1 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Novel. 2 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: Hey, listener, in this episode there's mentioned a murder, domestic violence, 3 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 2: drug abuse, and a dead body, but I do not 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 2: go into graphic detail. You also hear from a tenacious 5 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: cast of women and friends whose fight for justice is 6 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 2: truly truly inspiring. If you do listen and are impacted 7 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: by any of our themes, you can reach out to 8 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: no More, a domestic violence charity we've partnered with. They 9 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,959 Speaker 2: have lots of great resources to help you or your 10 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: loved ones. You can find them at no More dot org. 11 00:00:50,440 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: That's no More dot org, mindy, a little louder? Hello, perfect, 12 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 2: So we're all on record. Yeah, and there goes your. 13 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 3: Talking them in the car? 14 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: Give me a she's putting her dogs in the car? 15 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 4: Who does that? 16 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 2: Mindy? Yes, Carol, we're starting right now. Are you sitting thankfully? 17 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 5: Yes. 18 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 2: I've learned so much about Gail recently. Gail was this 19 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 2: really educated young woman. She was pretty, she was tiny, 20 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: and she actually reminds me a little bit of me. 21 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 3: That does sound like you, Smart and petitte and attractive. 22 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: You know what else she had in common with us? 23 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 2: With you and I and our women friends? 24 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 3: Dark haired? Which Jewish women. 25 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: Besides dark haired Jewish women with great personalities. She not 26 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 2: only thought, she believed that she could fix him and 27 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 2: you and I've been there with men. 28 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 3: I can relate to that. But I don't think I 29 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: can fix them. I think I can fix me to 30 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 3: adapt to them. And I wonder who was fixing whom here. 31 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: That's a great point. 32 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 5: You know. 33 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: The other thing I'm not proud of is that I'm 34 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: not happy with some of the laughter we had over 35 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 2: this situation. Like I look back and I go, what 36 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: the hell was I thinking. It's not that we were 37 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 2: doing anything wrong. We didn't know. But as I've come 38 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:58,119 Speaker 2: to No Gail, as I've come to get acquainted with Elane, 39 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 2: we all have a very common bond and all could 40 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 2: have been great friends. 41 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 3: You know, in our weird Harriet the spy way, we're 42 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 3: hoisting a red flag. There's something dangerous. We are concerned 43 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:20,119 Speaker 3: about this. I mean, really, Carol, look at how much 44 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 3: angst we had about doing this. 45 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I went kicking and screaming. 46 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 3: So there is a lot of baggage that we carry. 47 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, part of me doing this mindy is 48 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 2: about like it's just time to own my story for 49 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: christ sake. The domestic abuse or the controlling behaviors of men. 50 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to define most women. May that just 51 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: be part of our journey. May not that be a 52 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: complete story. 53 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 3: You know, your definition of self changes daily. It's like Hamilton, 54 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 3: who tells you story? Because after you can't tell your 55 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 3: own story? Who tells your story? 56 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: I look back on that time and even now. I mean, 57 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: you supported me then, and you support me now. 58 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 3: And I support you because you're my crazy friend. 59 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 5: I know. 60 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: I miss you. 61 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: I love you. 62 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: I love you too. And get the dogs out of 63 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 2: the freaking car would you? From the teams at novel 64 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: and iHeartRadio, I'm Carol Fisher and you're listening to the 65 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: Girlfriends Episode four. Phone calls from Manhattan. 