1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Ready, Ready, Ready, scrubbing in with Beca tilly An. 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 3: Hello everybody, we're scrubbing in. I just remembered my dream 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 3: from last night hearing the intro. I dreamt that I 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 3: had to play the the on a piano and I 6 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:20,639 Speaker 3: couldn't do it. 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: I just remember that. That is so weird radio dreams, 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: I dreams. I love it. I eat, breathe and sleep 9 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: and dream the podcast. I love that. Yeah, I slept 10 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: terrible last night. Tho, no to the word. 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 3: I know when you said, when you text me and 12 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: said that you slept bad, I was like same, I 13 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 3: don't know. 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: I tossed and turned all night. 15 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 4: Me too. 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 5: Your trouble falling asleep. You're trouble staying asleep both. 17 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 3: I had trouble fall I think I finally turned my phone. 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: I was I watched a movie because I couldn't fall 19 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 3: asleep on my phone, and then I finally my eyes 20 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 3: were shutting. So I think it too, is when I 21 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 3: my body surrendered and then I was just like tossing 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: and turning all night. It's actually called the Heart of Man. Yeah, 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 3: I think was Chad what was he he. 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 4: Was an executive producer. 25 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Chad Beach. Yeah, Chad Beach. It was really it 26 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: was really good. 27 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 4: Very provoking. 28 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: That's exactly what I was gonna say. Very thought provoking. 29 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 4: That's how I felt when I watched it. 30 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, I woke up and finished it 31 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 3: this morning because I like needed to see the. 32 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: It was very cool. 33 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,919 Speaker 3: I also watched Speaking of I watched the saddest movie 34 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 3: this weekend, and it was on accident. I just saw 35 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: Drew Barrymore and I was like, oh, I didn't know, 36 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,559 Speaker 3: Like I don't know what this is, so I turned 37 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: it on. It's called Miss You Already. It's about these 38 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 3: best friends who pretty much grew up together and then 39 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 3: one gets cancer and it was the most devastating, Like 40 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: the whole movie was just sad, but it was sweet, 41 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 3: Like the friendship was so sweet. 42 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 4: Spoiler alert, don't see that movie. 43 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 3: No, It's like, sometimes it feels good to feel that 44 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 3: I don't. 45 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 4: I don't like that. There's enough of that in life, 46 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 4: you know, Like you. 47 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 5: Won't watch sad movies because there's a lot. 48 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 4: Too If I know that. 49 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 6: It's like the last time I watched a sad movie 50 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 6: where I knew what I was getting into was actually 51 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 6: with you. 52 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: That's so good. 53 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 6: I was like fine, and then at the end I 54 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 6: cried so much. I was so mad at you for 55 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 6: making me. 56 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 3: Watch that movie was so good? No one, Wow, it 57 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 3: was like a good movie. 58 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 4: What was that movie called? 59 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: I'm like blinking It's where the guys in the Wheelchair? 60 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:33,399 Speaker 4: Yeah? 61 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 5: Oh, I saw that one with the girl from Yeah. 62 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what is that movie? 63 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 4: And there's it's unsteady. Unsteady was the theme song. 64 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 5: Non I wept it fault in their Stars Wlia Clark 65 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 5: Love Story Wheelchair guy. Wow, there it is me before you. 66 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:56,959 Speaker 3: I could think it was before, but I couldn't figure 67 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 3: out where that word went in the title. 68 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were on my count like. 69 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 4: So mobbing and I was like, I hate you. You 70 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 4: knew I was gonna get like this. 71 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 3: It's so bad when there's like a sweet story involved 72 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: in the sadness. I love sad movies, like if I 73 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: can find like the like the relationship in the movie 74 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: and there's moments. My one problem with the Oscar speaking of, 75 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 3: because that was last night. All those movies that are 76 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 3: nominated I have I had no desire to see because 77 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 3: they're so and people are like they're like it's like 78 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: real life and what's going on. And I'm like, exactly, 79 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 3: we get so much of that already. I like for 80 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 3: movies to kind of feel like an escape and like 81 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 3: this is kind of a different way of life. I'm 82 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 3: like escaping into this dream world for a couple of hours. 83 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 5: Well, there's a dream world of a woman falling in 84 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 5: love with a fish and that one best person true. 85 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 3: But I heard that one was strange two hours or however, 86 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 3: I saw that. 87 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, my sisters watched it and they were like. 88 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, women don't like that movie. I thought it was fine. 89 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,119 Speaker 5: I enjoy I didn't like love it, but I thought 90 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 5: it was pretty good. But I came to work and 91 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 5: brought it up. Every woman on the stad was like, 92 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 5: oh my god, how could you like that? It was terrible. 93 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 5: It's so weird. 94 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: Why is that because he's a fish creature? And why 95 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: why do guys not? I think that's weird, But girls, 96 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. 97 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 5: I think for me it was just getting sucked into 98 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 5: Guierrera Moo del Toro's world that he was creating. But 99 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 5: I don't know. Oh I didn't. I thought it was 100 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 5: an interesting story, and I think Easton liked it as well. 101 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, East have brought the mic over. 102 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 7: I loved that movie and I relate a lot to 103 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 7: that fish man. 104 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 5: So that's what it is. 105 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 4: Were fine love. 106 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: He's still the story like you fell in love. 107 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 7: And my wife liked that movie quite a bit because 108 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 7: again she sees a lot of herself and that people 109 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 7: being revolted by the idea of us being physical. 110 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 5: Wow, I don't I want to chat more, but we 111 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 5: have to get Kelsey on the phone because we promised 112 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 5: you we would do this. 113 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Can we preface it? 114 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? Please? 115 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: Okay, so we have we. 116 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 4: Should write down the names too, so we don't mess 117 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 4: this up. 118 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I really don't want to mess U up. 119 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 3: So we have Kelsey on the phone and we are 120 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 3: calling her best friend Brittany, and we're going to what 121 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: introduce the great news. 122 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're gonna basically tell Brittany with Kelsey that 123 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 6: Kelsey's with child. 124 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 5: I think that's what's going to happen. Yeah, that's fun. 125 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: This is so fun, though, But I think maybe that's 126 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: why I didn't sleep. 127 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 3: I felt this pressure of ruining this. But I'm so excited. 128 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 3: I feel so honored. 129 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 4: I know this is so cute, so they're like besties. 130 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 5: Yeah, and instead of reading the email, we can have 131 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 5: her give us the whole rundown here. 132 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, so this would be like you calling me to 133 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 3: tell me I'm engaged, you're with child. 134 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 5: Or having like you know what would be like. You'd 135 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 5: be like having Ellen Pompeo call you. 136 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 1: And tell you the Yeah, oh my gosh. 137 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 5: Because they're big fans of the podcast. Oh yeah, says 138 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 5: we're here. 139 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 3: Oh. 140 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 5: They always talk about how they are Becka and Tanya 141 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 5: when they are Brittany. 142 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm excited to find out. 143 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 5: Let's find out. 144 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 4: I bet you Kelsey's Kelsey are you there? 145 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,280 Speaker 3: I'm oh, my gosh, we are so excited right now. 146 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 8: My gosh, I'm dying. 147 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: First of all, congratulations. Yeah, So how far longer are you? 148 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 3: What's the what's the deal set us up for for 149 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,679 Speaker 3: the call. 150 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 8: The inside Loop? Because I'm only like five weeks found 151 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 8: out it's me and my husband and my mom and 152 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 8: you guys, and then Brittany. 153 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 3: And then a few other thousand people in a few 154 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 3: hours them. 155 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: Okay, so five weeks. 156 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 3: So I want I'm like looking at the email, but 157 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 3: I kind of want you to summarize it for everyone listening. 158 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: Kind of y'all's friendship and everything. 159 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 8: Yes, we met in college. We were soul sisters. She's 160 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 8: from Alabama, I'm from Georgia. We both married our high 161 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 8: school sweetheart and I started trying to get pregnant, me 162 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 8: and my husband did, and we had a really hard 163 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 8: time getting pregnant, and it went about a year and 164 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 8: a half before we found out we were pregnant. And 165 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 8: so I called and I told Brittany and she was 166 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 8: so excited. And then the next day she called me 167 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 8: back because she found out she was pregnant, so love 168 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 8: it at the same time, and then she found out 169 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 8: she was having twins, and so we had our babies 170 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 8: about two weeks apart, and she has twin boys and 171 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 8: I have a little girl. And then Brittany got pregnant 172 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 8: about eight months after she had the twins. Oh wow, 173 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 8: So she just pat about three weeks ago another little girl. 174 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 8: And my husband and I have been trying and if 175 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 8: weren't sure if we'd ever be able to have another baby, 176 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 8: because it's kind of such a miracle baby the first time, 177 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 8: so it's like a huge deal to us that we're 178 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 8: pregnant again. So I know she's gonna freak out and 179 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 8: she's really gonna die that you guys. 180 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so when we call, how do you like? 181 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 3: Do you want us to say, Heyanya, we're so happy 182 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 3: to talk to you, thanks for listening to the podcast. 183 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: Kelsey needs to tell you something? Or do you want 184 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: us to say? How do you want it to go? 185 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 8: I mean, I've never done this this, okay, but I 186 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 8: think if you guys told her it would be so cool. 187 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 8: But either way it's fine with me. 188 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, and which one of you? 189 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 5: One of you? 190 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 8: Okay? Well we go back and forth about this a lot. 191 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 8: I don't really feel like I'm Tanya because I feel 192 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 8: like Brittany can go like m I A and doesn't 193 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 8: always need me, and I feel like I'm more says 194 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 8: that she is more needy because she texts me all 195 00:08:59,679 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 8: the time. 196 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: But I feel I feel you Kelsey, y'all switch on 197 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: and off your roles. 