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Speaker 1: to Las Vegas for her brand new residency studio sessions

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Speaker 1: Text Clarkson to three seven three three seven now for

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Speaker 1: All thanks to the Live Nation number one hit music station.

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Speaker 1: Lots of moving parts, guys, so we get lots of

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Speaker 1: to get to our iHeart Radio Music Festival. All expenses

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Speaker 1: paid with some of the biggest artists in music, Tate McCray, Edge,

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Speaker 1: Shearon Lo, Wayne Jelly Roll, Maroon five, Mariah Carey, fifteen artists,

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Speaker 1: two nights, one stage, and Jason Brown in combat boots

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Speaker 1: and a near piece and a clipboard. Yeah, we'll get

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Speaker 1: you there. That's exactly and there's no doubt about that.

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Speaker 1: Nine one and five. It still cracks me up when

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Speaker 1: I go to this thing that you, Jason, are on

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Speaker 1: arguably one of the top five biggest radio shows in

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Speaker 1: the format in the company. Yeah maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 1: know what they I know that seems impossible the way

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Speaker 1: they treat us. But you go there in a marketing

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Speaker 1: and help with like some behind the scenes stuff and

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Speaker 1: you've been doing this forever. You do such an amazing job.

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Speaker 1: But what's funny to me is the way that people

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Speaker 1: who are technically beneath you, like you're a big deal

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Speaker 1: their empty you know, glass or their Kleenex, and they

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Speaker 1: It's like and then when I tell them, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: thing changes it. It's like all respect, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: all about humility, you see how people really are. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: you ever and then you never really forget that, do

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Speaker 1: you know? But you are such a humble guy and

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Speaker 1: you do go and you work so hard and you

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Speaker 1: do all this behind the scenes stuff, but you and

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Speaker 1: you refuse to tell anyone like, actually, I have a

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Speaker 1: but you don't tell anyone that because you're a good guy.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting, But I do it for you. Now I

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Speaker 1: walk around and do the cleanup. I go, that's Jason,

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Speaker 1: me like, I probably should have not handed you my

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Speaker 1: dirty cleanex right, boy, that happened once too. I saw it.

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Speaker 1: I saw it. Yeah. My favorite was the guy backstage

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Speaker 1: of the Heart Radio Music Festival, which you can get

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Speaker 1: to you at nine, by the way, and by the way

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Speaker 1: non stop. I need to stop saying by the way,

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Speaker 1: So I say, but I've said it by the way

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Speaker 1: I am not making this up to follow him around

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Speaker 1: What exactly is it you do here? Yeah? And oh no,

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Speaker 1: that's funny because I I'm here alone. I really you

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Speaker 1: my own makeup today. What are you doing? Okay, let

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Speaker 1: me get to the other stuff we got top. If

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Speaker 1: you listen to us on the iHeart app, on the

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Speaker 1: If you listen to that, Somewhere in there is a

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Speaker 2: K A couple things.

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Speaker 3: So we were talking the BET Awards and they it

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Speaker 3: was a very special anniversary, very nostalgic. Also a secret

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Speaker 4: Okay, they talk them about.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they talk better than they excited about. These are

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Speaker 5: the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Like writing in our diaries, except we stay them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. And now with a financial reports

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Speaker 2: Live from Canada.

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Speaker 6: Do you blog? So this is not financial advice I'm

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Speaker 6: looking for. It's more, I guess, like parental advice that

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Speaker 6: could be American, human, Canadian, whatever you want it to be.

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Speaker 1: If you're asking for the audience, parental advice from us

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Speaker 6: Well, I still think you guys have an input and

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Speaker 6: maybe some good advice. Obviously you're an uncle to t

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Speaker 6: small children's and you know, and they're the same age

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Speaker 6: as my daughter, or at least maybez was your niece.

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Speaker 6: So my daughter, Gigi is fourteen months. I hate that

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Speaker 6: it's like, well she's a little more than a year.

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Speaker 2: But uh, yeah, we're in a very tough spot.

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Speaker 6: And I remember, Fred, you saw a video on my

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Speaker 6: it's getting really hard and I don't know what to

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Speaker 6: do at this point, Like you don't discipline a toddler.

