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Speaker 1: Happy New Year's Bitches, do you want to say Happy

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Speaker 1: New Year's not like you did? Well? Fuck you say

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year's Day? Say how you want to say? Um? Oh,

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Speaker 1: since I just got back from Mexico, I said, Alice, bitch,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you wait, I feel Mexican. Honestly, I look,

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Speaker 1: you look Mexican. I could do this whole episode of

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Speaker 1: The Little Mexican as tang going on. Hey, guys, welcome

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Speaker 1: to twenty motherfucking nineteen. We are still here, standing strong.

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Speaker 1: We gave you all the best of eighteen, and y'all

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Speaker 1: the best and the worst. You know, y'all had to

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Speaker 1: relive the therapy moment. But welcome to yeah, another episode

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Speaker 1: of horrible decisions. This is your girl, Mandy b a

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Speaker 1: k A. All of it, including booty bandit you already

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Speaker 1: know um. And I'm sitting across from my co host. Hi,

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Speaker 1: my name is Wheezy. Um. I'm not a booty bandit

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Speaker 1: only when asked and pushed it into an asshole, do it. Um.

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Speaker 1: I am excited to be back like the Sniper. It

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Speaker 1: actually seems like we're dropping something on time. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is our first time back into the studio for

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Speaker 1: is this off balance, just like I feel crooked. Bro,

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Speaker 1: you know, all of this is just a mess everything.

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Speaker 1: I feel like every other podcast that comes in here,

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Speaker 1: just like no, they have different ship. Every every podcast

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Speaker 1: does different ship. Right, Yeah, that's what it is. So

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Speaker 1: would be sucking up our little flat changing the table.

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Speaker 1: Oh my man, talking we acause not how to start here.

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Speaker 1: Let's go ahead, and I guess I'm going to start Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I love talking about that. It's kind of my job. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So yesterday, like this is so embarrassing, but I have

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Speaker 1: to tell it. I thought I had gone your comedy

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Speaker 1: of it. I'm not evenna lie to you. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know how it happened, and I was having a panic

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Speaker 1: attack because when I went to the bathroom it didn't

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Speaker 1: hurt when I paid, but like, I just was feeling

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Speaker 1: a sensation that wasn't normal. So I went to the

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Speaker 1: place that we went to, which is a walking Dino.

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Speaker 1: And this is not an ad, by the way, but

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Speaker 1: I learned so much in there that I need to

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Speaker 1: tell you all about. And I had an amazing experience.

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Speaker 1: So I've been to this guy know several times. If

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Speaker 1: you ever listened to our first episode. Dr Sarah's her name,

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Speaker 1: got Mandy's condom out and she got mine out when

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Speaker 1: I the Hampton's guy. It is on two hundred West

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Speaker 1: fifty seventh Street. I just found out it's the first

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Speaker 1: walking gyno in the country. Um. But I've only seen

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Speaker 1: women in there, women doctors. Um, it's amazing. Um. I

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Speaker 1: think I saw a trans girl in there too, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, schure. Um. So yeah, I go

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Speaker 1: in there. I'm super embarrassed and I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: let me pee. So I opened my legs and I'm

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Speaker 1: telling her what's going on. She's like, well, it doesn't

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Speaker 1: really sound like an STD system because symsdom because I

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Speaker 1: have to pee but you can't pee, So like mine

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Speaker 1: was more like U t I ish, which thought that

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Speaker 1: feels like, is when you feel like you have to

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Speaker 1: t D symptoms. I don't know, but she just act

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Speaker 1: feel like it wasn't. But here's what happened that I

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Speaker 1: really appreciate it. I had doctor Melanie who was different,

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Speaker 1: culture and I was like, look, I've done pelvic floor

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Speaker 1: therapy before. I've talked about on the podcast where I

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Speaker 1: had a really hard time having sex. I've had vaginitis.

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Speaker 1: It's like pain during sex, and um. They basically stuck

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Speaker 1: done before. Normally I have to take xanics and stuff

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Speaker 1: this STD from? Which one of these things? I got

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Speaker 1: which has calmed down much more than when I first started.

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Speaker 1: it on me like he never had before. But bitch,

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Speaker 1: when the funk I dried the funk up there. He

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Speaker 1: maybe so, bitch he came. But I'm like, I'm holding

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Speaker 1: all I had with soup, so I gave him chicken

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Speaker 1: their soups. Oh well listen everybody, and got pink Himalayan

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Speaker 1: sea salt. That has to be grind. You literally talked

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Speaker 1: wasn't hot dog soup. It was Haitian spaghetti. Get your

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Speaker 1: new year, I don't. I don't want him, like that

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Speaker 1: I was like, you're not boyfriend material. What happened? So? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so Scissors is coming in town tomorrow. Okay, We're going

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Speaker 1: it like just fucking skyrocketed. And I'm so can I

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Speaker 1: ask you this? Because this was my problem with dating women?

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Speaker 1: What can I be with her? Who the fun pays? Bitch?

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Speaker 1: So did you pay your old flight and she paid her?

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Speaker 1: Are you flying hut out? Is she flying you out

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Speaker 1: when you get there? Are you? Because then the next case,

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Speaker 1: aren't you all just friend? So how does this work?

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Speaker 1: I bought the ticket? Oh I knew you did beat

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Speaker 1: you a try as whole. But now I feel like

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Speaker 1: we're splitting it like we've we've split and only because

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Speaker 1: we've vacation together since we've been sucking and ship like that,

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I'm sorry, I'm saying it wrong. Before

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Speaker 1: always split things. So I don't know this weekend, well,

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Speaker 1: I guess it would have already passed. And I'm on

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Speaker 1: my fucking Instagram. I'm in love with you, ship, but

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Speaker 1: she got a new job, So I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming we split. So you're the man on the relationship.

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Speaker 1: I assume no. I know you made money and ship,

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Speaker 1: but zeem, that's how I worked with you, don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you, I got these flights for four

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Speaker 1: definitely go to an elephant sanctuary. I made the mistake

422
00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,399
Speaker 1: of doing that but not really looking into it, and

423
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 1: like I saw them like hit one of the elephants

424
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,280
Speaker 1: and sucked me up too. I went to Croatia for

425
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 1: a rave Ultra Europe and that ship is like the Thailand,

426
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 1: the Bangkoko fucking Europe. Everything was cheap, but they have

427
00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,400
Speaker 1: like yahweek out there. It's all these fucking rich people

428
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:55,159
Speaker 1: spending no money and no black people. So that's for

429
00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,359
Speaker 1: the twenty six white listeners who said there's no black people.

430
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 1: Know there's black people in there was Afrikans in c

431
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,879
Speaker 1: yet there wasn't a lot of black people. I was

432
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 1: gonna say in suloom when I went to Mexico, by

433
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 1: the way, but there was a ton of black people

434
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:10,240
Speaker 1: on Camcoon apply. Um. The third I liked Budapest a

435
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:13,399
Speaker 1: lot that was one of the like kind of Thailandy

436
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 1: Europe places is mad cheep. Like we had an airbnb

437
00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,119
Speaker 1: that was like three bedrooms. It reminded me of a

438
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:19,880
Speaker 1: w hotel. And it was like a hundred a night.

439
00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 1: Oh that's not bad. Yeah, Okay, So we're gonna go ahead,

440
00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:25,199
Speaker 1: hopefully y'all can get to any of those places. We're

441
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 1: gonna go ahead and get into our vanilla ships. And

442
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 1: although it airs ship tonight, UM I kind of wanted

443
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:36,639
Speaker 1: to do a preface of our thoughts on surviving R Kelly.

444
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,480
Speaker 1: If you guys do not know, there is a docuseries

445
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:44,919
Speaker 1: coming out on Lifetime and it's about motherfucking surviving R Kelly.

446
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,399
Speaker 1: So he's been in the talks a lot in the

447
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 1: news lately regarding um Ship, specifically what hoarding women in

448
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,960
Speaker 1: his house. UM to say and so basically the new

449
00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,440
Speaker 1: documents series Surviving R. Kelly premier tonight. The series features

450
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: interviews with women like Kitty Jones and Kelly's ex wife

451
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 1: Andrea Kelly, who have spoken publicly about the singer's history

452
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: of alleged abuse his wife. His ex wife is on

453
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 1: there too, yes, and so she's on their crying. I

454
00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 1: did see a recent interview with her, I want to say,

455
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 1: it was on the reel and she was crying basically

456
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,560
Speaker 1: talking about how she has PTSD when she sees hummers

457
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: because he choked her so bad in the back of

458
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 1: a hummer she thought she was gonna lose her life.

459
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 1: So it's pretty I have a feeling like that about

460
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 1: a gas station I ran to with my ex c

461
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 1: and the ship is real, and so I wanted to

462
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 1: bring it up because I wanted to know what your

463
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 1: thoughts were, UM of the women coming forward in this sense,

464
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 1: just because we do talk about UM. We have had

465
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 1: sexual well, we have had sexual assault victims on here,

466
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 1: and so a lot of people on Twitter and a

467
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 1: lot of things that I've been seeing, They're like, why

468
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: are these women not running to the courts or present charges.

