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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast,

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We are scrubbing in scrub Dub Dub. Yesterday

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Speaker 1: was the Grammy's are very own. Tanya Rad shine shined shown,

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Speaker 1: shined bright like a diamond, shined bright like the star

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Speaker 1: that she is. Oh wow, thank you so much, Tanya

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Speaker 1: bell Into Barbie. What were you doing my dream of Genie?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, the hair was yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, thank you. What was it like

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Speaker 1: being there, because like I obviously watched it, and okay,

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Speaker 1: the hair, the things have taken a very different turn

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Speaker 1: the morning after the day after. It's so true because

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Speaker 1: it's like you, it is. It's like you get ready

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Speaker 1: for game day. So it's like I spend an entire week,

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Speaker 1: in terms of just listening to only Grammy nominated artists

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Speaker 1: and then doing my nails, and you get the spray tan,

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Speaker 1: and you go to rehearsal and you're doing your COVID

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Speaker 1: testing and it's all kind of just getting ready for Sunday.

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Speaker 1: And then after Sunday you just have this like I didn't.

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Speaker 1: because I was obviously there's no parties. I came home,

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Speaker 1: I ate in and out and showered and went to bed,

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Speaker 1: but then I woke up at four o'clock in the

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Speaker 1: morning with like crazy cramps and I couldn't go back

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Speaker 1: to sleep. So here we are have like a tired

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Speaker 1: Tanya on the podcast. Today we have baby Yoda. The

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Speaker 1: hair is ready to go. Look a little bit like

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Speaker 1: from it Wow, thank you so much. From the I'm

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Speaker 1: very ambidextrous. I can go many ways, lots of different

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Speaker 1: character roles here, but I do to say it was

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Speaker 1: really fun. I've kind of just let I've let my

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Speaker 1: hair and makeup and stylists just kind of do their

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Speaker 1: Like I'm in this kind of space where it's like

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Speaker 1: just like, let's go for it. So we put some

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Speaker 1: I liked them during the day, like I was like,

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Speaker 1: I was like kind of over them by the nighttime.

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Speaker 1: But then it was like to you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Like it was just too quick. I was having to

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Speaker 1: like watch, So I'm having a completely changed my look

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Speaker 1: and this trailer while I'm watching the Grammys on a

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Speaker 1: monitor because we're doing the after party, so we're reacting

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Speaker 1: all at once. It's it's actually very interesting. So I

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Speaker 1: find myself looking on Twitter. I feel like I missed things,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. You should do a blog

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Speaker 1: night thing. Yeah, because like our show, so we did

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Speaker 1: Lie did Life from It ended right at five o'clock,

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Speaker 1: which is when the Grammy started, So they literally walked

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Speaker 1: me straight to my trailer and I have to completely

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Speaker 1: So it's like takes me right up to I mean

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Speaker 1: Exactly the same Tom Brady adjacent. There is a lot

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Speaker 1: of butterflies lust. I know we're gonna, we're gonna, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna start with Dada's dress was a butterfly. It was butterfly.

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Speaker 1: the signature Tanya pain totally. I was like, but what

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Speaker 1: Blanket Mickey. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She had butterflies all

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Speaker 1: It was totally like Nick Fradiani when winning American Idol,

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Speaker 1: there's no on Airtonia versus off Airtonia versus TV, Tanya

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Speaker 1: versus radio, Tany versus podcast on. It's all just Tanya.

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Speaker 1: And that's the best thing. Even if that was a

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Speaker 1: really interesting to watch him, so to see him go

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00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 1: would be that much more difficult. So I just I'm

423
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: gonna need you. If Krista and Debbie comes set you down,

424
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: I need you to just say no, I'm not you can't.

425
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: You can't do it. Mag. You needs to be happy, mag.

426
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 1: You deserves to have like a happy storyline. She's been

427
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: through some things and UM yeah, it's just you're gonna

428
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: have to say no when they if they sit you down,

429
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 1: if they have a meeting, you're busy. If I ever

430
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: get that call that they want to have a meeting,

431
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: I'm take that advice. You say. The scrubbing in Girls

432
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: said absolutely not yes and it's not allowed. We also

433
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 1: read that Sarah Drew is going to be coming back

434
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: a k a. April Keptner. Has she filmed her scenes already?

435
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 1: And are you in any of them? Unfortually? Am not

436
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: in any yet? Ye? There's multiple Well, yeah, she's coming back.

437
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: Well I didn't know. I didn't know if she came

438
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: back for like the funeral or something. Didn't see her.

439
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: I didn't see her on set, So I was like, oh,

440
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: it's a real thing. And I saw that before the

441
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: news dropped, and I think I might be mistaken, but

442
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: I think I heard like something about Rays fans being

443
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: part of the reason that that had to drop. Oh wait,

444
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 1: what do you are you insitting? Yeah, I don't know

445
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 1: if that's even true. But we have not been to

446
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 1: the set as of late, so it was not us.

447
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: But we have some people on the inside, Anthony, No,

448
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: we don't know, like we don't get any inside information. No, no, no,

449
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 1: you'll are playing a cool I feel like you have

450
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: plenty inside. I feel like we had an insider with

451
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: Jacomo and now we're screwed. He did not tell us anything. No,

452
00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: he didn't. Anthony's actually probably told us the most that

453
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 1: there was gonna be a big situation. Okay, moving on

454
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:49,880
Speaker 1: to there was a moment where you, um, Jesse Williams, Dr. Avery,

455
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: Jackson Avery, and um Chris Carmack were in the backyard,

456
00:25:54,880 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: which was Chris Carmack link and you have moment of

457
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 1: realizing that Jackson is Maggie's X. Is there a storyline

458
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: gonna It's like, like, is there going to continue or

459
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: is that just a moment that we got to see

460
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: if you being like huh, okay, you know, I think

461
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 1: that's as of now, it's a little bit of a moment.

