Speaker 1: Second date update Ante.
Speaker 2: It's extremely rare in the dating world, and normally only
Speaker 2: the best of the best can pull this off. I'm
Speaker 2: talking about the elusive insta date where you meet someone
Speaker 2: out and then immediately turned that into a date night
Speaker 2: without even handing them your credit card. Very rare, and
Speaker 2: apparently that happened for one of our listeners, Derek, where
Speaker 2: just like Rumpelstiltskin, he took a piece of straw and
Speaker 2: spun it into date night gold Rumple, Derek Skin, Welcome
Speaker 2: to the show Man.
Speaker 3: Sorry, nobodfully, nobody ever does again.
Speaker 4: It's hard to not picture you with like spindly fingers
Speaker 4: and it's hair.
Speaker 1: You know what. I'm going to take the blame on that, Derek.
Speaker 1: That was my bad. From now, we'll just call you Derek. Okay.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.
Speaker 5: I appreciate I'm curious where you met this person?
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell us about first. What's her name?
Speaker 3: Her name is Emmy, okay, and I met her at
Speaker 3: this pretty popular steakhouse. I mean and when I say popular,
Speaker 3: it's really hard to get a table.
Speaker 5: Wait, how do you meet someone at a steakhouse?
Speaker 4: Like, whenever you go to a steakhouse, you're with someone already,
Speaker 4: whether it be a friend, like, it's not a meeting place.
Speaker 5: How did that happen?
Speaker 3: Fair enough? I met her in the bar area, specifically.
Speaker 2: Bar. Okay, that's like the people who are waiting hoping
Speaker 2: to get a table, or.
Speaker 5: There's somebody traveling for work, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and all this money and all I want is
Speaker 2: just a yeah, easy pickens, Yes, there you go.
Speaker 1: How did it go with Emmy?
Speaker 3: I saw that she was by herself, and I approached her,
Speaker 3: and I was trying to talk to her, trying to
Speaker 3: put some game, and notice she kept on looking at
Speaker 3: her phone.
Speaker 4: Oh, so your game wasn't being very gaming.
Speaker 5: The game wasn't gaming.
Speaker 3: Well, I said, are you waiting on I guy to
Speaker 3: meet you? And she goes, no, I'm waiting for my friend.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, you always have the one friend that's chronically late, Lily,
Speaker 4: if you're listening to this show right.
Speaker 1: Now, okay, she said she was waiting for a friend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then and her friend wasn't just late, and
Speaker 3: her friend is a nurse and she got called in
Speaker 3: for a ship hurts worse, she.
Speaker 4: Went to the hospital to work, and she could have
Speaker 4: not gone to the hospital.
Speaker 2: Of people are gonna start saving themselves friendship always.
Speaker 4: Honestly, it feels like the universe is giving you this
Speaker 4: opportunity then, right, is that how you saw it?
Speaker 3: That absolutely? And I was like, well, how about you
Speaker 3: and me have dinner? Then?
Speaker 1: Oh, that's it's pretty smooth. What did she say?
Speaker 3: Games back on and she was hesitant, and she sorry,
Speaker 3: I don't know you. And I was like, how do
Speaker 3: you do. We've talked from us four minutes. I'm practically
Speaker 3: your brother brother.
Speaker 1: But still I would have worked on someone like Brook.
Speaker 4: But I actually didn't see anything wrong.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's kind of funny, flirtatious. How did she
Speaker 2: react to that?
Speaker 3: She laughed good, Yeah, she laughed.
Speaker 4: Well, and she's in such a position she can't say, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry he already had players.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean to give you the whole story here.
Speaker 3: She laughs, and then she says, all right, we can eat,
Speaker 3: but let me get the table.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys got a table stay at the bar.
Speaker 3: That's a good sign, that's what I'm thinking. And I
Speaker 3: didn't understand why, but I was like, okay, sure, And
Speaker 3: they came back and gave us this incredible table, like
Speaker 3: right in the center of the restaurant.
Speaker 5: Steakhouse Royalty.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the two Bone Queen of the months.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the wait there's more cocktails already there at the table.
Speaker 3: The waiters like, hey, drinks are compliments of the house.
Speaker 3: And I was like, who are you? How did you
Speaker 3: do this? I can never get the table here, let
Speaker 3: alone free drinks. Yeah.
Speaker 5: Did she have an explanation?
Speaker 3: She shrugs, and I quote, it's just pretty privilege, pretty
Speaker 3: pretty privilege, Brook.
Speaker 1: Does that happen to you all the time when you
Speaker 1: go to the steakhouse? Was like pop by the sailor
Speaker 1: man right now?
