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Speaker 2: Hmmm?

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Speaker 1: Did you think it was just he's an idiot? Is

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Speaker 2: As submitted by Dophia sonor no relation?

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, so throwaway eighty three sixty two fifty

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Speaker 1: all look extremely alike. Both of our parents have brown

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Speaker 1: on the other side is from Norway and looks very different.

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Speaker 1: to our very American look. What is an American look?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. America is so diverse America.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can have a general American look.

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Speaker 3: Say I look maybe like kind of sweetish or whatever.

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Speaker 3: You literally said you look native American. I never said that,

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Speaker 2: I have Native American heritage. John is very small, very small,

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Speaker 3: Grand my grandparents and great grandparents. So and which American? Uh,

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Yeah, you are the most. I was gonna say.

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Speaker 1: The only way that they have a very American look

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Speaker 3: Why, which is why it is me.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, So to what I thought was no one's surprised.

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Speaker 1: You can't have that, you can't have that?

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Speaker 1: No, that doesn't look like our mom. He told me

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Speaker 1: madder at all of us, saying that Amy has manipulated

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Speaker 3: In terms of is the a hole?

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Speaker 1: He thinks the kid looks too much like his wife.

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Speaker 3: Unacceptable, that's what he's saying. And he's like, it should

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Speaker 1: It just looks like his partner.

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Speaker 1: She's just got strong genes.

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Speaker 1: One commoner says, does your brother have any mental illness

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Speaker 2: Yikes, one hundred percent right, you did it one hundred

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Speaker 1: Amy doesn't want a divorce right now at least. Oh oh,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, that's what we thought.

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Speaker 1: But they told me that it was just anxiety, that

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Speaker 1: he says, I thought about that. I asked my parents

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Speaker 3: And that's the end of Jessica Bell says, it's not anxiety,

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Speaker 3: it's paranoid delusion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, that sounds a lot more accurate, a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean this person just needs help at this point.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and there maybe that's why the wife is deciding

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it's what it sounds like. Yes, mental

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Speaker 2: If you're having a literal like delusion or people have

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Speaker 3: When you see things? What host nations hallucinations?

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Speaker 2: Right, that's a case where it's like it's low key

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Speaker 3: Like, when would they be able to get in their

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Speaker 3: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives time

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Speaker 3: for okop Relash. I'm trying to throw my niece in

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Speaker 3: like a chinchilla coat. I mean, may have one hundred chinchillas.

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Speaker 2: It's that cheap, dude, twenty thousand. That's insaneity. That's an

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Speaker 3: I saw her wearing it, asked her where she bought it,

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Speaker 3: You know, I guess it's like a nice Christmas gift

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Speaker 2: If someone was like, hey, John, I'm going to give

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Speaker 3: while visiting my sister. While I was putting it back

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Speaker 3: then my niece started cackling and the smell of paint

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Speaker 3: I saved it on my phone, sent it to her

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Speaker 3: sister's only child, right and then she married a wealthy man.

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Speaker 3: The wealthy man mother god bother. Well, we got into

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Speaker 3: argument and she said that they will not be paying it.

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Speaker 3: And if I wanted a new one. I should get

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Speaker 3: my husband to buy it for me. I don't think

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Speaker 3: that let's keep going. I don't think that makes sense.

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Speaker 3: I think that they should pay for it. They can

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Speaker 3: afford to as well. In my opinion, they should sell

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Speaker 3: my niece's car and pay me back my money. Now

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Speaker 3: you're getting We did not reach an agreement, so I

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Speaker 3: told her that I will be suing and reminded her

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Speaker 3: that I have video evidence that her daughter A did

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Speaker 3: it on purpose for online clout and be exactly how

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Speaker 3: expensive it was your honor she did it for clouts?