198 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 6: Maybe maybe what we do is like we call Brittany 199 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 6: and we're like, hey, like we just wanted to call 200 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 6: and say like happy Monday, like you're you know you're yeah, 201 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 6: just cash will be like your friend Kelsey told us 202 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 6: you're a big fan of the podcast, like any suggestion, 203 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 6: just kind of like just really loosey goosey, and then 204 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 6: like like, okay, thank you. 205 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 4: So much before we go. 206 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 6: Kelsey also wanted us to tell you that she's she's pregnant. 207 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 4: Second, yeah, okay, so I just playing cash. 208 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 5: That wouldn't it be cool if you guys had your 209 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 5: babies at the same time. 210 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 1: The besta just said, we'll just play cash like. 211 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 4: Queen the Cash, right, you should you should talk. 212 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: Ellen? Hi? Is this Brittany. This is Brittany, Brittany. This 213 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: is Becca Tilley and Tanya rad But how are you? 214 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 8: Oh my gosh. 215 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: Kelsey's on the line too. We all wanted to call 216 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: you and say. 217 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,719 Speaker 5: Hey, how did you do this? 218 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: And well Tanya has something especially yeah, same. 219 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 4: Well, Brittany. 220 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 6: We just kind of like we're doing like a you know, 221 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 6: listener survey, and you know, we want to say thank 222 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 6: you for listening and we love you so much. Is 223 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 6: there anything like maybe that when you're listening, maybe as 224 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 6: something that you would like to see us do on. 225 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 4: The podcast or here or anything, you know, just listener like. 226 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 5: Quiz right now, I can't even think now. 227 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 3: What's been your favorite? Like your favorite moment if you 228 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 3: have any that come to mind. 229 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 5: On this one. 230 00:10:55,640 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, you forgot anything that happened before this, right, I don't. 231 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 8: I don't know. 232 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,119 Speaker 4: I like the Great Anatomy quizzes. I learned something every time. 233 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, so you're we're gonna note that down on 234 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 6: our quiz listener quiz. 235 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 8: We gotta we gotta step up the text game, guys, you. 236 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,839 Speaker 3: Got Okay, I'm doing it today, So listen to the 237 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 3: podcast today because I'm gonna be I'm I have a 238 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 3: text coming for everybody. 239 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I have one plan and it's good. 240 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 4: Oh okay, well, you know, thank you. That's that was 241 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 4: so great. 242 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 6: You know, we just we really like to get the 243 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 6: feedback from our listeners, loyal listeners. 244 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 4: And before we go back, I had something she wanted 245 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 4: to say to you. 246 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wanted to tell you that Kelsey is 247 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 3: pregnant with her second baby. 248 00:11:54,720 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 8: This is anything. I'm freaking out, congratulations, Thank you. 249 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 2: Say. 250 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 8: My husband wanted to know why I did so much 251 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 8: to tell Brittany that I was pregnant, but I didn't, 252 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 8: just like friend, because that's how our relationship works, y'all. 253 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: Y'all are each other's person. 254 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so true. 255 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: Oh my sorry, Oh my gosh. 256 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 6: Well, that's that's really you know, we really didn't have 257 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 6: a listener quiz. 258 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 4: That's really why we were bought that. 259 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: But Talk did a great job of sething. 260 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 8: She really tried. 261 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 3: You're like, Okay, I'm just gonna go with us on 262 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 3: what's going on so weird. 263 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. 264 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 6: We'll keep us posted on the on the pregnancy, and 265 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 6: we want to see photos and everything. 266 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 3: Please, Yeah, we want to see photos of the on 267 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:54,839 Speaker 3: the Facebook. Are y'all part of the Facebook group? Oh no, 268 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 3: it's new, it just started. But everyone that like, we 269 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 3: have a listener Facebook page for everyone who listens to 270 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 3: the podcast is on there and talks and we talk 271 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 3: to everybody. 272 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: So so cute. It's literally the cutest thing ever. 273 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 5: Joined. 274 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 3: The people will be excited after they listen to this 275 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 3: to see updates. 276 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, if you guys get pregnant the same time, 277 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 8: just call it and we'll put y'all on our podcast. 278 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 8: We'll all take Stanley's photos together. 279 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 5: That would be. 280 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: Awesome, perfect, we'll do we'll do that. 281 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 3: It might be a while, but we'll come back to that. 282 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 8: Did you just say if y'all ever get pregnant. 283 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, when when. 284 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 1: He means when? 285 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 4: Guys? 286 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: No, thank y'all, Thank you, Kelsey, congratulations. 287 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 4: This is awesome. 288 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 8: Thank you guys, Thank you so much. 289 00:13:54,440 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 9: All Right, Happy Monday, Bye bye. 290 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 4: Our listeners are literally the best. 291 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: That was the most fun ever. Yeah, I can't stop smiling. 292 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 4: I know, Sam, that was so great. 293 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 5: I love that. 294 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 3: I want to talk about our listeners and our Facebook group, 295 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 3: but first I want to talk about beach Body on Demand, 296 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 3: which is the way that I'm getting fit right now. 297 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 3: I'm going to Mexico in a couple of weeks. Sorry, 298 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 3: she hasn't heard the news. 299 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 4: When did this booking happen? 300 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 5: And Brittany if yeah? 301 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 4: And how long are you going for? 302 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 3: I'm going for four days anyways, four days on the beach. 303 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: I need my calendar, I need my beach body. 304 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 4: Okay, we'll get back to this. 305 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 7: So. 306 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 3: Beach Body on Demand is an online fitness streaming service 307 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 3: that gives you unlimited access to a wide variety of 308 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 3: workouts with different trainers, different types of workouts. 309 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: It's actually super brilliant. 310 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: You can do it on iPad, own computer, and you 311 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 3: can do it from the comfort of your own home. 312 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, and the thing is that's pretty awesome is that 313 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 6: you can do like different things. So if you want 314 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 6: to do like cardio or weight training, you can even 315 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 6: do yoga, so you can do dance, like there's if 316 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 6: there's you wake up in a different mood every day, 317 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 6: at least I do, Like some days I really don't 318 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 6: want to go at a ten, so I'll do yoga 319 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 6: or plates, and then some days I'm like wake up 320 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 6: in beast mode and I want to do the cardio 321 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 6: or the weight training. 322 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 4: So it's like, you know, every level. 323 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 3: I know, I was gonna say some of the familiar 324 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 3: brands that people might know of, or P ninety X, 325 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 3: Insanity twenty one Day Fixed T twenty. 326 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: Five, they have the three week yoga retreat. I think 327 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: I really want to focus on yoga because I've never done. 328 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 4: It before, and it's so good for you. 329 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: I know, it's I think it's really good for you. 330 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 3: And also I feel like everyone who does yoga is 331 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 3: very like just healthy and lean and looking good. 332 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 5: Yeah. I saw a video once online of an older, 333 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 5: older woman, like quite old, with the big hump she 334 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 5: had to make up on her back different some old people. Yeah, 335 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 5: she did yoga for like three weeks and it was. 336 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 6: Gone, No, Yeah, it's really it's really incredible. And the 337 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 6: thing that's awesome is that there's six hundred workouts and 338 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 6: nutritional information because abs are made in the kitchen people. 339 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: That's right, that is right. That's also something I really 340 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: struggle with. 341 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, the nutrition part of things. I do have to say. 342 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 6: I was really thrilled that one of our listeners in 343 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 6: our Facebook group asked if I would do some sort 344 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 6: of like workout fitness something you could just take the 345 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,359 Speaker 6: beach body totally repost. 346 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 347 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 3: And the really cool thing is that you can try 348 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 3: the program which includes all six hundred workouts and nutritional 349 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 3: information for free. 350 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 4: Wow. 351 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the annual subscription if you do that, it's 352 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: cheaper than a gym membership. I mean, gym memberships are expensive. 353 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: I know I'm paying for one right now that I 354 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 3: don't use. 355 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 4: Literally pain pains me. 356 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 3: But honestly, everyone needs to give this a try. Worst 357 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: case scenario, you try it. If you don't like it, 358 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: which I actually think you will, Yeah, then whatever, no 359 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 3: strings attached. And right now, my listeners can get a 360 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 3: free trial membership when you text Beca to thirty thirty thirty. 361 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 3: You'll get full access to the entire platform for free, 362 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 3: all the workouts, the nutrition information. Like I said, all 363 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 3: for free. So just text Beca to three zero three 364 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 3: zero three zero. 365 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 5: What should I text to three zero three zero three zero. 366 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 3: Back Becka, thank you? I was like, how do we 367 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 3: get this in there? No, Tanya was stressed. Okay, So 368 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 3: I want to talk about this Facebook group we started. 369 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 4: It's everything. 370 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 3: So I was talking to Ali, who is one of 371 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 3: my really good friends but also my manager, and we 372 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 3: were talking about the podcast and she was like, oh, 373 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 3: you should start a Facebook group just where all listeners 374 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 3: can come to one place and talk about the podcast 375 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 3: or just talk about their lives. And I didn't really 376 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,920 Speaker 3: understand what I mean. I thought it was just like 377 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 3: a page that you like and follow, like if we update. Okay, 378 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 3: this has been the coolest thing watching people who listen 379 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 3: to the podcast bond and like get advice from each 380 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 3: other and compliment each other and introduce themselves like the 381 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 3: whole first day. Afterwards, I was reading the comments and 382 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,119 Speaker 3: I was just sitting there like tearing up right, and 383 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: it was sweet. It wasn't like anything sad, but just 384 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 3: like the kindness. I guess that people made me feel 385 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 3: so proud that those are the people that are listening 386 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 3: to us. 387 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 6: We like we're in a community together, Like we're all 388 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 6: doing life together. And like it's like it's weird because 389 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 6: I guess until I saw it on Facebook, I guess 390 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 6: I didn't really realize it, you know what I mean. Like, 391 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 6: but when you see like actually everyone like wanting to 392 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 6: do life together and like, I don't know, they have 393 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:42,920 Speaker 6: like a lot of the same beliefs. 