WEBVTT - Fire, Ice, and Everything Nice 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:04.320 Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Joe 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:07.640 and I'm Serena, and we are back to recap episode four. 0:00:07.840 --> 0:00:12.240 But before we do, we had it was honesty. It 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.840 may have been the best Monday of all time. 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.840 I know Bachelor Mondays are always a highlight in our 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:20.320 day to day, but I think that this Monday took 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:20.680 the cake. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:25.000 Yeah, having a wedding. So this past Monday, we were 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:28.960 at Noah and Abigail's wedding in Tulsa, which the venue 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.680 itself was one of the nicest wedding venues I think 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:33.239 I've ever been. 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:38.279 I agree, it was a perfect venue, perfect weather. And 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:40.479 for those of you who may not know, Abigail and 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:43.760 Noah met on season seven of Bachelor in Paradise, which 0:00:43.800 --> 0:00:46.000 is the same season that Joe and myself met on, 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:48.960 and they have been together for a little over three 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:53.360 years and have finally gotten married. We're so happy to 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:57.120 be there. There's lots of Bachelor Nation friends and family 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:57.640 in the mix. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.560 Yeah, I was nice seeing everyone. Ivan was there Tomorrow, 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:02.480 Becka On, Thomas. 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:07.039 Yep Anna and Chris Blake, Moyn's Chelsea, Serena c I 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.080 think that's it. And if we missed anyone. We're so sorry. 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.200 Yeah, we're sorry, but I'm sure we all hung out. 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:12.320 I think that's everyone though. 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.680 Yeah, it was a great group and we did three 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:18.080 days of activities. We were able to go see their house, 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.920 which if you follow them on Instagram, they have worked 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:24.480 so hard on to remodel, redecorate. Yeah, and they're super 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:26.560 proud of it. Was so beautiful and so exciting to see. 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:29.440 Yeah, Thomas just he really just kept admiring me the 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:33.640 whole time. But that's a whole that's a whole other thing. Okay, 0:01:33.959 --> 0:01:38.119 Before before we do get into this recap, we had 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:40.840 such a great conversation with Charles and we see that 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.319 he he does go home, so we're going to bring 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:46.199 him out real quick to have a quick little chat 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.920 with Charles before we get into the episode. 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:51.400 Yeah, we know how much you guys love Charles. We 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:53.120 love him too. We were sad to see him go 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:55.440 and his journey end, but we just want to touch 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:57.640 base with him and see how he's feeling after his 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:00.280 journey on the show's over. We hope this is the 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:02.720 last we see of him, but we hope that you 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:03.760 guys enjoy. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:05.480 Catching up with Charles all right, let's bring him in. 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.480 Charles, thanks for coming back. 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.200 Thank you, Thank you, Serena. 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:15.600 Yeah, so, Charles, were were you shocked to get sent home? 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:17.640 No? 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:18.880 No, no, why not? 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.520 I sensed it as as I explained to you before, 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:24.120 I have the data. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.600 Yeah, I have the data. 0:02:26.639 --> 0:02:32.400 Why because I look around it and I assessed, to 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:37.000 be honest, it's just between this time or the next session. 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:41.200 It's it's it's but it's getting closer. I knew I 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.040 was doing the writing. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:44.519 Were you sad that your time on the show was 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:45.400 coming to an end? 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:49.800 Yeah, in a sense it is. But on the other hand, 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:54.520 you know, we the cast members, you know, we support 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:58.239 each other, but we don't compete each other in a sense. 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:02.200 We we are happy to see that as you know, 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:06.839 at the end, Joan can only pick one gentleman, as 0:03:06.880 --> 0:03:11.760 you know that, and we'll be very happy whoever she's 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:18.720 going to pick. And and I kind of sensed I'm 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:22.639 not that one of the few final ones, whatever we 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:23.440 believe or not. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.880 You know, that's my my data tells me. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:29.920 Do you think you built a friendship with Joan after 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:31.320 all said and done? Oh? 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:32.600 Yes, yes, you know. 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:37.280 I don't know how much details on the show if 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.920 you compare the first time I met Joan and the 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.960 first time I drank you know, tea with her to 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:46.560 the end, you know, when she hugged that, I didn't 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:50.400 receive the roles. Actually, yeah, we had a boundering and 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:54.560 we liked each other. But as you know, like each 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.520 other is one thing, to love each other is another thing. 