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Speaker 2: And also I don't think she understands that. I don't

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Speaker 6: So I'm trying to figure out a balance of like

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Speaker 6: how do you I don't know, how do you train

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Speaker 6: And she just hits and we look at her and

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Speaker 1: Like it's I mean, there you go. You're you're doing something.

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Speaker 1: Because it's almost like if I'm interpreting it correctly, like

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but when she gets mad, like I mean, she'll

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Speaker 1: I mean you do that to me. So that's where

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Speaker 1: Oh oh oh yeah. My guess would be that your

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Speaker 1: let her do it like this shit, it's just like here,

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Speaker 2: I think, so yeah, but I think you also.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm talking about here, but my

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Speaker 1: I don't think like you get to a certain age

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Speaker 1: So it's like, got it wildly annoying and the kid's

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Speaker 1: Polly can talk back about the choice, but you can't

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Speaker 6: And that's the thing too, It's like I want her

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Speaker 7: Happened, literally, like it came out of left field.

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Speaker 7: Basically he told me that he wasn't in love with

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Speaker 1: Yes, tails so old as time, Alyssa. The grass was

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Speaker 7: You know, I he says he wants to be together,

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Speaker 10: I wouldn't because she's already established what she feels. And

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Speaker 3: I would maybe try again, and if I got hurt,

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Speaker 3: it would be on me, so I didn't have to wonder.

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Speaker 1: I think it would be hard to give yourself to

435
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Speaker 1: that the way that you once did with no explanation. Again,

436
00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,680
Speaker 1: this guy was Grandma something. If this guy wants to right,

437
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Speaker 1: come up with something. Man, Grandma, I missed my grandma,

438
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Speaker 1: you know, because when I think of you, I think

439
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Speaker 1: of my nana, right, and I was missing her a lot.

440
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Speaker 1: But you know I'm over it. Now give me something

441
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Speaker 1: this very much, And someone texted this. It very much

442
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Speaker 1: gives to me that he thought there was something better,

443
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Speaker 1: went and realized there wasn't exactly and then now he now, Oh,

444
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Speaker 1: my bad because he doesn't have an explanation, and that

445
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Speaker 1: one's not going to work. If he went to her

446
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Speaker 1: and said, no, I there was a shining new object

447
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Speaker 1: that I was going to chase after and now I

448
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Speaker 1: decided I don't want that anymore. That's not going to

449
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Speaker 1: help his cause. But he doesn't seem to have any

450
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Speaker 1: other story, so you know what I mean, Like maybe

451
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Speaker 1: if he wants to get vulnerable and sit down and

452
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Speaker 1: really like bear his soul, make up something and.

453
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Speaker 2: Was right, make up dog, I miss my childhood dog.

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Speaker 1: You know we're whiteboarding here. We're going to need to

455
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Speaker 1: improve the story a little bit, but you know, we'll

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Speaker 1: get there. Marabelle, Hi, good morning, are you good morning?

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Speaker 8: I'm one of your thirteen listeners here?

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you. So what you hear the story? You

459
00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,280
Speaker 1: hear this woman she was dating a guy. He suddenly

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Speaker 1: they were in love, she thought. He suddenly says I'm out,

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Speaker 1: no communication, and then he reappears, I'm sorry, I'm gonna

462
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Speaker 1: make it all right now, makes up. We don't know why.

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Speaker 1: It's still no explanation. What do you think?

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Speaker 11: Absolutely, do not get back together with him.

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Speaker 12: He obviously show you his true colors.

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Speaker 11: He took you a while to pick yourself back up,

467
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Speaker 11: and it is very hard to come back from when.

468
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Speaker 12: You're broken in a relationship.

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Speaker 11: He obviously went no contact, no communication, He could care

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Speaker 11: less if you were okay, and then all of a

471
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Speaker 11: sudden he loves you again. Yeah, I don't think so.

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Speaker 11: I think that you honestly, you gotta follow your gut feelings.

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Speaker 4: Don't do this again.

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Speaker 11: You do not want to fall back in that hole

475
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Speaker 11: where you're gonna have to pick yourself up again, especially

476
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Speaker 11: if he's trying.

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Speaker 13: To get married with you.

