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Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you encourage your kid being a rebel. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, I want him to

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Speaker 1: post malone, little sixty nine's, you know, Yeah, teardrop, gummy bears.

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Speaker 2: You need the whole package exactly. Yeah, how are we

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Speaker 1: So, my son just turned sixteen has had alopecia since

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Speaker 1: hair falls out. It can progress with severe stress, and

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Speaker 1: since elementary school he has been bullied mercilessly for it.

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Speaker 1: The only real treatments were these injections into his scalp,

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Speaker 1: was getting to the point where he'd become anxious closer

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Speaker 1: I came across micro pigmentation, which is not a bunch

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Speaker 1: of little pigs that dance across your body. But I

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Speaker 1: want tiny pigs. You want tiny pigs. Pigs us to

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Speaker 1: news Flash Ordo, tiny pigs. There are only baby pigs

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Speaker 1: that turn into giant pigs. He agreed that this seemed

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Speaker 1: like the best option, so for his birthday, I managed

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Speaker 1: which made it totally legal, because it can be like

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Speaker 1: it's like illegal, it's like tattoo a kid under eighteen,

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Speaker 1: right in many cases, right, unless they have alopecia or

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Speaker 1: want to be a rapper. Yeah. We drove two hours

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Speaker 1: fairly small. I don't know how to describe it even

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Speaker 1: if it's buzz. This stuff looks so real, and his

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Speaker 1: confidence is just through the room. He's no longer hiding

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Speaker 1: under hats. He feels confident with his new quote unquote hair.

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Speaker 1: And it's really great to see. That's awesome. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do love this. The kid is just like feeling himself.

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Speaker 1: He's like, you know, got that, got that. I don't

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Speaker 1: Britney spears look perfect, perfect buzz look you know? Or

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Speaker 1: Will Smith's wife got that g I Jane. Look. I'm

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Speaker 1: honestly so glad that we made the decision because now

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Speaker 1: which he does not need because he got no hair.

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Speaker 1: His school, however, thinks otherwise. He goes to a pretty

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Speaker 1: strict Catholic school. Apparently I should have asked first, but

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Speaker 1: I had flipped through the guidebook and saw nothing about

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Speaker 1: on Monday evening from a substitute teacher. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: she overheard my son explaining his procedure and felt compelled

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Speaker 1: to tell me how this mutilation is illegal and unacceptable mutilation.

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Speaker 2: Lady.

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Speaker 1: Last I heard there was a thing called none of

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Speaker 1: your business. Yeah, it helps my son feel more confident.

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Speaker 2: Also, I love how it's the substitute teacher. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: And also like, if a face tap made me feel

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Speaker 1: more confident, could I get it? Why the hell not?

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Speaker 1: If I'm in Catholic school, they wouldn't let me have

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Speaker 1: longer hair in Catholic school, Well, they wouldn't let me

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Speaker 1: have hair below my ears. You would be labeled the

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Speaker 2: Right, so plot twist. You get a face tat, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Right under loophole if I get if I get a

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Speaker 2: And then and then they're like, oh, get that removed.

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Speaker 1: The word of God? Yeah, from my face. I try

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Speaker 1: I don't think is taking it like I think it's

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Speaker 1: to say, this prompted a lot Apparently the board is

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Speaker 1: saying that I took the threats too far as this

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have taken such an aggressive approach. Am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole for getting this woman fired and also

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Speaker 1: for causing such a stir? So, John, what do you

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Speaker 1: think is OP the a hole or not? I also

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Speaker 1: be okay, This would be okay, But I actually no,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie like I I was like, Oh

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Speaker 2: he just has hair, exactly, he just has hair to

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Speaker 2: like no, no, no, no no, you are a bad parent.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness that saying that you are a bad parent.

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Speaker 1: I would have been pissed. I would have been pissed.

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Speaker 2: So I one hundred percent think that because here's the

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Speaker 2: other thing too, if if op like didn't sue, that

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Speaker 2: almost sets a precedent where it's like other kids with

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Speaker 2: it sounded like, oh he didn't even have the like

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Speaker 1: It was more like, hey, I want my kid to

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Speaker 1: and just like life about being bullied and with having

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Speaker 2: And it's just it's just the stupid stuff with school

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Speaker 2: reasonable human being on planet Earth is like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: what a wonderful, beautiful thing. Yeah, he now gets to

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Speaker 1: And there's just some rule followers that are like freaking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, super quick story there was in my hometown Bradenton, Florida.

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Speaker 1: There is the story where oh yeah she.

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Speaker 2: Uh, this girl wasn't wearing a bra, so they sent

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Speaker 2: BuzzFeed got the story. Wow, it went like crazy vibe.

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Speaker 2: This is like the year like after my sister graduated

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Speaker 2: And it's funny because like they were They are known

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Speaker 1: Wait, do you remember what the BuzzFeed article was?

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Speaker 2: It's called for Brandon River High School Braden River High

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Speaker 1: That I don't know exact game. How do you? How

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they they they wore shirts with cut like

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Speaker 2: That is hilarious, Bro, that's amazing. That is so hilarious.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, that's my that's my little story there. Well, well,

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Speaker 2: I mean, John, I love hearing your story. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: know who else's stories? I love hearing who? Sam are

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Speaker 2: He's husband did not like her taste of mustard. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Little Melody ninety three says, quote, my wife left me

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Speaker 2: That would be a terrible, terrible reason. That would be

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Speaker 2: If the husband is getting that insane over mustard, then girl,

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Speaker 2: And then mister swaggle one says the mustard was just

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Speaker 2: an excuse for a divorce. I think he just wanted

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Speaker 1: Are they offering free stuff or are they just I

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Speaker 1: don't know? Maybe? See Okayop, my friend Grace invited me

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Speaker 1: Nick Nick Nick Nick. We had to get drinks and pairs,

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Speaker 1: Nick started the night telling us about his recent career change.

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Speaker 1: I'm a smart developer.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't get it, your poor bro and cultured during

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Speaker 1: I never told him I had been working as a

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Speaker 1: I found it a bit entertaining. When it came to

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Speaker 1: worry about it. It's not a problem with my developer salary.

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Speaker 1: Huh know, like you know Sharon in the Wealth. That's cool.

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Speaker 1: He asked me if it's true that I'm a software engineer,

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Speaker 1: He assumed he could have simply asked me about my job,

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Speaker 1: I did find it entertaining, but I don't really feel

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Speaker 1: I think the answer here not the a hole? No, no, dude,

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Speaker 1: I mean like if he's hed as.

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Speaker 2: He's like, oh no, like you don't have to do it,

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Speaker 2: and he insisted multiple times that's on you. Bro's you

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Speaker 2: you wanted to be the big head and be the

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Speaker 2: big shot.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, yeah, maybe be a little less braggadocious. There you go.