1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Oh all right, like we're writing in our diaries, except 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: we say them aloud. We call them blugs. Caitlin, Yes 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: you got one, go. 4 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 2: Yes, sir, dear blog. So, if you are a new 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: friend of the show, you know or you do not 6 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: know yet, that I have a little sister. We're thirteen 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 2: years apart, so the lines kind of blend between like mother, sister, 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 2: all kinds of stuff. And I, you know, I played 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 2: hand in raising her, I'd like to think, and so 10 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 2: watching her grow up and just kind of living vicariously 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 2: through her has been a trait for me. And I 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 2: was with her over the weekend and she kept talking about, 13 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 2: you know. 14 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:40,319 Speaker 3: For my twenty first this, and for. 15 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 2: My twenty first thatt and I was like, why is. 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 3: She talking about? Like we have years before that, Like, 17 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,319 Speaker 3: am I right right? 18 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, right, okay, fine, whatever, you want 19 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: to do this for your twenty you want to do that? 20 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 3: And I realized, oh my gosh, she's twenty. 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: Like her twenty first is in August, And I was like, 22 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: first of all, where did the time go? I mean, 23 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: you know, she's definitely had a drinker too, allegedly already, 24 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: but she's not. 25 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: A big drinker, but. 26 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 2: Where like, I just cannot believe she's twenty one. And 27 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 2: you'll remember. 28 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 3: Last year. 29 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: In Chicago, we have a festival called Lalapalooza, and my 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 2: sister got control of my apartment because I'm a sucker, 31 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: and had all her friends there. 32 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 3: I moved out for the weekend. 33 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 2: They had free rein and she had apparently an after 34 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 2: party that you guys were all at. I heard there 35 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 2: were some of the headliners from the festival. I heard 36 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: that it was really exclusive. I was not invited. So 37 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 2: she wants to spent her twenty first birthday here in Chicago. 38 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: Of course, of course she does, of course she does. 39 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 2: So we are now looking at Bella's Beautiful Life Festival, 40 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: possibly part two, the twenty first birthday edition. 41 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 3: Oh boy, which scares. 42 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 2: Me a little because that seems a little wilder than 43 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: the Lala after party edition when we're. 44 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: All yet now, are you included in this or is 45 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: it like Lala where you have to leave your own 46 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: house and give it to them? 47 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 3: Well, here's people don't. 48 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: Remember this a lot of palooza in Chicago. Your sister came, 49 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:11,959 Speaker 1: you had to move out of your own place so 50 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: she and her friends could move in mm hmm, and 51 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: then book the after party guests. 52 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they had people. 53 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: Martin Garrick's was wild that you got him to show 54 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: up for the after party, But well, I was there. 55 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:24,679 Speaker 3: It was unbelievable. 56 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: It was crazy, like I've never I couldn't believe they 57 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: got all the lights and the smoke and everything in there. 58 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: And you know, not a very expansive place either to 59 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: have a thousand people in it, but wow. Yeah, So 60 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: this time, are you included or are you supposed to 61 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: just provide the accommodation and then leave. 62 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: Well probably a little bit of both. I mean I 63 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 3: need to be included. 64 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: But it's starting to seem like, you know, I'm her 65 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 2: maid of honor now at this point, because I'm like, okay, 66 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: I'm planning this now too. 67 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 3: I love her so much. 68 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: But when I had my twenty first in Chicago, I 69 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 2: packed about nineteen friends into a hotel. 70 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 3: We all split it. We have people on the floor. 71 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: But she, you know, has access to a sister, so 72 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: I'm trying to help her plan. But I you know, 73 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 2: I live in a one bedroom now. Her boyfriend, i 74 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: will say, is moving into his own apartment nearby because 75 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 2: he's a year older, but he has two roommates. 76 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: So it's starting to. 77 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 2: Really look like it's Bella's Beautiful Life at my apartment. 78 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 2: It's starting to look like I got to figure out 79 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 2: where all these damn girls are staying, where these damn 80 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: girls are going out and eating. I mean, I'm like, okay, 81 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: all right, So I'm a little scared. Buckle up because 82 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: you know the twenty firstport that you have to throw 83 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: up or else. 84 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it will be in your toilet hopefully it's 85 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: giving your apartment, right or maybe in your bed, right. 86 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: And now I live in your kitchen, your trash probably 87 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 3: the terrible. 88 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: Deal, right it is, And now I live with another human, 89 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: So we're we're just logistically trying to figure out because 90 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: you know, you'll remember when I moved out of my apartment, 91 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 2: I moved into his apartment. 92 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 3: So you know, Bella's Beautiful Life Festival, I'm sure you. 93 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 2: Guys will be getting the the invites, the QR codes. 94 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's already asked me to start booking stuff. Yeah, 95 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: so it's good. I can book way better than like 96 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: Fire Festival. You know, I'm way better than Billy McFarlane. 97 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: So it's like, yeah, working on a few different things. 98 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: I hope that you're better than Billy mcfarlte. 99 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm working on a few Well, Jason's helping me, 100 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 1: but we're working on a few different things. 101 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 3: We're way better than Billy me. Yeah, oh yeah you are. 102 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: Do you like do you remember your like did you 103 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 2: get buck Wild? 104 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? 105 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: With my entire family, and I went to a strip 106 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: club with my grandparents. 107 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 3: Uh huh that's amazing. 108 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: Twenty first birthday in Vegas. 109 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well she wants to go back to the 110 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: strip club because if you listen, you I've already taken her. 111 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 3: But if she wants to go back, she's welcome to. 112 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 3: But there might be a bow, there might be a this, 113 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 3: there might be a that. Who's hanging for all this? 114 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:54,359 Speaker 1: Kaylen, here's a nice thing about having I have a 115 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: younger sister. She's eight years younger. She got married, and 116 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: guess what, it's his problem now, like these are his 117 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: issues to solve. 118 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 3: She needs to get married. 119 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: But here's the problem is, like I used to give 120 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: her really nice Christmas gifts and I used to like, 121 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: you know, I guess I would. I wouldn't say I 122 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 1: never planned a trip for or anything like that. But 123 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. It was kind of I saw it 124 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 1: as sort of my parents and my responsibility to spoil her. 125 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: But now I don't think. I think it's her husband's 126 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 1: responsibility to plan. And just because you think I can't 127 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: upstage him and that's her problem to deal with, like 128 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: I can't come along with a way better Christmas present 129 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: than he got her, So he needs to, you know. 130 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's his job now, so she used 131 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: to get married and then it will be his job 132 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: and not your job. 133 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 3: It sounds nice. 134 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 2: I mean, he hasn't even started his first job yet, 135 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 2: he's about to, so. 136 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 3: I don't know that I can rely on him right now. 137 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: It might be your job for the first seable future. 138 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: Then it sounds like it's gonna be your job for 139 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: a long time.