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Speaker 2: That's intense, dude.

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Speaker 1: Germophobia is crazy real, it's real, and it's crazy, and

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Speaker 1: but also it's kind of like sad. It's not crazy,

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Speaker 1: but because it's true. There are germs everywhere that are

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Speaker 3: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: There's something about it, nothing about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I twenty one female, am getting married to my

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Speaker 1: him Wesley. My mother since I was a child, has

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Speaker 1: had severe OCD, which came along with being a huge germophobe,

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Speaker 1: such as making me wash my hands and feet three

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Speaker 1: times with a dove soap bar nothing else, or they're

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Speaker 4: That's intense. That's in three times.

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Speaker 3: That's traumatic.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: Like water soap lather rints three times in front of her.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from you, cloud child on

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Speaker 1: the our sage. Okay, sorry, numbs, I'll run it. So

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Speaker 1: even if I just stepped outside for a second, I

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Speaker 1: had to wash. Understandably, it is a bit of pain. Point,

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Speaker 1: but I love her and she can't help her condition.

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Speaker 1: Another thing is at eleven pm every night, she has

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Speaker 4: Oh, this is some intense OCD.

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Speaker 1: That's intense, and then disinfect each and every switch because

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Speaker 2: Oh no, whoa. She's been very accepting of Wesley and

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Speaker 1: So I guess he also has to wash his feed

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Speaker 1: three times, cook for him, let him say, and generally

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Speaker 1: applied the method. Last year, I told my mother about

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Speaker 4: In the beginning.

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Speaker 2: In the beginning, yeah, in the.

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Speaker 1: Bit was nothing, and then there was a lot of

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Speaker 1: hand and feet washing until after we started making preparations.

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Speaker 1: She started telling what to do. For instance, for the venue,

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Speaker 1: me and Wesley plan to go to this beautiful place

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Speaker 1: that has ruins of a castle next to the she whoa,

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Speaker 1: moving to a hotel to have a meal and to dance.

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Speaker 1: My mother advised me to change the venue because she

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Speaker 2: Last time, I thought this was my wedding to Brook.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Brook, we're gonna we're gonna read your comment in

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Speaker 1: a bit gosh dang. I argued it was what we

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Speaker 4: Don tutin, why would why would outside feel dirty than inside?

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Speaker 3: There's dirt, Sam, thank you for your knowledge.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. Do you say I do? There's dirt?

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Speaker 4: Don't germs get trapped.

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Speaker 2: In inside side more than out? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But I guess like you have a more controlled environment

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Speaker 1: you know, there's birds pooping, there's rodents pooping, there's there's

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Speaker 3: There's people everywhere, there's poop outside.

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: No, often?

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Speaker 4: How many did you see?

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Speaker 1: You'll look between two cars and there'll be a fat,

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Speaker 3: I was gonna ask how many times did you do it? Soam?

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Speaker 2: That dump that I saw was mine?

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Speaker 4: No, I love.

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Speaker 2: It due that was literally the justin Bieber beam. I

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Speaker 1: All right, Sorry, I argued, it was what we wanted

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Speaker 4: I feel bad for mom, but I don't know if

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Speaker 1: If you're going to literally stomp on all my wedding plans, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like just get out of here. You know, you can

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Speaker 1: show up in a bubble for all my care, But like, don't, like,

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Speaker 1: don't ruin my wedding exactly. My wedding is now next week,

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Speaker 1: It would be crazy. She started yelling at me that

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Speaker 1: because I should know the rules.

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Speaker 4: Mom. They're your rules, not mine. Yeah, and this is

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Speaker 2: My house I also.

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Speaker 3: In the middle of the street.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for our house in the middle of the street.

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Speaker 2: What's up from?

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Speaker 3: It's a song, It's a song from a song.

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Speaker 4: It's a song someone in the chest.

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Speaker 1: It's well, I've heard people sing it, but I've never

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering what her wedding was like the mom like,

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Speaker 4: What was her OCD as bad back then?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gotten you know what I mean, It has gotten.

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Speaker 4: Worse, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I refuse to change my venue as it would

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Speaker 4: Mom, this is excessive, This is too excessive. Honestly, have

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Speaker 1: She can get her a bubble. I'm seriously, I'm serious. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: bubble boy, get her a freaking bubble. Blow up bubble,

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Speaker 1: from her cupboard. I rang her up to inform her.

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Speaker 1: I think it's best if she did not attend.

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Speaker 4: That's a big, big decision to ask.

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Speaker 1: Tell your mom, Like, well, question for chatting for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Would you tell your mom to not attend to it?

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Speaker 3: No pull it?

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Speaker 2: What would you do?

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Speaker 4: I would just say, hey, Mom, like, I love you

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Speaker 4: so much and I totally understand where you're coming from,

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Speaker 4: but like, this is my wedding, and I want it

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Speaker 4: So if you'd like to be there, we need another solution,

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Speaker 4: but this is how I'm doing it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think I would say very well said. I think

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Speaker 4: And I'm happy to have you sit separately. Whatever will

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Speaker 2: You can have the old little mom corner.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, mom corner. You can have a fountain, yeah, her

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Speaker 2: You can hit every light switch beforehand, yeah, and.

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Speaker 4: Then you can wipe them off like you can do

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Speaker 4: whatever you want to do. But this is how we're

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Speaker 1: Lady Jade Master says I'd suggest the bubble first. So

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Speaker 2: Mollie?

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Speaker 4: But you know, at the end of the day, this,

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Speaker 4: the basis of most Angie, says Angim. The basis of

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of parents make their kids' weddings

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Speaker 3: They don't think anything about whoever having the wedding, which

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Speaker 4: But also it's like this is such a weird situation,

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Speaker 3: It's unreasonable, Like come on, come on mom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the recap, guys.

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Speaker 2: Great recap. Yeah, I love that. I'm gonna get one

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Speaker 2: more chip because can.

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Speaker 3: I have a chip?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Can I have a chip?

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Speaker 4: Oh? These are good.

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Speaker 2: They're so good to my no free sponsor. These are

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Speaker 2: my favorite chips.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, these are good.

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Speaker 2: There ready one, two, three, mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go buy these.

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Speaker 2: The best, the best snack I've ever had is these. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: really good? All right, right, really really good.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmmm. Have the O G flavor of those, but

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Speaker 1: I think the buffalo is like my favorite. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Risten boil Hot.

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Speaker 3: Well, all right, let's in to the sorry.

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Speaker 2: All right, never get sponders.

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Speaker 3: Get your get your last crunch in.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, we got another thirty minutes let's go.

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Speaker 3: All right, hold on, get one more crunching in the.

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Speaker 2: Prince, Sam, you have dick hands. We didn't hear water.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Sam doesn't wash his hands.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What are you saying? I do wash my hands.

