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Speaker 1: love little sup Fill you up. Hey, guys, we have company. Okay, anyways,

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Speaker 1: lex Niko is on the line right here. Lex, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm great. How are you all doing well?

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Speaker 1: We're great because your timesaver traffic here. I have to

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Speaker 1: read the book. Spare and tell me all this stuff,

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Speaker 1: give us the cliff notes. Oh my gosh. First of all,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you listening to it on audible, it

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about it now. Okay, great, I'm sold on that,

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Speaker 1: all right. So lex Nico host The Crown Jewels podcast,

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Speaker 1: which breaks down royal family news each week. Um. Three

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Speaker 1: biggest takeaways from spare and by the way, congratulations because

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Speaker 1: I'm sure he's listening. Congratulations Terry. Uh the best selling

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Speaker 1: non fiction book or something whole time? Right? Oh, absolutely

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Speaker 1: well done, Harold, who knew? I mean, there are some

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Speaker 1: big takeaways in this book, I think first and foremost

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Speaker 1: was that his way of dealing with it. It was

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Speaker 1: his way of dealing with it, but it evolved to

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Speaker 1: for Harry. All Right, Will Harry and William ever work

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Speaker 1: an optimistic person. But the sibling rivalry that comes through

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Speaker 1: Like we have Harry talking about William's balding head, comparing

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Speaker 1: Megan's behavior. Um, you know, he talks about how William

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Speaker 1: So William and Harry have a sub simily rivalry. Maybe

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Speaker 1: they got to go to group therapy together. Who would

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Speaker 1: you rather play pick a ball with or Harry? Oh gosh,

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Speaker 1: his private parts a lot, like why there's over fifteen

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Speaker 1: he needs to apply this Elizabeth Arden cream to his area.

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Speaker 1: But what happened is that the cream triggered a memory

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Speaker 1: cream and I applied it down there. Why do we

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Speaker 1: need to know this? But if I need to know,

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Speaker 1: but if I got frost bite down there, that's not

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Speaker 1: coming up in six you think? So fair? I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: it it really I appreciate that. Why do you think

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Speaker 1: But man, oh man, like there are certain things like

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Speaker 1: for private conversation, the private, private spare all of us

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Speaker 1: I mean very very interesting. Before you go, we have

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Speaker 1: lex Niko on the line, who's everything royal over the weekend? Um,

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Speaker 1: King Charles. So well, Harry and Megan go. So here's

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Speaker 1: but if they don't show up, there is a very

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Speaker 1: I'm saying provocative. I'm sure maybe, but why multiple times

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Speaker 1: some cuts. Need to worry about anything in the sunshine mine? Do?

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Speaker 1: I know? Definitely not. When you look up your book

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Speaker 1: on Amazon to order it, it suggests that many people

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Speaker 1: have purchased your book with the Harry book, like what.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny. It's like at everybody's been sending me

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Speaker 1: screenshots on Amazon when they order because the News wrote

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Speaker 1: up an article about like books, they're excited and it

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Speaker 1: was mine, yes, and so I think people bought them together.

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Speaker 1: And after that reading the article, that's the only explanation's

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Speaker 1: this thing we are to Harry because of your co authorship?

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Speaker 1: How funny is that? I know? I love this is why,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna pay a bill in the five

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