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:01.840 So I'm kind of you're not happy for John, you know, 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.960 she continues her journey to find that, you know, the 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.240 best one she really loves, you know, so even though 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:11.520 we don't know yet, but I'm happy for her, and 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:14.680 I'm happy for the lucky one, you know, in the end. 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:20.400 If if you, Charles, can give Joan a piece of 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.640 advice when you left, what would it be. 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:28.479 Cool with your own decision? You know, follow your heart 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:33.240 and don't hesitate. Don't be you know, kind of confused 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:37.760 because a lot of you know, gorgeous man in front 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.960 of her, but she can only pick one and don't 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:43.760 hesitate and follow her heart. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:48.080 Yeah, Charles, we have you back here today because people 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:51.600 are so sad that you won't be on the show anymore. 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:56.599 You were such a star. Were you expecting this outpour 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:59.240 of love for you or was this a surprise. 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:04.240 It is a surprise, you know, as you know, I 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:07.920 hear lots of fantastic fans. You know, I love them 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.200 and I thank them for the support. Of course they 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:13.000 want to I guess they want to see me continue 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:14.240 and continue. 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:16.160 Yeah, they want more Charles. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.560 Yeah, but the reality is the reality, you know, at 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:24.040 a certain time, Unfortunately, you know, there's a one guy 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:24.680 out there. 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:32.200 It seems like a probably Joan loves more than to Charles. 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:36.320 So so it's okay, you know, but my part is 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.560 a little bit the intersaid feeling as well. 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:41.680 You know, do you think you would ever be able 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:44.400 to do what Joan did be in her position and 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:48.839 let's just say it was thirty women in Charles. 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:56.799 I haven't thought about it yet, but if that opportunity rises. 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.320 Why not? Okay, I like that. 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:05.240 Leaving the show, what is your favorite memory or takeaway lesson? 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:12.360 You know, the kind of you know, the way Joan 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:16.320 talks things. She's very quick and smart. You know, I 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:18.839 really give her credit on that. You know, she has 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.719 to deal with twenty four men at the very beginning. 0:06:22.200 --> 0:06:25.720 I don't know how she remembers all the information that 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:28.720 she's talked about, or she's going to talk about. 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:32.760 So that's one thing. Second is the brotherihood. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.920 You know, we build in the mansion and around the mansion, 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:39.920 you know during the even group days. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:43.479 Yeah, how do you think, how do you think this show, 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:48.520 after all said and done, is going to impact your 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:49.599 life moving forward? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:50.400 Oh? 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.880 Of course, you know. First of all, I think it's 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:57.400 a big jump in a sense. As you know, at 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:00.000 the very beginning, I was still sad in a sense, 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:04.479 and after joining the program, I open up myself. I 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:11.880 expressed my sorrows, and my cast members kind of, you know, 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:16.280 encouraged me and pat my shoulders say Charles, it's okay. 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:20.160 You know, we know it's sad, but it's also okay 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:24.640 to move on, you know when when opportunity knocks. 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.640 You know on my door. That that kind of fitting 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:31.720 and the excitement I had during the show as well. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.800 Well, you are single. You did not end up with Joan. 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.720 Are you dating? What are you looking for when it 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:41.720 comes to women? 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:46.920 Uh, this is a million dollar question. You know. 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:50.840 First of all, I'm traveling. You know, I focused on 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:54.440 travel at this moment, but when I returned back to 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:58.280 the States, I have to check certain accounts to to 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:04.040 assess the information and messages and hopefully I will summarize 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:06.600 against some data and I will make a kind of 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:10.240 very quicker decision what I should do next. 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:14.160 I like, hey, Charles, got to check the DMS. 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:18.400 I like that, Charles, that's good. Anywhere else on your 0:08:18.400 --> 0:08:21.120 on your on your travel list that you're going, that's 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:22.040 fun that you could tell. 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:26.640 Us, Yes, you know, yeah, talking about the travel plans. Yeah, 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:31.160 I'll return to LA for another program. I think AC 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:35.080 called to mentell all and I'll be very very happy 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:39.480 to see my cast members and friends all over again. 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:40.880 Yeah, I'll look forward to that. 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:44.040 Do you and the guys have any plans for after that? 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:46.040 You guys going to do like a big dinner or 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.800 go out or anything like that. Maybe go have some beers. 