WEBVTT - Nightcap - Hour 2: Marriage, The HOA, Bad Neighbors 0:00:05.360 --> 0:00:07.880 Draft Kings Sportsbook, an official sports betting partner of the 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:10.119 NFL Playoffs, is bringing you an offer that will help 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:13.760 make the playoffs electrifying. New customers can bet five bucks 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.439 on any game and get two hundred instantly in bonus 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:19.640 best Download the Draft Kings Sportsbook app now and see 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:22.599 code Shannon. New customers can bet just five bucks and 0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:25.880 get two hundred instantly and bonus bets only on Draft 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:38.760 Kings Sportsbook with the code Shannon. The crown is yours, Chad. Look, 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:41.360 I'm not look. I mean, two roles don't make it right. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.400 They don't make a left either. But why would that what? 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:45.160 Look? 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:53.600 You said that to that man's wife made? Bro, you 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:54.480 gotta be careful. 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:54.639 Bro. 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:56.880 I'll know you put yourself and that you put yourself 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.480 in a precarry your situation. 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:10.240 Hey what you put your hand? The large? What you're flying? Fish? Damn? Hey? 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:11.280 O O Joe it was? 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.319 I guess he had O Joe. It said it was 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.640 footage from a front door cam, not inside. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:17.959 Oh, the rink, the the ring? 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:18.399 What do you call? 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:20.480 I guess I guess that's what it is. I don't know. 0:01:20.840 --> 0:01:23.000 I would be speculating, but they said it was from 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:24.880 footage from a front door camera. 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.160 But even even still, you can't take your ring camera 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:28.920 and use it. 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:31.880 As as an invasion of privacy. 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.440 That too, and the user to extort to use it, 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:36.040 extort to do because he didn't want to pay the 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:36.720 nine sixty. 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.400 Oh yeah, Oh they're gonna get him up. Oh he's 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:40.520 gonna get that. Oh. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.480 I hope he has more than one property. I hope 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:44.320 he has like three or four property. And now you're 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:45.120 get them all. 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:49.280 You're going to get all of them, all of them. 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:51.480 Man, you agreed you need to just take one. You 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.720 don't need all of them. 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.880 Man, that was I forget. I forget the state it was. 0:01:57.400 --> 0:02:01.000 But uh uh. A woman had won the lottery. 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.840 She didn't tell her husband and she divorced it because 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:06.040 she didn't want to give him half. 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:08.280 You can do that. 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:12.960 No, the husband found out, they went the judge made 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:13.960 a given all to it. 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:19.400 What that's what hey? Man, Look you and I. 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:21.920 Do then been through situation with that child support and 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:23.000 they asked for discovery. 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:25.200 There you go. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.960 This is hey, this is what I make, This is 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:29.840 how much I got saved, this is what I got 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:31.920 stocks and bonds, this is what I have such as 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:35.360 no sir, you're a You're never a you're honest. This 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:38.960 is what we discovered. Mister Sharp held back three million dollars. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:43.560 Oh no, oh, no bad. They light your butt up. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:48.120 Hey, listen, that's that's that's one of the reasons I'm thankful. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:51.560 I'm thankful for those that I have kids from. I 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:54.000 ain't really have to deal with that. What I did 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:57.160 is I was able to do child support on my own, 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.000 my own terms, because obviously I was one that too 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.840 care of my kids, but I had none, none of them. 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.880 There was no ill intent, and I think one of 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:08.280 one of the things that I've always did, and I 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:13.080 think they made life so easy. Not easy, but they 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:16.200 made life so much more smoother. And I think it's 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:21.120 very important, very imperative that that you have kids from 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:24.280 those or you're choosing wisely, because they can make your 0:03:24.320 --> 0:03:24.960 life a living hell. 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:27.720 Yeah, told you know what, they can make it. 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.680 They can make your life living here and just throughout 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:35.120 the entirety of of of my adolescent even here, even 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:37.200 now as an adult man, those I have kids from 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:40.800 have been a huge blessing, a huge blessing, you know, 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.920 through my ups, through my downs now back in my ups, 0:03:43.920 --> 0:03:47.400 everybody's been very supportive, and I probably wasn't able to. 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:50.000 I probably wouldn't have been, wouldn't be wouldn't have been 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.800 able to get back to where I am now without 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:56.200 without without their help. So it's it's just just hearing 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:59.000 that story and what you said about the discover and 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:03.240 like all that. You know, feelers have to go through. Oh, 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:04.280 that's that sucks. 