WEBVTT - RHOP EXCLUSIVE: Mia Thornton Interview

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite

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<v Speaker 1>talking and tweeting about. Drops. On this episode of Reality

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<v Speaker 1>with the King, we are here with Royalty. We are

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<v Speaker 1>here with somebody that I am star struck over. And

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know I know all the girls, I love, all

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<v Speaker 1>the girls I have met everybody, honey, from Oprah to

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<v Speaker 1>Beyonce to Kim Kardashian West well now Kim Kardashian. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but tonight we have somebody who I love and has

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<v Speaker 1>so much affection for give it our rain Drops she's

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<v Speaker 1>finally here, the number one person besides Portia that y'all

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<v Speaker 1>have your requesting give it up for.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, be lying, hey Carlos, yes, finally, tuon.

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<v Speaker 1>Tu you are more beautiful and exquisite in person.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, babe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm obsessed with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your body's body and still a little you having a onesie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, it's an illusion.

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<v Speaker 1>You look good.

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<v Speaker 2>You look good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I had to look good for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and your feet don't look as bigg in person.

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<v Speaker 2>You are not that big at all. Okay, I'm tall.

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<v Speaker 1>How big is your feet?

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<v Speaker 2>Eleven? And I wear twelve? Okay, I have a measuring taste, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and look Andy said I had cute shoes, so okay,

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<v Speaker 2>measure my foot my toes o gave.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're gonna measure guys, okay, because people said with

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<v Speaker 1>Niko minasro big foot, it was about you, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>not somebody else. Okay, So look they're.

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<v Speaker 2>In eleven just I wear shoes according to so my

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<v Speaker 2>toes on be looking crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is how big you feet is?

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<v Speaker 2>Can im? I mean jump right on into.

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<v Speaker 1>It it now. Listen all jokes aside this Mia b

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<v Speaker 1>Lyon took off and it wasn't sheer fun?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well can we make sure that I'm not lying? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>What was my fust size?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Boom?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so yeah, Mia, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What feet what they say they got big sucks, they

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<v Speaker 2>got big socks.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's talk about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The rain drops have taken this mea be lying and

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<v Speaker 1>rent with it. But I want to ask you do

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<v Speaker 1>you have as much fun with it as we do?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's not in any negativity? And I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, of course, I mean honestly, I think it's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's in just like I don't take myself

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<v Speaker 2>too seriously sometimes, so I think it's cute. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I know the truth, and sometimes I'd be stretching the

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<v Speaker 2>truth sometimes, I mean. And that's like being honest and

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<v Speaker 2>authentic in that right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a view points. It's how I view thinks. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you know everybody doesn't have this mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the mea mindset. Yes, it's high in frequency.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, you know, and you know when it's good it

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<v Speaker 2>works for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Now listen, baby, everything works for you instead of me

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<v Speaker 1>and be lying we're gonna call you Mi a b stallion. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you are a stallion, And I want to ask you this,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ever think in a million years that you

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<v Speaker 1>would have emerged as one of the premier faces and

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<v Speaker 1>stars of the Real Housewives of Atomac Because to me,

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<v Speaker 1>when I first saw you on that show, and people

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<v Speaker 1>can go to my tweets, I said, ladies, jump to man,

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<v Speaker 1>they we have we are witnessing a breakout star. And

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<v Speaker 1>now it has come true. Yes, you are one of

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<v Speaker 1>the stars. And some people may say you are the star,

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<v Speaker 1>But how does it feel knowing that you're one of

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<v Speaker 1>the You're one of the premier faces of the franchise.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I honestly don't even know if I consider

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<v Speaker 2>my myself that right. Like, I just live my life

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<v Speaker 2>authentically who I am, and I'm reminded by people who

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<v Speaker 2>have known me my entire life. They're like, no, Mia,

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<v Speaker 2>you were you came out a star. You when you

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<v Speaker 2>came out of your mama's womb. We were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>the girl had a size one foot when she was moor,

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<v Speaker 2>All right, she's different. I left the hospital, which like

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan's on my feet, what swear? And so I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know, I'm different. You know I'm unique, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know that sometimes like that's just it's God given,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. I has no control over

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<v Speaker 2>who I am. So do I see myself that way?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I aspire to be that? No? I'm just being

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<v Speaker 2>myself and I'm evolving and I'm growing. And this experience

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<v Speaker 2>has definitely taught me a lot about myself because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's one thing to do things, but then when you

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<v Speaker 2>see yourself, and then you get other people's opinions, because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I've always been in spaces where people probably

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<v Speaker 2>felt a certain type of way, but theydn't dare say

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<v Speaker 2>it right, they want to keep their job, so I

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<v Speaker 2>mean biflex. But you know, so now I'm in a

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<v Speaker 2>space where it's like okay, all right, that's how you

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<v Speaker 2>feel cool, you know, all right? Cool? Like all right,

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<v Speaker 2>I can change that, I can amend to that. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I shouldn't be that much of a ass, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. And I think it's really been

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<v Speaker 2>humbling for me to be able to be in this

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<v Speaker 2>energy space, you know what I mean. I have some

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<v Speaker 2>really dope, amazing people in my life who have always

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<v Speaker 2>told me how amazing I am, and in this platform,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm now being put out there to be reminded that no,

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<v Speaker 2>you are human. We're all human. So and I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's good. It's been good for my soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Are some of the girls threatened by your newfound stardom?

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<v Speaker 1>Some of your castmates?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the girls, Well, No, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think so they should be. I'm never threatened by another

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<v Speaker 2>woman's success, and especially if it's somebody's on my team,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? So, I think that

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<v Speaker 2>they should be more so estatic because if one win,

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<v Speaker 2>we all win, right, That's how I that's my model.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know how they feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Karen, I hope not. Karen called you a dilapidated.

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<v Speaker 2>Stripper pull dancer, which I don't know nothing about a poll.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I did, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel about her calling you that?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Karen has a lot going on right now, And while

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<v Speaker 2>I really do want to say, you know, some really

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<v Speaker 2>not so nice things, but I'm going to give her grace,

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<v Speaker 2>right because what happens when you're going through something, When

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<v Speaker 2>you're going through something, you misery loves company, right, so

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<v Speaker 2>to be a dilapidated pole dancer, It's like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>you're not only coming for me, You're coming for a

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<v Speaker 2>whole community of women who are working their butts off

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<v Speaker 2>to get to their next level of life. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things that I always tell people, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard because you know, being an entertainer does have

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<v Speaker 2>its negative connotation, you know, because there's different types of clubs.

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<v Speaker 2>With a club that I worked at, there were girls

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<v Speaker 2>in there that are now doctors and lawyers and real

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<v Speaker 2>estate agents and have really made themselves a name for themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>And they, you know, have gotten married and have children

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<v Speaker 2>and they're so uber successful, probably far successful than some

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<v Speaker 2>of the girls that I know. Oh my, no shade,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just saying, like what they started in a

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<v Speaker 2>strip club, that's where they that was their marketing platform

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<v Speaker 2>to get in front of their customers. You know a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of girls were going to school to be real

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<v Speaker 2>estate agents and then selling homes to our customers, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. So you can't and I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to speak for them forever. So for Karen to say that,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, no, you just don't speak on something you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know nothing about and I want.

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<v Speaker 1>To clear something up because obviously you have admitted that, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you used to dance and when you met Gordon you

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<v Speaker 1>met him at the Strip Club. It did okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>interview your amazing boyfriend, Inc, who is fantastic, it was

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<v Speaker 1>also revealed, is great. He's very handsome. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>he gives me a cross between fors Whittaccur and his soul.

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<v Speaker 2>He's so he's anointed. He really is, like he really

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<v Speaker 2>it's something about him. It was like that in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>He's just getting even better with time, like fine wine.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love him so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I love him too. So when you were

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<v Speaker 1>living with Ink, though you were working at the Strip Club,

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<v Speaker 1>you met Gordon there. Ink did say that he found

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<v Speaker 1>out about Gordon because the car that Gordon bought for.

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<v Speaker 2>You the sign from my car he Gordon.

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<v Speaker 1>Co sign, the Gordon lead the down payment.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. We had to leave it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Gordon give you the money for the car?

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<v Speaker 2>No, Gordon co signed. I needed his credit.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't use the Ink's credit?

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<v Speaker 2>But why did I I feel like I just I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know why I didn't do it at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say, the Ink at that time didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have like a plus plus credit. I know that he had,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, his own cars, his own loans and things

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<v Speaker 2>like that that he had gone on when we were kids,

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<v Speaker 2>but we were also like nineteen years old, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so I needed someone that was little more seasoned so

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<v Speaker 2>I can get that zero down payment and get the

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<v Speaker 2>car that I want. And then I did get a

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<v Speaker 2>very modest car like Gordon had me looking at like

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<v Speaker 2>range Rovers and Lexuses, and I left a lot with

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<v Speaker 2>a Honda Cort, a car I can afford.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, did you have a car note?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? I paid it. And that's why he he knew

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<v Speaker 2>about it because the car note came to the house

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<v Speaker 2>and his name is on there on the My name

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<v Speaker 2>was on the mail as well, and then Gordon's name

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<v Speaker 2>was on there as well. And honestly, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>that they send you actual paper mail, like I can't

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<v Speaker 2>get an electronic payment. Come on, now, he's not my hustle.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the girls. Do you know, how do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>when people feel like Mia, you hustled Gordon while you

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<v Speaker 1>were in a relationship with Ink, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like, you know, it's easy for people

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<v Speaker 2>to think that right, But in reality, Gordon actually back

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<v Speaker 2>in the day, I'm not going to speak bad about

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<v Speaker 2>my soon to be ex husband because we are so

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<v Speaker 2>legally married, so allegedly, okay, I had to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, Gordon actually helped a lot of the

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<v Speaker 2>women in the club. Back in the day, he was considered,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a high roller. Now in hindsight, Gordon was

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<v Speaker 2>spending a lot of money in the club because of

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<v Speaker 2>a condition he had, which unless you're close to him,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't know it. But when he would go into

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<v Speaker 2>mania cycles, he would come to the club and he

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<v Speaker 2>would spend crazy amounts of money. And I used to

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<v Speaker 2>be like, dang, like it's a disposable income, Like is

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<v Speaker 2>he that successful? I mean he owned fourteen McDonald's restaurant,

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<v Speaker 2>so I was like, yeah, he's like very successful. But

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<v Speaker 2>what was happening is that he was actually battling with

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<v Speaker 2>his mental illness and apart.

