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Speaker 1: to Reality the King. It's me Carlos kings the King

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Speaker 1: of Reality TV and one of the most sought after

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Speaker 1: executive producers in reality television with over ten years of

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Speaker 1: production experience. From Reality with the King. We'll sit down

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Speaker 1: with my friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite

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Speaker 1: reality shows and revisit unforgettable moments that we are still

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Speaker 1: talking and tweeting about. Drops. On this episode of Reality

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Speaker 1: with the King, we are here with Royalty. We are

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Speaker 1: here with somebody that I am star struck over. And

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Speaker 1: y'all know I know all the girls, I love, all

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Speaker 1: the girls I have met everybody, honey, from Oprah to

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Speaker 1: Beyonce to Kim Kardashian West well now Kim Kardashian. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but tonight we have somebody who I love and has

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Speaker 1: so much affection for give it our rain Drops she's

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Speaker 1: finally here, the number one person besides Portia that y'all

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Speaker 1: have your requesting give it up for.

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Speaker 2: Me, be lying, hey Carlos, yes, finally, tuon.

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Speaker 1: Tu you are more beautiful and exquisite in person.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, babe.

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Your body's body and still a little you having a onesie.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's an illusion.

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Speaker 1: You look good.

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Speaker 2: You look good.

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Speaker 1: Well, I had to look good for you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You know, and your feet don't look as bigg in person.

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Speaker 2: You are not that big at all. Okay, I'm tall.

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Speaker 1: How big is your feet?

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Speaker 2: Eleven? And I wear twelve? Okay, I have a measuring taste, yes,

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Speaker 2: and look Andy said I had cute shoes, so okay,

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Speaker 2: measure my foot my toes o gave.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna measure guys, okay, because people said with

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Speaker 1: Niko minasro big foot, it was about you, okay, and

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Speaker 1: not somebody else. Okay, So look they're.

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Speaker 2: In eleven just I wear shoes according to so my

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Speaker 1: So this is how big you feet is?

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Speaker 2: Can im? I mean jump right on into.

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Speaker 1: It it now. Listen all jokes aside this Mia b

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Speaker 1: Lyon took off and it wasn't sheer fun?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well can we make sure that I'm not lying? Right?

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Speaker 2: What was my fust size?

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Speaker 2: Boom?

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Speaker 1: All right, so yeah, Mia, you know.

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Speaker 2: What feet what they say they got big sucks, they

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Speaker 2: got big socks.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about you.

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Speaker 1: The rain drops have taken this mea be lying and

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Speaker 1: rent with it. But I want to ask you do

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Speaker 1: Because it's not in any negativity? And I hope you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, I mean honestly, I think it's fun.

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Speaker 2: I think it's in just like I don't take myself

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Speaker 2: I know the truth, and sometimes I'd be stretching the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: It's a view points. It's how I view thinks. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you know everybody doesn't have this mindset.

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Speaker 1: That's the mea mindset. Yes, it's high in frequency.

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Speaker 2: Correct, you know, and you know when it's good it

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Speaker 2: works for me.

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Speaker 1: Now listen, baby, everything works for you instead of me

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Speaker 1: and be lying we're gonna call you Mi a b stallion. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you are a stallion, And I want to ask you this,

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Speaker 2: You know, I honestly don't even know if I consider

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Speaker 2: came out of your mama's womb. We were like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: All right, she's different. I left the hospital, which like

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Speaker 2: Do I aspire to be that? No? I'm just being

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Speaker 2: has definitely taught me a lot about myself because you know,

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Speaker 2: it's one thing to do things, but then when you

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Speaker 2: see yourself, and then you get other people's opinions, because

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Speaker 2: you know, I've always been in spaces where people probably

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Speaker 2: space where it's like okay, all right, that's how you

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Speaker 2: I can change that, I can amend to that. You know,

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Speaker 2: maybe I shouldn't be that much of a ass, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. And I think it's really been

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Speaker 2: humbling for me to be able to be in this

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Speaker 2: really dope, amazing people in my life who have always

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Speaker 2: told me how amazing I am, and in this platform,

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Speaker 2: I'm now being put out there to be reminded that no,

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Speaker 2: you are human. We're all human. So and I think

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Speaker 2: that's good. It's been good for my soul.

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Speaker 1: Are some of the girls threatened by your newfound stardom?

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Speaker 1: Some of your castmates?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the girls, Well, No, I don't

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Speaker 2: think so they should be. I'm never threatened by another

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Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? So, I think that

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Speaker 2: we all win, right, That's how I that's my model.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know how they feel.

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Speaker 1: Well, Karen, I hope not. Karen called you a dilapidated.

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Speaker 2: Stripper pull dancer, which I don't know nothing about a poll.

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Speaker 2: I wish I did, but I don't.

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about her calling you that?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: Karen has a lot going on right now, And while

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Speaker 2: I really do want to say, you know, some really

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Speaker 2: right because what happens when you're going through something, When

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Speaker 2: to be a dilapidated pole dancer, It's like, okay, so

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Speaker 2: you're not only coming for me, You're coming for a

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Speaker 2: whole community of women who are working their butts off

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Speaker 2: to get to their next level of life. You know.

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Speaker 2: One of the things that I always tell people, and

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Speaker 2: it's hard because you know, being an entertainer does have

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Speaker 2: its negative connotation, you know, because there's different types of clubs.

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Speaker 2: With a club that I worked at, there were girls

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Speaker 2: And they, you know, have gotten married and have children

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Speaker 2: and they're so uber successful, probably far successful than some

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Speaker 2: of the girls that I know. Oh my, no shade,

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like what they started in a

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Speaker 2: lot of girls were going to school to be real

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Speaker 2: estate agents and then selling homes to our customers, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean. So you can't and I'm going

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Speaker 2: to speak for them forever. So for Karen to say that,

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Speaker 2: it's like, no, you just don't speak on something you

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Speaker 2: don't know nothing about and I want.