394 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 4: I don't know, it's just really cool. 395 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 3: And like I saw people asking questions about their life, 396 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 3: like asking about their major in college and what they 397 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 3: should do if they want to change in and not 398 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 3: only feeling confident and vulnerable enough to open up to 399 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 3: these essentially these strangers, but then the responses of all 400 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 3: these people chiming in and like giving their advice. It 401 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 3: was just really cool to see and I thought, Wow, 402 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: this is something that I am the same way. Like 403 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 3: I know people listen to it. I see it on Twitter, 404 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 3: I see it on Instagram. But seeing that, for some reason, 405 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 3: like really put it into perspective of how people feel 406 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 3: about our podcast. 407 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 6: And I think that's like the whole the whole purpose 408 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 6: of life is to like be in community and do 409 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 6: it together, and so it's really cool to like see 410 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 6: it like actually coming to life in motion. 411 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, Lindsay just posted actually because she had she had 412 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 5: called us or emailed us a while back. In fact, 413 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 5: it was episode eleven at thirty three minutes. She told 414 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 5: us that in the post she posted here with a dilemma, 415 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,959 Speaker 5: and you guys gave her advice and now she has 416 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 5: a follow up question. But rather than go to us 417 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 5: with it, she's just going to the members of the 418 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 5: Facebook group to say, hey, what do you guys think 419 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 5: about this? And everyone's responding and supporting her. It's really 420 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 5: a neat thing. 421 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, what is the question? 422 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: I want to know? 423 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,439 Speaker 5: Well, this was a woman who met a guy at 424 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 5: a brewery and he was responding to her instant stories 425 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 5: a lot, and Dean, I guess this is and he 426 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,439 Speaker 5: said to go for it, and she said, I'm not. 427 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 5: I didn't do that because I don't like being forward. 428 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:07,919 Speaker 5: But he started reaching out again and he built her 429 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 5: a kitchen table. So now she can't tell if it's 430 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 5: being nice, if that was an excuse to see me. 431 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 5: And he's just too shy, he's not good with girls. 432 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 5: So she invited him to dinner and he said yes, 433 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 5: but I'm going out of town for a week, so 434 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 5: she doesn't sure if it will happen. But anyway, what 435 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 5: do you guys think. I know everyone's jumping out and 436 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 5: saying balls in his court. You did the right thing. 437 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 5: Go forward. He made you a table. He's into you. 438 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 5: It's very sweet. 439 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. I've never had anyone make me a table. Never. 440 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 3: I did get a cookie cake this morning that said, 441 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 3: will you accept this rose from. 442 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:46,640 Speaker 1: No note or anything you have? But no table, no 443 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 1: table built? It? 444 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 4: Is it not like make you worry? 445 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 3: I kind of got worried, but I didn't know if 446 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 3: it was from like a brand I'm working on. 447 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,399 Speaker 1: I just should say, but I I would like to 448 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 1: know if anyone's will listening. 449 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 6: I'm like the secret admirer. I got secret admire of 450 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 6: flowers and I was. 451 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 5: Like, oh, it's great in theory. 452 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you really think about it. 453 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,120 Speaker 1: You started going like who has my address? 454 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:17,959 Speaker 3: Who knows where I live? But yeah, I think if 455 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,680 Speaker 3: anyone's building a kitchen table, there's some there's some interest there. 456 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 457 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 5: Well scrubbing in with Becca Tilly on Facebook, Yes, and it's. 458 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 4: A private group, but anyone means. 459 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 3: It just means it's not like open to the public 460 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 3: like you have to be you have to ask to 461 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 3: join and be accepted. 462 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: Oh, everyone's accepted. 463 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 6: And we actually were talking about doing something super fun 464 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 6: in there. 465 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I would like everyone's feedback. 466 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 3: I feel like we got a good amount of feedback 467 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:48,439 Speaker 3: and doing like a live podcast, like a live version 468 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 3: of it, like on Facebook, like an event, like a 469 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 3: like a podcast meetup where we like to do the 470 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 3: podcast in front of yeah, and so we'll stream it 471 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 3: that people who don't live close. 472 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 1: Well, we could take this thing on a tour. 473 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 6: To Yeah, first all to the live stream or the 474 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 6: live podcast. 475 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 3: Wait, you had an interesting thing happened where I saw 476 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 3: it on your Instagram story today that y'all talked about it. 477 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: But the guy that you saw on your discover page. 478 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,119 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's a really interesting little dilemma because people 479 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 6: are really either on one side or the other of 480 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 6: this dilemma. So I found this guy. I was long 481 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 6: story short. I ended up falling asleep Saturday night at 482 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 6: like four pm or something. 483 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 4: I woke up at eight eight pm. 484 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 6: I was like, okay, So I spent a lot of 485 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 6: time on Instagram Saturday night. So I'm just going through 486 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,399 Speaker 6: my Discover feed and I come across this guy and 487 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 6: I'm like looking through his profile. 488 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 4: He went to University of Arizona. I think he played 489 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 4: football for my that's my alma mater. 490 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 6: I went to school there, and we have some friends 491 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 6: in common, and he's cute. He seems like cool, he's 492 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 6: done done charity, you know. Like I was like going 493 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 6: deep in the feed. It's like, Oh, this guy seems 494 00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 6: kind of cool, so I screenshot it. 495 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 4: I want to. 496 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 6: I always like to like know one person that knows 497 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 6: the guy so that they can vouch. And he was 498 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 6: friends looked like he was friends with Robert because he 499 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 6: followed him. So I was like, do you know this guy? 500 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 6: And he's like, I've met him like once or twice. 501 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 6: I don't know enough to be like he's legit or 502 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 6: he's not, you know, And he's like, why don't you 503 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 6: DM him? I've never DMed a random stranger in my 504 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 6: entire life. I don't even know how to like have 505 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,640 Speaker 6: conversation on dating apps, like you know what I mean, 506 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 6: Like I'm really bad at engaging like via text, so 507 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 6: I don't even know what I would say. But then 508 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 6: I also feel like why not, like I should just 509 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 6: do it. 510 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 1: I think she does it? 511 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 5: You do. 512 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm normally, you know, I'm normally more of. 513 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 3: Like it's the guy, like that's if he wants to 514 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,920 Speaker 3: reach out, he'll reach out. But what if he never 515 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 3: like she happened to see right, what if. 516 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:44,800 Speaker 4: He never discover pages me? 517 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 1: What if she's never on his discover page? 518 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 5: I don't know that. I love this honestly, because you know, 519 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 5: we mentioned this earlier to a guy we work with 520 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 5: named Tubbs, and if you listen to the Seacrest Show, 521 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 5: you might have heard Tubs. We call him Tinder Tubs. Yeah, 522 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 5: because he's very single and very active on the dating apps, 523 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 5: and so therefore he was a good guy to kind 524 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 5: of go for advice on this. He said, if you 525 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 5: do that, this guy thinks he's got a guaranteed hookup. Yeah, 526 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 5: he did tell me that, And I think there's something 527 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 5: to that. 528 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: I could I could see that, But I also think 529 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 1: it depends on the guy. 530 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 6: Well also think it depends on like my DM Like 531 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, you're hot, like you know, like I 532 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 6: could be like hey, like so creaty like random, but 533 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 6: you were on my discover page too much? 534 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 3: No, I was what I would say personally, I'd be like, hey, 535 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 3: I know this is so random. I saw you on 536 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 3: my discover page just all we have some mutual friends, 537 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 3: and I just want to say, hey. 538 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 4: See this is why do you like that? 539 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so casual because if you don't respond, it's 540 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 3: like whatever, whatever. 541 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true. You have to factor and what do 542 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 5: you have to lose? What is the downside to doing? 543 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 5: And I guess if there's really. 544 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 4: Nothing, guess what the downside is? Still single spoiler alert, 545 00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 4: no change here. 546 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 5: I do think it gives him kind of of an 547 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 5: upper hand in the relationship, which I think the women 548 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 5: always start with an upper hand. And I know that 549 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 5: you want to give it up. 550 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 3: Here's the thing, he only has the upper hand for 551 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 3: this moment. If he responds, then you know, then you 552 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 3: decide what you want to do. 553 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 6: And but here's the other thing. I have no body 554 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 6: vouching for this guy. 555 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: He could be a total like anyone could could be. 556 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 4: But you know me, I like to do my due 557 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 4: diligence before I go out with somebody. I like to 558 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 4: have a lot. 559 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 5: Of Robert's the only mutual friend. 560 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, let me dig a little deeper. 561 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,159 Speaker 3: So I was on a dating app that shows who 562 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 3: you're friends with on Facebook, like who you have mutual 563 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 3: friends with on Facebook, and I came across a lot 564 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 3: of guys who had mutual friends that our mutual friend 565 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 3: was Tanya. 566 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 5: We're like, interesting, she's casting a wide net. 567 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: Uh yeah. 568 00:25:55,840 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 3: So that was your Saturday, literally, and you went birding 569 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 3: is the best? Well, it's a little bit. There's some 570 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 3: faulty areas because it's a startup company, but it is 571 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 3: this electric scooter company where you download an app and 572 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 3: there's these electric scooters all over the places, mostly on 573 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:16,520 Speaker 3: the West Side. 574 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 6: That goes like really into this stuff though, because when 575 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 6: we passed by bikes, Remember when we passed by those 576 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 6: bikes that you rent, you were like, yeah, let's do it. 577 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 4: You feel like you like so there's something about like, uh. 578 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 9: It's like spontaneous Yeah, public transportation. 