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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Teddy is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she

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Speaker 2: told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date.

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Speaker 3: But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 3: heard from her?

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Speaker 4: I'd spent about a week.

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Speaker 3: How many times have you tried to reach out to her?

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Speaker 5: Maybe three times? Like what's every couple days? Two or

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Speaker 5: three days, just you know, saying what's up?

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Speaker 4: How's it going.

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Speaker 5: We were talking before h and after we went out

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Speaker 5: that it just kind of stopped.

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Speaker 3: She didn't respond to any of those I.

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Speaker 4: Know, not not at all.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about the date and see if we

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Speaker 1: can see went wrong? What and see what went wrong?

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Speaker 5: We went to a really nice place we went to

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.

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Speaker 5: If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,

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Speaker 5: you know that we sit outside because it was a

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Speaker 5: really really nice day.

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Speaker 4: It was cool.

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Speaker 5: We had a really great conversation and she's got her

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Speaker 5: head on her shoulders, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, in the right way.

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Speaker 5: You know how a lot of people they focus too

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Speaker 5: much on like social media and stuff, you know what

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Speaker 5: I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and

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Speaker 5: that's I'm not I'm not trying.

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Speaker 4: To meet anybody like that, you know. But she really

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Speaker 4: loves her job. She's got a really good job. She

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Speaker 4: works up and she's got goals, which is always a

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Speaker 4: good thing, you know what I mean. Yeahs like like

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Speaker 4: a five year plan.

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Speaker 5: That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that

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Speaker 5: I was I really thought we hit it off on

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Speaker 5: on that level. And uh, you know, the food is

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Speaker 5: great and the hobby option is great.

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Speaker 4: You know. So I really can't really think off the

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Speaker 4: top of my head.

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Speaker 5: Of why after such a nice date that, you know,

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Speaker 5: I just she just stopped communicating with me, Like I

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Speaker 5: can't say that we stopped communicating.

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Speaker 4: I'm so you know, trying to reach out.

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Speaker 2: You know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,

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Speaker 2: was there anything awkward that happened on the date at

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Speaker 2: all that you can think of?

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's anything I did.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant

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Speaker 5: even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.

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Speaker 4: That might have been something. I will admit. The service

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Speaker 4: wasn't the best.

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Speaker 5: You know, we wanted to sit outside like that she

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Speaker 5: suggested it, but then they sat as where the suns

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Speaker 5: like directly in our faces, you know, so I had

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Speaker 5: to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because

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Speaker 5: the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,

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Speaker 5: you know, I can be a little assertive when I

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Speaker 5: you know, when when the situation calls for it.

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Speaker 4: And maybe that's part of the reason why.

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Speaker 5: After like the second time that I had to ask

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Speaker 5: to be moved to get somebody's attention, that might be,

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Speaker 5: you know. Other than that, we talked for a while.

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Speaker 5: We watched you know, the sun go down. It was

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Speaker 5: really really cool, you know. And again we had a

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Speaker 5: lot in common, and you know, we had you know,

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Speaker 5: we had we talked about goals. That was always really good.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem

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Speaker 1: to change her on my quote unquote assertive.

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Speaker 3: She didn't change her demeanor. Do you feel like she

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Speaker 3: kind of was like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, in the moment, I can't I don't

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Speaker 5: remember any disagreement I'm going to say, no.

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Speaker 1: You sound really really nice. So I'm having a hard

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Speaker 1: time picturing that, Like what did that sound like? Do

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Speaker 1: you mind like pretending for a second?

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Speaker 4: Well, no, because it's like, you know, excuse me.

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Speaker 5: You know, I don't know if you remember the old

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Speaker 5: Bug Bunny cartoon where he's trying to see an other

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Speaker 5: animal's attention. He's like, hey, all the animals are just running.

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Speaker 5: He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,

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Speaker 5: And then finally I was like, hey, excuse me for

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Speaker 5: a second, you know. Okay, I didn't like raise my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out. Like, it wasn't an excusemer.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not going to do that. That's inappropriate.

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Speaker 3: Did you guys kiss or anything?

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Speaker 4: No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any

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Speaker 4: moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug

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Speaker 3: End, Okay, not like a side hug.

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Speaker 4: No, it wasn't.

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Speaker 5: No, I wasn't like a sidehug, but it was very brief,

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Speaker 5: like oh, thank you very much, A little pack.

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Speaker 4: Of a cheek. That was it?

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Speaker 2: Well, plus song come back and then call her Seash

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you

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Speaker 2: another date. Okay, okay, great, all right, well plus song

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Speaker 2: come back? You get your first a follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the first day follow up.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Maya, So we're about to

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Speaker 2: call her Sosha, tell us why she's ghosting him, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why don't

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Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?

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Speaker 4: No, we met online, We talked for a while.

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Speaker 5: We went on a really nice date at dinner and

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Speaker 5: talk for a while, and I thought.

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Speaker 4: Everything was going great.