66 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 4: Got you, I've got you, got you, I've got you, 67 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 4: got you, I've got you. 68 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: This is what I found out about the days, months, 69 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: and years in New York after Gale went missing. In 70 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 2: the late afternoon on Monday, July eighth, nineteen eighty five, 71 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 2: Gail's sister Elaine, called her parents from a payphone from 72 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: the corner of Broadway and seventy fifth Street. She was 73 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 2: letting them know that she was headed back to law 74 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 2: school in DC. 75 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 4: And My mother said to me, have you spoken to Gail? 76 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 4: Do you know where Gail is? And I said, no, 77 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 4: I'm driving in a car, you know, to Manhattan. Then 78 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,799 Speaker 4: I'm my way to d see what's wrong? And she said, 79 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 4: Bob said that she went out and never came back. 80 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 4: And they had a birthday party in Jersey for his 81 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 4: sister's child and she never came home. And that did 82 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 4: seem really odd. Gail was about appearances. The idea that Gail, 83 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 4: no matter how annoyed she was with Bob, didn't come 84 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 4: home to attend a birthday party for her nephew by 85 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 4: marriage in New Jersey was very strange. 86 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: Elaine put the phone down and got back into the 87 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 2: car to start the five hour drive back to DC, 88 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 2: and then, over the course of twenty four hours, everyone 89 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 2: else's phones in New York started ringing. Everyone was saying 90 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 2: the same thing, where is Gail. 91 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: Elaine called me and asked me if I had talked 92 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: to Gail? And I was like, what do you mean 93 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: if I talked to Gail? 94 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: No, why Abby Bruce, Gail's cousin. 95 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: Hoe down, So now what are you talking about? 96 00:06:58,600 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 5: She went out for a job, she. 97 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: Hasn't come home. 98 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: It's been since yesterday. 99 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 1: What do you mean she went for a jog and 100 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: she never came home. 101 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 4: What did she have on? 102 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: She had on her running shorts and her T shirt. 103 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: So I went out and started walking around and thinking, 104 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: you know where could she have possibly gone, walked over 105 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: to the park, came back, called my mother, who also 106 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: was like, what are you talking about? What do you 107 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: mean she's missing? So my mother hung up from me 108 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 1: and called my aunt. 109 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: But when Abby's mom called Sylvia, she was already in hysterics. 110 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: I need to find my child. We need to find her. 111 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: I remember her screaming at the top of her lungs. 112 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,640 Speaker 1: So everybody was kind of making phone calls through the 113 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: rest of the day. Anyone heard from her, anyone heard 114 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: no one had heard from her. No one had heard 115 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: from her. 116 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: Next to get a call with Denise, Gale's best friend. 117 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 2: But it's not a Laine or Abby or Sylvia. He 118 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 2: called me, it's Bob. 119 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 5: Scale with you what no bus? She never came home. 120 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 5: That's when I said, oh my god, I knew right away, 121 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 5: I said to my husband at that time. 122 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 4: He killed him. 123 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 2: On Monday evening, roughly thirty hours after gail Is said 124 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: to have gone missing. Bob went to the nineteenth Precinct 125 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 2: on East ninety fifth Street and filed a police report. 126 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 2: He told the officer that he had been arguing with 127 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 2: his wife, Gail all morning and that around eleven am, 128 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: she stormed out of their home to cool off in 129 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 2: Central Park. He told them that she had a history 130 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: of depression and suicide attempts, which prompted the officer to 131 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 2: write EDP in the remarked section of the report. Now 132 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 2: EDP is shorthand for emotionally disturbed person. Gail is a 133 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 2: officially designated as New York's Missing Person's Squad number seven 134 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: eight one six, and her case is assigned to Detective 135 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 2: Tom O'Malley. Tom's first task is to start interviewing people 136 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 2: Gale's family, her college friends, Denise, Elaine, and they are 137 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 2: all talking about Bob. 138 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 4: Bob is acting weird, like some TV station wants to 139 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 4: put it on the six o'clock news, like two four 140 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 4: or seven, and he's like refusing to do it and 141 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 4: asking my mother if she'll drive in from Long Island 142 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 4: to do it, which is so strange. I mean, he 143 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 4: lives in Manhattan, where the TV studios are. This his wife. 144 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 2: In the end, he does the interview, and this is 145 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 2: the only moment that you'll hear Bob's voice on this 146 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: podcast because he and his attorney he never got back 147 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: to our request for an interview. But here he is 148 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 2: talking about Gail in nineteen eighty five. 149 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 6: She's a graduate student psychology, takes out very seriously and 150 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 6: has patient responsibilities. Has patients were dependent on her, and 151 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 6: I think, no matter you know what, she wouldn't abandon 152 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 6: her patients. 