1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Addie and Samantha. I welcome stuff on 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: Never Told You Protective. iHeart Radio and today is November fourteenth, 3 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four. I had to think about it, and 4 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: I thought, you know, we've got a lot going on. 5 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: We've been talking about our game plan of how we're 6 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: gonna deal with the fallout of the election episode wise 7 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: here on the show, especially with the holidays coming up. 8 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: So if things feel a little uneven, please just bear 9 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: with us. We are people to yeah, which speaking of 10 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: I was just curious about this because we are I 11 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: mean content warning. We are talking about the election a 12 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: little bit, but not really. We're mostly talking about why 13 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 1: do you cry when people like ask if you're okay? 14 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: And to I guess I was telling Samantha, I can 15 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: always tell what I wrote an outline and I was 16 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: thinking about something very specific and maybe having some emotions 17 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: about it, and I can tell I was when I 18 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: did this one. But it's so it's not some kind 19 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: of like takedown in any way. I feel like I 20 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: have to Sometimes I'm worried people who know me listen 21 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: to this and think I'm like talking directly to them, 22 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: and I'm not. And I feel like a lot of times. 23 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: The argument can be has been used about this, especially 24 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: after an election, especially after Trump wins an election, that oh, 25 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: you're all being snowflakes, even though I would argue it's 26 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: the other side, perhaps the biggest snowflakes who can't handle 27 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: election results withou violence. But anyway, I think it makes 28 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: sense that you when people ask if you're okay, you cry, 29 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: And that was something that I was when I was 30 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: I've always kind of been that way, but after the 31 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: election I noticed it a lot where I'd be like, wow, today, 32 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: You've gone a whole day without crying, and that someone 33 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: would text me they're like, are you okay? Like, no, yeah, 34 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 1: So I've always been this way, I've just noticed it 35 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 1: a lot lately. It has gotten better for me, specifically 36 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: as time has gone on, but it'll still especially if 37 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: I'm tired, Fine, I'm tired. Oh no. But there are 38 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: a lot of reasons why this might be. One is 39 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 1: a constant reopening or reminding of a wound if you 40 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 1: feel compelled to answer honestly, And I know you and 41 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: I have talked about this before, Samantha, but sometimes we 42 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: have given honest answers to that question when it's clear 43 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: they just wanted the yes, I'm fine. 44 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 2: They wanted the not real good answer exactly. 45 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: But sometimes I've done that without even meaning to do it, 46 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: like it just happens. And I was thinking about this 47 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: too interestingly and kind of sadly. But one of the 48 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: reasons you came onto this show was I think he 49 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: met me at a time in my life after Trump 50 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: was elected, and I just couldn't like the like, yes 51 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: I'm fine was much harder for me to pull off, 52 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: and so I was just like nope, and here life, 53 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: and that led to our mini series on trauma and 54 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: here you are. 55 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,559 Speaker 2: Well should we do that one again? 56 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: Oh? As a list, like as a playlist? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 57 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: it's like who We're back? Yep. There's also another reason 58 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: you might break down when people ask if you're okay. 59 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: It is a hesitation to admit that you're not. And 60 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: when you're confronted with that of that realization of oh, 61 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: I'm not, you might break down. This one's big for me. 62 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: Fear it'll be hard to stop once you do, or 63 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: fear that you will break down at all. But like 64 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: that idea of oh, if I answer this, it's gonna 65 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: start a chaining action. I don't know when I'm gonna 66 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 1: be able to stop. So I was invited to last weekend, 67 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: the weekend after the election, I did have a bunch 68 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: of wonderful friends reaching out and I was invited to 69 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: kind of like a soup get away. So many people 70 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: ask me to get soup. I love that I've got 71 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: a soup name for myself, and I was I was 72 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: very sick, like physically very sick, and I didn't go. 73 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 1: But I was also thinking, like I'm I'm afraid what 74 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: will happen if we start talking about it? And I'm afraid, 75 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 1: like I'll just start crying and I won't stop. And 76 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 1: I don't like doing that. And I've tried to examine, 77 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: like why, but I just I think there's a lot 78 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 1: of to impact there. But I don't like doing that. 79 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: It feels out of control. It's I think that's one 80 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: of the reasons, Like I love crying at the last 81 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: of us too, is I know when I'm going to cry, 82 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: Like I know I can anticipate it, but I don't 83 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: like the kind of uncontrolled Oh God, I don't know 84 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 1: when this is going to stop, Like I don't know 85 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: what I'm going to say I don't like that feeling, 86 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: and I didn't. I was scared of what would happen. 87 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: And they would have been they're my friends and they 88 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: would have supported me. It would have been fine, but 89 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 1: it was just kind of a me me thing. Also, 90 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: sometimes someone legitimizing your feelings can just make you cry. 91 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: So if someone's like genuinely asking you, like, are you 92 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: okay with probably the understanding you're not, that can that 93 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: can get you to start crying. Not used to being 94 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: people asking or being nice to you, or feeling grateful 95 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: someone cares cares enough to ask that can that can 96 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 1: make you cry. And I've definitely experienced that, or like 97 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: the smallest act of kindness that I'm like, oh my god, 98 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: they care about me. One of the reasons I keep 99 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: so many of things people give me, like notes. It's like, 100 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: oh they care, I have this like physical evidence. Also, 101 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: perhaps obviously it could be that you are anxious or depressed, 102 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: and maybe this is just one one thing that is 103 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: setting you off, maybe as a bunch of other stuff. 