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Speaker 4: I've never seen you wash your hands.

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Speaker 2: You haven't been in the bathroom with me, that's true.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I washed my hands definitely after every poop.

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Speaker 4: Do most men not wash their hands after they pee?

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Speaker 2: I wash my hand. I usually wash my hands.

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Speaker 3: I washed my hands.

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Speaker 2: I usually wash my hands after my peep.

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Speaker 3: Why do you ask this but I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm scarious, Well because I'm not even like really, it's

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Speaker 4: It flops out?

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Speaker 3: Well, now we know how Sam peas?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Wait, did you just free handed?

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Speaker 2: I washed my hands. I washed my hands, and.

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Speaker 3: You're just like, all right, let's Jesus take the wheel,

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Speaker 2: I washed my hands.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, all right, chat chat is grilly Chad

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Speaker 2: I told you guys, I have no secrets. All right.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, Dick and Sam, somebody I did not want.

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Speaker 2: That too late. I did not want that to catch

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Speaker 2: on all right? Anyway? And the hole did we find

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Speaker 3: No? No, you had to go.

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Speaker 4: Flop, somebody wrote, I said a flip flop, I think

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Speaker 4: a whole.

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Speaker 2: I don't think.

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Speaker 4: You tried. You really had patience and you tried to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but let's see what happens.

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Speaker 3: Nice Sam just gave me the age.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, that kind of sounds like an old nineties like

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Speaker 1: And I don't watch my thing after I go like

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Speaker 1: a little man. I'll work shop it please work.

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Speaker 3: Or don't workshop?

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Speaker 4: Dick and Sam rock out with your flop out. This

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Speaker 4: is so good. Oh my god, this is.

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Speaker 2: My mom doesn't see that's all right, but you told her.

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Speaker 3: You had a threesome.

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Speaker 4: Bro, she can know that it flops out.

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Speaker 1: Hi everyone. Hopefully you have seen my original post. You

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Speaker 1: those who wanted it. The wedding was yesterday. I absolutely

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Speaker 1: had the best time of my life. We love to

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Speaker 1: did you watch them three times?

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Speaker 4: Not?

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Speaker 2: Watch them three times?

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I took people's advice and I told my friends,

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Speaker 2: Host for her watch.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's so nice.

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Speaker 1: She left this on redo. She never attended the call.

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Speaker 1: We noticed six to seven people had canceled last minute,

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Speaker 4: I mean, sure, some people are good aside with mom

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Speaker 4: if their mom's friends, but like, at the end of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's that is a lot to ask. And

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Speaker 2: also do we even do.

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Speaker 4: Chips are now dig flavor?

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Speaker 3: Thanks Ming ming.

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Speaker 2: Ing Ming good. I was like, you know, I fed

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Speaker 3: And I had I didn't stutter, I opened mouth and

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Speaker 4: Hey, I'm sorry, guys.

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Speaker 2: We've all been in proximity to them, you know.

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Speaker 4: So we yeah, praise the Lord all right.

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Speaker 1: Now going back to the story, So how I treated

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some said fish and chips.

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Speaker 4: Due, but I explained, I God, I'm so sorry, guys,

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Speaker 1: I felt extremely guilty, but I explained my side of

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Speaker 3: So rude sucks.

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Speaker 2: I hate those.

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Speaker 1: During the night, I sent her photos of which people

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Speaker 1: I sent her foot During the night, I sent her

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Speaker 1: I took of little family photos and meal the altar

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Speaker 1: walking down the aisle, a photo of Wesley crying when

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Speaker 2: On red too.

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Speaker 4: Is she leaving on red or does mom not know

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Speaker 4: how to use her I think technology she knows.

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Speaker 2: I think she knows.

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Speaker 3: That's so wild, so whack, so wold.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine missing all of your daughter's wedding because

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Speaker 1: the feet and the dicks definitely yours.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Sorry, guys, I'm on one. I really

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Speaker 4: just don't know why they could have couldn't have had it?

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Speaker 3: There's too much talk of dick.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, Mom, mom is. Mom is on one. Mom

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Speaker 4: so nice if we could have just put her. Why

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Speaker 4: twenty feet away from everybody? I don't get it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't get it. But you know what, Mom is clearly.

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Speaker 1: Hurt and also she's I mean, she's not in the

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Speaker 1: right right. So highlight of my night was my dad

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Speaker 1: But he checked what was in the box.

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Speaker 2: What we know what it is. We know what it is.

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Speaker 4: It's dove soap.

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Speaker 2: It's got to be dove so But he checked was

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: No sponsors, no free sponsors. He just left it at home.

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Speaker 1: Made a chuckle. A little after the wedding, Mean Wesley

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Speaker 2: A quote. She posted, Oh my gosh, I've attached it.

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Speaker 2: Wait where is it? I want to see it.

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Speaker 4: I want to see it too.

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Speaker 1: Then when I go to check this Facebook post, I

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Speaker 1: see she has blocked me on Facebook so that I

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Speaker 1: couldn't even see her profile anymore. You play this daughter

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Speaker 1: was the final straw, so I texted her a long

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Speaker 1: paragraph basically saying how I love her, but she needs

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Speaker 1: retracted the invite as I was looking out for her

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Speaker 4: And someone said that in the chat how her OCD

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Speaker 4: which I didn't even think about.

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Speaker 1: So Additionally, I said, whether she realized it or not,

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Speaker 1: have to be like this. I also said, it's now

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Speaker 1: because I can't force her to improve her own mentality.

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Speaker 1: She has left this on red too. By the way,

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Speaker 1: you can not leave us on red by joining our

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Speaker 1: lives every weekday a three PMPSC.

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Speaker 2: There's part of this story. Don't you worry. There's an update.

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Speaker 4: We also hit five hundred legs.

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Speaker 2: Juice Squeeze.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna spend that wheel in a second, y'all. But

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Speaker 1: this situation has been taken way too far. But I

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Speaker 1: can't and will not enable and feed into her compulsions

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Speaker 1: and sessions anymore. I love her, but I can't take

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Speaker 1: this behavior anymore. Thank you for your support. I am

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Speaker 1: very grateful for you all. I have a great wedding

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Speaker 1: and felt like a princess.

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 1: They're so sweet, good, thank you, And that's the end

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Speaker 4: I am so glad that op is strong enough to

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Speaker 4: like make it through something like this and had a

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Speaker 4: great wedding. And I'm so sorry that you and your

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Speaker 1: Eventually get Yeah, I mean, it just seems like she

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Speaker 1: it's it seems like it's gotten more and more out

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Speaker 1: of control over time, and and what needs to happen

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Speaker 1: is just some professional help. And maybe OK can be

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Speaker 4: Help, you know, Oh my gosh, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 4: know what I do if like my parents, I mean,

450
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Speaker 4: my parents need help, but I don't know if they

451
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Speaker 4: need that much.