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Speaker 2: And I haven't been able to get a touch here

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Speaker 2: since you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, here we go, I may I speak to Maya. Please.

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Speaker 3: This is che Hey Maya.

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 3: My name is Jewbell and this is a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Maya, the whole show's here.

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Speaker 3: My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Hi cool.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm good?

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Speaker 2: How are you? I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking. Well,

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Speaker 2: we're calling you today because we do a segment on

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Speaker 2: the show. It's called the first Date follow Up. What

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Speaker 2: that is is if you go out on a date

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Speaker 2: with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can

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Speaker 2: email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that makes me nervous.

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Speaker 3: Are you ghosting somebody?

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Speaker 6: I guess like kin and I feel like I remember,

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Speaker 6: this is maybe about a guess. Teddy, you're correct.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get any price

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Speaker 2: for that, but yes, it's Teddy. Would you mind telling

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Speaker 2: us why you're ghosting him?

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Speaker 7: Uh? Well, so we So I met him online and

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Speaker 7: I had when I was when I was online.

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Speaker 6: And I was like going to the app or whatever.

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Speaker 6: A friend of mine was with me, a girlfriend, and

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Speaker 7: Was like, oh, I know exactly who that is, and

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Speaker 7: she was telling me all about him. She like mentioned

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Speaker 7: that he was kind of a tool and that like,

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Speaker 7: I don't know, like dating him is kind of just

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Speaker 6: Dating him is kind of like getting a like a

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Speaker 7: And so for some reason that really meant that I

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Speaker 6: Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great. So I

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Speaker 7: Ended up going on the date, and I just like

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Speaker 7: the whole time he was complaining about things and like

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Speaker 7: I didn't really mindn't really like totally care. And it

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Speaker 7: I just felt like I was like, don't you actually

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Speaker 7: just see how it fits into my life that like

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Speaker 7: what's exactly she Like. I just felt like I had

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Speaker 7: this was kind of strange.

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Speaker 3: Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 7: Of course, of course, I think it was just that

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Speaker 7: He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.

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Speaker 7: He was just like, what's your job? Like do you

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Speaker 6: Like what what do you do?

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean? Like it was very like

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Speaker 6: I just feel like I was in a job interview

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Speaker 3: Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.

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Speaker 1: There's ways to get those answers without asking that question,

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Speaker 1: by the way, you'd like to learn, But.

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Speaker 3: Well, guess what maya what?

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Speaker 2: It's not easy easy thing because Teddy's actually on the

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Speaker 5: I don't really know how much I want to have

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Speaker 4: Now. That's that's super messed up.

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Speaker 5: You know that, you know, you and your friends are

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Speaker 5: making fun of me, and that's that's really what's wrong

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Speaker 5: with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know

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Speaker 5: it's just, oh, let me go see what this person

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Speaker 5: is like really about with a you know, with a

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Speaker 5: with an agenda that you don't even like articulate.

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Speaker 6: You know, there wasn't like a vet or anything. I

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Speaker 6: was just genuinely curious.

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Speaker 5: You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that

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Speaker 5: before we went out, all of the questions that saying

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Speaker 5: that we were talking about.

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Speaker 4: You could have asked me about me before we went out.

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Speaker 5: You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to

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Speaker 5: and we you know, we could have had this conversation

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Speaker 4: It's just a little on the ridiculous side, you know,

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Speaker 4: And that's that's a problem.

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Speaker 7: Anything that you would have acted probably like like a

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Speaker 6: Like I just think that that's a silly thing.

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Speaker 7: I just I went on the date, I like tried

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Speaker 6: Fit into your life. And I just think that that's

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Speaker 4: I don't know about other people online.

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Speaker 5: I'm definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days

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Speaker 4: Now I don't know how differ it was. You know

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Speaker 6: Know, I mean it was all me.

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Speaker 7: I just I just expected. I mean I could have

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Speaker 7: I you got what she asked for. I mean you

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Speaker 7: asked me. It felt like I was in a job interview,

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Speaker 7: Like I just don't get it.

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Speaker 5: Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,

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Speaker 4: Work and goals and meeting my goals.

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Speaker 5: So I just wanted to make sure that I was,

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Speaker 4: I mean, do you even have any type of goals?

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Speaker 4: Or was that all just stuff that you were saying?

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Speaker 6: Of course I have, sous. It's like a silly, silly

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Speaker 7: I just I just expected you to give a little

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Speaker 7: asking of me would have came naturally, they would have

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Speaker 6: Because it did not go well, Well, tell me one

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Speaker 6: thing that I said about myself on the day. Tell

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Speaker 6: me because if if it was good, then you should

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Speaker 6: know this, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's not the point.

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Speaker 6: All right now.

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Speaker 2: You know, Hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?

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Speaker 3: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: No, thank you, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to go out with you again. I

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Speaker 4: get I get it. You know, they just just have

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Speaker 4: fun on your apps.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you can meet somebody that you're not going to

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Speaker 5: be playing games with from the beginning.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Teddy, well, you have fun playing games with yourself.

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