WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Age-Ja-Vu

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<v Speaker 1>The second date up date Brook. Imagine if you had

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<v Speaker 1>to jump back into the dating pool, like for example,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's say you were caught being unfaithful to

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<v Speaker 1>your husband with your garbage guy Boon, that.

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<v Speaker 2>Would go down.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to be realistic here. You saw him

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<v Speaker 1>out in front of your house heaving large bags of

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<v Speaker 1>waste into that truck, and you just thought, God, I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I was that trash?

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<v Speaker 2>Can I do like a dirty man? Say that?

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<v Speaker 1>And the fact that she knows his name, so that

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<v Speaker 1>all leads to things happening and suddenly you have to

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<v Speaker 1>re enter the dating scene. How do you think you

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<v Speaker 1>would do?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I would be really disappointed.

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<v Speaker 1>You think you would be the disappointed? That's interesting?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think I'm a catch?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah. The text words always flubbing with guys saying

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<v Speaker 1>how Hotbrook is?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's Boone's friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But the only reason I ask is because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Mike, just had to re enter the dating

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<v Speaker 1>pool after going through a separation and it led him

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<v Speaker 1>to us today. So Mike, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Hi, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't happen to work in the waste management industry?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you no, but I'm a I'm a huge fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Something in common. This is lunched.

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<v Speaker 2>It of the show, not of waste management. You know

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<v Speaker 2>that waste. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, let's talk about the date that you went on

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<v Speaker 1>the other night. Who is it with?

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<v Speaker 3>So? I guess I should start by saying that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>recently divorced a little over a year ago. I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>little out of practice, right, and I don't know with

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<v Speaker 3>all the apps and everything, it's it's sort of different.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's changed, sure nowadays everything is this? Is this

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<v Speaker 4>your first actual date since your divorce or have you

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<v Speaker 4>gone on others?

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<v Speaker 3>The first one and you know it was online?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, this is the very first one.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa lot of pressure, old man? Who's the person that

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<v Speaker 1>you met online?

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Tanya and uh, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>get two into specifics, but she is a little younger

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<v Speaker 3>than I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's say, Okay, that always sounds like it's a lot younger. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the way you said that, we're.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking legal here, right, she's legal. But let's just say

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<v Speaker 3>she's definitely younger than I out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she's in her twenties.

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<v Speaker 1>You're making assumption here, though. You sound like you're in

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<v Speaker 1>your mid thirties. And that's a weird age because you

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<v Speaker 1>can date girls that are like twenty three or you

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<v Speaker 1>can date girls that are like forty three. You're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of in the middle at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm put I'm pushing forty. But I was excited.

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<v Speaker 3>And here's why. Because of her profile. It showed her

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<v Speaker 3>as a devoted dog mom. So she sounds like caring,

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<v Speaker 3>per saying, and you know, having kids myself, if I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to try to hopefully end up with someone that's

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<v Speaker 3>a caring person, right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's cute. So you were just going for it because

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<v Speaker 2>she was like young and tight.

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<v Speaker 4>Still nice abs.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So Tanya is young, beautiful, and loves dogs. These

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<v Speaker 1>are all good things.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I'm not going to deny that she was

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<v Speaker 3>easy on the eyes.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get into the actual date with Tanya. Tell us where

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<v Speaker 1>you went? How did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>So we met up for dreams, just to get to

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<v Speaker 3>know each other, and it sort of naturally came up

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<v Speaker 3>that I've been married before, right, But you know, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't seem bothered by that's really good. But but

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<v Speaker 3>but we were interrupted and.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, someone you know, not your.

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<v Speaker 3>No no, it wasn't. Okay, but the guy that comes

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<v Speaker 3>up is my life insurance guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh do you feel really old life insurance guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it just bumped you from like late thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know you had a guy for that late fifties.

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<v Speaker 3>And so he I guess you had a few dreams

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<v Speaker 3>because he was like to sell me right then, and

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<v Speaker 3>they're like, oh, you know, for ten dollars more a month,

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<v Speaker 3>you can have term life insurance and blah.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah, oh god, oh man in front of Tanya.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she was cool. She was laughing about it.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you know, I said, let's get out of here,

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<v Speaker 3>and I asked her if she wanted to come to

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<v Speaker 3>my place and you know, watch a movie or something,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was into it. She said, yeah, okay, Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this first date is going quite.

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<v Speaker 1>Well for you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like his first date back on the scene and

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<v Speaker 4>he's just making it happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I know, I'm thinking, oh wow, man, this is

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<v Speaker 3>this is awesome. And then we get home to my place.

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<v Speaker 3>Had asked her if she wanted some wine or something,

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<v Speaker 3>but then she's like, it's like, really, it's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>later than I thought. So I should probably go who's

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<v Speaker 3>the old person?

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<v Speaker 5>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>That's really weird. Why would she do that?

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I was wondering, you know, because it's like

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<v Speaker 3>your face just it totally changed when we walked in.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I looked around the living room and thinking

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<v Speaker 3>was it something embarrassing or something I left out? But

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<v Speaker 3>everything seemed okay, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Hardy wait, like I'm thinking you're a recently divorced guy,

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<v Speaker 4>Like does the apartment look like you're a squatter or something,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like a bed on.