469
00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: Why do a document series on it, and so I

470
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 1: kind of want to know what your thoughts were as

471
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: far as maybe the therapeutic aspect or beneficial aspect of

472
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: doing it this way instead of going in present charges.

473
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: I get it right, because you have these rich people

474
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 1: that like you're going to sue them, and like, kind

475
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: of what do you get out of it? Sometimes that

476
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 1: may not feel like enough, So you feel like something

477
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 1: like that happening is humiliating. Like when I was abused,

478
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 1: I was humiliated, So what did I want to do?

479
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 1: Kind of the same. And whether that's I didn't look

480
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: at it that way necessarily good, maybe it's not. But

481
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: I can understand wanting to do that because you get

482
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 1: to hurt that person back. Not saying it's right, but

483
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: and so a lot of people price to pay for

484
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,240
Speaker 1: with these women, and so a lot of people are saying, um,

485
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 1: and this is I'm honestly going to stay off of

486
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: Twitter tonight because just so many of the opinions to

487
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 1: me were disgusting, and of course there was a lot

488
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,399
Speaker 1: of victim blaming going on. UM. But I feel that

489
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 1: it's quite funny that now out of nowhere people have

490
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: such trust in our just a system and they have

491
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: faith that what will happen. No, that's what they're saying.

492
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: They should go to jail, take it to take it

493
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: to court. He can go to jail. But if a

494
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: lot of people look at what r. Kelly has been

495
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: through in the past. He went to jail when there

496
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 1: was video fucking evidence of him pissing on a teenage girl.

497
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: He married a fifteen year old o Leah. He called

498
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 1: himself the pie Piper. He's come out of it. But

499
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying, So why can't they do? But well, no,

500
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: the thing is he's been to jail, not to jail,

501
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,240
Speaker 1: but he's been to court already on charges of fucking

502
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: an underage girl. So and with another thing, he was

503
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: talking about trust to justice system. Sometimes if all I

504
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: have is a story, there's nothing I can What am

505
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 1: I gonna do proof they're gonna want? You're right? Like,

506
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: what am I gonna say? This was your word against mine?

507
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 1: Was the battle to that? The same way Bill Cosby

508
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 1: came down because all of the women came forward. If

509
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: multiple women came forward for this document series, why didn't

510
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: they just come together for a court case, Because then

511
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: all of their stories against him, which kind of worked

512
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: against Bill Cosby. I don't know why, you know. I'm

513
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 1: not saying that it can't happen, but I could just

514
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,479
Speaker 1: see the opportunity presenting itself. You get to tell women

515
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: about this person that did something to you, and mainly, like,

516
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: here's the thing, a lot of people still support R Kelly.

517
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie his his album was playing earlier

518
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 1: on my phone. I said, I gotta delete that. Spotify

519
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: took him off, right, Bich, I have Apple iTunes, I think,

520
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: I mean too. I don't have use Spotify for that's it.

521
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 1: I only have Spotify. Shout out Rory Mall. But yeah,

522
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: so to me, it's gonna be interesting to see this.

523
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can sit through. Apparently it's

524
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 1: three nights, like two hours each, six hours of women crying,

525
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: sharing their experiences with this man. I'm not gonna watch it,

526
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 1: you said. I mean, I'm gonna watch at least one

527
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: of the episodes because I would like to see their

528
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: stories and and kind of get a grasp of it.

529
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: But what you said, it probably makes a lot of sense.

530
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: I'll a sense of humiliation makes sense. If I had

531
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: to pick one the person that hurt me, if I

532
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: had to pick him going to jail for a year,

533
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: or I had to pick him being humiliated or people

534
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: knowing it would be one year. Bitch, he would get

535
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: at least ten. I don't think he would get at

536
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: least ten for hitting me and doing the ship heated

537
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 1: to me. I don't think I was gonna say they

538
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 1: like rape and how much do they get rape? And

539
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: like physical abuse and domestic violence? How much do those

540
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: normally run for people that go to jail, Do they

541
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: go to jail? Yeah, Chad Johnson at jail plan, But

542
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying did did did Chris Brown go to jail

543
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 1: or just community service? Right? Yeah? We're The reason I

544
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: mentioned my story not in this terms of rape was

545
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: because you mentioned the X wife where he choked her

546
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: in the hump. If I had to pick one, yeah,

547
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,160
Speaker 1: I would rather him be embarrassed. That makes a lot. Okay,

548
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: So that makes sense. I have could at least say

549
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: I think I've forgiven him. I didn't for get, Like

550
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: I've forgiven to the point where I can like he's apologized,

551
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: I've been through therapy, he paid for some of it.

552
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: I was able to let go and like, yeah, I

553
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: don't get angry about it anymore. There are moments where

554
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, little things will happen, But if I had

555
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: to pick one, even in this moment, you would do uh.

556
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: You would tell the story and try to humiliate him

557
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:24,160
Speaker 1: over when you're done with someone like that. Like one

558
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 1: of my home girls broke up with a guy she's dating,

559
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: and she's like, all these girls are writing me now

560
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: and telling me how how terrible he was and how

561
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: they're so happy for me. Now. When it happened to me,

562
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: all these people you know, would write me and talk

563
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 1: about how he wasn't ship. Girls told me how they

564
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 1: were sucking him when he was with me. And I'm like,

565
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: why are you telling me now? Like why do y'all

566
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 1: come to women once they're done and then tell oh,

567
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: good for you because blah blah blah blah blah. If

568
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 1: you really have viable information about a nigga being trash,

569
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: do some new diligence and tell a bitch. I'm telling

570
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 1: you right the funk now. You know what's crazy? I

571
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: disagree because if I'm dating a trash as nigga, I

572
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 1: don't need all y'all holes telling me he try Let me.

573
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: Let me enjoy my trash until why why I tell

574
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 1: me after? Then just shut the funk up? Like if

575
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,640
Speaker 1: you're okay telling you after a stupid yeah, like that's

576
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 1: what That's what happened. Maybe right, Okay. I probably wouldn't

577
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: listen to someone that was like, you know, he'd be

578
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: hitting bitches. Probably wouldn't. But you wouldn't listen if someone

579
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: tried to warn you and say he'd be hitting bitches?

580
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: What you would you would if someone says you take

581
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: that as a warning, that's a good point. I just

582
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to imagine, in my highlight of in love

583
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: with him, if someone saying, you know, he hit bitches,

584
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna say what a nigger that another woman is

585
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: saying he hits women? Do you believe? Do I believe it?

586
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: That's the thing this is, But this is the problem

587
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: that I'm seeing on Twitter. Do you know how many

588
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: people are saying do I believe what these women are saying? No? No,

589
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: I was saying, like, like you think I'm saying in

590
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: my moment of love, they're not me today. In that

591
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: moment I was twenty years old, what I really believed

592
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: I want to talk about now? I don't How would

593
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: you respond now? You're dating a man. Now you get

594
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: and you get someone that hits like hits you up

595
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: with social media. I have a page whatever, and it's

596
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 1: like maybe not even a private page, an open page

597
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: to where she's letting you know, listen, I don't in

598
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: the past, I've been hit too much where I don't

599
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 1: know if I can say at all, Like I don't

600
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: even know if I would ask, which is awful, but

601
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: like I don't even think I could ask. I think

602
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: i'd be like you wouldn't ask him, like I don't

603
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: even know, Like I would obviously have him explain it.

604
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 1: But then I'm just almost getting angry at the idea

605
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: of someone being like oh nah. But like with her,

606
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: it was just like you know, I pushed, like yeah,

607
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: that would drive mean us to just knowing that someone

608
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: thought you were too aggressive is like fucking yeah, I

609
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 1: would have a problem, would no, no, no. So I

610
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: was talking about in that moment, I was young and

611
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: dumb and in love, and in that moment, could I

612
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: believed it if someone really wrote me, I don't know,

613
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was so brainwashed, you know what

614
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: I mean. And I think that that's funny that you

615
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: say this because This was my other point to even

616
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: the women that are now coming forward to talk about r. Kelly,

617
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: they were all so young when they met him, that

618
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: our minds, as far as emotionally, sexually, intimately, what we

619
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: feel as our connection with somebody at eighteen to twenty

620
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: is completely different than even us at six. It's completely different.

621
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: So a lot of people are like those women had

622
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: the decision to move in with him, and they chose

623
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: the way you think. I can't even it almost makes

624
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: me want to cry thinking about it. I won't, but

625
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: I've said the words. I've said the words like, oh,

626
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: he never punched me, so it's okay, Like he never

627
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: closed his fist. That's what I would That's what I

628
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: would say to a young therapist, Like we went a

629
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: couple of therapy and the therapist saw how I was

630
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 1: reacting to him and then saw me alone, was like,

631
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: does he hit you? And I'm like, waiting for a

632
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: second's answer, I'm like, yeah, he doesn't like like make

633
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: marks on me. He doesn't like punch me or make

634
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: me bleed, and he's looking at me like bitch. You know.