452
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Speaker 2: Like that's a lot of Eventually all of our parents are,

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Speaker 2: but especially with.

454
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Speaker 4: A wedding, like I just I would hate for one

455
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Speaker 4: of my parents to not not be there, be there,

456
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Speaker 4: and I hope both of them can be. But like, yeah,

457
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Speaker 4: that's wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but we got more donos to read, we got

459
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Speaker 2: more stories.

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Speaker 3: Let's get five hundred likes. Guys, We're going crazy here.

461
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Speaker 2: Okay, should we do?

462
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Speaker 4: Can we.

463
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Speaker 3: Use this little Sam's room? Molly, you want to spend it?

464
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Speaker 3: Because I have to use a little SAMs little.

465
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Speaker 2: SAMs room, the dick hands room. Can you pass me

466
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Speaker 2: those chips by the way, big dog Dick.

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Speaker 4: Toobs, I want to chip chips. I want another chip.

468
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Speaker 2: I forgot I Yeah, all right, spin that wheel?

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Speaker 3: Okay they go Madam and chip? Oh no, so the

470
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Speaker 3: chip will go crazy for that. It's just still my

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Speaker 3: first week. I gotta let them. We're gonna we can't

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Speaker 3: just go into this. We gotta get we got them in.

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Speaker 4: What do it again?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? All right? Fifteen more minutes. No, they love fifteen

475
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 2: more minutes. That's exactly what they want.

476
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Speaker 4: Those are some good chips. This is my payment for

477
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Speaker 4: your Dickens. Thank you.

478
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 2: I haven't been absolved of dickens.

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Speaker 1: H Also, Molly, there's a secret that I haven't told you,

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Speaker 1: but I can't until Sunday.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys just hear that I have to wait

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Speaker 4: until Sunday? Why cool? Can I have a clue? Oh?

483
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Speaker 2: Mother, But you'll know when you hear.

484
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Speaker 4: It has to do with the pod.

485
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 2: The chips are so good, all right.

486
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Speaker 4: They have an extra like fun flavor today.

487
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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is, but it's buffalo.

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Speaker 4: No, I meant it the flippy flops pregnant. Okay, there's

489
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Speaker 4: a surprise, a secret. I can't tell you no more,

490
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Speaker 4: but you're gonna tell me Sunday.

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Speaker 2: You'll know Saturday. Yeah, fifty more minutes.

492
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Speaker 4: Is everybody going to know?

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00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: No, this is just a secret. I'm not invited, this

494
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 2: is this is a this is just a secret between

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Speaker 2: Bolly and Stamp.

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Speaker 3: That was a note.

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Speaker 4: Okay, thank you, and I'll know on Saturday or maybe

498
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Speaker 4: something aren't or like, are you on someone's podcast? That's

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Speaker 4: not it?

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00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 2: I'll tell you.

501
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god, guys, I don't like waiting for things.

502
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 2: I want you to text me when you find out.

503
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 4: Does it have to do with this person that we

504
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Speaker 4: builth have in common? Oh?

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00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 2: Sure?

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00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:57,719
Speaker 4: Oh Sam, you have a clue. Where am I supposed

507
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 4: to be looking?

508
00:25:58,840 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: You'll know?

509
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 4: No where am I spposed to be looking? You'll know

510
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 4: someone's going to text me.

511
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 2: You'll just know.

512
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 4: How will I know? How will I know?

513
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: You'll just know?

514
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 4: Do you?

515
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: Guys?

516
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 4: See how cryptic this is and how frustrating this is?

517
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: Hello?

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00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god?

519
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 3: Whatever, let's read some donuts.

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00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 2: Oh do you want to read?

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00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 3: Do right?

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00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 2: Oh?

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00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see when do YouTube first?

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00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 4: Oh god, I can't read. That came in a little bit.

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00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 3: You need bigger.

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00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 4: I'm blind.

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00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's big enough.

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00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 4: Right, that's big.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'll make it bigger.

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00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: That's big. That's as big as a god.

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Speaker 4: Really, that's big.

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00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 2: Damn it.

533
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Speaker 4: Okay, that's big.

534
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: Oh that's big.

535
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 4: That's big.

536
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 3: Okay. What every woman wants to say, apparently not to

537
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 3: Sam's friend, is like, that's too big.

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Where am I starting from the bottom? He he may.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for the ten dollars you rule, Uh christin

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Speaker 4: foil Hat, thank you for the ten okay Storytime memberships,

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Speaker 4: so wheat Amy another five dollars, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Elizabeth A. Wenger, Welcome tonight, wo Amy, another ten dollars, Amy,

544
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Speaker 4: thank you.

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00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 3: Give that pear fly.

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Speaker 4: At five two point zero. Thanks right, addie, Addie remember

547
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 4: for a month, just wanted to take a moment to

548
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Speaker 4: say how much I love Okay, Storytime, fam you are

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Speaker 4: all freaking American you Uh she Senaa Sanna Shiana, Sheena Jagger.

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00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 4: Welcome to nights. Uh Burr is cold in here? Welcome

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Speaker 4: to night.

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Speaker 3: I think that's it for now. Yeah, and let's check

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Speaker 3: the other one.

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00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 4: Okay, Now we got some donos on the donation link.

555
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: Oh, it's gonna be a lot of sam.

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00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 4: Okay, miss Puff, thank you for five dollars. First week

557
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 4: as a member and first time donor. Actually cackling at

558
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 4: Dick and Sam. Me too, Dick Han Sam shirts. Yeah

559
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,479
Speaker 4: with some chips. Uh. Then we got a donor from

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Speaker 4: Grandma's got a potty mouth for twenty five dollars.

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00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 3: Thank you, Thank you, Grandma.

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00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: Name changes from pigeon Lord to Dick Hands.

563
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 3: I will be so upset you've done that yourself.

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Speaker 4: That's what you get, uh, JP, thank you for the

565
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 4: five dollars. I finally caught a stream and you guys

566
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 4: literally just brought me back the laughs and smiles. I

567
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 4: needed to hear it. I didn't want to be on

568
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 4: this planet anymore. Tonight was the last straw, but you

569
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 4: guys brought me back. Thank you, I mean it, JP,

570
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 4: Thank you for being here. You matter, You're important and

571
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 4: we appreciate you, and thank you for being here.

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00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 3: Umm.