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Speaker 1: To clear something up because obviously you have admitted that, Yes,

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Speaker 1: you used to dance and when you met Gordon you

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Speaker 1: met him at the Strip Club. It did okay, I

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Speaker 1: interview your amazing boyfriend, Inc, who is fantastic, it was

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Speaker 1: also revealed, is great. He's very handsome. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: he gives me a cross between fors Whittaccur and his soul.

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Speaker 2: He's so he's anointed. He really is, like he really

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Speaker 2: it's something about him. It was like that in high school.

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Speaker 2: He's just getting even better with time, like fine wine.

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Speaker 2: And I love him so much.

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Speaker 1: I know I love him too. So when you were

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Speaker 1: you met Gordon there. Ink did say that he found

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Speaker 1: out about Gordon because the car that Gordon bought for.

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Speaker 2: You the sign from my car he Gordon.

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Speaker 1: Co sign, the Gordon lead the down payment.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. We had to leave it.

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Speaker 1: Did Gordon give you the money for the car?

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Speaker 2: No, Gordon co signed. I needed his credit.

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Speaker 2: But why did I I feel like I just I

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Speaker 2: I want to say, the Ink at that time didn't

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Speaker 2: have like a plus plus credit. I know that he had,

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Speaker 2: like that that he had gone on when we were kids,

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Speaker 2: but we were also like nineteen years old, you know,

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Speaker 2: so I needed someone that was little more seasoned so

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Speaker 2: I can get that zero down payment and get the

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Speaker 2: range Rovers and Lexuses, and I left a lot with

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Speaker 2: a Honda Cort, a car I can afford.

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Speaker 1: Right, did you have a car note?

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Speaker 2: Yes? I paid it. And that's why he he knew

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Speaker 2: and his name is on there on the My name

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Speaker 2: was on the mail as well, and then Gordon's name

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Speaker 2: was on there as well. And honestly, I didn't know

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Speaker 2: that they send you actual paper mail, like I can't

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Speaker 2: get an electronic payment. Come on, now, he's not my hustle.

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Speaker 1: He's the girls. Do you know, how do you feel

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Speaker 1: when people feel like Mia, you hustled Gordon while you

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Speaker 1: were in a relationship with Ink, you know.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like, you know, it's easy for people

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Speaker 2: to think that right, But in reality, Gordon actually back

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Speaker 2: in the day, I'm not going to speak bad about

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Speaker 2: my soon to be ex husband because we are so

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Speaker 2: So you know, Gordon actually helped a lot of the

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, Disney Plus. For sure. She's just like,

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Speaker 2: You guys have to say tune because there's a time

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Speaker 1: So a lot of people are requesting the seer prayer,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think you need to lay it out there,

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Speaker 2: What I don't want to have happened is that you

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Speaker 1: Who do you think is father.

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Speaker 2: Jeremiah Gordon is the father of Jeremiah.

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Speaker 2: I sat there at the reunion and said that, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, and ink it's a great dad. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: do you want a bunch of cackling like yay? Like

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would prefer for it not to be

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Speaker 2: if we didn't address it, then I would be Karen Houger.

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Speaker 1: Do you think Karen? Do you think Karen shows her

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Speaker 1: reality to the show we're not talking about. Okay, not

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Speaker 1: to want to ask, Okay, Okay, So last week on

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Speaker 1: my podcast, you know, I gave you a gloring recommendation.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't watched, please watch we we offer typing

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Speaker 1: me a prayer.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait you to look at it because the

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Speaker 1: last time I said something about you, you send me

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Speaker 2: I haven't watched since. No, I'm kidding. No, I watched

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Speaker 2: your interview with Ink okay, because I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's so cute, so good, and it was a love letter.

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Speaker 1: It was a love letter. It was yeah, it was.

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Speaker 2: But I also, and Carlos, let me say this, like,

437
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 2: I honestly love and respect what you do. I respect

438
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 2: all of our bloggers, the good, the bad. Okay, but

439
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 2: but you but you are Okay, but you are? Could

440
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: you talk about our show? You talk your journalists. Yes,

441
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 2: I'm a podcast that's Okay.

442
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I.

443
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 2: Mean, because you're your boss. I respect everybody who talks

444
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: about our platform, and I think I said that to you,

445
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: you know, whether whatever you're saying about us, I wanted

446
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 2: to be authentic. I wanted to be real. I wanted

447
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 2: to be exactly how you feel, right, because then what

448
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 2: are we doing. But at the same and I have

449
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 2: a lot of respect for you, but so I don't

450
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: hold it. I never hold anybody like to tooth and

451
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 2: nail for doing their job, you know. Same thing with

452
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: our producer. Sometimes I'd be like, ye, shady, but I

453
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 2: do not get mad at them because they're doing their job,

454
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 2: you know, and I have to respect that. You know,

455
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 2: if you are a reality TV producer, that comes with

456
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 2: a certain level of you know, you're making you're making TV.

457
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: And unfortunately I get the bruntend sometimes of the edit

458
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 2: that's okay, you're doing your job, which is you know

459
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: you listen.

460
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 1: I love you because no, I love you because you

461
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: send me a scathing DM and I. But the thing

462
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: is this, I appreciate that you reached out directly because

463
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 1: sometimes there's some people who have my phone number that

464
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,439
Speaker 1: chooses to like go off about me to other people,

465
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: and I'm always like, y'all, don't ask this person or

466
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: these people, like don't you have Carlo's number? Why are

467
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 1: you telling us that not him? So I appreciate you

468
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: hit me up. Yes, I sent me a call me.

469
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,640
Speaker 1: You and I had an hour long conversation and I

470
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: was able to hit your POV.

471
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 2: Yes.

