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Speaker 1: Right now, it's time to ask the clo. Okay, clo.

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Speaker 1: Lenisia in Detroit. She says, I'm fifty nine and recently divorced.

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Speaker 1: My daughter is always at my house because she thinks

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Speaker 1: I'm sad and lonely. I don't want her to know

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Speaker 1: that I have a new man already. So I need

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Speaker 1: her to stop popping up over here. Should I tell

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Speaker 1: her that I've moved on? Oh? Menia, I mean, you.

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Speaker 2: Know you grown? Why not? You gotta quit popping up

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Speaker 2: over here for you mess around, need therapy.

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Speaker 3: You don't pop up over here and find out, you know,

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Speaker 3: find out real virtu Yeah, that's right. You have to

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Speaker 3: mess around, find out how you got here because I'm

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Speaker 3: doing things, you know, So I don't as a mother,

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Speaker 3: do I think you should just say, hey, look, I

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Speaker 3: need my privacy. I'm seeing someone because you know what,

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Speaker 3: Here's what people don't understand about divorce.

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Speaker 2: People talk like, man, they seeing somebody already.

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Speaker 3: Divorce is when the courts give you the date the

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Speaker 3: marriage bent over. Right, Okay, that's just the legalization by

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Speaker 3: the court. The marriage bent over. So it's unfair when

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Speaker 3: people go they just got divorced last weekend, not next

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Speaker 3: month and she's seeing somebody already.

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Speaker 2: Now. Man, that marriage bent over long time ago.

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Speaker 1: Because people say they ink ain't even dry on a

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Speaker 1: divorce papist.

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Speaker 3: But it's hell no, it ain't gonna be dry. I

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Speaker 3: was doing something when they were writing it. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: even damn dry. It wasn't nothing to blow on yet.

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Speaker 2: He was already stopped all right.

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Speaker 1: To Meka in San Diego, she says, this really fine

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Speaker 1: and handsome guy flirted with me all night at the club.

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Speaker 1: He followed me to my car at the end of

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Speaker 1: the night and he tried to have sex with me

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Speaker 1: in my car.

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Speaker 2: I said no.

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Speaker 1: He said he doesn't normally do stuff like that, but

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Speaker 1: I did something to him. He asked me out on

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Speaker 1: a date. So should I see where this goes?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm already tell you where it's going to damned

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Speaker 3: near with there in the parking lot in the car,

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Speaker 3: where do you think is going?

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Speaker 2: We know what you did. Then he lied to you

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Speaker 2: when he said I don't normally do this.

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Speaker 3: Look look here, look here, look here. If you're a

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Speaker 3: grown man and you're at a club, you follow a

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Speaker 3: girl to a car because she did something to you

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Speaker 3: in the club and you try to have sex with

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Speaker 3: her in a car, and then you say, I don't

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Speaker 3: normally do this. Right here, we sure what was comfortable,

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Speaker 3: But I'll do this man, little girl, Look see where

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Speaker 3: it's gonna go. It's gonna go right where he tried

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Speaker 3: to get it to go in the parking lot.

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Speaker 2: Why y'all, Why.

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Speaker 3: Y'all think if that was his objective in the parking lot,

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Speaker 3: why would his objective change? That's the end game for him.

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Speaker 3: I don't normally do this.

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Speaker 2: That's a lie. He done it a whole lot of times,

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Speaker 2: so he's lying. Huh it didn't work before?

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Speaker 1: Ye So should she see where this goes?

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Speaker 4: Let it go?

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Speaker 3: Or you're saying he's showing that getting her where it's going.

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Speaker 2: He showed you who he is. Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What's to saying if a person shows you who they

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Speaker 3: are believing?

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Speaker 2: Yeap?

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Speaker 1: So there it is to Mika, all right, let's help

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Speaker 1: Melanie in Dayton. My boyfriend had just had a baby

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Speaker 1: by another woman when we started dating. The girl's family

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Speaker 1: calls me a homewreckerd. But I had no idea what

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Speaker 1: was going on. I'm about to marry this man and

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Speaker 1: they're still hating on me. Why not be mad at him.

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Speaker 3: No, listen, listen, listen. The girl's family is still hating

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Speaker 3: on you that he had the baby by so they're

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Speaker 3: not finna change. You cannot control what another person thinks,

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Speaker 3: you can control how you react to it. Now, that's

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Speaker 3: a tough lesson to learn, and it took me a

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Speaker 3: long time to get that one. So I'm just giving

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Speaker 3: you some old head advice. You know, early on in

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Speaker 3: your life, you can't control what people say or think

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Speaker 3: about you, but you can you control your reaction to it.

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Speaker 2: Live your life.

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Speaker 3: They didn't know, You didn't know, and I really believe

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Speaker 3: you didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Home record.

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Speaker 3: He wasn't in the home. He wasn't finna do man. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: that wasn't about to happen. So I would just go

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Speaker 3: on about your business and then don't want them to

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Speaker 3: shift the blame. See you just wanted off you. Why

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Speaker 3: not hate him? See right there? What you want him

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Speaker 3: to hate? Your husband?

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Speaker 2: Well, boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: This is her boyfriend. They're not I'm married yet, but

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Speaker 1: she said when they started dating he had a baby

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Speaker 1: by another woman. So the family is just hating on her,

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Speaker 1: calling her home record because he don't want to be

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Speaker 1: with the baby, mama, that's what that is.

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Speaker 3: Hello, and that's him. But you know, people always got

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Speaker 3: to find the reason. If you wouldn't over there, he

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Speaker 3: would be. That's not true.

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Speaker 4: If a person don't like to call some shots, man, man,

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Speaker 4: it's that person's decision, right right.

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Speaker 2: You don't want to be with her, that's it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you're done with Melanie. Let's move on

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Speaker 1: to Carson and Omaha. My son is twenty one and

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Speaker 1: when his girlfriend turns twenty one, he wants to propose.

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Speaker 1: They've been dating since middle school, so I think they

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Speaker 1: need a break from each other before they get married.

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Speaker 1: My son is hurt because I don't support his decision.

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Speaker 2: Am I wrong? Well, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: All you doing is trying to advise him as the dad.

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Speaker 3: Getting married at twenty one is tough. You've been dating

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Speaker 3: since middle school. You ain't experienced no life. Y'all been

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Speaker 3: in this relationship or let me just give you this

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Speaker 3: piece of advice here. No person, no human being, man, woman, boy,

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Speaker 3: or girl, gets through this life without temptation. You're not

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Speaker 3: gonna get out of here without that. Temptation is probably

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Speaker 3: the greatest tool of sin. It's the temptation you are

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Speaker 3: constantly tempted to do this or that, right or wrong,

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Speaker 3: temptation of knowing what's best.

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Speaker 2: But looking at what's wrong.

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Speaker 3: Lord himners if love and you were wrong this case

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Speaker 3: for be you right?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: You don't understand they got solve everything back in the day. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: loving you is wrong.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be right. See right there, So yeah,

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Speaker 3: you got it. You got a problem. You you have

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Speaker 3: a problem.

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Speaker 1: So what cars gonna tell his son?

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Speaker 3: What's the young Hey man, I'm just telling you from

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Speaker 3: life experience what I know.

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Speaker 2: But then you can't stop Carson. He gonna want to

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Speaker 2: propose to her.

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Speaker 4: Early.

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Speaker 2: Man, he ain't seen nothing yet. God, I ain't nothing yet.

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Speaker 2: When you're gonna want it? Lord, but you Celo covered up.

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