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<v Speaker 1>Gordon have the bipolar disease. When you guys first.

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<v Speaker 2>Met, yeah, but I just didn't. I wasn't aware of it.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't tell you about it though, No, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't tell me. He didn't tell me, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, someone who has that condition, and when they're

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<v Speaker 2>in Mania, they're a lot of fun. We were traveling,

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<v Speaker 2>we were spending a lot of money. He was buying

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<v Speaker 2>all kinds of expensive gifts, like he was just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to go buy it, you want it? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to Louis And we were doing the things,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, okay, it's my kind of guy, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? And Gordon and I, in full transparency,

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<v Speaker 2>were never intimate. We weren't. I did not cheat on Ink.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not do anything with I didn't kiss him,

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't do any type of like heavy petting. We

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<v Speaker 2>didn't do anything nothing. He just legit wanted to splurt

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<v Speaker 2>and spoil me and that got his rocks off.

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<v Speaker 1>So you sitting here an all Katie cat attire. He

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<v Speaker 1>never touched your Katie cap heard done it nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>Not before he purchased my car. He did two years

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<v Speaker 2>later when we reconnected.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you a Inks in a relationship at that time?

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<v Speaker 1>Now got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I had gotten married and gotten a divorce by my

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<v Speaker 2>oldest son. When Gordon came back in the mix, I

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<v Speaker 2>was single.

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<v Speaker 1>How was your relationship with Gordon today?

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<v Speaker 2>You know we're co parenting. You know has his ups

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<v Speaker 2>and its down to Carlos. It's very tricky because he

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<v Speaker 2>lives in my building. Like literally, I see him on

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<v Speaker 2>the elevator. I have run into his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>A girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a girlfriend. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How old is she?

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<v Speaker 2>She's younger than me.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she her thirties?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? As far as I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she cute?

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<v Speaker 2>She's not ugly, you know, she's not Miah. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>when I saw her, I was like, really, Gordon, can

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<v Speaker 2>you at least go find someone that looks better? But

0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's not all about the looks, right, I mean,

0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:24.200
<v Speaker 2>she's just real. She's kind of basic Betty, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not a basic Betty. But she's maybe good for him.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he can't go and get a seasoned woman

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<v Speaker 2>that got her since has some sense in her. He

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<v Speaker 2>has to go younger and younger because he needs to be.

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<v Speaker 2>He needs to go find a young girl that's impressionable,

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<v Speaker 2>that will buy into his BS, because that's what happens

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<v Speaker 2>to me. Now I'm a big old forty I will

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<v Speaker 2>turning forty. For the record, you guys have not lied

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<v Speaker 2>about my age forty and but when I met Gordon,

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<v Speaker 2>I was in my I was nineteen. I'm different I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not the same woman.

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<v Speaker 1>You were nineteen and old?

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<v Speaker 2>Was he me?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at old forties.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he's in fifties.

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<v Speaker 1>You were nineteen. You guys met and Gordon was in

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<v Speaker 1>his fifties.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How is Gordon now?

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<v Speaker 2>Seventy four? I think?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's dating somebody in their thirties?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Does she work as far as that know? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what she does for a living?

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Is she a dilapidated pole dancer?

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<v Speaker 2>She can't be Okay, she couldn't even be the bartender.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know? Ashley told me that she mentioned that

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<v Speaker 2>she had tried to get hired at a strip club

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<v Speaker 2>and they wouldn't hire her, not as a bartender. They

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<v Speaker 2>won't hire Ashley, I said, girl, because your daytime television.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why it's a nightclub.

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<v Speaker 1>You think this daytime telephone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, yes, Disney Plus. For sure. She's just like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing sexy, it's like all cute. You disagree, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but you say she does it. She's not like sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, she gives you find the mere and.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys have to say tune because there's a time

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<v Speaker 2>where Ashley actually does something really really cool, and we

0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.000
<v Speaker 2>go and support her and she performs and she was

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<v Speaker 2>way sexy in that, and stay saying on that, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and Gordon wasn't my only customer back and then say,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, like when you're an entertainer, you know how

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<v Speaker 2>to do, like really work it as a business, like

0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.040
<v Speaker 2>you would have Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. And

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<v Speaker 2>you don't want them coming in on the same days

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<v Speaker 2>because then I'll mess up your game.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of people are requesting the seer prayer,

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<v Speaker 1>but we have now me and the rain drops. We

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<v Speaker 1>want them me a prayer. So how can we have

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<v Speaker 1>a guy provide nice things to us without anything in exchange?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think you need to lay it out there,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, and let people know you

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<v Speaker 2>have your boundaries and your standards and what you're willing

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, So it's like okay, and plus you

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<v Speaker 2>know you shouldn't be doing that, you know what I mean,

0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:10.919
<v Speaker 2>Like it's like a fine line. It's not legal, you guys, Okay,

0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.800
<v Speaker 2>you gotta you can't be doing that. So no, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think that you actually get more from men when

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<v Speaker 2>you preserve your temple.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, all right, so the first episode was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed the premiere social media black Twitter when a blaze.

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<v Speaker 1>When it came to the scene between you and Gordon

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<v Speaker 1>with your children playing in the background, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people are questioning why you are bringing up this storyline

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<v Speaker 1>of paternity when your son has no idea what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say to people who feel like Mia

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<v Speaker 1>is using her son in this praternity for a storyline.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't do storylines. I do real life. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>when I decided to join a reality TV show, I

0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:09.840
<v Speaker 2>decided to say, hey, I'm gonna give you all reality TV.

0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:12.879
<v Speaker 2>You know, this is what's going on in my real life.

0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:16.679
<v Speaker 2>And this is something that's like prevalent that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have necessarily initiated, but Gordon did. And now

0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:25.720
<v Speaker 2>that it's out there, I feel like we owe it

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<v Speaker 2>to our viewers to at least understand what is going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean? When it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it being not so good for my child,

0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:41.479
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's a gray area, right, you know, but

0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:45.280
<v Speaker 2>it's also something that's really prevalent is going on in society.

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<v Speaker 2>What I don't want to have happened is that you

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<v Speaker 2>have all these men out here that think that someone

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<v Speaker 2>like that's their child, and we as women kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's easier, we don't allow our father to father

0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 2>our children. And I don't stand for that. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's our job as women, especially Black women, to make

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<v Speaker 2>it easy for fathers, especially Black fathers, to be good fathers.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean. I don't want it

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<v Speaker 2>to ever be a situation where someone may think it's

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<v Speaker 2>their child and they don't ever have the ability to

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<v Speaker 2>know the truth or the facts behind it, do you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? And I think it's good for

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremiah to know who now that it's been a question,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to just be like yeah, no, just

0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:40.560
<v Speaker 2>you know it is what it is, No, baby boy,

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<v Speaker 2>Like this was that question. We did the test, this

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<v Speaker 2>is your dad, and let's continue to live life in

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<v Speaker 2>a very honest way and.

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<v Speaker 1>Your heart of hearts and I know we'll give this season.

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<v Speaker 1>Who do you think is father.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremiah Gordon is the father of Jeremiah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I sat there at the reunion and said that, like,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, here's the thing. You know, we as women,

0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:13.520
<v Speaker 2>we know our bodies and we know who our kids'

0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:16.720
<v Speaker 2>fathers are We always do and if you don't, then

0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:20.439
<v Speaker 2>that that's a little risky, right. But I also stand

0:20:20.480 --> 0:20:24.720
<v Speaker 2>in the notion of anything as possible, you know, because

0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:28.120
<v Speaker 2>there was some overlap there. But honestly, like I would

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<v Speaker 2>not have raised my child to be nine years old

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<v Speaker 2>if I thought that anybody else was my baby's dead,

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<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? Like, I wouldn't do

0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:41.760
<v Speaker 2>that to him intentionally as a mother. But yeah, no,

0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:43.760
<v Speaker 2>Gordon is Jeremiah's dead.

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<v Speaker 1>Does INK believe that.