153 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 2: What do you think happened to your wife? 154 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know, but I'm worried. 155 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: Detective O'Malley started to build up a pretty damning picture 156 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 2: of Bob. Multiple people tell him about Bob's controlling behavior, 157 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: the strangulation, and the cat incident. O'Malley wanted to interview him, 158 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 2: but he knew he had to tread carefully. He didn't 159 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,880 Speaker 2: want Bob to think he was a primary suspect and 160 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: lawyer up too soon, So during a casual phone call, 161 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 2: O'Malley invited Bob down to the station for a chat. 162 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 2: This is a note from Detective O'Malley ally's police report 163 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 2: from that day that my producer Anna found. It's dated 164 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 2: July thirteenth, just six days after Gale went missing. I 165 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 2: then asked him if he ever attempted to strangle his wife, 166 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,199 Speaker 2: and he said, very abruptly, he did not want to 167 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 2: talk about it. When asked of any incident with the cat, 168 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: I received the same abrupt type answer. 169 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 4: No. 170 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 2: As we concluded, doctor Breenbaum said this doesn't look right, 171 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 2: and people are going to start to wonder. When I 172 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: asked him what he meant, he said, it's obvious, isn't it. 173 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 2: After that interview, Tom reached out to Elaine. 174 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 4: And he said, Bob was not forthcoming. It's so weird. 175 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 4: Bob doesn't want my help. Bob does not want me 176 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:52,599 Speaker 4: to find your sister. If my sister was leaving him 177 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 4: and going to live with some guy, going to live 178 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,599 Speaker 4: with some girlfriend, going to Bora, Bora, or wherever the 179 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 4: heck she was doing, the first one she would have 180 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 4: called would have been me. She might not have called 181 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 4: me to admit that she was going to stay married 182 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 4: to the psychopath, but she certainly would have called me 183 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 4: to tell me she was leaving him, and I would 184 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 4: have been there to do all the things she needed 185 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 4: me to do. I mean, please, she was dead. She 186 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 4: was dead or he hurt her terribly and he had 187 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 4: her hidden somewhere. 188 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: The next day, exactly a week after Gail went missing, 189 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 2: Bob and Gail's friends and family headed to Central Park 190 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: to distribute some missing posters. I'm looking at one right now. 191 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: The portrait of Gail is in black and white from 192 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 2: the photocopier. In it, her hair is layered and shoulder length. 193 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 2: She's smiling, but in that way where your eyes are 194 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 2: being blinded by the sun, or you don't quite want 195 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: your photo taken. And on the poster they've written her 196 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 2: height five to three, her weight one hundred and seven pounds, 197 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 2: brown hair and hazel eyes, a graduate student at Long 198 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 2: Island University, last seen at eleven am July seventh, nineteen 199 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: eighty five, and they offered a reward for any information. 200 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 2: I'm telling you this gives me chills. It just it 201 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: must have been terrifying. 202 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 5: Part of me knew she was dead, but part of 203 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 5: me wanted to find her. Part of me wanted to 204 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 5: find her alive and know that she was still out 205 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 5: there somewhere. 206 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 4: They papered the park with missing posters. Except my mother 207 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 4: told me it felt weird. It felt like there were 208 00:13:55,720 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 4: two camps. There was Bob and his friends, and there 209 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 4: was my mother and father and Gail's friends, and it 210 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 4: didn't feel that they had the same mission. 