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Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast am on iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: And welcome back to Coast to Coast George Nori with you,

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Speaker 2: Join Demagio with us. Respected expert on the topic of

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Speaker 2: reincarnation and the soul. She's been a member of the

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Speaker 2: Edgar Casees Association for Research and Enlightenment since nineteen eighty seven,

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Speaker 2: has earned her master's degree in transpersonal Studies and her

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Speaker 2: Spiritual mentor certification to Atlantic University. Her latest book is

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Speaker 2: called Soulmates and Twin Souls. Joan, Welcome back, How are you?

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Speaker 3: How good? How are you? George? So nice to talk

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Speaker 3: to you again.

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Speaker 2: Looking forward to this and boy, you have a host

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Speaker 2: slew of books out on the soul, But Soulmates this

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Speaker 2: is one of your first, isn't it?

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Speaker 3: It is?

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Speaker 1: It is.

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Speaker 3: I really wasn't intending to write this book. It just

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Speaker 3: sort of happened.

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Speaker 2: What is a soulmate? As far as you're concerned.

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Speaker 3: The soulmate is someone with whom you've had past life connection.

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Speaker 3: So it's really a misunders to a concept, which is

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Speaker 3: why I wrote the book. I had somebody close to

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Speaker 3: me tell me that his wife had left him because

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Speaker 3: she was reading about soulmates and twin souls and twin flames,

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Speaker 3: and decided he wasn'to either of those. So she was

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Speaker 3: off to find her her true soulmate. And and I thought, well, gee,

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Speaker 3: she you know I was. I thought she knew that

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Speaker 3: I dealt with this as part of my work. I

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Speaker 3: could have said her straight about really what a soulmate is,

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Speaker 3: because it's a very misunderstood miss concept. People assume that

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Speaker 3: it's always a romantic partner, you know, you're looking for

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Speaker 3: that other half of you that you feel is missing,

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Speaker 3: And it's not that way at all. It's it's not

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Speaker 3: even limited to male female relationships. There are our parents,

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Speaker 3: our siblings, our children, our relatives, our colleagues and teachers

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Speaker 3: and friends. They're all our soulmates that we travel together,

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Speaker 3: you know, from lifetime to lifetime in this group of souls.

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Speaker 3: And that's what makes up a soulmate, somebody that's been

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Speaker 3: with you before.

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Speaker 2: Could you have a soulmate on the planet right now

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Speaker 2: that you don't even know is out there?

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Speaker 3: Of course, yes, absolutely, yeah, yeah, they haven't presented themselves

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Speaker 3: yet to you, or maybe they won't. It depends on

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Speaker 3: what your pre life planning session determined, you know, they

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Speaker 3: they told you at that time, you know, when you're

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Speaker 3: when you're planning your life out and you're in the

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Speaker 3: afterlife and you go, you know, I'm going to come

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Speaker 3: that issue. And then they say to you, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to do, this is how we're going to interact.

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Speaker 3: And so sometimes they haven't they haven't quite come in yet,

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Speaker 3: the timing isn't right, or they may be off doing

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Speaker 3: the own thing someplace else. But yeah, that's a possibility.

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Speaker 2: And your soulmate could be your mother, could be your father,

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Speaker 2: could be your sister as well, right exactly exactly.

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Speaker 3: It's just a soul that you have been with before

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Speaker 3: in a previous lifetime. So how they come in this

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Speaker 3: lifetime is really dependent on what their purpose is in

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Speaker 3: terms of interacting with you. If they can do the best,

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Speaker 3: you know, if they could do something that no other

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Speaker 3: soul could do in that capacity, that's how they're going

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Speaker 3: to come in. So they may come in as your

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Speaker 3: may come in as part of a group incarnation of

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Speaker 3: people that you work with, had I've seen that, or

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Speaker 3: maybe even you know, part of an organization like I'm

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Speaker 3: part of ARI that certainly consists of soulmates of mine,

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Speaker 3: Unity Church. I mean anything. Anytime you're involved in any

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Speaker 3: there are soulmates within that within that group.

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Speaker 2: Which beckons this Your soulmate purpose would be what.

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Speaker 3: Their companions to help you and themselves understand and resolve

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Speaker 3: issues that can best be solved in with interaction with

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Speaker 3: each other.

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Speaker 2: Spiritual issues are all kinds.

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Speaker 3: All kinds, all kinds, not just spiritual. You know, you

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Speaker 3: could have you know, you decide what you want to

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Speaker 3: to balance that out. And so they'll come in and go, Okay,

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Speaker 3: that you can experience that firsthand and see how you

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Speaker 3: You know, they're going to either introduce you to a

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Speaker 3: all sorts of ways that we interact with these other souls,

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Speaker 3: but the goal is always the same, and that's to

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Speaker 3: help us work on the whatever issue we decided we

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Speaker 2: John, how do we know how to identify our soulmate?

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Speaker 2: How do we know that's the person?

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Speaker 3: Well, you have to look at a lot of the

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Speaker 3: aspects of the relationship with them. First one, do they

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Speaker 3: feel familiar to you on any level? I mean a

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Speaker 3: that that feels familiar. You have a depth of connectedness

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Speaker 3: It's like, you know, if you were to actually go

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Speaker 3: out and consciously pick somebody, it may not be them.

