1 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Better Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and. 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: We are here with one of Jen's final four hometown guys. 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: Jeremy is on the podcast today. Jeremy, how are you? 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 3: I'm great? Thanks for having me. Guys. So it's nice 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 3: meeting you. 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you too? You two? Where you live in New York? 8 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 3: Yeah? I live in New York. I'm in the East 9 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 3: Village right now. 10 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: Okay, we're we're like right next to the Hudson Yards vessel. 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: So okay, I look like Chelsea Chelsea Area. 12 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 3: Like one of those new developments over there. 13 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: Kind of Uh no, we. 14 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 3: Could stop there. 15 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, we're off the off the West Side Highway. 16 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna keep. 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: Gig like we're actually the cross intersection. If you want 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: to come over. 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: You're my bill thing has windows? 20 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, are building as a printer windows? 21 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: You're you're from New York. 22 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: No, I'm from Stanford, Connecticut originally, so an hour outside 23 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 3: of New York. But I've been living here on off 24 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 3: for like seven years. 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 1: And you I don't remember exactly what you do, but 26 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: I believe that it's something in real estate. 27 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:24,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, the title says real estate investor, which is true, 28 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 3: but I have like a normal job run. I run 29 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 3: sales for property management and tech startup. 30 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: Cool And how how did you wind up on the Bachelorette? 31 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 3: I never thought I'd be on the Bachelorette. I've never 32 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 3: seen the show before I went on, or I guess 33 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 3: until right before I went on. But my friends had 34 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 3: nominated me probably years ago, and I was sort of 35 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 3: in like this situationship and it ended and then fifteen 36 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 3: minutes later I got text and Hey, it's whoever from 37 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 3: the Bacherette casting? So I thought it was like weird timing, 38 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 3: and I was like, I might as well see the 39 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 3: process through. And even like when I was like going 40 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 3: through the interviews, I'm like, Nah, no one's going to 41 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 3: pick me to go on the show. 42 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I feel like there's a lot of people 43 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 2: in quality. 44 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 4: You're just like, I guess I'll see like how this 45 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 4: goes down, Like I'm not going to actually end up 46 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 4: on the show. 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: And then you end up on the show. 48 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: How did you know? How did you know your friends 49 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: nominated you a few years ago? 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 5: Oh? 51 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 3: Because they they sent me like what they wrote, I thought. 52 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: And you never heard you never heard anything back until recently. 53 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess November. 54 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, that's so interesting. That's actually I feel like 55 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:46,679 Speaker 2: that's pretty rare. 56 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 4: Actually, sometimes we'll hear people that got nominated and they 57 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: got reached out to and then it didn't work out 58 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 4: and they got reached out to again. 59 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: But I feel like it's rare for them to like go. 60 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 4: Back in the archives and be like, hmmm, let's see, 61 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 4: how'd you guys end up on the show. I just 62 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 4: send an application, like on a whim. 63 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 2: Joe got scouted. 64 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was walking through Whole Foods and it was 65 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: back when they used to scout people on the ground 66 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: the heyday. 67 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 3: Don't people call you grocery store Joe? 68 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? People? Yeah, but that was because I I was 69 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 1: My title was you're a real estate investor. In mine 70 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: was grocery store owner because I owned the percentage of 71 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: a small store and I was in the produce business. 72 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: And that's kind of what But yeah, it is a 73 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 2: weird quiz you were scouted? Yeah, it is a really 74 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: weird quiz. 75 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: Well, the woman that scouted me asked me, She's like, 76 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: do you own this store? And I was like, if 77 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: I owned this store, you and I wouldn't be having 78 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: a conversation. 79 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 2: It was whole foods I think, wasn't it. 80 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: It was like, if I own all foods, I'm the 81 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: word new in this place. I'm chilling on a penthouse 82 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: in my penhouse, fucking in Manhattan. Okay, Uh, you right 83 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: now have Jen in your background, So what is I've 84 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: never seen? 85 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: Uh wait, clarify what you mean by background? 86 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: You clarify it totally. 87 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 4: So we're on zoom right now, guys, for everyone listening, 88 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 4: uh picture this. 89 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 2: If we're on zoom, we're in our living room. 90 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 4: Jeremy's screen has a background, which is a photo that 91 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 4: he's like inserted his background, and it's a photo of 92 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 4: Jen standing on a hill. 93 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: It looks like the sound of music. 94 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,359 Speaker 4: It totally looks like the sound of music. But the 95 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 4: way it looks to us is like she is standing 96 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 4: on his shoulder. We're gonna put this on Instagram, So 97 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 4: if you're listening and you don't know what we're talking about, 98 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 4: go to the Bachelor Happy Hour Instagram and check it out. 99 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 4: But we've never had someone come with like a custom background. 100 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 4: It looks like what people do the Reek, the. 101 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: People that do like that, the RecA apps of like 102 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: the show. 103 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, people that do like a green screen background. 