Speaker 4: Honestly, never happened to be the only time happens is
Speaker 4: if with him with a friend.
Speaker 5: Who like works in the industry, or I think you're
Speaker 5: with all girls, not with a guy. Why do they
Speaker 5: care if you're already on a date, that makes sense?
Speaker 1: Why She was like, hold on, let me do this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so maybe they didn't know you're the guy. You're
Speaker 5: not getting free stuffy, drag it down. Don't go to
Speaker 5: Vegas with men. Yeah, but it's not Vegas.
Speaker 4: This is.
Speaker 2: That must have made you feel kind of good, right well, yeah,
Speaker 2: without a question.
Speaker 3: I mean, I look, I was on cloud nine already
Speaker 3: when she said, yes, I will have dinner with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so beautiful.
Speaker 5: Was the rest of the night just as magical.
Speaker 3: Well, we talked for about an hour, had some excellent food,
Speaker 3: and then she said she had to go, and uh
Speaker 3: we hugged and said, you know, we should meet up again.
Speaker 3: And that's why I'm that's why I'm calling you guys.
Speaker 3: I know, maybe you shouldn't see it as romantic.
Speaker 2: I mean I realized that I was going to ask,
Speaker 2: was there any like romance that happened during dinner or
Speaker 2: did it feel more like a friendly just casual I mean.
Speaker 3: Honestly, like it's one of those things where it's like,
Speaker 3: am I telling myself that there was some eye contact
Speaker 3: and some flirting and what have you? Up?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I knew that a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, this girl she's so into me.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean, look, clearly I wanted to move
Speaker 3: to that area of romance. But it's been about two
Speaker 3: weeks and I haven't been able to reach her at ah.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you have you have like texted?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she did tell me she travels a lot,
Speaker 3: so maybe that's part of what's going on.
Speaker 5: It sounds like a woman that's in high demand.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I meant successful.
Speaker 5: I hope she answers our call me too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, We're gonna give you some
Speaker 2: pretty privilege here, Derek. We're gonna come back and do
Speaker 2: a second date update just for you, free of charge.
Speaker 5: Isn't he pretty?
Speaker 1: How does that feel, Bud?
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it with your second date update.
Speaker 2: Right after this hold on second Date update, our listener
Speaker 2: Derek met a beautiful woman at a steakhouse bar. Her
Speaker 2: friend was called into work that night so couldn't make it,
Speaker 2: and that's when Derek, like a gentleman, offered to eat
Speaker 2: dinner with her.
Speaker 5: Oh this is gentleman music, I think first.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So they ended up getting one of the best tables
Speaker 2: in the house with complimentary drinks ready for them.
Speaker 1: The reason why.
Speaker 2: Derek wasn't around when she approached the manager asking for
Speaker 2: a spot in the restaurant.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And when he asked, how.
Speaker 2: Did you pull this off, she replied with two words
Speaker 2: pretty privilege, which power. If you don't know what that is,
Speaker 2: it's basically where beautiful people in society get extra benefits
Speaker 2: that none of us Ugos could possibly dream of.
Speaker 1: Getting gifted to us. And someone in this room has
Speaker 1: pretty privileged as well.
Speaker 2: Jeff, Well, I wasn't really thinking to me, like, Alexis,
Speaker 2: what's the coolest, pretty privileged thing that's happened to you ever?
Speaker 6: Oh in Vegas, I said, they get that.
Speaker 5: Every woman gets that. That doesn't count. Yeah, I get
Speaker 5: that when I go with my girlfriends even now, you know.
Speaker 7: Being used loosely right now, I think either way, Derek
Speaker 7: was impressed with what happened that night, and not only
Speaker 7: does he want more of that action, he really liked
Speaker 7: this girl, Emmy that he met, so we're hoping to
Speaker 7: hook him up with him one more time.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I feel like the universe was trying
Speaker 5: to hook you guys up. Derek. We got to help
Speaker 5: the universe out here.
Speaker 1: Anything you want to say to the universe, Derek.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you Universe thus far. Please keep it going.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go. There you go.
Speaker 2: Right now, let's put a call out into the universe
Speaker 2: and see if Emmy picks up.
Speaker 3: Here we go.
Speaker 1: We're gonna pray for the best.
Speaker 2: We're doing it. Hello, Hi, We're looking for Emmy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, who's here.
Speaker 1: We're a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Is this Emmy?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Why are you calling me?
Speaker 1: Are you in a quail sanctuary? There's some beautiful noises
Speaker 1: happening where.
Speaker 3: I actually had birds.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, So I don't want to waste any
Speaker 1: of your time here.