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Speaker 4: I got dono from Buckethead for five dollars. I know

574
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 4: she's not an official part of the team yet, but

575
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 4: she's my fave. Okay, what's her favorite color? So I

576
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 4: can make her a gift while I'm making one for

577
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 4: everyone else. First of all, thank you buck Ahead, You're

578
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 4: very sweet. I love blue any I mean turquoise and

579
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 4: like a baby blue. Those two are my faith. Why

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00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 4: you love it? Dick An Sam. We got another DONU

581
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 4: from Brook Schultz for fifty dollars. Thank you for keeping

582
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 4: me entertained while I do laundry and cook dinner. Shout

583
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 4: out you for doing laundry and cooking dinner. Got donut

584
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 4: from Anonymous for five dollars. Thank you, Anonymous, and don'n

585
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 4: know from Emmy for ten dollars. Thanks for providing me

586
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 4: laughs and making the end of my workday survivable. Thank

587
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 4: you for tuning in.

588
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 3: We love you, Uh see the chat right now?

589
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god? From Limited TV Junkie for five dollars.

590
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 4: First time donator. Love the streams, Thank you, we.

591
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 2: Read these well.

592
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 4: Thank you guys, and thank you for thank you. Chato.

593
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 4: Sam's being weird sucking his fingers.

594
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 3: It looks so weird when you're doing it like that.

595
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: Really wants the buffalo.

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00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 2: I don't want to do what.

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00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 4: You were like sucking them so hardcore, not even like

598
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 4: a nice little you know, like the light.

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00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 2: Ah, I wanted to squeeze every.

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00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 3: Okay, we also have King a Doodle. Started watching your

602
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 3: streams while I was preggers. Oh, been difficult catching the

603
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 3: lives since going back. But I'm trying. We appreciate you.

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00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 4: Trying appreciate you, King a doodle, King a doodle.

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00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 3: King a doodle.

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00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 4: All Right, we're good.

607
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 3: Uh you got it? Yeah, yep off.

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00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: So sorry, Brand says he's sucking.

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00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 4: Someone said he.

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Speaker 3: Does get this chat is on fire right now.

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00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, guys, I haven't gotten pack.

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00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 3: Yeah what is that segue? There's zero segue into that.

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00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 3: Someone asked you, all right, I never be I thought you,

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00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've had a finger.

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00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 4: That's not the same.

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Speaker 2: No, then I have not who hasn't had a finger.

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Speaker 4: Proud of you forgetting a finger though, Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Thanks? Okay, just one?

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Speaker 3: How many of you?

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Speaker 2: Huh?

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Speaker 3: You go first?

622
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 2: Right? Probably like at least two, what I mean, at

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Speaker 2: least to at least two.

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Speaker 3: I think I've had too. I think I think I

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00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 3: think no, I've had to yeah, at least.

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Speaker 2: Two separate or two? What's all right, all right, we

627
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 2: gotta get.

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Speaker 4: Back to I don't know what they're doing. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

630
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, y'all think Sam was crazy? Oh dude, now

631
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 3: I'm part of the stream. Now I'm gonna go real crazy.

632
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 3: He was so so much boor it makes Sam look

633
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 3: like an angel.

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00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 2: Yeah dude, yeah, I'm a virgin.

635
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 3: I'm kidding.

636
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 4: He's not kidding. Okay, hi mom, oh man, Okay, let's

637
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 4: get into this.

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00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 3: Oh man, look, chat is going crazy right now.

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00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 4: Okay, this is a little wild.

640
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: Let's go.

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00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 3: Oh all right, I don't someone said I'm taking notes.

642
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 4: All right, here we go, guys, this is what you

643
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 4: really want. I don't care how nice my father's new

644
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 4: girlfriend is. She'll never be welcome in my home.

645
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, get her away, but she's nice. I don't care.

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00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, alright, my house, my rules.

647
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 4: All right. Now, let's let's look at this age difference.

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Speaker 4: My thirty three female father.

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00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 3: No, she's thirty three she yeah, my, I know, thirty

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00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: three female father saxeties.

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Speaker 1: Also, I love how she says father sixties. Isn't like

652
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Speaker 1: she doesn't know? Yeah, that's like sixty.

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Speaker 4: I thought at some point we forget how old our

654
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Speaker 4: parents are I do the math? Yeah, yeah, all right.

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Speaker 4: My thirty three female father sixties can't keep a girlfriend

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00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 4: for long. My mom divorced him when I was a child,

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Speaker 4: and since then he's had no interest in remarrying and

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00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 4: settling down. He's on the prow today. His relationships don't

659
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Speaker 4: tend to last much longer than a year. By the way,

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Speaker 4: this comes from quick Potato twenty eight ten on the

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Speaker 4: Okay Storytime so Breddit. So I'm married with two kids,

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Speaker 4: eight male and four female. Because I don't want them

663
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Speaker 4: to get attached to a new step grandma every few months,

664
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Speaker 4: I've laid some ground rules when my son was born.

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Speaker 4: My father wasn't allowed to introduce any new girlfriends to

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Speaker 4: them until six months into the relationship. I think that's

667
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 4: totally normal. That's totally totally Yeah. For most of my kids' lives,

668
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 4: we had no problems with that. Then came my father's

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Speaker 4: girlfriend from twenty twenty two, who was an absolute nightmare

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Speaker 4: of a person. My kids only met her once, but

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Speaker 4: it was enough for me to consider her unsafe to

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Speaker 4: be around my family. Wow, that's sad. That's wild. Though

673
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Speaker 4: they later broke up, my father initially tried to justify

674
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 4: her behavior. Because of that whole affair, I changed the rule.

675
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 4: You'd have to wait a year instead of six months

676
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 4: before introducing new girlfriends. And I think that makes sense.

677
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I mean he's already shown that he

678
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: can't be trusted at six months.

679
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, why was he with her great crazy in

680
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: the sack?

681
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 4: She was hot? Yeah.

682
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 5: If you tried to do so before that, she'd never

683
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 5: be allowed to come to my place. He protested at first,

684
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 5: because most of his relationships don't last that long. But

685
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 5: I held my ground and he eventually agreed. He was

686
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 5: with another woman for nine months last year, and my

687
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 5: children never met her. My father has been with his

688
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 5: newest girlfriend for six months. I've never really met her

689
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 5: because she lives an hour away. She is apparently kid

690
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 5: obsessed and has been asking him to meet his grandkids

691
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:09,399
Speaker 5: for a while.

692
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 2: How old is she? U?

693
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: Thirty three?

694
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 3: No?

695
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: No, no, I'm wondering how old people he's dating are.

696
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 1: I'm probably on the same age. What do you think

697
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: he's dating? Like forty year old?

698
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 4: He's never had much luck with dating. It sounds so

699
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 4: I'm thinking he doesn't pull the the younger.

700
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: What if he's had if he's having all, but he's

701
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 1: just never had much luck with much love with much

702
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: much much luck with dating long.

703
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 2: But maybe it's like he's fine in the short stuff.

704
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 4: I don't know that would be interesting. So this woman

705
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 4: is is kid obsessed and has been asking him to

706
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 4: meet his grandkids for a while. He's tried to convince

707
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 4: me to make an exception for her for a few months.