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Speaker 11: You cannot trust a person who cannot both with you

479
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Speaker 11: through sick and thin and file through their struggles as

480
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Speaker 11: supposed to just running away from you every single time

481
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Speaker 11: he feels like there's something better on the.

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Speaker 8: Other It's very good.

483
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Speaker 1: Marville is very much giving that his his whatever, whatever

484
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Speaker 1: his agenda is, is more important than yours. It's not

485
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Speaker 1: an equal thing. And he's not willing to admit that.

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Speaker 1: He fully that he made a mistake. And why that's

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Speaker 1: the thing. Maybe he's saying he made a mistake, but

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Speaker 1: why help me understand why you were able to do I.

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Speaker 11: Think there was someone out there. There was he was

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Speaker 11: probably you know, going before someone else, and that person

491
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Speaker 11: probably kicked them to the curve, and all of a

492
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Speaker 11: sudden now he wants to come back.

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Speaker 8: I think that's what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's giving that. Thank you, Maraville. Have a good day.

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Speaker 11: You have a good one.

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Speaker 1: It is giving that utsag hot girls summer as somebody said, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: get out there girl. Hey Rosie, Hey, hi Rosie. What

498
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Speaker 1: do you think I think she.

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Speaker 8: Should shad out you? No, like, do not stick for that.

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Speaker 8: He broke up with you, He hurt you ount know where,

501
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Speaker 8: and like just wants to get back to you. I'm

502
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Speaker 8: a feeling that he shown somebody and then that's why

503
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Speaker 8: he decided to break up with her. That did work out,

504
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Speaker 8: and then now he wants to come back. I don't

505
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Speaker 8: think that's cool. I got that okay, and then for

506
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Speaker 8: you to earn that trust again and just be okay

507
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Speaker 8: with that, and I don't think that's going to end

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Speaker 8: up working out because she canna comfortably have this doubt

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Speaker 8: and then trust issue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Rosen. Have a good day.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, thank you, glad you called.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Hi, I'm Ailie. Good morning.

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Speaker 12: Oh that's gun.

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Speaker 1: Hey great, thanks for callin, Thanks for listening. What are

516
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Speaker 1: you think is going on here or what would you do?

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Speaker 12: I think it's like that thing, you know, where you

518
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Speaker 12: get in a relationship and it's like your exes all

519
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 12: had that like sixth sense that you know you're happy

520
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Speaker 12: or whatnot. So she absolutely needs to run hide. Just

521
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Speaker 12: don't put yourself through it.

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Speaker 14: Again, especially you know, I agree with everything that's since

523
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Speaker 14: it's like I just can't reason out, like if he's

524
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Speaker 14: not going to at least give her some sort of

525
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Speaker 14: conversation to get like an insight to his mind, like

526
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Speaker 14: just like where his mind was at when he broke

527
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Speaker 14: it off, Like there has to be something. It can't

528
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Speaker 14: just be I got bored. And if it is that,

529
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Speaker 14: then like the.

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Speaker 1: Horrible him, my guess is the real story is just

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Speaker 1: is just not justifiable. My guess is it is about

532
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Speaker 1: another person or something that he did swung and missed

533
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Speaker 1: and failed or whatever or thought the grass was greener.

534
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Speaker 1: Because if if it were something more emotional and the

535
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Speaker 1: guy was willing to be vulnerable, then I think, you know,

536
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Speaker 1: there's a chance, there's a chance somebody could hear you

537
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Speaker 1: and realized that you were weak and made a mistake.

538
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Speaker 1: But the fact that there's no explanation either he's a

539
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Speaker 1: narcissist and doesn't care about you, it just expects that

540
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Speaker 1: you'll take him however he is, or somehow his problem

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Speaker 1: was yours. And again she didn't say any of that,

542
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Speaker 1: so I don't know if that's true, but it definitely

543
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Speaker 1: is giving. I don't have a good story for you.

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Speaker 1: I just I just want you back, and that's not

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Speaker 1: good enough for me. Love you, guys, Thank you, Emily,

546
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Speaker 1: have a good day. Glad you called Jackie. Hi, Jackie, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 13: I love you, guys. I'm so nervous.

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Speaker 1: I don't be nervous. Love you too. But you get

550
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Speaker 1: the final say in this. This actually happened to you.