472
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: And I respected you from from from from that jump,

473
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: because you took upon yourself to say, listen, I love

474
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 1: you what you do. I don't like what you said,

475
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,719
Speaker 1: and we were able to talk about it and I

476
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: apologize to you. And we are here today. Yes, child,

477
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: we are just getting started. This is reality with the

478
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show.

479
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: Last week, me and the rain Drops we questioned some

480
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: things that happened. So instead of me and be Lyon,

481
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 1: we did say mebe lion dot dot dot still question mark.

482
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 1: It was a question mark though the way Jlo has

483
00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: her album this is Me Then, and her new album

484
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: is called this is Me Now. So we want to

485
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 1: play a game of maybe lion okay or mea b

486
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: lion still okay. So in the premiere episode, the Lovely Jacqueline,

487
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: who also had my podcast, because I'm so obsessed with you.

488
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: I had the entire world on my podcast.

489
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 2: Said, everybody except for my mama.

490
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 1: Your mama, next child, please help me. Okay. So Giselle

491
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant Okay, did her job and asked the question

492
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: we wanted to know, because you did say two years

493
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: ago that you and Jacqueline had a three some from

494
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: one of your excees. And one thing we have seen

495
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: with Jacqueline is she goes hard, no pun intended for

496
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: you and for Ink.

497
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 2: She you know, I mean, I love Jacqueline.

498
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a Jacqueline stand. I'm happy she's back

499
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: on the show. Me and be Liar or me and

500
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 1: be lion still or Mia Moore?

501
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:57,239
Speaker 2: Where are we going with this?

502
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: Jacqueline you Ink? Have y'all ever had a threesome? Whether

503
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: it was kissing each other at the same time, you know,

504
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: in the bed together and somebody's big toe touch somebody's

505
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 1: you know stuff.

506
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So and what did I say?

507
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: No?

508
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 4: So, okay, did you Jacqueline ever have anything? Sometimes people kiss, So.

509
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 2: I don't remember, no said no, seriously, Okay. The only

510
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: thing that I do remember is I don't remember ink

511
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: and Jacqueline ever doing anything. And I don't remember Jacqueline

512
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 2: and I ever doing anything with Ink present because Ink, honestly,

513
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 2: and I said this in this in the season, it

514
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: doesn't play about me. Ink is very protective about me.

515
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 2: Ink is very much so like what are you doing when? Why?

516
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: What it was happening? Like I don't want anybody saying

517
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 2: anything bad about you. They don't know you. You know,

518
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 2: he's very very very much so deeply in love with me,

519
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: and so that is not something that he can't he

520
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 2: doesn't have it at him right, which is really refreshing

521
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: because I've been living a decade where it's been the opposite.

522
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 2: So it's really nice to be back in that yeah,

523
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 2: you know, queen seat, so to.

524
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: Speak, where you're not being shared with others.

525
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 2: I don't have to yeah, you know, and I don't

526
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: have to share him and so but which I don't

527
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 2: want to share him. Oh yeah, a little moment, but so,

528
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: but I do. Remember we had just moved into we

529
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: had just upgraded and we moved into like our little

530
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: corner suite and Jacquline came to vis and this is

531
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: in Charlotte, and she there there was some activity going

532
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: on between her and some a friend.

533
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: A male friend or female.

534
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 2: Friend a male friend, and we I remember watching you, guys,

535
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: I'm a voyeur. Right, Ekle was there, but he didn't participate,

536
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: so that's why it's a little gray. And I had

537
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: to go back and we had to compare notes because

538
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 2: mind you, this is like twenty years ago. Guys, right,

539
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: we're kids, But no, not as far as I know.

540
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 2: And that's gonna so Mia, don't be lying.

541
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: In case your memory comes back to you, I'll do

542
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: a retraction.

543
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: Okay, But I do think that we showered together, the

544
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: three of us, but it wasn't intimate, like and you

545
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: guys should know that about me by now, Like I

546
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:59,239
Speaker 2: shower with my friends and it's like a legit. We

547
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: in there to get the job done, not to like

548
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: be And what job is that take a shower to

549
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:09,479
Speaker 2: smell like soap?

550
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: The three of y'all needed to take a shower together

551
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: to smell like soap? Yeah, so did something grow while

552
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: y'all were showering?

553
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: No?

554
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: So ink didn't grow while y'all were showering?

555
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: No, not that I remember.

556
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: Why do you have a bad memory?

557
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 2: I don't know? Twelve deficiency? I seriously I do.

558
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: Nia if I could not love you.

559
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 2: More, I just be honest you that, Sonny.

560
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: It's to the point where we don't care if you're

561
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: lying or not. We just love you because it's what

562
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: makes you you, and it's while you're such a stand

563
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: out on this show, you are wacky in the best

564
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: way possible.

565
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: That's with that, thank you.

566
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so rain jobs, I'll figure it out later. Yes.

567
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: In the first episode Candace trended, people were saying whether

568
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: or not they miss her. There's people who did miss

569
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 1: Candace and said the episode was missing Candace. There's people

570
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: who said, glad she's gone. We didn't even think about her.

571
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on Candace not returning the season?

572
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 2: So? I think Candace taking a break right now is

573
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: perfect timing. She's having a baby. She honestly gets really

574
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 2: emotional and she takes this very literal, and I think

575
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: having a baby is the time for her to be

576
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 2: at home nesting, Okay, and that's exactly what she's doing.

577
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 3: Right.

578
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 2: Do I love Candace?

579
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

580
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 2: Do I miss her?

581
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

582
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: Do I think she crazy and that mouth is lethal? Yeah?

583
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 2: But I like it, you know, And I think that

584
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 2: that's what made her a really great reality TV star

585
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: because she is unfiltered and she will the things and

586
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: we need that. We need somebody to not be scared

587
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 2: of the girls right now, you know. And I just

588
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 2: think that in Candace brings a lot I think personally.