104 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: The thing is, I'm so not technology savvy, but I 105 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,559 Speaker 3: was able to figure this out. 106 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: That's impressive. 107 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 4: I don't know if I could do it, but you 108 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 4: know what, people people can figure it. 109 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: I can tell you what I wouldn't be able to. 110 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:24,840 Speaker 2: Do it, Joe, he doesn't know. I doubt you. I 111 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: don't think you could do it. 112 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,840 Speaker 1: My keyboard wasn't working and I just figured that out. 113 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 2: Really, but you anytime your friends ask you to drop 114 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 2: a pin, I have to do it for you. 115 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 3: You guys have a whole set up there. I'm sure 116 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 3: you could figure it out. 117 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, back to back to the show. Okay, so 118 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: night one you show up. 119 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 2: Remind us of what your entrance was again? Were you 120 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 2: the car guy? 121 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? Rich? The rich guy? No, I'm not rich, but 122 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: that was the But that was kind of like what 123 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: I tried. 124 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 3: Making a joke about it. 125 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I might have said I have a big personality, Yeah, 126 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 4: the overcompensating joke. 127 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, listen, Like I uh, I knew that it might 128 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: not be received well, but like I didn't want when 129 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 3: I was doing it, I didn't want to think about 130 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 3: like how audience might take it. I wanted to do 131 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 3: something that will either make me stand out or make 132 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 3: Jen laugh or both, because like I knew I was 133 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 3: gonna be walking into a house with thirty guys. I 134 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: didn't know if I was going to be able to 135 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 3: talk to her the first night. I'm like, at least 136 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 3: let her remember me. Originally I was just gonna go 137 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 3: in there and like say something romantic, but I switched 138 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 3: it up last minute and sort of just made it 139 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 3: a playoff of her joke at AFR where she said 140 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 3: she was looking for a really big personality and yeah, 141 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 3: I'm still glad when I did that. 142 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, why didn't you get Did you get like like 143 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: some like a little heat for that or something. 144 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 3: I don't know if it was hate, but like when 145 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 3: you see it live and they put that like little 146 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 3: cringy music in the back and then people are like, 147 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 3: I can't believe he said that. I'm like right, but 148 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 3: like you can. It's it's an entrance to a reality. 149 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: Show exactly, Yeah you can. I think people sometimes forget that. 150 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: It's like it's just a reality show. Yeah, it's not 151 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: that serious, Like this is not like how this room, Yeah, 152 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: but it's not like how you enter every room you 153 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: walk into in the real world. 154 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not actually with me every every time I 155 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: go anywhere. 156 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: Was that your car? 157 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 3: Really, we live in New York, we won't of course, yeah, totally. 158 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 4: But how you got into it with another guy because 159 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 4: he was Brian, Yeah, Brian night one, because you were 160 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 4: chatting in the car and then he was like, get out, 161 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 4: let me in. 162 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 2: Can you walk us through that? I feel like you 163 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 2: were really calm, like yeah, what what did you want 164 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: to do in that moment? 165 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 3: So when when it was the night of the premiere 166 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 3: and I saw that, I completely forgot it happened like 167 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: it was so insignificant in my mind. But that was 168 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 3: that was my first conversation with Jen And we're probably 169 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 3: talking for a few minutes, really surface level stuff because 170 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: just met her, just trying to get to know her, 171 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 3: and I sort of see her eyes glance to the side. 172 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I know what's about to happen. And 173 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: I tried finding my keys before, I was like asking 174 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 3: around for them. I wanted like her to have a 175 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 3: ride in the car, and then Brian comes up, and 176 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 3: it's it's a tough position to be in first conversation. 177 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 3: I don't want to have like I want to act 178 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 3: like a child. I'm not gonna like fight with Brian 179 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: in front of her. But then on the opposite side 180 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 3: of things, it's just getting out of your own car 181 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 3: and giving it to him, which I wasn't gonna do either. 182 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 3: So I tried sort of talking to him for a 183 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 3: bit and I realized, like, I'll just be the grown up. 184 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: That was enough back and forth, like I don't care. 185 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 3: Hopefully I did enough to get a rose. 186 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always a smart move on a reality show 187 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,839 Speaker 1: to be the grown up because that is when you're 188 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna you're gonna look better. In my opinion, was 189 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 1: there a party that's like when that kind of went 190 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: down when Brian was like, let me talk, like get 191 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: out of the car. Was there was that like the 192 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: first moment of like, oh I'm on, I'm on the Bachelor, 193 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,439 Speaker 1: Like I'm on. 194 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 3: And I was not expecting it. Yeah, but I I 195 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 3: saw people like I've seen obviously stuff online and people 196 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 3: are like if he interrupted me at my car, would 197 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 3: have hit him. I'm like, dude, oh my god, you 198 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 3: know what. First off, like how old are we? Second off, 199 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 3: I would have been on the first flight back if 200 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 3: if I ever did something. 201 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you also didn't have the keys. 202 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: You would have got arrested. I mean it's like it's 203 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: like that that would have just arrested. 