462
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 1: I'm hoping from maybe a little bit more of a

463
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: dive into that awkwardness and and a little bit more

464
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 1: like because it's kind of entertaining to think about, uh,

465
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: you know, Jackson and Winston kind of having like this

466
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 1: face off situation, but um, I realized that, you know,

467
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 1: they're two grown ask men and uh and so there

468
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: there's a lot of maturity there and a lot of

469
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: understanding there, and I kind of like chocked it up

470
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: to that. So they don't really they're not going to

471
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: really get into it, get into it. I think that

472
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: Winston handles it pretty well. There might be a little

473
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 1: a few more instances that we find in a couple episodes,

474
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: but that's all said. Wait, so how far in advance

475
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: have you how the episodes have you shot since? Like,

476
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: so we just saw this past one. I don't know

477
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: it was this season um premiere. How many episodes have

478
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: you shot this season so far? Yeah, I've heard like

479
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: other actors on the show say, oh, I get confused

480
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: about where we are, and now I get it because

481
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: it is kind of confusing about when they come out

482
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: and what we've done and what we can say. So

483
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: you do it like out of order some some stuff.

484
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: It's like, especially this back half of this season has

485
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: been out of order because of COVID. It's been throwing

486
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: some like curveball, somebody scheduling and on all that. But

487
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: we have shot up until I want to say, so

488
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: we're about we're about six ahead of everybody else. That's

489
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: a lot of episodes. Yeah, well it was a big break.

490
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: I mean, we didn't have any new grades episodes for

491
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: like it's like three months that I felt way longer

492
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: than that. I'm so dramatic. It was a long time though.

493
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: So yeah, we've been shooting and shooting and doing stuff.

494
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: So we're getting a lot done. Thank good. This okay,

495
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: So the next episode, it looks like it's literally starts

496
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: off right where it ended last week, Like we literally

497
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: watch everyone kind of processing the news that de Luca

498
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: has died, and um, like, is there is there going

499
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: to be like a funeral? What's the Can you give

500
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: any hints of what's going to happen with how everyone is?

501
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: Are certain people going to go dark from this? Oh? Um?

502
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: I feel like there's especially in this next episode, but

503
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: even through the full back half of this season, there's

504
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: just a looming kind of cloud of this void that

505
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 1: de Luca left because he's been on the show for

506
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: so many years and he everybody loved him in the

507
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: hospital and and out of the hospital. And you'll know

508
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: what I mean by that next week. But there's a

509
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: lot of people that are affected by his passing and thinking, uh,

510
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: and so we do show kind of a memorial city

511
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: Asus for him. I don't know how much I can

512
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: say about it, but it's very true to true life. Unfortunately,

513
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: because of the pandemic, people can so yeah, so we

514
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: do handle with care. I feel like this season like

515
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: they have been making it so shocking. Like I feel

516
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: like this season of Grays, there have been a lot

517
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: of episodes where we just our jaws have been on

518
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: the floor, like compared to last season, whereas like no

519
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 1: of Fence last season was a little snoozy, and this one,

520
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: I feel like what she's just on one today, Hair.

521
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: I will be loyal to Gray's until the day of

522
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: its last breath, so you don't have to worry about me.

523
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: But I'm going to be honest and say that there

524
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: was there's been some loals. There's been some seasons where

525
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: there's been a lot of absolutely well, like even way

526
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: in the past. I mean there's so many seasons it's like,

527
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: how do you continue to make fresh and new storylines?

528
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: But this season has been doing it, and I'm honestly like,

529
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm scared for what's to come a little bit, Yeah,

530
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,240
Speaker 1: I understand, especially in the state Meredith in. Yeah, it's

531
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: not looking good, Like so am I I really am?

532
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: I don't. Every time I will get a script and like,

533
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: what on earth are they going to come up with?

534
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: And it's always interesting because mostly because of the fact

535
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 1: that they can play with this beach world, and I

536
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: think that that's new, very fresh take on Meredith because

537
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 1: she's not in the mix, but she's so president but

538
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 1: in this new realm and like bringing back I mean

539
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: bringing back Patrick Jensen was just like still just I mean,

540
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: I mean the gift that brought in that was just unparalleled.

541
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: Stood up off my couch and I was like, yeah, yeah,

542
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: like they did that, they went there. I I just

543
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: I have such mixed feelings about the beach because I'm like, Meredith,

544
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: go get off that beach. And then and then there

545
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: will be a new character that pops up there and

546
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, well we can hang out Danny is

547
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: coming back on the beach, Like I'm down. Like she's

548
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: like a huge Denny Izzy fan. Yeah, she really connected

549
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: with great. He was amazing. I really connected with him

550
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: on like a deep, deep level. We always asked this,

551
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: and I don't think I talked about this last time

552
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,959
Speaker 1: we talked to you, but we always have said, like

553
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: with Grey's Anatomy cast members that we've had on the podcast,

554
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: like if you got to choose the way you went

555
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: out by death, sorry, I hope it doesn't happen. If

556
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: you got to if you got to pict your idea,

557
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: what would you do? Oh man, like shock Factor do anything?

558
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 1: Anything is possible in shawna Land, Yeah, whoa anything is possible.