589
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: You know, she's an artist. You know how I feel

590
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: about artists and music the industry. Yeah, so love language.

591
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: So if you had to choose between bringing back Monique

592
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Samuels or Candace, why, I don't know. Monique, would you

593
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: like to? I know? But some people say, I don't

594
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: know Monique. I saw what she did on the show.

595
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 1: I would love for her to come back so I

596
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: could play with her. But what what would you want?

597
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm always down for new friends, you know,

598
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: I'm bringing on all the friends for more, more to

599
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: have foe with, you know. And I from what I know,

600
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: and Monique and I do have mutual friends, like in Photomac.

601
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: I mean, it's not that big. And they have raped

602
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: about her. They love her, they think she's great. They

603
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: actually think that the two of us will be really

604
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 2: great friends. We just haven't had the opportunity to connect.

605
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 2: You know, she's going through a divorce. I'm so busy

606
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,720
Speaker 2: with my kids. I'm not like out in the scene

607
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: as I would be if I wasn't getting a divorce,

608
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 2: right but if I'm not working, I'm literally home with

609
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: my babies with my bonnet on. Like, so I'm not

610
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: into social life right now because I do have a

611
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:30,720
Speaker 2: lot going on. But I think that from what I saw,

612
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 2: I like her. You know, she was a mother. But

613
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 2: there is something about Monique that I did kind of

614
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 2: like I was trying to tap into. She has a story,

615
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 2: but I don't think we don't know it doing like

616
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 2: she didn't want to talk about it. Yeah, I don't

617
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 2: like she like and I feel that with her, and

618
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: I think that the two of us probably will be

619
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: able to connect on that level. But what I understand

620
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: is that she's not as transparent as I am. But

621
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 2: I do think that anytime someone's been through some things

622
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: like there's an automatic connection that we probably would have.

623
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the new cast members. So we have

624
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 1: Stacey who's from Detroit.

625
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: Yes, And then we have and so are you from

626
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: the Dyes?

627
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 1: And you you used to you would go to the

628
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: D in the summers.

629
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 3: Yes.

630
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 2: So my father, my biological father is from Detroit, wasn't

631
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: raised by him, But I will go and visit my

632
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 2: grandparents and I would spend the summers and I would

633
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: get my hair braided across the street in the alleyway,

634
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 2: and I learned how to play spades.

635
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the Detroit.

636
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 2: It's a black first little boyfriend was like he lived

637
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 2: on the next street over and he used to come

638
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: over and ride his bike and you know, on the

639
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 2: summers and things like that, like middle school. This is

640
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: pre you guys. Yeah, so I know Detroit is like

641
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: to me, and what is it? Westfield Mall? They got

642
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 2: like a like a real not so nice girl, you're

643
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 2: going to.

644
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: This my city. I don't know what ball you're talking about.

645
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: I like you, I don't.

646
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 2: Remember Detroy has some place. So I'm like, okay, but

647
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: it's a lot of fun, it's a lot of character.

648
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: I definitely can side with Stacey. Stacey opens up about

649
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 2: her being from Detroit and how her daughter is not

650
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 2: being raised in Detroit. But girl, you need to go

651
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: ahead and just take a baby and drop her off

652
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 2: at Auntie's house for the summers. She'll she'll get to

653
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 2: learn her hair.

654
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: You like Stacy.

655
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: I love Stacy. I think Stacy brings a lot At first,

656
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: I was like, ooh, girl, you scarecrowsy weird looking like

657
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,240
Speaker 2: she's like weird, you know what I mean. She's quirky,

658
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: she's weird. She does this like turkey neck thing, but

659
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 2: I like thing.

660
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 1: She's just like like an ostrich Or dress.

661
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 2: And but I love it and her innocent like little

662
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 2: game that she plays. It's cute. It's real cute.

663
00:36:58,520 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: And again you like her.

664
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 2: I do like her. I wasn't so sure I like

665
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 2: her so much because of all of her weirdness. And

666
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 2: I've said these things to her face, like I tell her, Okay, girl,

667
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: you're weird, but I like it. It's okay to be

668
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:16,439
Speaker 2: pretty and weird. Another pretty weird girl. Okay, she's gonna

669
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: be good.

670
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 1: Okay.

671
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 2: I think I hope everybody likes her. I really do,

672
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: But you know, sometimes, you know, happy movie.

673
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:30,479
Speaker 1: I don't know, so the jury still out in terms

674
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: of whether or not. You know, listen, I'll say this

675
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:34,439
Speaker 1: so far, so good.

676
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then we have the other one, Yes, Jazzy,

677
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 2: the other one for Jazzy. Forgot that Jazzy is actually

678
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: my friend. I bring her to the group right because

679
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 2: you know, she's very pretty. She's very pretty, she's fabulous,

680
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 2: she's you know, she's a wag. Right, So she's actually

681
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 2: newly engaged to her fiance, which now plays for Dallas.

682
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 2: He was playing for the Chiefs when we met, and

683
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: now he's at in he's in what is the Dallas Cowboys? Dallas, right,

684
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 2: that's in Dallas the Cowboys. Clearly yay, not my league.

685
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 2: But she's you know, she's amazing, and she brought her

686
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 2: home there and back home, so hopefully you guys get

687
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: to see more of her. She's spunky, she's witty. I

688
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 2: like her crazy though, you know, but she's my friend,

689
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 2: so friends, I've known her for almost two years now, okay,

690
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 2: but she's also really good friends with Ink's best friend,

691
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: so yeah, he has a really good there's a his

692
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 2: friend listening to d m V. It's a girl and

693
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: they're really really close. And so I kind of like

694
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: vouch for her because I feel like anybody's friends with

695
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 2: Ink if you like her, I love her because Ink

696
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 2: don't play. He don't do no like funny business. Ain't

697
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 2: like it when.

698
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: You revealed that he folds Gordon's underwear and.