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<v Speaker 2>He does? Now, you know, because we've gone through the

0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:59.359
<v Speaker 2>motions and I just think that in he But here's

0:20:59.359 --> 0:21:06.360
<v Speaker 2>the thing, Ink still very much so understands that being

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<v Speaker 2>a father is so much more than a biological father,

0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 2>do you know what I mean? He's such a positive

0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:16.800
<v Speaker 2>influence on these children's lives. And I also you got

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<v Speaker 2>to take account that I was raised by a father

0:21:21.440 --> 0:21:24.600
<v Speaker 2>who was not my blood father, you know, but and

0:21:25.160 --> 0:21:30.280
<v Speaker 2>taught me way more on life and life lessons than

0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:34.480
<v Speaker 2>my biological father ever, did you know? So blood yes,

0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:37.000
<v Speaker 2>thicker than water. But I mean we had to understand

0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:38.440
<v Speaker 2>this is the difference between a father, and it's a

0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:41.840
<v Speaker 2>difference between a dad, right, everybody can be a father,

0:21:41.920 --> 0:21:46.080
<v Speaker 2>everybody can birth a child, but everybody can't be a daddy,

0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:48.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, and ink it's a great dad. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So when it comes to you now, I mean, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>this the reason why we all love the premiere and

0:21:54.880 --> 0:21:57.360
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people love you is because you are

0:21:57.440 --> 0:22:03.320
<v Speaker 1>bringing reality to this and unfortunately there is a very

0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:06.840
<v Speaker 1>small sector of people on social media child who don't

0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:11.120
<v Speaker 1>understand like I did seasons one of Jersey and Atlanta Housewives,

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:16.480
<v Speaker 1>like we love real reality. And what has bothered me

0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:21.040
<v Speaker 1>after that premiere episode is people judging you because I'm like,

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:23.399
<v Speaker 1>what do y'all want? Do y'all want real reality or

0:22:23.400 --> 0:22:26.040
<v Speaker 1>do you want a bunch of cackling like yay? Like

0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:29.920
<v Speaker 1>you are giving real reality and you have really emerged

0:22:30.520 --> 0:22:33.280
<v Speaker 1>in terms of having a storyline that we all are

0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:34.160
<v Speaker 1>invested in.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I would prefer for it not to be

0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:42.359
<v Speaker 2>something that we're talking about, but again, it's out there,

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:44.399
<v Speaker 2>and I feel like if I ran away from it,

0:22:44.440 --> 0:22:47.479
<v Speaker 2>then you know, to me, that's me being less than

0:22:47.520 --> 0:22:49.320
<v Speaker 2>a woman that I am, Do you know what I mean? Like,

0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:54.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm not afraid of the truth, and I can't wait

0:22:54.640 --> 0:22:56.919
<v Speaker 2>till it wraps up and we can go on to

0:22:57.200 --> 0:23:00.639
<v Speaker 2>you know, the Kiki and the crazy fundery reality. But

0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:02.560
<v Speaker 2>you know it is real and I feel like, you know,

0:23:02.840 --> 0:23:08.760
<v Speaker 2>if we didn't address it, then I would be Karen Houger.

0:23:11.359 --> 0:23:14.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you think Karen? Do you think Karen shows her

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:18.320
<v Speaker 1>reality to the show we're not talking about. Okay, not

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:26.320
<v Speaker 1>to want to ask, Okay, Okay, So last week on

0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:29.639
<v Speaker 1>my podcast, you know, I gave you a gloring recommendation.

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>If you haven't watched, please watch we we offer typing

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:34.800
<v Speaker 1>me a prayer.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait you to look at it because the

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<v Speaker 1>last time I said something about you, you send me

0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:41.440
<v Speaker 1>a scathing dim Yeah.

0:23:41.560 --> 0:23:46.359
<v Speaker 2>I haven't watched since. No, I'm kidding. No, I watched

0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:48.840
<v Speaker 2>your interview with Ink okay, because I was like, oh,

0:23:48.880 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 2>it's so cute, so good, and it was a love letter.

0:23:51.400 --> 0:23:53.600
<v Speaker 1>It was a love letter. It was yeah, it was.

0:23:54.000 --> 0:23:56.560
<v Speaker 2>But I also, and Carlos, let me say this, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I honestly love and respect what you do. I respect

0:24:00.880 --> 0:24:05.960
<v Speaker 2>all of our bloggers, the good, the bad. Okay, but

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 2>but you but you are Okay, but you are? Could

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 2>you talk about our show? You talk your journalists. Yes,

0:24:12.640 --> 0:24:19.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm a podcast that's Okay.

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:20.000
<v Speaker 1>First of all, I.

0:24:21.840 --> 0:24:26.399
<v Speaker 2>Mean, because you're your boss. I respect everybody who talks

0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 2>about our platform, and I think I said that to you,

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, whether whatever you're saying about us, I wanted

0:24:32.800 --> 0:24:34.440
<v Speaker 2>to be authentic. I wanted to be real. I wanted

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:37.199
<v Speaker 2>to be exactly how you feel, right, because then what

0:24:37.240 --> 0:24:40.159
<v Speaker 2>are we doing. But at the same and I have

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 2>a lot of respect for you, but so I don't

0:24:43.320 --> 0:24:47.760
<v Speaker 2>hold it. I never hold anybody like to tooth and

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:51.439
<v Speaker 2>nail for doing their job, you know. Same thing with

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:54.679
<v Speaker 2>our producer. Sometimes I'd be like, ye, shady, but I

0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:58.560
<v Speaker 2>do not get mad at them because they're doing their job,

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:02.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, and I have to respect that. You know,

0:25:02.160 --> 0:25:05.800
<v Speaker 2>if you are a reality TV producer, that comes with

0:25:05.880 --> 0:25:09.560
<v Speaker 2>a certain level of you know, you're making you're making TV.

0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 2>And unfortunately I get the bruntend sometimes of the edit

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:18.600
<v Speaker 2>that's okay, you're doing your job, which is you know

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<v Speaker 2>you listen.

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:21.639
<v Speaker 1>I love you because no, I love you because you

0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:26.000
<v Speaker 1>send me a scathing DM and I. But the thing

0:25:26.080 --> 0:25:29.639
<v Speaker 1>is this, I appreciate that you reached out directly because

0:25:29.680 --> 0:25:32.880
<v Speaker 1>sometimes there's some people who have my phone number that

0:25:33.000 --> 0:25:36.439
<v Speaker 1>chooses to like go off about me to other people,

0:25:36.960 --> 0:25:39.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm always like, y'all, don't ask this person or

0:25:39.600 --> 0:25:42.520
<v Speaker 1>these people, like don't you have Carlo's number? Why are

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:44.679
<v Speaker 1>you telling us that not him? So I appreciate you

0:25:44.800 --> 0:25:47.119
<v Speaker 1>hit me up. Yes, I sent me a call me.

0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:51.640
<v Speaker 1>You and I had an hour long conversation and I

0:25:51.680 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>was able to hit your POV.

0:25:53.240 --> 0:25:53.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:57.080
<v Speaker 1>And I respected you from from from from that jump,

0:25:57.160 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>because you took upon yourself to say, listen, I love

0:26:02.880 --> 0:26:05.200
<v Speaker 1>you what you do. I don't like what you said,

0:26:05.680 --> 0:26:08.719
<v Speaker 1>and we were able to talk about it and I

0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:15.080
<v Speaker 1>apologize to you. And we are here today. Yes, child,

0:26:15.119 --> 0:26:29.280
<v Speaker 1>we are just getting started. This is reality with the

0:26:29.359 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Last week, me and the rain Drops we questioned some

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:43.280
<v Speaker 1>things that happened. So instead of me and be Lyon,

0:26:43.760 --> 0:26:48.119
<v Speaker 1>we did say mebe lion dot dot dot still question mark.

0:26:48.280 --> 0:26:51.200
<v Speaker 1>It was a question mark though the way Jlo has

0:26:51.280 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 1>her album this is Me Then, and her new album

0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:58.520
<v Speaker 1>is called this is Me Now. So we want to

0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:02.119
<v Speaker 1>play a game of maybe lion okay or mea b

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:07.879
<v Speaker 1>lion still okay. So in the premiere episode, the Lovely Jacqueline,

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 1>who also had my podcast, because I'm so obsessed with you.

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I had the entire world on my podcast.

0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:15.919
<v Speaker 2>Said, everybody except for my mama.

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Your mama, next child, please help me. Okay. So Giselle

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Kobe Bryant Okay, did her job and asked the question

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:30.040
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to know, because you did say two years

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:33.320
<v Speaker 1>ago that you and Jacqueline had a three some from

0:27:33.320 --> 0:27:36.480
<v Speaker 1>one of your excees. And one thing we have seen

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 1>with Jacqueline is she goes hard, no pun intended for

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you and for Ink.

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:46.040
<v Speaker 2>She you know, I mean, I love Jacqueline.

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:48.199
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm a Jacqueline stand. I'm happy she's back

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 1>on the show. Me and be Liar or me and

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:54.440
<v Speaker 1>be lion still or Mia Moore?

0:27:56.480 --> 0:27:57.239
<v Speaker 2>Where are we going with this?

0:27:57.880 --> 0:28:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Jacqueline you Ink? Have y'all ever had a threesome? Whether

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:07.879
<v Speaker 1>it was kissing each other at the same time, you know,

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:11.760
<v Speaker 1>in the bed together and somebody's big toe touch somebody's

0:28:12.400 --> 0:28:13.160
<v Speaker 1>you know stuff.

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So and what did I say?

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:17.879
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 4>So, okay, did you Jacqueline ever have anything? Sometimes people kiss, So.

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:40.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember, no said no, seriously, Okay. The only

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:47.240
<v Speaker 2>thing that I do remember is I don't remember ink

0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:51.880
<v Speaker 2>and Jacqueline ever doing anything. And I don't remember Jacqueline

0:28:51.920 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 2>and I ever doing anything with Ink present because Ink, honestly,

0:28:56.240 --> 0:28:58.800
<v Speaker 2>and I said this in this in the season, it

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 2>doesn't play about me. Ink is very protective about me.

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:05.960
<v Speaker 2>Ink is very much so like what are you doing when? Why?

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 2>What it was happening? Like I don't want anybody saying

0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:10.440
<v Speaker 2>anything bad about you. They don't know you. You know,

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 2>he's very very very much so deeply in love with me,

0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 2>and so that is not something that he can't he

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't have it at him right, which is really refreshing

0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:24.720
<v Speaker 2>because I've been living a decade where it's been the opposite.

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 2>So it's really nice to be back in that yeah,

0:29:28.040 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, queen seat, so to.

0:29:29.960 --> 0:29:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Speak, where you're not being shared with others.