204 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 6: You. 205 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: Guys said that would have been in. 206 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you It's like, oh, I would 207 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: have hit him with my car. No, you wouldn't have. 208 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: That's legal. 209 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 4: You're not like, who is this person running around whacking 210 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 4: people with their vehicle for like verbally assaulting them? 211 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild. 212 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 2: People say some crazy stuff. 213 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's all right. 214 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 3: Brian went home. 215 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Brian ends up going home at some point. I 216 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: think he makes it. I think he goes home like 217 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: week two or something. Yeah, but you stick around. I 218 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: don't want to point every scenario, but like kind of 219 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,200 Speaker 1: just like going back to the ice cream date, what 220 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: are your thoughts on all the back and forth between 221 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: the guy. So it's basically like it's it's what it 222 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: looks like to us. It's kind of like Devin Verse, 223 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: Aaron Thomas Sam. 224 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 3: That's exactly what it was. I loved it entertainment for me, 225 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 3: like I purposely tried saying out of anything and I 226 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 3: did so. I thought it was entertaining, like I to 227 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 3: be Frank, I think Devon was in the right, Like, 228 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: I don't think he did anything wrong, like taking Jenna 229 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 3: for that ice cream part, Like, was that how I 230 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 3: was gonna play it personally? No, like I'd rather create 231 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 3: like my moments like one on one between her. But 232 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 3: I don't think he did anything Dad. And then at 233 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 3: the at the cocktail party, he went first to speak 234 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 3: to her and people were upset that he spoke to her, 235 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 3: And I'm like, dude, like like how could you how 236 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 3: could you be upset? If anything? Like he did the 237 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 3: respectful thing by taking her first, just getting it out 238 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 3: of the way. But no, I didn't I didn't think 239 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 3: you did anything wrong. 240 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: Were there other guys that aligned with how you felt? 241 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: Was there like a group of you there kind of 242 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 1: like people. 243 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 3: Are Yeah, I feel like the whole time like me 244 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 3: Jonathan Marcus, like any anytime, like some drama might like 245 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 3: happen or was about to happen, like we sort of 246 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 3: just like glance at each other and like make a face. 247 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 1: Makes sense. You guys are all the hometown guys, so 248 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: that so that that adds up. So I think like 249 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: the first time we see like you, Jen Jen seems 250 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: to be really into you. Was that race card date 251 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: you want to talk about that? 252 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was grateful that I got a small group date. 253 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: They're only four, yeah, which we never Yeah, we never 254 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: really see that. 255 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 4: That was one of the first Yeah, it was like 256 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 4: second week and they're like, you know what, let's throw 257 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 4: like eighty five percent of the guys on wed Day 258 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 4: and then four on the other one. Was there a 259 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 4: reason for that, like some sort of like we could 260 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 4: only accommodate four guys on this track. 261 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 3: Situation, they could only accommodate like ten strippers at the 262 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:35,440 Speaker 3: other date. I don't, I'm not sure, but I was pumped. 263 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:36,079 Speaker 3: I was one of the. 264 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 2: Four to be on that one versus the Stripper one. 265 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: I would have loved to be on the stripper one. 266 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: But what would what would you have done if you 267 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: were on the stripper one. 268 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 3: I would have put a little routine together. There might 269 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 3: have been like a little worm in there, like a 270 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: little pretty Ricky playing in the backgrounds. Yeah, but like 271 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 3: being on for a person group date was great. It 272 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 3: was sort of ironic that it's a race car date 273 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 3: and I showed up in a car, and like, like 274 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 3: has anyone driven stick? And I have not corvettes are manual. 275 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 3: I mean it, excuse me automatic. I've never driven stick 276 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 3: and sort of the last part of the race was 277 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 3: like one lap, you know, fastest time wins, and just 278 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: because I'd never driven stick, it was on the opposite 279 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 3: side of the car to the wheel. I was like, 280 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 3: I'm probably not going to win this even if I do, like, 281 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 3: we still might all go to the after party, so 282 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 3: I might as well just take advantage of, like make 283 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 3: my own moment. The funny thing is like when we 284 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,199 Speaker 3: were doing the lap, I was the fastest, Like I 285 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 3: would have won by like ten seconds. 286 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 1: Oh really? 287 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was like winning the race. But at 288 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 3: that point I was like already committed to what I 289 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: was doing. So we come around the last corner, I 290 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 3: sort of like stalled the car. We just make out 291 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,959 Speaker 3: and have fun and chat for a little bit. 292 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: Did you were you guys? Did you think you were 293 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: feeling each other at that point? Where was there real 294 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:05,319 Speaker 1: chemistry there because it seemed like it. 295 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think probably like the conversation before that at 296 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 3: the second cocktail party, Like there were different like pivotal 297 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: points I think for us, you know, as the season 298 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 3: went on, that was one of them. But I think 299 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 3: we started to feel ourselves, Like maybe the conversation before 300 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: and then just like getting the group date rows later 301 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 3: that night was sort of a confirming all that. 302 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: So then, uh, what's what I guess, what's the next 303 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: pivotal moment in your guys relationship? Because you are one 304 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: of the guys. You don't get a one on one 305 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: until this current episode. Yeah, and being a viewer you 306 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: were one of the guys, I was like, he's very likable. 