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Speaker 2: Who says you gotta wear it?

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Speaker 1: This comes from throwaway big strugs, and they say for context,

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Speaker 1: Semi recently moved back to the States after spending six

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Speaker 1: little FAMI family gathering. I like it, fun stuff. I

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Speaker 1: I was, but all the women wear makeup on a

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Speaker 1: She then said, so why do you look like that?

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Speaker 1: Riley said, I looked sick the other day.

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Speaker 2: It just looks sad.

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Speaker 1: She said, sick like I was a leper.

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Speaker 1: It was like last week?

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Speaker 1: Thanks wants me to wear makeup? I guess. She said,

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Speaker 1: so why do you look like that? And I didn't

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Speaker 1: She started freaking out about how I don't consider seeing

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Speaker 2: Bit over it come on.

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Speaker 1: In tears because OPI didn't wear makeup.

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Speaker 4: Let people live their lives. Why does it matter?

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Speaker 1: It's like a clown with all of your makeup. Doesn't

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Speaker 2: Got him? Take that, Auntie.

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Speaker 1: The next day was the Memorial Day parade, and it

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Speaker 1: so kind of a special occasion, but still casual. My aunt, however,

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Speaker 1: Op, he made me do it.

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Speaker 2: Op, he wasn't wearing makeup to so I became homeless.

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Speaker 2: You see what you did to me.

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Speaker 1: The rest of my family thinks she's being unreasonable, but

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Speaker 1: acting out What do I do? And there is an edit,

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Speaker 1: relevant comments and an update. But John, what do you think?

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Speaker 2: I think this is? Stop highlights an one?

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Speaker 1: What kind of stains?

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Speaker 2: Auntie? What do you get it up to? Over there?

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Speaker 2: Uncle's looking real happy?

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Speaker 4: But in all seriousness, like this is not the aunt

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Speaker 4: Opie doesn't have to fix it, right, I mean she

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Speaker 2: Oh it's not a special occasion.

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Speaker 4: Oh, and it's like Opie's like in reality, Maybe Opie

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Speaker 4: I used to wear makeup every day, but it like

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Speaker 1: Just say, hey, my doctor says I have a skinning

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Speaker 4: I think that was a great, fantastic lie that would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a.

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Speaker 3: Horrible story about How do you know if I should

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Speaker 3: tell it? I told someone I had Tourette's once so

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Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like there's like two scenarios. There's like

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Speaker 4: Is that and the third But in reality, you know

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Speaker 2: You know, I definitely didn't mean to upset you.

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Speaker 4: So you can like give the actual, true, legitimate reason

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Speaker 4: My thought process is like, if that will really stop

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Speaker 2: You can't escape that.

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Speaker 1: And so it's just like, yes, it's annoying, Yes it's dumb,

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Speaker 2: The cost is really not that high.

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Speaker 4: It's just basically apologizing, albeit for something you shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: But I don't know, I can't imagine, like I would

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's gonna make Op's life way harder, and yes

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Speaker 3: I like, sure shocks apologize like that kind of apology.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what it is. It's like, you're not it's

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Speaker 1: It's a palymic apology that he's keeping apology.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, especially if your other family is hounding you like

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Speaker 2: Where it's just not worth it.

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Speaker 1: But let's go into the relevant comments. Let's do it

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Speaker 1: and the update. Oh actually know, just the updates. We

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Speaker 1: alread read the relevant comments, So updates. Hi'all. There have

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Speaker 1: OPI responds, I'm not going to blame her. We don't

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Speaker 3: Story, and is fifty eight years old.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's early, that's early, Opie's I feel pretty like

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Speaker 1: what should Opie do? Apologize? Wow? Wow some of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Actually I don't feel bad. Till wouldn't apologize.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that. I feel like there's not much

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and and in fairness, like I think the uncle

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Speaker 1: I get it. Also, Riley. There they're saying the tip

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Speaker 3: It works for some people, it doesn't work for.

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Speaker 1: It work for us, or just it's there right anyway?

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Speaker 1: Should we do call it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: We can, or we can do the next story. We

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Speaker 1: I don't see another story. Yeah, there's the third one.

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Speaker 1: There's the third one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, what time around.

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Speaker 3: We're fifteen minutes fifty fifty we.

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Speaker 2: Could do I feel like a colin. Yeah, we get

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Speaker 1: Okay, any hit me up on Discord, Hit us up

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Speaker 2: Yes, answer our question.