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:33.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to yeah, you know, and I don't

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 2>have to share him and so but which I don't

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:47.280
<v Speaker 2>want to share him. Oh yeah, a little moment, but so,

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 2>but I do. Remember we had just moved into we

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 2>had just upgraded and we moved into like our little

0:29:56.680 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 2>corner suite and Jacquline came to vis and this is

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 2>in Charlotte, and she there there was some activity going

0:30:06.520 --> 0:30:08.960
<v Speaker 2>on between her and some a friend.

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:10.680
<v Speaker 1>A male friend or female.

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Friend a male friend, and we I remember watching you, guys,

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm a voyeur. Right, Ekle was there, but he didn't participate,

0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:21.320
<v Speaker 2>so that's why it's a little gray. And I had

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 2>to go back and we had to compare notes because

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 2>mind you, this is like twenty years ago. Guys, right,

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:29.600
<v Speaker 2>we're kids, But no, not as far as I know.

0:30:30.840 --> 0:30:33.000
<v Speaker 2>And that's gonna so Mia, don't be lying.

0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:43.560
<v Speaker 1>In case your memory comes back to you, I'll do

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 1>a retraction.

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, But I do think that we showered together, the

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 2>three of us, but it wasn't intimate, like and you

0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 2>guys should know that about me by now, Like I

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:59.239
<v Speaker 2>shower with my friends and it's like a legit. We

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:01.800
<v Speaker 2>in there to get the job done, not to like

0:31:02.120 --> 0:31:08.280
<v Speaker 2>be And what job is that take a shower to

0:31:08.440 --> 0:31:09.479
<v Speaker 2>smell like soap?

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:12.520
<v Speaker 1>The three of y'all needed to take a shower together

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:18.800
<v Speaker 1>to smell like soap? Yeah, so did something grow while

0:31:18.880 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 1>y'all were showering?

0:31:19.920 --> 0:31:20.080
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 1>So ink didn't grow while y'all were showering?

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:30.640
<v Speaker 2>No, not that I remember.

0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Why do you have a bad memory?

0:31:33.800 --> 0:31:41.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know? Twelve deficiency? I seriously I do.

0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Nia if I could not love you.

0:31:46.560 --> 0:31:49.920
<v Speaker 2>More, I just be honest you that, Sonny.

0:31:50.440 --> 0:31:53.840
<v Speaker 1>It's to the point where we don't care if you're

0:31:53.880 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 1>lying or not. We just love you because it's what

0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>makes you you, and it's while you're such a stand

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 1>out on this show, you are wacky in the best

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:03.720
<v Speaker 1>way possible.

0:32:04.600 --> 0:32:06.080
<v Speaker 2>That's with that, thank you.

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so rain jobs, I'll figure it out later. Yes.

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:15.240
<v Speaker 1>In the first episode Candace trended, people were saying whether

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 1>or not they miss her. There's people who did miss

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Candace and said the episode was missing Candace. There's people

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>who said, glad she's gone. We didn't even think about her.

0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts on Candace not returning the season?

0:32:27.400 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 2>So? I think Candace taking a break right now is

0:32:31.600 --> 0:32:35.880
<v Speaker 2>perfect timing. She's having a baby. She honestly gets really

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:39.920
<v Speaker 2>emotional and she takes this very literal, and I think

0:32:40.000 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 2>having a baby is the time for her to be

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:46.160
<v Speaker 2>at home nesting, Okay, and that's exactly what she's doing.

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 2>Do I love Candace?

0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:32:48.440 --> 0:32:49.120
<v Speaker 2>Do I miss her?

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 2>Do I think she crazy and that mouth is lethal? Yeah?

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:53.920
<v Speaker 2>But I like it, you know, And I think that

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 2>that's what made her a really great reality TV star

0:32:56.680 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 2>because she is unfiltered and she will the things and

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:04.680
<v Speaker 2>we need that. We need somebody to not be scared

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 2>of the girls right now, you know. And I just

0:33:08.400 --> 0:33:12.320
<v Speaker 2>think that in Candace brings a lot I think personally.

0:33:13.040 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 2>You know, she's an artist. You know how I feel

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 2>about artists and music the industry. Yeah, so love language.

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:26.880
<v Speaker 1>So if you had to choose between bringing back Monique

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Samuels or Candace, why, I don't know. Monique, would you

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 1>like to? I know? But some people say, I don't

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 1>know Monique. I saw what she did on the show.

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I would love for her to come back so I

0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 1>could play with her. But what what would you want?

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:46.239
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm always down for new friends, you know,

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm bringing on all the friends for more, more to

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:54.080
<v Speaker 2>have foe with, you know. And I from what I know,

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 2>and Monique and I do have mutual friends, like in Photomac.

0:33:57.200 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's not that big. And they have raped

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 2>about her. They love her, they think she's great. They

0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 2>actually think that the two of us will be really

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:07.080
<v Speaker 2>great friends. We just haven't had the opportunity to connect.

0:34:07.120 --> 0:34:09.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, she's going through a divorce. I'm so busy

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:11.720
<v Speaker 2>with my kids. I'm not like out in the scene

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 2>as I would be if I wasn't getting a divorce,

0:34:16.360 --> 0:34:19.920
<v Speaker 2>right but if I'm not working, I'm literally home with

0:34:19.960 --> 0:34:22.680
<v Speaker 2>my babies with my bonnet on. Like, so I'm not

0:34:22.840 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 2>into social life right now because I do have a

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:30.720
<v Speaker 2>lot going on. But I think that from what I saw,

0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I like her. You know, she was a mother. But

0:34:36.160 --> 0:34:38.279
<v Speaker 2>there is something about Monique that I did kind of

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:41.160
<v Speaker 2>like I was trying to tap into. She has a story,

0:34:41.760 --> 0:34:44.160
<v Speaker 2>but I don't think we don't know it doing like

0:34:44.200 --> 0:34:46.879
<v Speaker 2>she didn't want to talk about it. Yeah, I don't

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:49.440
<v Speaker 2>like she like and I feel that with her, and

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 2>I think that the two of us probably will be

0:34:51.480 --> 0:34:55.800
<v Speaker 2>able to connect on that level. But what I understand

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:59.360
<v Speaker 2>is that she's not as transparent as I am. But

0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:01.720
<v Speaker 2>I do think that anytime someone's been through some things

0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:04.120
<v Speaker 2>like there's an automatic connection that we probably would have.

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about the new cast members. So we have

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Stacey who's from Detroit.

0:35:12.480 --> 0:35:16.279
<v Speaker 2>Yes, And then we have and so are you from

0:35:16.280 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 2>the Dyes?

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 1>And you you used to you would go to the

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:20.520
<v Speaker 1>D in the summers.

0:35:20.840 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:25.359
<v Speaker 2>So my father, my biological father is from Detroit, wasn't

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 2>raised by him, But I will go and visit my

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 2>grandparents and I would spend the summers and I would

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 2>get my hair braided across the street in the alleyway,

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:35.840
<v Speaker 2>and I learned how to play spades.

0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's the Detroit.

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:42.640
<v Speaker 2>It's a black first little boyfriend was like he lived

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:44.239
<v Speaker 2>on the next street over and he used to come

0:35:44.280 --> 0:35:46.360
<v Speaker 2>over and ride his bike and you know, on the

0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 2>summers and things like that, like middle school. This is

0:35:49.680 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 2>pre you guys. Yeah, so I know Detroit is like

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 2>to me, and what is it? Westfield Mall? They got

0:35:57.120 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 2>like a like a real not so nice girl, you're

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:01.759
<v Speaker 2>going to.

0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 1>This my city. I don't know what ball you're talking about.

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I like you, I don't.

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:11.000
<v Speaker 2>Remember Detroy has some place. So I'm like, okay, but

0:36:11.040 --> 0:36:13.040
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of fun, it's a lot of character.

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:17.360
<v Speaker 2>I definitely can side with Stacey. Stacey opens up about

0:36:17.400 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 2>her being from Detroit and how her daughter is not

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 2>being raised in Detroit. But girl, you need to go

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 2>ahead and just take a baby and drop her off

0:36:23.320 --> 0:36:26.640
<v Speaker 2>at Auntie's house for the summers. She'll she'll get to

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:27.359
<v Speaker 2>learn her hair.

0:36:29.760 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 1>You like Stacy.

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I love Stacy. I think Stacy brings a lot At first,

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, ooh, girl, you scarecrowsy weird looking like

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:42.240
<v Speaker 2>she's like weird, you know what I mean. She's quirky,

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.600
<v Speaker 2>she's weird. She does this like turkey neck thing, but

0:36:45.920 --> 0:36:46.880
<v Speaker 2>I like thing.

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:50.240
<v Speaker 1>She's just like like an ostrich Or dress.

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:54.280
<v Speaker 2>And but I love it and her innocent like little

0:36:54.320 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 2>game that she plays. It's cute. It's real cute.

0:36:58.520 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 1>And again you like her.

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 2>I do like her. I wasn't so sure I like

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 2>her so much because of all of her weirdness. And

0:37:05.760 --> 0:37:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I've said these things to her face, like I tell her, Okay, girl,

0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 2>you're weird, but I like it. It's okay to be

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:16.439
<v Speaker 2>pretty and weird. Another pretty weird girl. Okay, she's gonna

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 2>be good.

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:37:17.440 --> 0:37:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I think I hope everybody likes her. I really do,

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:25.400
<v Speaker 2>But you know, sometimes, you know, happy movie.

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:30.479
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, so the jury still out in terms

0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:33.480
<v Speaker 1>of whether or not. You know, listen, I'll say this

0:37:33.640 --> 0:37:34.439
<v Speaker 1>so far, so good.

