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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Tayle, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm fine? How are you?

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Speaker 1: We're doing okay, just fine though, So what's going on

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Speaker 1: with this guy Tom? I want you to kind of

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Speaker 1: fill us in on all the backstory because we're trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out if you've been ghosted. So why do

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Speaker 1: you why do you think that you're being sort of avoided?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I have no idea. I met this guy

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Speaker 3: Tom on the app and gave him my number, and

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Speaker 3: after a few weeks he was like, let's go to

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Speaker 3: dinner and it was really fun and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to see him again. But I didn't

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Speaker 3: hear from him again. And I reached out and I

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Speaker 3: never heard again. And I like him, but I felt

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Speaker 3: like we were a match. But I just I want

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Speaker 3: to figure out if he ghosted me, or if he's bad.

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Speaker 1: Or something, or if he's dead or something. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: well that would be that would be drastic. So we

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Speaker 1: should find out if he's dead, that would be a

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Speaker 1: good first step. But then maybe he's been busy, or

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Speaker 1: maybe it's something else, Maybe it's not that he's he's perished.

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Speaker 2: That's an interesting one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know that I've ever had anybody say

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Speaker 1: let's check and see, you know, a wellness check and

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Speaker 1: see if he's dead. But if he answers the phone

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Speaker 1: and says that he's dead, I'm not going to believe him.

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Speaker 1: I just want you to know that if you answer

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Speaker 1: the phone and say, hey, I'm If I ask for

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Speaker 1: Tom and he says I'm dead, I don't believe him.

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Speaker 1: But let's see what happens here. Maybe he's been busy,

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Speaker 1: maybe he's been distracted. Maybe something's going on, and we

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Speaker 1: can straighten things out and then set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another date and pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Sound good, Let's.

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Speaker 1: See what happens next part to have wait, he mut

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Speaker 1: the phone two minutes away. After the weekend, The frend

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Speaker 1: show is commercial free. Glad you're here. It's the weekend.

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Speaker 1: The French show is not. We're commercial free for the

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Speaker 1: next hour. Could in morning, Kayla? All right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call this guy Tom. You met on the apps.

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Speaker 1: You want to You thought the date went great. You

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Speaker 1: have not heard from him since the date. You've reached out.

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Speaker 1: He's not responding. You want to know why. All right,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call him now.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Kayla?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Tom?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Tom?

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is fredam call from the Fred's Show. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here. It's a morning radio show and

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can wa chat for just a minute?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, thank you so much. We're calling up

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Speaker 1: behalf of a woman named Kayla who says she met

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Speaker 1: you on one of the dating apps and you, guys,

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Speaker 1: recently went out. Do you remember her?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay?

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Speaker 1: Why oh yeah? Like why that? Why that reaction? And

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Speaker 1: how come you haven't reached out to her since the date?

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Speaker 1: Because she thought that there was an attraction and felt

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Speaker 1: like the date went well and was hoping to hear

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Speaker 2: So what's your version of the story.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, initially there there was, but she really

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Speaker 4: kind of creeping out, guys. She kept bringing up death,

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Speaker 4: answering to hire yeah for the entire date, like we're not.

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Speaker 1: Dead, because she was wondering if you were dead. But

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Speaker 1: this sounds like you're not dead, but she was talking

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry yeah, I'm sure she did wonder if I

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Speaker 4: was crazy. Okay, So, like about ten minutes at a dinner,

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Speaker 4: out of nowhere, she got a straight face, and all

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Speaker 4: of a sudden, she's like, so, what do you think

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Speaker 4: happens when you die? And I'm like, all right, well,

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Speaker 4: I guess I don't know, you know, And I'm just

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Speaker 1: Like, just so I'm wondering. It's what do you think

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Speaker 4: And you know? And I answered to keep things moving,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, I think you're reunited where your

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Speaker 4: love loves or something, you know. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It was just it was really weird question from the spot.

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Speaker 4: And a few minutes later, she's like, do you want

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Speaker 4: to be cremated? Do you want to be very I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, I mean, which.

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Speaker 2: You don't want?