579 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, Becker really clings too. 580 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 5: Wait a minute, those are two separate things. You're talking 581 00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 5: about fun. You're saying public transportation. 582 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's spontaneous fun. 583 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: So it's so there are these electric scooters. 584 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: You download the app and if you pass a scooter 585 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 3: you can Well, first of all, the app shows where 586 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,719 Speaker 3: their scooter's near you, so you can go to it. 587 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 3: You scan it and it tells you it's battery life, 588 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 3: and you literally scan it, unlock it, and you can 589 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 3: just take it and then you can leave it anywhere. 590 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 3: And all you do is like once you're done, you 591 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 3: end ride and then that's it. 592 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 5: You can just leave it, leave it anywhere anywhere street 593 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 5: corner just drops. 594 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: Someone will come pick it up at like ten or 595 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,439 Speaker 1: something at night. 596 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 5: What if somebody steals it, Well you. 597 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,880 Speaker 1: Can only you can't they lock once. 598 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 4: You only move if you pay right. 599 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so smart. And like I said, there's been 600 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 3: some issues with like the charger or whatever. 601 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 4: But like if you're to get one and. 602 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: It's like dead, you go to another one. 603 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 4: I think that many? Is that many? 604 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: There were so the other day. 605 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 3: I've never seen so many people on scooters in Santa Monica. 606 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 3: Really like avoiding dodging people. I had a backpack for Phoebe. 607 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 3: She was on my chest. We looked like, I don't know, 608 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 3: Phoebe on my chest on the scooter, just flying down 609 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 3: the boardwalk. 610 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 6: For some reason, when I when you said that you 611 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 6: were scootering, I thought that you were actually like using 612 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 6: your foot you know, like those like what are those razors? 613 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? I was like, Becca, that seems like an aggressive move. 614 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:59,719 Speaker 3: The electric motorizer and they're fast, like it really highlight 615 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,159 Speaker 3: and so I asked Tany. I was like, hey, do 616 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 3: you want to go right? And you acted like you 617 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:04,360 Speaker 3: were maybe going to do it? 618 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I was actually because I was already like I'd 619 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 6: worked out and sweaty. 620 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm just throwing a hat. 621 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 5: Like had her. 622 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: Other friends with her, you know, when the other friends 623 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: are around. They were gone as. 624 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 4: Like as I hit my bed and like I've never 625 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,119 Speaker 4: done that before. 626 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, speaking of bed, Bowling Branch really transitioned me 627 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 3: into that way. 628 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 4: That might have been what sucked me. 629 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 3: And on Saturday, they're my favorite sheets right now I 630 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 3: had to. I washed them so I had my old 631 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,719 Speaker 3: ones on it. It just wasn't the same. Maybe that's why 632 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 3: I didn't sleep. 633 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 4: Well last night because you were washing them. 634 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 3: Because that, yeah, I didn't have my Bowling Branch sheets, 635 00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 3: my old I don't even know name, yeah, no name sheet, 636 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 3: no name sheets. You know, sleep is I would say 637 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 3: that that's one thing that we definitely agree on hobbies. 638 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: What we like is sleep. 639 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 4: Nothing better than a good night's sleep. 640 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so true. 641 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 3: The thing with sheets is that I remember being in 642 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 3: town with my mom and looking for sheets since she's 643 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 3: like Becca. Good sheets are very expensive. 644 00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, they can be up to one thousand dollars, I know. 645 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 3: But Bollin Branch is just a couple hundred bucks. Everyone 646 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 3: who tries them that I've talked to loves them. 647 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. They have thousands of five star reviews, and all 648 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 1: I look at now are reviews saying. 649 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 3: I don't trust anything. Speaking of go to scrubbing in 650 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 3: on iTunes and I heart media. Give us a five 651 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 3: star review. Please we'll plug there for us. Yeah, because 652 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 3: reviews are important. So they have amazing reviews. Forbes, the 653 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 3: Wall Street Journal, Fast Company, they're all talking about Bowlin Branch. 654 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: Three of the US presidents have slept on them. 655 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 4: And tell them the best part. 656 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 3: Well, the best part is that our listeners get fifty 657 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 3: dollars off your first set of sheets at Bowlinbranch dot 658 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 3: com promo code Becca. 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So once again that's Bowlinbranch dot 670 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 3: Com promo code Becca, and one more time Bolinbranch dot 671 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 3: Com promo code Becca. 672 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: Have we gotten that back under control? I don't know. 673 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 5: I'd have to hear back from that woman who complained, 674 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 5: because that. 675 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 3: First one last week was like on it was beautiful, guys, 676 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 3: that one was really good too. 677 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 1: I'd like to have like just a recording of that one. 678 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 5: We can make that happen. Can we tackle some emails please? 679 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 5: I think we'll do that, and then we'll do the text. 680 00:30:57,880 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: Okay, I was gonna say, we got it, we have to. 681 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 5: I will do that, okay, but just if you don't 682 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 5: know what we're talking about. Becca won last week's Grace 683 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 5: and Amie quiz and now context anyone from Tanya's phone. 684 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 5: And we've done this before and it has been kind 685 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 5: of an anti climax, but Becca feels like she's got 686 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 5: something strong. 687 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: You know. 688 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 3: I feel like last time I was trying to be 689 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 3: you know, it's taken it easy on you. Today I'm 690 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 3: still it's gonna benefit you, It's not gonna hurt you. 691 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 4: You should use your powers for good. It's going to 692 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 4: be good. 693 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 5: If Becca wanted to, could she DM the guy from 694 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 5: Instagram that you're thinking about dming? 695 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: I got something better than. 696 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 5: This is from g Dear Becca, Tanya and Mark. I 697 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 5: love the podcast. Whenever I listen to I am so 698 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 5: entranced that I feel like I'm there in person and 699 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 5: included in the conversations. I have a question. Have either 700 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:53,240 Speaker 5: Becca or Tanya ever had or currently have a mister Big? 701 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 5: Someone that leaves your breadcrumbs for years but you could 702 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 5: never actually grab Even when you did a new person, 703 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 5: there's still on your mind. You're still reaching out. How 704 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 5: do you finally get over this person and stop wondering? 705 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 5: What if? Asking for a friend? I have no advice 706 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 5: for her. Thank you, g Oh. 707 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 3: I feel like the mister Big situation is so different 708 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 3: on Sex and the City because it works out in 709 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 3: the end, but in real life, I'd tell a girlfriend. 710 00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 1: Well, in real life, I'd be like get over him, 711 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: like move on. 712 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know it's not so funny because I feel 713 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 4: the same way. 714 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 6: I'm like, it works out for her, Yeah, but in 715 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 6: my life, my mister Big is like now he's engaged, 716 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 6: you know, like that's sad. 717 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 4: It's not because in my head, who's your? 718 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 5: They've turned the MIC's off, so Tony can tell Beca 719 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 5: who her mister big is. 720 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's your mister Big. I mean that's 721 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 1: a stretch stretched. 722 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 4: Okay, well what else would it be. 723 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 1: Maybe you just don't have one. It's okay not to happen. 724 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,959 Speaker 5: Why why? I mean, I know you're not gonna tell 725 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 5: us who this guy is, but why is it so 726 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 5: funny to you? Because like, is he not mister big worthy? 727 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 1: I don't think Mecca's. 728 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 4: Not sure he's straight. 729 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 5: To be honest, that doesn't disqualify someone. 730 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's why. 731 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 3: I just hearing what I know about him. I just 732 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 3: want to put him in the category like mister Bigs, 733 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 3: like that epic love story. 734 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 1: I don't think of him, but he's. 735 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 6: Like that person that you like keep coming back to, 736 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 6: you know, like it stretches longer than it ever should 737 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 6: because you just always go back to that person. 738 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 4: Is there something that draws you there? 739 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 3: I know, but that's like a natural chemistry once you've 740 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 3: like had like just like a physical relationship, that happens 741 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 3: like naturally, Like you just keep coming back to that person. 742 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 3: But mister Big was like that kept happening. She just 743 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 3: knew like she could put up with it because they 744 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 3: were gonna end up together, like she there was just 745 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 3: it was a situ situation that was far greater than 746 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 3: I think. 747 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: Your version of mister This is so funny to me. Yet, 748 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:09,720 Speaker 1: maybe you can. 749 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,840 Speaker 6: Have mister Biggs at different seasons of your life, because like, didn't. 750 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:20,600 Speaker 1: You mean there's like mister Smalls that are like yeah big, 751 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:21,479 Speaker 1: mister Big. 752 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,600 Speaker 6: And I'm to be honest, I wouldn't even have advice 753 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 6: to give to g to her friend because the only 754 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 6: reason I had to quit it was because he moved on, 755 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 6: he found a relationship. 756 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 5: You were involved with him at some point, yeah? Is 757 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 5: he one of the nine? 758 00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:38,760 Speaker 4: Yes? 759 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,879 Speaker 5: Okay, so this was fairly serious for how long? 760 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 4: A couple of years? 761 00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 2: Okay, But it was never like a thing. 762 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 4: Does that make sense? 763 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:47,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 764 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was never a relationship. 765 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 4: It was like, yeah, I never called my boyfriend. 766 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,240 Speaker 5: It was a hook up, yeah, but a consistent one 767 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,239 Speaker 5: friend with benefits. Yeah yeah, okay, all right, but you 768 00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 5: clearly had more feelings for him. 769 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah. 770 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 6: It was like the thing that was like, oh, if 771 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 6: I just keep going, like it'll eventually work out, right, 772 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 6: Like he'll get these feelings for me. 773 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 5: Did you ever express them to him? The feelings? No, 774 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 5: you never said to him, Look, I'm really into you. 775 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 5: I'd really like this to be more of now you 776 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 5: didn't want to scare him away? 777 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, you send him cookies everything. 