211 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 2: At one point, Bob was handing out posters to passing 212 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 2: joggers with Gail's college friend Marianne. When she asked him 213 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: where he thought Gail might be, he said, I think 214 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: she's on a shopping spree at Bloomingdale's. You know what 215 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 2: a jap she is? Now, for those of you unfamiliar 216 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 2: with the term JAP, it means Jewish American princess, and 217 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: just in case it's not clear, it's a condescending term. 218 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: Bob then suggests that Gail may have been overly affected 219 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 2: when writing her recent paper on depression, but Marianne disagreed 220 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 2: with him. Gail didn't seem depressed when she last saw her. 221 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: Marianne's stance seemed to annoy Bob, at which point he 222 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 2: pointed over at the gate and he said, how do 223 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 2: you know she just didn't climb that gate? How do 224 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 2: you know Gail isn't lying at the bottom of that reservoir. 225 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 4: At one point, the New York Post did a story 226 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 4: on it, and there's everybody holding the missing posters in 227 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 4: front of their chest. Bob is holding it in front 228 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 4: of his face as if he doesn't want people to 229 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 4: see him, just like he didn't want to go on camera. 230 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: After distributing posters, Denise and a group of Gail's friends 231 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: went back to Gail in Bob's apartment. It was then 232 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: that they all started quizzing, Bob, where's Gail, When did 233 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 2: you last see her? What were you arguing about? 234 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 5: He acted like, oh, so upset Gail's missing. 235 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 2: The group of women started looking around for clues. 236 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 5: And that's when we said, where's the rug that used 237 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 5: to be here? 238 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 7: This was a beautiful. 239 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: Asian rug, and Bob said, oh, it had to be 240 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 2: the cat got sick. 241 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 5: We all looked at each other why but he was 242 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 5: so stone cold. It's not as if he displayed any 243 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 5: emotion at all, so there was like nothing to react to. 244 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,520 Speaker 2: At one point, the phone rang, but Bob decided not 245 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 2: to pick it up. When the answering machine kicked in, 246 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: Gail's voice played out into the entire room, telling the 247 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: caller to leave a message. It must have been heartbreaking. 248 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 2: Along the way, Bob continued to share his theories. He 249 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: talked about Gail's drug use and how perhaps that's how 250 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 2: she had gotten into trouble. 251 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 4: Listen, I'm not going to say my sister didn't do 252 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: any drugs. My sister had patience, and she was a 253 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 4: graduate student, and then she had this prestigious internship. My 254 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:03,160 Speaker 4: sister was not someone who had a drug problem. I'm 255 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,480 Speaker 4: not saying my sister never did any drugs, but that's 256 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 4: not who she was. 257 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 2: Everything the Cat's family knew started to stack up Bob's 258 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 2: past behavior, the fact that Gail was going to leave 259 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 2: him that very night, the way she apparently left with 260 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 2: hardly any belongings, and yet nobody had seen or heard 261 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 2: from her. They had become convinced that Bob killed Gail. 262 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 2: With only a week or two left before sitting for 263 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 2: her bar exam, Elaine had to make a hard call. 264 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 4: I'll never forget. I was taking the Peeper Lar Review 265 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 4: class and I called John Peeper and I told him 266 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 4: what I was going through. He said, don't take the 267 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 4: word exam. I can't do that, which was sad for me. 268 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: For Elaine, this was no longer a missing person's case, 269 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 2: but a homicide investigation. And if she wasn't going to 270 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: for the bar, then she'd settle for putting Bob behind bars. 271 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 4: Of course, I was a heartbroken that I did not 272 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 4: know where my sister was. But it wasn't because I 273 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 4: couldn't bear the truth that my sister just left for 274 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 4: another life and ignored her sister. It's because the facts 275 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 4: surrounding the situation made it impossible. She left her pocketbook, 276 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 4: you know, there with cigarettes, and she lives in a 277 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 4: building with doormen. There's a fire department on the same 278 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 