559
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 1: And that's the craziest thing about the show because I

560
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: was just thinking, like about the bomb episode, and I

561
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: was thinking about, uh, just the thing about the Lucas though,

562
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: is it was kind of perfect in a way because

563
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: if he could pitch it, if an actor I could

564
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: pitch it, they would kind of probably want to go

565
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: out as a hero, right like Georgiomalley. Yeah, yes, exactly,

566
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: doing something that that makes an impact positively on that

567
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 1: little world that they're leaving behind and makes makes people

568
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: kind of remember you as that in that way. But

569
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,479
Speaker 1: I also like the idea of being kind of like

570
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: villainous and going out like getting everybody like turn turn

571
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: everything on its head was crazy that nobody saw coming. Anthony.

572
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: If Winston turns, I have I've told you I have

573
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: such high hopes for Winston. So if you pitch a

574
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: villainous exit, I'm gonna be You're gonna be getting some

575
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 1: d MS. Becker really wants to slide into your m

576
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: but I'm gathering and then you do chat without me.

577
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: Yeah we're like friends, Yeah for sure. Yeah that in

578
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: that group shot, group shot, what are you doing? Let's

579
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: get it together. I don't I don't know how to

580
00:32:55,000 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 1: add myself in you just have to do that. We were,

581
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,239
Speaker 1: honestly though, we were both like so smitten with you

582
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: last time. I'm in a relationship and Tanya at the

583
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: time was definitely in a relationship. It's not in a relationship.

584
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: When we had him on the podcast, Oh yeah, single

585
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: Sally over here. Sorry about that. But anyways, everyone was

586
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: like messaging us and they're like, wow, the two of

587
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: you were Okay, You're just You're just so charming, Like

588
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: we just love you. Yeah, we I mean, we'd love

589
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: to have you as like a like a reoccurring grays

590
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: Um person because we've never had one. You know, we

591
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: have had grays anatomy, but not one that like comes consistently,

592
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: Like we've had a couple that comes. Asked me to

593
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: come monthly essentially quarterly. You know what, I can't. I

594
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: can't promise that because of the idea. I like the

595
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: idea too, but you know what, I'm not so sure.

596
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: So I like I said, um, Sarah Drew's coming back.

597
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: April cup Nor and I loved April and Jackson. I

598
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: was like their biggest supporter. But now I'm on the

599
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: Joe and Jackson train, and so now I don't know

600
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: how I feel about April coming back. I'm still very

601
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 1: much April you are. I think I'll I think I'll

602
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: swing that way once I see her again. But I'm

603
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: into the Joe and Jackson situation. That's so interesting. I

604
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: didn't I didn't see that coming again. Another one of

605
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: those things this season where I was just like, exactly,

606
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: and it's, uh, it's kind of polarizing though, because I've

607
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: heard I've heard split split thoughts on that. Yeah, we

608
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: love polarizing though. Yeah, polarizing is good. Some people love

609
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: it and people hate it. Yeah, that makes it so

610
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: much fun. Yeah, is Winston like permanently in Seattle or

611
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: what's the story? Like? What's happening with that now? I

612
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: hope so that I can say this, the the topic

613
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 1: of Winston wing to Seattle or going back to Boston

614
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 1: comes up pretty quick, and that's something that um is

615
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: a is a big kind of moment. What what is

616
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 1: your specialty again? Cardiothoracic? Yeah, mm hmm, Teddy Maggie, Yeah, yeah,

617
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: I think I just may have cracked something because that's

618
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: he would be coming in. If Maggie is cardiothoracic, then

619
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: that would be what I don't know, feels feels intense

620
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: with three. I mean I don't like work together, work together,

621
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: sleep together, yeah exactly, Yeah, don't give your pen in

622
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: the company pool. But yo, think about it though, that

623
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: is that is graze an out of me from season one,

624
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: like work together, sleep together has been a thing. I

625
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: think it work and it's it gets messy sometimes, but

626
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: that's what I like. If I was Maggie, I'd be like,

627
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: you're not coming into this hospital because all anyone does

628
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: is sleep together and sleep with each other. So you're

629
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: going to go to Mercy what is it? The other one? Uh?

630
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: The one? The other was it? No, Seattle Grace Mercy

631
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: West is what merged and then there's another Seattle Presbyterian

632
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: something like that. Okay, anyways, I'd be like, you're not

633
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: working at the same one because I know these people

634
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: and they like to go in the room. Yeah, but

635
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: the Maggie would be going with with Winston. No, no, no,

636
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: they don't need to work in the same hood the hotel. Yeah,

637
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: I would just be like, that's the same thing. You

638
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: would be like, hey, if you come here, everybody just

639
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: sleeps together or die that this happened, Yeah, my friend said,

640
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: my friend said after de Luca that episode, she goes

641
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 1: Mayor Death? Right? Am I right? And I was like wow,

642
00:36:54,400 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 1: like Mayor Death, said Meredith. Oh my gosh, how morbid? Dark?

643
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 1: So dark friend dark humor. Um, we love you so much,

644
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. I always talked about his grayes.

645
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 1: Now me, can you tell U a little about you

646
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: your life? Like what you do for fun? Do you

647
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: like hang like with your schedule? Do wake up early?

648
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: Or you a night owl? Like? What's the vibe? Yeah,

649
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: I'm a night owl thro through. It's kind of unfortunate

650
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: sometimes because there's really no point in it because there's

651
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: nothing going on at night ever anymore. But I'm I'm

652
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:32,640
Speaker 1: a night owl. I like to be up. That's when

653
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: I thrive. That's when I like to write. That's what

654
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: I like to read. That's when I like to do

655
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 1: all the things that are like creative for some reason,

656
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: that's when I get rolling. What do you write? Are

657
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: you do you write? Like screenplays? Actually? Oh my gosh,

658
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: that's amazing working on some things. Yeah, when you can

659
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 1: go out? Do you like to go out? When we

660
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: can do that? I do? What do you like to

661
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: do when you go outside? Not outside? I'm an out,

662
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: like to bars. Yeah, I like to go to bars.