778 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,719 Speaker 1: Well, maybe he knew that. Did you send me that 779 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,799 Speaker 1: big cookie? Was that from you? That cookie cake? 780 00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 3: I wish, but I want to say, this is what 781 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,319 Speaker 3: This is the only advice that I would give your 782 00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 3: friend because I don't really have experience with this, but 783 00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 3: I have, I think, had strong feelings. Like Tanya said, 784 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 3: like to someone that you were just connected to but 785 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 3: couldn't get away from. It's so much better to get 786 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 3: away and try to experience something that's not Do. 787 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: You want the whole loaf, you don't want crumbs? Right? 788 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:58,439 Speaker 4: That was the line of the day. 789 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 3: And I think it's it's worth exploring other options to 790 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 3: look for the loaf rather than like just always just 791 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,439 Speaker 3: getting a little bit here and there. 792 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 1: So that's what I tell you. 793 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 3: You know what, tell your friend quit with the bread crumbs, 794 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 3: look for the whole loaf. 795 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 4: You want the loaf. 796 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 1: Crumbs. 797 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 4: Wow, I learned so much in this podcast. 798 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 5: Well, Anonymous is in a similar situation, but she's found 799 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 5: the loaf with somebody else, but she can't stop thinking 800 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 5: about the crumbs. She's in a your relationship with the mature, 801 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 5: fun kind, smart, well spoken, and overall good guy. He 802 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 5: treats me like a princess. We have the same interests 803 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,919 Speaker 5: and passions, we have the same love languages. I've only 804 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 5: ever dreamed of a relationship like this, But recently I 805 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,320 Speaker 5: started thinking about my ex a lot all the time. 806 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 5: Can't get him off my mind. We've been on and 807 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 5: off for two years or so. The recent breakup was 808 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 5: a few months ago. We grew up together. He's been 809 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 5: my best friend for over ten years plus. We got 810 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,279 Speaker 5: really serious physically and emotionally. He told me he loved 811 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 5: me multiple times. A definition of my type. Good looking, immature, jealous, 812 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 5: way too flirty, and less than I deserve. My question 813 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 5: is Why am I thinking about him again? I look 814 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 5: at his social media, I think about texting him, I 815 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 5: randomly think about him all through the day. Is it 816 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 5: because we have that history or is their unfinished business? 817 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 5: Maybe I'm always going to be more attracted to the 818 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 5: guys that are emotionally unavailable or guys that are a challenge, 819 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,359 Speaker 5: Or maybe I'm trying to destroy my new relationship because 820 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,040 Speaker 5: it's too good to be true. I'm not a relationship person. 821 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm just of what this relationship 822 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 5: could be or what the problem is. Help. I'm twenty three. 823 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 5: Oh and I love this. PS. I know hearing your 824 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 5: podcast is the best part of my week is probably 825 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 5: as redundant as Chris Harrison saying this is the most 826 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 5: dramatic season in Bachelor history. But your podcast really is 827 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:47,879 Speaker 5: the highlight of my week. 828 00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: Oh, I love that. 829 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 3: Ugh, I feel I just like this is so frustrating 830 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,919 Speaker 3: to me to be first of all, I do want 831 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 3: to say, someone who is great on paper and they 832 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 3: check off all the boxes you want and it's everything 833 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 3: you dreamed of a relationship would be doesn't always mean 834 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 3: they're the right one for exactly. There's this something that 835 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 3: you can't put on paper that is very important, and 836 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 3: I think it gets over I don't know, like overlooked 837 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 3: a lot, because like you're thinking, Oh, this guy's so 838 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,640 Speaker 3: great to mean, he's so wonderful and he has everything 839 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 3: I'm looking for if I were to describe what I'm 840 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,479 Speaker 3: looking for. But then there's something that you're still thinking 841 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 3: about your ex who wasn't good for you. 842 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 6: So I looked at this as anonymous a little bit 843 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 6: of self sabotage. I think this is a little bit 844 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 6: of like, you're in a really great love, you're in 845 00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 6: a really great relationship in a really great space, and 846 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 6: you keep like thinking of this bad X. And it's 847 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,399 Speaker 6: almost because I think you're so scared that it's such 848 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,280 Speaker 6: a good relationship that you want to ruin it before 849 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 6: it can ruin you. 850 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 5: Why do we do that? Do we feel like we 851 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,279 Speaker 5: don't deserve that, or do we feel like it's going 852 00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 5: to end poorly so. 853 00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 4: We're saving ourselves? 854 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 5: Are Yeah, yah. 855 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 3: I wonder what happened because being best friends for ten years, 856 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,760 Speaker 3: like you grow to really feel safe with a person 857 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 3: who has that role in your life, and to have 858 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 3: him tell her he loved her. I'm interested to know 859 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:21,120 Speaker 3: what happened, because I mean, he was jealous and lesson 860 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 3: she deserves she said immature, But she's twenty three, so 861 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 3: if they're the same age, he might be just in 862 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 3: a place. I mean, I don't want to make excuses 863 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,920 Speaker 3: for him because I don't know what happened. But maybe 864 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 3: he needs to grow up. Maybe he is the person. 865 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 3: I mean, who knows in a few years, once you know, 866 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 3: he gets some things out of his system, if he'll 867 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,480 Speaker 3: be ready. But I don't think you should wait around 868 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,360 Speaker 3: and give him any more of your time and. 869 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 1: Energy. 870 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 4: I mean, it is so tricky. 871 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 5: So, Becky, your point is that just because a guy 872 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 5: is amazing doesn't mean he's your guy. 873 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean I have first hand experience with that, right, 874 00:39:58,160 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 3: like that you're both. 875 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,320 Speaker 5: There, Yeah yeah right. A guy that checks every box, 876 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,359 Speaker 5: super handsome, super attentive, treat you like a princess, that's 877 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 5: not for everybody necessarily, that's not your guy. Definitely. You know, 878 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 5: just because he checks the box, it doesn't mean he's 879 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 5: the guy. Yeah, So you're saying, maybe this other guy 880 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 5: is the guy. Maybe there is unfinished business here. He 881 00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 5: just needs to kind of figure out who he is. 882 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:18,879 Speaker 5: Because guys takes so long to match. 883 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: I do. 884 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 3: I do think that could be the case, But I 885 00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:24,239 Speaker 3: also don't think she should wait around, waiting for him 886 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 3: to mature and like give him the satisfaction of being around. 887 00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 3: I think she needs to move on and do her 888 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 3: own thing, but I don't know if necessarily just because 889 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 3: the relationship she's in is so great, if she settles 890 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 3: for something that doesn't make her feel alive like in 891 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 3: the relationship. 892 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 6: It's interesting because I feel like her head's telling her 893 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 6: one thing and her heart's telling her another, and I 894 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 6: don't know which one. Like which one do you listen to? 895 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 6: It's actually a very interesting question that I had about 896 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 6: the Bachelor, because I feel like his head told him 897 00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 6: one and his heart was telling you the other, and 898 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 6: he made the mistas. 899 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: This is actually like Aiden and Big on sex and 900 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: the city. Aiden was, this. 901 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 4: Guy, Yah might as well. 902 00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,280 Speaker 3: And then this guy is is big and maybe big 903 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 3: and if this big in a few years will be 904 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 3: ready for the big love. But she's with Aiden, who 905 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:17,840 Speaker 3: she knows she's supposed to. 906 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,920 Speaker 4: But Carrie ending up with Aiden would have been everything. 907 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 1: I know I loved him. 908 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:25,879 Speaker 5: Is this a sign that this current guy is not her? Guy. 909 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:27,839 Speaker 5: The fact that she's thinking about the X so much. 910 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:29,799 Speaker 1: What do you do when you can't? I mean, how 911 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 1: do you you don't? You can't. How do you train 912 00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,040 Speaker 1: yourself not to think about something? 913 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 3: First of all, you can't look at his You can't 914 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:41,280 Speaker 3: look at what he's doing, Like you need to something. 915 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 6: Like self like meditation and like actually like really thinking 916 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,399 Speaker 6: and like praying about what's really going on. I don't 917 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 6: think it's so much the guy as like, what's something 918 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,359 Speaker 6: that's going on. 919 00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 4: In her head? 920 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 1: Interesting? 921 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 4: I do I think that it's more her. 922 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 1: I mean I would. 923 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 3: My advice would be, don't look at his social media, 924 00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 3: don't text him, delete his number, maybe even block him, 925 00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,719 Speaker 3: even if that seems dramatic. But if you really want 926 00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 3: to get over him then and he's not good for 927 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 3: you right now, then you need to like get him 928 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 3: out of your life, out of sight, out of mind. 929 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 1: That's so true, so true. 930 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,919 Speaker 3: Like when you look at stuff and see what they're doing, 931 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,400 Speaker 3: it makes your mind go in so many different directions, 932 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 3: especially when you see them out with like girls and stuff, 933 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 3: and you're like, who. 934 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,080 Speaker 1: Is he with? What is he doing? And then you're like, 935 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: I don't have the right to care. 936 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 6: Oh, no, I I can go deep into like he's here, 937 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,399 Speaker 6: he's with this friend. This friend's single, so that means 938 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,040 Speaker 6: he went there, he went to this bar. Oh, they're 939 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 6: with these girls. I know them from college. That girl's like, 940 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 6: I mean, I can overanalyze to the tenth degree. 941 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, and that's not fair to the current guy you're 942 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,959 Speaker 5: with either, you should be no. Yeah, yeah, a couple 943 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 5: more quikies. Okay, we said the word squirm a lot 944 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 5: last week, and Hannah would like to know what the 945 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,840 Speaker 5: hell does squirm mean? I even Urban dictionaried it. Nothing 946 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 5: on there made sense. Why do I suddenly feel too 947 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,280 Speaker 5: old to listen to your podcast? I'm twenty seven? No, 948 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,480 Speaker 5: I love you all. Okay. 949 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,360 Speaker 3: I have a lot of terms that are like my 950 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 3: own and that I use with some of my friends 951 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 3: that aren't Urban dictionary able or like definable, just only 952 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 3: through me. Squirm is when someone's like kind of shady 953 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,720 Speaker 3: and like a little bit sneaky, like Tanya was no, and. 954 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,840 Speaker 6: Like I know what that term means because I know 955 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,239 Speaker 6: Becca and like every person that I associate that word 956 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,520 Speaker 6: with like literally like freaks me out. And so when 957 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 6: she called me a squirm, that's why I took it 958 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:32,319 Speaker 6: so offensively because I know how bad Like I'm like, 959 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,120 Speaker 6: I was not squirm, I was like maybe like, No, 960 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,320 Speaker 6: I wasn't even okay. 961 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 5: You were shady? 