699
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: Clothes, So I'm glad that just clear this up. Thank you, Carlos,

700
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: I love you, okay, it's very much so an alpha male,

701
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: he's a Capricorn, he's type A. I absolutely love all

702
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,240
Speaker 2: of those quality traits about him because he is a man.

703
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 2: You know, he's y'all be talking about my baby's height.

704
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: But honey, he's like, you.

705
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: Take pictures that way to not have him appear shorter

706
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: than you photos. No, is that on purpose?

707
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 2: Well no, it's not on purpose, but we're gonna continue

708
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 2: to do it now.

709
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: But you say, ink makes up for his hot and

710
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 1: other another area.

711
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 2: For sure with the same height when sounds so guys,

712
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: so you know.

713
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: But.

714
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 2: Okay, but it is. It's blessed, yes, for sure. And

715
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: I think that where were we talking about?

716
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 1: I'm distracted too, and I think I did a prayer

717
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: claw yes, yes, yes, you know we're talking about the

718
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: fact that they said in Gordon's under Yes.

719
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: Okay, he no, he didn't like it at all at all.

720
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 2: He was like, babe, like what now, here's the thing. This,

721
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 2: this is what's the game that we were playing with

722
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 2: Jamie Mea b Lyon still okay, so me Mia b

723
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 2: Lyon On that right because this is what I remember? Okay.

724
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 2: So and we talked about it right, So here here's

725
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 2: what happened. It was a lot going on with Gordon

726
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 2: around off season and we weren't filming, and I was like,

727
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, Gordon, like you're stressing me out, Like

728
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 2: he was saying at my home. He had his own home,

729
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,959
Speaker 2: but he wanted to come stay at my home because

730
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 2: he didn't want to be alone, you know, like he's

731
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 2: going through a lot, like a lot, and so he

732
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: naturally left stuff at the house and when you know,

733
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 2: I just throw it in the laundry, and Ink, you know,

734
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 2: was helping fold now. I remember him coming across a

735
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 2: couple of Gordon's pieces of clothing. I didn't think it

736
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: was a big deal. I probably should not have said

737
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: that about my babes. But also too he he made

738
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: it very clear. He was like, no, He's like, I

739
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: didn't fold that man's laundry. I ain't folding that man's laundry.

740
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 2: I'm a girl man. And he and I believe him

741
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 2: because Ink won't lie like Ink does not lie. So

742
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm sorry, babe, I really thought that maybe

743
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 2: you had folded those places of clothing.

744
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: See like you said the alpha mel thing. I think

745
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,280
Speaker 1: it was a big deal that social media went crazy,

746
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, it's funny.

747
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: I looked it was like he's showing up for the household.

748
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: I really took it as there's a bunch of clothes yours,

749
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: the kids and Gordon's, and I felt like he was

750
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 1: folding everyone's clothes, helping you. I never looked at it

751
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: that this is Gordon's laundry basket and he picked it

752
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: up from the General Electric dryer and was folding it

753
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: like he was Florence on the Jefferson. I didn't. I

754
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: never took it that.

755
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: Way, and honestly, I didn't think it would I wouldn't

756
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 2: have said it if I knew that it would affect

757
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 2: He is an alpha male and if he didn't fold

758
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 2: his laundry, he ain't his laundry. And he said, and

759
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 2: I believe him.

760
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 1: So so we saw you get kicked out of Gizelle's events.

761
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah, so.

762
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: Listen, I thought that is honey, you know anyway, listen,

763
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: I loved that episode because I thought the fact that

764
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 1: Ashley said be here by eight, and what I loved

765
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 1: about the producers following I thought it was super smart.

766
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 1: Shout out to the producers. It was super genius for

767
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: them to have enough camera to follow Karen's event at

768
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 1: the same time as Gazelle's. Follow the phone call, follow

769
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: you guys in the sprinter, and then when you made

770
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: it back like aight oh four or whatever, right, like

771
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: actually walking in amount atol four.

772
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 2: You knew, y'all. We got there at eight, but it

773
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 2: takes forever for us to get out the car.

774
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: You know, you got the car.

775
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 3: Too.

776
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 2: We were there probably before eight. It just takes us

777
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: a while because you got to get everybody out, and

778
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:36,360
Speaker 2: we got to check our mics, and we got to

779
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 2: do we got to do a little bit of extra

780
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 2: than the normal. Oh my god, girl, we're here, you

781
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,919
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So Gazelle, you know, I'm gonna

782
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: give her. I'm gonna have some compassion for my girl,

783
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: because I really do like Gazelle, even though she has

784
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 2: no compassion for me whatsoever right now, no thing she does,

785
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 2: no why. It's a little it's almost alarming that she

786
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 2: doesn't have compassion for what I'm going through. It's a

787
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 2: little alarming.

788
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm sad you seem a little saddened by it.

789
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 2: I am saddened by it because I feel like what

790
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,839
Speaker 2: I'm going through is so unorthodox that and I mean

791
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 2: my husband sat up there and said my ex soon

792
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 2: to be ex husband sat up there and said what

793
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 2: he was going through. He has also said I had

794
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: been mean to you. He has also said, you know,

795
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 2: I Miya has been nothing but supportive to me. He

796
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: is he decided to, you know, bring out what he's

797
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 2: going through. And I feel like because of that, like

798
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: state your opinion on how you feel and be a

799
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: good girlfriend and come over and check on my kids.