551
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Speaker 1: And then the dude came back, and then what happened.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, So we broke up suddenly, a few weeks into

553
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Speaker 13: the pandemic who had made everything a lot worse. It

554
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Speaker 13: was super sudden. We got back together a year later,

555
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Speaker 13: and he was like, I'm so sorry. I regret everything.

556
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Speaker 13: You know, I want to be better, but I never

557
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Speaker 13: truly like learned to trust him fully again. I was,

558
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Speaker 13: and I told him as much. When we broke up again,

559
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Speaker 13: I was like, I've been waiting for the other shoe

560
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Speaker 13: to drop for the last year, and I just it

561
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Speaker 13: was never the same, and so I just I think

562
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Speaker 13: she's always going to be waiting for something to happen,

563
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Speaker 13: and she's always going to be like tiptoeing around this guy,

564
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Speaker 13: especially if he hasn't given her like a true reason

565
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Speaker 13: for having broken up in the first place. So like,

566
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Speaker 13: it sucks, and I understand, like I totally understand where

567
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Speaker 13: she is where she is right now, but I just

568
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Speaker 13: for me, it was too much to get over, okay.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry you mentioned this, but howe to go

570
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Speaker 1: Eventually you just you called it like we.

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Speaker 13: Can't do this, Yeah, basically because I was just like

572
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Speaker 13: it had just gotten to the point where I was like,

573
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Speaker 13: all right, we're going to see each other like once

574
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Speaker 13: a week. And I was suddenly okay with that, and

575
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Speaker 13: then I wasn't okay with that. Who was just once

576
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Speaker 13: a week? So when I thought about why, you know,

577
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Speaker 13: we went from like I need to see you every

578
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Speaker 13: day to just once a week, it was kind of like, uh,

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Speaker 13: something changed, and it just I always thought about what

580
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Speaker 13: he said while we broke up. Yeah, it was just

581
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Speaker 13: always in the back of my head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, makes makes sense. Thank you, Jackie. Have a good day,

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Speaker 1: Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Bread Show.

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Speaker 3: The BET Awards went down from LA last night, hosted

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Speaker 3: by Kevin Hart, who opened with some digs at the

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Speaker 3: Ditty Trial, Jamie Fox's health, and Kanye West, all while

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Speaker 3: Icon Awards, and then Ashanti, Jim Jones, Amory Bow Wow,

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Speaker 4: I missed that show. I missed Tierra.

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Speaker 1: That show was Lala. Who was the other guy?

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Speaker 10: Oh no, it was Arne and Terrence Scene Free and AJ.

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Speaker 4: They were the original.

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Speaker 1: I thought La was one.

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Speaker 3: Til yeah, I remember when she got engaged.

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Speaker 4: I remember that episode.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: But I would flip back and forth between TRL and

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Speaker 3: one O six in Park based on just to see

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Speaker 3: You Now if I didn't like.

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Speaker 4: Something on one or the other. But twenty five years.

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Speaker 3: They also brought back former hosts like you just mentioned

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Speaker 3: Terrence j and then Cam Newton and Ashley Nicole Moss

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Speaker 3: O six in Sports, So We'll see how that is

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Speaker 3: after an intro from Doctor Dre Snoop Dogg took the

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Speaker 3: her Best Male Hip Hop Artist, and Best Collab for

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Speaker 3: Brown Doci also took home some as well, and Mariah Carey,

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Speaker 3: who will be at our iHeartRadio Music Festival, did her

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Speaker 3: new song Type Dangerous and today at nine one in

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Speaker 4: The lineup is stacked by the way, I'm getting choked up,

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Speaker 4: how good it is.