4: block where they all whistled at my sexy sister. She's 279 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 4: allegedly wearing a tank top and short shorts. Nobody saw her. 280 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:47,479 Speaker 4: We would fall asleep without hanging up the phone. She 281 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 4: did not go somewhere without talking to me, and I 282 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 4: began the one to two years us of proving that 283 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 4: Bob killed my sister. There's my notes on what I did. 284 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 4: These are all the notes on all the phone calls 285 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 4: that I've had. The missing posters in here. 286 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 2: When Elaine first arrived back in New York after dropping 287 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 2: out of law school, she immediately started collaborating with the 288 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 2: detectives from the Missing Person's Unit. 289 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 4: It took the form of a deep relationship with Tom 290 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 4: O'Malley and literally walking the beat with him, I mean 291 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 4: sitting there and missing persons with him, brainstorming with him. 292 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 2: They would talk about the calls Tom would get from 293 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 2: people responding to the missing person's reports. A man who 294 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 2: claimed to see Gail sitting in a yoga position in 295 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 2: front of a brown stone near Washington Square. A doorman 296 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 2: from an apartment on fifty second Street thought he saw her, 297 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 2: but later he changed his mind. And a man said 298 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 2: he saw her and her friend at eighteen eighth Bagels 299 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 2: on East eighty first Street. She was spotted uptown on 300 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 2: the subway, downtown through Soho, and wandering around Tudor City. 301 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 2: None of these sightings could be verified by the detectives, 302 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 2: but they also could not be dismissed ultimately, though the 303 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 2: detectives already had a pretty good hunch who the last 304 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 2: person to see Gail was. 305 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 4: I'll never forget. I was having a drink with Tom 306 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 4: O'Malley on one of those investigator cop bars and less 307 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:57,200 Speaker 4: Wolf came in and walked over and greeted us. 308 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 2: Less as a private investigator that Bobbitt hired to search 309 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 2: for Gail. 310 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 4: And as he walked away, Tommy said, yeah, he's been 311 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 4: hired to, you know, hide evidence. Bob knew he did it. 312 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 4: Bob wasn't hiring someone to help find Gail. He knew 313 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 4: exactly where Gail was. 314 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 2: We couldn't confirm this, but whatever way you slice it. 315 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: For Elaine, the official route didn't seem to be leading 316 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 2: to anything, so she tried a different tack. She offered 317 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: to pick up some of Gail's stuff from Bob's place. 318 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 4: I was hoping that I could engage him in some way, 319 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 4: and I thought that it. 320 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 7: Sounds so idiotic. 321 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 4: Now he might break down and I'll never figure out. 322 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 4: I got up there and all of my sister's stuff 323 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 4: was in big trash backs. He didn't want her underwear, 324 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 4: he didn't want her perfume, he wanted her bike, her skis, 325 00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 4: he wanted some expense and sieve crystal platter that my 326 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 4: aunt had bought them as a wedding gift. I argued 327 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 4: with him, you can't have that. I called my aunt 328 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 4: be on the phone and I said, Be, tell him 329 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 4: he has to give me the bowl. And I handed 330 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 4: him the phone and he let me take the ball. 331 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 4: And I realized I had made the biggest mistake. Had 332 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 4: I left the stuff. It may have haunted him. Instead, 333 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 4: I was taking out the trash. 334 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 2: By this point, Bob had been interviewed a few times 335 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 2: by Detective O'Malley and his partner, Detective Dolcis. At first 336 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 2: it had been on a friendly, voluntary basis, but it 337 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: was becoming a parent that they were no longer treating 338 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 2: Gale's disappearance as a missing person's case. After five or 339 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: so interviews, he lawyered up and became increasingly hard to reach. 340 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 2: Whenever the cops or Gail's friends and family tried to 341 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:12,959 Speaker 2: call him, they got his answering machine. Time passed and 342 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 2: still nothing. The Cat's family endured their first family gatherings 343 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 2: without Gail, their first young Kaipoor, the first passover, and 344 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:26,199 Speaker 2: with each passing day, the family's grief cemented and the 345 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 2: wider public forgot about Gail. So Elaine started writing letters 346 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 2: to the editors and journalists of New York papers from 347 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: the perspective of her grieving mother. 