: your podcast. You guys are hilarious and you are my

893
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 8: favorite couple on Vander Pump Rules. And I just had

894
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 8: a question. I was wondering if you've ever considered doing

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Speaker 8: your own spinoff show. I think that it would be

896
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Speaker 8: an absolute number one hit and you guys would be

897
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 8: hilarious to watch for an entire hour. All right, love

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Speaker 8: you guys. Bye.

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Speaker 1: Would you ever do a spin off?

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00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 4: Babe?

901
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: First of all, First of all, I wonder how old

902
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: her kids are that are watching vander pomp.

903
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 4: I bet you they're teenagers.

904
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 1: Oh, Leanne, you're you're a gangster. I love that you

905
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: and your kids watching.

906
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,839
Speaker 3: I'm not going to answer this question because all I'm

907
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 3: going to say before you answer this question is the phone.

908
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 3: I said I would never do vander Pump and you did, right,

909
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 3: And I'll say and I'm going to say, I would

910
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 3: never want to do a spin off.

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00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, you know I I.

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Speaker 1: You realize if we did a spinoff, we would have

913
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 1: to show it all, like we would have to show

914
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,320
Speaker 1: our fights. We would have to It would.

915
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: Be we don't go we go toes.

916
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 1: We love hard, play hard, fight hard. And I said

917
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: that first. I love hard.

918
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 2: See the fans, look you're looking at me right now.

919
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 4: Let's see.

920
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: That's what I'm I would do a spinoff in two seconds.

921
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: Mention it all, mention.

922
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 2: It all anyway.

923
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 3: I would I would prefer not to do a spinoff,

924
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 3: but if my fiance, Uh forced me to.

925
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 4: I probably would fold at some point.

926
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Speaker 1: Well, first we have to get an offer evolution where

927
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: you at bro come produce my ship. All right, we

928
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: have one more voicemail. I love this one.

929
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 10: Yeah, hey, Lala, it's Syrian. I'm from Tulsa, Oklahoma. Or

930
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 10: should I say Tulsa, Oklahoma with nothing but a hole.

931
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Speaker 5: As a sais?

932
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Speaker 10: I vote yes for James Kennedy coming back.

933
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 9: We love him.

934
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 10: We have so much fun listening to him. He is

935
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 10: so awesome and I didn't get to see him when

936
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Speaker 10: he was here, so I'm sad.

937
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 9: Other than that, how much?

938
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Speaker 10: My question for you and Randall is how much of

939
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 10: a decision does Randal have in actually planning the wedding.

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00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 10: Would you say it's like ninety ten or fifty fifty

941
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 10: or do you let him make any calls? And if

942
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 10: you do, what calls or is he allowed to make

943
00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 10: about the wedding?

944
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 7: Thanks?

945
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,240
Speaker 1: Rand How much are you involved in the wedding planning?

946
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: This is funny because she asks fifty to fifty or

947
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: ninety ten. I think you're more ninety and I'm more ten.

948
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Speaker 3: Okay, that is not okay, I'll tell you can I

949
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 3: tell you the truth of my opinion. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 3: when we started the wedding process, I think maybe I

951
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 3: was ninety ten my favorite.

952
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: In the beginning, you were ninety ten, you were the

953
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 1: ninety I.

954
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 3: Think I was driving the train like you were fine

955
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: getting married with six people.

956
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, but now, and be honest, law and I see

957
00:43:58,400 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 4: the smark on your face.

958
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 3: Tell me, I believe today my power has completely gone,

959
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 3: and I believe you've handed it over to now.

960
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: Neither of us have power, and our moms split it

961
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Speaker 1: fifty to fifty.

962
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Speaker 2: Correct.

963
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 3: But I think that whatever you say these days, I'm

964
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: kind of like, I just want you to be happy.

965
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Speaker 1: So, yes, Randall is a movie producer, so this wedding,

966
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: he sees it like it's a movie, Like it's a production.

967
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: For me, I've been very vocal about this. I have

968
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Speaker 1: never dreamed about getting married, Like I wasn't that kid.

969
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: As a young girl. No, I was thinking about, like

970
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 1: all I want to do is move to Hollywood, Like

971
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 1: that's what I saw. You know, while most girls are

972
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: like wearing veils and shit, that wasn't me. So for me,

973
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Speaker 1: I was like, let's just have a small wedding. We'll

974
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Speaker 1: invite our close friends and family and call it a day.

975
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Speaker 1: Randall and his producer Mine was like, no, I need

976
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Speaker 1: a fifty piece orchestra and a piano player and whatever else,

977
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: fifty person choet.

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Speaker 2: But be honest, La honest.

979
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Wait before your fans, before your fans

980
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 3: think that this is your still mindset.

981
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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm telling that now. I feel now, okay,

982
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Speaker 1: I want to When it came to canceling the April

983
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: eighteenth wedding and we were like, okay, well we can

984
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Speaker 1: still do it that day, but we'll do it very small.

985
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Speaker 2: You could have had a small wedding time, I was like, oh.

986
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: But now I have this extravagant wedding in mind. I

987
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: want the fifty person choir.

988
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 4: That is true.

989
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,399
Speaker 3: And by the way, fans of La La, I will

990
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 3: tell you she really had that at a moment where

991
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 3: you could have decided let's just do the courthouse small whatever, yeah,

992
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 3: and you said, no, my mind is there now, like

993
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 3: I want to celebrate in the best way. And I

994
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 3: will tell you our wedding now having gone through this

995
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 3: quarantine like the rest of the world. I even told

996
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 3: my mother, the celebration we're going to have is going

997
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 3: to mean so much more than anything we've ever celebrated,

998
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 3: because it's almost like a celebration of freedom.

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00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 4: We have our freedom again.

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Speaker 3: I mean, in addition to the romance and the love

1001
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 3: that we have, I just think we're going to be

1002
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Speaker 3: so excited to enjoy every moment of that week.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely. Today it was a fun podcast. We got to

1004
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: answer y'all's questions. We got to have Raquel Levi is

1005
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 1: on the podcast. I'm feeling good. I feel like I

1006
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: can send our listeners into their homes again to slay

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Speaker 1: the day.

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Speaker 2: Guys, keep moving around.

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Speaker 3: You know what I do, La, I go from the

1010
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,080
Speaker 3: kitchen to the bedroom to the family room, and I

1011
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 3: just pretend I'm going to different cities.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's a great idea I do.

1013
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 4: I do.

1014
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 3: I'm like the kitchen this Paris, and then I go

1015
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 3: up to London in my bedroom. And then sometimes I

1016
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 3: go to the playroom and I think, like that's like Disneyland.

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Speaker 4: So I just I just keep it in my mind.

1018
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 4: It's like I'm moving around.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's like we're all getting our creativity back. I

1020
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: love it.

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00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 1: All right, you guys have the best day ever. Stay safe,

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00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: stay healthy. We love you, and we will see you

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Speaker 1: and talk to you next week.