635
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what these women are doing now

636
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: though as adults now they're reflecting back on what the

637
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: fuss was happening to them and they know that this

638
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: is not right. It's not right. Bro therapy will make

639
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: you really be I was like, well, I'm excited if

640
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: you guys have on demand because by the time this

641
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: episode drop, all three series will be UM released. So

642
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: I'm excited to maybe get your thoughts in the comment

643
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: section on what you guys think of the docuseries. I

644
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: will be checking it out. Um So, we're gonna go

645
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: ahead and go into our kink of the week. As

646
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: y'all know, every week we have a kink where we

647
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: try to normalize ship and let y'all know that y'all

648
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: maybe normal if this is you. Um So, the kink

649
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: for this week is for nylons. The nylon fetish commonly

650
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: accompanies a foot fetish, and if y'all know, bitch, I'm

651
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: trying to make money off my feet for nineteen you'ven

652
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: seeing my little fee post bit you'll see my ship.

653
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: My little fee posts don't make money on the bitch

654
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: making niggas pay for my pedicure and ship get my

655
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: cash app going like here my toes, y'all like these

656
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 1: little white cocaine bitches and bitch, I'll put a crylic

657
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: on my big toe, bitch, that should make my pedicure

658
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 1: like six. Never put because see, your toes is long.

659
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: You got a little long, skinny toes, But my my

660
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: big toe is like rounded off, while all my other

661
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: toes are squared off, and I just hate how it looks.

662
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: I look like I gotta go with a whole bunch

663
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: of squares, so I want to square it off like

664
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: the rest of my squares. Bitch. Um so, but you

665
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: imagine it was sucking on them ships and he'd be

666
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: like this tastes like ha, shut the buck up. Anyways,

667
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: Guys as far as nylon one with a nylon fetish

668
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: may enjoy the look and feeling of toes, feet, and

669
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: legs wrapped tightly in nylon stockings. They may want to

670
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 1: smell the nylons or have them shoved in their mouth.

671
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: I've seen that important. The latter use is a terrific

672
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: way to shut someone up. If you're into b DSM,

673
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: have the dominant partner tie you up to the bed

674
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: and shove stuck stockings in your mouth, or use them

675
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 1: as a blindfold. For I know that's been taking forever

676
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 1: Nilons can also be used if you don't mind the

677
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: likelihood that you'll ruin them for where to tie one

678
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: another up as a form of bondage. While bondage is

679
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: a kink, using nylons for bondage is separate than having

680
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: a nylon fetish in which the nylons themselves produced the

681
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: sexual arousal. Rather than did I ever show you the

682
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: nylon over the face? You did with the guy just

683
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: had a crazy I'll show you this guy I knew

684
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: I had a crazy fetish for nylons, Like he was like,

685
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, where them? And I could take a

686
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: rip of off you? And I wonder if this is

687
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: similar to because I've had a lot of guys request

688
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: like full body like fishnet stockings. I don't think they're Yeah,

689
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 1: I saw this look, isn't that disgusting? This is a

690
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: picture of hope. That's another that's another on it right, Yeah,

691
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: this is no, no, no, it's a girl. So the

692
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: girl he was, he had put her put her stockings

693
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: over her face, and he came on it. Jesus. He

694
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: loved that ship. And I didn't know about his fetish

695
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: until we had sex, and then he was like, oh,

696
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: the next time. Well, that makes sense because when used

697
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 1: to show me like your little black and white artistic

698
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: news always had like fishnets are stockings are like? Which

699
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: that's hot? Like that makes sense. I know he liked

700
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: to come on it, and then once he started doing it,

701
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: I was like this, it is getting weird. Don't be saying,

702
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 1: don't be kinsh man, Look how's she gonna kick? Don't

703
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: eat king shame? Really, I don't like perry and blood.

704
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,959
Speaker 1: What's the problem say your face? Just because you are

705
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: here eating bloody period and y'a't eat it? You it

706
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: was there, you look around of it, and I don't.

707
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,959
Speaker 1: I'm as a person that's had a tampon where obviously

708
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: I can't. Oh my god. So I don't mind if

709
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: you wear one. I'm still gonna eat your blood. I

710
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: see it. If I don't shame, you're blody, your blood, poins,

711
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 1: quarters pacils, no kind of sen and if it's no

712
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: sense and I have no scent, I'm gonna eat that's disgusting.

713
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: Like the clip, I'm not saying, I'm gonna eat the whole.

714
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: I'm not looking pussy hole this bloody I'm looking click,

715
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:53,120
Speaker 1: it's just click. I'm disgusted. I'm sorry, I'm disgusted because

716
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: what happens is I am a tampon wear. So I

717
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: noticed because I try to play with my pussy, even

718
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 1: on like day two, even though I shouldn't. And when

719
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: I play with my pussy with a tampon in when

720
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: I really get wet from watching the porn, I still

721
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: secrete past the tampon and my pussy gets wet so

722
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 1: and then bitch, I'll be looking to still be under

723
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: my nails sometimes, so it'd be coming out of that

724
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 1: goddamn tampon. I don't care. Had no tampon, no bad

725
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: my cocaine white nails. Blood under white nails is not

726
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: cute because then I'm looking in this dirty and it's like,

727
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: what's that? What's that? Mandy? Is that? Uh? I painted

728
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: my room? That is disgusting. So we finally made We

729
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: finally made it to the horrible decision for the week.

730
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: I know, y'all like, God, damn this episode long as bitch. Nope,

731
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: y'all still hour. Nope, we're on time. Actually it's twenty nineteen,

732
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: and y'allhos are not getting longer episodes. Just so you know,

733
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: we're still sticking to the script here, bitch, I don't know. Wow,

734
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,839
Speaker 1: people do two or three hours? Me neither? Like, if

735
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 1: you cut me the Joe butt and Spotify check, obviously

736
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: I'll sit here. But like we need double we need

737
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 1: double Joe to sit and talk to you for two hours. Also,

738
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: it's three people maybe that makes in Parks it's four.

739
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,280
Speaker 1: Then you got to say von to do the research.

740
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: We didn't even gotta say von, bitch. We didn't hear

741
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: googling while we're talking. This ship is a lot of work,

742
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: which we can't do that ship. But Weezy Loki don't

743
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 1: like splitting percentages. We've been dealing with this ship right now,

744
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: so let me make your laugh. Listen. She don't want

745
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: to give nobody She got games she don't want. She

746
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: don't want a thirty seven thirty seven something. Melt When

747
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: I tell you fifty fifty, she like, bitch, worth, can

748
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: we go over a hundred percent? Because I don't want

749
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: to give anyone else sitting maybe? And I had a

750
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 1: conference call today with the deal we're working, and I like,

751
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: I feel like me and you personally have been doing

752
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: really good with like listening to each other and communicating.

753
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: But once I know they wanted someone to live to

754
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: our money. Bitch. I was like, oh no, oh no,

755
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 1: but this is this is all bro. We'll have someone

756
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 1: coming and say, yeah, so we're interested in taking fifteen percent,

757
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: which is lower than here go. Weasy not, bitch, We're

758
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: gonna get thirteen and a half. Tell them go back

759
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: thirteen and a half. What bitch is the jew and

760
00:35:56,400 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: to Okay, it's true all right too. I really believe

761
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 1: wholeheartedly that if someone comes to me, I don't have

762
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: to I didn't write you. You know what I'm saying.

763
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: If I didn't hit you up and ask you to

764
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: help me, and you know that two years down the

765
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 1: road you want to funk with horrible decisions. You want

766
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: to do this for us and ship like that. Take

767
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 1: the dip on the two percent because we've been doing

768
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: this whole ship without management, and I feel like we

769
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: deserve that larger cut. Plus we already got to split

770
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: the ship now, so I'm I'm big on piece of mind,

771
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 1: and bitch, if we ain't got to do all the

772
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: work that we've been doing, like for the last two years,

773
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: and we can bring in more money, like here go

774
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 1: your fifteen percent, niggas I'm cool on fifteen with new

775
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 1: work but old work, and I hear you, but you

776
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: know what, Yeah, let's let's go ahead. We don't get

777
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: into the horrible decision because now we're get in real business. E.

778
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 1: It's just a saleswoman. Can't as someone who's been selling

779
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: my whole career. You know, I never got a degree,

780
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: like I've literally paid my way and worked my way

781
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: up the ladder from selling. I can't be sold, bro,

782
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: you can't sell me and be like, oh yeah, but

783
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: we've got our pr didn't you anyway? Exactly? I know,

784
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,439
Speaker 1: let's get you one bedroom money. I was like, let's

785
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: get it too. I hate you. So we're gonna go ahead, guys,

786
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 1: and we are going to get again Happy New Year.

787
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: We're doing our New Year's sex resolution for this episode.

788
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: You couldn't. I am very first one. I think they're great,

789
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: so the first one yeah, but the second one really shocked.

790
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,279
Speaker 1: The second one is where I've been lately. So um,

791
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,439
Speaker 1: we're gonna start off. We're both gonna tell you guys

792
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: our sexual our our New Year's sex resolutions. Wheezy and

793
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: I both picked out two. And then, as you guys know,

794
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: if you interact with us on social media. We posted

795
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 1: to our Instagram page and my personal page, UM some

796
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: other sex resolutions, and we're gonna share some of yours

797
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: this episode as well. So I guess we'll go back

798
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: and forth. I do want to do okay, So my

799
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: first UM New Year's sex resolution is that I will

800
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: stay current in my sexual health visits and urge my

801
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: partners to do the same current UM current would be

802
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: every three months UM or if I have unprotected sex,

803
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: I will say maybe within four weeks of that, because

804
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: it still does take time for symptoms to occur or

805
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: for it to show. Like you're midtown working right and

806
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: so like um and that place fifty seven. Yeah, there's

807
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: well and there's a lot of options. And bitch, I

808
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: got good as benefits, bitch, so I just like, and

809
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,479
Speaker 1: let me tell you how good my benefits are real quick, bitch.