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.680 Well, in the mention, we joke about whoever got married, 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:55.400 we'll all go there. So that's the first thing, you know, 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:58.920 I hope I'll get an answer all around that time, 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:02.640 you know, if that if really is going to happen. Second, 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:06.959 of course, you know what will hug will love maybe. 0:09:06.760 --> 0:09:09.800 Also with tears, you know, because we miss each other. 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:13.880 Yeah, do you guys, you know you're pretty Los Angeles, 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.120 you're pretty close to Las Vegas. Would you guys maybe 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:17.360 go do like a Vegas trip? 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:21.160 Oh yeah, why not? We would love to have Yeah, 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:23.480 we will even you know, thinking about to. 0:09:23.600 --> 0:09:28.840 A little island in a nearby Okay, yeah, if that happens, 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:29.480 that'd be great. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.760 Well, if you guys go to Vegas, Joe is gonna 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:34.120 want you to invite him, so keep that in mind. 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:37.760 Charles, thank you so much for hopping back on and 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:42.440 just watching you go through your journey. And you know 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:46.240 the impact that had on you, but also your impact 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:49.440 on others. I think it's really lifted a lot of 0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.600 people and just brought some happiness into the world. So 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:55.680 we really appreciate you and everything you've done. 0:09:57.720 --> 0:10:01.559 Thank you, and please tell you know the fans there, 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:04.680 you know, Charles missed them and Charles wanted to thank 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:06.440 them for their love and support. 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:10.079 I will in any any single Ladies, you're gonna you're 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:17.280 gonna be entered into Charles' spreadsheet and he's gonna he's 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:20.199 gonna figure it out, He's gonna assess the situation. Charles, 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:25.400 Thank you again so much. Charles l what a gem. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:27.720 I mean, we're gonna get see him at mental all 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.280 but so happy for him. 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:32.000 To come on I know, I'm so happy we have 0:10:32.040 --> 0:10:34.800 mental hell to kind of reunite with all the men. 0:10:35.040 --> 0:10:37.800 But I think it's time we get into our episode 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:38.360 before recap. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:38.960 Let's do it. 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:44.400 So first group date we've got. I feel like this 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:48.200 is kind of becoming like a Bachelor Nation favorite date. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:51.400 Like it's similar to the shopping date, the strip Tuesday. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.240 This is, you know, the second or third time we've 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:55.520 seen it in a few seasons. It's always a good time, 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.320 always fun for the lead. I feel like too, to 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:02.520 just get to sit watch and it's flirty and it's energetic. 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:06.880 And we've got Caitlin Bristow. What were you saying, Bristow Bristow, 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:12.640 Caitlin Bristow, We've gotst We've got KB Caitlin Bristow making 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.600 a cameo hosting this date. She's always really good at these. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.720 She's really good at hosting dates on The Bachelor, Like 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:21.440 I never I never get sick of her doing these. Yeah, 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.680 and they are teaming up with Stand Up to Cancer 0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:28.840 to bear it all to your doctor when it comes 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:29.839 to your health. 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.080 Yeah, and you could see all the guys were very 0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:35.679 they they were very excited to do it for Stand 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:36.480 Up for Cancer. 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:39.520 Yeah. I feel like their enthusiasm when they found out 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.520 they were going to be doing like a Chippendale stripper 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:45.440 date was pretty low understandably, you know, they're like sixty. 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:46.560 They're like, I don't know if I want to get 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:48.560 up on stage and strip down. 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.480 See that's why I think you're wrong. I think low key. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.560 They really wanted to and then they then they heard 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:54.600 it was for cancer, and they're like, Okay, now I 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.000 won't even feel embarrassed about it. Now I could really 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:58.960 go all over. Really, that's what I think. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:02.079 Well, the the partnering with cancer I think is very 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.880 fitting too because Joan, along with a lot of the men, 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:08.560 lost their spouses to cancer. So we love, we love 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:10.880 a cause, we love a good cause. Who were your 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.960 standouts when it came to the dancing. 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:22.000 Well, I mean I think Jonathan he uh, the guys 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:25.199 just in great shape, so he was like he actually 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:26.320 looked like a stripper. 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:29.880 I feel like he was, like, I was shocked when 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.959 he said he hadn't done it before. 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:36.560 When they called out the the older Chippendale guys, Jonathan 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:37.800 could have been one of those guys. 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.960 The older Tripadale guys looked great too, But that's what. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.040 I'm saying, Like Jonathan, in my opinion, I think would 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.120 have could have fit in with those guys. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:47.520 Yeah, he was really good. He was definitely a standout. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:50.720 I also thought that Gary did a really good job. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:52.960 He kind of like I think he was wearing like 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:57.040 some surally professor cos his shirt ripped his shirt open. 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:01.960 Chalk said something really nice just that like he wasn't 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:06.120 super comfortable, but the day wasn't about him, it was 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:09.320 about doing something for others. And I thought that was 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:11.160 really sweet. I thought that was a good message to 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:14.480 kind of ring throughout the episode of doing something for 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:16.360 other people even when you feel uncomfortable. 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.040 Yeah, and you also kind of you like you have 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:22.280 to say something, you know, Yeah, what you have to like, 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:24.680 you have to do something like you can't just be 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:29.440 Nobody likes the person that just doesn't want to be 0:13:29.600 --> 0:13:32.200 there and doesn't give it one hundred percent effort. That's 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:34.920 why I would That's why I would be so bad 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:38.720 at this, because I would really fight against doing it 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.400 or trying, and then people would be like, well, we 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.720 all gave it one hundred percent and this asshole gave 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:44.800 it fifty percent. 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:48.160 Yeah, you you know what it would be so interesting 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:51.160 to see you go on the bacherette and make it 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:54.120 further because you never had to do group dates. Yeah, 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.760 and you had a hard time with one on one 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.840 date activities when we were on the Bachelor in Paradise. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.160 Yeah, I don't think. 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:03.880 Yeah, I can't imagine you like on a group date. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:05.960 No, I'm too I'm too in my hat and I 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:07.880 get too much, too much of a baby, and I 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:12.280 I don't want to do this. So yeah, I'm one 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:15.160 of those one of those people. I'm the worst. But 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:16.880 like overall, yeah, I think it was a fun date, 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.480 and I think I think a lot of the guys 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:23.600 were moving better than jon't even expect it, and it 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:24.320 was a lot of fun. 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:30.720 I agree. Another standout has to be Keith because he 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:35.600 just showed not only so much enthusiasm for the activity, 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.480 he has been a lifelong dreamer of wanting to be 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:39.800 a Chippendale dancer. 0:14:39.480 --> 0:14:42.000 Which he also stuck his head in between her legs. 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:44.320 Yeah, so that's gonna stand out for sure. 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:50.880 That was funny because that was funny, just like Caitlyn's reaction, 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:54.160 I was like, what what is exactly going on? 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:55.920 But I thought it was so fun. I love that 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:56.800 he got into it. 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:57.120 Yeah. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.440 Yeah, and he was like living his best life up there. 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:04.040 And honestly, Caitlin's reaction made all of the dancing so 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:06.560 much funnier because she was just shocked by everything that 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:07.040 was happening. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:10.800 Yeah. And then your guy Chock, he bear it it all. 0:15:11.480 --> 0:15:13.440 Chalk bared it all. I feel like he was one 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:15.400 of the people that was on the more uncomfortable side. 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:18.080 Like if we're on a scale, like Jonathan and Keith 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.320 were the most comfortable, and then I would say Chalk 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:24.640 was maybe the least comfortable with the activity, but you. 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:29.880 Could tell chesso Chalk he's a successful businessman. Yeah, I 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:34.280 think a very successful businessman. And usually, like those guys, 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:39.800 doesn't matter like how uncomfortable they are. He gets it done, 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:42.680 and he gets it done and he does it well. 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.160 Yeah. Yeah, he's like I might not like this, but 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:46.440 I'm still going to show up and get an A 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:47.520 plus plus for it. 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:50.720 Yeah. And that's why I'm envious of him, because if 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.040 I would be like, all right, I'm just gonna get 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:56.400 it done too, but I wouldn't pull it off. And 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:58.640 that's the difference. Chalk did pull it off. 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.320 He pulled it off. He crashed it. He showed up 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:04.720 in his businessman's suit. He shook his ass. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:06.400 Yeah, and then we see it. 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.600 We dance up on Joel and ten out of ten. Yeah, Okay. 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:11.440 If you had to give out a group date Rose 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:15.480 just on performance alone from the Chippendale's beard all day, 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:16.840 who would get your rose? 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:22.240 Uh? My Rose would solely go to the same person 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:27.120 every week, and that would be Pascal, because I find 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:30.440 I find him so funny every day he talks. 0:16:30.720 --> 0:16:33.200 I barely remember Pascal on that stage. Yo. 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.800 No, he did he he he moved, he had he 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:36.880 has abs and everything. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.000 Oh yeah, yeah, I know, I do remember because he 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.240 was like, y, I'm gonna. 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.760 Show off my mind. Pascal is the oldest guy in 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:44.760 the house in. 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:48.760 The he looks amazing. He is ripped, He's in great shape. No, no, 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:50.880 I do, I take it back. I do remember Pascal. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.440 I don't know who I'm gonna give it to. I 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:57.600 mean Mark was great, Chalk was great. I'm gonna give 0:16:57.640 --> 0:17:00.200 it to Gary. I just like Gary. And I feel 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.720 like we see a lot of his interviews but and 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:05.040 his conversations with Joan. But I feel like we saw 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:07.480 more of his personality on this date and just him 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.160 being silly and you know. 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:10.440 I like that, that's sure. 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:14.800 Also thought it was great that they ended off the 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:18.760 date with making a donation to the charity. I feel 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:21.720 like it's got a great message. It touches home with 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:24.040 Joan and a lot of the other contestants, as well 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.040 as probably a lot of people watching. So, yeah, you know, 0:17:27.080 --> 0:17:28.600 if you're going to strip, do it for a good cause. 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:30.560 Yeah. I love that. I could see a lot of 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:33.320 them continuing this work because so many of them were 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:36.600 affected by it, and honestly, they had so much fun 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:39.879 doing it that I could see after the show a 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.639 lot of these guys doing that. 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:44.880 Yeah. Well, shout out to Stand Up to Cancer. If 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:47.720 you guys are loving the state as much as we 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.119 are and you feel compelled to either donate or get 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:52.680 involved with Stand Up to Cancer in any way. It's 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:55.360 a great cause and you can find more information online 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:56.679 at Bachelor Nation dot com. 0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:00.760 Great. 0:18:04.359 --> 0:18:09.160 Okay, the night portion of this date, Joe talks about 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:14.200 Joan talks about John, her late husband, being diagnosed with 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:16.280 cancer and what that experience was like finding out on 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:18.399 Valentine's Day. And I feel like the standout on this 0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:22.240 night portion was really mark for obvious reasons. I mean, 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:26.600 his wife passed away due to cancer as well, and 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:29.600 they were really able to kind of connect over that, 0:18:29.640 --> 0:18:31.320 and I feel like he was able to just relate 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:35.800 to her and be like just someone to lean on 0:18:35.840 --> 0:18:39.639 when it comes to her grieving process and what it 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.760 means to be searching for love again after you've lost 0:18:42.800 --> 0:18:43.320 your spouse. 0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:47.000 Yeah, it has to be like with such a horrible situation, 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:51.520 it has to be nice to find someone that you 0:18:51.600 --> 0:18:55.280 can relate to and just be able to talk to 0:18:55.560 --> 0:19:00.360 about it. And Mark is like that guy you could 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:03.120 tell like he is like a girl dad, and he 0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:07.639 listens and he's just like he's just like a genuinely 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:09.479 nice person. 0:19:09.920 --> 0:19:15.200 Not to compare Joey Kelsey's fiance and Mark kelsey zad 0:19:15.280 --> 0:19:18.560 right now, but they very similar. They are two men 0:19:18.640 --> 0:19:22.320 that we've seen on this show that are so good 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:26.119 at both listening to what someone is saying and what 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:30.520 they're going through and giving like the opposite of just 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:36.119 like a generic response, like a really thoughtful, passionate response, 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:40.280 like both sharing their own experience but also like validing 0:19:40.359 --> 0:19:43.280 their feelings, like giving them advice if that's what they're 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:47.239 looking for, Like just very emotionally in tune when it 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:50.840 comes to these more in depth conversations. 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:54.160 Yeah, good for Kelsey, and Kelsey's. 0:19:54.080 --> 0:19:58.000 Rated it too. I just feel like like Joey and 0:19:58.080 --> 0:20:01.119 Mark have both really exemplified that quality. 0:20:01.240 --> 0:20:02.720 Definitely, definitely. 0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:08.879 Okay, let's jump over to after this group day. We 0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:10.800 don't no one gets a rose the date she doesn't 0:20:10.800 --> 0:20:12.840 give out a group date rose. I feel like all 0:20:12.840 --> 0:20:14.960 the conversations we see she has are great. We see 0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:16.920 her talk to Chalk and the date went well and 0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:20.920 the night went well. We see Chalk at the mansion 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:24.560 on the phone, and I feel like he had mentioned 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:26.040 when he was talking to Joe like, oh, I'm going 0:20:26.119 --> 0:20:29.480 to get to talk to my mom soon. So I 0:20:29.600 --> 0:20:31.600 kind of thought that that's where maybe that was going. 0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:36.400 But he finds out that his mom sadly passed away 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:42.480 very early that morning. Yeah, it sounds like she was 0:20:42.520 --> 0:20:46.200 with family or loved ones, and it was a care 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:48.919 taker that was on the phone with him letting him 0:20:48.920 --> 0:20:50.399 know what had happened. 0:20:50.640 --> 0:20:53.520 Yeah, Like Joan said, I mean, it's it's never it's 0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:55.800 never easy. It doesn't matter what age you are to 0:20:55.840 --> 0:21:00.439 hear that your your mother passed. So feel bad, so 0:21:00.560 --> 0:21:04.919 bad for Chock. And she understood that, like he had 0:21:04.960 --> 0:21:07.800