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And then we have the other one, Yes, Jazzy,

0:37:38.680 --> 0:37:42.760
<v Speaker 2>the other one for Jazzy. Forgot that Jazzy is actually

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:45.680
<v Speaker 2>my friend. I bring her to the group right because

0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:49.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, she's very pretty. She's very pretty, she's fabulous,

0:37:49.360 --> 0:37:52.800
<v Speaker 2>she's you know, she's a wag. Right, So she's actually

0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:57.480
<v Speaker 2>newly engaged to her fiance, which now plays for Dallas.

0:37:57.719 --> 0:38:00.080
<v Speaker 2>He was playing for the Chiefs when we met, and

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:05.040
<v Speaker 2>now he's at in he's in what is the Dallas Cowboys? Dallas, right,

0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:09.800
<v Speaker 2>that's in Dallas the Cowboys. Clearly yay, not my league.

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:14.719
<v Speaker 2>But she's you know, she's amazing, and she brought her

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:17.719
<v Speaker 2>home there and back home, so hopefully you guys get

0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 2>to see more of her. She's spunky, she's witty. I

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:26.360
<v Speaker 2>like her crazy though, you know, but she's my friend,

0:38:26.440 --> 0:38:30.799
<v Speaker 2>so friends, I've known her for almost two years now, okay,

0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:34.640
<v Speaker 2>but she's also really good friends with Ink's best friend,

0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:38.680
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, he has a really good there's a his

0:38:38.719 --> 0:38:41.080
<v Speaker 2>friend listening to d m V. It's a girl and

0:38:41.120 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 2>they're really really close. And so I kind of like

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:46.840
<v Speaker 2>vouch for her because I feel like anybody's friends with

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Ink if you like her, I love her because Ink

0:38:49.680 --> 0:38:53.399
<v Speaker 2>don't play. He don't do no like funny business. Ain't

0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:54.240
<v Speaker 2>like it when.

0:38:54.160 --> 0:38:57.719
<v Speaker 1>You revealed that he folds Gordon's underwear and.

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:05.120
<v Speaker 2>Clothes, So I'm glad that just clear this up. Thank you, Carlos,

0:39:05.280 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I love you, okay, it's very much so an alpha male,

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 2>he's a Capricorn, he's type A. I absolutely love all

0:39:13.000 --> 0:39:16.240
<v Speaker 2>of those quality traits about him because he is a man.

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 2>You know, he's y'all be talking about my baby's height.

0:39:19.480 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 2>But honey, he's like, you.

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Take pictures that way to not have him appear shorter

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.960
<v Speaker 1>than you photos. No, is that on purpose?

0:39:31.160 --> 0:39:33.320
<v Speaker 2>Well no, it's not on purpose, but we're gonna continue

0:39:33.320 --> 0:39:33.839
<v Speaker 2>to do it now.

0:39:35.120 --> 0:39:36.960
<v Speaker 1>But you say, ink makes up for his hot and

0:39:37.040 --> 0:39:38.480
<v Speaker 1>other another area.

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 2>For sure with the same height when sounds so guys,

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 2>so you know.

0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:57.040
<v Speaker 3>But.

0:39:57.600 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but it is. It's blessed, yes, for sure. And

0:40:04.920 --> 0:40:07.080
<v Speaker 2>I think that where were we talking about?

0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:09.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm distracted too, and I think I did a prayer

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:17.319
<v Speaker 1>claw yes, yes, yes, you know we're talking about the

0:40:17.360 --> 0:40:22.160
<v Speaker 1>fact that they said in Gordon's under Yes.

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 2>Okay, he no, he didn't like it at all at all.

0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:32.080
<v Speaker 2>He was like, babe, like what now, here's the thing. This,

0:40:32.080 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 2>this is what's the game that we were playing with

0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:39.719
<v Speaker 2>Jamie Mea b Lyon still okay, so me Mia b

0:40:39.840 --> 0:40:45.680
<v Speaker 2>Lyon On that right because this is what I remember? Okay.

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:50.120
<v Speaker 2>So and we talked about it right, So here here's

0:40:50.160 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 2>what happened. It was a lot going on with Gordon

0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 2>around off season and we weren't filming, and I was like,

0:40:56.800 --> 0:40:59.400
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, Gordon, like you're stressing me out, Like

0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:02.399
<v Speaker 2>he was saying at my home. He had his own home,

0:41:02.400 --> 0:41:03.959
<v Speaker 2>but he wanted to come stay at my home because

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:05.719
<v Speaker 2>he didn't want to be alone, you know, like he's

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:09.799
<v Speaker 2>going through a lot, like a lot, and so he

0:41:10.160 --> 0:41:14.560
<v Speaker 2>naturally left stuff at the house and when you know,

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:18.400
<v Speaker 2>I just throw it in the laundry, and Ink, you know,

0:41:18.600 --> 0:41:21.759
<v Speaker 2>was helping fold now. I remember him coming across a

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 2>couple of Gordon's pieces of clothing. I didn't think it

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:27.160
<v Speaker 2>was a big deal. I probably should not have said

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:30.279
<v Speaker 2>that about my babes. But also too he he made

0:41:30.320 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 2>it very clear. He was like, no, He's like, I

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:35.200
<v Speaker 2>didn't fold that man's laundry. I ain't folding that man's laundry.

0:41:35.320 --> 0:41:37.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm a girl man. And he and I believe him

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 2>because Ink won't lie like Ink does not lie. So

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:43.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm sorry, babe, I really thought that maybe

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:45.800
<v Speaker 2>you had folded those places of clothing.

0:41:46.600 --> 0:41:50.279
<v Speaker 1>See like you said the alpha mel thing. I think

0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:52.280
<v Speaker 1>it was a big deal that social media went crazy,

0:41:52.320 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, it's funny.

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I looked it was like he's showing up for the household.

0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 1>I really took it as there's a bunch of clothes yours,

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:05.520
<v Speaker 1>the kids and Gordon's, and I felt like he was

0:42:05.560 --> 0:42:08.400
<v Speaker 1>folding everyone's clothes, helping you. I never looked at it

0:42:08.520 --> 0:42:12.440
<v Speaker 1>that this is Gordon's laundry basket and he picked it

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 1>up from the General Electric dryer and was folding it

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 1>like he was Florence on the Jefferson. I didn't. I

0:42:19.640 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 1>never took it that.

0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 2>Way, and honestly, I didn't think it would I wouldn't

0:42:25.080 --> 0:42:27.280
<v Speaker 2>have said it if I knew that it would affect

0:42:27.360 --> 0:42:30.440
<v Speaker 2>He is an alpha male and if he didn't fold

0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:33.040
<v Speaker 2>his laundry, he ain't his laundry. And he said, and

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:34.320
<v Speaker 2>I believe him.

0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:38.280
<v Speaker 1>So so we saw you get kicked out of Gizelle's events.

0:42:39.840 --> 0:42:43.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, yeah, so.

0:42:45.400 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Listen, I thought that is honey, you know anyway, listen,

0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:55.160
<v Speaker 1>I loved that episode because I thought the fact that

0:42:55.320 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Ashley said be here by eight, and what I loved

0:42:58.440 --> 0:43:02.720
<v Speaker 1>about the producers following I thought it was super smart.

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Shout out to the producers. It was super genius for

0:43:06.160 --> 0:43:10.000
<v Speaker 1>them to have enough camera to follow Karen's event at

0:43:10.000 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 1>the same time as Gazelle's. Follow the phone call, follow

0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:16.239
<v Speaker 1>you guys in the sprinter, and then when you made

0:43:16.239 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 1>it back like aight oh four or whatever, right, like

0:43:19.160 --> 0:43:20.719
<v Speaker 1>actually walking in amount atol four.

0:43:22.000 --> 0:43:23.960
<v Speaker 2>You knew, y'all. We got there at eight, but it

0:43:24.000 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 2>takes forever for us to get out the car.

0:43:25.560 --> 0:43:26.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, you got the car.

0:43:28.360 --> 0:43:28.520
<v Speaker 3>Too.

0:43:29.640 --> 0:43:32.640
<v Speaker 2>We were there probably before eight. It just takes us

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:34.799
<v Speaker 2>a while because you got to get everybody out, and

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:36.360
<v Speaker 2>we got to check our mics, and we got to

0:43:36.360 --> 0:43:37.920
<v Speaker 2>do we got to do a little bit of extra

0:43:38.000 --> 0:43:40.680
<v Speaker 2>than the normal. Oh my god, girl, we're here, you

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:42.919
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. So Gazelle, you know, I'm gonna

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 2>give her. I'm gonna have some compassion for my girl,

0:43:46.360 --> 0:43:49.200
<v Speaker 2>because I really do like Gazelle, even though she has

0:43:49.200 --> 0:43:54.080
<v Speaker 2>no compassion for me whatsoever right now, no thing she does,

0:43:54.440 --> 0:43:58.319
<v Speaker 2>no why. It's a little it's almost alarming that she

0:43:58.400 --> 0:44:02.560
<v Speaker 2>doesn't have compassion for what I'm going through. It's a

0:44:02.560 --> 0:44:03.200
<v Speaker 2>little alarming.

0:44:04.760 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm sad you seem a little saddened by it.

0:44:07.680 --> 0:44:11.359
<v Speaker 2>I am saddened by it because I feel like what

0:44:11.440 --> 0:44:15.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm going through is so unorthodox that and I mean

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:19.080
<v Speaker 2>my husband sat up there and said my ex soon

0:44:19.120 --> 0:44:22.200
<v Speaker 2>to be ex husband sat up there and said what

0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:24.839
<v Speaker 2>he was going through. He has also said I had

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.719
<v Speaker 2>been mean to you. He has also said, you know,

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:30.839
<v Speaker 2>I Miya has been nothing but supportive to me. He

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 2>is he decided to, you know, bring out what he's

0:44:35.160 --> 0:44:40.360
<v Speaker 2>going through. And I feel like because of that, like

0:44:40.840 --> 0:44:43.160
<v Speaker 2>state your opinion on how you feel and be a

0:44:43.200 --> 0:44:46.560
<v Speaker 2>good girlfriend and come over and check on my kids.