307 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: We think Jen likes you, we think you like Jen, 308 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: but we're not really seeing much and maybe because you 309 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: never got a one on one. So in my eyes, 310 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe it's just like f old or did 311 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: it really get there? 312 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? 313 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 4: He truth me going into this episode when you got 314 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: your one on one, I mean, once the one on 315 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 4: one started, it was very evident how much your relationship 316 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 4: had progressed over the weeks prior. 317 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 2: But before it started, we were like, is he gonna 318 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 2: go home? Like where are they? Where are they at? 319 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 2: Like where was this relationship at? We barely? 320 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, It's funny that, Like I feel like the other 321 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 3: guys were like that too, because me myself, like I 322 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 3: was confident the whole time with me and Jen, But 323 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 3: I'm not going to be going and like bragging about 324 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: that to other guys. So I think some of them 325 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 3: might have dout to me, but no, like our relationship 326 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: was just like this uphill climb the whole time. I 327 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: think one of the most pivotal points it was like 328 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 3: at the first cocktail party and in Auckland and we 329 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 3: just have like this. It wasn't a deep conversation at all, 330 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 3: but we were like NonStop laughing the entire time. We 331 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 3: were playing some games and she got me like a 332 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 3: little bracelet, like a little gift, and it was just 333 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 3: like such a fun and funny conversation. And like at 334 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 3: that point, I realized, like this is great, Like I 335 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 3: have so much fun with this girl. I like her. 336 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 3: We've talked about like a little deep stuff, but I 337 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 3: wasn't like trauma dumping on her. And then just from 338 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 3: like that point on, I'm like, like I'm enjoying this, 339 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:17,960 Speaker 3: and I guess like the audience is like saying the 340 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 3: latter part of our relationship. 341 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah. 342 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 4: Was there any doubts in your mind or concerns that 343 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 4: you had when week after week went by and you 344 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 4: still hadn't gotten to one on one date. 345 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: No. 346 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 3: So there's this like an inflection point in the show, 347 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: right where a certain amount of people go home and 348 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: then out of the guy's left, like more people have 349 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: had one on once who than who haven't. And at 350 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 3: a certain point, I'm like, I feel so comfortable with 351 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 3: like where we are in this relationship. I don't need 352 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 3: of course I would want one if she gave me one, 353 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 3: I'm like, it's a full day with Jen, but I 354 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 3: didn't feel like I needed one at that point. So 355 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 3: in my head, I'm like, I sort of the last one. 356 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, save the best for a last I didn't 357 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 3: really viewed as a competition, but I understood that if 358 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 3: I were to get like this last one on one 359 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 3: and she gave me the rose, it means like she's 360 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 3: coming to meet my family. 361 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: What do you think? How would you have felt at 362 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 1: that moment if Grant got the one on one and 363 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: you didn't, would you have still been as confident or 364 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: would you be like I would have left Okay? 365 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 3: Oh really well yeah, because at that point, like even 366 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 3: though like I felt confident, you know, confidence can borderline delusion, 367 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 3: and she could only give you so much confirmation. And 368 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 3: if she didn't give me a one on one, Like 369 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 3: it's obvious that, like I thought more about the relationship 370 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 3: than she did, and I would never invite her to 371 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 3: meet my family. 372 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get what you're saying. 373 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 4: Of like, I didn't feel like I needed the one 374 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 4: on one to like further our connection or make me 375 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 4: feel reassured. But at that point you're probably thinking, well, 376 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 4: I do need the one on one because you're going 377 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 4: to come meet my family and I've never spent more 378 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and it's alone. 379 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 3: With you on my side. Like I still needed the 380 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 3: one on one because meeting my family is a huge 381 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 3: step to me. And like, as much as the show 382 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 3: is about like let's say, like the guys trying to 383 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 3: like win her over, like I felt like she needed 384 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 3: to win me over too in a sense. So I 385 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 3: really did need that one on one. And obviously, like 386 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 3: at the end, I felt like ready and she felt ready. 387 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: To did you and the other guys or did you 388 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 1: ever ask, like you know, Devin or Grant like about 389 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: their relationship or were you just kind of solely focused 390 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: only on what you had going on? 391 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:43,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I really didn't, like sort of from day one, 392 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 3: I you know, in one bucket was my relationship with Jen, 393 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,199 Speaker 3: and on the other side was like my relationship with 394 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 3: the guys, which because you spend like all the time 395 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 3: with them, and I really never wanted those like paths 396 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 3: across because like, when I was with Jen, it's me 397 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 3: and her. I never thought about the other guys. That 398 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 3: never talked about the other guys. And when I was 399 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 3: with the guys, was with the guys, and I really 400 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 3: separated those two in my head. 401 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 4: Was there anyone that kind of had a big mouth 402 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 4: about the relationship in the house or was that kind 403 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 4: of like the consensus amongst everyone that it was being 404 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 4: kept separate. 