810
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: I went. I had so I have signed us issues

811
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: with my nose my ears. Y'all know I have ear issues.

812
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm tone deaf or whatever. But I had really bad

813
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: ship happening with my nose. So I went to the

814
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: e n T and they prescribed me all of these

815
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 1: sinus medications from my nose and bitch, I went in

816
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: with my motherfucking here my prescription card, bitch, pay less

817
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: than two dollars. Hope. I was like, that is almost

818
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: like only MEDICAI got chieap ship like that good insurance? Well,

819
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: now I know I got good insurance, hope. So I

820
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: don't lie to you. I think about that. Today we

821
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: were talking a I was like, do you know how

822
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: I have a fucking corporate card swipe? So don't you

823
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: have to pay? Then? I do. I'll be working on uh.

824
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: But um, so I really want to be more aware.

825
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 1: So because last year I was going to the doctor

826
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: so much because I was preparing for my surgery, they

827
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: were testing me so fucking much because I was going

828
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: to the doctor to make sure I was cool before surgery.

829
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: After about my five month mark and getting all of

830
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: my post surgery visits done, I will say I kind

831
00:39:36,239 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: of slipped with checking all myself. Um and even though

832
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: I do wear condoms, bitch, I I swallow, so I

833
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: probably should still be fucking getting checked up. I feel

834
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: like condoms are not all the way, um, you know guaranteed.

835
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: So I will say that that's mine. I added the

836
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 1: partners thing in there because I don't think that as

837
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 1: we have grown with this podcast and as we've been

838
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: advocates of sex, I will say it's been less of

839
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: a conversation. Oh they smoking so loud out there, Oh

840
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: you smell it. Yeah, it has been less in my

841
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: personal life where I've been advocating for men to get tested.

842
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's something I want to change.

843
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 1: Is to where I hopefully I got a boyfriend, but

844
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 1: if I continue with multiple partners, I do want to

845
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: urge them to get tested the same way I like.

846
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: Getting tested is so scary. Yesterday I was in the

847
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 1: waiting room just looking at niggas like I've been thinking

848
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: of who I gave hand jobs to, bitch, Like I

849
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: feel like maybe it could have seek through my pores,

850
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: like I've been thinking of everything I did. Basically, I

851
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: was dreading the most, calling and texting whoever it was like,

852
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: because I would have to tell the last few I

853
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: don't know. I got tested in October, so that that's

854
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: still yet. I still that three and two and again

855
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: it's the nerve working part to be like, yo, I

856
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: got tested, I got this, you might need to get

857
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: tested like that. Have very hard conversation and I really

858
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: appreciate one from the Stockings guy and I didn't have anything.

859
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: We hadn't had sex in five months. It was like, Hey,

860
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: I know this is we but I just want to

861
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: tell you in case you haven't been tested. Can I

862
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: say something in regards to that. Though this was during

863
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: the time, um, and this is no shade. I want

864
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: you to know, this isn't shade, goddamnit. But this was

865
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 1: also the time when you were dealing with white men,

866
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: and I feel like, unfortunately the stigma in the black community. Yeah, no, no,

867
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: of course, But I'm just saying black men when it

868
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: comes to results, and because a lot of black men

869
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: were taken to doctors as younger, because we don't grow

870
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: up with health benefits. We don't have that, so we

871
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: don't talk about about I don't even think more than

872
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 1: it's the doctor, like even in the house. I think

873
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: it's more about being communicative about sex. Yeah, like I agree,

874
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: like that text I got, like, I don't know if

875
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: I ever get I agreed, No, but yeah, they'll be

876
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 1: like you good, I'm good, And that's where it's ups

877
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 1: and that's not how it should be. So I want

878
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: to be more of an advocate for getting more black

879
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: men look not like I'm sucking all y'all, but to

880
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: get at least the ones that I'm dealing with to

881
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 1: take their health more seriously. I mean you, we got

882
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: to encourage our front was it's mental health. I'm not

883
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,439
Speaker 1: gone even and listen and I listen. I I love

884
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: my um reality shows, as y'all know, Real Housewives of

885
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: Atlanta is my ship. And Greg Nini's husband had colon cancer.

886
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: And so I literally just saw an episode, it was

887
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 1: last week's episode where he sat in front of his

888
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: son's and was like, listen, I'm telling you now, go

889
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: get tested. And so that's even a thing. I know

890
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: a lot of black men don't want anything, but colon

891
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: cancer is very prevalent in the black community. UM, who

892
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: was Jonathan Menna? Didn't he combat combat? Had it? Um?

893
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: And I know Menta was very vocal of going to

894
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: get tested right after. So outside of STDs guys, especially

895
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 1: all of the men that listened to this show, I

896
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: think that it's serious to take your health serious. I've

897
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: been talking about my health and my family, so you know,

898
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: I've been talking about my aunt with her cancer, very

899
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 1: in cancer, and then my mom was telling me, my

900
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: mom is a lot older. Right, my mom had me

901
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: at forty. She was like, yeah, like I couldn't have kids,

902
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,400
Speaker 1: like the way that my service was like like all

903
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: these issues and like I got fucking pussy issues in

904
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: my family, like you know, god forbid, I can't have kids.

905
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna sit here and be like, wow, I

906
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: used all of those content, right, Um, so what is

907
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: your New Years sex resolution? So? Oh yeah, since I'm

908
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: interested in a tryad, I'm going to focus on making

909
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: sure the sexual partners I have in my life are

910
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: compatible people and or be open to guest starring. Now,

911
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: so I like to explain a triad for our listeners. So,

912
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: a triad is a three way relationship. I don't consider

913
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 1: myself Polly because Polly is you know what. I hate

914
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 1: to say this, but Polly shipped to me, is very

915
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: hippie like, and as much as I'm all about that,

916
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: sometimes like I don't really like the way that it is.

917
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 1: Like I've been to Polly parties and I can't wait

918
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 1: to Kingdom come on because he's Polly, and I can't

919
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: wait for you guys to have that Conversayah. I mean

920
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:53,439
Speaker 1: I don't very well though, I don't do I don't

921
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,839
Speaker 1: want um. Polly to me is being more open about

922
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: the partner's felling love. Iisha, my friend that came on

923
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: for the episode with Astley the girl in the Wheelchair.

924
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: She talked about how being Polly is being able to

925
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: fall in love with another partner. Not my vibe that

926
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: I want to do. That's why I'm definitely not And

927
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like sharing that much love is like a

928
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: lot of work and to me, that's not that much love.

929
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: I'll tell you is only but still be we know,

930
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: don't do it as ill, so don't do it. Um.

931
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: I definitely want to start, you know, having a tryad again,

932
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 1: Like I really liked what I had with Collett and

933
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: Nick and um it was dope. Um So, so I

934
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: haven't really talked to Scissors about the tryad. I will

935
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: this weekend. I'm talking about three sums. I'm warming that

936
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: pussy up. Uh. The next thing I mentioned there was

937
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: the guest starring I. As y'all probably have heard, I'm

938
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: like really not open to like guests starting. I love

939
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,160
Speaker 1: having my own threesomes with someone that I've already know

940
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: and I'm very connected to because I really love a

941
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 1: strong emotional bond during sex. So I like to have

942
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: one of the people in that threesomb someone I know

943
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: because I enjoy watching someone I care about get off.

944
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: I'm starting to like really look at couples more than

945
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: I ever have, like in a very intense way. Like

946
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: and when I was in Saltom in Mexico, I was

947
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: looking at like every couple sitting down and like like

948
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: making jokes about like I'm going to reach out to

949
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: dub because I feel more into joining couples now, right,

950
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 1: you know what this is? What is it? We're busy,

951
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: it's fun, and so I just want to get off

952
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 1: and I still want my pussy and I want my dick,

953
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: and you're beautiful, let's do it. You know. They're like,

954
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: so couples are so excited, Like I can only speak

955
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 1: for myself. Going on a couple of days, you treat

956
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: someone to it right, like you're so excited to be

957
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: around them. You're already with two people that are like

958
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: really in love, are really happy to be with you,

959
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: that have a good sexual chemistry. So you're just like, oh,

960
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: done deal, Like these two I'm freaky. So they know

961
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 1: I'm going to amp it up like to Actually, there's

962
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: a couple now I can't say, because there's a whole

963
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 1: lot that I can't say. So let's get off. Let's

964
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,879
Speaker 1: get off the topic. I can't talk about me either,

965
00:45:56,080 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: No my topic. You're a couple's famous. No, oh, possibly

966
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: my couple not famous, but they're well known. If it

967
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: ain't Will and Jada, who I don't give a fault. Well, like,

968
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't say, don't say, but I

969
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: want to describe what they look like. I can't. You

970
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: can't do that either. We're going to get the codes

971
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: of horrible decisions right now. We got codes to live

972
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: by somebody. But you know, I'm looking at what you're saying,

973
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: and you said that you want to make sure that

974
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 1: they are compatible. How do you feel like? Get back

975
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: um scissors and blue check? For example, I could see

976
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: them being very compatible because they're both really lovely, kissy,

977
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: touchy beard Bay and her. I'm not sure they both

978
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: think each other is really good looking, and they both

979
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: said that to me. But I don't know. You've had

980
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: sex with both of them, you don't know if it

981
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: would be compatible right, not the way they both fuck.