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:07.080 Yeah, I think for me. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:16.040 You say that, but you never know when people get angry. Yeah, 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:18.159 h man, it have been a situation. 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:19.599 Mm hmm. 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.719 Man, he's like, man, you know, me and my wife, 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:26.000 me and my old lady gonna split, right, but she cool? 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:33.240 I said, bro mm hmmm. I called a lighte five, right, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:35.600 He said, Man, why you call it that? I said, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:37.159 you're gonna like fire of your ass. 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:40.040 Yeah. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:44.880 People get angry m hmm because they feel like, well, 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:48.040 he's not gonna be with me. That means he's gonna 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.280 be with somebody else. And I mean that somebody else 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:51.800 might be getting more than I'm gonna get. 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:56.320 Mm hmmm. And so now all of a sudden, but again, 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:57.800 look at it. Look at the type of person you 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:58.599 having a child with. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:00.040 Oh, Joe, you never. 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.800 People get what is it what does that tell you. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:07.120 It's about when people get married. So you get married, 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:08.320 so you don't think, huh. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.400 Listen to what you just said. Yes, the woman is 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:14.360 worried about, Oh, this person gonna get more than when 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:18.640 I'm getting. So you already dealing with you. You already 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.360 dealing with the wrong kind of from the beginning, from 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:20.720 the jump. 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.640 So there's a reason why you get a prenup. Why 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.839 would you get a prenup if you married this woman 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.560 because you believe that woman is gonna be with you 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:32.080 for the rest of your life. Right, So if I 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:35.200 buy insurance, not that, don't run my car into somebody 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:37.599 to t b on somebody, just in case. 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.800 But Joe, you don't know when people get upset. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:44.719 When you get upset, you would like to think what 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:46.720 you would it wouldn't do, But you don't know if 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:48.040 you're in that situation. 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.760 Right, right, right, right, right, Well, I'm only speaking, I'm 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:52.960 only speaking from what I just said based on experience. 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:56.000 You remember, all my kids grown, So we've we've had 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:59.640 the arguments, we had the we've had the issue, the disagreements, 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:02.599 the getting mad and and me not being with you 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:04.440 and I'm with somebody else and then me not being 0:06:04.440 --> 0:06:05.760 with that when I'm with somebody else. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.279 But there was nothing get mad about that. Huh you 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:10.479 said they didn't get mad about that. 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.800 You just no, no, no, no. 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:15.880 When you left one to be with the other, nobody 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:16.280 got mad. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.839 Everybody was like, okay, okay, said go ahead, I'm happy 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:19.560 for you. 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:21.920 Oh obviously you know their their disagreements or not, but 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.240 not to the point where what hell I gotta go, 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:27.200 I gotta make sure I'm getting more. No, it wasn't. 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:30.880 It wasn't that. No, I mean, you're your example. Was 0:06:31.240 --> 0:06:34.000 I gotta make sure she ain't getting more than me? No, no, no, no, no, 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:35.960 we ain't had to deal with that. We ain't had 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:36.880 to do with that bullshit. 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:39.720 No. But my thing was I was gonna keep the 0:06:39.800 --> 0:06:42.760 kids equal anyway, because I didn't love any kid more 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.839 than I love the another, all my kids, regardless of 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:47.760 the sac circumstances which they would. 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.920 Conceived the mine right right. 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:55.080 And I'm gonna do you know, one get a birthday party, 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:56.880 all three, all of them, gonna get all the others 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:00.320 gonna get a birthday party, spend the same, be a 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:04.640 different theme, the same. Everybody go to everyone go to 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:06.640 private school, everybody to go to private school. Now, if 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:08.359 you choose not to send them to the private school, 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.760 that's on you, right. But no, I didn't. I mean, 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.760 I know I've felt some type of way. I mean, 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.360 think about it. Twenty one Savage was telling told the 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:21.000 story of how he felt his dad treated one of 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.680 his brothers better than he treated him, that he would 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.520 take his brother to buy stuff. He later grew up 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:30.920 to resent the dad and the brother m And that's 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:35.200 what happens if and that that's natural, that is natural. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:38.600 You do for a child more a child, more for 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:41.920 one child, and that child see it, that child will regret, 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.760 will resent the child that's getting everything. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:48.880 And it's not the child's fault. That's just human nature. 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:54.440 I do fall the best I can. I do fall, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.440 matter of fact, to the point where it's almost spoiling. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.920 Oh yeah, for sure, over overdue spoiling. 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:01.320 I don't. 0:08:01.480 --> 0:08:03.920 I don't. I'm trying to think of the last time, 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:06.920 and I'm glad, I'm glad we're on this topic. And 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:08.600 I know we have a lot of parents in the chat. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:12.200 Everybody's situation is different. I'm trying to think the last 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.920 time I even said no, it would have to be 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:19.640 something outrageous for me to actually say no, Like I 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.600 told you, come Christmas time. I don't know if you 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:28.240 remember the Christmas list my kids had. It was crazy crazy, 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.400 They got every last motherfucking thing on them because they 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:35.360 don't ask me for anything throughout the remainder throughout the year. 0:08:35.640 --> 0:08:39.280 That is that like, that's the outlayers of like crazy 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:43.360 purchases where it's like extremely expensive. So come Christmas time, 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:45.199 but I don't care what you could have put a 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:48.040 goddamn diraft when you got damn Christmas list, I'm gonna 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:50.800 find a way to get your ass a draft. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:57.640 Ye. Yeah. 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:02.240 But throughout the year, for you, guys live a normal life. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.240 You live a normal and you don't ask nothing out 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.600 out the blue that you know, like come on, now, 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.320 white white, why even ask me that? For me to 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:12.800 even question it, and you normally say no. Yeah, I 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:15.000 think that's how it is O Joe for the most part. 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:16.720 I know, if they come to me and ask me 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:22.120 for something, I'm like okay, because they already know I'm 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.960 I'm I'm I'm last option in not first choice. Yeah, 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:27.600 so I pretty said, so now I'm gonna find it, Okay, 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:31.520 So so what what happened? Well, Dad, blah blah blah 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:33.800 blah blah blah said, Okay, so what do we learn 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:35.839 from this? So this is not gonna be a real 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:40.640 current theme, right, No, Dad, Okay, let's let's make sure. 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.800 Are we we clear? I mean, okay, are we crystal clear? 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:45.800 Yeah? No? 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:49.280 Are we abundantly clear? You know what I'm saying, Oh Joe, 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:51.080 I'm going through all the clear I'm going through all 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:53.920 the scenarios. I want to be crystal and I want 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:57.000 to be abundantly clear that this is not gonna happen 0:09:57.000 --> 0:10:00.680 again now, right And for the I can honestly say 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.600 they haven't put themselves in the same situation twice. 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:04.440 Right. 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:09.079 Uh, But like I said, he I sent you to school. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:12.320 Your mom did a great job of teaching you right 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.200 from wrong when you came you. I know, damn well, 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.240 I talked you right from wrong because I ain't play right, and. 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.240 So you know right from her. That's that's all. That's 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:20.200 all you can do, o cho. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.000 You try to instill whatever you can in your children, 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:25.480 and then when they get out of the own, hopefully 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:29.520 you've done enough, and it triggers like okay, this is 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:32.360 this is this is wrong, and so I always go 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.160 back to like my my grandfather when he told me 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:36.880 and my brother, he said, I don't care what you're becoming. 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.920 Life, just never have to look at me and your 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:41.600 grandma and say I'm sorry. That's it. 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:44.760 So every time I think about doing something that might 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:49.400 cause you know, Granda would lie, I couldn't look. 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.160 I couldn't look at my grandad and say I'm sorry. 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.760 Right, So, and you know, they work. My kids work. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.679 My son worked hard. He has a wife and a kid. 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.000 I told it, that's what comes along with the territory. 0:10:59.679 --> 0:11:01.559 A lot of times, like I call, he already in 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:04.640 the bed asleep. But that's the responsibility of having a man. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.960 I mean of being a man and having a family. 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:11.040 My daughters, she's in mad school. Let mean, you know, hey, 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:13.320 I call a lot of times. My calls gough, hey dad, 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:14.520 I'm sorry, I'm studying. 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:16.360 I'm doing this. You know I was in rotation. 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.319 I'm gonna call for the next you know, forty eight hours, 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:19.280 blah blah blah. 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:23.920 Okay, my oldest, it is what it is. But you 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:25.040 got responsibility. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:25.400 I don't. 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:29.959 I don't like lazy. I don't like I despise I 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:33.240 to test lazy. And I told my kids the exact 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:35.520 same thing what my grandfather told my brother and I. 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:38.000 He says, I don't care what you do. You just 0:11:38.080 --> 0:11:41.000 can't do it here, right, You ain't got to do nothing. 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:42.600 Oh so he said, you ain't got to do nothing, 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:44.080 but you can't do it here. 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:47.640 But I have a question if if your kids, if 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.800 you were to say that, and you tell your kids 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:53.079 that you don't have to do nothing, you despised being lazy, 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.520 But do you what they they can't get. 0:11:56.520 --> 0:11:59.080 They can't get shi t out of center. They know 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.720 and they know that mm hmm. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:06.000 They can't get s hr t shadow, not of you, lazy. 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:10.400 Oh no, I despised. I detested you seriously. 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:12.920 As hard as I work. 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:17.440 Right, Oh so I told you I only got room 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:18.680 for one lazy sharp. 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:24.400 I'm it Caleb Kayley, And ain't nowhere in hell you 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:25.120 can be lazy. 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:32.200 You gotta be doing something. Don't play that on your man. 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:34.880 Well you were, you. 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.720 Were, you a tough dad, black shitt. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:42.000 I worked my ass off private school college. They ain't 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:43.800 have to pay a dime, and I gave him twoitiones 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:48.280 and I bought them cars. There ain't no excuse no 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:53.720 excuse for you to be lazy, zero zilk none And 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:57.560 they know it. They know what I expect from them, 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:58.240 I demanded. 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:07.760 I like that. I like that. So, hey, you can 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:08.960 change jobs. I don't care. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:12.480 Hey, you're not happy, find another one, right, But you 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.960 don't quit that one until you find another one, right, 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:18.160 because I ain't gonn to take care of you. 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:19.080 You're grown. 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.680 When you when you say grown? What what age is grown? 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:24.839 Like? When do you? 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:26.440 When do you stop being? 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:27.920 When they told me they can go and come if 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:28.760 they please. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:31.559 I ain't nobody ever told you that now? 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:34.480 Yeah, no, I mean no, no, they don't. I mean. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.720 Once my kids went to college. My daughter stayed with 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:42.400 me her freshman year. Uh, and then you know, I 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:44.360 just told her, I say, you know, look, you coming 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:48.040 in this. This ain't gonna work. I know you're coming 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:51.800 in late. I know you've grown, you're grown. I know 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:56.120 you're grown. You can't come in here like that. I 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:57.800 couldn't come in my grown my house like that. You 0:13:57.840 --> 0:13:58.800 can't come in mind. 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:00.640 Damn. 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:02.240 Mm hmmm. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:04.520 Mm hmmm. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:06.840 Ain't coming to my house like that, Joe. 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:14.360 But you but look for the most part, yeah, my 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:18.040 kids really never like that like that hang out, hangout tight, 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.080 not that I know of right now, what they did 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:21.520 in college. 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:24.200 They're in college. They supposed to have let their hair. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.720 Down, right right, right, you gotta enjoy yourself. 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:32.240 Yeah, and I made sure my kids, like my h 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:35.640 my order two went to the same college, but I 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:37.000 made sure they had their own place. 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:38.240 Mm hmmm. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.280 They're like, well, nah, Daddy, can let us say? No? 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:40.840 You can't. 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.240 I say, you're male, you're a female. You don't need 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:44.720 to see who he bringing in. And he don't need 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.600 to see who you're bringing in because that's your brother. 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:50.040 He ain't gonna be going for that. You you're a 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:53.160 college kid. You're a college female. Right, You're gonna have 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:59.800 guys keep your business private, right. But I'm also telling 0:14:59.880 --> 0:15:01.360 me watch out for your sister now. 0:15:01.800 --> 0:15:07.240 Mm hm. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:15.240 He very protective of his sisters, right, we're slaying stuff. Hey, bro, 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:18.040 that's my sister. Don't disrespect my sister like that. 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:25.840 Like okay, damn, okay, that's how you feel about your sister. 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:29.840 Yeah, oh he feels something, tell some type of way 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:34.080 about the sisters. But no, I just think, like I said, 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.920 I just you know, I expect my kids to be, 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.560 you know, be respectful and that's all I asked. 