0:44:46.840 --> 0:44:48.000
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean? Like, if you're so

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 2>concerned because we're friends, I've been friends with these girls

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 2>first years. If you're so concerned, call me, text me,

0:44:57.600 --> 0:45:00.200
<v Speaker 2>knock on the door, say hey girl, you want to

0:45:00.200 --> 0:45:03.040
<v Speaker 2>go get ice cream with the kids? Do something. But

0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:05.600
<v Speaker 2>don't sit there and wait. This is where I this

0:45:05.640 --> 0:45:07.919
<v Speaker 2>is where I got kanvases back on this one. Don't

0:45:07.960 --> 0:45:11.480
<v Speaker 2>sit and wait until the cameras come around to be like, oh,

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:14.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm concerned about the kids. No you're not, because if

0:45:14.320 --> 0:45:18.160
<v Speaker 2>you were concerned, like legit, concern about my children being

0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:20.399
<v Speaker 2>the girlfriend that I had been to you, like when

0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:23.120
<v Speaker 2>her father passed away, what did I do? I cleared

0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:25.360
<v Speaker 2>my calendar, the girls and I got a car. We

0:45:25.400 --> 0:45:28.360
<v Speaker 2>went all the way around Photomac Bethesda in the streets,

0:45:28.680 --> 0:45:31.760
<v Speaker 2>picked up all the girls, went to her house, picked

0:45:31.800 --> 0:45:35.399
<v Speaker 2>her up, took her out to dinner, spoiled her, went

0:45:35.440 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 2>out for drinks. After we did exactly what she wanted

0:45:38.719 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>to do. We poured into her because we wanted her

0:45:41.120 --> 0:45:43.319
<v Speaker 2>to know that she was not alone. What you're going

0:45:43.320 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 2>through is hard, So we're here for you, right, That's

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 2>what friends do. And we did that on our own time,

0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 2>right because we're friends. And for her to like be, oh,

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:56.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm concerned about your kids, No, you're not, because if

0:45:57.000 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 2>you were, you were come and check on my kids. Right. So, yeah,

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:01.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm hurt by it.

0:46:01.320 --> 0:46:05.200
<v Speaker 1>But I'm still not to cut you off. The reason

0:46:05.239 --> 0:46:09.560
<v Speaker 1>why I wanted to I wanted to have you talk

0:46:09.640 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 1>about this. I didn't know this obviously, is because people

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 1>do sometimes look at you like, oh, she's Finnsors, this

0:46:15.560 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>wacky character. Right. This is the first time that I'm

0:46:19.000 --> 0:46:22.000
<v Speaker 1>really seeing you have some emotion when it comes to

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 1>your friendship with Giselle, and they can't see what I'm

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:29.799
<v Speaker 1>seeing right now because obviously I'm close to you. Your

0:46:29.880 --> 0:46:32.200
<v Speaker 1>eyes are watering up a little bit. They're welling up

0:46:32.239 --> 0:46:32.480
<v Speaker 1>a bit.

0:46:33.640 --> 0:46:35.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't give that to well no, no, no, no, no.

0:46:35.520 --> 0:46:36.719
<v Speaker 1>Maybe no no no.

0:46:36.760 --> 0:46:40.600
<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying is too man, I'm fine dusty in here, Carl.

0:46:41.280 --> 0:46:45.240
<v Speaker 1>It's dusty. It's dusty. But I think it's good. Listen.

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people have questioned the authentic friendships on

0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:54.560
<v Speaker 1>the show. Right, I had no idea you and Deserve

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:57.960
<v Speaker 1>were that close and me hearing what you did for

0:46:58.080 --> 0:47:01.799
<v Speaker 1>her off camera and real life, in real time, it's

0:47:01.840 --> 0:47:04.439
<v Speaker 1>so beautiful and I don't think the world knows that.

0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>And I now, and I'm being real with you, this

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:08.399
<v Speaker 1>is me having a real moment.

0:47:08.640 --> 0:47:12.800
<v Speaker 2>She has shown up for me authentically off camera. Full disclaimer.

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:16.760
<v Speaker 2>When Gordon did TMZ, she wanted to throw a whole

0:47:16.840 --> 0:47:20.239
<v Speaker 2>like emancipation of me, me for me. But you know,

0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:23.200
<v Speaker 2>in hindsight, I'm like, girl, you were celebrating something because

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:25.839
<v Speaker 2>you were excited because I was single, like you, Right,

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 2>That's what was going on, because I mean, she was

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:35.359
<v Speaker 2>so excited to find out that Gordon was like, oh yeah,

0:47:35.520 --> 0:47:38.960
<v Speaker 2>another single girl, and she was like celebrating. The hindsight,

0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:40.840
<v Speaker 2>I thought, you know, oh, she's showing up for me.

0:47:40.880 --> 0:47:52.880
<v Speaker 2>But now I'm like, no, girl, you were celebrating my turmoil. Gag, Okay, no,

0:47:53.080 --> 0:47:56.080
<v Speaker 2>seriously think about it. Think about it, you know. And

0:47:56.120 --> 0:47:59.239
<v Speaker 2>so then then I'm like, Okay, this is alarming, but

0:47:59.560 --> 0:48:02.160
<v Speaker 2>you know, and I'm still I say all that, I'm

0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:04.520
<v Speaker 2>still going to give her grace because I know, losing

0:48:04.520 --> 0:48:07.080
<v Speaker 2>the parents really really tough. It is my father's no

0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:09.120
<v Speaker 2>longer here with me, and I wasn't raised by him,

0:48:09.120 --> 0:48:12.320
<v Speaker 2>and it's still tough. So I'm going to give her

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:14.520
<v Speaker 2>a benefit of the benefit of the doubt because I

0:48:14.560 --> 0:48:16.719
<v Speaker 2>also know she's a dady's girl, you know what I mean.

0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:19.239
<v Speaker 2>And she's been used. She's been living her life with

0:48:19.320 --> 0:48:22.480
<v Speaker 2>someone basically telling her how amazing she is. And now

0:48:22.520 --> 0:48:24.880
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't have her best friend Robin, and you know,

0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:28.200
<v Speaker 2>she she a fish out of water and her her

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 2>kids are gone. You know what she doing? She ain't

0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 2>no man, she you know, like she and her Willie

0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Wonka house like trying to. I feel bad for her,

0:48:44.400 --> 0:48:47.840
<v Speaker 2>you do, I know, you know, And I have to

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:50.600
<v Speaker 2>give her grace because she don't have it together. She's

0:48:50.800 --> 0:48:56.719
<v Speaker 2>she's really pretty gorgeous. Yeah, you know that was up

0:48:56.719 --> 0:48:58.640
<v Speaker 2>for debate when I first met her with that was

0:48:58.680 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 2>it right when she just pretty face? You know, I

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:11.680
<v Speaker 2>don't know. That's up for debate now, so time will tell.

0:49:12.160 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because what I was going to say is I

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:19.200
<v Speaker 1>now have full understanding on why in the first episode

0:49:19.239 --> 0:49:23.120
<v Speaker 1>that continue to continue you into the second you had

0:49:23.239 --> 0:49:30.160
<v Speaker 1>a very emotional reaction to Gizelle questioning that situation. I now,

0:49:30.520 --> 0:49:32.240
<v Speaker 1>at that time, I'm be real with you, I didn't

0:49:32.280 --> 0:49:34.879
<v Speaker 1>get it because, like you said, y'all film all day,

0:49:34.880 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you don't see everything. I now understand you. You and

0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you were you weren't just crying, you were bohooing.

0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:43.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was hard, Now I get it. It was hard.

0:49:43.400 --> 0:49:46.200
<v Speaker 2>It was hard because you know, there's so much that

0:49:46.239 --> 0:49:49.640
<v Speaker 2>goes on that doesn't get films, and showing up is

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 2>like the battle, and that day I was showing up,

0:49:52.520 --> 0:49:54.719
<v Speaker 2>it was a hard day. So it was just like

0:49:54.960 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 2>there was other things that I had going on that

0:49:56.800 --> 0:50:00.200
<v Speaker 2>when showing up was there. That's all you're gonna get out.

0:50:00.560 --> 0:50:03.879
<v Speaker 2>So the littlest thing I'm not able to like, I'm

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:07.000
<v Speaker 2>just like I was tired. And of course Jacqueline has

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:09.440
<v Speaker 2>been with me all day, so she knows, you know,

0:50:09.800 --> 0:50:13.080
<v Speaker 2>so I don't know it was just one of those days.

0:50:13.080 --> 0:50:15.760
<v Speaker 2>But I'm still gonna give her grace. I mean, honestly,

0:50:15.840 --> 0:50:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't have even tried to make it to her party, right,

0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:21.640
<v Speaker 2>But it's about her father, So I'm gonna stay here.

0:50:21.800 --> 0:50:25.960
<v Speaker 2>The two women who sat there and were questioning whether

0:50:26.040 --> 0:50:28.360
<v Speaker 2>or not I was protecting my kids had me on a

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:34.120
<v Speaker 2>got during world tour crawl on accepting fake awards and

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:37.160
<v Speaker 2>raising money for New Foundations because it's a new cause.

0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:40.359
<v Speaker 2>Like come on now, like give me and you're gonna

0:50:40.440 --> 0:50:43.359
<v Speaker 2>kick me out and ink it just flooring to town

0:50:43.880 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I have. I'm just like take me home. Did you

0:50:46.400 --> 0:50:48.319
<v Speaker 2>see the way that I'm like, all right, I'm out.

0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 2>I was soone bothered, soone bothered?