800
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Like, if you're so

801
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: concerned because we're friends, I've been friends with these girls

802
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 2: first years. If you're so concerned, call me, text me,

803
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 2: knock on the door, say hey girl, you want to

804
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: go get ice cream with the kids? Do something. But

805
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 2: don't sit there and wait. This is where I this

806
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,919
Speaker 2: is where I got kanvases back on this one. Don't

807
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: sit and wait until the cameras come around to be like, oh,

808
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 2: I'm concerned about the kids. No you're not, because if

809
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 2: you were concerned, like legit, concern about my children being

810
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,399
Speaker 2: the girlfriend that I had been to you, like when

811
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 2: her father passed away, what did I do? I cleared

812
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 2: my calendar, the girls and I got a car. We

813
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 2: went all the way around Photomac Bethesda in the streets,

814
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 2: picked up all the girls, went to her house, picked

815
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 2: her up, took her out to dinner, spoiled her, went

816
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: out for drinks. After we did exactly what she wanted

817
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: to do. We poured into her because we wanted her

818
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 2: to know that she was not alone. What you're going

819
00:45:43,320 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 2: through is hard, So we're here for you, right, That's

820
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 2: what friends do. And we did that on our own time,

821
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 2: right because we're friends. And for her to like be, oh,

822
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 2: I'm concerned about your kids, No, you're not, because if

823
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 2: you were, you were come and check on my kids. Right. So, yeah,

824
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: I'm hurt by it.

825
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: But I'm still not to cut you off. The reason

826
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: why I wanted to I wanted to have you talk

827
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: about this. I didn't know this obviously, is because people

828
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: do sometimes look at you like, oh, she's Finnsors, this

829
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: wacky character. Right. This is the first time that I'm

830
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 1: really seeing you have some emotion when it comes to

831
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: your friendship with Giselle, and they can't see what I'm

832
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 1: seeing right now because obviously I'm close to you. Your

833
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: eyes are watering up a little bit. They're welling up

834
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: a bit.

835
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 2: I don't give that to well no, no, no, no, no.

836
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: Maybe no no no.

837
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is too man, I'm fine dusty in here, Carl.

838
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 1: It's dusty. It's dusty. But I think it's good. Listen.

839
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 1: A lot of people have questioned the authentic friendships on

840
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: the show. Right, I had no idea you and Deserve

841
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: were that close and me hearing what you did for

842
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: her off camera and real life, in real time, it's

843
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,439
Speaker 1: so beautiful and I don't think the world knows that.

844
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: And I now, and I'm being real with you, this

845
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:08,399
Speaker 1: is me having a real moment.

846
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 2: She has shown up for me authentically off camera. Full disclaimer.

847
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 2: When Gordon did TMZ, she wanted to throw a whole

848
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 2: like emancipation of me, me for me. But you know,

849
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: in hindsight, I'm like, girl, you were celebrating something because

850
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 2: you were excited because I was single, like you, Right,

851
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 2: That's what was going on, because I mean, she was

852
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,359
Speaker 2: so excited to find out that Gordon was like, oh yeah,

853
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: another single girl, and she was like celebrating. The hindsight,

854
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 2: I thought, you know, oh, she's showing up for me.

855
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 2: But now I'm like, no, girl, you were celebrating my turmoil. Gag, Okay, no,

856
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 2: seriously think about it. Think about it, you know. And

857
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 2: so then then I'm like, Okay, this is alarming, but

858
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 2: you know, and I'm still I say all that, I'm

859
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 2: still going to give her grace because I know, losing

860
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 2: the parents really really tough. It is my father's no

861
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 2: longer here with me, and I wasn't raised by him,

862
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 2: and it's still tough. So I'm going to give her

863
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: a benefit of the benefit of the doubt because I

864
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 2: also know she's a dady's girl, you know what I mean.

865
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 2: And she's been used. She's been living her life with

866
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 2: someone basically telling her how amazing she is. And now

867
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 2: she doesn't have her best friend Robin, and you know,

868
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 2: she she a fish out of water and her her

869
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 2: kids are gone. You know what she doing? She ain't

870
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: no man, she you know, like she and her Willie

871
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: Wonka house like trying to. I feel bad for her,

872
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 2: you do, I know, you know, And I have to

873
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 2: give her grace because she don't have it together. She's

874
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 2: she's really pretty gorgeous. Yeah, you know that was up

875
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 2: for debate when I first met her with that was

876
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 2: it right when she just pretty face? You know, I

877
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 2: don't know. That's up for debate now, so time will tell.

878
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: Okay, because what I was going to say is I

879
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: now have full understanding on why in the first episode

880
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: that continue to continue you into the second you had

881
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: a very emotional reaction to Gizelle questioning that situation. I now,

882
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: at that time, I'm be real with you, I didn't

883
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: get it because, like you said, y'all film all day,

884
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: you don't see everything. I now understand you. You and

885
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: you were you weren't just crying, you were bohooing.

886
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was hard, Now I get it. It was hard.

887
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 2: It was hard because you know, there's so much that

888
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 2: goes on that doesn't get films, and showing up is

889
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 2: like the battle, and that day I was showing up,

890
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 2: it was a hard day. So it was just like

891
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 2: there was other things that I had going on that

892
00:49:56,800 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 2: when showing up was there. That's all you're gonna get out.

893
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 2: So the littlest thing I'm not able to like, I'm

894
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 2: just like I was tired. And of course Jacqueline has

895
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 2: been with me all day, so she knows, you know,

896
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 2: so I don't know it was just one of those days.

897
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,760
Speaker 2: But I'm still gonna give her grace. I mean, honestly,

898
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have even tried to make it to her party, right,

899
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 2: But it's about her father, So I'm gonna stay here.

900
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: The two women who sat there and were questioning whether

901
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 2: or not I was protecting my kids had me on a

902
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: got during world tour crawl on accepting fake awards and

903
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 2: raising money for New Foundations because it's a new cause.

904
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 2: Like come on now, like give me and you're gonna

905
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 2: kick me out and ink it just flooring to town

906
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 2: I have. I'm just like take me home. Did you

907
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 2: see the way that I'm like, all right, I'm out.

908
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 2: I was soone bothered, soone bothered?

909
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, maya be lying or may be lying? Still, you

910
00:50:55,960 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: were different colored green dress in the promo shoot. Was

911
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: that accidental or to let these girls know there's a

912
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: new queen in town?