962 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 1: Yeah you were. And my word for shady a squirm. 963 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 5: Yes, you were supposed to go out with Becca, you 964 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 5: didn't go and then you went out with Harris. 965 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 3: No, she denied going out with me, but she went 966 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,799 Speaker 3: out with her other friends because she but she was 967 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,240 Speaker 3: gonna stay in because of her cold. 968 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,879 Speaker 1: No squirm, yeahirm. 969 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 5: That Carrie wants you to date Bobby Bow And I've 970 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,239 Speaker 5: seen some of this on social media. Bobby Bones is 971 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 5: an iHeartRadio DJ country DJ somewhere Nashville, and he's been 972 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 5: in town because he's working with American Idol. And he 973 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 5: liked one of Tanya's Instagram stories and that's a big picture. 974 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 5: So I pictures and that's a big deal because according 975 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:21,000 Speaker 5: to this person, he is very scarce with his likes. 976 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,880 Speaker 1: Oh, very scarce. She like really like follows, follows. 977 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 5: Have you met Bobby Bones? 978 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:27,399 Speaker 3: Yeah? 979 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,399 Speaker 5: What do you think? Is there any kind of sparked there? 980 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:30,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I think he's cute, but I think he 981 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:31,960 Speaker 4: lives in Nashville. 982 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 5: If he asked you on a date, you would go. 983 00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, way, he's cute. I've seen I've met him at 984 00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 1: one of those shows. 985 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:38,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's super cute. 986 00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, Bobby Bones, I. 987 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,240 Speaker 4: Sent him the this email. 988 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:43,799 Speaker 5: Oh you did? 989 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:44,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? 990 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 4: Oh, and he said. 991 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, that was a little like uh he said something 992 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:52,399 Speaker 6: like she is right, I don't throw those likes out 993 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 6: very often, or something about the. 994 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 5: Response. 995 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,920 Speaker 3: I was thinking, you know what's so funny this weekend 996 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:01,400 Speaker 3: I was I can't remember who. 997 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,480 Speaker 1: I was looking at. Some country singer. 998 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:10,400 Speaker 3: No, not Brett Oh, but anyways, I thought Tanya should 999 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:11,879 Speaker 3: be with a country singer. 1000 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 1: Because that's pretty good because she. 1001 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,880 Speaker 3: Doesn't really love country music, but I feel like she 1002 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 3: likes Rascal Flats and she likes some enough that she 1003 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 3: could hang. But it almost feel like such a different 1004 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,560 Speaker 3: I feel like could balance her. 1005 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,720 Speaker 5: The musicians, but they're also more wholesome thing down to earth. 1006 00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:30,560 Speaker 5: Some are religious, like. 1007 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:35,160 Speaker 1: That love their moms. Yeah, bring you home to Mama. 1008 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, Tanya Bones has a nice Oh wait. 1009 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 6: I do think we should also address the rumors that 1010 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 6: are out about Becca Oh yeah, oh yeah. 1011 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,719 Speaker 1: Around My dad called me and was. 1012 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,920 Speaker 3: Like, are you going to be the bachelortte of like 1013 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 3: don't you think you would know about that. I've been 1014 00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,839 Speaker 3: seeing this article, and I've seen it from a lot 1015 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,919 Speaker 3: of people. I've been tagged in it a lot about 1016 00:45:59,000 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 3: me that. 1017 00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,359 Speaker 6: They've been tagged in, So I can't even imagine how 1018 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 6: many people are taking you in it. 1019 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's about me being the Bachelorette, and I 1020 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 3: don't know. I did a media tour and a lot 1021 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 3: of people ask me if I would be open to it, 1022 00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 3: and I kind of was like no, because that's my 1023 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,040 Speaker 3: initial reaction. But I was like never saying ever, you know, 1024 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 3: who knows what happens. First of all, I don't think 1025 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,960 Speaker 3: that they would ask me. Second of all, I'm like 1026 00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,399 Speaker 3: not emotionally available enough to be the Bachelorette right now. 1027 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 3: So let me just say, if I did the Bachelorette, 1028 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 3: I would only be doing it for like money and 1029 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 3: like to be like to advance myself, and so I'm 1030 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,960 Speaker 3: not doing it right now. So if I ever do it, 1031 00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:38,480 Speaker 3: I'd want to be in a place where I was 1032 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 3: like like like ready looking for someone right actiically firm 1033 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,640 Speaker 3: you've not been approached. I haven't talked to a producer 1034 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:48,439 Speaker 3: from the Bachelor in like a year. 1035 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,080 Speaker 5: I think this comes from the fact that there's a 1036 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,480 Speaker 5: Becca on the show now that is probably going to 1037 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,280 Speaker 5: be the next bachelorette, and that's why here's confusion. 1038 00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:57,120 Speaker 4: That's what I thought. 1039 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 3: I'm so confused. I have no idea where it came from. 1040 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,919 Speaker 3: I literally everyone that's asked me and they're like, I'm 1041 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,440 Speaker 3: sure they've talked to you, right, I'm like, honestly, you 1042 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 3: can look at my text. Haven't talked to a producer 1043 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 3: from the show. 1044 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 4: I know I didn't. 1045 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 6: I was like, when I saw the article, I was like, 1046 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:11,880 Speaker 6: I feel like she would mention it to me. 1047 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I love that. 1048 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,360 Speaker 3: Everyone closest to me thinks I'm like this super duper 1049 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 3: secret keeper her best friend. 1050 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 5: But you see the article and you think no. 1051 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:25,320 Speaker 6: I think I totally blew it off until Ashley I 1052 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,840 Speaker 6: was like, are you going to be the Bachelrette? 1053 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,160 Speaker 1: And I came over and she was like, you are 1054 00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: going to be honest. 1055 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:31,799 Speaker 4: She was so convinced that it was Beca that I 1056 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:35,520 Speaker 4: was like, DoD. 1057 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 5: They dip into previous bachelor's much. It seems like they 1058 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:39,799 Speaker 5: always go from the most recent. 1059 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I would think after how this one's gone 1060 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,280 Speaker 3: with them dipping back into like getting arid. From past seasons, 1061 00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 3: I don't think it's been that great or successful, so 1062 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,560 Speaker 3: I don't know that they'd take that chance again. I 1063 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 3: would be a big risk for them, and I think 1064 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 3: they are fully aware of that. 1065 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love if you were the Bachelorette. 1066 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to get to you on the Bachelor. 1067 00:47:59,239 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: I would Bachelor. 1068 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 6: I was just like, selfishly, I feel like they'll probably 1069 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 6: give you a good crop of guys and you only 1070 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 6: pick one, so all that would be like a good yeah, 1071 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:06,839 Speaker 6: but I. 1072 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,400 Speaker 3: Have to go on dates with I'd have to go 1073 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,160 Speaker 3: on dates with like a bunch that I had no 1074 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 3: interest in, just for the sake of the show, And 1075 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,080 Speaker 3: I would be so bad at just being like. 1076 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, tell me more, Yeah, tell me more. 1077 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 3: I'm really interested, Like I can barely go on one 1078 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 3: day ever, and then they're like putting me on a 1079 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 3: show with twenty five guys to try to date. 1080 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, there's such a good chance you're gonna be like, 1081 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 5: I don't like either of you guys. 1082 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,840 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm sorry that y'all were the best, but 1083 00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:32,799 Speaker 3: y'all still are not. 1084 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 1: The dream. Ending. 1085 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,600 Speaker 5: I wanted to ask you about this book Bachelor Nation 1086 00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 5: by Amy Kaufman. That's out right now. 1087 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:42,959 Speaker 1: Oh yeah. 1088 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 5: It just talks about going through the process of getting 1089 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 5: on the show, and I want to see if you 1090 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,399 Speaker 5: did all this stuff if it's changed. First you fill 1091 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,400 Speaker 5: out the application and then you submit a video. 1092 00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 1: I did not submit a video. 1093 00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:56,160 Speaker 3: My friend nominated me, so I went and I went 1094 00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 3: and interviewed Laura. 1095 00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1096 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 3: Shout out to Laura, who's been my best for INDs 1097 00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,480 Speaker 3: since freshman year of high school and pretty much the 1098 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 3: reason I'm here is because of her. 1099 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,680 Speaker 5: Oh that's nice. Did you take a one hundred and 1100 00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 5: fifty question personality test with questions like do you think 1101 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 5: you can control things with your mind? And have you 1102 00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,200 Speaker 5: ever wanted to kill someone? 1103 00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: Yes? 1104 00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:15,440 Speaker 4: Oh wow. 1105 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 1: The first question was do you like machinery? 1106 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:23,480 Speaker 3: It was like, do you enjoy machinery articles or something? 1107 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 3: I was like, like, what, that's like an article about 1108 00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:27,280 Speaker 3: machines or something. 1109 00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, it was something weird. 1110 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. Then you meet with producers, and then you meet 1111 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 5: with a therapist yep, and then a doctor yep. And 1112 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,200 Speaker 5: then they say that the number one reason contestants are 1113 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,879 Speaker 5: rejected at that point of the process is in town. 1114 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,400 Speaker 5: You know, what this already, because we did it with 1115 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:46,200 Speaker 5: Seacrest this morning. Herpes. Oh, that's a big narrowing of 1116 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,360 Speaker 5: the field at this point. 1117 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 1: They don't let him in. 1118 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,440 Speaker 5: They don't let them. And they said a lot of 1119 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 5: girls didn't know they had herpes until they take the 1120 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 5: test with the Bachelor and they say, sorry, because of 1121 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 5: your medical condition, you can't. They said, what medical condition? 1122 00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:59,400 Speaker 5: They say, you know what. You need to go talk. 1123 00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:02,760 Speaker 1: See angry. 1124 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 5: Then you sign a contract that says you'll be filmed 1125 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,239 Speaker 5: twenty four to seven with no expectation of privacy. You're 1126 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:11,240 Speaker 5: not allowed to leave the property, listen to music, read books, 1127 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:12,320 Speaker 5: or catch up on the news. 1128 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 3: I think they I think they had books, no news. 1129 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 5: Wellhy wouldn't be able to read a book. I mean, 1130 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 5: you gotta do something. 1131 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,200 Speaker 2: Because you have to think about the batchel. 1132 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,560 Speaker 1: A lot of people journaled. Yeah, I tried my I 1133 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,720 Speaker 1: wish I had my journal. 1134 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,400 Speaker 3: It was so it was like roast ceremony today, yay, 1135 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,880 Speaker 3: really tired, haven't slept? I wish I could, literally I 1136 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 3: wish you're gonna have talk about And then I'm like, 1137 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 3: this is not what people are like. 1138 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 1: If I bring this out again one day, it's gonna 1139 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,600 Speaker 1: be like, why I still have it? I might I 1140 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: have to go through and see if I can find it. 1141 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 5: Well, we've been waiting for you to bring pop tarts 1142 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:47,320 Speaker 5: in for six weeks. 