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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Carmen is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Adrian for a little over

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Speaker 1: a year, but now she thinks that something might be

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Speaker 1: and hopefully he's not cheating. Carmen, hopefully we can help you.

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Why do you think that Adrian is cheating?

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Speaker 2: So I'm not one to go through anyone's phone. I

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Speaker 2: know if you start you'll find so on and so forth.

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Speaker 2: But we were cooking dinner in the kitchen and he

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Speaker 2: went to go into another room and he left his

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Speaker 2: phone and so it lit up and I grabbed it

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Speaker 2: to go give it to him, and it was actually

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Speaker 2: an email from your show, which we listened to your show. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and it's kind of why I reached out in the

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Speaker 1: You got an email from the show. What was it about?

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Speaker 2: It was actually about the first date segment, So I thought, oh,

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Speaker 2: what is he planning?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Is he being funny?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Is this a surprise?

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Speaker 1: To clarify, he emailed us about a first date follow up?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was yes, yes. So when I looked at

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Speaker 2: the actual email, he had reached out to you guys

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Speaker 2: as far as the first and I thought maybe he

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Speaker 2: was doing it as like a jokey thing. But then

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Speaker 2: I go read I read through the email and it's

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Speaker 2: about a first date he went on with someone named Megan.

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Speaker 2: What yes, yeah, and she's not reaching back out and

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Speaker 2: just like, I just need answers. I'm just confused and

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Speaker 2: I just want to get to the bottom of what's

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Speaker 2: going on. I didn't think that there was anything wrong

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Speaker 2: in our relationship. The more I was reading it, the

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Speaker 2: more I was seeing that there were like I was

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Speaker 2: catching him in these lies, like he was out with

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Speaker 2: his friend he told me, and oh, we're doing a

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Speaker 2: guys night. We're going to go to the bar. And

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Speaker 2: that was the That was the actual day that he

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Speaker 2: said in the email that he had gone on the

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Speaker 1: Wow, did you even bother asking him about it after

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Speaker 1: you read all of that, I mean, you had the information.

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Speaker 2: I haven't. I'm not sure what has come over me.

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Speaker 2: I just I want to find out, you know, if

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Speaker 2: this is what's going on like like that dudes, like

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Speaker 2: I just if he wants to reach out and put

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Speaker 2: his business on the radio. Guess what, that's what he's

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's kind of stupid, right, like cheating me? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why would you do that? I'm not you him obviously,

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Speaker 1: but I mean, is there any way you can explain

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Speaker 1: it away? I'm having trouble finding it, but I'm just

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Speaker 1: wondering if there could be very reasonable what would he say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I can't think of anything. I mean, especially

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Speaker 2: as far as like, like again, like it would be

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Speaker 2: one thing if he was seen out with someone and

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Speaker 2: someone reported it back to me'd be like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was a co worker. So he applied, Like he

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Speaker 2: sent an email to your show asking to be on

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Speaker 2: the show about a first date with someone that isn't me.

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Speaker 2: That's wild, Like you.

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't hear it, like somebody wouldn't do Yeah, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: let's just call him, let's play a song, come back

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Speaker 1: to call him, and then we'll just be from the show.

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Speaker 1: And because when people email us for those things, we

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Speaker 1: call them back and find out more information. We can

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Speaker 1: and then you can oh gosh, do whatever you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: Brace yourself.

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Speaker 2: Cal sound good, sounds like a thing we're gonna do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry that you have to do this. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't make your situation anymore, no fun, but at least

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Speaker 1: call him and get you to catch a Cheater next.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: Carmen is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 1: on her. Pretty hard to think that he's not. Before

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Speaker 1: Carmen explain her situation. Carmen refresh everybody's memory on what's

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Speaker 2: So my boyfriend, Adrian, he left his phone in the

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Speaker 2: kitchen and I saw an email to your show asking

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Speaker 2: to do a follow up on a first date. And

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Speaker 2: the first date was with someone that isn't me, And

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Speaker 2: so now I want to find out what what is

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Speaker 1: All right, So we're gonna call him and just be

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Speaker 1: first date follow up, we you know, interview them and

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Speaker 1: on the air. So we'll just do that. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get some information out of them. I'm

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Speaker 1: foolishly optimistic at times, so I still hope that there's

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Speaker 1: a way that this is not him cheating. But I

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Speaker 1: right now it hopes that too. But really, yeah, Leucie,

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Speaker 1: are you ready.