913
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 2: That was actually accidental? No, it was you.

914
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 1: I saw you're that promo ship. I said, so your

915
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 1: fans to be a more through the raid drops. They

916
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: tagged me and said, Carlos, ever since being came on

917
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: this show, your prediction about her stardom has been factual.

918
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 1: They said, Carlos. They call me Carlos Carlos. Mia is

919
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: a center and the promo, Shoot, you're right, be a one.

920
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,399
Speaker 2: I was like, who sat me here? Like no, So

921
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 2: the same thing with the Reunion when I didn't find

922
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 2: out that I was sitting next to Andy too. I

923
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 2: walked out there, I said, who put me in control?

924
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: These girls? I don't want that job? And so but

925
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, it is what it is like, I.

926
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: Don't know this is me. You're talking, we're talking. When

927
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: you found out, yes you have first chair, Yes this

928
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: is me baby. As you found out, yes you have

929
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 1: first chair. Yes that's reunion, there's something in your mind

930
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: goes Mia, this is it. You did bitch work.

931
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 2: There was there was something that went gosh darn, like

932
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,439
Speaker 2: this is now It's like it's lonely at the top.

933
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 2: Now where I'm going I'm gonna be sending it any

934
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: sture next, Like.

935
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,879
Speaker 1: We're not going there? Where do I go from here?

936
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 2: I don't Oh my god, your yeah.

937
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 1: First season frightens.

938
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: Me because I know what it's like to run organizations,

939
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:36,879
Speaker 2: and I'm like, dang, when you get to the top,

940
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 2: then what it's lonely up there? And then you gotta

941
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 2: work harder to like stay. It's harder to keep an

942
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: a than to earn an a swear.

943
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: Uh huh. Right, when you saw that you were in

944
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 1: the center of the photo shoot, was that another moment

945
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,840
Speaker 1: where I mean, this is me and you were you

946
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: kind of like that that?

947
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 2: Honestly, when I sat down when I walked into that

948
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 2: set first all and I saw Karen and I saw

949
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 2: my bridesmaids, and I said, I said, well, I do

950
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: I do? I dos inc gonna show up? Are we

951
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: getting married today? Karen looks like the mother of the

952
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: bride and those are my bridesmaids. Seriously, I was like,

953
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 2: is this something I need to know?

954
00:53:31,480 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 3: Guys?

955
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,279
Speaker 2: And everybody was being over nice to me. No one

956
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 2: is talking telling me things. I got things popping up

957
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 2: in my dressing room, like gifts and flowers, and I'm like,

958
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 2: who are these from? You know? Like I was getting

959
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 2: like Bravo was like our whole production team at Bravo

960
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 2: was treating me like I'm gold And I'm like, is

961
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 2: there something that I'm missing here? Because the dress. Let

962
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 2: me tell you about the dress. This is why it

963
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 2: will make sense to you. So the dress that I

964
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: wanted to wear was accustomed to sign gown that unfortunately

965
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 2: my back area would not get into because I forgot

966
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 2: I had allowed that area to get you know, well, no, no, no,

967
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:17,880
Speaker 2: transfer is that what you call it? You took from

968
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:20,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, don't let it go to wait, sonny,

969
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,919
Speaker 2: So we put it over here. Well, I probably should

970
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 2: have told the designer that before she made the dress

971
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,479
Speaker 2: right that I had an extra. No big deal, glad

972
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 2: it's here. We so we had to order like off

973
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 2: the rack, which I don't like to do, and that's

974
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 2: where that dress came in. And so our stylist was like, yo, no,

975
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 2: where this one? And I was like, but it's not

976
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,439
Speaker 2: the color. She says, no, trust me on this one.

977
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 2: Where this one? So because all of that happened, and

978
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,360
Speaker 2: then when I see the set and I see the girls.

979
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, what's happening?

980
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:55,399
Speaker 2: But it wasn't. When you look at the photo, you

981
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 2: you can't unsee it?

982
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: Can you?

983
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 2: Can you unsee it? It's like my mama KK is

984
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 2: now mama kay?

985
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: You said K's mama kay?

986
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: Hey K.

987
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 2: Juliana Cultur and kkm.

988
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 1: Okay me as we wrap things up, because I could

989
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 1: talk to you all day long because I.

990
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 2: Come on, girls, what do you get?

991
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm just obsessed with you? No, Okay, what do you

992
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:32,040
Speaker 1: think your future is with Ink? Do you when you

993
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 1: and Gordon are officially divorced, is your plan to immediately

994
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 1: get engaged or marry Ink? And would would inc move

995
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 1: to d C? Or would you move to Atlanta?

996
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: Well that's a loaded question, I think when it comes

997
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:56,919
Speaker 2: to Ink, like, we know we have forever, so there's

998
00:55:56,960 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: no rush. Do I love him absolutely? Am I in

999
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 2: love with him without a doubt? Have I always been

1000
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 2: in love with him? Yes, He's always been. He's always

1001
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 2: had my heart. And I'm just so grateful that we're

1002
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: now in a space where we can live authentically and

1003
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 2: live out loud and we can be together. And I

1004
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:24,160
Speaker 2: am excited about marrying him and being his first lady,

1005
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 2: and I am excited about what the future holds as

1006
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 2: far as DC, Maryland, North Carolina. Don't forget, Houston is

1007
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 2: actually on the chatterbox of what we want to do next.

1008
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 2: I think remember I'm Bikosal, Yes I forgot, and I'm syndicated. Baby,

1009
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 2: my man is now syndicated. He's not a DJ, He's

1010
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: a syndicated radio personality. He's over. He just picked up

1011
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:59,440
Speaker 2: new markets, so hopefully he'll continue to grow and evolve

1012
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 2: in that space, which he will because that's just what

1013
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 2: he does. So well, we are looking to build in

1014
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 2: Georgia because I feel like it's time and he you know, obviously,

1015
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 2: I'm not going to move into his home because that

1016
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 2: was that's a home that he built for his daughter's

1017
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 2: mother and it's six bedrooms and I want seven plus.