663
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: I like that. I like to just I'm a super

664
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: chill so I like to do anything that's like low

665
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: maintenance and just chill. But I'll go I'll hit the

666
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: clubs and do the wild nights now and then I

667
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: won't lie. But Anthony unexpected, I'm expected to balanced. He's balanced. Yes,

668
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: life's about balance, you know. But yeah, I like to

669
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: I like to chill with my friends and just go out.

670
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 1: I'm a normal person obviously. Well, last time we talked

671
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: to you on the Galentine State event, you did say

672
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: that you were single. Has that changed at all or

673
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: is it still the same? It's not changed, it is

674
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: the same. Are you on dating apps? I'm not on

675
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: dating apps. I've never been on one. I would if yeah,

676
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 1: I would stay off. You'll get crazy like me if

677
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: dating app you get on dating apps? Okay, um, yeah,

678
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,919
Speaker 1: but I would say, like, you know, have friends set

679
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,880
Speaker 1: you up, because how else do you meet people? Like,

680
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: how else do you meet people? Specially in the pandemic?

681
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: Like I know, and that's kind of the thing. But

682
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 1: I've been really, really kind of fortunate in a position

683
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: where I haven't thought too much about it, because this

684
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: whole New Grace thing is massive and it's kind of

685
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,439
Speaker 1: like taking up my whole vantage point, and I don't

686
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: really you know, I'm not really seeing a whole lot

687
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 1: of I guess, the extra stuff. So I'm trying to

688
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: focus on this, and I'm really hopefully succeeding on focusing

689
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 1: on it because it's a big thing, and I've been

690
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: I've been literally working for something like this my entire life.

691
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 1: That's awesome. That's so cool. You know what they say,

692
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: when you're looking at the north, it sneaks up and

693
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 1: it's you from the south, and you're like, what the

694
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: heck have you heard that? Have you ever heard that before?

695
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: Heard that? But I like it. My mentories to tell

696
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,760
Speaker 1: me that. He's like, kids, when you're looking at looking

697
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: straight north and you're head into your future, it's just

698
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: gonna sneak up right mess south and hitch upside the head.

699
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: He doesn't sound like that, but kid, yeah, he calls me, kiddoh, yeah,

700
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: that is an amazing I'm ready. I'm ready for it

701
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 1: to sneak up from the south. That's what happened, you know,

702
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm just looking towards the north, like you said, Yeah,

703
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 1: it's a good place to look. You just keep looking

704
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: in that grade anatomy North and I'm just gonna yeah,

705
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: and just remember, like if Krista and Debbie say, hey, Anthony,

706
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,439
Speaker 1: we wanted to sit down and chat with you, You're

707
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: you're busy. I can't do it. You know what the

708
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: ladies from from and I have to sprint to my car.

709
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: Thank you. We could have like are like the scrubbers.

710
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: Scrubbers are passionate, and we could really start like a

711
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: petition for you for whatever you need. Yeah, yeah, you

712
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: just come to us, let us. Yeah, they try to

713
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: do anything shady. You come, We got your back over

714
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 1: here like that. I'm gonna be thinking about different different things. Yeah,

715
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: describers want two People's Choice awards against like Oprah. I

716
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: didn't know, Oh yeah, her podcast, not anything else, Yeah,

717
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 1: but our scrubber. Yeah, that's what we're saying. The power

718
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: of the scrubbers is real. So if you mean any

719
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: votes for anything, we definitely have that covered. Yeah, got you.

720
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: By the way, if you your podcast is amazing, thank you.

721
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: I love it. And if I didn't know that you'd

722
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: beat Oprah's podcast, you all should be wearing like crowns

723
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,399
Speaker 1: or you know what's funny. I've told Becca we should

724
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:44,439
Speaker 1: put it in our Instagram bios, like beat Oprah in yeah,

725
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: beat Oprah's podcast in People's Choice Awards, like that is

726
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 1: a we should wear that as a badge of honor,

727
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: saying sashes. Yeah, and Amy Schumer, I don't know. I mean,

728
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: you can't do it's Oprah, Like you can't. I know.

729
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: Oprah was like for a while because it went from like, um,

730
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 1: twelve nominees to six or something, and we beat her

731
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: in the first round, like our progressed on to the

732
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: next round and we were just like we were like,

733
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:15,839
Speaker 1: we don't even carefully won. We beat up. Yeah, that's

734
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: a victory in itself round one. So from now on

735
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: when we pitch ourselves, that will be the opening line.

736
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for that reminder of how epic it is.

737
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm just so nervous for the rest

738
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: of this season. Okay, but well you should just come

739
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: back before the before the finale, before the finale, I'm down.

740
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. Yeah, when is it?

741
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 1: How long do we have mark like may ish or something?

742
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 1: They spread out pretty good March that's in two months.

743
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 1: That's great. You'll be you'll be what you'll be itching

744
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: to come back by then. Yeah, he'll be, he'll be

745
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: ready for this moment again. For now, he has to

746
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: go and take some CBD or something to calm down.

747
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,879
Speaker 1: We thank you one. Do you work like seven days

748
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: a week? Um? No, not not always, not usually. You know,

749
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: it's casting so many people like this, like sixteen of

750
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: us or whatever, so um, yeah, it's it's pretty filled

751
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,720
Speaker 1: this week, for example, and next week, but I think

752
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: maybe the week after that would be a little less

753
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,359
Speaker 1: because I don't think you know, you're not in every

754
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: episode and you know, Okay, well, we can't wait to

755
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: watch the rest. I pray that this is not the finale,

756
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: the series finale, like they're teasing. But I just I'm

757
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: on a My head is on a swivel at all

758
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: times right now, so me too. It's just it's a

759
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: lot of anxiety watching this season, which is good. It's

760
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: not gonna let you down. The stuff we've done so far,

761
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: I'm really excited about, so excited about. They'll take that teaser.