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Speaker 1: Put it go go DM Riley on Discord, right now,

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Speaker 2: Not even if they have dementia. I'm saying like that

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Speaker 4: Now, what if you're at the risk of your friend

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Speaker 2: Now what do you do? Now? What's your move?

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Speaker 1: I got one.

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Speaker 2: Then I might.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I might block.

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Speaker 3: We got just shin utian.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: It's there. What's their thing?

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Speaker 3: My sister was hit by an ambulance?

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Speaker 2: What, well, it's convenient. What's up? Can you hear us?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Everyone?

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Speaker 1: Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 5: It's going great?

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Speaker 1: So you wrote in that your sister was hit by

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: So that ambulance that hit her took her to the hospital.

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Speaker 5: Yes, awkward, Yeah, yeah, there's a random stool sample on

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 5: A cargo to you the traffic.

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Speaker 5: But someone probably over or something.

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Speaker 5: Thankfully she came out with a couple of those sort

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Speaker 4: that's serious business you could get.

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Speaker 1: Really Also, ambulances are huge, Yeah, they're huge, and they're

443
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Speaker 1: going fast usually, And also I love how it was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she didn't know the rules like she usually we just

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Speaker 1: make way in Sweden and and Jermy to completely stop.

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Speaker 1: So the ambulance just r was on a mission.

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Speaker 5: The worst part is she almost had to pay a

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Speaker 5: fee for the damage the ambulance got for running over

449
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Speaker 5: her bike.

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Speaker 4: What that's insane, did she Well, because it's universal healthcare

451
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Speaker 4: in Germany.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Yeah, so much bureaucracy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, damage with property.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's so annoying insane. Well, I'm glad that your

456
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Speaker 1: sister recovered and also was able to get medical attention

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Speaker 1: very quickly after.

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Speaker 5: The Yes, quite immediate.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Well, so much for calling and sharing your ambulance story.

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Speaker 5: Also, Sam, please check out your discord. I made you

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Speaker 5: a playing card and John yours is actually in the

462
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Speaker 5: process of making as is already.

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Speaker 4: Discord checking out right and we're gonna pull it up.

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Speaker 4: That sounds I did see that in the chat. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I was talking about it.

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Speaker 1: That's so cool. It is that.

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Speaker 4: That's great. Oh you crushed that, Justin. That's incredible. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: let's show. Let's show the people.

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Speaker 2: Need to see this.

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Speaker 1: This is great like the bucket hud there it is.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, wow, conspiracy to be in there so perfect.

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Speaker 1: That's so great.

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Speaker 4: Justin Grave gave us a great story and great art.

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Speaker 2: Round and freaking to.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very my discord is just pigeon up.

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Speaker 2: God, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's only pigeons. I know, you know

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Speaker 1: there's Lord to my person.

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Speaker 2: No, there isn't.

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Speaker 4: Don't stop, guys, don't stop. Let it keep coming. Let's

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Speaker 4: keep coming. Maybe justin if you feel really inspired, you

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Speaker 4: could make some other playing card for Sam that is

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Speaker 4: not pigeon.

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Speaker 1: I know. Just to be clear, your art is incredible.

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling everything else is a discord. You could

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Speaker 1: post other things. Pigeon Lord.

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Speaker 6: You literally like, listen, listen to justtion come on right,

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Speaker 6: you're right awesome, Well, Josha, thanks so much for hopping on.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you, guys.

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Speaker 6: So keep me alive of course, see you watch out

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Speaker 6: for ambulance.

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Speaker 2: Like all right. One final question for this episode.

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Speaker 4: SAME's if you're if you're If your family member attacked

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Speaker 4: you with an ambulance so hard that they had heart

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Speaker 4: attack in their own ambulance, would you cut them off?

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Speaker 2: Yes or no? No contact? Yes or no?

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Speaker 1: I would have a conversation with them, conversation.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well if that, I think that's a wrap.

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Speaker 1: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you. And see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

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Speaker 4: Time for okop relam am. I the a hole for

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Speaker 4: spending my children's inheritance, leaving almost nothing for them and

506
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Speaker 4: my grandchildren.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, it's my money.

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Speaker 1: It's my money. Hold on and you're not gonna take it.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if you got my blood, You're never

510
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Speaker 1: gonna get my money.