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<v Speaker 2>The I don't think that would scare young girl off, though, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Worried about exactly that pictures or you know, no, it's clean,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I have a cleaning person, and so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>racking my brain like what was it?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I want to know too.

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<v Speaker 1>So she just left after that, and you have you

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her since?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>And I tried texting, calling, whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>And the thing is on this one, you need to

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<v Speaker 4>know if there's something weird in this place, like you're

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<v Speaker 4>just beginning dating, if you're going to bring other women

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<v Speaker 4>back to your pound, maybe need to change whatever she saw.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's a good point. I want the feedback.

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<v Speaker 1>To maybe Tanya took out her phone and googled what

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<v Speaker 1>term life insurance was and realized how old you truly are,

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<v Speaker 1>and it scared her off. But we're gonna find out

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<v Speaker 1>for sure when we call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, thank you, I'm a little nervous. Thank you though,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on, man, second date update. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>during the break, Brooke pulled me aside and said she

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<v Speaker 1>has a problem with older men dating much younger girls.

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<v Speaker 3>With it.

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<v Speaker 1>But while she was talking to me, one of the

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<v Speaker 1>young fit promo boys and she looked at him like

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<v Speaker 1>he was a giant Reese's peanut buttercup. Oh no, she

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<v Speaker 1>was licking her lips. Her giant glasses fogged right up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, So to all the ladies on the textboard

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<v Speaker 1>right now at seven eighty five, nine to two, saying

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<v Speaker 1>he shouldn't be dating someone ten years younger, maybe direct

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<v Speaker 1>your advice to Brook, say with.

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<v Speaker 2>That peanut butter because even.

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<v Speaker 1>Though she's married, doesn't mean Brook can't peruse the menu.

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<v Speaker 1>Mama wants to see the special of the day.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just not going to order it.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason why I would bring that up is because

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners. Mike went out with a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who's a few years younger than him and ended up

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<v Speaker 1>having a great time until they got back to his house,

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<v Speaker 1>where she started acting a little bit weird. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>try and help figure out the reason why, Mike.

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<v Speaker 4>You ready, yes, Oh my god, I've been thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it's because you offered her wine instead of Alexis's

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<v Speaker 4>favorite white cloth exactly. Maybe she was like, this guy

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't get me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm out.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish I knew what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she was worried that you were going to card her.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's going to get kicked down.

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<v Speaker 1>But only one way to find out is by just

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<v Speaker 1>asking her directly. So I'm going to dial her number

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, okay, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember this is Mike's first online date that he's ever

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<v Speaker 1>had since his divorce happened a few years back.

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<v Speaker 2>So a year back.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I'm just saying thank you for the fact check.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. It's called Tanya.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, is this Tanya?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, mister she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Tanya, how's it going on? My name is Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I've never been called by a radio, so you

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<v Speaker 5>might be familiar with us.

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<v Speaker 1>I do these awesome parody songs every week. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard about them? Young Jeffrey song of the Week.

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<v Speaker 5>I may have heard it, but I wouldn't be able

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<v Speaker 5>to be like, yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>A huge fan, huge fan. I can tell she's she's intimidated.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be intimidated.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not going to sing to you if it makes

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<v Speaker 2>you feel better, Tanya.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The real reason that we're calling is because we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment called a second Date update. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that before?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, now we're getting the honesty. I like that, Tanya.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we need.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where we help our listeners who've gone out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date recently figure out the reason why they're getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the other day you went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, you remember Mike?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I remember Mike.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we've spoke to Mike about the hangout that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys had going to the bar, and we want to

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<v Speaker 1>get your perspective on it. How was it for you?

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<v Speaker 5>You just want me to tell you about the date.

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<v Speaker 4>Or just like about your feelings about him too, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 4>did you have fun?

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<v Speaker 2>We could start there.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, okay, uh, yeah I had fun. I mean he's

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<v Speaker 5>very nice, very personable.

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<v Speaker 1>So why aren't you dating him anymore?

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<v Speaker 2>Stop? Jeffrey, sorry getting there. I know these are all

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<v Speaker 2>good things.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, yeah, there was nothing wrong with him, Like

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<v Speaker 5>he was fine. He really was. I would definitely have

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<v Speaker 5>gone out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought you were very fine too, if you just

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<v Speaker 1>want okay, that's yeah, it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So what changed? I mean, you're not calling him back?

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<v Speaker 2>Why why did that change?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, like I said, it went well, and I actually

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<v Speaker 5>went back to his place with him. We were going

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<v Speaker 5>to watch a movie and then everything kind of just

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<v Speaker 5>fell apart and I had to leave right then and

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<v Speaker 5>there I was like I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we heard that happen, but I don't think Mike

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<v Speaker 1>knows the reason why him.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So when we pulled up, I really didn't recognize anything.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't think of having been there before. But we

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<v Speaker 5>get into the house and I immediately know I've been

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<v Speaker 5>here before.