708
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 3: But I'm always sorry. It seems like the chat saying

709
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 3: we read the story already. Oh, I'm gonna check one second.

710
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 3: Just stay beautiful, you two be Actually I don't know.

711
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna check right now because people are saying.

712
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: People people are saying, we've read a lot of stories,

713
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: uh recently, But I think maybe it just sounds similar.

714
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 3: I could. I'm gonna check right now, But how about

715
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 3: in the In.

716
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 2: The meantime, just keep reading. If we did, we'll change it.

717
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 4: So oh, he says, he's tried to convince me to

718
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 4: make an exception for her for a few months, but

719
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 4: I always say no and remind him of my rules.

720
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,879
Speaker 4: My daughter is turning four this week, and we threw

721
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 4: her a birthday party yesterday. It took place at an

722
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 4: event space our building has. My father showed up an

723
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 4: hour late with his new girlfriend.

724
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: He's breaking the rules.

725
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:43,240
Speaker 4: You're breaking the little breaking the I'd be pissed.

726
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 3: I'd be pissed.

727
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 4: Is my daughter's birthday. Don't do that.

728
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not a place for new girlfriends.

729
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 4: No, exactly. I approached them to ask what he was doing.

730
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 4: He said that his girlfriend was excited to meet my kids,

731
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 4: and he thought the birthday party would be a good

732
00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 4: place to introduce them because they'd been together for half year.

733
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 4: He didn't think it would be such a big deal.

734
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: It's only a good place to introduce if the person

735
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: who is throwing the party wants that person there exactly,

736
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: which you did not.

737
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 4: Ask for exactly. And I don't think that's the right

738
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 4: place for a first meeting.

739
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 2: No, not at all.

740
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 4: I told them the girlfriend had to leave before my

741
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 4: kids saw her. My dad tried to give other excuses,

742
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 4: such as the fact that my stepdad, who's been with

743
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 4: my mom for more than twenty years, was there and

744
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 4: said that if she left, so would he. I told

745
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 4: him to be my guest, and they both left. Earlier today,

746
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 4: my father called me. He told me he told me

747
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,439
Speaker 4: off for kicking them out of the party. He said

748
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 4: my rules were too restrictive and his girlfriend was a

749
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 4: lovely person who deserved to meet my kids.

750
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure if she's lovely after a year, then

751
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 2: maybe she.

752
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 4: Can't exactly exactly, I told him that not only do

753
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 4: I not care how nice she is, but I'll also

754
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 4: never welcome her at my home after the stunt he pulled,

755
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 4: she can meet my kids after the twelve month mark,

756
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 4: but not at my place. We fought for a while

757
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 4: before he hung up on me. Kind of aggressive to

758
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 4: be like, she's never welcome in my home.

759
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that's a little bit too much.

760
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: But also we don't have the context of him doing

761
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: this for like twenty years, you know, like he's he's

762
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: been pulling this crap for ages, and I imagine it's

763
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: just like I'm sick of it. Yeah, I'm sick of it,

764
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: And like, I like, you already endangered my kids once

765
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna let you do that again. So

766
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 1: I like, I under I understand where it's coming from.

767
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 1: But I feel like if I'm just looking at this

768
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: isolated incident, yeah, it does feel like a but much,

769
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: but maybe when you put it in context, like like

770
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: like I understand a little bit more.

771
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 4: I guess.

772
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 3: I guess we are. We are good too, by the way, guys.

773
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 4: We're good.

774
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 3: We're good.

775
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 4: My husband and my sister, who's staying with us for

776
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 4: a few days, witness most of the fight. My husband

777
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 4: is on my side, but my sister thinks I'm being

778
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 4: needlessly cruel to a woman i've never met. Am I

779
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 4: the a hole? And we do have some relevant comments.

780
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: I feel like you wanted to be the angel.

781
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: You just keep your twelve month rule and say like, hey, like,

782
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to meet her before that because of

783
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: how you've acted with these previous relationships. And I want

784
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: to make sure my kids aren't getting attached to someone

785
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: that's just going to leave them. But after twelve months,

786
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: so yes, like you can come to my house.

787
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll have a dinner, We'll have her over, you know.

788
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and let's be intentional about it. I don't want

789
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: her just showing up.

790
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 4: I wanted to be an inal meeting exactly, all right.

791
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 4: Relevant comments? Did girlfriend know your rule or did your

792
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 4: dad put her into that situation unaware? I think she

793
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 4: did not know, Opie says, I think she knew. Oh,

794
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 4: my father started asking me to let him introduce her

795
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 4: to them four months into the relationship. Either he told

796
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 4: her or he came up with excuses for two months

797
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 4: on why the girlfriend couldn't be introduced as grandpa's friend.

798
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 4: I tried that a while ago. I think my son

799
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 4: was four at the time, and I was pregnant, and

800
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 4: that particular girl kind of ruined it by kissing my

801
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 4: father in front of my son, my old grandpa's fan

802
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 4: kissing I'm on the mouth.

803
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 3: You know why you do such a good voice of that,

804
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 3: a little baby child voice. Oh my god, why are

805
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 3: you weird enough by that baby voice? You have dick hands. Okay,

806
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 3: you can't just throw me under the buzz You threw

807
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:24,479
Speaker 3: yourself under the bus.

808
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 2: You really did.

809
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:28,919
Speaker 4: H kids are going through a lot in life, still

810
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 4: processing the world. You're doing your best to protect them

811
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 4: from a never ending revolving door of grandfather's girlfriends. That's

812
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 4: always my greatest concern, he says. I grew up with

813
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 4: that revolving door, and it's always been clear how much

814
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 4: it affected me and my sister. I don't want my

815
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,320
Speaker 4: kids to know what that lack of consistency is like.

816
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 4: That's interesting. Uh, they may have married parents, but they

817
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,919
Speaker 4: also have a step grandpa, a grandfather who passed away

818
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 4: before they were even projects, my father in law, and

819
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 4: a grandmother who lives in a different state my mother

820
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 4: in law. Post is deleted by the mods before a

821
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 4: verdict is reached, but most comments voted not the A hole.

822
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 4: I don't know why. I just read it like that.

823
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: Okay, moving on, and I think generally i'd agree it's

824
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: not the A hole. You put a boundary up and

825
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: that person disrespectful.

826
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:21,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, so absolutely, in like the worst way. All right,

827
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,439
Speaker 4: let's see, we have we have an edit. Uh hey, guys,

828
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 4: am I The A hole de leaded my post two

829
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 4: days ago because of their rule about mentioning violence.

830
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 2: What violence?

831
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 3: What violence?

832
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: I didn't hear any violence.