1018
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: So would you want would you? Would you have kids

1019
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: with him? Or are you? Are you done?

1020
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:39,959
Speaker 2: So I'm not going to say never, and I do.

1021
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 2: We have talked about this and wants more children, and

1022
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 2: I will give that to him if that if that

1023
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 2: was time, right, But of course we're probably going to

1024
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 2: go through the process of freezing some eggs soon because

1025
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 2: you know, my clock is chicken here. It may have talked,

1026
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 2: but I think it's important that when you're with the

1027
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 2: man and this is what he wants, like we as

1028
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 2: women like I want to make my man happy, and

1029
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: I feel like having children will complete our circle. And

1030
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 2: you know, he has a beautiful baby girl that I

1031
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 2: consider to be mine and I think she looks more

1032
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 2: like me than she does him anyways, So she even

1033
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 2: has my feet, like she has big feet and her

1034
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 2: mom doesn't have big feet, and either is he and

1035
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 2: she has big feet. It's like meant to be.

1036
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 1: But do you get along with his child's mother.

1037
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 2: I don't know her, but I do know that she's

1038
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 2: a phenomenal mother and from like conversations that you know,

1039
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 2: I've been around, that they've had that there, he's doing

1040
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 2: a phenomenal job being a good dad. Yeah, yeah, I

1041
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't even know.

1042
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I have to say this, you know, listen,

1043
00:58:57,600 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: I have the privilege.

1044
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 2: And I can also tell you why I haven't met

1045
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 2: her if you want me to know, why have you

1046
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 2: met them? Because she was she's a fan of the show.

1047
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: She's a fan of the show.

1048
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I haven't met her. I have not met her.

1049
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 2: Let me tell you why. Because he told me. He's like, yeah,

1050
00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 2: I will come home and you'll be on the TV screen.

1051
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, you never want to decide to tell her that, Hey, yeah,

1052
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 2: that's my ex girlfriend. Yeah.

1053
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 1: Is she a fan of yours?

1054
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:31,400
Speaker 2: Probably not anymore so she's team Karen probably probably, Yeah,

1055
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 2: But I'm not going to say anything bad about her.

1056
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 2: I have nothing bad to say about her. Other than

1057
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: I know that she's a good.

1058
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 1: Mom and she lives in Atlanta.

1059
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 2: She is in Cleveland.

1060
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hmm, you have so much story going on, baby, No,

1061
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: but listen, that's why I have to say this to you,

1062
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: and I really want you to to hear this and

1063
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 1: know that it's genuine. You are a star. I saw

1064
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 1: that the moment you walked in to the party. I

1065
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: forgot who party it was. No, it's when doctor Wendy's party.

1066
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 2: Yes, shout. I haven't been back out there since.

1067
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:11,080
Speaker 1: She was as far.

1068
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 2: I love Wendy, but girls, she needs to move closer.

1069
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, no, I knew it then, and I have

1070
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 1: to say and I really, I really want you to

1071
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 1: know this. Yes, you really have so much potential. Thank

1072
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 1: you to be as big as you want to be.

1073
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 1: It's not every day that you see somebody that just

1074
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 1: has it and you have it.

1075
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 2: Coming from you.

1076
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 1: No, you, and I need you to you. You have it.

1077
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Speaker 1: And people used to read me for filth about you,

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Speaker 1: you giving her too much, you praised her, and then

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Speaker 1: in the last season, I promise you, they all said,

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Speaker 1: fuck he was right, like Carlos was right, and then

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Speaker 1: they they're seeing it now this season.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You really have a very bright future ahead of you,

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Speaker 1: and not a lot of people have that. You can

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Speaker 1: be on TV and not be a star. You could

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Speaker 1: be on a show for twenty years and not be

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Speaker 1: that girl. I need for you to know you are

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Speaker 1: a motherfucking star and you are that girl, and I

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Speaker 1: am I'm happy to witness you start art, start off

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Speaker 1: as the underdog and emerge as a star. You are.

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Speaker 1: So kudos to you. Whatever you're doing, whether it's praying

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Speaker 1: to God about you know all of this, or you know,

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Speaker 1: stepping on these girls you know and being but whatever

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Speaker 1: you're doing, keep it up. I am so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: I really really am. And this interview has been long overdue,

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Speaker 1: long over Yes the rain johns happen asking and baby

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Speaker 1: you answer, so I thank you. This means the world

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Speaker 1: to me that you said yes, and thank you for

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Speaker 1: cussing me out. And this goes to show y'all can

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Speaker 1: cuss me out and you read me?

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Speaker 2: OK?

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Speaker 1: Yes that's and I want to say this. I'm in

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Speaker 1: with this. When Mia cussed me out, she was speaking

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Speaker 1: on behalf of the cast, and I want you to

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Speaker 1: know that she didn't do it just for her. She said,

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Speaker 1: I said, who said you? She said, everybody feels this way.

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Speaker 1: I said, well talk about I said, I'm sorry. So

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Speaker 1: I want I want you to know you are a

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Speaker 1: team player. Yes, and you cause people can do this

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Speaker 1: all day long. And you when you called me and

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Speaker 1: we spoke, you spoke on behalf of your cast. I did,

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Speaker 1: and I want them to know you are team player.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love you so. Thank you for listening to

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Speaker 1: Reality withthe King dot com and be sure to follow

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Speaker 1: and Yes Baby my YouTube channel where you could get

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Speaker 1: all of my visuals, baby, my expressions, Yes, and don't

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Speaker 1: forget Tweet me your thoughts and hot takes about this

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Speaker 1: the King is a production of Kingdom Reign Entertainment, an

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