762
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: Yeah that's exciting. Um, thank you for coming back. We

763
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 1: love having you and you're just the best. So the best.

764
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: Thank you both for having me back. Thank you, I'll

765
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: talk to you later. Forget us group chat coming soon?

766
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. Everybody was like Tanya's only blew Anthony

767
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 1: a kiss and then the gap. I was like, oh

768
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: did I really hoops by? Okay, Tanya loved that interview

769
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: so much that her hair is back in baby Yoda style.

770
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: That's right. I just also pissed that you guys have

771
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: a group chat without me. We don't. It's not a

772
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: group chat, just me and him, he and I. That's

773
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: so rude. Just talk Also me with Alex Landy, who

774
00:44:55,800 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: plays um, I'm totally blinking Jake Barelli's uh yeah, I'm

775
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: just like we talked about McDonald's make flurries and stuff.

776
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm like the d M queen to them. No, I'm slacking.

777
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: I gotta get back on my game. But what a

778
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: nice guy. I know. I do too. I love that guy.

779
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 1: It's like our friend. He feels like our friend. Now.

780
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 1: That's why I said. I was like, you should come

781
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: quarterly and that felt that feels doable and not over like,

782
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 1: that feels not like yeah, he's just I just like

783
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: him because he kind of just like laughs along with

784
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,279
Speaker 1: us but doesn't make us feel as crazy as we are.

785
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: You know, like he probably thinking, he's probably thinking it,

786
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: but he doesn't know. I think he thinks that we're

787
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 1: like actually more legit than we are. Well they really

788
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: there wasn't. I saw a different level of respect in

789
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: his eyes when we mentioned that we beat Oprah. I know,

790
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: do you think we beat Oper? Though? Now? After her

791
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 1: interview with Harry and Megan, yes, scrat are you can't

792
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: even go even harder now? Actually? Probably right? Um, yeah,

793
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: he's just the best and Grayson out of me, I

794
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,479
Speaker 1: am with you. I'm like, it's the good feeling because

795
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: this is how it used to feel where you were

796
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: like a little bit on edge for Thursdays because you're

797
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: like yeah, and it's like almost you have to watch

798
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: it live because I didn't watch a Thursday night, and

799
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 1: then everybody was like sending me the spoiler. I was like, yeah,

800
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 1: I mean it was so traumatic, like definitely like I

801
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: didn't know how it happened or anything like that, but

802
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 1: but also I just felt sucked into that episode, like

803
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: it was one of those episodes where it was almost over.

804
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,640
Speaker 1: You're like, wow, I've not checked my watch or thought

805
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 1: about other things. Yeah, you got lost in it. Yeah, yeah, same.

806
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know if you watch both station nights.

807
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: I mean you kind of had to watch Station Station

808
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:50,240
Speaker 1: nineteen before you didn't know what. I had no idea.

809
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 1: I was like, how did he get stabbed? And so

810
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 1: I actually look that up online. Oh it's a Station

811
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: nineteen thing, which they don't like nothing. I don't like

812
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: being blackmailed to want to show I'm the same way.

813
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: It pisces me off. See I don't try and play me, okay,

814
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: because I can play you right back, say listen. I

815
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: actually respect it from just like getting getting viewers like

816
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: it's pretty genius, and they made it enough about Grey's

817
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: Anatomy that I didn't feel like I was like the genius.

818
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, let's say this, let's say some let's

819
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: just put it into like okay, so are scrubbing and listeners.

820
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: We love our scrubbers right like we love them. Okay,

821
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: we're not trying to dupe you guys, right like as

822
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: we are like the Gray's Antomy watchers. That's like some

823
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 1: other podcast coming in here and us being like, oh okay,

824
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,360
Speaker 1: I um went on a date last night. I'm not

825
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: going to tell you about it here on my podcast.

826
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna go talk about it on whatever podcast because

827
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 1: you have to to listen to that one. That's so

828
00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 1: rude and disrespectful to our scrubbing and listeners that we

829
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: could say, hey, well we'll set it up. You have

830
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: to listen on Earth Ryan Seacrest, if I would really

831
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 1: have up we can, right, We don't do that. No,

832
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: we don't do that because we respect our listeners. Yeah,

833
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: but it would be It's still a great way to

834
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 1: get people to tune in. You know. It's not saying

835
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 1: every every time I'm and I don't like it. It's

836
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: not my character and I'm just I don't like it.

837
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: I didn't like it on Private Practice, I don't like

838
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: it on Station nineteen. And by the way, at least

839
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: give me a previously on Station nineteen so I can

840
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: know that the guy got staff. Last I saw he

841
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: was in a parking lot running or something. Yeah. Yeah,

842
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: I loved I mean, I loved Station nineteen. I think

843
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: is really good and it's been growing on me. When

844
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: I watched it, I'm like, oh, I should go back

845
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 1: and get caught up on this. So I didn't hate

846
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: and I loved private practice too. So y'all are haters. No,

847
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: we're just not skiezies. Oh you're so lame. That would

848
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: feel like you being that's like you on the Grammy's

849
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 1: being like, um, tune in. Make sure we're going to

850
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: have more, so tune into the night show or you'll

851
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: miss out. No, it's not the same thing. It's actually

852
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: not not that at all. Anyways, I'm sorry that you'll

853
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: find excusy. I just I thought, as from a marketing perspective,

854
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 1: it's pretty smart. Well I'm not saying it's not smart.