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Speaker 3: She did? She did. People in my life are not

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Speaker 3: objective at all. Some are saying that they are the

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Speaker 3: a holes for not buying me a new one, and

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Speaker 3: some are so obsessed with the price of the coat

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Speaker 3: that they are calling me an a hole for simply

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Speaker 3: owning one and wanting a new one.

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Speaker 2: So am I the A hole? I think yes, because

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Speaker 2: the thing. It would be a different story if she

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Speaker 2: personally paid the twenty thousand, that's would have been twenty

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Speaker 2: thousand out of her account.

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Speaker 3: This was a gift. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I I wouldn't I wouldn't go that far. I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: say sell the car and all this stuff.

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Speaker 3: I well, if you were gifted, maybe this is dated,

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Speaker 3: but if you were gifted like a like an original

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Speaker 3: Kanye album, right right, like maybe you didn't want that anymore.

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Speaker 3: Let's go Kendrick. Let's go Kenrick, right like, if you

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Speaker 3: were like gifted like a like a like a record,

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Speaker 3: like an unreleased Kendrick album, right, and it's worth like

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Speaker 3: it's worth like twenty thousand dollars right all right? And

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Speaker 3: then and then someone saw your your your your sister's

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Speaker 3: kid comes over and records a prank saying I'm going

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Speaker 3: to destroy John's twenty thousand dollars sucker and smashes it

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Speaker 3: on the ground. Hmmm, what would you what punishment do

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Speaker 3: you think would would get through to this kid that

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Speaker 3: that is not okay to do?

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Speaker 2: I'd honestly, I don't know how I would do. But

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Speaker 2: here's what I think they should do. It's it seems

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Speaker 2: like I don't know how direct cleaning works. But I mean,

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Speaker 2: is it repairable? Like no, they said it isn't.

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Speaker 3: Oh they said it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, never mind, Okay, I don't know, like it's not

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Speaker 2: it doesn't. The thing I think here is it's not

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Speaker 2: like it for me. That would be sentimental and dollar value.

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Speaker 2: So like, this is something that I don't think she

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Speaker 2: really like.

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Speaker 3: Let's let's say let's say she cares Okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: that's tough. I mean I think it's okay, man, that's hard. Well,

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Speaker 3: she has a car. I think repercussions for the actions.

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Speaker 3: There needs to be repercussions, right, you sell the car

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Speaker 3: and you and you give the money. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if I will go that far, but I think I

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Speaker 3: think you know what I would do. I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: you're we're going to make sure she's paying me like

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Speaker 3: a few hundred dollars a month or whatever for the

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Speaker 3: rest of her life for a while. Yeah, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like something like that.

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Speaker 2: She needs, like you know what, pay me, like give

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Speaker 2: me a thousand or like she probably doesn't have a

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Speaker 2: lot on her bank account, but like like let's let's

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Speaker 2: figure out what let's figure out what she has give

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Speaker 2: Let's take out a large like down payment now to

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Speaker 2: be like feel the pain. And she's like young, so

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Speaker 2: she'll hate that and then make her pay like a

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Speaker 2: monthly for like a long time.

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Speaker 3: That's probably what I would do. I would have her

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Speaker 3: sell the car honestly, woa, but the like I think

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Speaker 3: like she needs Like I think that would that's like

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Speaker 3: something taken away that actually would affect you. I mean

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Speaker 3: it would it would affect her. I think it would

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Speaker 3: affect her, and it would make her realize like she

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Speaker 3: shouldn't do shit like this. Fair fair and like I like, like,

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Speaker 3: let's say the car is like fifteen thousand, I I

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Speaker 3: guess have to be actually twenty thousand, or like say

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Speaker 3: it's even like five thousand or six thousand, Like what's

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Speaker 3: important is you lose is something. But the thing is

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Speaker 3: that probably will make life just terrible for the sister

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Speaker 3: because then she's gonna have to drive her kid around everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Again true, but that's kind of like at this point,

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Speaker 2: it's your kid that that screwed up, So cheesh