Speaker 2: We're calling you because we do a segment on our
Speaker 2: show called Second Date Update, and one of our listeners
Speaker 2: has asked us to reach out to you because you
Speaker 2: two had dinner the other night and had a really
Speaker 2: good time together.
Speaker 5: Hey, it was like two weeks ago.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was a while ago. He's hoping to
Speaker 2: see you again. His name is Derek.
Speaker 6: Oh uh, yeah, I remember him.
Speaker 5: Okay, well good?
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 4: I mean it's crazy because it's not like you guys
Speaker 4: planned to be on a date.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 6: Actually, my friend had canceled for dinner, so that we
Speaker 6: heard a.
Speaker 2: Little bit about the story of how you two met
Speaker 2: and you got a great table in the restaurant. We
Speaker 2: were wondering if you had any interest in maybe seeing
Speaker 2: Derek again.
Speaker 6: Probably not, if I'm honest.
Speaker 5: Okay, honesty is good.
Speaker 2: We're trying to figure out is there a reason why,
Speaker 2: because he did tell us a little bit about what
Speaker 2: happened and you know, he told us that you asked
Speaker 2: to get the table yourself.
Speaker 6: Well, yeah, he couldn't get the table only I could.
Speaker 5: Okay, why.
Speaker 6: It's just the way it is.
Speaker 1: Well, did he do anything wrong that night or say something?
Speaker 6: No, not at all, not at all.
Speaker 4: Are you in a relationship because we actually didn't cover that,
Speaker 4: you know, And like, I don't know if he asked you.
Speaker 6: Honestly, it's I don't have a boyfriend, but it's just
Speaker 6: my lifestyle. I just don't think he would understand LifeStyle's lifestyle.
Speaker 5: Are you famous? I've been dying to know you, like celebrity.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 6: I mean I tried to give him a hint, and
Speaker 6: I don't think he got it. What type of hint
Speaker 6: I told him about pretty privilege?
Speaker 5: Pretty privileged?
Speaker 4: He said that that's why you said you got free
Speaker 4: drinks and stuff because you're you're good looking.
Speaker 6: Yeah, basically that's what the situation is right now, and
Speaker 6: I'm using it to my advantage.
Speaker 1: Using it.
Speaker 5: I don't get it, Like, why is that a is
Speaker 5: a lifestyle?
Speaker 1: How do you mean that?
Speaker 6: Okay, currently I'm a tier three pretty privilege. Who's creating
Speaker 6: I don't know who created it? But there's different tiers
Speaker 6: like Tier one is getting free entrance to clubs and
Speaker 6: free drinks and that's the lowest tier.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's Brooke in Alexis made a brook point
Speaker 2: and your Tier three?
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 6: It's like where guys pay you to go on vacations
Speaker 6: to places like Saint Bart's and Beisa.
Speaker 5: That's why you're out of town for quote unquote work.
Speaker 3: Well, it's not just me going.
Speaker 2: To another guy, right, So do you mean it's like
Speaker 2: a sugar baby sort of situation where guys pay you
Speaker 2: to like go on trips with you.
Speaker 6: It's not sugar baby, It's not at all what that is.
Speaker 5: It sounds exactly like that. What's the different.
Speaker 6: It's me and a group of girls, just like five
Speaker 6: or six of us. We just get invited on these
Speaker 6: trips and they'll pay us ten to twenty thousand just
Speaker 6: to be there for photos.
Speaker 5: Ten to twenty thousands on top of paying for your trip.
Speaker 5: Uh huh oh, you're like a model sort of you have.
Speaker 1: It's alecta, she said, pretty privileged. Two three.
Speaker 5: I think it was a you'll see hotter pictures and taking.
Speaker 1: Those Tier one pipe down over there. We're talking to
Speaker 1: Tier three keep going. I'm sorry. I mean, how does
Speaker 1: this work? You get paid twenty grand just personally to
Speaker 1: show up?
Speaker 3: Huh.
Speaker 6: We get in our bikinis, take a few quick pictures together,
Speaker 6: like hanging on the boat with drings, and then that's it.
Speaker 6: The rest of the vacation is com.
Speaker 1: Just for pictures.
Speaker 5: I'm jealous of the guide and pictures.
Speaker 2: It's not like, yeah, well, I can understand that you
Speaker 2: clearly have a lot of good stuff going on in
Speaker 2: your life.
Speaker 1: But going back to Derek, I mean, oh, well, Derek's
Speaker 1: did you.
Speaker 5: I guess if you can't have a boyfriend or be
Speaker 5: in a relationship, you're doing this.