855
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it causes a rebellious streak in me. Yeah,

856
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not it's not cool to your fans,

857
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: and I don't like that. We don't worry, scrubbers. We're

858
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: not going to do that to you all. We'll keep

859
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 1: every anything important that's happening, we'll be on. It'll be

860
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: exclusive scrubbing in episode info. I would never do that

861
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: to the scrubbers, Like if we're both just like if

862
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: we're talking about our relationships, but you have to tune in,

863
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: Like if our boss came to us and said, hey,

864
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: like we have a new podcast and we really want

865
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: you guys to help out and like do this like

866
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: something shady. I'd be like, sorry, no, you aren't doing

867
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: that here. The only thing we do do, if I

868
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: may say, do do uh, but all podcasts do this,

869
00:49:57,400 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: and I find it annoying. We do what others do

870
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 1: it is put those little ads for other shows in

871
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: the in the feed. That's fine. It's kind of similar though,

872
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: but yes, I mean no, because that would be like

873
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: a commercial promoting station nineteen. Yeah, it's like a commercial. Yeah,

874
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: but it's downloaded right to your phone. I don't know

875
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: about that. I don't know if I like that. So

876
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: if I see that on the scrubbing in feed, I'm

877
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: going to have some words. I think I did. Actually,

878
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: I think our promo that we just cut recently is

879
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: going to be in other shows feeds. Um. I know

880
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: we have some emails to get to, so I think

881
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: I think that's what we should do, all right. This

882
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: email is to backhands on you, and it's from Shocker

883
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: Unexpected not to Station no JP says my boyfriend is

884
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: still friends with this acts, with whom he'd been with

885
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 1: for ten years, basically throughout all of his twenties. They

886
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: broke up in the fall of twenty. She initiated the

887
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: break up, and while my boyfriend wanted to work on

888
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: the relationship, they eventually came to the realization that things

889
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: weren't going to work out and ended things on good terms.

890
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: Their lives continue to be intertwined. Her mom still randomly

891
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: calls him to chat. The two families grew very close

892
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: during their relationship. I know things ended on good terms

893
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: and everybody's happy where they are, but I can't help

894
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: but feel intimidated and slightly annoyed that he's still so

895
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: close with his ex. He's even told me that she's

896
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: like family and that he loves him and he always will.

897
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: While I know and trust that they're romantically over each other,

898
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: has actually actually his acts actually moved on first, I

899
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: can't help but feel discouraged because I feel like I'm

900
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 1: always going to be compared to his acts by his

901
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: family and friends. We've been dating three months and things

902
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 1: are going well otherwise. I just need help readjusting my

903
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: perspective on this matter because I want to be secure

904
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: and okay with him being friends. How do I go

905
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 1: about this? H got any words? Um? I would say,

906
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 1: since you've only been dating for three months, I would

907
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: just keep going. Mark's giving me a head nod, so

908
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: I'm hoping he thinks that what I'm saying is going

909
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: to be profound and great. But um, I would say,

910
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:26,279
Speaker 1: it's only been three months, So I would just say

911
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: keep going in the dating and see how you feel.

912
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 1: If it gets worse and not better than maybe you

913
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: dip out. But I think that this is something that

914
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: as you grow in your relationship with him, and your

915
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: relationship grows stronger, that that's just going to die down.

916
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 1: That's what I think. I don't necessarily disagree with that. However,

917
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 1: if I was dating someone who I knew was broken

918
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: up with and he was not wanting the relationship to end,

919
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,760
Speaker 1: and then was still in contact with her and her family,

920
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: I would feel very insecure, and I think it would

921
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: all most make me not be able to focus on

922
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: the relationship in a healthy way. I would just I

923
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: would mainly I would just be upfront and honest with

924
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 1: him and just say, hey, I know that y'all had

925
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: a good relationship and that it ended on good terms,

926
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 1: that your families are close and your lives are intertwined.

927
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 1: But I feel like I'm comparing myself, and I think

928
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: knowing that you didn't necessarily want to get out of

929
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: that relationship, like it wasn't his choice. I think just

930
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 1: being upfront and honest and saying like, out of respect

931
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: to our relationship, can there just be less communication on

932
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: your end, like he can't help it if them. I mean,

933
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: it's awkward for him to tell the ex girlfriend's mom, like, hey,

934
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: can you stop calling me? But I think, like Tanya said,

935
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: as the relationship goes on and will eventually die down,

936
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: because I would think maybe her new boyfriend would be like,

937
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 1: why is your mom calling your ex? And probably maybe

938
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 1: feeling the same way if he knows about the relationships.

939
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: So I would just have a conversation with him and

940
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: be honest. You know, you're a little intimidated by their

941
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: relationship and you don't want it to affect your relationship,

942
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: And I think the least he can do is limit

943
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: their interaction where he care. Yeah, I agree, I don't

944
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: have high hopes for this, and I'm sorry JP on

945
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: that I don't just in the general sense that you're

946
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: the first relationship after a decade long relationship, I feel

947
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: like the odds of that relationship succeeding knowing nothing else

948
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 1: are low. It's rebound. It's a rebound situation, and that's okay,

949
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: destating advice and information. But I sided with Tanya in

950
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: the sense that take it day by day. Are you

951
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,200
Speaker 1: happy today? Is he giving you what you need and

952
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: what you want today? And if he is, then let's

953
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: stick her with it till tomorrow. But I and Becca's

954
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 1: right to be open about your feelings because uh, I

955
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of I think you're kind of

956
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: walking in quicksand here. Okay, JP, don't listen to minative

957
00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: nancy everything. No, but I do think that there are

958
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: like certain I think that JP. I think you'll be

959
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: surprised if you do speak up because I was in

960
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: this situation that I mean, it's a little bit different

961
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: because you know, it's just a little bit different, but

962
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:17,319
Speaker 1: because you know, the relationship ended because the person I

963
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:18,800
Speaker 1: was dating and wanted it to be over. Do you

964
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: mean like the the situation wasn't technically the same, but

965
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: I had to kind of speak up and say that

966
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: there needed to be boundaries there with that relationship, do

967
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I had to speak

968
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: up and say I need there to be boundaries. I

969
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: am in a new relationship with you, blah blah blah.