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Speaker 3: Taylor Swift was granted a temporary restraining order against a

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Speaker 3: man who visited her La home multiple times and claims

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Speaker 3: that she's the mother of his child. Taylor filed the

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Speaker 3: restraining order on Friday after alleging that he made statements

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Speaker 3: in person. Luckily, Taylor has been living in Florida with

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Speaker 3: her man, Trevis Kelce, And while we were talking about them,

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Speaker 3: this is the story that Fred was referencing earlier. I

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Speaker 3: want to mention that some people think they are secretly married,

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Speaker 3: and this is because event planner Ali Nitali said that

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Speaker 3: at NFL play, Eric Holcomet's wedding envelopes addressed to quote

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Speaker 3: Taylor and Travis Kelsey were placed at Table thirteen are

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Speaker 3: written in elegant calligraphy, setting off lots of whispers. Taylor

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Speaker 3: and Travis actually ended up skipping that wedding they were

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Speaker 3: seeing photographed the night before at Travis Cousin's wedding in Tennessee,

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Speaker 3: but some fans were pointing out that it's normal to

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Speaker 3: name couples that way, even if they're not married.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of that or seen that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I'm trying to think, like when

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Speaker 1: I've been asked to go to a wedding and I

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Speaker 1: bring somebody along, if they really even bother to ask

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Speaker 1: what the other person's information is, And I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of times when I brought someone,

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Speaker 1: it was like the person knew who I was bringing,

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Speaker 1: but the little card that would get passed on to

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Speaker 1: the person who makes the calligraphy stuff would just say

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Speaker 1: me and guest, right, so they would probably refer to

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Speaker 1: them under my name.

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Speaker 3: We can know we're not married, no, because like I

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Speaker 3: get addressed to my boyfriend and me and both of

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Speaker 3: our last names every single time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, well but you guys are together and I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure what the etiquette is on that, but it sounds

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Speaker 1: to me like it was just an easier way to

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Speaker 1: do it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, but that's why people think they secretly got married.

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Speaker 4: I personally do not think they did that as a

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Speaker 4: swifty but I don't know. By the way, if you.

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Speaker 3: Want to follow us on social if you have not

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Speaker 5: It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes

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Speaker 5: to battle show Biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, show.

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Speaker 1: Me, Shelley's Back, Show Bis, Shelley's Back, We should play

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Speaker 1: the show Bizkiki intro once and have her do a

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Speaker 1: little breakdown kick you do the pop it? Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: should see you see how.

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Speaker 2: You're Baby number two?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, how about baby number three?

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Speaker 4: Yep, baby number three too far?

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Speaker 1: Hey, baby number two was a bit of a surprise,

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Speaker 1: so you know what, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, we're gonna take her that.

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Speaker 1: Oh we're gonna we're gonna shut it down.

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Speaker 2: Are we're gonna shut down the operation?

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Speaker 1: Yes, indeed, let's go give me a challenger for day

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Speaker 1: number two? Is a tell you yesterday, Hi, Brianna, good

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Speaker 1: morning guys.

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Speaker 12: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Good morning? So you might have earned yourself fifty extra

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Speaker 1: dollars seven fifty is your price today? Shelley's record one

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Speaker 1: ten wins, sixty eight losses, a six game win streak

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Speaker 1: which predates baby and Baby Liam, and tied yesterday on

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Speaker 1: her first day back. Let's play the game.

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Speaker 4: Good luck guys, Okay, good luck, good luck?

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Speaker 1: All right? If you go sholly down, boof boof Brianna.

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Speaker 1: Question number one which award show hosted by Kevin Hart

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Speaker 1: went down from LA last night.

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Speaker 8: The BP Award.

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Speaker 1: We just talked about it. What you were on hold?

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Speaker 1: Which actor has seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake

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Speaker 1: Lively after his lawsuits were dismissed.

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Speaker 12: Justin Valderini.

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Speaker 1: These Birds of a Feather singer seemingly confirmed her relationship

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Speaker 1: with Nat Wolfe after they re spotted making out in Italy.

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Speaker 1: Billie Island, Which actor and comedian told Raven's running back

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Speaker 1: Derrick Henry that he would put him in a movie

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Speaker 1: if he rushed for over two thousand yards This season,

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Speaker 1: The Bank and Which children's movie dominated the box office

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Speaker 1: for a third weekend in a row. The movie dominated

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Speaker 1: the box office for a third weekend in a row.

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Speaker 4: Three God and I have two You have one son.