1143 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but this is the thing. 1144 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 3: I'm not bringing the pop tart until I can get 1145 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 3: the new one that the limited edition that they just 1146 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:57,040 Speaker 3: brought back. Okay, I might have to go to the 1147 00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,160 Speaker 3: website and order. I'm straight from the site. 1148 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 5: I want to bring it. Ajournal. That would be a 1149 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 5: very interesting read. 1150 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,440 Speaker 4: I think I had a journal. I think I started 1151 00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:05,360 Speaker 4: a journal when. 1152 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 5: The breakout. 1153 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, bring that. 1154 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 6: Let's bring in that might be dark, it's probably super dark. 1155 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 6: It's probably wet from all my tears. 1156 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:15,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1157 00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 4: Literally the academy of like. 1158 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,520 Speaker 3: I can just picture to like say yeah, like sad 1159 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:28,720 Speaker 3: pop music, like tears. 1160 00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: Streaming down her face. 1161 00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,080 Speaker 6: I'm the girl that like looks in the mirror when 1162 00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 6: I'm crying, and I'm. 1163 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:38,680 Speaker 1: Like, why cry so ugly? No one's ever gonna lost 1164 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 1: picture you like cry looking in the mirror and then 1165 00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,759 Speaker 1: being like like. 1166 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,600 Speaker 3: Cleaning yourself up as you're looking. But get it together. 1167 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:48,600 Speaker 3: You're awesome. 1168 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:53,319 Speaker 1: You can do so much better, like Pep talks through 1169 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 1: the tears. 1170 00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 5: Quick when quick back email from Aaron, she remembers you, 1171 00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,799 Speaker 5: saying you unfollowed Robert on Instagram, but then she noticed 1172 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,359 Speaker 5: you'd like the picture of his a few weeks ago, 1173 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:07,360 Speaker 5: so she needs answers. 1174 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 3: Oh, it was just like a really sweet. 1175 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,400 Speaker 4: I think Her question is more, why did I like it? Well, 1176 00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 4: you're not following him, so how did you see it? 1177 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:21,480 Speaker 3: Well, it's always on my Discover page, like he's always 1178 00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:22,120 Speaker 3: on there, so. 1179 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:23,960 Speaker 5: You still currently don't follow Robert. 1180 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,319 Speaker 3: I don't follow him, but I saw that post. I 1181 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 3: have no hard feelings towards him, so like seeing something 1182 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,160 Speaker 3: like that. He did something that was really sweet, So 1183 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,399 Speaker 3: I liked it, Like I didn't like the Wait, did 1184 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:37,360 Speaker 3: I like the one where he was shirtless. 1185 00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 1: Coming out of the water. Nope, didn't like that one. 1186 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 1: I liked it, but I didn't like it. I liked it, 1187 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,000 Speaker 1: but no double. 1188 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:46,080 Speaker 3: Eric. 1189 00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 5: She says, love you guys, and thanks for making my 1190 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,920 Speaker 5: drives to work way more enjoyable. I feel like you 1191 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 5: guys are my best friends. Feel this and can you 1192 00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:54,600 Speaker 5: please make a Facebook group page for your listeners? 1193 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 1: Aaron, I hope you're there. Yeah. 1194 00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 5: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly, can you tell us real 1195 00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:01,920 Speaker 5: quickly fab fit Fun and then we will text somebody 1196 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:02,320 Speaker 5: on Tanya. 1197 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 1: Of course I can talk about fat fit Fun. Are 1198 00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: you kidding me? 1199 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 3: Fatfit Fun is a subscription box that's seasonal and it 1200 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:16,240 Speaker 3: has full sized beauty, fitness and lifestyle products. So their boxes. 1201 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:20,239 Speaker 1: Lately have been on point point. They've been so good. 1202 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 1: Their spring box is no different. 1203 00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,800 Speaker 3: They have a free people imass that have seen everyone 1204 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 3: posting about, Yeah, Anderson, Lily candle. 1205 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 1: I love candles. 1206 00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 3: They have Murad moisturizer, which is amazing, and that's just 1207 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,280 Speaker 3: a few of the things. 1208 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,440 Speaker 1: Don't miss out. They sell out super fast. 1209 00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,279 Speaker 3: So the box retails for forty nine to ninety nine 1210 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,759 Speaker 3: but always has a value over two hundred dollars. And 1211 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,360 Speaker 3: if you just those products alone that I listed are 1212 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 3: probably around two hundred. 1213 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:48,799 Speaker 9: That's like, I'm really bad at math, but that's like, 1214 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,359 Speaker 9: that's one hundred and fifty dollars percent off. No, that's 1215 00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,479 Speaker 9: more yeah, seventy five. Yeah, Yeah, a good deal. 1216 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,719 Speaker 3: So some of the people that you probably see using them, 1217 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 3: Chloe Kardashian, Bethany Frankel, Martina McBride, Zipsin, i Usha Curry, 1218 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:10,439 Speaker 3: and there's so many more. I mean you probably see 1219 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,719 Speaker 3: it everywhere. The spring box is available now, so sign 1220 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:14,799 Speaker 3: up before they sell out. 1221 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,080 Speaker 6: And there's a lot of Kate Summerville in the fat 1222 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:18,720 Speaker 6: Fun boxes. 1223 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, they have a lot of good skincare products, which 1224 00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:24,040 Speaker 3: skincare is expensive, Like just having. 1225 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:25,960 Speaker 1: These products alone is a real win. 1226 00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 3: So they have fashion items, beauty products from Tart, Moroccan oil, Chia, 1227 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 3: so many good products. 1228 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 4: I use Moroccan oil on my hair every day every day. 1229 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 4: It's so glossy, it smells nice. 1230 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:44,280 Speaker 3: And the is lip palette, the Physique fifty seven massage. 1231 00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,799 Speaker 1: Roller, which is a lot of people rolling out their 1232 00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:46,440 Speaker 1: muscles on that. 1233 00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:51,000 Speaker 3: This box specifically has like a really really good list 1234 00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,239 Speaker 3: of products, so don't miss out. 1235 00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 4: So what do they have to do? 1236 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 3: Okay, so all you have to do you go to 1237 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 3: www dot fatfitfund dot com use hold Becca. You can 1238 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,719 Speaker 3: save ten dollars off your first box, making it only 1239 00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 3: thirty nine ninety nine. 1240 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:06,759 Speaker 4: That's like seventy eight. 1241 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:11,799 Speaker 3: Let's not let talk you do math. You deserve to 1242 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:15,080 Speaker 3: treat yourself again. That's fat at fund dot com and 1243 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 3: use the code Becca. 1244 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,279 Speaker 5: That that's really good. 1245 00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:20,000 Speaker 4: It's beautiful. 1246 00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:21,439 Speaker 5: By the way we did to get some people asking 1247 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,480 Speaker 5: about the Tim Tebow situation. Now and there's been no 1248 00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:25,160 Speaker 5: new contract. 1249 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,239 Speaker 1: Oh until now. 1250 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 4: Well, no, there's still no nuke. 1251 00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, sorry, here's my phone. There's no new contact. 1252 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:34,120 Speaker 6: But we did have a new discovery. 1253 00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 5: Oh from a listener, right from a listener of this podcast. 1254 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 4: And this is the crazy. So I don't even know 1255 00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 4: if I told you this. What are you doing? Do 1256 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 4: you need your phone doing? To pull his number? 1257 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,799 Speaker 1: I got it? How to search what was you in 1258 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,520 Speaker 1: love in my life? Tim? 1259 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 6: Hashtag future husband l O V E t BO. So 1260 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,680 Speaker 6: this listener posted a picture that I had apparently posted. 1261 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:03,440 Speaker 6: But listen to this, Okay, February fourteenth of twenty twelve, 1262 00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:07,520 Speaker 6: I think balance Valentine's Day, and he called in to 1263 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:12,320 Speaker 6: the Ryan Seacrest Morning Show on February fourteenth, twenty eighteen. 1264 00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:16,080 Speaker 1: That is so crazy? Is that not crazy? Actually? 1265 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,439 Speaker 4: The sadder thing is that I don't even remember meeting him. 1266 00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,160 Speaker 5: That is kind of sad. But I like to point 1267 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,880 Speaker 5: out that both of those days are Valentine's Day, Like 1268 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:23,920 Speaker 5: there's something in the air. 1269 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:24,919 Speaker 4: There's something there. 1270 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 6: But so I apparently interviewed him at a red carpet 1271 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,640 Speaker 6: and I didn't remember what it was until I did 1272 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:30,120 Speaker 6: some digging. 1273 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,960 Speaker 4: What was Act of Valor? 1274 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:36,400 Speaker 6: It was like, oh, this random carpet that I worked and. 1275 00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:37,000 Speaker 4: He was there? 1276 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,600 Speaker 1: Was that the one with Chris Hemsworth in it? 1277 00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 4: No, it was like, oh, I don't know. 1278 00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,919 Speaker 1: Or Liam Hemsworth. I feel like a Hymnsworth brother. Wasn't that? 1279 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:49,680 Speaker 6: But this was like right when I started on the 1280 00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 6: morning show, and I think he was probably one of 1281 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:53,400 Speaker 6: the first people I ever talked to. 1282 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,239 Speaker 4: Wait, you're not going to send it, are you? 1283 00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 1: Oh? 1284 00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,839 Speaker 5: Becca, there are no in that. No. 1285 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,240 Speaker 4: Hams was first of all, you have to run a bias. 1286 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:02,920 Speaker 5: I can't tell you ahead. 1287 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:06,760 Speaker 3: Okay, So I am texting Tim from yeah, oh great, 1288 00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:11,520 Speaker 3: and I'm sending the photo and I'm gonna say, that's 1289 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 3: so creepy. Look what someone just tagged me in. This 1290 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:17,560 Speaker 3: was six years or when was it twenty twelve? 1291 00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:18,360 Speaker 4: That's creepy. 1292 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,000 Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna say, I hope you're. 1293 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 5: Doing well, shaking his head. 1294 00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 1: It's creepy. 1295 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:26,680 Speaker 2: I say, it's not creepy. 1296 00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 5: I say, do it. 1297 00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1298 00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 5: Well, look, it's not for you to judge this is. 1299 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,760 Speaker 3: This is not going to be like anything that destroys. 1300 00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 3: If anything, I think it's like cute and like, oh. 1301 00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,360 Speaker 1: My gosh, what the heck we've already met. 1302 00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 6: Or he's gonna be like this creepy stalker from ten 1303 00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:43,360 Speaker 6: years ago. 1304 00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 5: Honestly, I think it's okay. I do read it again. 1305 00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 5: What are you writing back? 1306 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 3: I say in there, Yeah, look what someone tagged me 1307 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:51,520 Speaker 3: in the other day. 1308 00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:54,400 Speaker 1: This was from six years ago. Hope you're doing well. 1309 00:57:55,080 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, you should be thinking he Honestly, I think it's great. Yeah, Erica, 1310 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:02,760 Speaker 5: you don't like it. 1311 00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 1: It just freaks me out. 1312 00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 4: Why because it's like I've been watching you. 1313 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:08,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like. 1314 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 7: Becka is saying, look what someone tagged me in, like 1315 00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 7: someone else brought it to her attention. Just yes, putting 1316 00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 7: the soccer blame on somebody. 