348 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 4: My name is Sylvia Katz. My daughter gil Katspiarram disappeared 349 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:54,440 Speaker 4: from her apartment. Nobody has heard from her. My son 350 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 4: in law has been asked to take a lie detector 351 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 4: test along with other friends with Gaels, but unlike her 352 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 4: friends who said yes, my son in law has refused twice. 353 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 4: He was the last person to see Gail. Therefore everything 354 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 4: that is known comes from him. He is uncooperative, as 355 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 4: is his family. We are very frustrated, and so are 356 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 4: the police. Please help us. Part of what I was 357 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,360 Speaker 4: trying to do is really in good faith, get evidence. 358 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 4: Part of what I was trying to do if I 359 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 4: couldn't get evidence, is make sure that every single place 360 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 4: that Bob was people knew the truth. So by the spring, 361 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 4: I sent letters to every doctor that worked with Bob. 362 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,760 Speaker 4: And at that point he was in a three hospital rotation, 363 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 4: and I sent them to all three hospitals. I used 364 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 4: a reverse phone book at the New York Public Library. 365 00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 4: This is way before happy web stuff sending a letter 366 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,360 Speaker 4: to every single person in the high rise apartment building. 367 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 2: Elaine started coming up with their own leads, talking to 368 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 2: people the police hadn't even interviewed. 369 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 4: The woman downstairs told me that it was terrible living 370 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 4: under them. They fought constantly, especially on the weekends when 371 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 4: he was home, and it was awful. And what was 372 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 4: interesting about that day was how quiet it was, except 373 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:37,200 Speaker 4: she heard furniture moving, but it wasn't enough. There came 374 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 4: a time, the Missing Persons and the Homicide Bureau and 375 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 4: they all put their hands up and said, we just 376 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 4: don't have the evidence. Lady. I remember thinking double jeopardy. 377 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 4: They're hoping for a better case, and if they do 378 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 4: it now and they fail and they ever get really 379 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 4: good evidence, he will be walking around with impunity being 380 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 4: able to say I beat it. And I think that 381 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 4: really would have killed us. But my cousin, Hillard Weiss 382 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 4: worked for the Legal Aid Society and he got the 383 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 4: DA's office to investigate. 384 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 2: In August nineteen eighty six, a year and a month 385 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 2: since Gale went missing. The case was passed on to 386 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 2: the Manhattan District Attorney's office, but after just one year, 387 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 2: the investigation came to a halt and the case was 388 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 2: dropped yet again. 389 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 4: So at the point at which they said we're not prosecuting, 390 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 4: I had nothing left to lose, and I began a 391 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 4: different campaign. I would call him and I would say, 392 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 4: I know you killed my sister. Everyone knows she killed 393 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 4: my sister, and you're not going to get away with that. 394 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,119 Speaker 4: And I'm going to keep on leaving these messages. Yes, 395 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 4: and every time you have a new girlfriend, she's going 396 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 4: to hear these messages. I was dying for him to 397 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,959 Speaker 4: sue me for slander. We might not have had beyond 398 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 4: a reasonable doubt for a criminal courtroom, but if he 399 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:22,119 Speaker 4: sued me, I would get him under oath and a 400 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 4: deposition and a civil suit. He would have to prove 401 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 4: that I was lying, so I could act with absolute impunity. 402 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 2: But Bob was never going to sue Elane. He knew 403 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 2: better than that. Instead, her messages went unanswered, and slowly 404 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: people started getting on with their lives. Even Bob continued 405 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: to work at my Monadese Hospital, where he now worked 406 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 2: as a heart surgeon. 407 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 5: I went back to work, I went through my daily routine. 408 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: Denise Gale's friend. 