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Speaker 4: Like, what what happened to working for yourself? You know, building, earning,

512
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Speaker 4: earning a buck?

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you think Elon Musk just had blood diamonds

515
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Speaker 1: handed to them?

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Speaker 2: Yes, and he did more.

517
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Speaker 1: He invested those blood.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, now we're talking. Yeah, See, invest works smarter, not harder,

519
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Speaker 4: exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know, just get a couple people working for free

521
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Speaker 1: in some foreign country, build a blood diamond empire and

522
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Speaker 1: then hey, just hey, I'm a little rocket boy, go

523
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Speaker 1: into space. Don't look at all the history back here.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a rocket boy trying to save the world.

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Speaker 2: It's magic how it happens. I'm rich.

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Speaker 1: But did you see that video?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: Maybe like Dave Chappelle and invited him upstage, and it's like,

529
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Speaker 1: now the richest man in the world, and then he goes.

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Speaker 2: Like ohm rich but.

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Speaker 1: Oh, elon, yeah, but I'll never fill the hole in

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Speaker 1: your heart. Left my crime as well, and you won't. Hello,

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Speaker 1: good afternoon. What you were about to read is a

534
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Speaker 1: recent cause of emotional stress for me, regret. And I'm

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Speaker 1: doing this, hope, with the help of my colleague and

536
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Speaker 1: his son, whom insists I'm doing the right thing. Consistent.

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Speaker 2: They insisted they got someone in their corner.

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Speaker 1: Hey, the real people that matter are these guys right

539
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Speaker 1: heres the microphones. I'm sixty three years old. I took

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Speaker 1: advantage of better times financially speaking, and managed to get

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Speaker 1: enough money to save, have a good retirement, and leave

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Speaker 1: good inheritance for my children.

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Speaker 2: Awesome.

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Speaker 1: However, Oh, their actions in recent years have broken my heart.

545
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Speaker 1: My oldest daughter is a lawyer and married to an attorney.

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Speaker 1: I have another son who is also a lawyer, and

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Speaker 1: a third who became an engineer, and the youngest who

548
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Speaker 1: is a salesman.

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Speaker 2: Damn, families crushing it.

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Speaker 1: They're crushing it. But we all know who's the disappointment

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Speaker 1: in this family. Oh, come on, salesman, you couldn't be

552
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Speaker 1: a doctor. Wow, Wow, Wow, a lawyer or engineer what.

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Speaker 4: Are you trying to sell a scockeruse it.

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Speaker 1: I've been a smoker for many years and the predictable

555
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Speaker 1: outcome has finally caught me, So I may not have

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Speaker 1: many years laugh answer. After knowing this, my children began

557
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Speaker 1: stabbing each other's backs trying to get their inheritance earlier.

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Speaker 2: Whoa.

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Speaker 1: Initially there were frequent verbal discussions that escalated into legal battles.

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Speaker 1: So the lawyers are already lawyering up here. It's just like, yo,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even that yet.

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Speaker 2: He was great.

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Speaker 1: The boiling point came when my daughter forged her brother's

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Speaker 1: signature to take their part of the inheritance while I

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Speaker 1: was being treated in the hospital. What bro No, that

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Speaker 1: is dirty, dirty. Now none of the siblings can see

567
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Speaker 1: each other in the eye and only talk through lawyers,

568
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Speaker 1: completely dismantled a family man inheritance. That's bad shit to you.

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Speaker 4: But also can the lawyers do to each other because

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Speaker 4: the lawyers, Hey, that's a good point.

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Speaker 1: Wait, are the lawyers getting lawyers? A lawyer for your lawyers?

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Speaker 4: I mean a therapist is a therapist, right, I guess

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Speaker 4: that's a lawyer or a lawyer. I have to imagine.

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's different loss. I mean if but if

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Speaker 4: I'm like, are you a divorce a lawyer? You gonna

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Speaker 4: do Inheriton's law? Probably not right?

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Speaker 2: Right, right right?

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Speaker 1: Gotcha? Gotcha. Saddened by the situation, I decided that I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna spend all this money like it's nineteen sixty six.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, Bro, I love that idea.

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Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, bro, going out with a bang, thinking that

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Speaker 1: if all of it is gone, they would have no

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Speaker 1: more reasons to fight. So guess what he did. He

584
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: donated his charities. He bought his wife beauty items, the

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00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 1: spits of expensive beauty items. He went on vacations with her,

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Speaker 1: paying for better looking hotel rooms. No planes because of

587
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Speaker 1: COVID travel restrictions, but a nice hotel rooms.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, doing a big.