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:42.080 And they just, Hey, talk to your mom like you 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:42.680 would talk to me. 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.600 If you wouldn't say that, you wouldn't and you know 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:49.840 you're not going to talk to me any kind of way. 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:53.840 Don't talk to your mom like that, right. Yeah, so 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.520 they mom never had to say he had to really 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:58.520 call me once. They gotta a once. They got sides. 0:15:58.600 --> 0:16:00.840 You know, they're grown. Like I said, they got eighteen, 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.280 they got twenty one, even twenty five. 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:03.640 To this day. 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:05.560 Yeah, no issue. 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:08.160 They already know their mom called me and say what 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:11.480 such a bold No, they got hell to pay. Right, 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:15.000 I'm on the plane, I'm coming, I'm gonna be Hey, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:17.080 I'm gonna be wherever wherever they are. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:18.320 I'm coming. Wait. 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:21.200 Now, I don't read a private jet often, but if 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:23.760 they mom said something happened, they talked this or that, 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:24.840 I'm on the private jet. 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.760 I'm coming. I'll be there in five hours. 0:16:28.400 --> 0:16:36.840 Yeah, my older my older kids, they Mama, Nathaniel, I 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:40.800 don't play that, Nathaniel. Listen. You know you know you 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:43.360 know how we grew up. Now for sure you know 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.640 how he grew up there, so you already you already 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:49.360 know what their mama's hitting on. Now, we ain't playing 0:16:49.400 --> 0:16:52.840 we straight out the city, ain't none of that. Talk 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:57.320 back to who and who house even though you even listen, 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:02.640 even though you've grown now talk back to who she nah? 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:04.720 And I think they've done such a good job. 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:07.560 Yeah, I don't think that's a job. I don't think 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.280 they would. I think they I think the girls are 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:13.800 at a point now mm hmmm. They got their own place. Yeah, 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:17.040 if they feel like, you know what, I'm just gonna 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:19.359 go into my place. Let the thing down down for 0:17:19.440 --> 0:17:21.360 a week or two. I don't think. I don't think 0:17:21.400 --> 0:17:24.639 it's like, you know, because you know, they kind of 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.240 like they got a lot of similarities in them. And 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:29.840 I can see, you know, they but they butt heads 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:32.600 a little bit. They got a lot like you know, 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:36.480 my mom was like, well you just like her. Right, 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:39.440 That's why y'all ram in it. That's why y'all button heads. 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:39.840 Right. 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.639 They can't they can't. They can't be in the same 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:45.679 household now that the kids are older for too long, no. 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:47.760 No, too grown too no no no now, grown people 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:49.720 no nohing. Grown people are supposed to be like that. 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:52.600 And I get it, like a large percentage of the 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.439 of the kids live with their parents. 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:58.720 I think I forgot the stab. But it's like a huge. 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:02.359 Number, like fifty six or the kids twenty eight no 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:04.040 to live at home with their parents. 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:05.120 And I get it. 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:08.239 But but if you live with your parents, you got 0:18:08.280 --> 0:18:08.920 to be respectful. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:10.959 You got to like you up under that room. You're like, oh, 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:11.520 I'm grown? 0:18:11.680 --> 0:18:12.080 What grown? 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:13.880 People get their own place? Yeah? 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:17.120 Yeah, I mean it. And you know time times are 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:20.280 tough now, you know, especially in this economy. So so 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:22.800 I think the percentage is so high because it's so 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:25.679 difficult for people to actually get on their feet and 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:29.520 maintain a healthy lifestyle because of the goddamn economy. 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:32.159 Well guess what ain't the economy. Don't call you to 0:18:32.160 --> 0:18:35.040 be disrespectful? You living to somebody else, make somebody else how, 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:37.080 keep your down, mind blows, and do what they ask 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:37.479 you to do. 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:39.280 They say, clean up your room, clean up your room. 0:18:39.440 --> 0:18:40.919 They ask you to take out the trash, take out 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:42.919 the trash, they ask you to pick up, pick up. 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:46.040 I mean, there ain't nothing economy. 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:47.560 Yeah, I know I know what you I know what 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:47.840 you mean. 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:48.560 I know what you mean. 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:51.000 But it's just difficult when you're when you're of a 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:53.600 certain age and you know things aren't going right in 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.960 your life and you need mom or you need daddy, 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:58.159 and you want to be under their roof until you 0:18:58.160 --> 0:18:59.879 can get yourself, get yourself. 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:01.720 I can't my roof. I'm gonna pay for them to 0:19:01.720 --> 0:19:03.640 get their own roof. They can't be up under my roof. 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:06.879 They can't be up. 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:12.080