405 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 3: I don't It definitely wasn't the con consensus because like 406 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 3: people were obviously like talking. I don't know if anyone 407 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 3: had like a huge moth about things. Yeah, I mean 408 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,200 Speaker 3: people people were all confident in their own rights. 409 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, Sam m So we we see him 410 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: really kind of we see him spiral basically in this episode, 411 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 1: starting you know, at the radio group day, which you're. 412 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 5: On the right. 413 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: No, but I'm sure the guys came back and told 414 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 2: you all about it. 415 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,400 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I wish I was at that day. 416 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: What was I guess, so before that he seems to 417 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: be one of the front runners, but there's there's some 418 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 1: question there. Yeah, okay, so yeah, how did you guys 419 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: feel about it? 420 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 3: Honestly, the first week there, in my head, I'm like, 421 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 3: this guy just says the same thing over and over again, 422 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 3: and I don't think like the other guys even picked 423 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 3: up on it at first, but then they started to obviously, 424 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 3: And in my head, I'm like, there has to be 425 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 3: a point where Jen realizes this. And so we were, 426 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 3: you know, we're down to seven, you know, going into Seattle, 427 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 3: and so you start to think about like who might 428 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 3: be those four going to hometowns, and not once in 429 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 3: my mind was I think that Sam was going to 430 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 3: make it. I'm like, this is the point where like 431 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 3: something happens, and it did by chance. 432 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, which is so interesting because she does say in 433 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 4: the episode like before this week, there wasn't a doubt 434 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 4: in my mind that Sam would likely be going to hometowns. 435 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 4: But it does kind of all crumble where like you said, 436 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 4: he's just saying the same thing over and over again. 437 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 4: We also see as you're throughout the season him saying 438 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 4: the same thing. 439 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 2: Over and over. 440 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 4: But it's hard to know if like that translated in 441 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 4: the house as well, Like if it was just like 442 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 4: we're just seeing that line over and over, if he 443 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 4: genuinely talks like that. 444 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, he said the same thing over and over. 445 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 3: But I also I didn't know what it was like 446 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: between him and Jen, Like I don't know what anyone's 447 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 3: relationship was like. So for all I knew, he could 448 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 3: be he could have ten more lines. He says with her. 449 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 4: I don't really have you been surprised watching anything back, 450 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 4: Sam m or anyone else? 451 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 3: Not really No, I mean it's obviously, you know, first 452 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 3: time for me, so I don't know what's said behind 453 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 3: closed doors, but between like what happened with me and 454 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 3: her and then like what I hear about from the guys, 455 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 3: it's sort of shown. 456 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,479 Speaker 4: What did the guys say when they came back from 457 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 4: that group date when they gave you the little debrief. 458 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 3: So I was actually was rooming with Devon at the time, 459 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 3: so I like, I wasn't asleep yet. I think my 460 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 3: one on one was the next day, so I was 461 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 3: trying to go to sleep, and then Devin comes back 462 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 3: and he's like, you won't believe what happens. 463 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 4: Those are the best I remember those that I was 464 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 4: on the show where you're like just like kind of 465 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,360 Speaker 4: asleep but like waiting for. 466 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 2: Them to come back to if anything went down. 467 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, And then he told me, I'm like, yo, I 468 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 3: can I literally said there, I'm like, I cannot wait 469 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,160 Speaker 3: to see this on TV. 470 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: Do you think Sam, it was genuine or do you 471 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: think he was trying to play the role of what 472 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: he thought would do well on a show like The 473 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: Bachelorette and if you don't want to, if you don't 474 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: want to, yeah, no, I'll. 475 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 3: I'll say I'll say this much. The lines that he 476 00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 3: said are like lines that you that seemed like prepared 477 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 3: for a show like this. 478 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 1: Yeah. 479 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 3: Like I didn't want to go in with like anything 480 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,199 Speaker 3: I wanted to say, like in front of cameras or 481 00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:09,719 Speaker 3: in front of gen I just try to be like 482 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 3: myself and however that plays out, that plays out. And 483 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 3: I think that and not even just like all Sam, mamma, 484 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,959 Speaker 3: I feel like there are people who did just like 485 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 3: come in and act a certain in front of cameras. 486 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that happens every season. Was how are you with 487 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: the cameras? Was it? Was it an easy adjustment? 488 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 3: Dude? I thought I would be nervous, and I really 489 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 3: didn't care. I feel like I didn't even notice they 490 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 3: were there, which is a funny thing because like when 491 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 3: you're with Jen, it's really like ten other people in 492 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,919 Speaker 3: the room, including the cameras, and I sort of just 493 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,959 Speaker 3: like blocked it out, which probably credit to her too, 494 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 3: because we were just like so comfortable and cool with 495 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 3: each other and just like focus on what we were doing. 496 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 4: Let's get into your one on one date. So you go, 497 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 4: you do the market. How'd you feel about the activity 498 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 4: It looked. It looked really fun and very casual overall. 