409 00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 5: I used to ride the bus and I'd look out 410 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 5: the window on the bus, and sometimes i'd see somebody 411 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 5: that looked like her, and you know, I'd get this 412 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:20,439 Speaker 5: rush inside me like a girl, you know, And of 413 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,960 Speaker 5: course I realized it wasn't but I never stopped looking 414 00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 5: for her. So for a lot of years it was 415 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 5: still that feeling inside me. Then maybe she is alive, 416 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 5: Maybe she is out there. 417 00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 2: Elaine decided that after three years of grief and anger. 418 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,719 Speaker 2: She needed to choose herself. 419 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 4: Because during the summer of nineteen eighty eight, my father 420 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 4: had been hospitalized with heart disease. They discovered a massive 421 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 4: brain tumor. That's around the time that I decided I 422 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 4: had to live. I left Larry because he reminded me 423 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 4: of Gail. 424 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 2: Larry was Elaine's long term boyfriend. 425 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 4: I stopped allowing my mother to talk to me about 426 00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:16,959 Speaker 4: my sister. I when I'm New York magazine Personal Ads 427 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 4: and found a husband literally. 428 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 2: And while Elaine was on her honeymoon with her new husband, 429 00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 2: a human torso washed up on the shores of Staten Island, 430 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: a torso that they believe could belong to Gail. It 431 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 2: was a calm day on Staten Island when the torso 432 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 2: washed up just north of the Verrizanto Narrows Bridge. She 433 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 2: was carried in by the water and laid on the 434 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 2: beach waiting to be found. Without overwhelming you with details, 435 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 2: it was clear that she had been at sea for 436 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 2: a while and that it was not her choice. This 437 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: happened on May twenty first, nineteen eighty nine, which makes 438 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 2: it roughly four years since Gail went missing. Obviously, It's 439 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: hard to verify who a torso belongs to it first glance, 440 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 2: But for New York's Chief Medical Examiner Charles Hirsch, the 441 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 2: age and size of the torso on the shore it 442 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 2: seemed to match up enough to warrant further testing, and 443 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 2: once again Elaine had to put her own life to 444 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 2: one side. 445 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 4: The saga began of trying to identify the torso. They 446 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,719 Speaker 4: tried DNA testing, but it was in the water for 447 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 4: so long. The DNA testing was not sophisticated enough back 448 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 4: in nineteen eighty nine, and I remember it was the 449 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 4: fall of eighty nine when during one of those trillion 450 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 4: conversations that I had racking my brain about how am 451 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 4: I going to identify this torso? I remembered that my 452 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 4: sister had a cox It's bone injury. And we looked 453 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 4: far and wide for those X rays. We couldn't find them. 454 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:31,719 Speaker 4: Then we remembered that she had that injury when she 455 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 4: was at NYU and she didn't have health insurance, so 456 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 4: she used my health insurance card to get X rays, 457 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 4: and we got all these X rays, and it was 458 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 4: the radiology report of the torso comparing it to the 459 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 4: X rays that we found that sufficiently for the medical 460 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 4: examiner allowed them to change Jane Doe Torso on the 461 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 4: death certificate to Gil Cat's Spearmbam And finally I felt 462 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 4: that I found my sister and I had her and 463 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 4: she was safe. 464 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: A few months later, Gil's family finally had a burial. 465 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,920 Speaker 4: I remember there was a scene at the burial site 466 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 4: because I wanted to open the coffin. I wanted to 467 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 4: see my sister, and I cried and screamed, and people 468 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 4: who were bigger than me, which wasn't so hard, physically 469 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 4: restrained me. They would not let me. 470 00:32:53,440 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 7: See her, and we buried her. 471 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 2: Gail's gravestone is small, nestled closely to the ground. Its 472 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 2: inscription reads Gail Beth beloved daughter, granddaughter, and sister March eighth, 473 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 2: nineteen fifty six to July seventh, nineteen eighty five, Forever 474 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 2: in our hearts. I'm sure it meant a lot to 475 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 2: give Gail a place to rest. Usually Jewish burials take 476 00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 2: place within twenty four hours, yet the Cats has had 477 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:46,239 Speaker 2: to wait four years. But whatever sense of closure that 478 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 2: gave them, it didn't last long. Within six months of 479 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 2: the burial, Sylvia Elaine's mother was diagnosed with an aggressive 480 00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 2: form of cancer. 