982
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 1: So I'm just like, now, there are certain people I

983
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: have had sex with that make me think of like

984
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:05,479
Speaker 1: for her and blahlah blah. Actually, when I was sucking

985
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 1: beard Bay recently, I was thinking about her, and I

986
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: told him too during sex. I was like, I wish

987
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: I was eating pussy right now, That's what I said.

988
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: He was like, are you doing that? But that's a

989
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: that's get I said, I wish I was fussy on

990
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: my face and he was like, I guess that. I

991
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 1: guess that's a sexy way to say I did. I

992
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: just you know, I missed her. But also so yeah,

993
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that, like when I started

994
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: meeting men here in New York, that I know if

995
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: I'm working with them, because like I will really want

996
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: to share the two like that she would work with

997
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: them too. Um. Also, I really want her to move

998
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: to New York. So there's that, Oh Jesus, And I

999
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: feel like you're gonna pay the bills for that whole

1000
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. I told her about to pay

1001
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: the bills to have a bitch movement. I already told

1002
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: her how much she could spend and I'll stand the rest. See,

1003
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: she gonna spend seventy percent, bitch, I just need you

1004
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,839
Speaker 1: to pay the utilities. I didn't sell like bitch paying

1005
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: for grocery that you're telling invol a thousand bucks, I'm

1006
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: assuming they're probably gonna pay the rest. You a trick trick.

1007
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm not a trick trick. It's just like a big transition.

1008
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: You better say this, goddamn John, because you ain't gonna

1009
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 1: have me working harder with here paying for bitches bills.

1010
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,399
Speaker 1: So I just need to do to know that real quick. Um. Anyways, guys,

1011
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: so my second UM New Year's sex resolution is that

1012
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: I want to prioritize an emotional connection over a sexual connection. UM.

1013
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: And this is something that's that I've been working on

1014
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: with myself actually for the last couple of months. I

1015
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: am in a place now where I do want a relationship.

1016
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: I want a partner. UM. I would be open, of

1017
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: course still to the swinging and the sex clubs and

1018
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: things of that nature, but I'm really focused on a

1019
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: partner UM. And I even had this conversation with my

1020
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: mom because my mom thought I had commitment issues or

1021
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: whatever the funk. She really thought I had something going

1022
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: on and I needed therapy for Like She's like, I

1023
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: just don't understand. So this is this is the problem

1024
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: that I've had over the years, and I'm not even

1025
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,880
Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. Um, I'll be completely honest. A

1026
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 1: lot of the relationships that I had even while I

1027
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: was in school, when I moved from Atlanta to Miami

1028
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: to New York, a lot of the men in my

1029
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: life were already in relationships, but I had financial gain

1030
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: with them. They would help me with my bills, they

1031
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: would help me with classes if I needed, and I

1032
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: was very dependent on men for financial reasons to where

1033
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: I didn't want to get into a relationship with a

1034
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: man knowing that I was still receiving help from other men.

1035
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: I never wanted to go into a relationship cheating, and

1036
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: I never wanted to give myself to someone who couldn't

1037
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: make up for what other men were doing in my life.

1038
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: I'm now to the point I ain't even gonna hold you.

1039
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: Bit so little ball player was in town. Bitch offered

1040
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: me five hundred dollars for the head and which I

1041
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: didn't even moved, because you know what, the first thought

1042
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: in my head was, I was like, wait, bitch, I

1043
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 1: make more than that for a sixty second at home, Like,

1044
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: oh I got seconds, bitch, I'm making more than five

1045
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. So no, I don't want to suck your

1046
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 1: dick for no five hundred dollars. So in my mind,

1047
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm making money now. Money isn't my driver

1048
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: to be intimate with a man or even deal with

1049
00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: they asses. I want a genuine emotional connection to a man,

1050
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: and finances are now not an issue. I don't need

1051
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: to depend on a man for anything in my life.

1052
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: So oh, I'm loving it. Like I no longer have

1053
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: a roommate, and so I'm really about to just take

1054
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 1: on the bills of a two bedroom and I'm considering

1055
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: maybe doing airbnb from time to time. But I even

1056
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: want to change the second room into an office, like

1057
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: I want to do a guest bedroom in the office.

1058
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 1: I'm making enough now, yeah, bitch, and I ain't moving

1059
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: bit I'm saying, what the funk man he's been? It's comfortable. Like,

1060
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 1: so I'm to the point now where you can also

1061
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: do something that's really economical. It's like renting your room

1062
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: from for like subletting, yeah, maybe two months at a

1063
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: time and then taking a break and living on my own.

1064
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: I was thinking that doing it like the touring months. Yeah, um,

1065
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: but as far as me doing a self reflection on myself.

1066
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: I talk about vetting a lot on this show, and

1067
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I seek such a sexual connection with

1068
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: men that that's a lot of my conversation and beginning

1069
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: to make sure they're open to the things that I

1070
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: want to do, as far as finger and a booty

1071
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: hole and let me be the booty band and that

1072
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: I praised to be. But I now know that I

1073
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: want to genuinely like to be around a person. There's

1074
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: so many niggas I fuck and we funck great, and

1075
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: I love you while I'm sucking you, and then I'm

1076
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 1: ready for you to go. I don't want to be

1077
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: around you. I don't want you to be my boyfriend.

1078
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: Even what I just said with Fella Bay, I was

1079
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: frustrated that it's just like why do I why? I

1080
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: want to like your ass and I want you to

1081
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: be my nigga, Like I don't want to just keep

1082
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: having these great sexual chemistry with multiple band here. I

1083
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: don't want that. Here's the other thing too, that I

1084
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 1: think maybe some of you are listening or whatever, Maybe

1085
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: you mean you rite when you start emotional connections first, bro,

1086
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: it's crazy, like the sexes is better The only reason

1087
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: I can attest to this is because I've had sex

1088
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: with people that I used to funk that I don't

1089
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 1: care about anywhere. I'm like, damn, this ain't good way

1090
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: just because like I cared so much, like that ship

1091
00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 1: is really really good, and that's why I don't like

1092
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: Fellon based. So I was shot when that nigger came back.

1093
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: I really didn't like that nigg even more than in

1094
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: and I told him as he can't made me come ever,

1095
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: I had to tell him. I said, yeah, but that

1096
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: was good. But I think he was trying to prove

1097
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: he ain't got a shrimp dick. I would suggest like

1098
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: more than you know. I know, like people think by

1099
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:35,320
Speaker 1: the way that noise right there during during Ashley's episode,

1100
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 1: they were like, somebody's phone keep going off. This is

1101
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 1: someone who is never going to make it, and they're

1102
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: playing is about to be not you know, I'm going

1103
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: to let them know that we're recording it and I

1104
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 1: don't do that. I absolutely I am going to have

1105
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: my let me speak to the manager voice. But anyway,

1106
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: so what is down? What is your last um New

1107
00:52:55,640 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: Year's sex resolution? So uh wow, they turn it down?

1108
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: That kick work. I want to work on having a

1109
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: tantric sex experience. I've been trying to find someone that

1110
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 1: does tantric sex. So COLLECT told me about this experience

1111
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: she had with a couple where they I just said,

1112
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,279
Speaker 1: I don't like hippie ship, but they basically went in

1113
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:18,799
Speaker 1: this circle. They like one person looked at each other

1114
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: with like each eye and ship and they like focused

1115
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: on their breath and it was like super intense. And

1116
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 1: she said that the girl came without being touched on

1117
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: her pussy and like people that have tantric sex can

1118
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: have orgasms like that. So I really want to do that. Um,

1119
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: I've heard about people giving tantric massages at sex clubs

1120
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and you know, Jeeves gave me

1121
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: that laby a massage, which fucking came like crazy, even

1122
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 1: though that's touching my vagina. But yeah, I really want

1123
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: to have an experience like that. UM, I'm thinking that

1124
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 1: I'm going to actually, uh, you can't really want to

1125
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 1: say it. You're gonna pay for it. As you've been

1126
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: wanting to pay for a sex, You're about to pay

1127
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: for a girlfriend. Go ahead and pay for sex. I'm

1128
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: not paying for a girlfriend. But I did find this

1129
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:05,359
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with you, so you may as well

1130
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: just wait till King Noir's in town. She didn't tell

1131
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: her yet, but he gives it Tan Trick massages. Oh

1132
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: and we might get a differ. We work with him,

1133
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 1: we might get a discount. I can't do that with

1134
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: someone like you, don't, bro. I love a girl on

1135
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 1: the show like y'all wasn't sucking y'all was no I know,

1136
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: but like by the series, I'm not opposed to like

1137
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: fucking a guest. Don't care. You can let everybody know

1138
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 1: how to dick is because it looks beautiful on video. Bitch,

1139
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: you know what that is? His dick looks amazingly good.