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Speaker 1: He gave the grandkids expensive gifts, bought my dearest friends

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Speaker 1: and colleagues better equipment to improve their work. We bought

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Speaker 1: a huge TV, prepaid for my funeral, tasted some fine whiskey,

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Speaker 1: among other things. Wow, Mansel in the highlight. Dude, he's

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Speaker 1: doing that. This is dope. I actually love Oh fee,

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Speaker 1: Let's go on with a bang right now. About sixty

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Speaker 1: five to seventy percent of my savings are gone. That

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Speaker 1: was quick, dog, damn wow. I plan to keep enough

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Speaker 1: for the time I have left and leave my wife

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Speaker 1: a good cash amount. However, my children are noticing that

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Speaker 1: I'm spending a lot. She started to ask some questions like, Daddy,

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Speaker 1: where's my money going? My money, money, my money, my money,

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Speaker 1: daddy money money. We're doing parks and RECs, parks and

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Speaker 1: session story hour. My daughter figured out what happened on

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Speaker 1: her own. I had no rebuttals, since I'm guilty of

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Speaker 1: all of the accusations she made. But then she mentioned

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Speaker 1: that her children will suffer because of my selfish acts.

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Speaker 4: The lawyer's children, how are they supposed to buy their

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Speaker 4: first condo?

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Speaker 1: How are they by their second?

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Speaker 2: Ferrari?

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Speaker 1: Oh, they're gonna go broo? What color is there? Bugatti?

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Speaker 1: Not only that, but I am cursing all of her

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Speaker 1: grandchildren by doing this. This made me think that my

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Speaker 1: grandchildren shouldn't be punished for their parents' acts and sins.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I was too self absorbed to realize it sooner.

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Speaker 1: So that's my dilemma right now. So what do you think?

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Speaker 1: There is an edit? But I want to hear what

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Speaker 1: you think so far.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, not only is op not the a hole

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Speaker 4: I love. I love what he's doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm it's sick.

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Speaker 2: I'm like you, oh you want my money? That bad bet.

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Speaker 4: I'm spending all end in every sun, get my friend's gifts,

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Speaker 4: taking my wife beautiful places, like.

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Speaker 1: Going to put it all black in Vegas.

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Speaker 2: Oh, imagine that would be crazy.

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Speaker 4: He records a video and he's like, you just put

627
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Speaker 4: two million, two million on black boom.

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Speaker 2: Imagine he wins though, Yeah, fucked inheritance.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what he would be saying, Damn I won dollars.

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Speaker 2: Edit.

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Speaker 1: This is high from Opie's friend's son. I'm writing here

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Speaker 1: because I want to clarify something where we are from

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Speaker 1: whatever savings the person has goes directly to their children

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Speaker 1: and living spouse. This is how the law is written.

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Speaker 1: You can write a will on top of that, but

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00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 1: biologically or legally adopted children cannot be entirely written out unless,

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Speaker 1: from my understanding, one of the beneficiaries writes themselves out

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Speaker 1: of the inheritance with Op's daughter. What Opie's daughter did

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Speaker 1: was forging a signature in some papers saying the rest

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Speaker 1: of the brothers renounce their inheritance and they are suing

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Speaker 1: at the same time as they are trying to lock

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Speaker 1: in some of Opie's properties for themselves while he's still alive,

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Speaker 1: basically trying to do that before another sibling does it

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Speaker 1: for them. So, dude, this is a game of throne

645
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Speaker 1: share right here for real. Ope, spend that money, bro,

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Speaker 1: live your life. My children are dicks, but why are

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Speaker 1: they dis? Are you secretly a dick? You know Dix

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Speaker 1: Ray's other day h Ficks don't fall far from the tree.

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Speaker 1: That's from the tree. Okayop add in your butt to

650
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Speaker 1: your favorite movie title? What's the new title and plot?

651
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Speaker 2: Here we go, Little women in my butt.

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Speaker 1: There will be blood in my butt, God inside out

653
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 1: in my butt. Hah, the whole nine yards in my butt.

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Speaker 1: Predator in my butt. A few good men in my butt.

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Speaker 2: They were good men.