833
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 4: I messaged the mods and told them I didn't make

834
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 4: any mentions of that at any point, and their response

835
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 4: was that threads that mentioned violence tend to lead to

836
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 4: violent comments. Honestly, it's fine. I do think it's unfair,

837
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 4: but I understand where they're coming from. I'm reposting here

838
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 4: because my father and I are still fighting about what happened,

839
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 4: and I do intend to update you at some point,

840
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 4: and we have an edit.

841
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:54,880
Speaker 2: Okay.

842
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 4: I couldn't say what the woman my father dated in

843
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,479
Speaker 4: twenty twenty two did that made me change the rule

844
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 4: on it? Am I the a hole? So I'll add

845
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 4: an explanation here. On our first meeting with her, the

846
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 4: girlfriend slapped my then two year old daughter because she

847
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 4: spilled a cup of juice on her. Oh my god,

848
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 4: her white dress. She slapped her two year old. I'm dude,

849
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 4: I was shocked by this.

850
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 2: That changes everything. That's changes everything.

851
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 4: That trauma.

852
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

853
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 4: I would never trust any of the girlfriend that I know.

854
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 2: Waiting a year is is is like the least I know.

855
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 4: Like violence is never okay, But to a child, to.

856
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 2: Your child, oh my god, I would be throwing hands.

857
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 3: You said.

858
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 2: We both.

859
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 3: Took literally both of us like looked up like do

860
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 3: I make the joke? Man? Good? Good stuff? Okay, all right,

861
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: back to serious, Back to serious.

862
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 4: We were across the room and weren't able to stop her.

863
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 2: Feel about with child abuse, okay.

864
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,479
Speaker 4: Okay, So we have a terrible incident where the ex

865
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 4: slaps the two year old daughter. We were across the

866
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 4: room and weren't able to stop her.

867
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 3: Stop.

868
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 4: We weren't able to stop her until it was too late,

869
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 4: and when we confronted her, the excuse was that the

870
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 4: dress was new and expensive that the kids spilled the

871
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 4: juice on. She refused to apologize. My daughter doesn't remember it,

872
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 4: but my son witnessed the whole thing. My father only

873
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 4: defended her when we kicked her out. He broke up

874
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 4: with her the next day and apologized profusely. Okay, that's good.

875
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good. I feel like that's so does that

876
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,359
Speaker 1: put them back into the good graces with the dad?

877
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 4: Still skip and you're still like, I'm moving this from

878
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 4: six months to a year, But like, thank you dad

879
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 4: for respecting the family and knowing that that is not okay,

880
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 4: because if he had stayed with her, then it's like no,

881
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 4: then you can never.

882
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: Be around it. Yeah. Yeah, but I think that was

883
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,399
Speaker 2: a good move on the dad's part.

884
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, it took us. I'm eleven, and uh, it took

885
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 4: us a few months and a lot of talking things

886
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 4: through to let him near our kids after that, and

887
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 4: then we have another update eight days later. Hey, everyone,

888
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 4: I posted on him I the a hohole about a

889
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 4: week ago and it got deleted, but I reposted it

890
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 4: on my page. I've mostly solved the situation. Since then,

891
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 4: there's some things I think I should clarify about my

892
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 4: relationship with my father first, So this might get long.

893
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: I can't stop looking at the chat Sam.

894
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 3: What did they say? Don't worry about it, don't worry

895
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 3: about the emoji?

896
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 4: Okay, someone changed their username to dig him?

897
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 2: They did no.

898
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 4: End? Okay. I can't be I can't be the first

899
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 4: to say this, but redd it is by no means

900
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 4: a place to accurately describe any type of relationship in

901
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 4: full detail, specially a familial one. So those who said

902
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 4: I don't like my father or don't approve of his

903
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 4: lifestyle are jumping to conclusions. I love my father very

904
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 4: much and I'm grateful for everything he's done for me.

905
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 4: But yeah, he's an at. He's an a hole.

906
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: I was too excited about yourself.

907
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 4: He is an at. He's an a hole. We've had

908
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 4: a rough relationship since I was a kid. It got

909
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 4: much better after I moved out, mostly because we both

910
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 4: realized we wouldn't have any relationship whatsoever if we didn't

911
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 4: make efforts to change. And as much as my father

912
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 4: has become a better person, he still has some extremely

913
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 4: narcissistic tendencies that make themselves obvious every now and then.

914
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 4: The one that that's the most relevant in this situation

915
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 4: is the fact that he is terrible with boundaries. I

916
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 4: came up with a metaphor in the comments on my

917
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 4: previous post that I think illustrates this. He wants a door,

918
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 4: I give him a window instead. He said, he's fine

919
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 4: with the window, and next thing I know, he's throwing

920
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 4: rocks at the window until it's big enough to be

921
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 4: a door. Not the best metaphor I've ever written, but

922
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 4: I think it applies. I like it too, and he

923
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 4: gets his way no matter what, essentially right. And I

924
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 4: want to add that one of the main reasons our

925
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 4: relationship was so rocky when I was younger was because

926
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 4: I had no means of restoring the window. Now that

927
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,680
Speaker 4: we don't live together and I pay my own bills,

928
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 4: it's gotten easier to stop him from throwing the rocks

929
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 4: or not give him windows in the first place. On

930
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 4: that note, my father is a pretty hands on grandfather.

931
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 4: We only see him. We only see him once, Samuel inappropriate,

932
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 4: we only see him once a month, but he facetimes

933
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 4: me frequently and the kids love him so Introducing new

934
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 4: girlfriends as Grandpa's friends, as many suggested, wouldn't work. We

935
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 4: tried it once and they blew their cover in less

936
00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 4: than an hour. Also, it's not that I don't of

937
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 4: my father's lifestyle. I simply don't care. I'm thirty three

938
00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 4: years old, I have a job, a husband, and two children,

939
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 4: and my father's dating habits are neither my business nor

940
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 4: my concern. He can date anyone he wants for as

941
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 4: long as he wants, as long as everyone is over

942
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 4: eighteen and not a complete monster. I'm glad that we

943
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 4: have those two requirements. What I do care about is

944
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 4: how this affects my children. I've been dealing with my

945
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 4: father's revolving doors since I was ten. There's a lot

946
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 4: of trauma here.

947
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 2: Obviously, that's so, that's so much to deal with.

948
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 4: That's a lot. Obviously you're gonna be protective because you

949
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 4: don't want the cycle to continue. Back then, his relationships

950
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 4: tended to last at least two years, but it still

951
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 4: took a toll on both me and my younger sister.

952
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 2: Why has it gone down? Like I thought you would

953
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:46,759
Speaker 2: get better at this?

954
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 4: No, No, maybe he's just like I can't. I'm getting older.