1140
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: Option don't he live in Florida. He'll be up here

1141
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,879
Speaker 1: next week. We haven't Maybe me and scissors, Oh maybe

1142
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: you could both of you that I didn't ask for

1143
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: asked for a Tan Trick experience, Bitch, I wouldn't pay

1144
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: for sex. I would pay for an experience. Trying to

1145
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: get me called up home? I know, well, I want

1146
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: to share um some two thousand nineteen sex resolutions from

1147
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: Eavy on Whitney. She actually inspired this episode and I

1148
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:59,360
Speaker 1: really love her. Three we could get her on right.

1149
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: She's a girl of a black girl. The dates the

1150
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: white guy married is she um, I don't know. I

1151
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: found in California, was on Twitter. But her three was

1152
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 1: I will give myself permission to want the sex that

1153
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: I want. I love that because I feel like we

1154
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,799
Speaker 1: don't allow ourselves to be these things that she doesn't

1155
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 1: live in New York. Yeah, I like Um. The other

1156
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: one is I will not say yes to sex. I

1157
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: don't want to have, bitch, which is why I ain't

1158
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 1: suck that dick for five hunt. All that resonated with me, bitch.

1159
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: And then the other which I didn't want to suck

1160
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: his dick. I said, I just had a lot of sex.

1161
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,479
Speaker 1: Actually I'm good. Um. The other the last one says,

1162
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: I will prioritize plus advocate for my pleasure. And I

1163
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: love that because I just have a lot of stuf

1164
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: and please other people. I went to that power and

1165
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: Pleasure and porn thing with Liz Goldwyn and um Erica Lust,

1166
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 1: who if y'all have heard me talk about her, does

1167
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: feminist porn. Erica Lust mentioned during the porn seminar that

1168
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 1: she focuses on the woman's face during orgasm and also

1169
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: puts the camera on men's faces so you can see

1170
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: them because we don't get to see men and porn

1171
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,879
Speaker 1: and ship like that. But basically saying, like most porn

1172
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: that we watch is not center around the female workasm

1173
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,919
Speaker 1: at all. A matter of fact, nothing really happens shot

1174
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,359
Speaker 1: when a woman doesn't come, it's just like, okay, it's

1175
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: kind of on you. But when men don't come, it's

1176
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: a failure. So that's a great resolution to have. I think.

1177
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: My friend Rashida said the same ship I do like

1178
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 1: that on our Instagram post. I do like that, So um,

1179
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: Rachel Stewart arts shout out to you. She said that

1180
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 1: her sex resolution is to actually have some without attachment,

1181
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: learning how to be casual. So that's actually opposite from

1182
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: what I said. Someone else said the moment I stopped

1183
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: centering male orgasms in my sex life, it got better.

1184
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: So feel free to steal that one, y'all. Um. That

1185
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 1: was from oh MC sheet that's your friend, right, Yeah.

1186
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: Another one is from just the fucking Best. She said,

1187
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: I will have sex not to be in a romantic relationship,

1188
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: but because I deserve my body to be touched on.

1189
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: Human contact is so important. That's why I cannot have sex.

1190
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: It's like just too casual because like I came more

1191
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: intimacy by the way. I had a sexual experience with

1192
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: Jeeves recently. Yes, I said that name fell baby, and

1193
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 1: you know we no no, no, no, no, he just

1194
00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 1: came back in town, so I wanted to say, I

1195
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,160
Speaker 1: did not focus on his orgasm at all, and like

1196
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 1: he came hard as book. So we're having sex or wait,

1197
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:22,959
Speaker 1: we were having sex the second time. We already fucked.

1198
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: We were in bed and I was kind of tired

1199
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: and he now we use condoms, right because we're not

1200
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: each other's partners anymore primary or anything. So like I

1201
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: was tired of being sucked with a condom. I really

1202
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: didn't like that feeling. And he fox his dick is huge.

1203
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: So I literally, after sucking his dick, just stopped, got

1204
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: on his face like backwards almost like sixty nine and

1205
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: like damn near suffocated that nia and wrote his face

1206
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: to like him. And he kept telling me like use

1207
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: his tongue. He just like opened his song like and

1208
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: just told me to get off on it until I

1209
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: came and he became just by me doing issue. It

1210
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: was crazy. I think that that men get so turned

1211
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: on when the women one. And I think the bigger

1212
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 1: part about that is, though, is women knowing how to

1213
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: please themselves. That a big like women that don't really

1214
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: know how to get off didn't expect a man to

1215
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: do it. It's so ridiculous. I have some a friend

1216
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: in my life who is having trouble reaching orgasm and

1217
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: like she doesn't know how to get off on her own,

1218
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, bro, you got you got. You

1219
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 1: gotta know how to please yourself. And I've said that too,

1220
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: with masturbating and touching yourself and really knowing when what

1221
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: turns you on, because you have to be able to

1222
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: communicate that your partner, bury your dad, earning your body

1223
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 1: for women that have always been like that, that's it

1224
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,440
Speaker 1: I want to shout out to with you bringing up

1225
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 1: head Um. The Black Martha Underscore says she wants to

1226
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: stop working with men that won't eat pussy. I know

1227
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: that's right, sist, even though y'all know I don't care

1228
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: about that. Ship um you know, and probably one of

1229
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 1: the best ones. I love this from Jamaican Meet Crazy.

1230
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: In other words, we are not fake moaning or faking orgasms. Ladies,

1231
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: let that motherfucker know you didn't come, don't be skirt

1232
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: And I think that that's very that should be the mode.

1233
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: There is, by the way, way to say that you

1234
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: didn't get off. Oh, I tell him, I ain't come

1235
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: like just like I have you touched the dudes on

1236
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: a little nice like so I know you're you're in

1237
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: your refractory period. Not refractory. Oh, but this is true

1238
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: factory period women once they come, it can heighten us

1239
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 1: to have even stronger orgasm with the second time. Men

1240
00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: when they come have a refractory period if they need

1241
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: time before I can go back up and up again.

1242
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, and I am open and willing of a

1243
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: participant to get a world sex from you. I'm just

1244
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: setting it out, speaking of um, the refractory period. I

1245
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: just sucked an old guy from the past. Um, that's

1246
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: not old guys, No, he's um. He's not very much

1247
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: older than me. But I sucked him and made him

1248
00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: get up three times, acted back to back to back.

1249
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: And I just wanted to say this, um because his

1250
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: stepdad listen to the show and so does his mama.

1251
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,920
Speaker 1: And he ain't told y'all we'll be fucking. He just

1252
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: said we're friends because he don't know that. Y'all know

1253
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: he a freak, but he is. He lived in d C.

1254
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna say. But step Daddy and Mama,

1255
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: y'all listen to the show. Hey, So does he know

1256
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about him? Um? I want to make sure

1257
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: in his past he did. Now he's an accountant, tip tip, pintint. Anyways, guys, um,

1258
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna hop into the wholemail. Bitch, I felt the

1259
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: type what my mama doesn't. Your mama needs to know

1260
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: you a freak nigga? Yes? Anyways, Oh my god, they

1261
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: listened to the show. Bitch about to come to the

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01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: show in d C too, So we're gonna get into

1263
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:48,480
Speaker 1: the homemail revery quick before we get out. So, hey, ladies, questions.

1264
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: So I've recently started talking back to my ex. We

1265
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: haven't had sex yet, it's been two years since the

1266
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: last breakup, but we've been talking about it. Well. In

1267
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,640
Speaker 1: the last two years, I've been introduced to some wild,

1268
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: nasty sex and I can't turn back now. How can

1269
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: I comfortably introduce these new things into the bedroom? To him?

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01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: The sex has always been great between us. He has

1271
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: the skills, lenked and girth, but I'm ready to take

1272
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: to take turn damn all was doing good. I sounded great.

1273
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: I'm ready to turn it up and not you added

1274
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 1: an extra word in there. Sis love you, ladies, and

1275
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm excited about receiving your feedback. Sincerely, a nasty bit

1276
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: x O x o x O. So I like this

1277
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 1: question because I feel like when you stop working with

1278
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: a guy for a while, you get other sex partners

1279
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: and they turn your little ass out and then you

1280
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: gotta go back to the vanilla. So what, bitch gonna

1281
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 1: be honest? I like, so now for a second, and

1282
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 1: I literally was like, please let Mandy recap. Nope, not

1283
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 1: gonna recap it. Hop, Okay, so other sexual partners then

1284
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: you go back. Fuck you. This is gonna be all

1285
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: my advice. Now get your old phone, bitch, because let

1286
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 1: me start. So I've passed mad question like that, I

1287
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 1: got this, give it, get you get your own phone.

1288
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 1: It's in the email. I will not recap because I

1289
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: did a great job that it wasn't even bad like

1290
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: you're reading like where he was super fast and nobody

1291
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,919
Speaker 1: can know what you're saying. I did a great because

1292
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: I skin reading with my mouth, bitch, I'm reading mothers

1293
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: and jail. Okay, what are we gonna do? Window? Um,

1294
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: So basically for that if you guys had good sex already,

1295
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: this is something that actually just recently happened to me.