481 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:03,120 Speaker 4: My mother buried daughter and she was dead by June. 482 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,359 Speaker 2: Then just six years later, Elaine's father, Manny Katz, also 483 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 2: died from cancer, something he battled for years. He was 484 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 2: buried next to his daughter and his wife in the 485 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 2: Mountain Zion Cemetery family plot in Queens. 486 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 7: That's when I stopped. 487 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:36,840 Speaker 4: I could not leave my brother alone, so I promised 488 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 4: myself that Bob would not kill me too. 489 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,760 Speaker 2: But when Elaine cat stops, she doesn't really stop. 490 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,240 Speaker 1: She was so angry that he was out there walking 491 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: around living his life. As long as her sister was gone, 492 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,839 Speaker 1: she was going to find a way to make him pay. 493 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,240 Speaker 2: This is Abby Bruce, Elaine's cousin. 494 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 1: There wasn't a thing you could say to her do. 495 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 1: It was an obsession. And what's amazing to me about 496 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: her is that along with that obsession she lived her life. 497 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 1: She got married, she had children, she opened a law firm. 498 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean, she's an amazing person. But there was no 499 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: question in my mind that she was never going to 500 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 1: give up. 501 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 2: And so every once in a while Elaine would pick 502 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 2: up a part of the case, or in a moment 503 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,839 Speaker 2: of sudden fury, she'd call Bob again to leave a 504 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 2: message on his machine while he was at work. 505 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 4: You killed my sister, and I know you think you 506 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 4: got away with it. I will always hound you and 507 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 4: haunt you, and I will keep at the police, I 508 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 4: will keep at the press. I will always find you 509 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 4: as long as you are a licensed and registered physician. 510 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 4: No matter where you go, I will find you. And 511 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 4: thanks to me, he did. 512 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 2: Go straightened to my unsuspecting arms in Las Vegas, Nevada. 513 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 2: But it didn't take long for him to run again. 514 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 2: While we were meeting up to talk about him at 515 00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 2: the Mayflower Restaurant, he was packing his bags and heading 516 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 2: to one of the coldest places in America, North Dakota. 517 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 2: I know surprised us too. 518 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:43,960 Speaker 3: There was a period where there was a vault and 519 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 3: he was writing snowblower injuries in the minor newspaper. 520 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 5: He was just smart guying, but women found him creepy. 521 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 4: I will never forget him saying. We have a cold 522 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 4: case Bureau, and I'd like to open up Gil's case. 523 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 2: We'd like to have the three hour lunches, we'd like 524 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 2: to have a cocktailer after work, and we'd like to 525 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 2: investigating homicides and. 526 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 4: I mentioned you know the Torso, and I'll never forget 527 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 4: him saying what Torso. 528 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,240 Speaker 2: The Girlfriends is produced by Novel for Our Heart Radio. 529 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:35,720 Speaker 2: For more from Novel, visit novel dot Audio. The series 530 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:40,239 Speaker 2: is hosted by me Carol Fisher and produced by Anna Sinfield. 531 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: Our assistant producer is Julian Manyu Gera Patten, and our 532 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 2: researcher is Madeline Parr. The editor is Veronica Simmons. Max 533 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:56,840 Speaker 2: O'Brien is our executive producer. Our fact checker is Valeria Rocca. 534 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 2: Production management from Sharie Houston and Charlotte woolf Sound design, 535 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:09,040 Speaker 2: mixing and scoring by Daniel Kempsen and Nicholas Alexander. Music 536 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:14,240 Speaker 2: supervision by Anna Sinfield. Original music composed by Luisa Gerstein. 537 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 2: Story development by Isaac Fisher. Willard Foxton is creative director 538 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 2: of Development. Special thanks to Shawn Glynn, David Waters, might 539 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 2: Ley Rowl, Katrina Noravel, David Wasserman, and Beth Anne Mcaluso. 540 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,760 Speaker 2: We did reach out to Bob and his legal team 541 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,399 Speaker 2: to ask if he'd like to comment on the podcast, 542 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 2: but we never heard back. 543 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:48,880 Speaker 5: Novel