0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maya be lying or may be lying? Still, you

0:50:55.960 --> 0:51:00.279
<v Speaker 1>were different colored green dress in the promo shoot. Was

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:03.120
<v Speaker 1>that accidental or to let these girls know there's a

0:51:03.160 --> 0:51:04.080
<v Speaker 1>new queen in town?

0:51:04.760 --> 0:51:13.680
<v Speaker 2>That was actually accidental? No, it was you.

0:51:15.080 --> 0:51:18.319
<v Speaker 1>I saw you're that promo ship. I said, so your

0:51:18.400 --> 0:51:20.879
<v Speaker 1>fans to be a more through the raid drops. They

0:51:21.000 --> 0:51:24.640
<v Speaker 1>tagged me and said, Carlos, ever since being came on

0:51:24.719 --> 0:51:28.160
<v Speaker 1>this show, your prediction about her stardom has been factual.

0:51:28.640 --> 0:51:33.799
<v Speaker 1>They said, Carlos. They call me Carlos Carlos. Mia is

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a center and the promo, Shoot, you're right, be a one.

0:51:38.560 --> 0:51:41.399
<v Speaker 2>I was like, who sat me here? Like no, So

0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:44.359
<v Speaker 2>the same thing with the Reunion when I didn't find

0:51:44.360 --> 0:51:45.920
<v Speaker 2>out that I was sitting next to Andy too. I

0:51:46.000 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 2>walked out there, I said, who put me in control?

0:51:48.200 --> 0:51:51.000
<v Speaker 2>These girls? I don't want that job? And so but

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:52.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it is what it is like, I.

0:51:52.680 --> 0:51:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't know this is me. You're talking, we're talking. When

0:51:57.200 --> 0:52:01.520
<v Speaker 1>you found out, yes you have first chair, Yes this

0:52:01.600 --> 0:52:05.000
<v Speaker 1>is me baby. As you found out, yes you have

0:52:05.160 --> 0:52:08.640
<v Speaker 1>first chair. Yes that's reunion, there's something in your mind

0:52:08.680 --> 0:52:13.080
<v Speaker 1>goes Mia, this is it. You did bitch work.

0:52:13.880 --> 0:52:17.120
<v Speaker 2>There was there was something that went gosh darn, like

0:52:17.840 --> 0:52:20.439
<v Speaker 2>this is now It's like it's lonely at the top.

0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Now where I'm going I'm gonna be sending it any

0:52:22.000 --> 0:52:22.759
<v Speaker 2>sture next, Like.

0:52:22.680 --> 0:52:25.879
<v Speaker 1>We're not going there? Where do I go from here?

0:52:26.080 --> 0:52:29.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't Oh my god, your yeah.

0:52:30.800 --> 0:52:32.360
<v Speaker 1>First season frightens.

0:52:32.000 --> 0:52:35.360
<v Speaker 2>Me because I know what it's like to run organizations,

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:36.879
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, dang, when you get to the top,

0:52:36.920 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 2>then what it's lonely up there? And then you gotta

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:44.440
<v Speaker 2>work harder to like stay. It's harder to keep an

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:47.000
<v Speaker 2>a than to earn an a swear.

0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Uh huh. Right, when you saw that you were in

0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:52.279
<v Speaker 1>the center of the photo shoot, was that another moment

0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:54.840
<v Speaker 1>where I mean, this is me and you were you

0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:56.680
<v Speaker 1>kind of like that that?

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:59.400
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, when I sat down when I walked into that

0:52:59.400 --> 0:53:05.040
<v Speaker 2>set first all and I saw Karen and I saw

0:53:05.160 --> 0:53:13.399
<v Speaker 2>my bridesmaids, and I said, I said, well, I do

0:53:13.520 --> 0:53:18.560
<v Speaker 2>I do? I dos inc gonna show up? Are we

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 2>getting married today? Karen looks like the mother of the

0:53:23.200 --> 0:53:30.319
<v Speaker 2>bride and those are my bridesmaids. Seriously, I was like,

0:53:30.400 --> 0:53:31.360
<v Speaker 2>is this something I need to know?

0:53:31.480 --> 0:53:31.880
<v Speaker 3>Guys?

0:53:31.920 --> 0:53:34.279
<v Speaker 2>And everybody was being over nice to me. No one

0:53:34.440 --> 0:53:37.799
<v Speaker 2>is talking telling me things. I got things popping up

0:53:37.840 --> 0:53:41.120
<v Speaker 2>in my dressing room, like gifts and flowers, and I'm like,

0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:44.800
<v Speaker 2>who are these from? You know? Like I was getting

0:53:44.800 --> 0:53:48.240
<v Speaker 2>like Bravo was like our whole production team at Bravo

0:53:48.400 --> 0:53:51.200
<v Speaker 2>was treating me like I'm gold And I'm like, is

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:54.719
<v Speaker 2>there something that I'm missing here? Because the dress. Let

0:53:54.719 --> 0:53:56.040
<v Speaker 2>me tell you about the dress. This is why it

0:53:56.040 --> 0:53:57.880
<v Speaker 2>will make sense to you. So the dress that I

0:53:57.920 --> 0:54:02.640
<v Speaker 2>wanted to wear was accustomed to sign gown that unfortunately

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:08.640
<v Speaker 2>my back area would not get into because I forgot

0:54:08.760 --> 0:54:13.239
<v Speaker 2>I had allowed that area to get you know, well, no, no, no,

0:54:13.960 --> 0:54:17.880
<v Speaker 2>transfer is that what you call it? You took from

0:54:19.360 --> 0:54:20.720
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, don't let it go to wait, sonny,

0:54:20.760 --> 0:54:22.919
<v Speaker 2>So we put it over here. Well, I probably should

0:54:22.960 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 2>have told the designer that before she made the dress

0:54:25.040 --> 0:54:28.479
<v Speaker 2>right that I had an extra. No big deal, glad

0:54:28.520 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 2>it's here. We so we had to order like off

0:54:31.360 --> 0:54:33.719
<v Speaker 2>the rack, which I don't like to do, and that's

0:54:33.719 --> 0:54:37.920
<v Speaker 2>where that dress came in. And so our stylist was like, yo, no,

0:54:38.000 --> 0:54:39.400
<v Speaker 2>where this one? And I was like, but it's not

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:41.439
<v Speaker 2>the color. She says, no, trust me on this one.

0:54:41.520 --> 0:54:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Where this one? So because all of that happened, and

0:54:44.719 --> 0:54:47.360
<v Speaker 2>then when I see the set and I see the girls.

0:54:46.960 --> 0:54:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what's happening?

0:54:50.280 --> 0:54:55.399
<v Speaker 2>But it wasn't. When you look at the photo, you

0:54:55.400 --> 0:54:56.200
<v Speaker 2>you can't unsee it?

0:54:56.239 --> 0:54:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Can you?

0:54:57.000 --> 0:55:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Can you unsee it? It's like my mama KK is

0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:05.560
<v Speaker 2>now mama kay?

0:55:06.200 --> 0:55:07.560
<v Speaker 1>You said K's mama kay?

0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:08.840
<v Speaker 3>Hey K.

0:55:09.560 --> 0:55:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Juliana Cultur and kkm.

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:17.239
<v Speaker 1>Okay me as we wrap things up, because I could

0:55:17.239 --> 0:55:22.239
<v Speaker 1>talk to you all day long because I.

0:55:20.560 --> 0:55:21.920
<v Speaker 2>Come on, girls, what do you get?

0:55:22.040 --> 0:55:28.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm just obsessed with you? No, Okay, what do you

0:55:28.920 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 1>think your future is with Ink? Do you when you

0:55:32.120 --> 0:55:40.000
<v Speaker 1>and Gordon are officially divorced, is your plan to immediately

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:43.799
<v Speaker 1>get engaged or marry Ink? And would would inc move

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:47.200
<v Speaker 1>to d C? Or would you move to Atlanta?

0:55:48.480 --> 0:55:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Well that's a loaded question, I think when it comes

0:55:53.640 --> 0:55:56.919
<v Speaker 2>to Ink, like, we know we have forever, so there's

0:55:56.960 --> 0:56:01.160
<v Speaker 2>no rush. Do I love him absolutely? Am I in

0:56:01.200 --> 0:56:03.520
<v Speaker 2>love with him without a doubt? Have I always been

0:56:03.520 --> 0:56:06.400
<v Speaker 2>in love with him? Yes, He's always been. He's always

0:56:06.440 --> 0:56:11.040
<v Speaker 2>had my heart. And I'm just so grateful that we're

0:56:11.080 --> 0:56:13.680
<v Speaker 2>now in a space where we can live authentically and

0:56:13.719 --> 0:56:18.080
<v Speaker 2>live out loud and we can be together. And I

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 2>am excited about marrying him and being his first lady,

0:56:24.760 --> 0:56:29.279
<v Speaker 2>and I am excited about what the future holds as

0:56:29.320 --> 0:56:35.759
<v Speaker 2>far as DC, Maryland, North Carolina. Don't forget, Houston is

0:56:35.800 --> 0:56:40.040
<v Speaker 2>actually on the chatterbox of what we want to do next.

0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:48.560
<v Speaker 2>I think remember I'm Bikosal, Yes I forgot, and I'm syndicated. Baby,

0:56:49.719 --> 0:56:53.160
<v Speaker 2>my man is now syndicated. He's not a DJ, He's

0:56:53.160 --> 0:56:56.000
<v Speaker 2>a syndicated radio personality. He's over. He just picked up

0:56:56.080 --> 0:56:59.440
<v Speaker 2>new markets, so hopefully he'll continue to grow and evolve

0:56:59.480 --> 0:57:03.200
<v Speaker 2>in that space, which he will because that's just what

0:57:03.280 --> 0:57:10.960
<v Speaker 2>he does. So well, we are looking to build in

0:57:11.200 --> 0:57:17.600
<v Speaker 2>Georgia because I feel like it's time and he you know, obviously,

0:57:18.400 --> 0:57:20.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to move into his home because that

0:57:20.960 --> 0:57:23.360
<v Speaker 2>was that's a home that he built for his daughter's

0:57:23.400 --> 0:57:26.480
<v Speaker 2>mother and it's six bedrooms and I want seven plus.