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Speaker 3: If you look into their eyes too, the eyes are

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Speaker 3: the windows to the soul. As Shakespeare said, the eyes

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Speaker 3: don't change from one lifetime to the next. The rest

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Speaker 3: of us changes, but that doesn't. So you can you

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Speaker 3: can feel them out. You just absolutely know on some

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Speaker 2: What is a cell mate and I hope we're not

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Speaker 2: talking about somebody in prison that.

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Speaker 3: You met, Well, yeah, that is a cellmate is somebody

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Speaker 3: their purpose is a little bit different. They're they're coming

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Speaker 3: us to address the karma that that's between us. So

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Speaker 3: sometimes with a cellmate, you know, you might experience are

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Speaker 3: them and you don't really know why. You can't be

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Speaker 3: it's hard to differentiate between the two because they they

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Speaker 3: are celmate, They are soulmates in every sense of the word.

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Speaker 3: It's just that their agenda is a little bit different

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Speaker 2: Are they good people?

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Speaker 3: M Yes, I would say they are good people. The

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Speaker 3: role in your life, though, is the challenge part of it?

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Speaker 2: Soant on that one?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, I don't like to label anybody. Every

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Speaker 3: bad person? Well, you know, in the long run, what

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Speaker 2: Your book is called soulmates and twin souls? What's the

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Speaker 2: twin souls end of it?

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Speaker 3: The twin souls are different than soulmates. They're also called

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Speaker 3: twin flames and people you like to use that term.

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Speaker 3: They have twin soul. You only have one, So unlike saulmates,

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Speaker 3: where you have multiples, with a twin soul, you only

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Speaker 3: in this lifetime. So you're in separate bodies, but your

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Speaker 3: When mister casey died in nineteen forty five, Gladys's sole

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Speaker 2: Do we all have soulmates and do we all have

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Speaker 3: We all have both. Yes. Yes, we may not meet

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Speaker 3: But we do all have soulmates because it's just the

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Speaker 3: and the advantage of that is that they know you

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Speaker 3: on a very intimate level. They know which buttons to press,

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Speaker 2: Well with Joan Demagio, we're talking about soulmates and twin souls.

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Speaker 2: How do we know how to find our soulmate.

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Speaker 3: Well, I would just be look around you, because you

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Speaker 3: about what your life would be like if they weren't there.

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Speaker 3: What are you learning from them that you wouldn't learn

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Speaker 3: be your father? Because there's a purpose behind it. There's

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Speaker 2: Can an animal be a soulmate?

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't call them a soulmate. I'd say they were

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Speaker 3: a soul companion, you know, but I wouldn't. I don't

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Speaker 3: But certainly our souls of animals have come in to

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Speaker 2: Tell us about the soulmate relationship with a parent you

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Speaker 2: felt that was kind of unusual.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, just looking at my own parents, it's

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Speaker 3: like I've always wondered why I picked my mother, why

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Speaker 3: came as a package deal, which happens. You know, you

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Speaker 3: of intergenerational incarnations that I had encountered. So the daughter

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Speaker 3: Russian Revolution in which she left her mother behind. That

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Speaker 3: resulted in all kinds of feelings of guilt, which is

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Speaker 3: what she was dealing with today. So that's that's fairly common.

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Speaker 3: That's common, sibling rivalry, sembling relationships, is another common soulmate experience.

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Speaker 3: So it's everywhere. It's every relationship that we have.

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Speaker 2: Well, I did a great job picking my parents. I

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Speaker 2: couldn't have done anything better.

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Speaker 3: There you go about that.

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Speaker 2: Now with the soulmates, do you keep the same soulmate

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Speaker 2: in every different lifestyle that you've had or lifetime you've had.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I said, they'll change their role and gender.

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Speaker 3: So I write about one of my soulmates, Ashley in

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Speaker 2: But you do keep that soulmate.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's no unless you finished. You know, they

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Speaker 3: always work. We can have some fun on this planet

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Speaker 3: but you're entitled to that. Every once in a while

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Speaker 3: they're around to have us, let us have a good

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Speaker 2: And though your soulmate may be helping you, aren't you

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, It's a mutual experience for both of you for

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Speaker 3: different reasons, obviously. And that's what's so beautiful about it.

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Speaker 3: It's so intricately woven the way that we interact and

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Speaker 3: it is to learn something. You know, what did I

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Speaker 3: learned from interacting with you? Why? You know, whether it

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Speaker 3: was for a positive what I perceive as positive, what

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Speaker 3: I perceive is negative. Whether you deeply hurt me, whether

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Speaker 3: you deeply made me happy, you know, all of that

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Speaker 3: has a has a purpose within the context of that relationship.

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Speaker 2: You'd think the verbiage of soulmate is distorted.

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Speaker 3: M hm mm hmm. Yeah, I was. I was surprised

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Speaker 3: when I started doing research for this book how often

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Speaker 3: the term soulmate came up. I saw it in a

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Speaker 3: soulmates there, and it's always, you know, always, always, always

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Speaker 3: portrayed as the love interest that you don't have, that

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Speaker 3: you're yearning to find. It's like that whole concept of

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Speaker 3: we've were split in half, which goes back to ancient literature,

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Speaker 3: the soul gots split in half. And now ever since then,

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Speaker 3: we've been looking for this other part of us, that

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Speaker 3: other half of us that'll make us whole. But the

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Speaker 3: secret is that we were a whole from the beginning,

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Speaker 3: that we don't need this other person to make us,

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Speaker 3: you know, to make us a whole again. We already

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