1317 00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, And he was on our radio show, so 1318 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 5: it doesn't show that she's talking about him all the time. 1319 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,120 Speaker 5: It just means a listener who heard him on the 1320 00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:26,280 Speaker 5: show tagged them in. I think it's fine. 1321 00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:32,600 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, unfortunately I have the power here. 1322 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 5: So you do, and you are wielding it. 1323 00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 1: I said, look what someone tagged me the other day. Haha. 1324 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:40,880 Speaker 1: I hope you're doing well with the picture. 1325 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 5: You're not saying this is six years ago. 1326 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, and the one that they posted a photo group, 1327 00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 6: it's like so creepy because it's like I posted it 1328 00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:48,120 Speaker 6: in and it. 1329 00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:49,840 Speaker 4: Was like I love hot guys or. 1330 00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:53,080 Speaker 5: Something, soid oh, yeah, your original post was I'm not 1331 00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:55,640 Speaker 5: a big football fan, but I'm a good looking. 1332 00:58:55,400 --> 00:59:00,440 Speaker 3: Guy fan, and like you're mad at me for sending 1333 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 3: this chill text and that it's so embarrassing. 1334 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,760 Speaker 4: I am so embarrassing, Like that should be my middle thing. 1335 00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:11,360 Speaker 4: Match with any guys in baron Riyah. Yeah, but. 1336 00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,000 Speaker 1: This is so good for you. I feel good. 1337 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:24,440 Speaker 5: It's good to re establish Tim's out there flor creepy. 1338 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 1: I don't think it's creepy at all. 1339 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 3: Creepy is getting a cookie cake sent to you with 1340 00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 3: no note waiting. 1341 00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 6: By the way, I let Becca like take my Raya 1342 00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,760 Speaker 6: and yeah, like how's that going? Dig with like whatever, 1343 00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:37,760 Speaker 6: match with some guys and like respond whatever, And I 1344 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 6: forgot that we had done that, And so I was 1345 00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,640 Speaker 6: on my Raya Saturday night and I was like matched 1346 00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:45,040 Speaker 6: with all these new matches and like I. 1347 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,640 Speaker 1: Was like they were cute too. I got her some 1348 00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 1: good ones. 1349 00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I just went for you know, she doesn't 1350 00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,320 Speaker 3: un listen to country singer Tim Tebow. 1351 00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,360 Speaker 1: I don't like famous is. 1352 00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 4: Not the move for me, okay, but I do like 1353 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:00,680 Speaker 4: the interestinger thing. 1354 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:02,439 Speaker 5: Have you pursued any of the guys that she matched 1355 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:02,680 Speaker 5: you with? 1356 01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:06,720 Speaker 4: And reyah Aksha? 1357 01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 1: Sorry? 1358 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 5: Word is that a person's name? Okay? 1359 01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,880 Speaker 1: I did not match with this guy? Oh you don't know. 1360 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, I did not match with anyone named a couch. 1361 01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:21,959 Speaker 6: This guy, he said, I have a super important question 1362 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:23,720 Speaker 6: for you, and then you never followed up. 1363 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:25,360 Speaker 4: You respond he said, what is it? 1364 01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:25,880 Speaker 5: Brad? 1365 01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,160 Speaker 4: Brad, this guy with the glass. 1366 01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked him, he said, Brad ask the question? Well, 1367 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,439 Speaker 1: actually it was the night of Grace. I was going, 1368 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:34,720 Speaker 1: did you see the Grays? 1369 01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:36,280 Speaker 3: Oh? 1370 01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:38,000 Speaker 5: We never talked about the Gray's Anatomy episode? 1371 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 1: What there to talk about? 1372 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 3: Although, although I am excited about the news show because 1373 01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,080 Speaker 3: even if it's just for the first few seasons, I 1374 01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 3: can stand behind behind anything that comes from Shonda Rhimes 1375 01:00:51,360 --> 01:00:52,400 Speaker 3: and probably think it's great. 1376 01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 4: Did you watch the first episode? 1377 01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,360 Speaker 1: It was a crossover. Did you not watch Grace? 1378 01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,800 Speaker 4: I did? Oh, so that's their first episode. 1379 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I wasn't like their official episode, but it 1380 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 3: was like introducing you to the characters. 1381 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:03,320 Speaker 5: The woman. 1382 01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:06,439 Speaker 1: And I like her. 1383 01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:07,520 Speaker 5: She's a major character. 1384 01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:10,520 Speaker 1: She's going to be the heroine of the show. 1385 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 4: She's gonna be the. 1386 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,959 Speaker 3: No, She's gonna be the Meredith Ray. Just to bring 1387 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 3: it more. Yeah, I'm so sad running the podcast. 1388 01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:26,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to give it a few more minutes of 1389 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,720 Speaker 1: Tim responds, I'm. 1390 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 5: Like, we're going to go along with the three dots? 1391 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 5: Can you just keep us posted on the situation? 1392 01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 1: What is he doing right now? Training for what I 1393 01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:39,919 Speaker 1: just dever he might be playing right now? 1394 01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 6: Okay, you guys, just looking at the text makes me 1395 01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:45,280 Speaker 6: so uncomfortable. 1396 01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 3: Why, like, how in the world, with your history of texting, 1397 01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:56,640 Speaker 3: are you nervous about a text icent when you've posted 1398 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 3: that photo saying I'm not a I'm not. 1399 01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 1: A football fan, am, But. 1400 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,280 Speaker 3: You should be thinking me that I won that Gray's 1401 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 3: Anatomy quiz, you know what? 1402 01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,680 Speaker 1: Speaking of? Like, I dominated that thing last week. 1403 01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,200 Speaker 4: Okay, you were like one really yeah, you. 1404 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:15,160 Speaker 5: Did really want the first. 1405 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,680 Speaker 1: I dominated in the sense that I didn't miss one. 1406 01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,880 Speaker 5: Well, that's true, you went fifteen for fifteen or whatever 1407 01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 5: it was, But you. 1408 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:23,720 Speaker 1: Dominate in the sense I beat her. Biy a lot. 1409 01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:24,200 Speaker 5: That's true. 1410 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 4: Okay, when we're gonna take our friend quiz, yeah. 1411 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 5: We'll do that. 1412 01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 1: It's a quiz I'm gonna do like a you know, well, 1413 01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:32,720 Speaker 1: do you know each other? 1414 01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:34,280 Speaker 5: I probably have one of you leave the room and 1415 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:37,320 Speaker 5: then ask questions about the I like that. 1416 01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, so next week we're doing that. 1417 01:02:39,600 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 5: Tim is done with today's game. 1418 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: He won. 1419 01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:48,960 Speaker 6: You can't see it, No. 1420 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,920 Speaker 1: I have to see it versus my text My palms. 1421 01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 4: My palms are sweating. They're sweating, he said. 1422 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 1: Lo l that's funny. I look like a baby like it. 1423 01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:02,160 Speaker 5: It's good with Davis again, it was dead. There was 1424 01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:03,200 Speaker 5: nothing other something. 1425 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,560 Speaker 1: I keep going. But do I continue it or do 1426 01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:08,640 Speaker 1: I give it a few You can't leave this to me? 1427 01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:10,880 Speaker 4: Leave it in my own hands, and look what happens. 1428 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,000 Speaker 1: I look like a baby, like a baby. 1429 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:20,880 Speaker 2: Baby, I want it. 1430 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 6: Sorry, I was like over here, then go into a 1431 01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:26,440 Speaker 6: dark path that stop myself. 1432 01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:28,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, baby, I want it? 1433 01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:33,920 Speaker 1: Oh God, don't Yeah, you can't give you. 1434 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,800 Speaker 2: Your He didn't ask a question, or I'm engaging. 1435 01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 4: He's probably like, I need this stalker to stop texting. 1436 01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,360 Speaker 5: No, that's not what he's thinking. But he's also not 1437 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:46,080 Speaker 5: keeping it live either Yeah, he's not conversation. 1438 01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I look like a baby. Do we just let him? 1439 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,280 Speaker 3: Uh? Like see if he says something to follow up? 1440 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel like I don't respond to that. 1441 01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:58,320 Speaker 5: If this were you in your situation, I want it. 1442 01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:03,040 Speaker 3: I want to respond like he didn't choose to continue it. True, Tanya, 1443 01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:06,360 Speaker 3: keep those thumbs, discipline, don't go. 1444 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:08,760 Speaker 1: Don't go over there and be like, is that what 1445 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:09,880 Speaker 1: our babies will look like? 1446 01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:13,640 Speaker 4: That would be so cute. 1447 01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:18,160 Speaker 3: Okay, I just want to say a huge thank you 1448 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,000 Speaker 3: to Kelsey and Brittany for being so fun this morning. 1449 01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,360 Speaker 1: That was a great start to our Monday. 1450 01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 5: Maybe that's something we do. 1451 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:27,720 Speaker 1: We just give pregnancy announcements. 1452 01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 5: You got big news and you want us to tell them, 1453 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:31,360 Speaker 5: Yeah we are. 1454 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,560 Speaker 3: That was our first, but we'll not our last, not 1455 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:38,439 Speaker 3: our last. Hopefully keep us in mind for any big 1456 01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:39,360 Speaker 3: news you need to get. 1457 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:40,720 Speaker 4: I mean, I am ordained. 1458 01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're cool. 1459 01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:47,000 Speaker 3: Is we're doing a listener survey. 1460 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, don't you do this for a living? 1461 01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:54,000 Speaker 5: Are you still ordained? Don't you have to renew that 1462 01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:55,760 Speaker 5: every so often like years. 1463 01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:56,640 Speaker 4: For a few years? 1464 01:04:56,640 --> 01:05:00,440 Speaker 3: Oh great, great, that'll really come in here Andy at 1465 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:04,680 Speaker 3: some point. Thank you to all of our sponsors, Bullen Branch, 1466 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:08,640 Speaker 3: Fat Fit, fun in Beach Body, We love you, Thank 1467 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:11,680 Speaker 3: you for listening. Everybody, please go to iTunes, leave us 1468 01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:16,040 Speaker 3: a review five stars, five stars. Keep the emails coming, 1469 01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,000 Speaker 3: we of course love them so much. That's scrubbing in 1470 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,520 Speaker 3: at iHeartMedia dot com. 1471 01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,120 Speaker 1: You want to call it time of death. 1472 01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:24,840 Speaker 4: I just don't want it to be over. 1473 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 1: I know, I know. 1474 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:27,720 Speaker 4: Maybe we can say one more thing. 1475 01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:29,440 Speaker 5: What would you like to say? 1476 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:32,320 Speaker 1: What? 1477 01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 4: Maybe next week we can have Brad on the show. 1478 01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,440 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh Brad Greski. 1479 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,600 Speaker 1: I love BA so fun. 1480 01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 4: I just want to end. I'm just throwing things. 1481 01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:46,600 Speaker 5: That's a funny thing. We had a big meeting last 1482 01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:48,880 Speaker 5: week with a guy who does a lot of podcasts 1483 01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:50,320 Speaker 5: for this company, and one of the things he said 1484 01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 5: is your podcast should never ever be more than forty minutes. 1485 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 5: More than that, you're wasting your time because you got 1486 01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:58,240 Speaker 5: to think of people's commute and people are at the gym. 1487 01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:01,320 Speaker 5: Forty minutes is your maximum podcast? Well, worried about it 1488 01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,160 Speaker 5: an hour ten right now, and we didn't even like 1489 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,640 Speaker 5: think about it. It's just all of a sudden, we're 1490 01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:07,240 Speaker 5: in an hour town. 1491 01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,440 Speaker 4: Well, I feel like we just started started. You even 1492 01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:11,800 Speaker 4: have to call time of death because I can't do 1493 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:12,479 Speaker 4: it all. 1494 01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 3: Right, Time of Death thirteen fifty six, so sad. 1495 01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 5: Next week. 1496 01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,600 Speaker 4: I'm actually like going to your house right now, all right? 1497 01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 4: Oh yeah,