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:31.840
<v Speaker 1>So would you want would you? Would you have kids

0:57:31.880 --> 0:57:33.920
<v Speaker 1>with him? Or are you? Are you done?

0:57:35.040 --> 0:57:39.959
<v Speaker 2>So I'm not going to say never, and I do.

0:57:40.240 --> 0:57:45.880
<v Speaker 2>We have talked about this and wants more children, and

0:57:46.600 --> 0:57:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I will give that to him if that if that

0:57:49.480 --> 0:57:52.560
<v Speaker 2>was time, right, But of course we're probably going to

0:57:52.600 --> 0:57:54.880
<v Speaker 2>go through the process of freezing some eggs soon because

0:57:54.920 --> 0:57:58.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, my clock is chicken here. It may have talked,

0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:02.600
<v Speaker 2>but I think it's important that when you're with the

0:58:02.680 --> 0:58:05.360
<v Speaker 2>man and this is what he wants, like we as

0:58:05.480 --> 0:58:08.720
<v Speaker 2>women like I want to make my man happy, and

0:58:09.320 --> 0:58:14.240
<v Speaker 2>I feel like having children will complete our circle. And

0:58:14.560 --> 0:58:17.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, he has a beautiful baby girl that I

0:58:17.760 --> 0:58:20.040
<v Speaker 2>consider to be mine and I think she looks more

0:58:20.120 --> 0:58:22.760
<v Speaker 2>like me than she does him anyways, So she even

0:58:22.800 --> 0:58:26.120
<v Speaker 2>has my feet, like she has big feet and her

0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:27.920
<v Speaker 2>mom doesn't have big feet, and either is he and

0:58:27.960 --> 0:58:30.160
<v Speaker 2>she has big feet. It's like meant to be.

0:58:31.120 --> 0:58:34.240
<v Speaker 1>But do you get along with his child's mother.

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't know her, but I do know that she's

0:58:38.600 --> 0:58:43.680
<v Speaker 2>a phenomenal mother and from like conversations that you know,

0:58:43.720 --> 0:58:46.600
<v Speaker 2>I've been around, that they've had that there, he's doing

0:58:46.640 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 2>a phenomenal job being a good dad. Yeah, yeah, I

0:58:51.480 --> 0:58:52.680
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't even know.

0:58:54.160 --> 0:58:57.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I have to say this, you know, listen,

0:58:57.600 --> 0:58:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I have the privilege.

0:59:00.840 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 2>And I can also tell you why I haven't met

0:59:02.440 --> 0:59:04.040
<v Speaker 2>her if you want me to know, why have you

0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:07.960
<v Speaker 2>met them? Because she was she's a fan of the show.

0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:09.720
<v Speaker 1>She's a fan of the show.

0:59:09.800 --> 0:59:11.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I haven't met her. I have not met her.

0:59:12.040 --> 0:59:15.120
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you why. Because he told me. He's like, yeah,

0:59:15.120 --> 0:59:17.400
<v Speaker 2>I will come home and you'll be on the TV screen.

0:59:17.520 --> 0:59:20.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you never want to decide to tell her that, Hey, yeah,

0:59:20.080 --> 0:59:22.640
<v Speaker 2>that's my ex girlfriend. Yeah.

0:59:22.760 --> 0:59:24.640
<v Speaker 1>Is she a fan of yours?

0:59:24.640 --> 0:59:31.400
<v Speaker 2>Probably not anymore so she's team Karen probably probably, Yeah,

0:59:32.120 --> 0:59:33.600
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not going to say anything bad about her.

0:59:33.680 --> 0:59:35.400
<v Speaker 2>I have nothing bad to say about her. Other than

0:59:35.440 --> 0:59:36.360
<v Speaker 2>I know that she's a good.

0:59:36.240 --> 0:59:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Mom and she lives in Atlanta.

0:59:38.200 --> 0:59:39.760
<v Speaker 2>She is in Cleveland.

0:59:40.120 --> 0:59:46.280
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, hmm, you have so much story going on, baby, No,

0:59:46.320 --> 0:59:49.520
<v Speaker 1>but listen, that's why I have to say this to you,

0:59:49.680 --> 0:59:53.680
<v Speaker 1>and I really want you to to hear this and

0:59:53.760 --> 0:59:58.640
<v Speaker 1>know that it's genuine. You are a star. I saw

0:59:58.720 --> 1:00:03.440
<v Speaker 1>that the moment you walked in to the party. I

1:00:03.480 --> 1:00:05.760
<v Speaker 1>forgot who party it was. No, it's when doctor Wendy's party.

1:00:05.840 --> 1:00:08.440
<v Speaker 2>Yes, shout. I haven't been back out there since.

1:00:09.720 --> 1:00:11.080
<v Speaker 1>She was as far.

1:00:11.400 --> 1:00:13.600
<v Speaker 2>I love Wendy, but girls, she needs to move closer.

1:00:13.760 --> 1:00:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, no, I knew it then, and I have

1:00:17.120 --> 1:00:19.280
<v Speaker 1>to say and I really, I really want you to

1:00:19.400 --> 1:00:24.200
<v Speaker 1>know this. Yes, you really have so much potential. Thank

1:00:24.240 --> 1:00:27.120
<v Speaker 1>you to be as big as you want to be.

1:00:27.760 --> 1:00:36.360
<v Speaker 1>It's not every day that you see somebody that just

1:00:36.440 --> 1:00:38.640
<v Speaker 1>has it and you have it.

1:00:38.560 --> 1:00:39.600
<v Speaker 2>Coming from you.

1:00:39.600 --> 1:00:42.240
<v Speaker 1>No, you, and I need you to you. You have it.

1:00:42.960 --> 1:00:46.240
<v Speaker 1>And people used to read me for filth about you,

1:00:46.240 --> 1:00:50.080
<v Speaker 1>you giving her too much, you praised her, and then

1:00:50.160 --> 1:00:52.919
<v Speaker 1>in the last season, I promise you, they all said,

1:00:54.240 --> 1:00:56.400
<v Speaker 1>fuck he was right, like Carlos was right, and then

1:00:56.440 --> 1:00:57.840
<v Speaker 1>they they're seeing it now this season.

1:00:57.920 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

1:00:58.640 --> 1:01:02.320
<v Speaker 1>You really have a very bright future ahead of you,

1:01:02.920 --> 1:01:07.520
<v Speaker 1>and not a lot of people have that. You can

1:01:07.600 --> 1:01:10.160
<v Speaker 1>be on TV and not be a star. You could

1:01:10.160 --> 1:01:11.480
<v Speaker 1>be on a show for twenty years and not be

1:01:11.520 --> 1:01:15.600
<v Speaker 1>that girl. I need for you to know you are

1:01:16.040 --> 1:01:20.040
<v Speaker 1>a motherfucking star and you are that girl, and I

1:01:20.920 --> 1:01:26.640
<v Speaker 1>am I'm happy to witness you start art, start off

1:01:27.040 --> 1:01:32.280
<v Speaker 1>as the underdog and emerge as a star. You are.

1:01:32.520 --> 1:01:36.760
<v Speaker 1>So kudos to you. Whatever you're doing, whether it's praying

1:01:36.800 --> 1:01:42.440
<v Speaker 1>to God about you know all of this, or you know,

1:01:43.840 --> 1:01:49.320
<v Speaker 1>stepping on these girls you know and being but whatever

1:01:49.360 --> 1:01:52.200
<v Speaker 1>you're doing, keep it up. I am so proud of you.

1:01:52.320 --> 1:01:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I really really am. And this interview has been long overdue,

1:01:59.360 --> 1:02:03.920
<v Speaker 1>long over Yes the rain johns happen asking and baby

1:02:04.560 --> 1:02:07.680
<v Speaker 1>you answer, so I thank you. This means the world

1:02:07.760 --> 1:02:10.360
<v Speaker 1>to me that you said yes, and thank you for

1:02:10.440 --> 1:02:13.360
<v Speaker 1>cussing me out. And this goes to show y'all can

1:02:13.400 --> 1:02:16.040
<v Speaker 1>cuss me out and you read me?

1:02:16.520 --> 1:02:16.640
<v Speaker 2>OK?

1:02:16.800 --> 1:02:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Yes that's and I want to say this. I'm in

1:02:19.400 --> 1:02:24.160
<v Speaker 1>with this. When Mia cussed me out, she was speaking

1:02:24.200 --> 1:02:27.240
<v Speaker 1>on behalf of the cast, and I want you to

1:02:27.280 --> 1:02:30.160
<v Speaker 1>know that she didn't do it just for her. She said,

1:02:30.200 --> 1:02:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I said, who said you? She said, everybody feels this way.

1:02:35.280 --> 1:02:38.240
<v Speaker 1>I said, well talk about I said, I'm sorry. So

1:02:38.440 --> 1:02:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I want I want you to know you are a

1:02:39.720 --> 1:02:43.320
<v Speaker 1>team player. Yes, and you cause people can do this

1:02:43.360 --> 1:02:46.880
<v Speaker 1>all day long. And you when you called me and

1:02:46.920 --> 1:02:49.760
<v Speaker 1>we spoke, you spoke on behalf of your cast. I did,

1:02:49.840 --> 1:02:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and I want them to know you are team player.

1:02:51.680 --> 1:02:56.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, well, thank you.

1:02:56.160 --> 1:03:04.680
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