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Speaker 1: And I had to I had to, u, you know,

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Speaker 1: offer my apologies to this movie because I thought there's

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Speaker 1: just no way that it would be mission impossible. And

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Speaker 1: I hate to say this to you, Brianna, but you

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Speaker 1: got one. Two was closed but not correct. You got three,

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Speaker 1: so you got two? Right? Yeah, ah yeah, yeah, unfortunately.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let's see how this go. It's gonna be okay.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we'll have any controversy today, but let's try. Shelley,

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Speaker 1: which awards show hosted by Kevin Hart, went down from LA.

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Speaker 4: Last night the BET Awards, yep.

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Speaker 1: Which actor has seemingly lost his legal battle with Blake

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Speaker 1: Lively after his lawsuits were dismissed. Justin Baldoni, Justin Baldoni,

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Speaker 1: I think you said Balderini or something. This Birds of

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Speaker 1: a Feather singer seemingly confirmed her relationship with Natt Wolfe

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Speaker 1: after they were spotted making out in Italy.

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Speaker 4: Billie Eilis Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Which actor and comedian told Raven's running back Derek Henry

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Speaker 1: that he would put him in a movie if he

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Speaker 1: rushed for over two thousand yards this season. Adam Sandler, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And which children's movie dominated the box office for a

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Speaker 1: third weekend in a.

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Speaker 4: Row Leland Stitch.

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Speaker 1: That's it. That's a five. That's a when there's no

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Speaker 1: doubt about it. Hey, Brianna, you did a great job.

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Speaker 1: We'll get you some kind of an amazing consolation prize.

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Speaker 1: Amazing might be an overstatement, but we'll see. But you

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Speaker 1: have to say, my name is Brianna. I got showed

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Speaker 1: up on a showdown. You know the rest.

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Speaker 12: My name is Brianna, and I got showed up on

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Speaker 12: the showdown and I can't.

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Speaker 2: Hang with.

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Speaker 1: That was really good you, Brianna, can't hang with the gorilla.

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Speaker 10: Cat shut out to Briann.

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Speaker 1: Brin, No, you are, in fact not a loser because

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Speaker 1: you this is your second appearance. You did a great job. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hang on a second, have a great day. You and

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Speaker 1: the kids? All right?

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Speaker 12: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: I love that I have kids. Yeah, I guess they

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Speaker 1: don't know about Lilo and Stitch. Yeah, Shelley, you weren't here,

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Speaker 1: but I was a couple of weeks ago. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: there is no way that, Like, why would Leelo and

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Speaker 1: Stitch even bother to go up against Mission Impossible? That

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Speaker 1: you guys are dummies? Go the next weekend like you

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Speaker 1: all are crazy?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, oh yeah, no killed huge, huge. Oh my

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Speaker 4: neighbors kids saw it.

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Speaker 1: It's what I mean. Why would you go up against

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Speaker 1: Mission Impossible? That's crazy? No, no, Mission Impossible should have

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Speaker 1: gone up against them, exactly. It turns out, all right,

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Speaker 1: eight hundred tomorrow. That's win number one thousand and eleven

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Speaker 1: and a seven game win streak. So how's this back

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Speaker 1: to work stuff going for you? A good? Are are

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Speaker 1: you currently energized? But like maybe later you'll be like no, I.

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Speaker 15: Think maybe, but it was more like overwhelmed, Like I

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Speaker 15: forgot passwords to something like. It was just trying to

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Speaker 15: figure everything out. So I'm slowly getting back into it.

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Speaker 15: I feel like I feel like.

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Speaker 1: It's that week after vacation, except yours was three months

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Speaker 1: and not to vacation. But it's like, oh, the first

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Speaker 1: couple of days, you like, ah, good to be back,

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Speaker 1: and at the third day you're like, I liked it better.

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Speaker 15: I know because the first few weeks sub materially and

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Speaker 15: I was like, oh my god, this is wonderful. And

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Speaker 15: then I was like, you know what kind of miswork

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Speaker 15: a little bit, and then yeah, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: I'll keep you posted.

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Speaker 1: It's like, sorry, kids, mom's got to go to work.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to fend for yourselves. I guess all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll see you tomorrow. Have a good day.

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Speaker 4: You two bye.

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Speaker 1: Waiting on the phone from the vault.

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Speaker 6: Give us a hint, girl, that is not enough money,

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Speaker 6: so stop playing.

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Speaker 1: Okay period. I guess I'll stick around more press show

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Speaker 1: next