104 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: So obviously too, like all of that can interact, multiple 105 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: of those things could be happening at the same time. 106 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: I did find something when I was researching this called 107 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: highly sensitive people or HSPs. According to some sources, one 108 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: of five people are estimated to be HSPs overall genders, 109 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: and this is essentially believed to be people who respond 110 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: and processed am lie more deeply, and it is believed 111 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: to be genetic. But HSPs cry more than non HSPs. 112 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: There have been studies into the brains in HSP people 113 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: that show that they have higher brain activity when looking 114 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: at people or things that they cared about, things like 115 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: depression and anxiety are worsened. I'm not saying I think 116 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: I have that. I just ran into it when I 117 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 1: was researching this. I am some I feel things deeply, 118 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: but I don't know enough about this to know if 119 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: that's what's what I got going on. Things like race 120 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: and trauma a factor here too, And like how you're 121 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: trying to monitor whether you cry or don't cry, so 122 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: that's something else. There's also emotional monitoring, which is the 123 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: flip side. If you find yourself constantly asking if someone 124 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 1: is okay. This is pretty common with people who are 125 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: marginalized and or have trauma. It's more of like a 126 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: trauma response to scam moods and feel safe. My dad 127 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,599 Speaker 1: was this like this, but he did not want the 128 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: real answer to the question. He wanted you to say, yes, 129 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: I am fine, I'm happy, But he does he had 130 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: his own trauma, and so as I've gotten older, I 131 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: come to understand that more so some of the like 132 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: things to look out for. If you're like, oh no, well, 133 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: is that me constantly asking somebody if they're okay, or 134 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: if they're or if they're upset even when they say 135 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: they're not, having extreme anxiety when a close friend or 136 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: partner is upset or hurting, a constant focus on the 137 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: moodshifts of others, feeling like your role is to cheer 138 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: someone up at all times, chronic apologizing, replaying social interactions 139 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: over and over mentally. The interesting thing is I would 140 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I do this, But then I was 141 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: reading this and I was like, oh no, it's like 142 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 1: half and half I do emotionally monitor. I think a 143 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: lot of us do, because especially if you've got trauma, 144 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: you're like, how is it? But I wouldn't have said, like, 145 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm gonna have to think about this. 146 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to think about it. But you know, 147 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: there are a couple of things that you can do 148 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: if you're frustrated by the fact that you For me, 149 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: I get frustrated that it feels like I'm fine and 150 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: then the question and I'm just crying. It's annoying. You 151 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: can work on a couple of especially if you have 152 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: something like anxiety or depression or whatever. Just work on 153 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: dealing with the heart of what it is. You can also, 154 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: like Samantha and I maybe have not done in the past, 155 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 1: you can assess the truth of the question, like do 156 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: they are they actually asking? Some people don't want the answer. 157 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,839 Speaker 1: It's just a polite thing we do. A lot of 158 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: us do it. That's okay. It can be very shocking 159 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: when you're just like, hey, how are you and somebody 160 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: starts crying. You know, then hopefully I show you. I 161 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: hope you show some compassion. But it can be very 162 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 1: like WHOA, I was not expecting. 163 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever done that, but I've had 164 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 2: that done to me, and I'm like, oh, okay, I'm 165 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: gonna need about fifteen minutes with you. 166 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: Let's go sit down, let's go Okay, this is what happens. 167 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: I swear to God, I've asked ever will my all right? 168 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: You want to go sit over here. 169 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: And the thing is specifically got brewery times where people 170 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 2: would just I'd be like, hey, how's it going, And 171 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: then I'd ask one question that just like something that 172 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,599 Speaker 2: you had told me previously that seems so nonchalant, and 173 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 2: all of a sudden that broke something. 174 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh no, I'm so sorry. 175 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, that's what I feel like, I'm too intense. 176 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, I've thought about that with separate but related, 177 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: but I've thought about this with times where guys have 178 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: asked me out after I showed like the barrassed human 179 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: interaction of like oh hey, I like, what do you do? 180 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: He's in love, like I don't know something about I 181 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: would interpret interpret it as like a kindness, and I 182 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: might if I'm in a bad place, I might start crying, 183 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: whereas I feel like some men in my life have 184 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 1: interpreted it as ah, interest yeah, or I have started crying, 185 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 1: and guys have used that as like, oh, she's being 186 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: emotionally open with me, I can ask her out. 187 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 2: Well, it's that conversation about him being able to be 188 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 2: a protector. M M yeah, Like we kind of delved 189 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 2: into it in like the minisphere, but it's a really 190 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 2: like gender response for sure. 191 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, especially given some comments about protecting women whether 192 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: they want it or. 193 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 2: Not, right or not because they don't deserve it. 194 00:12:56,559 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. God, Anyway, again we laugh because we're said, this 195 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: is my response. Yeah, but yeah, I think probably if 196 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: it's something you're worried about. A lot of the sources 197 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: I said did say suggest therapy or identifying where that 198 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 1: it's coming from, where that reaction is coming from, and 199 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,959 Speaker 1: what it is. I feel like I said that this 200 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: has been I've had this throughout my life, and I'm 201 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: I feel pretty like I know what it is, and 202 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: I especially know what it is right now, so I'm 203 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: not worried about it. I was just curious to look 204 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: into it because I think it's a pretty natural, right, 205 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: pretty natural thing if you've got any kind of upset 206 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: in your life. 207 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 2: Right and also like your solution right now is isolation, 208 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 2: because you know that's how you respond. 209 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got my solution, and some of them are 210 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 1: better than others. But you're a monica. Yeah, there you go. 211 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: I've got wonderful people in my life checking in with me, 212 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: so it's all good. 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