499 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was going into that like week in general. 500 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 3: In my head, I'm like, oh, you know, I wish 501 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 3: I was going skydiving or something like that. But after 502 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 3: the date happened, I was like, I'm so glad I 503 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 3: got this one because I feel like I probably had 504 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 3: like the most continuous time with her. Like you said, 505 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 3: it was casual, and it's it's something that like we 506 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 3: would have done if I was dating Gen or anyone 507 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 3: in the real world and we went on a date, 508 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 3: like this is something we could do. You're not going 509 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 3: skydiving every day, but you could go around to market 510 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 3: and I go to a palm reader. So no, it was. 511 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 3: It was a lot of fun, a lot of good 512 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:54,400 Speaker 3: quality time. 513 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 1: Where is your head at on this date? If you 514 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,639 Speaker 1: do make it to hometowns, you're whatever it is. I 515 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: don't know the exact timeline, but let's just say weeks 516 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 1: away or less than a week away from a potential engagement. 517 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: Are you there yet. 518 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 3: At that point, I'm not ready for an engagement, just 519 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 3: being honest. But I also know how quickly things could 520 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 3: develop because at the beginning, you know, people are saying, oh, 521 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,640 Speaker 3: I feel connection with her within five minutes of meeting 522 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,199 Speaker 3: with her. I'm like, no, you can't. So you know, 523 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 3: you're a lot. The relationship is always progressing and it's 524 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 3: like a crush and then you start to like her, 525 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 3: and then it's like, oh, I really like this person. 526 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: And just because I had my one on one in 527 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 3: my hometown within like a week of each other, like 528 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 3: I knew the possibility of like where it could go, 529 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 3: and like I really was like starting to fall for her, 530 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 3: but I was not ready for an engagement at that point. 531 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 1: What was the last time you brought a woman home 532 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: to your parents? Like this is serious? 533 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had like two long term relationships. The most 534 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 3: recent one was the last time anyone met my mom 535 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 3: and that ended probably like three years ago. 536 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, we see, we see. 537 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:22,360 Speaker 4: You and Jen kind of have a deeper, deeper conversation 538 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 4: about your faith and about her experience being Buddhist and 539 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 4: your experience being Jewish. 540 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 2: What was Did you go into the date knowing you 541 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 2: wanted to talk about that? 542 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 1: No? 543 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 6: I uh, I never had a plan for like what 544 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 6: I was going to talk about, Like if our nighttime 545 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 6: like I know historically nighttime portions of dates are like 546 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 6: you know, they get deep. 547 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,360 Speaker 3: If we were just like walking around the whole time 548 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 3: would have been fine by me. It just, you know, 549 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 3: sort of happened to come up, which is important because 550 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 3: I did, like I want my kids to be raised 551 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,800 Speaker 3: Jewish or at least half Jewish, and like have that 552 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 3: faith and that culture in them. Obviously she's Buddhist and 553 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 3: not Jewish, and I was open to that as well, 554 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 3: like you have to be. If you're asking someone to 555 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 3: be open to you, you need to be open to them. 556 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 3: So it was an important conversation. I'm glad it happened. 557 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,560 Speaker 4: Can you tell us a little bit more about your 558 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,119 Speaker 4: famous Rabbi family memory. 559 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was my grandma's grandpa was like the head 560 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 3: chief rabbi of Lithuania and you know, didn't want to 561 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 3: leave the country, you know, during World War two. Judaism 562 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,159 Speaker 3: has obviously been so important, not just like recently, but 563 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 3: like in like generations of my family. So very proud 564 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 3: of that. 565 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: Nice, very cool going into hometowns. What do you what 566 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: are you most nervous about for Jen to meet your 567 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 1: family and what are you most excited about. 568 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:08,120 Speaker 3: I'm most excited about how Jen is gonna mesh with them, right, 569 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 3: Like you want someone who could just like you could 570 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 3: bring home to your family, can have fun, drink, playboard games, 571 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 3: like I don't know what families do, do whatever, just 572 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 3: be able to shoot the shit. So I definitely want 573 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 3: to see that, Like their interactions. What I'm nervous about, Like, 574 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 3: I don't know if my mom will be tough on her. 575 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 3: You know, I love my mom, but she could definitely 576 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 3: be a critic because she is, like could be overprotective 577 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 3: of her only son. But yeah, that would be interesting. 578 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: Has that ever happened before? 579 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 3: Not with the two girls I brought home, but we'll see. 580 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 4: I also think it's different bringing someone home that you're like, hey, 581 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 4: I've been doing this person for a couple of months, 582 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 4: and then you know it's getting seriously like introduce you 583 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 4: to mom, versus like, hey, I've been on one date 584 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 4: with this person on this reality. 585 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,200 Speaker 2: So like the parents often come in as skeptics, which 586 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 2: is to no. 587 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 3: That's a that's a really good point too, because because 588 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 3: I was definitely a little like in my head about that, 589 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 3: because I just wanted I wanted like my whole family 590 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 3: to accept like what I've been through and just like 591 00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 3: take my word for my word, and like I talk 592 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 3: about it on the show, but I know it was 593 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 3: a different time. But my grandparents weren't engaged after like 594 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 3: three weeks. I'm like, it's already been seven. 