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00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: Parasites in my butt. Twelve angry men in my butt,

657
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: bro twelve. Wow, that's a lot. That's a gaping butt.

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Speaker 1: That is excessive. She's the man in my butt? Oh yeah,

659
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Speaker 1: she is the dark Knight rises in my butt. And

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Speaker 1: I think this subs all of these up very well.

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Speaker 1: A series of unfortunate events in my butt.

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Speaker 4: Man, Reddit, you you delivered the liver Deliver. Thank you

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Speaker 4: all the ops for this one.

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Speaker 1: But Joe, what's your favorite movie?

665
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Speaker 2: Dude? What is my favorite in my butt?

666
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: I guess Inception in my butt? It's like multiple layers.

667
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just like the movie how It's you know,

668
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 4: has all these different layers like in my butt it adds.

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00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: So many ads so much. So what's what's Predator in

670
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: my butt? About? Imagining it's about like a pedophile?

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00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 6: True?

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00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 2: Actually actually yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was gonna say, like because like alien versus Predator,

674
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 4: And I was like, well, if it comes out of

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00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 4: your buttthole, like you might.

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00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 2: Actually say, oh god, it's birds.

677
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because like the thing with the predator is

678
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 4: like it pops out your stomach like you're dead, yeah,

679
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 4: instead of organs.

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00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 2: But if it does just like fall out between the

681
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Speaker 2: might work.

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00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: How about little women in my butt?

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00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 4: Little women maybe that's like microscopic women who basically they're

684
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 4: like Earth is the rim of your butthole?

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Speaker 2: Excellent?

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00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: But dude, you're washing those people off. I don't know

687
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: if you guys saw a lot of episodes, but John

688
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: washes whole Yeah, yeah, no, women are surviving there. How

689
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: about the whole nine yard? That's just a massive massive,

690
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: so longer beg spicy of me, but extra man, Man,

691
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: I'm moving boxes all day.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 4: That was for like second, for second, that was the

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00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,959
Speaker 4: hardest hitting thing.

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00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that was just smacking you in the face.

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00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: All right, all right, back in the face and call

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Speaker 2: me Charlie.

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Speaker 4: All right, we got another one for you here. Also

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Speaker 4: involving a holes. Excellent, What screams.

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Speaker 2: I'm an a hole without saying it.

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00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: Many things can do that on ye, Yeah, I want

702
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: to hear it. Tell me Number one.

703
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: Cutting in front of the line in.

704
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: Queues sounds like someone's brittish, like Americans do not respect

705
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: the cue.

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Speaker 4: Actually, I was just waiting for a Halloween costume the

707
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 4: other day. Someone just popped right in front. I was like,

708
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 4: next one. People who speak to their waiters slash waitress

709
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 4: like there beneath them terrible is so awful, like because

710
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 4: to me, it's like the insecurity of the person is

711
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 4: basically like I feel so bad about myself that I

712
00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 4: need to like elevate.

713
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: I need to show power in this very like terrible way.

714
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. Definitely, I think you could honestly

715
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: judge someone pretty well on how they treat their weight staff.

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00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 4: Next one leaving a frozen item or meat on a

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Speaker 4: random shelf in the grocery store.

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00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: Damn specific, this is obviously happened. Yeah, they're gonna calling

719
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,840
Speaker 1: someone out. Melted ice cream all over Aisle seven.

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Speaker 4: Exactly like it was the last Rocky Road and you

721
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 4: were just craving it at one am.

722
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: You just scan.

723
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 4: Every single freezer only to find it in between the

724
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 4: bread and that be soggy, now supergrows.

725
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: Next one cleaning out your car in a parking lot

726
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 2: then throwing your trash on the ground.

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00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: It's just littering.

728
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 2: Does that you can't litter?

729
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: Bro?

730
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: Who does g littering? For all you school kids out there?

731
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 2: Putting chewed gum on the underside of a table.

732
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: Why is that a thing?

733
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 4: Why went to every single desk in every grade ever

734
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 4: hovered and.

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Speaker 2: Gum on the bottom covered? Think about the poor janitor

736
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Speaker 2: who has like clean.

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Speaker 1: Scrape it off, yeah dude, and then has to eat

738
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: it else style.

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00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 4: Yeah respect respect to uh to.

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00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: The janitary school janitors? Like that's the deal with like

741
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: the filthiest set of people.