Speaker 1: I mean he likes you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's great now, but I'm not actively looking for
Speaker 6: a boyfriend or anything like that. My life is just yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm being on private jets and yachts and staying and statement.
Speaker 6: You know, it's like a full time job.
Speaker 2: Well, maybe he'll send us like a sign up sheet
Speaker 2: for where the pretty privileged thing is.
Speaker 5: Okay, well you didn't even make a tear.
Speaker 1: If we can't do that, maybe something else.
Speaker 2: What we can do is get you on the phone
Speaker 2: with Derek right now, because he's on the other line.
Speaker 1: Listening. Yeah there he is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, like, hey, what's up? I mean coming in
Speaker 3: high I mean, that's pretty awesome that you're doing, you know,
Speaker 3: yacht trips in the Bahamas. Like that's incredible, it's sane.
Speaker 6: Parts you should have been listening closer.
Speaker 1: The Bahamas up for Tier twos.
Speaker 3: Look, I think that's awesome. I could come with you.
Speaker 3: I mean, like, I also know.
Speaker 6: No, but I'm going to go. Good luck and.
Speaker 1: Hold on?
Speaker 3: Wait what but I mean hold on, like I want
Speaker 3: a I would love to hang out with you again.
Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good conversation. Second, like
Speaker 3: I know a guy who can give us like fifty
Speaker 3: off on like zip line tours in Costa Rica. That's
Speaker 3: so nice of you.
Speaker 6: But I'm going to go, but.
Speaker 3: Hold on, like who's cruises?
Speaker 1: I mean, Derek, you need to just stop asking. Let
Speaker 1: the professionals take over.
Speaker 2: So I mean, I mean, can you admit that you
Speaker 2: had a nice time with Derek when you hung out
Speaker 2: with him?
Speaker 1: You're really trying.
Speaker 6: We did, but we should just leave it there and
Speaker 6: I'll always have that memory of you. Devin.
Speaker 3: That almost got Derek's name right, Yeah it's Derek, Yeah, Derek,
Speaker 3: it's actually Derek.
Speaker 6: That doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: Listen to me.
Speaker 2: I think this is gonna have to be the one
Speaker 2: time in your life where you just put all that
Speaker 2: money in free trips and yachts and private jets to
Speaker 2: the side and.
Speaker 1: Just easy to move just for a second and look into.
Speaker 2: Your heart and I think there's a space for Derek
Speaker 2: and has a different voice. I know you like free stuff, Emmy,
Speaker 2: that's for sure. And we would give you a free
Speaker 2: date that we pay for if you meet up with
Speaker 2: Derek one more time.
Speaker 5: How many times are you going to ask?
Speaker 1: How many times does it take?
Speaker 3: What is include? Well?
Speaker 2: Usually we do like a gift card to a restaurant,
Speaker 2: just literally okay, okay, I'm thrown in the towel, I'm
Speaker 2: leaving the white flag.
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 5: Doesn't always letter over.
Speaker 2: I feel terrible about myself now, Derek. I'm sorry, man,
Speaker 2: And it doesn't sound like we're gonna get you a
Speaker 2: date here.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess, yeah, but you know what, what a
Speaker 4: one time date you had?
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I'll live in my heart forever.
Speaker 1: Get Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: My feelings are still hurt after she just laughed at
Speaker 2: her gift cards.
Speaker 4: But Jeffrey You've never had a listener laugh so hard
Speaker 4: at you before.
Speaker 1: Usually they laugh after they receive the gift cards. She
Speaker 1: left just at the mention of one.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's living in a world we don't know.
Speaker 1: Twenty five bucks off of fud Ruckers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, at least wait till it's in your
Speaker 2: hand before you laugh.
Speaker 5: She's not Google searchery in coupon codes.
Speaker 2: We are well, we just saw the ugly side of
Speaker 2: pretty privilege today.
Speaker 1: Like it one bit?
Speaker 6: You didn't know?
Speaker 5: You're just jealous?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I am too, I'll admit it. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know if any of those Tier threes are
Speaker 2: out there, but come visit us in the studio.
Speaker 1: Something get Yeah, sure, whatever you want to do however
Speaker 1: you want to get here.
Speaker 2: But if you missed any of that second date, make
Speaker 2: sure to send your prettiest friend or family member over
Speaker 2: to the Brook and Jeffrey Podcast. You can check it
Speaker 2: out on Spotify, Apple, wherever you get yours and hear
Speaker 2: all of our second dates along with our other Tier
Speaker 2: three segments that we offer on this show.
Speaker 5: Let's be honest about our tears.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a tier half of a tear. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
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