1296
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: There was a guy that I was talking Yeah, yeah,

1297
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 1: it's easy, but you would have known if you listen.

1298
01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 1: But there was a guy that I was talking about

1299
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 1: eight years ago. This was when I was like nineteen

1300
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 1: and twenty. We recently rekindled and we talked about how

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01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: great our sex was eight years ago, and I let

1302
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 1: him know, listen, the freak that you remember me for,

1303
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: that's why you back in my phone. I'm a little

1304
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 1: bit more of a freak now. And kind of I

1305
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: just opened up to him, like, so I've tried new

1306
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:03,560
Speaker 1: things since we last years ago, and how like, what

1307
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: has changed with you during this time? Seeing what experiences

1308
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: he's had, telling him the experiences I've had, and then

1309
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: after sharing those things and opening up about our sexual

1310
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: history for the last you know, eight years or two

1311
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 1: years in your case, then it was just like, would

1312
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: you be open to these things? Are these things that

1313
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,439
Speaker 1: you would try? So again, it's just a dialogue. It's

1314
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 1: asking him where his penis has been for the last

1315
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: two years and if he's tried anything different, and you

1316
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 1: just opening up about yours so ahead now that you

1317
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: skimmed down. I had to do that with scissors actually recently.

1318
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:36,400
Speaker 1: So we hadn't sucked in maybe five years. And when

1319
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 1: we had sex, it was amazing, right, and I'm like,

1320
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 1: holy sh it, like what the funk? Like it was

1321
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: good when like this. So the next day we're as

1322
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:46,640
Speaker 1: some juice bar and like we're laughing about it, and

1323
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: like then it comes time to discuss, like, bitch, like

1324
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: that was fucking dope, like what you've been doing really,

1325
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: you know? And then that's when I learned, like she's

1326
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: been coming close to threesomes, but it hasn't happened, and

1327
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: we're being more open about, you know, the sex we've

1328
01:03:59,880 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: had with other women. I was open about, um, how

1329
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of women like penetration and

1330
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: I can't offer that. I don't know how to do it.

1331
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: I feel like this is too much like spreading the

1332
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: fingers and all that. Like I really don't like fisting

1333
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: and fingering, so that hasn't worked for me. And we're

1334
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: like going back and forth with it, and I treated

1335
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: it like a new girl. Yeah, I think that that's

1336
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: how she should treat this X. You should treat him

1337
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: honestly like a new partner. If you've gone through all

1338
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: of these new freaky experiences over the last two years,

1339
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:32,320
Speaker 1: you're not the same person. He may not be unless

1340
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: he was giving that boring dick the whole time. I mean,

1341
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. Something is don't grow as fast as

1342
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: maybe women were. I feel like we're more open to

1343
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 1: trying things, especially when we meet a man who's open

1344
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 1: to trying things. I even open to trying things more

1345
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:47,360
Speaker 1: than it is normally. Men are the ones to teach.

1346
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 1: It seems like during sex, I hear that sound bad.

1347
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: That didn't fund bad. I do like younger guys because

1348
01:04:56,720 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 1: they're open to it. Exploring. Had a Mandy moment. I

1349
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: was in the airport and this te Mandy moment. What

1350
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: then is this? So? What? Out? There was all these

1351
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: like tall as sniggers around like damn, what's going on? Yes?

1352
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: It was Cornell okay, and so none of them going

1353
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 1: to the league. Wow, they're alive and more white. Actually

1354
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 1: I believe it. I was looking around and I was like, who,

1355
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: So I'm at the Chick fil A line, I'm at

1356
01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: the airport on a layover at Philly and I was

1357
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: looking at it one of them. I was like, how

1358
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:33,120
Speaker 1: do you? And he was like how do you? I

1359
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: was like, nick, I asked you first. He's like, I'm

1360
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: gonna be twenty in a month. I was like, oh,

1361
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: I mean you have to skip ahead to that's when

1362
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: you know they're young. They can't just tell you the age.

1363
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 1: I'm about to be twenty one, I'm about to be

1364
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: like about to be bitch. That was me, I'm about

1365
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 1: to be five years no. Uh So to shorten it up, yeah,

1366
01:05:56,920 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: I would definitely treat him as though he's a new partner.

1367
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: When you have a new partner, how do you talk

1368
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: about sex and things like that if you don't be

1369
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: open to communicating. But make it a whole new thing,

1370
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: like where we left off. Jeeves like it's been months,

1371
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 1: but I was like, Yo, tell me where you've been.

1372
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 1: We've been fucking what's it been like? Tell me your

1373
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: new ship. I want to give you'all homework for those

1374
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: of you listening, Um, let's make twenty nineteen the year

1375
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: of communicating homework one. What's the homework one? You ain't

1376
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,000
Speaker 1: no matter if my homework you said, let's got them

1377
01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,440
Speaker 1: cut my homework assignment off. I got a homework and

1378
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: sigmon too. Remember homework assignment. It's on part, it's on

1379
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 1: brands with yours so specifically obviously more communicate. But if

1380
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: you've been with someone for five years or five weeks,

1381
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 1: I would ask them a fantasy that they've never told

1382
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 1: anyone and message it to us, tweeted to us, write

1383
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: it on an Instagram comment. Let's like share what's the

1384
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: dirty ship that people think about? That's cute because I

1385
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 1: had a dream about getting pistol on the other night.

1386
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: Oh a lot of did dad. I could share with

1387
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,640
Speaker 1: you my stories. I had a dream about, Oh you

1388
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: want to golden shower? I don't want it, but I

1389
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 1: wonder why I dreamt it. Maybe something was leaking from

1390
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:13,560
Speaker 1: your silver. It was in Mexico and I we get

1391
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: out of here. We do want to let y'all know, bitch,

1392
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 1: we're going on tour. Y'all know we're going on tour.

1393
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:18,920
Speaker 1: We want to see all of you guys in person,

1394
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: in human form, come be horns with us. Um we

1395
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 1: are kicking off d C. We got two shows, y'all,

1396
01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 1: four to six and eight to ten back to back.

1397
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:30,800
Speaker 1: They sold out. I think for one of the shows

1398
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:33,400
Speaker 1: we got like maybe less than tendive. You patron, you

1399
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: have access to tickets. But even though other than that,

1400
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,760
Speaker 1: there it's pretty sold out. It's pretty quiet for d C. Y'all,

1401
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 1: y'all came out strong. I'm excited to see y'all. Um,

1402
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 1: we are going to go ahead and be back in

1403
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: motherfucker a t L in um February, So February catch

1404
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 1: us in a t L. We are possibly changing the

1405
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,000
Speaker 1: Miami dates, guys, so we hope none of y'all a

1406
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: bought tickets or flights yet for Miami on the six

1407
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 1: were possibly changing that date. Um. We also do have

1408
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,040
Speaker 1: information coming up for a New York show. Fine to

1409
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 1: lead boom boom bam. We're really sorry. It's just that

1410
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 1: we we want to do one big show for New York.

1411
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: So it means finding a large enough that. By the way,

1412
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: if y'all know a place, we don't like standing room.

1413
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: We feel like it really ruins an experience. We wear heels.

1414
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 1: We want you all to be cute at our standing

1415
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: ruins the experience, it does. Yeah, I just we're trying

1416
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 1: to find a place as accommodating enough for y'all to

1417
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: where we don't have to do like multiple showtimes to

1418
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 1: where we sold out fucking in two weeks the last one.

1419
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 1: So we definitely just wanna get a larger venue. So

1420
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: we're we are doing New York. Um, we'll see you

1421
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:37,160
Speaker 1: guys in Chicago. UM, that is March thirty. Guys, there

1422
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 1: is what maybe twenty tickets left for the second show

1423
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: and that and then that both of those are sold out. Patreon,

1424
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: We Patreon, we did save some four so if you

1425
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: guys want to come to a sold out city and

1426
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 1: you're not a Patreon yet, if you just go ahead

1427
01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: and become a subscriber, we these handling that you guys

1428
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: will also get v I P seating. UM, we'll save

1429
01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:57,640
Speaker 1: those extra tickets to add that to the v I

1430
01:08:57,720 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: P count UM, just so that they could sit up close.

1431
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 1: Because we appreciate you guys. Without you guys, we couldn't

1432
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: be doing this tour. I'm not even gonna hold y'all.

1433
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 1: The Patreon money that we receive is funding this tour

1434
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you guys so much. UM. And then

1435
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 1: l A the l A stop is also coming up

1436
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: also y'all. Motherfucker's in Canada. Toronto. We like a third

1437
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: slowed out, but it ain't going as fast. So if

1438
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: y'all really wants to come, because bitch'all cancel that home.

1439
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:22,639
Speaker 1: We got like two weeks to call about that. Dude.

1440
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, if Canada don't show the funk up,

1441
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 1: we're probably not gonna come to Toronto. Come up, y'all

1442
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: gotta hurt you up. It's just not enough. So if

1443
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 1: um we can go ahead and get Toronto, tell you

1444
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: right now, we can take that day making New York beach. Um.