742
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: Next one, not cleaning up after your dogs.

743
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 1: A dude with a dog on the beach and it

744
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: hooped right on some seaweed and I just stared he

745
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna pick it up, and then I just gave

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00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: him a good stare.

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00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like, come on come. My aunt actually had

748
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 2: a great, great one for this.

749
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 4: So she always has like massive golden retrievers, and so

750
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 4: she brings like paper plates with her and she slides

751
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 4: it under their legs when they squat to poop, and

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00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 4: it catches it and she folds it like a taco

753
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 4: and then puts.

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Speaker 1: It in a reflexes right there.

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00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 2: It's smart. You understand your dog oh shit, and think

756
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 2: about it like I do.

757
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 4: Understand from the owner's perspective, you basically have to like

758
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Speaker 4: clip it. The only thing between the dog crap and

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00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 4: your hand is this bag. So it feels weird and

760
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 4: it gets on the grass this way. It literally doesn't

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Speaker 4: like or anything.

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Speaker 5: Bro.

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Speaker 1: I actually have a story here, Yeah hit me. So.

764
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: I remember my first girlfriend ever. I took my dog

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Speaker 1: oscar with me and her to Santa Barbara. Great day, right,

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Speaker 1: and we went to see like all the missions and

767
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 1: checked out like the little shops and we looked at

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Speaker 1: the ocean. It was beautiful. And when we were checking

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Speaker 1: out the shop We're walking the dog and then all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden, oscar my dog starts to take a poop,

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Speaker 1: and I'm already freaking like, oh shit, because I don't

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Speaker 1: have any bags. I'm just like I was unprepared, and

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00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, well, I'll just go and find

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00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: a store and then like pick up a bag to

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00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,840
Speaker 1: pick it up. But then it's not a normal poop.

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00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: It is the most liquidy diarrhea I've ever seen. And

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00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: the thing is, it's not just a little bit. It

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00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: creates this massive puddle of craft.

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00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 2: And I'm like, buck, what do I do?

780
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: And I'm standing there and my girlfriend now ex girlfriend,

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00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: just dips. She just walks off to leave me alone

782
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: to try to fix this shitty situation.

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00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 2: Dips like from the date she leaves.

784
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Speaker 1: She leaves for the whole day, not for the whole day,

785
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: but she's like, I'm not I'm not taking care of it.

786
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 2: Do you watch away? Like fuck?

787
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I thought we were in this together. And so I

788
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: had to go like initially of like should I just leave?

789
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: But I don't. I do the right thing. I go

790
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: into the store and get a bunch of paper towels

791
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: and put it on the ground and it was disgusting.

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00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 2: I am legitimate, like close to vomiting right now.

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00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nasty. It was super nasty.

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00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: It's super discussed. Thanks for sharing.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome.

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00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 2: Listen to that episode and then eat your lunch. Guys,

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00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 4: Next one, not using headphones and playing music loudly in

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Speaker 4: public places.

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Speaker 1: Do Why are people always do that?

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00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 2: Dude?

802
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 4: Like walking through a target, I'm just trying to find

803
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 4: like some paper towels and some person just.

804
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,240
Speaker 1: Blasting yeah, or like they're blasting their own SoundCloud music

805
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: like bru, what are you doing? Or like on the subway,

806
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: or if you've ever taken public transportation, there's always some

807
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: guy playing his own music.

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00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 4: And see, here's the thing I actually do. I don't

809
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 4: know if other people feel this way. I actually do

810
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 4: like hearing music playing loudly in cars if I mess

811
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 4: with them. But when I'm like on the train or subway,

812
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 4: I want to listen to like my music or podcasts

813
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 4: or like whatever, and I can't escape, like I can't

814
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 4: go to the next lane, I can't like get in

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00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 4: front of you, you know what I mean.

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00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: So it's just inconsiderate.

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00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 4: And last, but not least, we have one doing a

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Speaker 4: little crossover shout out.

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00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: Kind of people who do nothing while their kid is

820
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 2: being a little shiz.

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Speaker 4: Entitled parents, parents, and uh that's about it.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a wrap.

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00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: So beware of these a holes. They're out there in

824
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: the world trying to mess up your day.

825
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: And you know what you should do to avoid being

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Speaker 2: an A hole?

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Speaker 4: Oh what, John scrabblescrab baby, We'll see you next time,

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Speaker 4: See you next time.