970
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: And he was really respectful and receptive and made those

971
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: changes and set those boundaries and like really listened to me,

972
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: and I felt really heard. And so I think that's

973
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: what I was saying. I think as time goes on,

974
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: you will start to see a change, because I did

975
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 1: feel like that at some point, like early on, and

976
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: then I started to see the I I spoke up,

977
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: the boundaries were set, and I felt really stable. So

978
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: I think it will either work itself out or it won't.

979
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,800
Speaker 1: That's I mean similar with my You know, when Robert

980
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,919
Speaker 1: and I ended, we were friends before we started dating,

981
00:55:57,920 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: and so when we broke up, it was a very

982
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 1: like healthy really I mean break up in the sense

983
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: that like nothing bad, no one did anything. It was

984
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: just like this isn't right. But I still wanted that

985
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: friendship with him, but was just like, hey, that you

986
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: know makes me kind of uncomfortable if you're like talking

987
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: all the time. And I was like, totally, I totally

988
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 1: understand that. And then Robert started dating, um, someone else too,

989
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: and it was kind of just like being able to

990
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:26,320
Speaker 1: respect each other's relationships and our own. I think it

991
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: was just you know, but I needed to hear it

992
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 1: to realize That's like I needed to know that UM

993
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: was uncomfortable for me to have that realization of like, oh,

994
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: I see where that would be awkward for you. Yeah,

995
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: a lot of options here, JP next up from Kenny.

996
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: That's a great name as well. By the way, Kennedy says,

997
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 1: I'm twenty one years old going into my senior year

998
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: of college. My best friend since first grade and I

999
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: have always been the single friends of our group. We

1000
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: also happened to be the only virgins, not for religious

1001
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: reasons as well. Recently, my best friend has met someone

1002
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,280
Speaker 1: and began becoming romantic with them. I'm reaching out because

1003
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: I'm struggling with trying to be a supportive friend. Anytime

1004
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: we talk it is hard to listen to all the

1005
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: details of her having exactly what I want. I still

1006
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: have hope that love will find me, and even just

1007
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 1: started calling in the one and I'm loving it. But

1008
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,400
Speaker 1: am I being a bad friend by not completely being

1009
00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: happy for my friend and even going as far as

1010
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: to distance myself. How do I be a supportive friend

1011
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: while also keeping my feelings in mental health of priority?

1012
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: I got side tracked after she said calling in the

1013
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: one what the friend the French, She's just saying, how

1014
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 1: can she you just like felt like an ego like

1015
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: this you contributed to helping her? She basically said, am

1016
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: I being a bad friend by not being completely happy?

1017
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: Or even if I need to distance myself, how do

1018
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: I be supportive also keeping my feelings single? Yeah? She

1019
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: she wants what her friends experiencing, and they've always been

1020
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: to both the single the single ones in their friend group,

1021
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: So now she feels like she's the only one in

1022
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: the friend group who doesn't have that. Let me tell

1023
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: you something, girl, there's one relationship that you're gonna have

1024
00:58:17,320 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: your whole life, and that is with yourself. You can't compare.

1025
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: People are going to go in relationships, People are gonna

1026
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: come out of relationships. Your friends are gonna get married,

1027
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: your friends are gonna go through divorce. Yeah, sometimes you'll

1028
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: be single, sometimes you'll be in a relationship. Sometimes you'll

1029
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:34,080
Speaker 1: need to cry on their shoulders, sometimes they'll need to

1030
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: cry on yours. That's how your life is going to

1031
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: be from now until you're a hundred. So you can't

1032
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: like you can't I feel like when you're especially in college,

1033
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: like you always have that buddy system of like we're

1034
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: the single ones or like we know when I don't know,

1035
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: that's how I always as in our sorority, like we

1036
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 1: always always had one person that like did something with me.

1037
00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 1: And when you graduate, honestly, I feel like when you

1038
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: graduate from college, all that's over. You're one man show.

1039
00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 1: So it's like you can't like you just gotta do you.

1040
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: Yeah that makes sense. Well, yes, I'm not sure it's

1041
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: good advice for the current situation, but excellent great life advice,

1042
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: general advice. It's very great. Great n I don't know

1043
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: if it else here at all. Yeah, great, great advice

1044
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: for the listeners. Tanya for Kennedy. UM, I think that

1045
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:28,960
Speaker 1: if you needing to be a good friend is distancing

1046
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 1: yourself to figure out how to love yourself even in

1047
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,479
Speaker 1: a single phase of life and like having like Tanya said,

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Speaker 1: having that relationship. If you need to distance yourself and

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00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: focus on, you know, doing calling in the one and

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00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: finding things that you love to do, like either by

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00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: yourself or with your other friends, then do that. But

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Speaker 1: I also think that, like Tanya said, there's always things,

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Speaker 1: whether it's your friends being in relationships or when it's

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Speaker 1: work stuff or um people doing things that you wish

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Speaker 1: you were doing. In with your life, there's always those

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Speaker 1: moments of like wanting what we don't have, and then