955
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 4: I can't can't deal with this six months whatever. You know,

956
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 4: the first woman my father dated after the divorce was

957
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 4: insane and ruined my childhood. The next one was amazing

958
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 4: but didn't stick around for long. The following one was unpleasant.

959
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 4: The list goes on. I don't want my children to

960
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 4: go through this lack of stability. I'm carrying that baggage.

961
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 4: They don't need to know how heavy it is. Oh bars,

962
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 4: day bar.

963
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 2: That is a bar bar.

964
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 4: The last thing I want to add here is that

965
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 4: my father has another major problem. He's obsessed with both

966
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 4: pleasing everyone and the idea that I have to please everyone.

967
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 4: That almost ruined our relationship completely when I was younger,

968
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 4: and sadly he hasn't really let go of that yet.

969
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 4: The former is why he defended his twenty twenty two girlfriend,

970
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 4: the one who you know slapped the kid, and the

971
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 4: latter is the reason he was so pissed at me

972
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 4: for banning his new girlfriend after the party fiasco. And

973
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 4: now we have an actual update.

974
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: OHP says, okay, so so we're gonna see actually because

975
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 1: that was all just context. Yes, okay, so a lot

976
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,240
Speaker 1: of context, but honestly necessary. I feel like I understand.

977
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,399
Speaker 1: Like we were talking a little bit before about how

978
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: all right, if this was an isolated incident, might seem

979
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: like too much, But now that we know the context,

980
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: I feel it's like, no, this is exactly what.

981
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:08,919
Speaker 2: Needed to happen.

982
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,960
Speaker 4: Exactly. Yeah, Okay, the actual update, my father and I

983
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 4: had a minor fight over the phone about what happened

984
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:19,160
Speaker 4: at the party on Monday. Two days later, his new

985
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 4: girlfriend called me. She asked me why I'd banned her

986
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 4: from my home before even meeting her or introducing my children.

987
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 4: I told them to leave before the kids saw them.

988
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 4: I asked her if she knew about my twelve month rule.

989
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 4: Not only did she know, but she also insisted that

990
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 4: my father break the rule anyway. She said she was

991
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 4: great with kids and knew my children would love her,

992
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 4: so she thought it wouldn't be a big deal for

993
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 4: me to make an exception for her.

994
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 6: That is disrespectful. That is disrespectful. Well, because you saying

995
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 6: you know the you know their boundaries, and you're like,

996
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,959
Speaker 6: I don't care. I don't think that boundary makes sense.

997
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 6: Let me do yeah, cross it.

998
00:49:59,120 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

999
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 4: I came very close to hanging up on her when

1000
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 4: she said that the whole reason I even came to

1001
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 4: redd it was because I thought I was being unfair

1002
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 4: to her, But this made it clear to me that

1003
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 4: she was also in the wrong, and instead I decided

1004
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 4: to explain the twenty twenty two incident. She didn't know

1005
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 4: about it. When I was done, she said she understood

1006
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 4: why the rule was created and apologized for trying to

1007
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 4: break it. Well, we love and understanding.

1008
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 1: That feels like care envelopment. And I think it's like

1009
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: and I feel like if you don't know the context,

1010
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: you might be like, wait, this is stupid. Like I mean,

1011
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 1: I'm great with kids, Like why would this matter? But now,

1012
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: like when you hear the history, you're like, okay, that

1013
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: makes sense. There's been a revolving door of women. There

1014
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: was a literal like like there was hands put on

1015
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,399
Speaker 1: a child. Like that is like, that's not okay.

1016
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 4: Also terrible that Grandpa wouldn't say anything, that dad wouldn't.

1017
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it's his job to give contexts

1018
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: in that situation, and for him not to do that

1019
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: is not fair to Opee.

1020
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 4: I know you want to meet the grandkids, but we

1021
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 4: had something traumatic happen, and my daughter has this boundary.

1022
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: You know, probably doesn't want to say it because he's embarrassed. Embarrassed,

1023
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: emarrass because it also like it exposes him. He's exposes

1024
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: him for its choice string of like a lot of

1025
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: relationships that don't last that long, and it exposes him

1026
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: for choosing crappy.

1027
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 2: People to date.

1028
00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, very true, ugh Obi says. I called my father

1029
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 4: the next day. I told him about the chat I'd

1030
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 4: had with his girlfriend, and he confirmed everything good. He's

1031
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 4: not lying, that's it. He took her to the party

1032
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 4: because she wanted to go and he wanted to make

1033
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 4: her happy. We had a very long discussion that almost

1034
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 4: escalated into a fight. I reminded him of the reasons

1035
00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 4: my rule existed. The only one he truly deemed valid

1036
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 4: was the twenty twenty two incident, which he's still ashamed of.

1037
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 4: The discussion touched many other topics, but the main one

1038
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 4: was that my children are the priority. I told my

1039
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 4: father that my main concern is protecting them, and I

1040
00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 4: won't hesitate to cut anyone off, including family, if it

1041
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 4: means doing so. In the end, he agreed to deal

1042
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 4: with the consequences. His new girlfriend will be allowed to

1043
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 4: meet my kids at the twelve month mark. But she

1044
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 4: won't be welcome at my place. Wow, So like, oh,

1045
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 4: he's still standing on that.

1046
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think like maybe she'll change her

1047
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: change her mind at some point, but the father should

1048
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 1: not expect that. Oh but I could see like they

1049
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: you know, they start having a relationship with her, and

1050
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: then eventually she earns it back. Yeah, eventually she earns

1051
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: it back. But I don't think I don't think you

1052
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: should expect that or or or like push your way.

1053
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: Into that, you know.

1054
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but she won't be welcome in my place.

1055
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:43,959
Speaker 4: But if she tries to pull this stunt again, they'll

1056
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 4: both be cut off. But you know, when you won't

1057
00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:49,919
Speaker 4: be cut off from us. Every weekday at three pm,

1058
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 4: you can join us live on YouTube. Just tap our profile.

1059
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 4: Did you like that one?

1060
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 2: I did?

1061
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 4: Okay, great one, good one, Molly they you. We ended

1062
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 4: the call on a cold note, but he called me

1063
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 4: again on Friday. He apologized for everything and said I

1064
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 4: was a great mother. I can tell when he's being

1065
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 4: sincere at this point, so I accepted the apology. Okay, amazing.

1066
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 4: Knowing my family, I don't think there will be any

1067
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 4: problems with this for a while and if there are,

1068
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 4: I've got it covered. I think this will be my

1069
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 4: last post. Thank you for all the support and encouragement

1070
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 4: you've given me. There's some relevant comments. Do we want

1071
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 4: to read that this is on Op's impression of her

1072
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 4: father's girlfriend. To be honest, I don't think they'll make

1073
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 4: it to the twelve month mark. Not many of my

1074
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 4: father's relationships seem like they have a future. But I

1075
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 4: have a feeling she wants more than he would be

1076
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 4: interested in giving her. But it might just be that

1077
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,279
Speaker 4: I'm used to this happening. My father admitted that he

1078
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 4: gave her my number, but yeah, I don't want her

1079
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 4: near my children. A major reason I'm still fine with

1080
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 4: sticking to the twelvemonth thing is that I don't think

1081
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 4: they'll be together that long. Even if she does get

1082
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 4: to meet my kids, I'll keep her at arms lane.