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Speaker 1: You don't You don't have to answer that. So so

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Speaker 1: she wants to know what happens after you die. She

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Speaker 1: wants to know if you want to be cremated or buried.

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Speaker 1: And this is all within the first couple of drinks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, first couple of drinks and she's mixing her She's

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Speaker 4: like it's gonna be really sad we die one day.

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Speaker 4: I wonder who's going to show up to my funeral?

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Speaker 4: You know, do you think I'm going to reb reunited

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Speaker 4: with my TETs when I die? Blah blah blah blah

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Speaker 4: blah bah' missing that And it was just like everything

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Speaker 4: she said was just it was winning them, but it

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Speaker 4: was all death. And she had a street seat the

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Speaker 4: entire time to the street. It's like, I'm sitting there

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Speaker 4: with Wednesday Adams.

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Speaker 1: And it's like, yeah, like, are you a serial killer?

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Speaker 1: Or what's going on? I forgot to mention that Kayla

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Speaker 1: is here, very very forgetful. Yeah, Kayla, what's up with

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Speaker 1: all the death? I mean a lot of references on

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Speaker 1: the date you referenced it a minute ago, Like why

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Speaker 3: I mean, you guys never think about death.

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Speaker 1: I do, but that on a first date. I'm usually

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Speaker 1: just trying to get through it without.

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Speaker 3: Crying, and I just think about it all the time.

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Speaker 3: I thought everybody just thought about it all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think we think about it all the time.

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Speaker 1: Were you satisfied with his answers by the way, I mean.

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Speaker 3: It was just, you know, I mean, I don't think

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Speaker 3: it's creepy. I I don't know. I would still go

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Speaker 3: out again. I thought we had a really good connection.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you a lot of emotion there. I like those questions, though,

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Speaker 2: I mean, would you rather ask? Would you rather ask that?

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Speaker 2: Or what's your favorite color?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: I can't stand when you want to say that I

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Speaker 2: have no color? Is what I used to say? How

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Speaker 2: do you ask you what your favorite color was? And

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Speaker 2: now you're married? Yes, men who ask you the dumbest

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Speaker 2: questions like do you think you're gonna die? Really?

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Speaker 1: You would have much rather talked about how you think

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Speaker 1: what the afterlife is?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: We can talk about anything else, maybe over like an

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Speaker 3: edible after like a couple of months, and not all

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Speaker 2: And that's a good question asked first dates.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, okay, I might I would be freaked out

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Speaker 1: to I mean, it's an interesting conversation, but definitely not

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Speaker 1: on a first date. I mean, I guess you could,

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Speaker 1: you know, connect it to spirituality and you could definitely

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Speaker 1: get deep. But I don't even know this person. She's

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Speaker 1: asking me about being dead. I mean, maybe she go

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Speaker 1: kill me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Can we talk about cremation over or DERs. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's another thing, not very appetizing. Look, Tom, I.

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Speaker 1: Think I know the answer, But would you consider giving

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Speaker 1: her another chance? Would you consider going out again? Who

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Speaker 1: knows what the topic might be, you know, maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: nuclear war on the next date.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: She's very lovely, but thank you know, yeah that interesting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just saying sorry.

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Speaker 1: For your loss there, but yeah, I'm just puzzled by this.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with her Polina?

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Speaker 2: I actually would We can talk offline, you and I.

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Speaker 1: I'm not paying for that, so no, Kayla, is this

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Speaker 1: a normal sort of subject matter for you? Like, is

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Speaker 1: this something you talk about with everybody you first meet usually?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just one of those things that's you know,

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Speaker 3: it's on the top of my mind and so it

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Speaker 3: comes up, you know, around us all the time.

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Speaker 1: Turn your locations on, Pauline, if you go on a

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Speaker 1: date with you, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't plan to murder anyone.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, Okay, I gotta go, Kayla. Good luck to you,

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Speaker 1: and and please be careful and don't do anything. And Tom,

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Speaker 1: I think you does one here, but thanks for your

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Speaker 1: time as well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks all guys. App sciure