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01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: when you have it, you want what someone else has,

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Speaker 1: even if it's in a totally different category. So your

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Speaker 1: friendship is more important than you like your friendship. I

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Speaker 1: guess I'm assuming because you wrote in to ask you

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01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: by sport is more important than you needing to have

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Speaker 1: someone to like. So you can be supportive while still

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01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: wanting that for yourself. But don't dwell on it so

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Speaker 1: much because what it's really gonna it's not going to

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01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,440
Speaker 1: affect her as much as it's going to affect you, like,

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Speaker 1: because you're gonna be losing your friendship and you're gonna

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Speaker 1: be feeling like a little bit of resentment and bitterness,

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Speaker 1: which is what's the quote bitterness is like drinking poison

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Speaker 1: and expecting someone else to die. But it's true. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think it's more so like kind of figuring out

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Speaker 1: is it does it? Do you feel left? Like? Do

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Speaker 1: you feel alone? Do you feel jealous? Do you like

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Speaker 1: the I that she's dating or whoever she's dating, Like

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Speaker 1: just kind of find things like where that stems from

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Speaker 1: if it's just because you feel like you're the only one.

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Speaker 1: Because listen, I'm in a very healthy, happy relationship, and

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Speaker 1: I still have moments where I'm like, I look at

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01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 1: photos where I was single, and I was like, that

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Speaker 1: was the best, Like I had the best time doing that.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think we all can agree with that.

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Speaker 1: The grass is always greener no matter what's happening in

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Speaker 1: your life. So value your friendship, be supportive, and also

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01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: find other people who maybe are in the same phase

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01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: of life as you. Yeah, there's always room for new friends.

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Speaker 1: I relate to this when my friend Kurt and I

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01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 1: moved to Los Angeles. You know, we wanted to become

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01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: you know, famous actors and performers and all this stuff

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01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: and TV stars and um and so we both started

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01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 1: going out on auditions and getting agents and stuff like that,

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01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 1: and that was the feeling. We were best friends who

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01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: moved out here together. But I got a commercial agent

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01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: before he did, and I could see it in his eyes.

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Speaker 1: He was not happy for me. And then he got

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01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: like a theatrical agent to send you on a TV

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01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: audition for I did, and I was not happy for him.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's a competition. After a certain point, So

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Speaker 1: I think you just got to fake it to some degree.

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Speaker 1: But also what Becca was saying, you can find nuggets

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01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: based in reality. You could say to her, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I am so jealous right now, because that's true and

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01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: that's real. And I think she's gonna like hearing that, honestly,

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Speaker 1: because who wouldn't. So I think it just kind of

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01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: got to get through this and it's gonna work out fine.

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Speaker 1: Everything is going to be okay. And five ten years

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01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: from now, you'll laugh about this for sure, totally. And also,

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Speaker 1: like cut off time for you all to have your

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01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: friendship time just because she's in a relationship when y'all

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01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 1: are just you, it's not she's your friend first, especially

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01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: when you're in that time together. So carve out time

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Speaker 1: where it's just you and and so that you don't

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01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: feel like a third wheel or whatever that makes you

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Speaker 1: feel good. Advice, it's good. Listen, we beat Oprah for

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Speaker 1: a reason, that's right. Advice givers. Yeah, I can't get

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Speaker 1: this kind of advice over there. No, no, nope, not

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Speaker 1: these interview skills either No, no, no sharp as attack

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Speaker 1: or here tax are sharp? Actually, yeah, that's right. I

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Speaker 1: know what I said. Yeah, alright, well we're losing Tanya quickly.

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Speaker 1: So all I know is that Patrick Dempsey is back

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Speaker 1: on our screens this week and that has me living

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Speaker 1: for Thursday. So um until next week. Have a wonderful week,

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Speaker 1: I said week so many times. Week week week. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go sleep, sleep sleep. Yes, I'm gonna put you.

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Speaker 1: We're apposed to our boudoir. Sure, shoot today, but Tanya

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Speaker 1: has had some interferences. Yeah, Niagara Falls coming out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's on her period. That's all I need to go. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I know, I mean, there's nothing sexy about that. Like

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01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 1: I was just like I thought, like, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: actually pretty incredible is that I spent I don't even

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Speaker 1: know how long I was out of my apartment left.

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Speaker 1: I left it tenant ten am and I came back

1131
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 1: at eleven pm, so over twelve hours. And all I

1132
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: did was have one menstrual cup in there all day

1133
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 1: promo for the like they don't even a sponsor anymore,

1134
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 1: but damn your cup renteth over right barely, like it

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01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 1: was like ready, it was ready to come out when

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Speaker 1: I got home. But I was just so like this

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01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: is what this is what menstrul cups are made of

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01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: like game Day, you know exactly, game Day the right way,

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01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: Game Day, the right way. Um uh al right, well

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01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: so we're not doing that, so that will be postponed

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01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: to another day, but it'll be fine. We want it

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Speaker 1: to be when you're feeling your best. I know, and

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01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm just not feeling my best. Okay, I'm just not

1144
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Speaker 1: someone someone asked me in the Facebook group the other

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01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 1: day if that was going to happen today, and I

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01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 1: almost texted you telling you, but I felt like that

1147
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 1: could be like an HR problem, Like I'll let her

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01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: bring that up to me. Okay, I still I want

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01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,760
Speaker 1: to do it because I got a spray tan, so

1150
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: like I'm like tan, I just like I'm bloated and bleeding.

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01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's true. So there's your title for

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01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 1: the Thank you jeffin Une of the wire too. Alright, perfect,

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Speaker 1: have a great week. We love you all, See you

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Speaker 1: next time. By