1445
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: So March nine, we are in Toronto, were in the

1446
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: sixth Bitch, We're gonna have Drake com Drake Go Come, y'all, bitch,

1447
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: Drake Go Come. Speaking of l A. Mandy, I think

1448
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: said it's gonna be around May, so'll be then. Uh

1449
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:56,200
Speaker 1: oh February March, I'm gonna be doing the Team podcast.

1450
01:09:56,280 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: They're really sweet girls. They hit me up. They're gonna

1451
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: have their first live show, um, like an anniversary like

1452
01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 1: to start their podcast. So if you guys live in

1453
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:06,560
Speaker 1: New Haven, Connecticut, which I don't know, I've had some

1454
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 1: nigga that's the only thirty minute drive from the Bronx

1455
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 1: and alf so I think, oh, I'd be fucking Bridgeport niggas. Huh,

1456
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 1: what's the one that's like thirty minutes from the Bronx

1457
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 1: New Haven? Did you all the way down Louis Side?

1458
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 1: That's probably why take you about forty five minutes draw

1459
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 1: to my house. So yeah, that makes say, that makes sense.

1460
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be out there and I think I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna spend the night because no Um. Speaking of Patreon

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Speaker 1: and like those people who have helped us, you guys

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Speaker 1: are about to hear a clip from our last Patreon

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Speaker 1: episode that we did. I believe this episode one where

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Speaker 1: Sharon Is actually stayed after the show. We had Patreon

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01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:44,599
Speaker 1: listeners sending us questions, send questions into us, and then

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Speaker 1: he pretty much interviewed us and to you guys, really

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Speaker 1: liked his voice, he really got He interviewed us really well.

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Speaker 1: And for you guys who are all caught up with

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Speaker 1: us and maybe want to become more intimate, not not

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Speaker 1: intimate like six but wheezy um post a lot of

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Speaker 1: all her personal feelings and lie um in life. We

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Speaker 1: are considering vlogging more on there. And then there are

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Speaker 1: what episodes of bonus and content and episodes tears that

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Speaker 1: we have for five bucks, you get our bonus content, right,

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01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: So two episodes a month. Very soon we only need

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Speaker 1: another seventy people. We're gonna be dropping three episodes a month,

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Speaker 1: so after every episode on a Monday, we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: starting that in February. You will then have a Patreon

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Speaker 1: episode too. Then listen to We've got to be recording

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01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 1: seven episodes a month. About to see each other too much?

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Speaker 1: Jesus bucks. All right, we have merch that we sent

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Speaker 1: you after four months. And also I am now doing

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01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 1: live calls with some of you too. Walk me through

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Speaker 1: episodes where we fucked up, where we need improvement, where

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01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 1: you want to see us do different things, and pretty

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01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: much tell me what you want from horrible decisions. And

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Speaker 1: I've made some outlines that I'm going to be reviewing

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Speaker 1: with y'all and y'all tell me if you like them

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Speaker 1: or not. So so look, y'all could be producers at

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01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: the show. Hope pretty good. But yeah, we want to

1492
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 1: thank all of you guys. Were excited to see you

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01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: guys on tour, and we hope that you guys become

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01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: patrons and continue supporting horrible decisions for twenty nineteen. As

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Speaker 1: you guys know, this has been yet another episode of

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01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:22,360
Speaker 1: horrible decisions by Love for More. I mean we can

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Speaker 1: take it upon ourselves before women to kind of before this,

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Speaker 1: before we finalize this. You coming over. Are you spending

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Speaker 1: the night? Oh? I asked, Actually, kidnapp, I say you're

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Speaker 1: staying with me, and people don't ask. I mean, do

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01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 1: you know That's why a lot of women get upset

1502
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 1: when they go over to nigga and he'd be like, so,

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01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 1: what's you got going on? So what you're doing there?

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01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: Either way, if a nigga comes over to like, I'm

1505
01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I don't want to be fucked, and

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01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 1: then nigga right after you me you putting your tins

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Speaker 1: back on the head out. No, I always make it

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01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 1: very clear because I get up at like six, like

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01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 1: gim and oh yeah, I do let to know. You

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01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:59,320
Speaker 1: gotta leave when I leave. I don't mind somebody you're bullshit,

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01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 1: I'm not leaving then I'm not really hosting you in

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Speaker 1: my home. But thing now, this is what saying, This

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Speaker 1: is what saved me a lot. Like now, like as

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Speaker 1: I've got noted, like I asked myself outlook and like

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01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: assess the situation, and I'm like, do I want to

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01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:18,280
Speaker 1: spend time with this girl after I suck her? And

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01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 1: that's what makes me say I will fu this girl

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01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 1: now if I don't want to spend time when I

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01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,040
Speaker 1: after I her and I'm not going to have sex

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Speaker 1: with her because the whole process afterwards, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I don't when I come. But but for me, it's

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Speaker 1: like I don't like the feeling, like as soon as

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Speaker 1: I know, I don't like the feeling of being like

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Speaker 1: will I do this or like yeah, That's that's why

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Speaker 1: I won't even think that good. Even if it's like

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Speaker 1: I've had a really good sex and felt guilty after

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Speaker 1: and been like, oh I am yeah, you never have

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Speaker 1: That's one I feel bad. Like there's niggas that I

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01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,759
Speaker 1: sucked in. It was great, but then he starts talking

1530
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:59,639
Speaker 1: and I'm like, damn, nigger, you just like I feel

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01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 1: like like you that intellectuality man like niggas like stupid ship.

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Speaker 1: But I've said this on the show. I'm very shallow.

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01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: I like good looking niggas, and so unfortunately there are

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Speaker 1: like good looking guys that I've been with and it's

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Speaker 1: just like once they start talking, it's like just don't talk.

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01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:16,840
Speaker 1: But that's it could be growing. So for me, that's

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Speaker 1: a conversation. Yeah, the hot guys be dumb as fun.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you're smart, but them niggas be

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Speaker 1: dumb as fucked tall as fine as just why why

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Speaker 1: are you so fine? I'm not. But I also feel

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Speaker 1: like I look good. So it's a subjective thing. But

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Speaker 1: you're an actor, this could be an act good point people.

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Speaker 1: I love this. I flip it on them. So like

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Speaker 1: people's jobs, like you know, like politicians, lawyers, whatever, whatever

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Speaker 1: y'all do. Y'all lie to hide the truth. Actors lie

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Speaker 1: to tell the truth. That's cute, whatever that whatever, yeah whatever.

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Speaker 1: Now you're an audition like listening, you know what I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about? Na, they don't real quick? Uh. George asks

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Speaker 1: if you could create a male clone version of this

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Speaker 1: dumb ask question. I don't even know what would you, George?

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Speaker 1: You dumb? Your clone? How do you envision it going down?

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Speaker 1: My clone? Oh? I like light sea niggas, So my

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Speaker 1: clone will have a big old dick, but a dark

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Speaker 1: dick because most of my light skin niggas got like

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Speaker 1: they did a little darker than their whole body. I like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's kind of just the touch. It's just a touch,

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Speaker 1: like my strap on his dark skin. And I feel

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Speaker 1: like it's okay because that's what happens. M So my clone,

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Speaker 1: my clone is like, my clone will be six ft

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Speaker 1: seven because I feel like that's like a perfect heist,

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Speaker 1: Like you'll look too crazy crazy, but you look tall,

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Speaker 1: like people still be like like the niggas that too

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Speaker 1: tall can't do ship bro in real life, So like

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Speaker 1: I can still some a bitch can still buy me

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Speaker 1: shoes because my shoes might still be in the store.

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Speaker 1: Like when you're too tall, you got a special order ship.

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Speaker 1: I would have a big dick. I think I would

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Speaker 1: be very like I think I would let my hair grow.

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Speaker 1: I might have dreads. I ain't gonna hold you because

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Speaker 1: I like with here, just make it the same thing

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Speaker 1: that she was over with in Orlando. She wants to

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Speaker 1: create out of herself. That reason, lue check your contract.

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Speaker 1: I went to okay, low key. You know we stayed riding.

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Speaker 1: So why why why do you feel like why do

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Speaker 1: you think people always asking you off y'allun around just

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Speaker 1: because we're sexual I think the same reason I don't.

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Speaker 1: I disagree. I think it's our attention. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: because you'll be arguing to like some couples, y'all gay

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Speaker 1: as hell, we do it. We argue like I know,

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Speaker 1: you'll suck around, eyes cannot roll good good, halleluj you're

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Speaker 1: no okay, hold on, all right? Do you guys have

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01:16:56,560 --> 01:16:58,200
Speaker 1: has there ever been guys that are like you have

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01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 1: had similar taste for where you are both like I'll say, so,

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Speaker 1: I'll sit here and say we've maybe had similar taste,

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01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:05,720
Speaker 1: but I will say for both of us, like, first off,

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01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 1: and I was much bigger than I am now, so

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Speaker 1: we've never been We've never looked the same. Niggas who

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01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: would like me would think she was too small, and

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Speaker 1: niggas who would want her would think I was too big.

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Speaker 1: So we've never even had a clash onto where we

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Speaker 1: felt like guys would both like us were very difference

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Speaker 1: now though here