595 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,480 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's true. 596 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: You're like we're late. Let's get a ring on her fingers. 597 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 3: Like, let's get a baby already. 598 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 1: My mom she's like, you know, just very personable and 599 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: just a sweet, lovely woman. And I remember, but I 600 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,800 Speaker 1: never really I never, you know, I never really brought 601 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: a serious girlfriend home, and I think I was like 602 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: whatever in my like mid twenties, and the first time 603 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 1: I brought a girl whole the way she acted, I 604 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: was like, where the fuck is this coming from my 605 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: dad's like see your about baby's the fuck you? I 606 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: was like, whoa, what. 607 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 2: Did she do? Your mom was just like it's not 608 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 2: when I was a sweet angel. 609 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know that's. 610 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 3: How that's how he knew you were the one. 611 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 1: But but yeah, like this she was just like very 612 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: uh liketing interrogator a little. I was like, what do 613 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: you what do you to where I was like, okay. 614 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 4: All right, and I don't even know who this girl is. 615 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 4: But it probably wasn't that serious. 616 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: No, it wasn't that serious. But I remember and my 617 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: dad just was like in his glory because he he 618 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: found it so entertaining. And I was like, I never 619 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,360 Speaker 1: saw the side. But no, she yeah, you that's probably 620 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: how I did know you were the one. 621 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 2: Thank god we were already engaged, so. 622 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 1: That like never happened again. I think it was just 623 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: like the first one where I was like. 624 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 2: She probably got nervous. She never met a girl you 625 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 2: brought home. You were like twenty six. 626 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: Probably I was younger than that. 627 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 3: You didn't you didn't meet his mom until you were 628 00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 3: engaged already. 629 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, because we got engaged on the show and on 630 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 4: Bachelor in Paradise there's no like family interaction. 631 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 1: It's different. 632 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 3: I didn't think about that all right, kind of. 633 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: Just like looking back on the season, now we're darring hometown, 634 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 1: You're going, who are your like guy friends in the house, 635 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: Like do you have like a crew? 636 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean and like not to I'm probably gonna 637 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 3: lease some people out of no disrespect or if I'm 638 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: forgetting someone, but like you know, Jonathan Hakeem, Marcus, Devin Austin, 639 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 3: like those are my boys, Like I'll be friends with 640 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 3: them forever. 641 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: And looking back, what did you I guess, what was 642 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,520 Speaker 1: your most memorable time on the season. 643 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: Up until this point? Obviously not hometowns. 644 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 3: Wow, that is a great question that I should have 645 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 3: thought about before. 646 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 1: Were you aware since you never watched the show where 647 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: you so I never watched Travel? 648 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I I'd never watched the show before I 649 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 3: like interviewed. But then I did watch a few seasons, 650 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 3: so I knew. 651 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 2: We always recommend that when people go in the show 652 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 2: and they've never seen it before. It gives me so 653 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 2: much anxiety. I'm like, do a little research please. 654 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 3: I actually had a really weird feeling that we would 655 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 3: be traveling internationally right away for reasons I can't say, 656 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 3: but I was not surprised, but I was happy about it. 657 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: Was this your first time in Australia and New Zealand. 658 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, first time in both Australia and New Zealand, which 659 00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,360 Speaker 3: I was pumped about. I'm a huge traveler, like I said, 660 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 3: will travel all the time, but I've never been to 661 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 3: that part of the world. 662 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 1: Nice, all right, let's should we jump in play a game? 663 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 664 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: All right, this is a rapid fire get to know 665 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 1: me with Jeremy. You ready, first thing that comes to 666 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: your head? Yeah, I guess it's not first thing that 667 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: comes to your head. Just like answer quickly, you know, 668 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: hurry up. Okay, what's your signature cocktail? Oh? 669 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,400 Speaker 3: Wow, I don't really make cocktails. I have bartender before, 670 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 3: but just tequila sodas, I Mike, I'll change the question, 671 00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 3: might go to drink of choice? Is red wine? 672 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: Well? Yeah, that's yeah. I'm not not your signature cocktail 673 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: that you make, just like what you would gain. 674 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 3: I take a bottle of red wine important a glass 675 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 3: and that's that's how I make it. 676 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 1: Okay, what was your favorite? But no, but if you 677 00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: go to a bar, what's your what's the drink that 678 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: you order. 679 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 3: Don't don't shame me, but I've ordered wine at bars before. 680 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 2: Okay, I like that, Like I'll take the house red 681 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 2: at the bar. 682 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,360 Speaker 1: What was your that's actually how you how you actually 683 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 1: get pretty fucked up? What was your favorite group date 684 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: this season? 685 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it has to be the 686 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 3: race car date, Like I had so much fun, like 687 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 3: the guys that were there, and then the moment that 688 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 3: that you know, I pulled for jam like I love 689 00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 3: that date. 690 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: Dream vacation destination. 691 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 3: Oh this changes all the time. I think right now 692 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 3: it's Japan. 