1083
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 4: Some people say Op didn't have to to tell the

1084
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 4: girlfriend why the rule existed. The reason I told her.

1085
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: That was THISXTO. Yeah, good help. Yeah, the reason doesn't

1086
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: have to do anything, but I feel like.

1087
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 4: It was better to get on the same page right.

1088
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 4: The reason I told her that was the same reason

1089
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 4: I loosely explained my relationship with my father. Here, it's

1090
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 4: ridiculously easy for my story to get distorted. Yeah, take

1091
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 4: my Amida whole post as an example. I got accused

1092
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 4: of making a scene and throwing a tantrum. I told

1093
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,800
Speaker 4: them to leave before they even entered the event space,

1094
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 4: and I spoke quietly enough that none of the guests

1095
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 4: heard me punishing my father for his dating habits. Again,

1096
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 4: I'm thirty three. He can bang a dolphin for all

1097
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 4: I care what. It's kind of like, you know, we're grown.

1098
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 4: You can screw whatever you want to score.

1099
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 2: I think I would actually be pretty upset if my

1100
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 2: dad banged a dolphins.

1101
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 4: Well, I think you'd be arrested for that, would you

1102
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:57,439
Speaker 4: get I guess?

1103
00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1104
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 4: You know? Yeah that so I think it's illegal.

1105
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 2: Yeah what if a dolphin because like dolphin, dolphins screws you? Yeah,

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00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 2: like dolphins are very aggressive. They are. You know about

1107
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 2: those stories, right?

1108
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 3: I don't there are There are actually pretty crazy stories.

1109
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dolphins will We'll get after it.

1110
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 3: You up something up?

1111
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 4: Yeahre you know, traumatizing my children? What either cutting my

1112
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 4: dad off or desperately wanting to And at no point

1113
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 4: did any of the information give any indication of any

1114
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 4: of that. My point is that while I agree that

1115
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 4: the why doesn't matter in this situation, I don't want

1116
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 4: to leave out details that might help my case. Had

1117
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 4: I hung up on her without telling her why she

1118
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 4: was out of line, she would have continued to insist

1119
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 4: she wasn't on my relationship with my dad. Yeah, I

1120
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 4: was surprised at the amount of comments I got on

1121
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 4: in Iva Hole about how I clearly hated my father

1122
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 4: and despised his dating habits. Truth is not even what

1123
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 4: I wrote here is enough to describe our relationship. If

1124
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 4: I wrote a book about it, the first dozen paragraphs

1125
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 4: of this post would be the book report a student

1126
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:12,799
Speaker 4: would write for an English class, and that student would

1127
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 4: still get a B minus for not going into enough detail.

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00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 4: It's amusing to me that some people think they can

1129
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 4: understand someone's entire life based on a single Reddit post,

1130
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 4: and that's the bars my job, dude.

1131
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: People do go in on Reddit post, but yeah, that's

1132
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,239
Speaker 1: that's that, it is the platform, and that's what. Yeah,

1133
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: what is kind of bill for?

1134
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 3: Wow.

1135
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 4: Well, I'm glad that OPI and Dad were able to

1136
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 4: mend their relationship, and it seems like OPI is just

1137
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 4: very self aware yeah, the situation and of how they feel.

1138
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: And it was also making sure that her kids are

1139
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: first and safe and knows how like just how I

1140
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: don't know, flippant the dad has been with how he's

1141
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:59,800
Speaker 1: treated his relationships, how he's treated her children's safety. So

1142
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 1: I think we're actually in a better place at the

1143
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: end of the story than when we started, which is

1144
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: pretty cool. Yeah, we love that it's cooled growth, but

1145
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 1: that is the end of that story.

1146
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 2: We got any donus to read?

1147
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 3: We have some donuts.

1148
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's hit some phonos.

1149
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 3: Let me get that for you.

1150
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 2: Hit me with it. Thank you for becoming a member

1151
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 2: of the Nights. I appreciate you.

1152
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: Demonics demonics, demonics Elaine the main pain things for the

1153
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: two bucks got my best you hooked on? Okay, story time,

1154
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: Please tell all your friends, Please tell all your friends,

1155
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: and we want to spread the words.

1156
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 2: What I can't clap anymore? No, no, five bucks, I

1157
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 2: have a little Jude. We got more there.

1158
00:57:59,280 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 3: I think that's it.

1159
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 2: That's it cool. We already king a doodle.

1160
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: Then we got anything on the regular dono linknar No.

1161
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 3: Let me go ahead and get everything ready for the

1162
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 3: next episode. Yeah, because we're doing a new Mega next episode.

1163
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 3: We only have a minute and a half.

1164
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, a minute and a half.

1165
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 3: So what do you want to do.

1166
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: Well, let's let's get it out. We'll start it and

1167
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: we'll see cool. We did not get our fifteen minutes

1168
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: from last stream. I feel like you guys are always

1169
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 1: saying that.

1170
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 3: I was like, when you got your fifteen minutes from

1171
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 3: the wheel, So you don't don't.

1172
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: Do that to me.

1173
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1174
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're always trying to get always trying to get

1175
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: more time. Lisa Jeremy says, thank you so much to everyone.

1176
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: Ziggy Sam, there's a guy who had spicy sleep with

1177
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: a dolphin. It was the craziest thing I ever heard.

1178
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: He made a documentary about it. Yeah, this is I

1179
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 1: saw your comments about this. I don't know about a

1180
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 1: guy having spicially with the dolphin, but I did hear

1181
00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: about the woman who like was uh edging a dolphin

1182
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: to like get an emotional connection with it so it

1183
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 1: would like and they were studying the dolphin's brain with people. Well,

1184
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: it was a scientist.

1185
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 4: It was for science.

1186
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 2: It was a scientist science trying to figure it out. Yeah.

1187
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 1: Heleanna Bain says, I thought it was a woman I

1188
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 1: think it was or but maybe, I mean, there's maybe

1189
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: probably multiple people have done dolphin stuff. Amy said, guess

1190
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,920
Speaker 1: the energy isn't here tonight for a ten hour stream,

1191
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 1: Thank god, because.

1192
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 3: I can't keep showing my ass.

1193
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 2: I have plans. Uh Caro.

1194
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: Sam needs to make a handwatch matorial to dodge the

1195
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:42,600
Speaker 1: dick hands Sam allegations