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<v Speaker 2>You've been in his house before.

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<v Speaker 5>I have been in his house before.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, No, She's like I have amnesia?

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<v Speaker 5>Was definitely not his ex wife, but I have met

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<v Speaker 5>his ex wife. Okay, about five years ago. I actually

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<v Speaker 5>used to babysit kids in that house.

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<v Speaker 2>You were a baby.

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<v Speaker 5>They must have been separated because Mike didn't live there. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>I never saw a guy. It was just the mom,

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<v Speaker 5>just the kids, and I used to babysit them for

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<v Speaker 5>like almost a year. Whoa, I never met him. But

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<v Speaker 5>as soon as I got to that house, I saw

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<v Speaker 5>the living room, I saw the paintings on the wall,

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<v Speaker 5>and they're like pictures, and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>I know these kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just so awkward because like, how am I

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<v Speaker 5>going to ever meet these kids then be like and

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<v Speaker 5>now I'm dating your dad.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, at least you know the kids like you.

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<v Speaker 5>They did like me, but it's been five years. They're

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<v Speaker 5>all grown up. They're gonna hate me. They're gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 5>what a homewrecker, And I'm going to be like, you

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<v Speaker 5>did this. It was like the long time, but like,

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<v Speaker 5>I can't.

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<v Speaker 4>You're saying that they're going to assume that you, like,

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<v Speaker 4>were having an affair or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, that was the first thing that came into my head.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh my god, these kids are going

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<v Speaker 5>to hate me. I have to get out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>But once you had that realization, why didn't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>Mike that? Why did you just leave? Because it like

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<v Speaker 1>it left him not knowing what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I felt really, really awkward, and I felt embarrassed, and

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<v Speaker 5>I honestly didn't really know how to handle the situation.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just felt like gott to get out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think I know how to handle the situation,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's by putting you in direct contact with Mike

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<v Speaker 1>right now, because he's on the other line listening.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. He wants to talk to you. Mike.

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<v Speaker 3>You there, Yeah, Oh my goodness, Oh wow, wow, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>Weird. I really you're a great guy. It was nothing

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<v Speaker 5>about about you. It's just the fact that i've like

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<v Speaker 5>given your kids bad Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>This is this is the crazy, This is the weirdest

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<v Speaker 3>thing that. Oh I can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 5>You weren't living there, right, Like, I didn't just not

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<v Speaker 5>see you, because that would be probably even worse.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, No, No, I you know. Basically the arrangement was

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<v Speaker 3>that I was out of the house after we separated,

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<v Speaker 3>and in the final divorce, I ended up getting the house.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I have it.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you move back in, Okay, I mean, but Mike,

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<v Speaker 4>do you see this as a deal breaker because I

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<v Speaker 4>know you're making a bunch of assumptions Tanya about like

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<v Speaker 4>what his family will think about you. But you don't

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<v Speaker 4>even know why they got divorced. Maybe it's his ex

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<v Speaker 4>wife that asked for the divorce.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. It was just the first thing that

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<v Speaker 5>I thought, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that you know all this, like, what are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. I think this is actually positive.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's great news. I mean, she already knows

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<v Speaker 3>my kids, and you know, you already know how to

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<v Speaker 3>get to the house.

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<v Speaker 2>You know where the silver drawer is, how to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>You're really familiar with the kitchen, you know, and in a.

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<v Speaker 1>Few years, Mike's gonna need help bathing. You can help

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<v Speaker 1>him out with that.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe it sounds tiny like he's not concerned about, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>his kids hating you.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds the opposite.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, this that's cool. But I was just kind

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<v Speaker 5>of thinking this was a date or two or maybe

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<v Speaker 5>leading to something. And now I'm like a second mom

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<v Speaker 5>because I know where the kitchen is like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know where to go from here.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, you got to take

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<v Speaker 3>these things a little, you know, a day at a time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying, well, move in now. I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 3>that if it ultimately gets to that point, don't talk

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<v Speaker 3>about don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just focus on getting that second date, because

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<v Speaker 1>I know for Mike, I bet nothing would feel better

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<v Speaker 1>then showing up to his ex's house with their babysitter girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 5>Crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's crazy sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's health, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, at this point, I just need to ask you, Tanya,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on another date with

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<v Speaker 1>Mike because we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's definitely weird, but it's kind of cool

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<v Speaker 5>weird and no, maybe this is kind of like the

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<v Speaker 5>movie moment. Let's let's try it.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of movie?

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<v Speaker 5>Not that kind of movie?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, congratulations you too. It sounds like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are going to go out again.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to say the movie it would be

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<v Speaker 3>fatal attraction, but Tanya probably doesn't even know.

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<v Speaker 5>What that is. I know what that is, family movie night.

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<v Speaker 2>Take that that ends well.

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<v Speaker 5>Something, I think it ends ination like try and get.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's not have a long ago. It's a long time

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<v Speaker 3>of old alright.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think we could get any sexier, but we

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<v Speaker 1>did it. Jeffrey in the morning,