693 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: Cheapest in thirty eight years something on. 694 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 3: I feel like you're thinking about going there if you 695 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 3: know that. 696 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 2: We have been. 697 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been there. I went once. It was to 698 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 1: me is it's still the like my favorite place I've 699 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: ever been. But yeah, we were thinking about going there. 700 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: We just recently booked a trip and we're doing London Schopenhagen, 701 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,280 Speaker 1: which is like the most. 702 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 3: Dude, but Copenhagen is dope. 703 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 4: We've never been, but we were laughing because we were 704 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 4: thinking about Japan and that I've never been, he's been, 705 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 4: and then we decided on London Copenhagen just a little 706 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 4: bit closer, a little bit easier, and then after we 707 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 4: found out it's like the cheapest ever in Japan. 708 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 2: Right now and the dollar in London. 709 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 3: Is stock Yeah, but I think that the thing about Japan, 710 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,359 Speaker 3: or at least the way like I travel, I feel 711 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,479 Speaker 3: like I would need a month there to like see 712 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 3: what I want to see. 713 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 2: That's the thing. 714 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 4: We're only doing like a week to ten days on 715 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 4: this trip, and we're like, if we're going to go Japan, 716 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 4: it's got to be like two and a half weeks, 717 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 4: which is a bit more of a commitment. 718 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 3: You guys should should add a few days in Stockholm 719 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 3: while you're right around there. 720 00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: I would do that, can't we like literally are or 721 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: like so. 722 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 2: No, we won't be doing that, thank you. 723 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: Okay, What your favorite thing about Jena. 724 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 3: Her Son's of humor? Yeah, I've never had so much 725 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 3: fun with someone. 726 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 1: Your favorite episode of this season that you've watched back. 727 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 2: That's a good question. 728 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:33,720 Speaker 3: That is a good question. I will say I guess 729 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,280 Speaker 3: six just because it's my my one on one. 730 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,880 Speaker 1: Seattle favorite food or cuisine. 731 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,440 Speaker 3: Uh, sushi and grapes. 732 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: Oh like not grapes. 733 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, we actually just went to a restaurant frozen grapes. 734 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 3: You like, that's disrespectful. 735 00:35:54,239 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay red grape or or green. 736 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 3: Both, but like not cotton candy. I don't okay, Yeah, 737 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 3: you were talking about a restaurant. 738 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,800 Speaker 4: Oh, I was saying, we just went to a restaurant 739 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 4: in New York called Rakku and they end off the 740 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,720 Speaker 4: meal and they serve you grapes. 741 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 3: I obviously need to go there now. 742 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 2: It's perfect for you. 743 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 1: You. 744 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,480 Speaker 2: Oh, you're in New York, you should definitely go. There's 745 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 2: two locations. There's a new one in Hell's Kitchen, and 746 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 2: then there's one in the West Village. Okay, so West 747 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 2: Village and there's sushi on the menu. 748 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 4: Really yeah, so you get sushi and your meals grapes, 749 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 4: my coat by myself. 750 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 1: Uh, go to comfort movie or show? 751 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 5: Oh, let's go with some movies La la land if 752 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 5: you want a good tier at the end. 753 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 2: Interesting that that's your comfort movie. 754 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 3: The other guys, you know, Will Farrow. But yes, I 755 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 3: feel like yeah, yeah, I feel like a lot of 756 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,399 Speaker 3: maybe just the time that I was like born and raised, 757 00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 3: but a lot of those like Will Ferrell movies will 758 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,359 Speaker 3: never like go go back to my mind. 759 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 760 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 3: Also a non Will Farrell won't star skin Hutch with 761 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 3: Ben Stiller movie too? 762 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 1: Yeah? Uh? An artist you'd love to see perform live. 763 00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,400 Speaker 3: Oh, I actually had lower seats to see him, and 764 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 3: then he canceled his tour, but wizked. 765 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:31,200 Speaker 1: What is your love language? Uh? 766 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 3: Probably quality time? 767 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:45,000 Speaker 1: What is your favorite way to unwind? Sleep? Something? Something 768 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: batination doesn't know about you? Oh? 769 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 3: Wow, this is a lot of pressure, Joe. Yeah, yeah, 770 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 3: I uh. I studied engineering in math at college. 771 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: If you could sum up gen season of the batchler 772 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 1: at in one word, what would it be? 773 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,160 Speaker 3: Let's go with. 774 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 4: Intentional okay, and then going into next week, can you 775 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 4: give us a little teaser for hometowns? 776 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:22,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, hometown's next week. Jen's gonna be my family. It'll 777 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 3: be interesting. I can't wait to watch it back personally 778 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 3: without giving away like what me and Jen do at 779 00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 3: the hometowns, it's sort of it's sort of similar to 780 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,760 Speaker 3: some of the dates me and her I've been on before, 781 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 3: and it's a lot of fun. 782 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 2: It's in New York, right, No, he didn't well some town? 783 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I guess. 784 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 3: I guess I did in Connecticut because that's like true hometown. Ya. 785 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I guess that's that's fair, all right, Jeremy, 786 00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on Bacher Happy Hour. 787 00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 3: No, thank you guys. It's a lot of fun. I 788 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 3: appreciate it, of. 789 00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: Course, yeah, definitely. And to all our listeners, thank you 790 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,279 Speaker 1: guys so much for tuning in to Better Happy Hour. 791 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 1: We will have new interviews for you every week, recaps 792 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:13,839 Speaker 1: the whole thing. 793 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 2: Don't forget to subscribe and thanks for listening. Bye.