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Speaker 2: Ready as I can be?

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Speaker 1: All right? Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Adrian?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This Adrian?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, this is the Dubil Show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, nice to hear.

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Not much?

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm feeling good, good day, you know, just looking looking

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Speaker 3: forward to calling this person, seeing if you guys can

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Speaker 3: get in touch with them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what we're talking about. We're talking about the

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Speaker 1: first day followup email that you sent in. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: just you know, before we do these on the air,

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Speaker 1: we do find out more information because sometimes it just

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Speaker 1: might not work for whatever reason. Tell like, what's the

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Speaker 1: situation again?

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Speaker 3: So I met this girl Megan on Tinder and we

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Speaker 3: went out.

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Speaker 2: We kind of went to a nice restaurant and just.

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Speaker 1: For like a timeline in my head. How long ago

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Speaker 1: was that? Two weeks ago?

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Speaker 2: Hey, go ahead, Yeah, and we had a pretty good night.

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Speaker 4: We ended up actually great night, hooking.

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Speaker 3: Up at the end of the night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I thought she was like.

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Speaker 4: Really sexy and hell and I.

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Speaker 3: Would love to see her again.

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Speaker 1: It's just.

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Speaker 3: Like I haven't felt like this about anybody.

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Speaker 4: For a while now.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Really?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you you too, Adrian? Are you serious? Are you

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Speaker 2: for real?

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Speaker 1: Adrian? That is your girlfriend, Carmen. She emailed us about

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Speaker 1: a to get to Cheeter.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, oh crazy. Yeah, you haven't felt that

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Speaker 2: way about someone in in how long? Because we've been

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Speaker 2: together a year, So the math isn't mathing. I saw

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Speaker 2: the email that you sent, the first date follow up

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Speaker 2: email that you sent to the show, and that's why

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Speaker 2: I contacted them.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 2: Uh is this something you do often? I mean, you

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Speaker 2: you lied, You told me you were going I mean,

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Speaker 2: I know details to this. You'd the email. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you told me you were going out with your friends

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Speaker 2: and you hooked up. I mean I haven't even processed

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Speaker 2: that part of it yet. I do not like I

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know how to I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I did well.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I did go out with my friend that night.

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Speaker 3: I just, I literally, I don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: Like you told me that you were going out with

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Speaker 2: all the guys. It was a guy's night, that's why

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Speaker 2: none of the girlfriends were invited, and you were going

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Speaker 2: someone named Megan.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't really a date. It was just like we hung.

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Speaker 2: Out, you hooked up with her. You just said I

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Speaker 2: was the best thing of your whole life, best date ever.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to like make it sound more interesting.

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Speaker 3: I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Really save yourself now.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, I mean I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't know what we've We've been going through a

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Speaker 4: few things, so I thought i'd give it, you know,

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Speaker 2: Do you want to know why she's Do you want

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Speaker 2: to know why she's ghosting you? Because I called her.

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Speaker 2: I got her number from the email and I her

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Speaker 2: from your phone, and I called her, yeah, and I

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Speaker 2: let her know that you are you have been in

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Speaker 2: about moving in together, saying, god, we didn't do that,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. And I let her know everything. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what you want to

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Speaker 2: do with that information. That's why she's ghosting you. That's

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up. I called her, I let

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Speaker 2: her know.

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Speaker 1: You're whoa good job hosting the first day follow up? Carmen,

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Speaker 1: no job, Adrian, Are you still there?

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Speaker 2: Are you there? Do you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm here. I mean, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to say. Well, don't worry about

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Speaker 2: saying anything. Just just goodbye, get off the phone.

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Speaker 3: I'll call you.

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Speaker 2: The show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she did awesome. She's a host and harmon bodyguard. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Serious, I mean, I knew what it was going to

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Speaker 2: be going into it. How could I not. I just

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Speaker 2: you know, they're still shocked, but I'm just so glad

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Speaker 2: we didn't move in together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah real, Yeah, at least you don't. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to deal with that. And I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: that was. I was like, no remorse, that was just

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Speaker 1: like wild. Yes, got saved a big time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm embarrassed. No, I'm embarrassed that I dated that persons.

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Speaker 1: That's my fault. Yeah, you don't. You don't know people

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Speaker 1: you know. You didn't know that that about him when

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Speaker 1: you started dating him. And you should not be embarrassed

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Speaker 1: about your radio hosting skills either, because that was impressive,

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Speaker 1: all of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: The jewel shows to catch a cheater.